What is sexuality? I seem to have forgotten over the past ten years. =P
I have always had issues with intimacy. Sensitivity to touch can twist itself into non-sensation sometimes, and I've never been able to express what this means or how it happens, properly - I always end up sounding strange. I tend to shy away from intimacy, honestly. That's for my own emotional stability more than anything else, though.
My experience (I am male) is basically that I enjoy the physical closeness, touching and psychological intimacy more than the act itself. Every time I have ever had sex, I have always been left disappointed. I want it, but I don't enjoy it... :-( I just wish I could enjoy it as much as others do.
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I am an aspie and female. and I agree about being hypersensitive. If I could, I don't mind being in asexual relationships. and I heard similar stories too about aspies enjoying spiritual aspect of relationship much more so than the physical ones. I am sure there are ones who enjoy the physical aspect as much. although probably not as common.
Hi, im 17 and im an aspie and i find that its a struggle with me for pretty much anything. but i have been starting to notice latley that i am sensitive to touch and certian things and it is kinda weird and i will sometimes jump when someone touches me and i get weird looks. so your not alone with the sensitive touch stuff.
I am 32/m aspie. I have never been able to get a girlfriend but I have hired a few women if you know what I mean. No hypersensitivity issues or anything, but it was very frustrating due to how I am and I could never do it properly. I think it means I am destined to stay alone and do other things. I don't want to try and pair with a woman only to find I cannot please her.
@miasansom "remarkable daughters" right. every neurotypical thinks their kids are grand... youd have been better off solving a social problem rather than creating more overpopulation and resource depletion.
@ThePoletka thank you very much for your diagnosis. What are your determining factors, and are they more accurate than a professional's? Also, there is nothing "wrong" with me or anyone else who has any degree of autism.
Why do you think neuroptypicals are boring? Its sounds like you and your bf have not only the symptoms of aspie's but also the symptoms of low self esteem.
Its a reflex from past oppression. Don't get me wrong, I AM against "affirmative action", which is where you punish an entire group for what some do, and it was wrong of her to say that sure, but you should see where this "high horse" attitude is COMING from. Most of us Aspies NEED to put ourselves on a high horse out of defense, for the way we are treated in society, it is simply survival.
I wanna know is there any connection with AS and transgender wish at women. You don't seems to have it ,but I saw on youtube some girls taking about it.
I definitely feel like I perceive sex differently than a neurotypical, Though I have never had intercourse. I was discussing masturbation with a neurotypical friend (He is open minded, like me). I asked him where he likes to touch himself. He said only his penis, but for me, there are spots all over my body that feel wonderful when they are softly caressed. I would rather have a girl kiss my inner thighs or neck than give me a blow job. I don't like wetness on my genitals. BTW, you are hot ;)
I'm not a doctor (so you can ignore this if you think its stupid) but you may want to consider keeping pillows or something soft near your own/boyfriend's head if he/both of you seriously have something like convulsions from contact like kissing just to prevent neck injuries. Or just ignore me & ask a doctor b/c I don't think convulsion-like-reactions are a good thing Good luck to all you aspies/auties out there :)
I'm an autie not an aspie, so I kind of wonder what the differences are between how aspies vs. auties process physical/sexual contact/sensations... I'm only a college freshman & technically have very little/no sexual experience, but noticed for myself that people touching me can cause me to have panic attacks (symptoms to wide of a range to discuss here) unless given fair warning ahead of time. I've noticed there's a range between hypo/hyper sensory experiences affecting us differently.
I'm an aspergian and I have been intimate with NT women. I am hypersensative to the touch of my face being caressed. It feels very good. For some reason I always smile after my face was caressed.
My first boyfriend - NT boring - My second boyfriend is not an aspie but he is not NT either. Very charismatic, VERY intelligent, but conservative, introspective. Goes through periods of introversion and extroversion. Very fun and exciting :)
Opanami. What a strange comment that is we are not animals and we do have feelings. News Flash Aspies are here to stay and in fact where the ones in the past that invented things to make your miserable little life bearable. Including Windows or Apple OS and Computers. Electricity and a multitude of other things you take for granted
A q. for aspies: What age did you start being sexually attracted to others? My brother is an aspie and he has honestly never had a crush on anyone, female or male. He's very bad at lying so I know that he's telling the truth when he says he has never been attracted to anyone, not even a celebrity. I find it interesting and just wondered whether it takes longer for aspies to mature in that way psychologically since I have had crushes since I was about 11.
No, but I'm willing to be a sport and give it a shot if you'll let me strap one on and do you back afterwards. The only catch? It will be equal in intensity, speed, and depth, so be careful..
I'm a 20-year-old guy with Asperger's. I don't have any hypersensitivity and I love any form of intimacy when I can get it. As any man with AS will tell you, it's getting close to NT women that is nearly impossible. BTW FML.
This is a response to the WolfDork or whatever his screen-name is: as an Aspie, I wouln't want to make love you either. First, I'm straight. Second, I'm not attracted to assholes. Third, your dick probably looks like a train wreck.
You pretty much hit the nail on the head and don't worry about being p.c. btw. Yes, the theory goes is that with Aspergers, the left side of the brain (logical side) is dominant and the right side of the brain (social/spontaneous) is more impaired and regressed.
This leaves many Aspies very academic but still struggling in social situations or avoiding most social situations altogether. Not to mention that the random small talk is very difficult for us to manage.
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Ok, Look you motherfucking idiots, NOBODY wants to make love to goddamn ugly retards like you! You're never going to find ANYONE to love. Do you know why? It's because they can practically SMELL the genetic failure that is your retched, meaningless, and utterly pointless life. Do me and the human race a favor, and just end your pointless existence. Future generations will thank you for keeping your disgusting, flawed genetic material out of our species.
@Luka2234 You have NEVER known anyone on the spectrum, have you.
We have trouble guessing what others feel, but that doesn't mean we don't care!
Saying that Autistics have no sympathy is like saying that a deaf person wouldn't care about someone getting shot behind their back because they don't hear the gun.
If I saw someone shot on the street, I would probably do more to help than you would!
@Luka2234 I may not have sympathy in "the moment" of an event, but after process time I do have sympathy and empathy. Just because it is delayed, does not mean I HAVE NONE. I also have total recall of the feeling of sympathy in moments I am lacking it. People on the spectrum get criminally abused traumatically EVERY DAY by non autistics in ways you can not even dream. @guard175 Overall I am a very loving caring person, I agree I would do more on the street than the average person too
I'm an aspie female and I'm a sex freak. :) LOL well kind of. I can relate to the sensitivity, anyways. However, although a lot of times I want to "DO IT" I'm just to "tired" it seems, lol. I'm not really motivated so well.
also, do you think inhibitions come into play in the NT=boring in bed vs the AS=awesome in bed? Do NT's have more inhibitions in the sack and that is why they are boring, or do we just suck?
Ok just thought Id let everyone know that I have been creepily reading your comments to this video and they are going in my research paper LOL
I dont have any sort of ASD, but my English class is focusing on Autism and Asperger Syndrome and now we get to write a 6-8 pg paper about it. So I chose Autism and sexuality (cause it seemed interesting enough). Im on page 5 and am now talking about how you think were boring in the sack. Hope everyone is doing well! Ciao.
With a woman I could potentially enjoy touch (though such would be WAY out of character for me as intimacy is a sign of weakness and the reactive subconscious in inherantly predatory). Infact things which I ABSOLUTELY HATE normally (like moisture) I wouldn't mind in an erotic setting, infact such is MANDATORY in such a situation. The problem though is just that: I am paranoid at what of eroticism and consider such as degrogatory towards my conscioussness.
I have often been immature in my relationships. I have learned a LOT about myself in the last 4 years. At the current time, I have had the opportunity to have a very close relationship with a man (he is an NT). I'm at the point now where I like to be touched-like rubbing my legs or back from him. I also like to give affection in this manner. I'm 33.
Most of my past relationships only lasted a few weeks (if that) and would not allow me to get to know someone on a deeper level.
The bit about 'convulsions' really resonates with me! I always wondered about that particular characteristic of mine- way beyond 'ticklish'! Got diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome last year, the more I hear other people's stories the more it's starting to make sense.
My ex has contributed greatly in his job and in the art world. My son in writing, philosophy and human rights advocacy, and correct interpretation of theology. What an honor it has been to know my ex and my son. My ex is unhappy. My son is striving greatly to be happy. I just hope he meets a woman he's compatible with someday. My ex seeks a woman to fill out the areas in which he feels uncomfortable-intimacy does not work that way. He'll never divorce again, but he'll never be satisfied.
I believe this has come at a great cost to him. He craves his privacy and quiet as does my son. She has 3 noisy argumentative kids. She likes dogs and birds that squak all the time. I fear he's living in a nightmare. I always for 31 years gave him his space and anticipated his needs. I just pray that my son someday will find someone who will love him. I did feel very alone. I needed more stimulation and he needed less. Too bad there aren't Aspie dating sites. You are special people.
I have no idea why I did not put it together that my ex was aspie, as my (also) very gifted aspie son had all the same traits as his dad. My son and I are very close, and he can express himself better as to how he feels in a neuro-typical world. I'm so sorry that I missed it in this amazing man, as I would have changed my confusion and anger to compassion. He has re married to a woman who fell in love with the "neurotypical facade he put on at work.
My ex and my son are both high I.Q. aspies. My ex was so hypersensitive to skin touch that it made making love very difficult for both of us. He seemed to want contact, but it was very hard for him to sustain it. At the time we divorced he said that he had a deep well of emotion but no way to express it.
usecori, you hit the nail on the head for me and that is why I haven't had a relationship period, I want the contact as well but I just can't sustain the sensation of contact and feel overwhelmed and want badly to pull away.
So unfortunately, avoidance has been my path so far.
I have aspergers but I guess not very bad because most people don't know unless I tell them.
Anyway as far as having a boyfriend I think I was with my last one for almost two months before I would really makeout with him. Then a month after that I was confortable enough to have sex with him. I think I'm extra sensetive to sexual pleasure. It takes me no time to have an orgasm and I don't just have one and then that's it.
Yeah a neurotypical that I met last night doubted that I had autism at all, even though the only example of autism he has seen is a severe autistic child who cant talk and rocks alot. Then while he was talking to me I was fidgeting my hands and rocking lightly and my eyes were darting around the room, and he's like, "What's wrong? Are you OK?" and I wanted to slap him. I told him before we even met I'm an aspie and he was still clueless.
Yeah, me too. I can have many and they linger! What was hard for me is just being with him and just enjoying our time together without talking and having him touch me. That was very hard. Sex was easy, it's the emotional connection that is hard!
yeah when johnny and I meet we sniff each others hair and face it's funny, but that in of itself is extremely intimate. every little kiss or touch is like so intense and makes us gasp for breath. LOL maybe there is something really different chemistry-wise?
sex has always been amazing for me, and my partners weren't disappointed either.
However, initiating was (and is) not fun at all. Having asperger's makes it difficult to start a relationship, and even harder to maintain it, at least for me.
@tencentpotatoes - Absolutely! I'm told I'm more responsive than the average NT girl; I have a very high capacity for orgasm and can do so every 2-10 minutes without the need for much effort. I also have trouble containing my reactions. Most guys seem to like the idea of being with a loud girl; my boyfriend has realised it's not always very practical.
But, I do find navigating a relationship to be somewhat difficult. I also struggle with normal physical intimacy, eg hugs etc.
talking to reandom strangers is to hard let alone that girl that i might think looks "nice", and the eye contact thing really sucks cause i just cant do it so i have always avoided this...
I'm an aspie and I've only had sex once..........when I was like 11 or 12 although I've yet to have my second time I'm still glad I've had my first kiss with multiple girls. But the dumb thing is that I wasn't even a teenager yet. when I was 9girls just seemed to just be all over me Weird!!
This sounds strange but i feel the only man in the world who hates blowjobs. i dont mind someone touching the crotch in that area over clothes but not directly on it. Ive let people suck me off because they wanted too but i hated it, i keep thinking of teeth. in fucking i can do wen i decide. i love kissing and fingertip massage and i love my feet being played with and my spine area and arse. I hate being touched on any thin skin area between eyes and wrists too. i cant wear glasses for this rea
I am a vey sensual person, I like to give my girlfriend a full body massage while kissing her lightly, I like to kiss her face, her eyes, her cheeks, her forehead, her neck, her back. I'll run my fingers through her hair some times until she falls asleep. When we're saying good bye I'll hold her head in my two hands lightly and look her straight in her eyes and create a moment where nothing else exists but us in our little universe so I can connet to and touch her soul. I love her.
Im an aspie and I can echo pretty good sometimes if I'm excited. I'm not very experienced sexually. i have a hard time with people. I dont understand them at all. I can do anything with a computer but I cant make small talk face to face
I didn't really. I ran around with older guys when I was a teen, or should I say they took me for a ride. I always seemed to be taken by one guy or another and always had one "BF" after another which always started with sex. I was messed up from a traumatic childhood and shy and very easily influenced. I had a 28 y.o. BF when I was 14 who used and beat me. I was very taken advantage of as an autistic teen. As soon's I hit puberty it was open season for predators. Thats the truth, although ugly.
Hello interesting topic ..I have Aspergers and Tourettes...I have been with my wife 12 years...My senses are greatly enhanced all the time and more so when having sex..As I live in the present moment sex is always, and I can't stress this enough ..mind-blowing...I think it may have something to do with being more animal like than nt's....
OMG you sound just like Johnny and me. Funny I just made the comment the other day that us aspies are "wild humans" and I just meant that we are closer to what a natural human should be, closer to animals. Good to meet you! Will you send me a message telling me the details of your tourettes? I'm curious about that.
Hmmm- I have a friend who is autistic- when I took him to the beach, he asked if he should wear underwear under his trunks- I said, "naw". Then, when I looked out at the lake, all the kids around him had left- I looked closer, and my poor friend had popped the HUGEST BONER I have ever seen- he's not a perv, I thinkit was the sensation of feeling free, and the breeze, and the sun...and maybe the bikini's....
I love what you said "I am an Aspie, flap my hands, clap and jump up and down if you give me a candy bar!" I'm 35 years old and I did that when I was 5 and probably still do it.
Sex: if conditions were right, no problem, loved it. But touch me the wrong way and pffft, over. Anyway it ruined my last relationship and I've held, get this, over 10 different high level in the last 2 years because of my problems interacting with people.
But instead heat is an huge issue for me: I can't move, I can't breath, can't think and I'm only able to sit very still doing almost nothing under the summer. Just to eat are a workout in itself and my hours of sleep drop down below 6 hours a day in contrast to 12 hours of sleep. Yes, that's ALOT of sleep for me but I'm always tired and it dosen't matter if I take a walk everyday or exercise at the gym, I'm still very tired despite that. So. one of the best ways to torment me is by heat. cheers!
Unlike most people with AS, I try to find a girlfriend. I asked a girl if she wanted to go out sometime, but I think she took it the wrong way. I don't have sensory issues either, but I should wear a lot more clothing, starting on the first day of Grade 11 next month. Forgive me for the first thing I said. Sorry.
Well... the emptiness is deep as I do want to be in a relationship but at the same time abhors the notion of having to be intimate physically. perhaps this will slowly fade away into something minor, contrary to what it is now. Anyway... in regards to sensory issues... cold. Yes, I wrote "cold". Dosen't bother me much, only the effects of it, and I'm quite under-sensitive to it, instead I get almost as an anxiety attack when my hands and feet get all dry and chapped by the dry air.
Yes, or atleast the diagnosis are heading that way. After over 15 years of search, why I've been having strange symptoms: light sensitivity, tics etc, I'm atlast close to an end and I can then combat the symptoms more effective.
On about your question about GF: Well, it's hard, the last 6 years I've lost all my libido and also I do feel that if I'm going in for an relationship I want to be a whole partner and not an half. This is not to say that I am not looking at girls, which I do sometimes
I am hyper-sensitive to touch, and if I'm touched the wrong way, too roughly,etc. I will want to shut down and withdraw from the situation. I have to be treated delicately, or not at all.
I refuse to do anything that involves physical contact with another person, especially with a man. The thought just disgusts me, makes me anxious and in pain. I am very sensitive to touch and closeness. Despite my openness an knowledge, I am really very prudish. Never been on a date or been kissed, an I don't want to change that. I actually have considered joining a convent, just so people will stop fuckin' asking me if I have a boyfriend. So, anyway, great topic. Aspies rule!
I am an Aspergian, and I consider myself very well informed about most sexual topics. I happen to fin the subject fascinating and have no problem exploring my sexuality in various ways, like doing cyber sex. Phone sex is more difficult, but I also do erotic pictures and stories. I experiment with clothing and poses. I am a genderqueer, crossdresser, bisexual with a preference for women and TS/TV/TGs. I find certain fetishes, like BDSM, really fun. But...
as an aspie i dont think sexuality, as its a primal function of the technology ALL humans are, has anything to do with the segregated being of the consious entity we really are as sentient individuals in a subjective relativity.
Thanks, for that mindtwister. Well why not? We're animals afterall and we're prone to reproduce. So, as I've discovered, we aspies seems to, not all but many, abhor this notion of having sex ourselves while we at the same time don't mind the actual sex. Only important that ourselves isn't forced to it and that we have very wague or odd requirements before we would actually consider performing this act. I might long for a hug or a kiss but if the requirements isn't meet, I'll not do it.
Spot on! I don't abet the damn phenomena of touches and caresses. If... just if I seek physical intimacy it's plenary on my condition. It isn't the thing like when somebodies goes nuts if they've been touched, but it's more like I'm shuting down the system if the person insists on touching me.
Secondly: I would actually enjoy a caress or a hug, even more that just that, IF the situation is to my liking - most of the major requirements being meet, only then I would not mind it. Odd enough.
OMG Yes!!! You are so right on the mark. I find that NT women always tell me that I am the best lover they have been with. I think we do experience sexuality/intimacy with so much more intensity than NTs. It is hard because I would like to be able to say the same thing about my parter. If you are ASD, try to find another person like you.....we are so much better lovers!
yes i do. im a man and gay but i love looking at fancy jewelry and i like looking at glam women with alot of makeup like girls aloud. i also like the graphics of fruit on modern slot machines.
And lastly, to answer your question it depends on the aspie, in this case your boyfriend, is he underdeveloped sensitively or over developed sensitively? (More commingly known as hyper-sensitive)
... anyway, I have AS and personally I don't think I really have issues with touch and intimacy.
Sometimes if someone touches me when I'm not expecting it I flinch though.
BTW the moving the camera from the your face comment I noticed ... I think it was meant more as you can probably lick the camera from that distance (if you get what I'm saying?), I would personally have moved it a couple of inches away.
Oh yeah it was a bit close LOL. I think I held the cam so close because it was kind of like I was telling a secret he he. But yeah. Next time I'm going to lick the camera just for you ha ha ha.
I have Tourettes and I have hyper sensitivity to touch. Touch from to many people makes me nervous and I feel uneven. Heat drives me crazy and although I do not experience it exactly like mia, I do notice that "normal people" have not idea what it is like to take every sound and feeling in all the time and even have sound force your muscles to move.
aspies can definitely pass as normal people who just happen to be a little odd or eccentric. i'm an aspie i really don't like that term though aspie it sounds whack. i think it should just be changed to i'm an as like people say i'ma g meaning i'm a gangsta. yeah aspie is kinda out i think as is much less discriminatory, and sounds sooooooo much better.
I am not diagnosed with anything, but I can relate to people with Autism, loud noises bug me especially loud guitar sounds, I get anxious if someone talks to me in the wrong manner or talks like shouting at me. I also like looking at nature trees enspire me:) and nature in general.
A lot of non autistic people can enjoy the things that autistics do. As everyone is an indevidual.
I am (supposedly) an aspie and have more problems _not_ getting a chance to touch girls. But I am probably not an aspie, for I can't relate to you aspies always whining about stuff like sneezing or munching or speaking loudly. It's just so tedious to talk to aspies.
I am also an aspie, and I usually never did like being touched, unless I was upset i.e. fell off my bike once and came running to my crying for a hug, those were the only times I ever liked being touched. I am a little better at it now, but like if I hug someone, I don't like to squeeze tight, and find I'm quick to let go of them.
You mentioned that your boyfriend has convulsions when you kiss. I am currently interested in an aspie and he has trouble sitting next to me due to arousal......he gets convulsions and has to excuse himself and run to the bathroom. Does your boyfriend get very aroused and tremble when you sit, say, across from him or next to him?
Does it also happen to him when you are not touching him but say when you tell him you love him, etc.? I mean, when he sits next to you or across from you, do convulsions occur or did they occur in the beginning when you were getting to know each other? Yeah, it is awsome indeed.
Are you laying on a pillow, is this pillow talk? Hehe. I don't like intimacy or emotional situations. I avoid it at all costs. It makes me very uncomfortable, that is probably why I have only been in one relationship that didn't last.
im an aspie and i dont find it difficult being intimate.. i find it is actually a way to make me happy i find my self as a bit of a player. although i can not make friends with other males very easily. i have been with my girl friend for over two years but in those two years i have never felt worse. i cant tell when she is lying and other people tell me she cheats on me. i don't know who to believe and my life sucks.
I was trying to respond to your 2nd comment and I accidentally pressed delete instead of reply. I'm so sorry. Anyway yay sex is good (be safe kids LOL)
What is sexuality? I seem to have forgotten over the past ten years. =P
I have always had issues with intimacy. Sensitivity to touch can twist itself into non-sensation sometimes, and I've never been able to express what this means or how it happens, properly - I always end up sounding strange. I tend to shy away from intimacy, honestly. That's for my own emotional stability more than anything else, though.
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violinist881 2 months ago
My experience (I am male) is basically that I enjoy the physical closeness, touching and psychological intimacy more than the act itself. Every time I have ever had sex, I have always been left disappointed. I want it, but I don't enjoy it... :-( I just wish I could enjoy it as much as others do.
guard175 5 months ago
@guard175 that sucks same here :(
USERNAMEKLEMPTOR 1 month ago
you are a pervert! Keep you creepy porn fetish crap to yourself.
Luka2234 5 months ago
I have been diagnosed with it very recently and I find the whole sex thing interesting.
I personally have no desire to have sex with anyone (other than myself).
I believe that I am for the moment and asexual aspie; might grow out of this though.
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kaht3 6 months ago
I am an aspie and female. and I agree about being hypersensitive. If I could, I don't mind being in asexual relationships. and I heard similar stories too about aspies enjoying spiritual aspect of relationship much more so than the physical ones. I am sure there are ones who enjoy the physical aspect as much. although probably not as common.
Duardn 7 months ago
Hi, im 17 and im an aspie and i find that its a struggle with me for pretty much anything. but i have been starting to notice latley that i am sensitive to touch and certian things and it is kinda weird and i will sometimes jump when someone touches me and i get weird looks. so your not alone with the sensitive touch stuff.
TJP343 8 months ago
I am 32/m aspie. I have never been able to get a girlfriend but I have hired a few women if you know what I mean. No hypersensitivity issues or anything, but it was very frustrating due to how I am and I could never do it properly. I think it means I am destined to stay alone and do other things. I don't want to try and pair with a woman only to find I cannot please her.
feetietoes 10 months ago
true aspies understand that sex is a waste of time and does not invent anything.
freedomfriestastebad 1 year ago
@freedomfriestastebad it invented a few remarkable daughters in my case. Yours is a comment of opinion and not fact.
miasansom 1 year ago 12
@miasansom "remarkable daughters" right. every neurotypical thinks their kids are grand... youd have been better off solving a social problem rather than creating more overpopulation and resource depletion.
freedomfriestastebad 1 year ago
@miasansom :)
TheSuhreeuhlTube 3 months ago
@freedomfriestastebad it invents more tard kids to mess up society.
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ManicMinx77 3 months ago
Yes, I have increased sensititivty, which can be good or bad depending on the sitation. Not as extreme as what you describe, though.
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I love aspies soooo much, dont know guy, but I do. any gay aspie over there?
erickteodorakis 1 year ago
@erickteodorakis I'm a bisexual, slightly gender variant Aspie (leaning more towards women), but a virgin. Yes, there are many gay Aspies.
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legendiam870310 1 year ago
why does your face look so funny and why are you squinting and holding the camera up to your face like that. act normal for fucks sake
jmaths117 1 year ago
I dont think you are an aspie , for sure ther is smthg wrong but its not an autism
ThePoletka 1 year ago
@ThePoletka thank you very much for your diagnosis. What are your determining factors, and are they more accurate than a professional's? Also, there is nothing "wrong" with me or anyone else who has any degree of autism.
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@ThePoletka I don't see anything wrong with her. just because she's different from you. doesn't mean there is SOMEthing wrong with people.
Duardn 7 months ago
Why do you think neuroptypicals are boring? Its sounds like you and your bf have not only the symptoms of aspie's but also the symptoms of low self esteem.
HanzoJohn 1 year ago
Its a reflex from past oppression. Don't get me wrong, I AM against "affirmative action", which is where you punish an entire group for what some do, and it was wrong of her to say that sure, but you should see where this "high horse" attitude is COMING from. Most of us Aspies NEED to put ourselves on a high horse out of defense, for the way we are treated in society, it is simply survival.
KingRadbadical1988 9 months ago
I've never been with an aspie...I'm not offically diagnosed but I think the shoe fits.
morningdove3202 1 year ago
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL this shit is classic
ChikaChingyMoronU 1 year ago
It's pronounced ASS-PIE
as in
AS-PI
popolynn2 1 year ago
I wanna know is there any connection with AS and transgender wish at women. You don't seems to have it ,but I saw on youtube some girls taking about it.
Mmkkw 2 years ago
I definitely feel like I perceive sex differently than a neurotypical, Though I have never had intercourse. I was discussing masturbation with a neurotypical friend (He is open minded, like me). I asked him where he likes to touch himself. He said only his penis, but for me, there are spots all over my body that feel wonderful when they are softly caressed. I would rather have a girl kiss my inner thighs or neck than give me a blow job. I don't like wetness on my genitals. BTW, you are hot ;)
shoujoairocks 2 years ago
I'm not a doctor (so you can ignore this if you think its stupid) but you may want to consider keeping pillows or something soft near your own/boyfriend's head if he/both of you seriously have something like convulsions from contact like kissing just to prevent neck injuries. Or just ignore me & ask a doctor b/c I don't think convulsion-like-reactions are a good thing Good luck to all you aspies/auties out there :)
Pekoautika 2 years ago
I'm an autie not an aspie, so I kind of wonder what the differences are between how aspies vs. auties process physical/sexual contact/sensations... I'm only a college freshman & technically have very little/no sexual experience, but noticed for myself that people touching me can cause me to have panic attacks (symptoms to wide of a range to discuss here) unless given fair warning ahead of time. I've noticed there's a range between hypo/hyper sensory experiences affecting us differently.
Pekoautika 2 years ago
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ASSPIE BITCH WHORE PROSTITUTE.
noonelikesgays 2 years ago
dont be so mean to your mom
Khamug 2 years ago
I'm an aspergian and I have been intimate with NT women. I am hypersensative to the touch of my face being caressed. It feels very good. For some reason I always smile after my face was caressed.
420Lawson 2 years ago 3
FAG
gnigged68 2 years ago
My first boyfriend - NT boring - My second boyfriend is not an aspie but he is not NT either. Very charismatic, VERY intelligent, but conservative, introspective. Goes through periods of introversion and extroversion. Very fun and exciting :)
Aspetta17 2 years ago
Here is the comment that was deleted by the author but that I still recieved in my inbox. User now blocked:
"1941 is the right period for you - as aged as your petty and decreped ideology nazi reptile"
user: djfmitv
miasansom 2 years ago
If the comment was not intended for this video, then someone should let me know, and I will correct it.
miasansom 2 years ago
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Oh gosh don't breed please
Opanami 2 years ago
Too late and I've even got grand children, LOL. Sorry, openanus...er oops... opanami, is it?
miasansom 2 years ago
Opanami. What a strange comment that is we are not animals and we do have feelings. News Flash Aspies are here to stay and in fact where the ones in the past that invented things to make your miserable little life bearable. Including Windows or Apple OS and Computers. Electricity and a multitude of other things you take for granted
Aspergianstar2009 2 years ago
A q. for aspies: What age did you start being sexually attracted to others? My brother is an aspie and he has honestly never had a crush on anyone, female or male. He's very bad at lying so I know that he's telling the truth when he says he has never been attracted to anyone, not even a celebrity. I find it interesting and just wondered whether it takes longer for aspies to mature in that way psychologically since I have had crushes since I was about 11.
xjetsetxlifex 2 years ago
stick to your cartoons wolfboy,leave intelligent conversation to those of us that can converse without dribbling.
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Interesting
Though you must stop revelling in aspieland and going on about NT's like they're some sort of plague.
takes all sorts to make this world and as we share many idiosyncrasies with NT's then is there really that much difference between us?.
I have friends that arent autistic,but they share of of the oddities common to to me and known to be aspie
fruble1 2 years ago
Do you like it in the pooper?
TheEmptyEmpire 2 years ago
No, but I'm willing to be a sport and give it a shot if you'll let me strap one on and do you back afterwards. The only catch? It will be equal in intensity, speed, and depth, so be careful..
miasansom 2 years ago
lol you nawty girl ;) ! (in a good way)
mels8780 2 years ago
I'm a 20-year-old guy with Asperger's. I don't have any hypersensitivity and I love any form of intimacy when I can get it. As any man with AS will tell you, it's getting close to NT women that is nearly impossible. BTW FML.
hugokemball 2 years ago
This is a response to the WolfDork or whatever his screen-name is: as an Aspie, I wouln't want to make love you either. First, I'm straight. Second, I'm not attracted to assholes. Third, your dick probably looks like a train wreck.
Scoutstr295 2 years ago
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Scoutstr295 2 years ago
Provocative video, this is :)
AspieWorld 2 years ago
I'm not so sure aspies are retards, i find them to be socially unitrested and thereby not vert skilled in social activities.
However, it seems they exel bigtime in one or more areas that dont have to do with social stuff.
Sort of like the part of the brain that handle social stuff was used for whatever they find intresting.
Can be drawing, designing electronics or just about anything exept social skill.
Tha's my view.
knollotottbamse 2 years ago
You pretty much hit the nail on the head and don't worry about being p.c. btw. Yes, the theory goes is that with Aspergers, the left side of the brain (logical side) is dominant and the right side of the brain (social/spontaneous) is more impaired and regressed.
This leaves many Aspies very academic but still struggling in social situations or avoiding most social situations altogether. Not to mention that the random small talk is very difficult for us to manage.
Bigbiff70 2 years ago
I'd fuck the down syndrome out of your face.
arasch 2 years ago
LMFAO omg me and my daughter had a really good laugh on that one.
miasansom 2 years ago
im an aspie. wolfman1941 how can you say something so horrible. do us all a efavor and kill yourself please.
confusion66666666666 2 years ago
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Ok, Look you motherfucking idiots, NOBODY wants to make love to goddamn ugly retards like you! You're never going to find ANYONE to love. Do you know why? It's because they can practically SMELL the genetic failure that is your retched, meaningless, and utterly pointless life. Do me and the human race a favor, and just end your pointless existence. Future generations will thank you for keeping your disgusting, flawed genetic material out of our species.
TheWolfMan1941 2 years ago
I DON'T PLAY WITH
***TROLLS and HATERS***
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME
FOR I WILL NOT FEED YOU
YOUR WORDS ARE VOID LMAO AT HIS EPIC FAIL
miasansom 2 years ago
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djfmitv 2 years ago
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bluecollarcanuck 1 year ago
This comment directed at Wolfman1941, BTW....
bluecollarcanuck 1 year ago
@TheWolfMan1941 Spot on! They also have no capacity for sympathy, hence all the school shootings and senseless violence against innocent people.
Luka2234 5 months ago
@Luka2234 You have NEVER known anyone on the spectrum, have you.
We have trouble guessing what others feel, but that doesn't mean we don't care!
Saying that Autistics have no sympathy is like saying that a deaf person wouldn't care about someone getting shot behind their back because they don't hear the gun.
If I saw someone shot on the street, I would probably do more to help than you would!
guard175 5 months ago 2
@Luka2234 I may not have sympathy in "the moment" of an event, but after process time I do have sympathy and empathy. Just because it is delayed, does not mean I HAVE NONE. I also have total recall of the feeling of sympathy in moments I am lacking it. People on the spectrum get criminally abused traumatically EVERY DAY by non autistics in ways you can not even dream. @guard175 Overall I am a very loving caring person, I agree I would do more on the street than the average person too
MyEventHorizon2012 3 weeks ago
I'm an aspie female and I'm a sex freak. :) LOL well kind of. I can relate to the sensitivity, anyways. However, although a lot of times I want to "DO IT" I'm just to "tired" it seems, lol. I'm not really motivated so well.
NamekianPikkoro7 2 years ago
also, do you think inhibitions come into play in the NT=boring in bed vs the AS=awesome in bed? Do NT's have more inhibitions in the sack and that is why they are boring, or do we just suck?
Just food for thought.
AShadeLessSad 2 years ago
HELLOOOOOOOO!!
Ok just thought Id let everyone know that I have been creepily reading your comments to this video and they are going in my research paper LOL
I dont have any sort of ASD, but my English class is focusing on Autism and Asperger Syndrome and now we get to write a 6-8 pg paper about it. So I chose Autism and sexuality (cause it seemed interesting enough). Im on page 5 and am now talking about how you think were boring in the sack. Hope everyone is doing well! Ciao.
AShadeLessSad 2 years ago 2
yep im hyper sensitive love it when it comes to intimacy!!
nezahualcoyotl85 2 years ago
With a woman I could potentially enjoy touch (though such would be WAY out of character for me as intimacy is a sign of weakness and the reactive subconscious in inherantly predatory). Infact things which I ABSOLUTELY HATE normally (like moisture) I wouldn't mind in an erotic setting, infact such is MANDATORY in such a situation. The problem though is just that: I am paranoid at what of eroticism and consider such as degrogatory towards my conscioussness.
DChatc 2 years ago
I have often been immature in my relationships. I have learned a LOT about myself in the last 4 years. At the current time, I have had the opportunity to have a very close relationship with a man (he is an NT). I'm at the point now where I like to be touched-like rubbing my legs or back from him. I also like to give affection in this manner. I'm 33.
Most of my past relationships only lasted a few weeks (if that) and would not allow me to get to know someone on a deeper level.
sandbar3000 2 years ago
I'm an aspie, and i do find it when i'm in the bedroom with my gf it's rather Intence and Hightened...
DJPaperChaos 2 years ago
The bit about 'convulsions' really resonates with me! I always wondered about that particular characteristic of mine- way beyond 'ticklish'! Got diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome last year, the more I hear other people's stories the more it's starting to make sense.
zbelm 3 years ago
I just wanted to say that yes NT are BORING and I am married to an Aspie as well. He was a bit repressed though. But I am like you totally.
BTW I really LIKE you... You are just like me :)
nagaempress 3 years ago
YAY!!! I love meeting people like me!!! Welcome!!!
miasansom 3 years ago
My ex has contributed greatly in his job and in the art world. My son in writing, philosophy and human rights advocacy, and correct interpretation of theology. What an honor it has been to know my ex and my son. My ex is unhappy. My son is striving greatly to be happy. I just hope he meets a woman he's compatible with someday. My ex seeks a woman to fill out the areas in which he feels uncomfortable-intimacy does not work that way. He'll never divorce again, but he'll never be satisfied.
usecori 3 years ago
I believe this has come at a great cost to him. He craves his privacy and quiet as does my son. She has 3 noisy argumentative kids. She likes dogs and birds that squak all the time. I fear he's living in a nightmare. I always for 31 years gave him his space and anticipated his needs. I just pray that my son someday will find someone who will love him. I did feel very alone. I needed more stimulation and he needed less. Too bad there aren't Aspie dating sites. You are special people.
usecori 3 years ago
I have no idea why I did not put it together that my ex was aspie, as my (also) very gifted aspie son had all the same traits as his dad. My son and I are very close, and he can express himself better as to how he feels in a neuro-typical world. I'm so sorry that I missed it in this amazing man, as I would have changed my confusion and anger to compassion. He has re married to a woman who fell in love with the "neurotypical facade he put on at work.
usecori 3 years ago
My ex and my son are both high I.Q. aspies. My ex was so hypersensitive to skin touch that it made making love very difficult for both of us. He seemed to want contact, but it was very hard for him to sustain it. At the time we divorced he said that he had a deep well of emotion but no way to express it.
usecori 3 years ago
usecori, you hit the nail on the head for me and that is why I haven't had a relationship period, I want the contact as well but I just can't sustain the sensation of contact and feel overwhelmed and want badly to pull away.
So unfortunately, avoidance has been my path so far.
Bigbiff70 2 years ago
I have aspergers but I guess not very bad because most people don't know unless I tell them.
Anyway as far as having a boyfriend I think I was with my last one for almost two months before I would really makeout with him. Then a month after that I was confortable enough to have sex with him. I think I'm extra sensetive to sexual pleasure. It takes me no time to have an orgasm and I don't just have one and then that's it.
wingedsweetheart 3 years ago
Yeah a neurotypical that I met last night doubted that I had autism at all, even though the only example of autism he has seen is a severe autistic child who cant talk and rocks alot. Then while he was talking to me I was fidgeting my hands and rocking lightly and my eyes were darting around the room, and he's like, "What's wrong? Are you OK?" and I wanted to slap him. I told him before we even met I'm an aspie and he was still clueless.
miasansom 3 years ago
Yeah, me too. I can have many and they linger! What was hard for me is just being with him and just enjoying our time together without talking and having him touch me. That was very hard. Sex was easy, it's the emotional connection that is hard!
sandbar3000 2 years ago
i hated my husband touching me and now were divorcing :)
KiTcHeNwItCh76 3 years ago
When I met sherry she took my hand and put it on her breast and held it there.
websuspect 3 years ago
thats awesome!
miasansom 3 years ago
I held hands with another aspie one time and it was VERY SEXUALLY Intimate. Sex with a Espie gives off different chemicals.
websuspect 3 years ago
yeah when johnny and I meet we sniff each others hair and face it's funny, but that in of itself is extremely intimate. every little kiss or touch is like so intense and makes us gasp for breath. LOL maybe there is something really different chemistry-wise?
miasansom 3 years ago
sex has always been amazing for me, and my partners weren't disappointed either.
However, initiating was (and is) not fun at all. Having asperger's makes it difficult to start a relationship, and even harder to maintain it, at least for me.
tencentpotatoes 3 years ago 5
@tencentpotatoes - Absolutely! I'm told I'm more responsive than the average NT girl; I have a very high capacity for orgasm and can do so every 2-10 minutes without the need for much effort. I also have trouble containing my reactions. Most guys seem to like the idea of being with a loud girl; my boyfriend has realised it's not always very practical.
But, I do find navigating a relationship to be somewhat difficult. I also struggle with normal physical intimacy, eg hugs etc.
LittleMissFatty 1 year ago
i just have my right hand to rely on
beastinblack 3 years ago
oral sex is ticklish for me. eventually, it feels good, but you know.. i gotta get some severe giggles out before it can feel good.
finntothenicky 3 years ago
white pride morality and vigour
freka16662 3 years ago
What's that mean?
miasansom 3 years ago
i dont know if i have aspergers but I am a asextual.
cuchulain55 3 years ago
My friend and I made a video on the topic "autism and sex". I'm not an aspie, but I'm on the autistic spectrum.
I developed very very late a sexual desire.
GingerAutie 3 years ago
talking to reandom strangers is to hard let alone that girl that i might think looks "nice", and the eye contact thing really sucks cause i just cant do it so i have always avoided this...
jugarnaut40 3 years ago
I'm an aspie and I've only had sex once..........when I was like 11 or 12 although I've yet to have my second time I'm still glad I've had my first kiss with multiple girls. But the dumb thing is that I wasn't even a teenager yet. when I was 9girls just seemed to just be all over me Weird!!
DBroesberg 3 years ago
This sounds strange but i feel the only man in the world who hates blowjobs. i dont mind someone touching the crotch in that area over clothes but not directly on it. Ive let people suck me off because they wanted too but i hated it, i keep thinking of teeth. in fucking i can do wen i decide. i love kissing and fingertip massage and i love my feet being played with and my spine area and arse. I hate being touched on any thin skin area between eyes and wrists too. i cant wear glasses for this rea
dougiewhite778 3 years ago 3
How often do you get boners?
dantheman999 3 years ago
I am a vey sensual person, I like to give my girlfriend a full body massage while kissing her lightly, I like to kiss her face, her eyes, her cheeks, her forehead, her neck, her back. I'll run my fingers through her hair some times until she falls asleep. When we're saying good bye I'll hold her head in my two hands lightly and look her straight in her eyes and create a moment where nothing else exists but us in our little universe so I can connet to and touch her soul. I love her.
akai454 3 years ago 5
I am speechless... let me catch my breath... wow
miasansom 3 years ago
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I like to fuck women in the pussy :)
dantheman999 3 years ago
wow, in the beginning you look like 29. I wondered if I've got Asperger for like a week or something.
Referring to touching I have to say: Sometimes less is more XD
Changer01 3 years ago
Im an aspie and I can echo pretty good sometimes if I'm excited. I'm not very experienced sexually. i have a hard time with people. I dont understand them at all. I can do anything with a computer but I cant make small talk face to face
ItsKryptik 3 years ago 2
When did you start dating?
MovieMan00000007 3 years ago
I didn't really. I ran around with older guys when I was a teen, or should I say they took me for a ride. I always seemed to be taken by one guy or another and always had one "BF" after another which always started with sex. I was messed up from a traumatic childhood and shy and very easily influenced. I had a 28 y.o. BF when I was 14 who used and beat me. I was very taken advantage of as an autistic teen. As soon's I hit puberty it was open season for predators. Thats the truth, although ugly.
miasansom 3 years ago
oh. That doesn`t sound very pleasent. I am autistic too.
MovieMan00000007 3 years ago
I can't touch people at all.
0lord0kinbote0 3 years ago
I am hyper-sensitive and so is my dad.
Kumari58787 3 years ago
Hello interesting topic ..I have Aspergers and Tourettes...I have been with my wife 12 years...My senses are greatly enhanced all the time and more so when having sex..As I live in the present moment sex is always, and I can't stress this enough ..mind-blowing...I think it may have something to do with being more animal like than nt's....
TheMainMeal 3 years ago
OMG you sound just like Johnny and me. Funny I just made the comment the other day that us aspies are "wild humans" and I just meant that we are closer to what a natural human should be, closer to animals. Good to meet you! Will you send me a message telling me the details of your tourettes? I'm curious about that.
miasansom 3 years ago
Hmmm- I have a friend who is autistic- when I took him to the beach, he asked if he should wear underwear under his trunks- I said, "naw". Then, when I looked out at the lake, all the kids around him had left- I looked closer, and my poor friend had popped the HUGEST BONER I have ever seen- he's not a perv, I thinkit was the sensation of feeling free, and the breeze, and the sun...and maybe the bikini's....
katymayftw 3 years ago
I love what you said "I am an Aspie, flap my hands, clap and jump up and down if you give me a candy bar!" I'm 35 years old and I did that when I was 5 and probably still do it.
Sex: if conditions were right, no problem, loved it. But touch me the wrong way and pffft, over. Anyway it ruined my last relationship and I've held, get this, over 10 different high level in the last 2 years because of my problems interacting with people.
Shawn White, Montreal
concertobub 3 years ago
But instead heat is an huge issue for me: I can't move, I can't breath, can't think and I'm only able to sit very still doing almost nothing under the summer. Just to eat are a workout in itself and my hours of sleep drop down below 6 hours a day in contrast to 12 hours of sleep. Yes, that's ALOT of sleep for me but I'm always tired and it dosen't matter if I take a walk everyday or exercise at the gym, I'm still very tired despite that. So. one of the best ways to torment me is by heat. cheers!
Teadon86 3 years ago
Unlike most people with AS, I try to find a girlfriend. I asked a girl if she wanted to go out sometime, but I think she took it the wrong way. I don't have sensory issues either, but I should wear a lot more clothing, starting on the first day of Grade 11 next month. Forgive me for the first thing I said. Sorry.
TwilightLink37 3 years ago
Well... the emptiness is deep as I do want to be in a relationship but at the same time abhors the notion of having to be intimate physically. perhaps this will slowly fade away into something minor, contrary to what it is now. Anyway... in regards to sensory issues... cold. Yes, I wrote "cold". Dosen't bother me much, only the effects of it, and I'm quite under-sensitive to it, instead I get almost as an anxiety attack when my hands and feet get all dry and chapped by the dry air.
Teadon86 3 years ago
Oh, so you have AS, too. I noticed on your channel that is says you're 21. Have you found a girlfriend lately or are you still looking for one?
TwilightLink37 3 years ago
Yes, or atleast the diagnosis are heading that way. After over 15 years of search, why I've been having strange symptoms: light sensitivity, tics etc, I'm atlast close to an end and I can then combat the symptoms more effective.
On about your question about GF: Well, it's hard, the last 6 years I've lost all my libido and also I do feel that if I'm going in for an relationship I want to be a whole partner and not an half. This is not to say that I am not looking at girls, which I do sometimes
Teadon86 3 years ago
I am hyper-sensitive to touch, and if I'm touched the wrong way, too roughly,etc. I will want to shut down and withdraw from the situation. I have to be treated delicately, or not at all.
mousecuit 3 years ago 4
I refuse to do anything that involves physical contact with another person, especially with a man. The thought just disgusts me, makes me anxious and in pain. I am very sensitive to touch and closeness. Despite my openness an knowledge, I am really very prudish. Never been on a date or been kissed, an I don't want to change that. I actually have considered joining a convent, just so people will stop fuckin' asking me if I have a boyfriend. So, anyway, great topic. Aspies rule!
MalfoyFemDom 3 years ago
I am an Aspergian, and I consider myself very well informed about most sexual topics. I happen to fin the subject fascinating and have no problem exploring my sexuality in various ways, like doing cyber sex. Phone sex is more difficult, but I also do erotic pictures and stories. I experiment with clothing and poses. I am a genderqueer, crossdresser, bisexual with a preference for women and TS/TV/TGs. I find certain fetishes, like BDSM, really fun. But...
MalfoyFemDom 3 years ago
as an aspie i dont think sexuality, as its a primal function of the technology ALL humans are, has anything to do with the segregated being of the consious entity we really are as sentient individuals in a subjective relativity.
lustandcupcakes 3 years ago
Thanks, for that mindtwister. Well why not? We're animals afterall and we're prone to reproduce. So, as I've discovered, we aspies seems to, not all but many, abhor this notion of having sex ourselves while we at the same time don't mind the actual sex. Only important that ourselves isn't forced to it and that we have very wague or odd requirements before we would actually consider performing this act. I might long for a hug or a kiss but if the requirements isn't meet, I'll not do it.
Teadon86 3 years ago
Spot on! I don't abet the damn phenomena of touches and caresses. If... just if I seek physical intimacy it's plenary on my condition. It isn't the thing like when somebodies goes nuts if they've been touched, but it's more like I'm shuting down the system if the person insists on touching me.
Secondly: I would actually enjoy a caress or a hug, even more that just that, IF the situation is to my liking - most of the major requirements being meet, only then I would not mind it. Odd enough.
Teadon86 3 years ago
OMG Yes!!! You are so right on the mark. I find that NT women always tell me that I am the best lover they have been with. I think we do experience sexuality/intimacy with so much more intensity than NTs. It is hard because I would like to be able to say the same thing about my parter. If you are ASD, try to find another person like you.....we are so much better lovers!
FocusedClarity 3 years ago
those anyone with aspenger syndrome have a strange reaction when they a doll any kind of doll?i get it all the time
matsuro23 3 years ago
I'm sorry can you ask it again? I didn't understand what you were asking.
miasansom 3 years ago
i have aspergers does anyone else like or love guitar hero
confusion66666666666 3 years ago
Im an aspie and I have a "normal" boyfriend. The only problems I have is eyecontact with him, but Im working on it.
Our sexual life is enjoyable. LMAO wow....
katiepot 3 years ago
lol omg!yay!i'm not the only one:)i haven't been diagnosed with aspergers,but all the symptoms and behaviors are there.THNAK YOU!!
KiTcHeNwItCh76 3 years ago
does anyone out there with aspergers,have a strange attraction to shiny sparkly things?
KiTcHeNwItCh76 3 years ago
I do!!! I do!!! Pretty pretty!!! Cieling fans are nice also, and flashing neon signs!!!
miasansom 3 years ago
yes i do. im a man and gay but i love looking at fancy jewelry and i like looking at glam women with alot of makeup like girls aloud. i also like the graphics of fruit on modern slot machines.
dougiewhite778 3 years ago
And lastly, to answer your question it depends on the aspie, in this case your boyfriend, is he underdeveloped sensitively or over developed sensitively? (More commingly known as hyper-sensitive)
InF3RNOuS 3 years ago
A few responses to this video upload, and ill try to answer the question to the best of my ability
First and foremost let me quote that poll challenge
Justedd (5 days ago)
"I think your going to have a hard time finding someone on the internet claiming to have aspergers and has had sex."
My response: Your kidding me right?.. I was diagnosed at 16, and am not a virgin so do i win that poll?
lol?
InF3RNOuS 3 years ago
You've got a very sexy voice :P
... anyway, I have AS and personally I don't think I really have issues with touch and intimacy.
Sometimes if someone touches me when I'm not expecting it I flinch though.
BTW the moving the camera from the your face comment I noticed ... I think it was meant more as you can probably lick the camera from that distance (if you get what I'm saying?), I would personally have moved it a couple of inches away.
gogul2k 3 years ago
Oh yeah it was a bit close LOL. I think I held the cam so close because it was kind of like I was telling a secret he he. But yeah. Next time I'm going to lick the camera just for you ha ha ha.
miasansom 3 years ago
I have Tourettes and I have hyper sensitivity to touch. Touch from to many people makes me nervous and I feel uneven. Heat drives me crazy and although I do not experience it exactly like mia, I do notice that "normal people" have not idea what it is like to take every sound and feeling in all the time and even have sound force your muscles to move.
I think if I was cured I would get really bored.
JonahTorn 3 years ago
I think your going to have a hard time finding someone on the internet claiming to have aspergers and has had sex.
Justedd 3 years ago
I challenge that! LOL let's take a poll...
miasansom 3 years ago
Where will this poll be?
I want to check under aspie who has had sex!!!
:P
katiepot 3 years ago
lol...at first i thought you were drunk because your eyes looked sleepy. But i think you were just tired.
Fireblazer 3 years ago
Hi, Mia! LOL! "Neurotypicals are very...... BORING!" In general, yes, I feel this way.
BodyOfMyGuitar 3 years ago
You need to move the camera about twenty thousand miles away from your face
TicklishSSBB 3 years ago
Oops I forgot this was a beauty pageant.
miasansom 3 years ago
Aspie girls are better than NT girls. I find them to be more quiet and less intimidating towards me. I am a fellow Asperger guy.
dophler 3 years ago
hot damn i gotta agree there!
asylumbandnz 3 years ago
Only problem is, there aren't enough of them around for me to go out with.
dophler 3 years ago
aspies can definitely pass as normal people who just happen to be a little odd or eccentric. i'm an aspie i really don't like that term though aspie it sounds whack. i think it should just be changed to i'm an as like people say i'ma g meaning i'm a gangsta. yeah aspie is kinda out i think as is much less discriminatory, and sounds sooooooo much better.
edmondssensualseduct 3 years ago
Hi o_o
Nidis 3 years ago
i tend to get annoyed when i hear things in the background that other people dont pick up on
beastinblack 3 years ago
I thought this was gonna be a lol video. Dissapointed.
FatManRedemption 3 years ago
I am not diagnosed with anything, but I can relate to people with Autism, loud noises bug me especially loud guitar sounds, I get anxious if someone talks to me in the wrong manner or talks like shouting at me. I also like looking at nature trees enspire me:) and nature in general.
A lot of non autistic people can enjoy the things that autistics do. As everyone is an indevidual.
Grapejuice22 3 years ago
i dont think you have autism... or maybe you do but you are more advanced... i hope im not ofending you
M4R10X15 3 years ago
I am (supposedly) an aspie and have more problems _not_ getting a chance to touch girls. But I am probably not an aspie, for I can't relate to you aspies always whining about stuff like sneezing or munching or speaking loudly. It's just so tedious to talk to aspies.
Khamug 3 years ago
0:59 "nuro girls are 'boring'" you got that right
Lochnessmonstor727 3 years ago 2
I am also an aspie, and I usually never did like being touched, unless I was upset i.e. fell off my bike once and came running to my crying for a hug, those were the only times I ever liked being touched. I am a little better at it now, but like if I hug someone, I don't like to squeeze tight, and find I'm quick to let go of them.
Larzuthul 3 years ago
You are a lot like me.
I am an Aspie, flap my hands, clap and jump up and down if you give me a candy bar!
I may act a bit childsh sometimes but I am really intelligent.
I am hyper-sensitive to many things too.
Kumari58787 3 years ago 2
Hey Mia,
You mentioned that your boyfriend has convulsions when you kiss. I am currently interested in an aspie and he has trouble sitting next to me due to arousal......he gets convulsions and has to excuse himself and run to the bathroom. Does your boyfriend get very aroused and tremble when you sit, say, across from him or next to him?
lanakaki 3 years ago
yeah he does if I kiss him or brush his arm etc... we both do. It's awesome?
miasansom 3 years ago
Does it also happen to him when you are not touching him but say when you tell him you love him, etc.? I mean, when he sits next to you or across from you, do convulsions occur or did they occur in the beginning when you were getting to know each other? Yeah, it is awsome indeed.
lanakaki 3 years ago
Are you laying on a pillow, is this pillow talk? Hehe. I don't like intimacy or emotional situations. I avoid it at all costs. It makes me very uncomfortable, that is probably why I have only been in one relationship that didn't last.
MissStyx 3 years ago
Oh I'm sorry, but it's fun! he he. No really whatever makes a person comfortable. We are all different.
miasansom 3 years ago
im an aspie and i dont find it difficult being intimate.. i find it is actually a way to make me happy i find my self as a bit of a player. although i can not make friends with other males very easily. i have been with my girl friend for over two years but in those two years i have never felt worse. i cant tell when she is lying and other people tell me she cheats on me. i don't know who to believe and my life sucks.
but enough gay arse wining. by.
nighawaaaxx 3 years ago
I was trying to respond to your 2nd comment and I accidentally pressed delete instead of reply. I'm so sorry. Anyway yay sex is good (be safe kids LOL)
miasansom 3 years ago