Almost all those couples on stage are weird and haven't fully stepped out of their comfort zone yet. Gay man marrying straight woman, OMG WTF. "Not putting a label on it", dude u don't have to, the way u talk I can tell your a queer already. Making that poor stupid woman your beard is a selfish idea, you shame yourself and the gay community. I'm gay to and I can tell you that u are going to end up regretting your decision once you put it in motion.
If there weren't so much discrimination towards gay people, there wouldn't be so many men that are trying to convince themselves that they are not gay and go out and to prove it by getting married to a woman, doing manly things such as football and weight lifting, even become a bully towards gay people because of self conflict. That gay man will eventually come out no matter how late in life or may simply take his closet to his grave after living a full life pretending to be straight.
First sane guy on a talkshow, I would +1 this guy so hard, wait that came out wrong, wait I didn't want to say that either.. Ah fuck it sane people for life!
Two men or two women cant be married BUT there can be a arrangement that will bind them together with similar things inside the law as a marriage would do. Im of course thinking of the equal right that is set in a paper-law-arrangement.
Hi, this is the IvoryBrother (the guy with the accent) -- I just wanted to thank everyone for kind and rather uplifting comments and compliments addressed toward my modest persona. It's hard to believe that from the day this was being taped at the Ricky Lake Studio nearly 17 years has passed. I still have the same accent... I am more mature looking but I did not age much... Check out my recent videos where I am reciting my poems and be the judge for yourself. Cheers!
well if they are gay and want to be with a woman then so be it. so hypocritical of them to say that b/c then we say well gays have a choice to be gay and they say well we where born this way. you can have both if he wants
i like how the audience moans and groans when the closeted gay guy trys to play it straight- when they're actually part of the societal atmosphere making him a closet case. Clearly they can all tell that the guy is gay, yet some of the same people would still say being gay is a choice. Doesn't make sense. O well, at least times are getting better.
I wanted to marry a girl back in the day, we had everything in common. Except I didn't want to sleep with her, but I wanted to fukk her male landlord. That kinda pissed her off. These marriages do not work, it is an intimacy thing. I just don't like the tuna and meatbags proposition-I'd rather have sausage and meatballs.
@mcbowser Thank you... and LOL!!! That's hilarious... especially that at that time I only had a Work Permit... I got my green card 7 years later.... :)
Hey Kid's Its Thomas the hot flammer in black. Guess What Gina was my Best friend and we wanted a free trip to New York. I loved her and she loved me. We even had sex. We wanted to be happy and thought Anyone should be able to get married without judgement from others. Wow 16 yrs ahead of our time. Thomas
@amofobrooks I don't feel as if anyone judged the two of you personally, but perhaps doubted the future success and longevity of the marriage. I mean, it was, and is, up to you . . . but maybe the two of you *were* more advanced than most of us. I can see being companions, but never being sexually satisfied nor feeling confident about being able to satisfy my partner in a relationship like that.
Weill Hello Hater's, It's Thomas(the big queen in black) Imagine my surprise when i found this on youtube. So much hate directed at us for loving each other. Whether i was gay or not i loved gina and she loved me.Such hate and comment's of wanting to kick me in the throat.Wow, how much love do you have if it bothered you the a big nellie fag could fall in love with a woman. Well we are still vert much in love and wish all of you much love!! Miss you Rikki!!!!
@amofobrooks Hi Thomas. WOW! Small world, yeah, even though I made sarcastic "bubbles" except for the last one stating that today I probably would have said my comments on the Show in a slightly different way - I was very disturbed when I read that comment about kicking you in the throat. Usually I don't approve hate messages but this one I though it was just a metaphor until I was proven wrong. Anyway... I guess I was wrong about you and Gina... I am not afraid to admit to my poor judgment. :)
ppl should just marry the person they truely love, gay, straight, bi... it doesnt matter. Those are just lables to let ppl know what you are sexually interested in. If you are a guy and you are attracted to guys then you shouldnt go marry a woman... Sexual attraction plays a big role in a marrige and a marrige between 2 ppl wouldnt be as "kinky" without it and i doubt it would last long. They should just accept who thy are...
Man, the guy in black is a real bitch... I totally agree with the guy in the audience. A marriage between a gay guy and a straight woman is unfair to both of them because neither will spend their life with the one they truly love.
@meanwhattell - Actually, I wrote them... and they are not homophobic... they supposed to be amusing, besides they're real... Thomas was just too damn in denial then (he may no longer be this way) and you have to be absolutely blind to see how much in denial he was... Anyway, relax... no one is homophobic here... and I wasn't trying to be offensive at any rate.
@IvoryBrother Well they kind of are homophobic in that they are labelling someone gfor the way they act (in this case someone who acts gay) although I understand it was not your pupose to be malicious. Cool vid anyways!
That Euro in the audience guy rocks! Most Europeans don't give a shit about homosexuality. He makes a very valid, sensible point about being who you are.
@toddles9 You are right, most Europeans care less if you are straight or gay just like they care less about topless women or a male cop kissing a guy displayed on the billboards! They're just more open-minded, less prude, less prejudice, less judgmental and less hypocritical. Sexuality in America is still a taboo subject regardless on how many porno's they sell a year. LOL! Speaking of porno's - in Europe you can watch them on regular TV channel after 10:00pm and they still have less sex crimes!
@TheSatNavs - Correction - not Russian but Polish - and I hope that the "kick Thomas in the throat" is a figure of speech... I don't condone violence... so this better was a metaphore...
@catchphrayse - OK... I may have schooled these in denial individuals but I will absolutely not allow anyone to disrespect homosexuals aka gay folks! They are not perverts... You should apologize... really...
@sabdow - First of not all gay people speak or are feminine. I know some straight men (happily married to women with kids!) who are extremely flamboyant... but they don't have desire to be involved with other men sexually. I think this "feminine" stigma was created by prejudiced "straight" people who have a misconception about corelation between sexuality, sexual orientation, level of hormones and human behavior...
@sabdow - As much as the popular belief is that testosterone is exclusive to males and estrogen to females all humans have levels of both. While it is true that testosterone defines physique and psyche in males and estrogen is responsible for same in females sometimes hormonal imbalance can be responsible for feminine behavior in males and not necessarily defining their sexual orientation.
@sabdow - (conclusion) - Gay men may be inclined to act or speak feminine but I think they just not afraid to be in touch with their feminine side that every man possesses. My advice - dont overdo it. Its not attractive... :)
@sabdow not all of them do.....actually most gay/bi men are masculine, ones you might hang with not knowing of their sexuality, doing things that are considered manly or masculine according to this fucked up narrow minded society
You cant change gaypeople to straight people or the other way around. The man with the woman in this show is definitely gay, just look at the way he is acting and listen to his voice.
Thats right you cant change the way you are, gaypeople cant become straight people, or the other way around. The man with the woman in this show is definitely gay, i mean just look at the way he acts and listen to his voice.
Oh God, that Thomas is so bitchy, i dont think he should act like that. even he is gay, what to be proud with, if you are married with a woman, so you are bisex, no more question whether its okay or not. gay got 3 meanings: pure gay, bisexual gay, or transgender....so strange....what the hell, want to be famous?
I mostly agree with you. Unless that guy actually is not 100% gay idk, there is in between in sexuality but I would say it's probs a bad idea for them to marry. Anyways you are very cute and you explained your POV well :]
I agree with Yakov Smirnoff, While sexuality is rather fluidic, there are many levels between gay and straight, if you classify yourself as either extreme, then a straight/gay marriage would not work.
Thank you for agreeing with me... and yes, you are very right about married men going behind their wives and having sex with men... those are usually bisexual men or gay married men in denial (or are just married to a woman because they are scared to be rejected by their families, friends and society)... Very complicated situations...
I can't imagine that you could consider yourself gay but want to be a woman. Being homosexual means being attracted solely to someone of the same gender. If you're finding yourself attracted to women, then you're not gay you're bisexual. Now if it's just a matter of companionship, no sexual feelings, then what's the point of getting married. Just be friends, roommates if you want to be closer. But getting married is absurd. I agree with the guy's comments.
OMG! I can't believe this! These woman are willing to get married to GAY men! They are obviously looking for a life full of sorrow and infidelity. But to each their own.
I believe that anyone has the potential to fall in love with anyone else, you could be completley straight but fall in love with a person of the same gender, people fall in love with a personality not genitalia.
@999emlopo999 That's what i was trying to say but back in 94 people were still hung up on who should marry who!!! We have not come any further. THOMAS
@eutuve how are gays more promiscuous than straights? men are fucking sluts period, straights cheat on each other all the time, humans are promiscuous
Why marry someone if they're gay? Like all the money, & oh the next day you say to your husband, er eh huni I'm kinda gay, but I'm sure we can work around that!
love doesnt choose whether your a gay or not. it doesnt matter if your a gay and you married a woman or a man. what matters most is your both in love with each other. love is far more greater than anyone's sexuality. and with love it is possible...i am a gay man and i do believe that happens to any couple.gay-gay.gay-woman,etc...
I think the man is just confused. I think it is wrong to marry someone before you have come to terms with your sexuality. It makes marriage too hard. Don't get me wrong, I am not a supporter of gay marriage, but I also don't support denial
There's a little joke that says bisexuals are unicorns... they don't exist. yet sexuality is a continuum. there is no 100% gay or 100% straight. you may identify as gay but there will still be an attraction to the opposite sex. i'm just saying if they are happy together let them be together.
I'm so sure that the guy in the light blue shirt is French , The moment he said "I will have to disagree with you" I knew he was french. That's who French start lol . " Je ne suis pas d'accord". Besides he has a French accent
we have bi-sexuals which could possibly be the case for that guy with the old lady....and transvestites with straight ppl ..which i will never understand but oh well its 21st century ...we have 2 get with the program
Gays and straight folks should marry if they want to. Also Transexuals and straights.
Marriage is already difficult "institution" to navigate but when you throw in something that ignorant outsiders hate one of you is going to have problems that seriously effect the relationship.
So this guy doesn't like labels. Give me a break. He is a walking talking label. Gay men like him make me sick and that poor woman is as dilusional as he is. And no this is not a homophobic rant, i am gay, FYI. The guy in the audience made complete sense.
@hfxmusicman a little self loathing dear. im a big ole queen and we are everywhere. u dont have to be but dont be scared the inner queen in u might peek out.
i have nothing against gay people,i actually have gay friends,but i do think gays should marry gays and straight people should be married to straight people.one thing i don't accept though,is someone (like this gay person )saying that people who think otherwise are not open-minded.i think our world has crossed the line here!!!!
he's using her. and she's throwing her life away. they can be friends. although marrige is really just a symbolic type of thing, she is comitting herself not to have any relationships with anyone other than someone who doesnt love her for what she physically is.
that gay man, who says he doesn't like labels, must be hiding something. i bet he was really using her. I heard gay men can be like that. Not all gay men are all sweet.
i don t get it,is this because she's ugly and so think she 'll never find a man and so she has married a man who will never makes her feel ugly instead,cause she couldn't make her feel ANYWAY in anycase?
that guy is a queen
crazyramus 2 weeks ago
Almost all those couples on stage are weird and haven't fully stepped out of their comfort zone yet. Gay man marrying straight woman, OMG WTF. "Not putting a label on it", dude u don't have to, the way u talk I can tell your a queer already. Making that poor stupid woman your beard is a selfish idea, you shame yourself and the gay community. I'm gay to and I can tell you that u are going to end up regretting your decision once you put it in motion.
johnnythao 1 month ago
OMFG the Euro guy hit that nail HARD on the head! YES! And he's so0ooo cute, too. That accent. <3 Hahaha. I love him!
ezekiel13 1 month ago
@ezekiel13 Aw... Thank you Ezekiel... you know that was back in 1994... I am much older now... but still cute... :) And I still have the accent...
IvoryBrother 1 month ago
lmfao the way he points his finger at him. GAYYY. hes wasting his time on that woman.
StarStruckedSam 2 months ago
I wonder why no one every considered bisexuality as an option? Clearly none of those men up there were bi or straight but...
SynneDennis 3 months ago
@SynneDennis
As the great Tina Fey once put it, "There's no such thing as Bi-Sexual that's just something they invented in the 90's to sell hair products."
0mglion 2 months ago
WTF. He makes complete sense, but they deny....huh?
5hape5ter 3 months ago
If there weren't so much discrimination towards gay people, there wouldn't be so many men that are trying to convince themselves that they are not gay and go out and to prove it by getting married to a woman, doing manly things such as football and weight lifting, even become a bully towards gay people because of self conflict. That gay man will eventually come out no matter how late in life or may simply take his closet to his grave after living a full life pretending to be straight.
tkathryyn 4 months ago
pairing gay and straight people up?
America really has gone mental.
kesla15 4 months ago
LOL.. I remember watching this one! IvoryBrother well put and said my man. Hope all's good with you. :)
OkinInc 5 months ago
I guess they are going to have a Will and Grace relationship!
macrent2 5 months ago
The whole world is a nightmare. Nothing makes any sense anymore.
LEilllLEi 5 months ago
That guy has a hot accent!
leatopia 7 months ago 6
@leatopia Thank you! :-) [blushing]
IvoryBrother 1 month ago
GETBaC since 1994
JohnCenaGETBaC 8 months ago
I don't know how I have got along without Ricki to solve all of my problems in the modern world.
RayL1983 9 months ago
First sane guy on a talkshow, I would +1 this guy so hard, wait that came out wrong, wait I didn't want to say that either.. Ah fuck it sane people for life!
ibrahim25000 9 months ago
ricki lake looks like a fat xena.
DANCER720ful 9 months ago
That man know he gay wavin his finger around like that he better just go get some dick and shut up
gothamchix 9 months ago 4
So I don't get it...There's a gay guy that likes a girl? Does that mean that the guy think's he's a girl, so he's a lesbian? FAIL&@!HNR&@&#(!!
5hape5ter 10 months ago
Two men or two women cant be married BUT there can be a arrangement that will bind them together with similar things inside the law as a marriage would do. Im of course thinking of the equal right that is set in a paper-law-arrangement.
globe255 10 months ago
Hi, this is the IvoryBrother (the guy with the accent) -- I just wanted to thank everyone for kind and rather uplifting comments and compliments addressed toward my modest persona. It's hard to believe that from the day this was being taped at the Ricky Lake Studio nearly 17 years has passed. I still have the same accent... I am more mature looking but I did not age much... Check out my recent videos where I am reciting my poems and be the judge for yourself. Cheers!
IvoryBrother 10 months ago 16
@IvoryBrother your accent is sexy <3
tighmir 6 months ago
@tighmir Thank you very much! :)
IvoryBrother 1 month ago
Your very well spoken on this clip & very, very right
RexPecker 10 months ago
well if they are gay and want to be with a woman then so be it. so hypocritical of them to say that b/c then we say well gays have a choice to be gay and they say well we where born this way. you can have both if he wants
mjjcng8958 10 months ago
Very good. The guy talking had a sexy accent too.
ImNotYourFriend212 11 months ago
You make a very good point! :) and your very handsome!
unuauiumu 11 months ago
i like how the audience moans and groans when the closeted gay guy trys to play it straight- when they're actually part of the societal atmosphere making him a closet case. Clearly they can all tell that the guy is gay, yet some of the same people would still say being gay is a choice. Doesn't make sense. O well, at least times are getting better.
fauxindigo 1 year ago
You were absolutely fantastic. Not judgmental in my opinion, but very respectful towards these people. People are you are needed in this world.
tpmm1 1 year ago
"i understand that your wife..."
"shes not my wife yet!"
"oh ok, your girlfriend..."
"my FIANCÉE!"
"... ok, your fiancée..."
hahah xD
b0laas 1 year ago
I wanted to marry a girl back in the day, we had everything in common. Except I didn't want to sleep with her, but I wanted to fukk her male landlord. That kinda pissed her off. These marriages do not work, it is an intimacy thing. I just don't like the tuna and meatbags proposition-I'd rather have sausage and meatballs.
That's just me tho.
gravelandgrain100 1 year ago
Wow, that iimmigrant really knew what he was talkin' 'bout, and he didn't need a green card for it.
mcbowser 1 year ago 19
@mcbowser -- Very funny... and yes, at that time I did not have a green card, very true! LOL! however now I am a US citizen... :)
IvoryBrother 1 year ago 13
@mcbowser Thank you... and LOL!!! That's hilarious... especially that at that time I only had a Work Permit... I got my green card 7 years later.... :)
IvoryBrother 1 month ago in playlist My TV Apperances
you seem really nice
cutiecute64 1 year ago
@cutiecute64 -- Thank you much! :)
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
@IvoryBrother your welcome :)
cutiecute64 1 year ago
@IvoryBrother And you're cute, too! Smart, cute, and principled. A great combination!
darkflower2 3 months ago
@darkflower2 Again... I thank you so very much for all your kind compliments!
IvoryBrother 1 month ago
IM SORRY IM GAY IVE DATED GIRLS IN THE PAST AND NO IM SORRY IM GAY AND WELL NEVER EVER DATE A GIRL PERIOD
jasongrine 1 year ago
Hey Kid's Its Thomas the hot flammer in black. Guess What Gina was my Best friend and we wanted a free trip to New York. I loved her and she loved me. We even had sex. We wanted to be happy and thought Anyone should be able to get married without judgement from others. Wow 16 yrs ahead of our time. Thomas
amofobrooks 1 year ago 5
@amofobrooks If you both are happy then I am HAPPY for you guys!
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
@amofobrooks Did you two get married after the show?
jinsengyo 1 year ago
@amofobrooks Thomas LOVE YOU!!!! NOTICE IT'S IN CAPS Suzi w an uzi
Suzilucci845 6 months ago
@amofobrooks I don't feel as if anyone judged the two of you personally, but perhaps doubted the future success and longevity of the marriage. I mean, it was, and is, up to you . . . but maybe the two of you *were* more advanced than most of us. I can see being companions, but never being sexually satisfied nor feeling confident about being able to satisfy my partner in a relationship like that.
darkflower2 3 months ago
the Russian(I think he is) has a very great point bravo to him
NarutoCuti 1 year ago
Hey IvoryBrother, how,s your life? Gina and I would love you to come for a visit.
amofobrooks 1 year ago
@amofobrooks I WOULD LIKE THAT! Thank you!
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
Weill Hello Hater's, It's Thomas(the big queen in black) Imagine my surprise when i found this on youtube. So much hate directed at us for loving each other. Whether i was gay or not i loved gina and she loved me.Such hate and comment's of wanting to kick me in the throat.Wow, how much love do you have if it bothered you the a big nellie fag could fall in love with a woman. Well we are still vert much in love and wish all of you much love!! Miss you Rikki!!!!
amofobrooks 1 year ago
@amofobrooks Hi Thomas. WOW! Small world, yeah, even though I made sarcastic "bubbles" except for the last one stating that today I probably would have said my comments on the Show in a slightly different way - I was very disturbed when I read that comment about kicking you in the throat. Usually I don't approve hate messages but this one I though it was just a metaphor until I was proven wrong. Anyway... I guess I was wrong about you and Gina... I am not afraid to admit to my poor judgment. :)
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
1:24 ''I'm not gonna put a label or stereotype on myself ok?"
Doesn't want to stereotype himself?
He IS the stereotype.
toddles9 1 year ago 2
ppl should just marry the person they truely love, gay, straight, bi... it doesnt matter. Those are just lables to let ppl know what you are sexually interested in. If you are a guy and you are attracted to guys then you shouldnt go marry a woman... Sexual attraction plays a big role in a marrige and a marrige between 2 ppl wouldnt be as "kinky" without it and i doubt it would last long. They should just accept who thy are...
jpm8008 1 year ago
Man, the guy in black is a real bitch... I totally agree with the guy in the audience. A marriage between a gay guy and a straight woman is unfair to both of them because neither will spend their life with the one they truly love.
271207 1 year ago
if you are dating a girl and you're a guy you're stright WTF i would be confused to
thotbot62 1 year ago
Maybe they're just marrying each other for the financial benefits.
ChaosDynamics 1 year ago
Who wrote the homophobic speech bubbles?
meanwhattell 1 year ago
@meanwhattell - Actually, I wrote them... and they are not homophobic... they supposed to be amusing, besides they're real... Thomas was just too damn in denial then (he may no longer be this way) and you have to be absolutely blind to see how much in denial he was... Anyway, relax... no one is homophobic here... and I wasn't trying to be offensive at any rate.
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
@IvoryBrother Well they kind of are homophobic in that they are labelling someone gfor the way they act (in this case someone who acts gay) although I understand it was not your pupose to be malicious. Cool vid anyways!
meanwhattell 1 year ago
That Euro in the audience guy rocks! Most Europeans don't give a shit about homosexuality. He makes a very valid, sensible point about being who you are.
toddles9 1 year ago 43
@toddles9 How do you mean "don't give a shit", as in its not an issue or in we are homophobic?
meanwhattell 1 year ago
@meanwhattell - It is not an issue...
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
@meanwhattell In that ''it's not an issue.'' Definitely. The rest of the world could learn a lot from Europe's attitude towards sex.
toddles9 1 year ago
@toddles9 You are right, most Europeans care less if you are straight or gay just like they care less about topless women or a male cop kissing a guy displayed on the billboards! They're just more open-minded, less prude, less prejudice, less judgmental and less hypocritical. Sexuality in America is still a taboo subject regardless on how many porno's they sell a year. LOL! Speaking of porno's - in Europe you can watch them on regular TV channel after 10:00pm and they still have less sex crimes!
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
The russian guy is really down to earth, he should kick thomas in the throat
TheSatNavs 1 year ago 2
@TheSatNavs - Correction - not Russian but Polish - and I hope that the "kick Thomas in the throat" is a figure of speech... I don't condone violence... so this better was a metaphore...
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
i am glad the eastern european cat schooled these perverse fools.
catchphrayse 1 year ago
@catchphrayse - OK... I may have schooled these in denial individuals but I will absolutely not allow anyone to disrespect homosexuals aka gay folks! They are not perverts... You should apologize... really...
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
Why do gay people speak feminine?
sabdow 1 year ago 3
@sabdow - First of not all gay people speak or are feminine. I know some straight men (happily married to women with kids!) who are extremely flamboyant... but they don't have desire to be involved with other men sexually. I think this "feminine" stigma was created by prejudiced "straight" people who have a misconception about corelation between sexuality, sexual orientation, level of hormones and human behavior...
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
@sabdow - As much as the popular belief is that testosterone is exclusive to males and estrogen to females all humans have levels of both. While it is true that testosterone defines physique and psyche in males and estrogen is responsible for same in females sometimes hormonal imbalance can be responsible for feminine behavior in males and not necessarily defining their sexual orientation.
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
@sabdow - (conclusion) - Gay men may be inclined to act or speak feminine but I think they just not afraid to be in touch with their feminine side that every man possesses. My advice - dont overdo it. Its not attractive... :)
IvoryBrother 1 year ago 2
@sabdow because of hormones
IndianaJoel93 1 year ago
@sabdow not all of them do.....actually most gay/bi men are masculine, ones you might hang with not knowing of their sexuality, doing things that are considered manly or masculine according to this fucked up narrow minded society
ToRmEnTaZ99 1 year ago
@sabdow also there are plenty of people that consider themselves straight that speak or act feminine
ToRmEnTaZ99 1 year ago
@sabdow dont know just another thing to ask god if you get there. Stop judging!!
amofobrooks 1 year ago
That guy was more accepting of everyone on that stage than they were of themselves. I miss the Ricki Lake Show!!!
bettescorpio 1 year ago
@bettescorpio - Yes, I sure was... and still am... Thank you. :) I miss Ricki, too...
IvoryBrother 1 year ago
You cant change gaypeople to straight people or the other way around. The man with the woman in this show is definitely gay, just look at the way he is acting and listen to his voice.
globe255 1 year ago
Thats right you cant change the way you are, gaypeople cant become straight people, or the other way around. The man with the woman in this show is definitely gay, i mean just look at the way he acts and listen to his voice.
globe255 1 year ago
Oh God, that Thomas is so bitchy, i dont think he should act like that. even he is gay, what to be proud with, if you are married with a woman, so you are bisex, no more question whether its okay or not. gay got 3 meanings: pure gay, bisexual gay, or transgender....so strange....what the hell, want to be famous?
hata1980 2 years ago
I mostly agree with you. Unless that guy actually is not 100% gay idk, there is in between in sexuality but I would say it's probs a bad idea for them to marry. Anyways you are very cute and you explained your POV well :]
moogle301 2 years ago
I agree with Yakov Smirnoff, While sexuality is rather fluidic, there are many levels between gay and straight, if you classify yourself as either extreme, then a straight/gay marriage would not work.
FightForHope 2 years ago
I completely agree with you ScottScott12345. This man knows exactly what he is saying.
StevieShattered 2 years ago 2
Thank you, thank you very much! :)
IvoryBrother 2 years ago
i completely agree with the audience member as well.
But, remember there are also lots of men who live married lives who sneak around on their wives and their wives don't know it.
garycalgary 2 years ago
Thank you for agreeing with me... and yes, you are very right about married men going behind their wives and having sex with men... those are usually bisexual men or gay married men in denial (or are just married to a woman because they are scared to be rejected by their families, friends and society)... Very complicated situations...
IvoryBrother 2 years ago
these people are retarded if ur gay then ur gay but then why would you marry the oppisite sex?
bitchnuggetsareaweso 2 years ago
if both ppl love eachother who cares xD
kotekotekitty 2 years ago
@kotekotekitty people who can't find love so they try to ruin another life.
Jhartsock123 1 year ago
Some gays marry because they want to hide their sexuality, although it Is lying to the woman and hurting her as well.
Clanitz 2 years ago
This man is bisexual...NOT gay!
beautiful4ever92 2 years ago 2
I can't imagine that you could consider yourself gay but want to be a woman. Being homosexual means being attracted solely to someone of the same gender. If you're finding yourself attracted to women, then you're not gay you're bisexual. Now if it's just a matter of companionship, no sexual feelings, then what's the point of getting married. Just be friends, roommates if you want to be closer. But getting married is absurd. I agree with the guy's comments.
Bookworm51485 2 years ago
Those bisexual and gay guys sure are tanned xD
ScottScott12345 2 years ago
That Polish guy is really smart. And he's right too.
ScottScott12345 2 years ago 19
Thank you... :)
IvoryBrother 2 years ago
You made some really good points. I respect you for standing up and speaking. Thanks for uploading this.
matthieus2 2 years ago
thats women is so desperate, its so obvious the guy in the black top is gay
silentbliss 2 years ago 2
No man or woman is straight.. everyone is trysexual..try anything that looks good
madamecharlote 2 years ago 2
OMG! I can't believe this! These woman are willing to get married to GAY men! They are obviously looking for a life full of sorrow and infidelity. But to each their own.
sillyaccent 2 years ago
Look on the bright side- they get to buy batteries in bulk, and look at the money they will be saving on condoms- hahahaha!!!!!
phatkeys25 2 years ago
this has been recomended to me... someone in the household has been watching gay movies :O
Elvebrindir 2 years ago
The guy who said that he will not "label himself as gay or straight", should be wearing a huge "idiot" label.
The issue is not about a label, it is about comming to terms with who you are, and self acceptance.
elreyyyo 2 years ago
@elreyyyo Preach it dude.
humps678 1 year ago
I am so gonna watch this show the first time i come back from a funeral.Man, this is crazy funny.
claudja777 2 years ago 3
I believe that anyone has the potential to fall in love with anyone else, you could be completley straight but fall in love with a person of the same gender, people fall in love with a personality not genitalia.
999emlopo999 2 years ago 2
@999emlopo999 That's what i was trying to say but back in 94 people were still hung up on who should marry who!!! We have not come any further. THOMAS
amofobrooks 1 year ago
The guy is gay but he's with a woman. WTF?
baconhead2008 2 years ago
It is very common. Lots of guys are in the closet and are married to women. Don't forget about all the bi guys married to women.
str82hell4u 2 years ago
we are promiscuous animals ..gays more so then eteros..
Gay penguins are more prone to fidelity then humans ( we have bigger.....brains = more fantasies , haha )
when will we realize that "unions" between eteros or gays are just a temporary thing
marriage is a dead concept ( the % of divorces proves it )
And to get married under the wings of a so called god, whichever it is...IS PREHISTORIC
imfao
eutuve 2 years ago
I don't know why you got thumbs down because you are absolutely correct. :)
Hellooo06 2 years ago
@eutuve how are gays more promiscuous than straights? men are fucking sluts period, straights cheat on each other all the time, humans are promiscuous
ToRmEnTaZ99 1 year ago 2
Why marry someone if they're gay? Like all the money, & oh the next day you say to your husband, er eh huni I'm kinda gay, but I'm sure we can work around that!
abcjbc 2 years ago
love doesnt choose whether your a gay or not. it doesnt matter if your a gay and you married a woman or a man. what matters most is your both in love with each other. love is far more greater than anyone's sexuality. and with love it is possible...i am a gay man and i do believe that happens to any couple.gay-gay.gay-woman,etc...
jubelletoledo 2 years ago
Oh, that was you, IvoryBrother?
shirvington18 2 years ago
yup... :)
IvoryBrother 2 years ago
if some1 is gay they marry boys, if that lady is a boy then ill take this back, but im sure she isnt
animalmad29 2 years ago
Gay marriage baby! Homophobes can kiss my fannie.
lancetop 2 years ago
I think the man is just confused. I think it is wrong to marry someone before you have come to terms with your sexuality. It makes marriage too hard. Don't get me wrong, I am not a supporter of gay marriage, but I also don't support denial
BluefalconJAR 2 years ago
Why would you marry a woman if you're gay... that's just stupid.
JessicaKristyMarieXo 2 years ago 16
The woman might be a fag hag
thesteveus 2 years ago 3
Might be? LOL
shirvington18 2 years ago
I can understand why. As a gay man myself women give me everything a gay man can't.
uky1985 2 years ago
There is nothing a woman could offer me that my husband can't.
shirvington18 2 years ago 3
Religion, Social Pressure, weak will, afraid to be yourself, there's a whole list of reasons lol
SpearofDestiny0 2 years ago 4
People do what they want. Don't care if they marry a gay person or a straight person or freaking donkey.
It does look more like an arrangement but if they're legally married, who cares?
CacaLauncher23 2 years ago
There's a little joke that says bisexuals are unicorns... they don't exist. yet sexuality is a continuum. there is no 100% gay or 100% straight. you may identify as gay but there will still be an attraction to the opposite sex. i'm just saying if they are happy together let them be together.
cryptonite789 2 years ago 4
The man in balck is funny . cool
hoterbello 3 years ago
I'm so sure that the guy in the light blue shirt is French , The moment he said "I will have to disagree with you" I knew he was french. That's who French start lol . " Je ne suis pas d'accord". Besides he has a French accent
hoterbello 3 years ago
Actually, he is Polish... surprise! :)
IvoryBrother 2 years ago
well its not so simple anymore ...gay or straight
we have bi-sexuals which could possibly be the case for that guy with the old lady....and transvestites with straight ppl ..which i will never understand but oh well its 21st century ...we have 2 get with the program
NouNousa1 3 years ago
wtf ur gay stop trying to be straight a mariage is based on love not image
GOD HELP THEM PLEASE BEFORE THEY EMOTIONALLY SCAR THEMSELVES
the bible says its wrong for gay people to pretend to be straight and also wrong for straight people to pretend to be gay
be who you are GOD MADE U THIS WAY FOR A REASON
agent9149 3 years ago 2
I agree with the guy,
brazlovzya88 3 years ago 2
Gays and straight folks should marry if they want to. Also Transexuals and straights.
Marriage is already difficult "institution" to navigate but when you throw in something that ignorant outsiders hate one of you is going to have problems that seriously effect the relationship.
Damn if you do and damn if you don't.
ekocentric 3 years ago
Im finally glad to hear somebody say if you are guy you should stay with one person.
panamanubian 3 years ago 5
Alway watched this as a little kid, lol. Never knew what it was about, but it was fun seeing all the crazy people xD
KilltheFluXz 3 years ago 4
haha lol same ere, jerry springer was pure class
networksport1111 3 years ago
Hmmm... She should do a reunion show - "Where are they now?" - I bet all of them are divorced...
Erek13 3 years ago 5
@Erek13 You would be wrong. 16 yrs and counting.
amofobrooks 1 year ago
So this guy doesn't like labels. Give me a break. He is a walking talking label. Gay men like him make me sick and that poor woman is as dilusional as he is. And no this is not a homophobic rant, i am gay, FYI. The guy in the audience made complete sense.
hfxmusicman 3 years ago 8
@hfxmusicman a little self loathing dear. im a big ole queen and we are everywhere. u dont have to be but dont be scared the inner queen in u might peek out.
amofobrooks 1 year ago
What is the world to do now that rcki isn't there to solve all of its problems?
myview28 3 years ago 13
good question luv
Hibz4m 3 years ago
i have nothing against gay people,i actually have gay friends,but i do think gays should marry gays and straight people should be married to straight people.one thing i don't accept though,is someone (like this gay person )saying that people who think otherwise are not open-minded.i think our world has crossed the line here!!!!
cherryvaggos 3 years ago 15
Republicans believe that gay men should marry straight women, because same-sex marriage is wrong.....
jus20012002 2 years ago
And in Iran the gov. gives free gender reassignment surgery because they think that will technically make gay ppl straight and 'cured'. Eghhhh
moogle301 2 years ago
he's using her. and she's throwing her life away. they can be friends. although marrige is really just a symbolic type of thing, she is comitting herself not to have any relationships with anyone other than someone who doesnt love her for what she physically is.
amagadz 3 years ago 5
10% of ny couples, the guy is bisexual or gay
wade2bosh 3 years ago
that gay man, who says he doesn't like labels, must be hiding something. i bet he was really using her. I heard gay men can be like that. Not all gay men are all sweet.
StillaVirgin 3 years ago
@StillaVirgin ur still a virgin and im still a bitch.
amofobrooks 1 year ago
The foreign guy talking, is he from Russia?
GWWII 3 years ago
He is from Poland... :)
IvoryBrother 3 years ago
Ivory, I REMEMBER YOU FROM 19 lol I was thinking good comment russian man! HOPE LIFE HAS BEEN GOOD TO YOU!
eyub77 3 years ago
Most gay relatsonships dont last history has shown that. My guess is they stay with a woman as gay males because its stable.
timm9 3 years ago
Man that one guy Mr. "I'm not going to put a label on myself..." is SO gay! and his wife is ugly LOL
stads24 3 years ago
wow those gay men sure are tanned.
snoopyandmyself 3 years ago 10
1. These couples are in a co-habitation marriage and not a traditional marriage.
2. I dont' understand why American tend to classified people using black or white method. What happens with classfifying people on a continunum?
3. I don't understand how a guy can classified himself gay but have a female finance?
virgoom 4 years ago 16
i don t get it,is this because she's ugly and so think she 'll never find a man and so she has married a man who will never makes her feel ugly instead,cause she couldn't make her feel ANYWAY in anycase?
claudja777 4 years ago
She wasn't that ugly.
molokoid 4 years ago
@claudja777 what you have said is ugly, therefore making you the ugly one
amofobrooks 1 year ago
aaahah
the arnold swarza(fill in rest of lastname here) sounding dude, was so cute.
aahahah, i love him.
re00w 4 years ago 14
AMEN
mgenigma5 4 years ago 3
hells yeah! and very smart too.
molokoid 4 years ago 5
yes, and he was right too
miamivicepastels83 4 years ago 4
the guy with the accent is cute!
dldyer 4 years ago 13
You're cute and i agree with you :]
kinseyhunter 4 years ago 5
Amazing that the this is still such an issue in the US. Things are alot more open minded in europe
cowboybootstomp 4 years ago 14
why isn't ricki lake out anymore i liked her show
scitzjo 4 years ago 18
Some people love freely... you can be ATTRACTED to guys but FALL IN LOVE with a girl.
amandaburr 4 years ago 6
I'm gay my self, but i 100% agree with you. :)
poulet7 4 years ago 3
this was funny as hell :) BTW, European guy is a hottie.
alicat19 4 years ago 5
thank u... :)
IvoryBrother 4 years ago
I love your accent-so cute!
emily1307 4 years ago 4
thank u, love!
IvoryBrother 4 years ago
oookkkAAAYYYY... *waves finger*
lolsa...
puuhllease. sister-bf... choke on something fat already... haha.
crave1980 4 years ago
"I'm not going to put a label or stereotype on myself, OOOKAAY?"
OK, dude, let us do it for you.
What a waste of TV time, even for Ricki Lake.
UFOboy21 5 years ago