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  • Women's brains are quite different to mens. Numerous neuorological studies have shown that the male brain is far less developed in several areas and more developed where it is wired for a dopamine reward system for aggression - left brain. This evolved from our 98% of evolution where men hunted and women did most everything else. Men need to use acceptable outlets like aggressive sports\video games for their aggression instead of venting on women they way they do here on youtube or simply evolve

  • @theplentysense And you are not venting? And feminists are not venting? As far as evolution, studies indicate that females, not males, have directed evolution. If this is so, my question is this. If you don't like us the way we are, why did you make us this way? You seem to imply that men don't work as hard as women in your statement ending in, "women did most everything else." In the U.S. at least a university study concluded that men work on average 61 hours a week while women work 56.

  • @theplentysense To continue with my last comment, these figures included work on the domestic front. More importantly, is the nature of the jobs that men did which were more physically demanding and dangerous. As far as your comment on mens brains being less developed, I think the measure of what constitutes a levels of development should be measured by results. In the relative short period of time since the advent of a highly technological society, women's brains might be better adapted.

  • @theplentysense Continuing from my last comment reading from bottom up. But, that superiority is only for general adaptation. I will contend that men's brains are adapted better for attaining an overview perspective, looking at things from completely different vantage points and, possessing the will derived from their agressiveness to create and see new ideas through. But, just keep up your elitist feminazi based atitude. You, and others like you are the best thing for the men's movement.

  • Quote from a male supremacist below. "The problem with that is feminist will never admit to anything that makes women look inferior to men. Beacuse if they did it would blow away their whole idea that their is no difference between the sexes." News flash - Women are not inferior to men other than in muscular strength.

    Feminists certainly know we are two sides of the same coin but are very different but male supremacists think men are the dollar & women are the dime. That's the problem.

  • What amazes me is that men refuse to see how they caused their own demise. In England now, more women don't want to get married to a man than vice versa. Numerous studies show women feel better off alone than with a male supremacist (surprise) and then men say women destroyed the family. Ha ha ha. Really? What do you do if a (175lb) toddler won't listen and throws a tantrum. Give them a long time out. The tantrum throwing is all over youtube. Aren't men embarrassed yet?

  • Men are coming up with very distorted studies where they call a slap on the arm from a 110lb woman an assault and then compare that EQUALLY to a 175lb man punching a woman in the face and grouping that together and then saying it's equal. Women see through these studies but men love this propaganda and spread it without conscience. The result is not any advantage to men or that women believe this BS. The result is that women are simply walking away from the bargaining table. Men are alone. Bravo

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  • Your data is distorted. Those studies use the word assault when a slap is all that happened. The truth is that 80% of domestic murders are perpetrated by men. Of the remaining 20%, 75% of them are women defending themselves from documented abusers. The numbers are from the Bureau of Justice\WHO. Men ignore and distort the facts then act indignant when women give up talking to them\marrying them\liking them. When men stop distorting the facts and attacking women things will get better.

  • Here's how feminsts propoganda works:

    They take the reports of crime that occurs when a man=perpetrator and a woman=victim, present this info to the public, and make the assertion that men are violent perpetrators of crime. In short, they take bits of info and present it in such a way to convince the public that this info is the REFLECTION of all the ill/crimes in th world.

    A YT by the name manwomanmyth does an excellent job of debunking feminists propoganda.

  • women are mentally inferior and lose control of their emotions more easily. As such they are more violent than men. Fortunately on the whole they don't pack much of a punch. However when a man loses it and really wants to pack a punch, he really can do a lot more damage. Hence the double standard is justified.

  • @sooper2dooper3 The problem with that is feminist will never admit to anything that makes women look inferior to men. Beacuse if they did it would blow away their whole idea that their is no difference between the sexes. The only time they will admit to that is if they benefit from it. I think that double standard comes more from our perspective of men and women relationships.

  • Back in the late 80s or early 90s in Canada, a study was conducted by a university providing proof positive that women are as capable of DV as men are and, in their findings (not necessarily all cases... just their findings) women were responsible for around 67%.

    In 2007/8 a study came out of the CDC saying the numbers are higher.

    Of course people don't like to talk about this because otherwise how can women maintain their victim status?

  • The WHO calls domestic violence, violence against woman. I write them and asked how about violence against men and they never replied .

  • @Joeybsmooth Of course not, just like the domestic violence shelters that are only catering to women. I am surprised they didn't reply back throwing in some fake statistics on how many many women are victims than there are men! I always counter them by saying that how many men should get abused before they should be helped! Point is, there are already many organizations out there helping women. Why would my concern with helping men disrupt their "noble" cause?

  • When it comes to being labeled as a " abuser" if a man defend him self, in America you lose your Constitutional rights, in the land of the ":FREE" Haa Haa Haa ! F@@#$#@@## them

  • ugly fat losers' rights activists who make up stories about women to show "well, they're just as bad as we are!" are always good for a laugh.

    sweetie, if you got on a treadmill and got some contacts, you might be able to get a date. making bullshit videos won't help.

    males are the vast majority of violent criminals in all areas, including domestic violence. that's because testosterone makes a male crazy, violent, and reckless. just look at the world today.

    now get a job, fat boy.

  • bullshit. men aren't the victims in this situation. men are the majority of ALL violent criminals. throughout history men have caused wars. today, who is the problem in yemen, afghanitan, iran, iraq, the congo? who was the problem in rwanda, bosnia, in china during WII? men are violent by nature.

    and now all of a sudden, women are violent! and apparently thousands of men are being abused, but they aren't going to emergency rooms or calling the police.

    simply amazing.

  • In Australia, it's a real problem as well, violence against men from women is rising.

    What I find very offencive, the Australian law protect women far to much (the law protects the breeding machines and their siblings).

    Many men are being accused of numerous matters that are far from true.

    Genetically, women are inferior to us men.

  • @MRMILO57 it never ceases to amaze me how stupid males are. you're the inferior ones because you have no control of your anger, your temper, or your actions. genetically, most of you are one chromosome away from being chimps.

    losers' rights activists are so sad. when you're a male loser, you'll even sink so low as to make up lies about how violent women are. pathetic. just go kill yourself. and don't repoduce, for the love of god.

  • @karlsmith00 ...well!...well!...look who's the pussywhipped little man, women have you under their thumb!

    Women are inferior, they always have been, always will be, it's genetic evolution.

    As for being a loser, l'm the one with financially well off, achieved many good things in the last 20 yrs. So what have you done?

    How bout you stop ya anti-male bullshit, for once in ya life be a man!

    And get into reality, ya religious wanker!

  • @MRMILO57 look at this dumb talking cock with his flapping pisshole.

    men are inferior. you know how i know that? BECAUSE I HAVE TO POINT OUT TO YOU THAT I'M NOT A MAN. anyone with a basic understanding of language could see that, yet a 41 year old cunt like you needs it spelled out. you want to talk about genetic evolution? i'm sure you have some type of autism or learning disability. 90% of those cases are male. nature's way of reducing the unnecessary.

  • @MRMILO57 btw, i'm an atheist, you saggy ballbag. who the fuck even brough up religion? this is what happens when 41 year old males, who should be kept busy with manual labor since that's what males were meant for, have too much time on their hands.

    you don't belong on the internet. you're too old, and it's not for males like you. find a job, and keep your flapping pisshole shut.

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  • @MRMILO57 wow, a comment about my period! THAT'S SO ORIGINAL. how do men come up with such amazing arguments? i know language and verbal communication aren't male strengths, but this is getting ridiculous. you forgot to add something about kitchens or making sandwiches. males have about 3 comments they love to recycle. like i said, it's that autism brain.

    go take your viagra. you're just mad you're an old cock who can't get it up anymore. hurry up, your cambodian mail order bride is waiting.

  • @karlsmith00 .....you're disgusting! Your tirade of insults does a better job of defining female inferiority than I could ever do.  Thanks.

    OK, assuming you are female...

    Is it that time of the month, mood swings, leaking blood, hot flushes, nagging, can't afford fanny rags, sexually frustrated, l'm pissed off with men because they don't go through this!....huh?

    C'mon be honest now!!!

  • @karlsmith00 ...excuse me!....you're not Sahra Palin are you? , if so, l deeply appologise, please put the shotgun down.

    With an attitude like that, you're asking good belting.

    He's a good joke

    What do you tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing - you already told her twice.

  • @MRMILO57 why does a guy have a hole in his penis?

    so oxygen can get to his brain.

  • @karlsmith00 That's sexist

  • @MRMILO57 what do you call a man in handcuffs?

    trustworthy.

  • @karlsmith00 That's sexist

  • @MRMILO57 how can you tell if a man is well-hung?

    when you can slip your pinky just in between his neck and the noose.

  • @MRMILO57 how can you tell when a man is planning for the future?

    when he buys 2 cases of beer instead of just 1.

  • @karlsmith00

    They reckon that Beer contains female hormones and I think they are right.

    After 8 pints I talk shit and can't drive!

    

  • @MRMILO57 why can't women find intelligent, successful, good-looking, polite, well-dressed men?

    those men all already have boyfriends.

  • @karlsmith00 ....very funny bitch!

    My missus has just gone into hospital with two black eyes and a broken jaw.

    It seems we were on different wavelengths when she said she wanted decking on the patio.

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  • When I was a child I was abused by an alcoholic single mother.

  • @1WhoSeeks I'm sorry to hear that, the incidences of abuse by single mothers is hugely ignored. I live with a survivor of terrible abuse from both genders. The misapprehension that abuse is something inflicted by men alone is a mind set we have to break free from.

  • The figure of males suffering from domestic abuse is much higher than the figures obtained from reported incidents. It is believed to be greater than 1 in 3 cases.

  • @taffwob I agree. The report does not take into account the men who were assaulted and did not report the crime.

  • good video

  • You know the video is gonna be good when the first two words are:

    The Lowdown...

    Lol and it WAS good!

  • I have no experience with Physical abuse from women but I can see how that would be very damaging. I believe that women are more prone to emotional abuse however and being such they are much more likely respond in kind.

  • great work!!! can you make it 10% tighter / shorter? the impact may be stronger...Thank You : ) Great Work!!

  • Feminist have adopted DV as their own industry & the governments always are relying on their statistics because some women in politics are only their to push the female agenda.

  • Best vid on the subject of men's rights yet.

    Good job

  • woman need a slap on the mouth now and then to keep them in their place

  • even so, there is a smarter way to handle this. slap can be effected by adrenalin and make permanent consequences. i understand your point but i disagree with your method.

  • well I say that if women beat men,I say that men should beat the living out of women,especially violent women.

  • i used to get beaten when i was a child by women, when i was old and big enough i was able to give them a beating and have never had any abuse since, so sometimes male on female violence isnt a bad thing

  • I've had a similar childhood, and where I've never hit a woman I share your sentiment.

  • @thanks51 Me to I suffered violence & child abuse at the hands of a women when I was in state care so this is a subject which is very close to me.

  • I feel bad that you suffered abuse as a child, BUT you have become an abuser and that is a bad thing

  • Argus have you seen the movie The Pursuit of Happynes? If you haven't then go rent it or something it shows what life was like for a man being discriminated against and the emotional abuse that he suffered from his wife. It is based on a true story!

  • danielcooper1000

  • Go to marc rudov's website about domestic violence and u will find that 70% of perpetrators are actually women. Where as men are most likely to refrain from hitting a woman - even in self defense a woman whos violent will hold a no holds barred attitude because she can and wants to. I'm not against equality of opportunity as long as women can follow it up by going and settling for men with lower status than them when they are in higher earning careers.

  • Men are more likely to be the victim of verbal coercion than physical coercion.

  • Women will NEVER have REAL/TRUE EQUALITY until they have REAL/TRUE EQUAL ACCOUNTABILITY-REAL/TRUE EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY and Liability. Remember,women are 100% responsible for every abortion that takes place. It is their Body,it is their Choice. They are the only ones who are accountable for those actions. They should take 100% of the credit for every one of them. It is their burden. Thats what makes them "unequal"..they are the only ones who can birth and/or kill a child,AT THEIR DISCRETION....

  • I am against negative treatment of men in the media too. What ArgusEyes finds offensive in media images of the brute of a man hitting a woman I find equally offensive, & many more cliche's like it exist. They are neither accurate nor healthy psychology. One instance I'll pull from here is in a recent issue of FHM where to lose weight, the writers were actually encouraging anorexia and bulimia - hardly the epitomy of responsible authorship is it? Where is the "real" man's voice in FHM?

  • I imagine some of you might think it below the belt to say that but flicking through the pages of mags like FHM makes me wonder if they are even aware of the MRM at all. I would think that a magazine claiming to be the most read in the world might have realised the influence they could have if they devoted a few pages each issue to a subject such as fathers rights or prostate cancer in stead of teaching young men how to starve themselves into 28/34 Armani jeans.

  • The media consistently do throw a lot of negative attention towards women. Portraying women as objects just for the pleasure of men is just one of the many ways in which the media act to moniter and shape attitudes to the feminine. And feminist groups always are up in arms about it. But I find this fairly superficial in comparisson with the current trend teenagers have for having their labia removed (on T.V) and the way in which the media "normalises" such procedures.

  • @PoetryEater Not True, media consistently and unapologetically show commericals/movies about men being kicked, killed, abused! And they showed images and the whole act. Not only that, men are often shown to be the clueless dumb guy who needs a woman to show him things! I challenge you to name one commerical that you say is putting a neg light on women without some women organization trying to take it off the air. I dare you! My point is that if there are, it won't make it to mainstream TV.

  • @luckybozo1 I'm a male advertising executive. I've come up with concepts for dozens of commercials that made it to television, so I feel like I can chime in on that. The biggest reason why men are portrayed so oafishly in commercials is because about 90% of commercials are targeted at women. The reason for that is that we have statistics saying that women spend 80% of all money the country spends each year. It's women doing the buying, so we target them.

  • @jszczepaniak Isn't that a shame huh? You still can't explain away the movies that consistently show women overpowering, outsmarting men. Men are portrayed as evil, etc,etc...now who are they selling these to huh? And these are not chicks movies btw. Men are also the ones making major purchases or men simply provide material things for women by having women make the choices of what to buy.

  • @jszczepaniak are most advertising executives female? Don't you think there is something wrong with it? what the hell is this when you have to make men look bad to sell women a pair of shoes? What are you telling and teaching women out there? the reason why most money are spent by women are because men are too busy working 2 or 3 jobs or extra long hours. You owe it to the men out there.

  • It's sorta hard to make this problem known. Most of the time it's considered shameful if you tell anyone. The problem is just how socity sees men, but you know guys are brought up to be more "tough" than girls are, and usually will act violent to protect their masculinity. For example, I saw a lot of rather violent and disturbing comments here about hurting the woman. no offense but I wouldn't want to be around a lot of you guys... though most guys are awesome, especially my dad! =D

  • Why should comparative victimology matter?

    It matters because feminists are lobbying for sexist regulations, policies and laws that pertain to domestic conflicts. If people were under the impression that men and women were equally victimized/culpable in IPV, then it would be difficult to institutionalize sexist discrimination and prejudice. For feminists, it is very important that when a man and woman percieve each other as hostile enemy, that the law should take the womans side by default.

  • I believe women have been empowered wayyyy too much in our society. It is the ignorance of America that will be our destruction. Look at India... You think the women over there have the guts to try and act like feminist dykes over there? Hell no, they'd get killed on the spot... much like how we should handle our business over here.

  • Depends what part of India you're in. India is a lot more liberal than you'd think - particularly in terms of gender, cross dressing, nudity and sex.

  • why don't u go live in india then? i myself hate feminazis, but for u to feel this way towards women makes u rather low.

  • Lower than some dumb faggot who has the username ILoveDemonWolves? I don't think so... Go role play or weave a basket with your mom you geeky fucktard.

  • chill out, man. you seem pretty butthurt that i defended women. don't complain about how it is in america. if u don't like equality, there are plenty of places without it. go to southern africa or something.

  • @ILoveDemonWolves

    Oh drop the crap!

    "move to south africa" - Yea, maybe equality is not in africa, but we have it here. And it's about time men demand

    equal rights to the courts and social services!!! THAT is what this is all about...

  • Then come to the states. We hit back we go to jail and then some. Women hit us the cops pretty much laugh. Even more b/c we're not allowed to hit back not b/c we're pussies b/c we can actually kill them.

  • No forum or site administrator can silence me either. I hate when an administrator tries to silence me from disseminating my political agenda.

  • The British Crime Survey 2006/7 showed that 23% of all victims of domestic violence were men (UK).

    Yet although men make up a quarter of victims (according to this particular study), there are 470 refuges for female victims in the UK and only 7 for male victims.

  • Good comment. Plus the actual number is going to be higher because of the social stigma of a man owning up to being domestically abused.

  • women are sooooooooooooooooooo weak, they can only fight people who arent allowed to fight back e.g. their husbands and other men. if men were allowed to fight back women would all die

  • if your getting beat on by your wife, not only are you a pussy, but your also not a man for smackin her back. whip out that steak knife assholes.

  • Oh? So it's ok for you to not only hit her, but to cut her with a knife? That's pathetic...

  • It's sooo funny to see guys get kicked in the balls. They fall to the ground going "ahwooo! awwooooo!" Men are so weak. ;D

  • a-are you serious? and whats with your username?

  • Account suspended. Clearly another member of the indecent race.

  • indeed.

  • So you allow the men to make extremely violent comments towards women but when a woman turns around and does it, probably to make a point at how FOOLISH it is to do such a thing, you suspend her. Ok, I see how this works. You banter on about equality and these posts you moderate are equal eh? Unfuckingreal.

  • It's soo funny to see you kicked in your hole and you drop like a bloody fly. get real. stupid feminist.

  • Even better when a woman gets falcon punched and they start crying.

    works both ways.

  • ArgusEyes,

    Thanks for the video. I think you truly want fairness for everybody.

  • A video showing a man who got beat up by his wife, then arrested is now gone.

    I'mma start downloading these videos, and posting them back up. I can easily bypass an IP ban, so there's not a thing youtube can do to silence me.

  • I'm also concerned about the media glorifying violence against men. Female characters who mercilessly batter men are considered 'hot' and 'kickass'

  • It's amazing all of these PSA's that are about violence against women being wrong and then we see constantly some woman slapping, hitting and throwing things at men or breaking their posessions in TV and movies-and this is shown as being correct, what he deserves and played as to be funny. She is a strong woman if she is abusive to men??? All you have to do is reverse the roles and that would get immediately attacked. You really shouldn't have to reverse that to see where that shit is wrong.

  • Well think about it, absolute power in the world needs to dismantle the constitution and the men who are the descendants of the men who created the US constitution.

    Again, it was We the Kings, now, thanks to progressive liberalism and the taxes that follow them, we are now We the Servants of the Kings.

    In other words, we are turning into the very thing we left Europe for. Rampant oppression.

  • If a man is getting his ass kicked by a woman on a regular basis, then he should start kicking his own ass on the side.

  • Well we shouldn't hate them, but we should defiantly stand up for ourselves. Assault their straw castle any chance you get, it will make all of our plights that much better.

    We should encourage traditional families, and morality, honor, valor, and yes even chivalry.

    I piss myself off by opening the door for women, I don't really want to, but I do it to remind women that they play a vital role in society, and running around acting like men is not one of their strong suits.

  • I don't open doors for our current batch of dipshits called women, they're strong and independant now, they can fucking open it themselves.

  • I'm trying to send a message, I do it obviously with a grimiese on my face, and in the off chance I get a "thank-you" I say "Yeah" or nothing at all.

    If you want to know the truth, this manly women get angry at a man holding the door open.

    Who needs these screwy feminists telling us how to think and act?

  • 50% of the time women instigate domestic violence.

  • 70% of divorces are filed by the possesser of the vagina.

  • Well society has done everything it can to try and allow women to live without men. What better way than to extract money to live on, without being married.

    It's part of the elites plan to undermine family values so that society will be feminine and unable to resist a despotic communist/fascist police state.

    There will be as few real men as possible to resist.

  • Well put.

  • Thanks.

    When you think about it, no offense, but what does a global authority fear from bra burning women, who try and feminize their men, but can't protect themselves, or carry 10 lbs for a sustained distance and can't reach the trigger on an M16?

    Watch some of the vids on here with chicks shooting guns and the gun smacking them in the face from the kick back.

    Divide and conquer. Now it is Divide and Conqueer.

  • Every time I see a guy in square thin shoes wearing a pink shirt, I picture him digging a ditch at gunpoint.

    The majority of men nowadays, even the 'macho' ones, are going to be complete pushovers when the chips are down.

  • Yeah, how will a bunch of feminine men going to keep our nation free? We can thank feminism.

  • Our nation hasn't really been free for decades. The war happened and was lost while we were all asleep. Feminism is just another facet of its soul-destroying fascism.

  • Yeah, both fascism, communism, and democratic socialism, were all created by the same force. To empower the State at the expense of the new peasant class, or what is left of the middle class.

    Liberalism is just communism for Americans. Just look at the core components of it. Thought police, and high taxes, all of which benefit the State.

    There is no such thing as republican and democrat, they are all spawned by the same forces.

  • Thats because U.S. and UK men have been emascualted while the womem have becomes. A final solution against radical feminazis would have been a good thing. So far feminazis are running a final solution against average men. Those so called buff men are the biggest queers.

  • The feminazis have nothing to do, once they're done with running the final solution against men, they'll start wiping out each other. The 'Genghis Kahn Syndrome'.

  • Please try not to spread propaganda about feminists as it invalidates any point that you're trying to get across about equality...rise above it,However your opinions and strength of character are also commendable.Thanks for starting this discussion...Please don't be a feminist hater.I commend you for expressing your values and your passion.I wish to ask you to make your point a little more quantifiable,YOU are being too specific as regard to your term of feminist.

  • hes not against feminist hes against extremist false feminist statistics and lies that spread their propoganda.

  • Moderate feminism and moderate Islam are the same thing- deceptive window dressing trying to hide a deadly threat.

  • Feminism has done nothing besides cause problems between the sexes.

  • I agree that domestic violence is indescriminate and the laws and protecting the victims and financial/emotional support should be too.The main reason for the lack of support on the other side of the coin is due to the shame of man being oppressed by women..it imasculates men to be treated this way which would stop them from feeling comfortable with challenging or reporting violence or abuse.There is a lack of support because of Stigma...Stigma needs challenging not femenism.

  • You ARE SO RIGHT THIS IS RIGHT. it makes you a feminist which is defined : the beleif in the social, econmical and political equality. we dont all think this way. See though you should try studing both sides though as to not be one of the harsh yourself

  • Sometimes I feel guilty being a guy, I see these ad's with relation to domestic violence i.e male be the perpetrator, How about we condemned all violence regardless of victim or perpetrator after all we all bleed and feel pain.

  • "paul "Sometimes I feel guilty being a guy, I see these ad's with relation to domestic violence i.e male be the perpetrator," Thats what they are there for, as well as to exagerate m on f by ignoring f on m. Feminism and the abuse industry is a multi million dollar business that needs to keep advertising in order to create a need for itself.

  • Thanks for your comments,I do tend to agree with you with regard to Feminism Industry. Whilst not denying that some Women get a raw deal, so do allot of Men. Equal rights should be just that equal. Here in Australia we have restraint orders that effectively mean you have to prove your innocence, rather than the Police proving your guilt.A spiteful woman can get you locked up for a couple of days, with just a story.

  • Paolo "A spiteful woman can get you locked up for a couple of days, with just a story." Yes these human rights abuses seem to be more common now especially when false accusers are allowed to walk away free and clear even when proven to be lieing.

  • I think men and women need to have a duke it out room. Put on the boxing gloves, and ring each others bells!

  • Great video! This is what Youtube should be all about. Bypassing the shitty mainstream media to bring the truth to the people.

  • Men are stronger than women and injure less easily, I am male and I think that men should not hit women exept in cosensual BDSM. Women have pregnancy, motherhood, menopause, and increased chance of being stalked to deal with, they don't need men to hit them. I'm a sub so I like women to hit me, so I can't speak for people who don't.

  • True, men shouldn't hit women. But women shouldn't hit men, either. Suggesting how one group should act toward another is inherently biased, because it's like saying "blacks shouldn't hit whites" without giving any indication of the same treatment when the roles are reversed.

  • feminism before was about equality, but the feminism nowadays is just enpowering women.

  • I really love your videos!

  • I think the amount of male victims is higher than 2%

    I can't actually cite my source since I don't remember the source

  • I wholly agree. I have probably victimized 2% of the men in my own country. (just kidding) There is very little realistic information or data on the matter. Honestly I had done this as far back as 35 years ago and I know of many cases - that are never reported and NEVER talked about. I attended a support group for battered men - it is truly sad. I have a son coming of age and see what is going on for him - not fun.

  • The statistics on male DV victims vary, but there is a steady and consistent consensus that the majority of DV victims are males (and the majority of DV perps are female). Exclusive F on M violence is around 25%, M on F around 22%, mutual is the remainder. (This is for DV-afflicted couples, which are about 10%-11% of all couples.)

  • RE: Domestic Violence/Abuse Against Men

    I believe the issue is VERY real, sexist underestimated, and and prejudicial. I am not going to cite statistics and or studies because I do not believe any accurate or realistic data exists. I believe and submit that a great contributor to this double edged sword is due in large to the nature of the time honored cliche "big boys don't cry"... cont

  • ....By my own admission I can assure you this abuse exists and is and can be very life threatening. I became an abuser as far back as 35 years ago and I am not talking about the odd slap or the odd once and a while nasty name calling....cont

  • ...cont With out taking out my own six feet of rope I can assure you the abuses I speak of were offences which fell clearly within the criminal code of my country of origin and these abuses by majority were never reported to the law and were covered up with lies, placing the blame on unknown male assailants...cont

  • cont.... I had and have tried to bring attention to this matter for various reasons on various occasions and was met with contempt, disbelief, disregard and mockery by both men and women. As the mother of a son and a woman wanting to right wrongs I have yet to find a forum willing to regard my position, beliefs and objectives at reconciliation. I have been a willing participant in a peer support group for abused men - and would like to continue to aid men in this forum - but where??????????

  • ...cont While seeking help for my propensity towards violence I found most women were either not willing to discuss the matter or quite plainly stated "all men are bastards" and likely deserved it. My submission is - nobody deserves it - and I did not enjoy being regarded as an extension of anyones revenge....

  • jodyrea, thank you for your efforts. We need more women like you in this world.

  • Dearest Argus:

    I have a son coming of age in today's society and do want the legacy of "all men are bastards" placed upon him. I have already witnessed the effects of this alleged need for equality (selective that is)and the effects it has had on him. Argus you know what will be said about my submissions here - look at the bitch he has for a mother -parental influences ends before these social pressures begin...

  • ... cont I believe in equal consideration but believe the pendulum has swung too far and has stood still for too long - it is time to meet at the table and stop blaming men for everything - this current approach to 'gender equality' only serves to polarize not equalize. Some may be surprised to learn - we are actually the same species LOL. You would never know it at times. Groups that REACT to oppression often leave in their wake another another group that becomes oppressed.

  • Take into consideration my case - I refer to it is "blind statistics" - Lets say I victimized 5 men in my wake - unreported - not recorded. As I am not unique speculate how many women out there have done the same - do the math the statistics have the potential to be very well STAGGERING .....

  • In my circumstances I was both a victim and perpetrator severe abuse both ways - emergency wards etc (we can map out our battle scars) Today my ex-husband (father of son) and I consider one another as best friends and we have allowed one another closure through brutal honesty and a great deal of pain (emotional). The abuses done by myself went far beyond physical...cont

  • As a woman I found many ways to harm or get "revenge" on the men I abused and the legal system and social service sectors knowingly or not enabled me to inflict a great deal of subtle abuses - if you ever want to learn of the tactics used - you only need to ask - I could write you a book - no I cold write you two........

  • Behave you bastard or I will abort your baby.............. Where is the equality here???????????

  • The mechanics of abuse is a complex thing.

    This is interesting story, I was going to make a video about Amy Winehouse called something like "Amy Winehouse is a disgusting abuser" or something like that, I always research my monologues and working from a Glenn Sacks article the woman seemed like an abusive tyrant.

  • When I looked into it more I realised that both her and her husband were both violent and messed up and kinda pathetic characters, I scrapped the video since I am more honest than my detractors will give me credit for and will make another video in the future about her but from a more sympathetic angle.

  • Dearest Argus

    Agreed, the mechanics of abuse is extremely complex and can be very perpetuating. I respect your position rethinking your approach. You had discussed 'branding' earlier - I prefer to use the term labeling. ... cont

  • cont.. Quite often if an individual accepts the label (not always consciously) they can perpetuate that label into a role and act that role out. The consequences of this role can be negative or positive depending upon the label, how it is intended and perceived.

  • Please believe me when I say I have made myself a slave to many labels and not always on a conscious level. I like to call it self slavery and believe me in is very entrapping. I find the use of labels should be used with caution as our language is so very symbolic in its various meanings. Further to this when we label others we stand the chance of entraping ourselves.

  • Dearest Argus

    With due respect there is no condescention intended - if you were to use that initial title minus the sympathy you could run the risk of being seen as a reflection of the very thing you are trying so hard change.

  • Dearest Argus:

    In my submissions I failed to include what I believe to be a very important fact - In the instance I spoke of with me ex/husband I initiated and provoked the violence.

    I have never heard of Amy Winehouse. Who and what does she represent?

  • Amy winehouse is a soul singer, relatively recent, who came to fame when she was 18 years old. She is addicted to drugs and drink, she's a right mess basically.

  • However, the same stereotypes apply to children who are abused by parents and teachers too. You don't often hear about the teenage boy who hits his father or mother. Or the teenage girl or sexually harasses her teacher but is can and does happen. Its just that these are statistically less likely scenarios.

  • The punishment should be dictated by the severity of the crime committed, not the perpetrator. Unless that perpetrator is a child, in which case a less severe punishment should be applied.

  • Yes. Blaming all men, or all politicians or all any one group for anything is ridiculous! There are always exceptions! Sometimes generalisations and stereotypes can be very dangerous things because we're all different! Every case should be considered for what it is. If the case involves a crazy wife abusing her male partner then she should face the same consequences as if the same situation was reversed!

  • Yes. I agree 100%. Abused men and women should have equal rights. An abuser should always be punished in accordance with the severity of the crime they committed.

    What about gay men abusing each other too?? Surely a lot of that must go on as well. What about female on female violence??? All violence. Often unnecessary. All violence is wrong!!!

  • Exactly, and I can't believe the gall of people who shout "stop violence against women". Yeah let's completely stop this form of violence because we believe in equality.

  • I take offence to it because I've been viciously assaulted by women with cans of food, knives, and been spat on. Sick of it.

  • Brilliant video! As for the facts and stats around domestic violence this link might interest you.

    h t t p : // w w w dot csulb dot edu / ~ mfiebert assault dot htm

  • Hunty. Prof Fiebert has worked with Dr. Charles E. Correy and Erin Pizzey to produce a paper entitled Controlling Domestic Violence Against Men. However, as we have seen right here on Youtube evidence like this is dismissed as "the work of sexists" by feminists.

  • "Published research indicates that 25%-30% of all intimate violence is exclusively

    female on male. People hit and abuse family members because they can. In today's society,

    as reflected in TV, movies, law enforcement, courts, and feminist literature, women are

    openly given permission to hit men."

  • Well done friend, well done. I applaud your insight, this is something that has given me a small burn in the back of my stomach for quite some time now, and it's very therapeutic to see it vocalized by you. Thank you.

    Might I add that male rape victims, while considerably less compared to female rape victims, too often go tragically unreported, perhaps even moreso than their female counterparts. This was an estimation, however, and I don't recall what study it came from.

  • I agree with most of your views, sir. :) Keep up the good work.

    "As a man, you probably like to beat up your wife, but remember, it's wrong." I somehow found that hilarious.

  • Cheers, I liked that bit as well. Ad-libbed I may also mention.

  • will the good videos never stop? Great job argus

  • Okay so the first search I conducted and I clicked on regarding domestic violence... I found this. "Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels." Experts are aware! Most people don't understand domestic violence period. Experts on the subject have a greater understanding.

  • Feminists are much smarter than most men. They are professionals. Only activists understand the real tricks of feminists.

    WHO CARES WHAT PROFESSIONALS SAID?

    The problem is LAW.

    The PROBLEM IS TRIALS.

    The problem, is Media.

    And there, Feminazis rules, by various methods.

    And "experts", have no voice. Thats the point.

    And men, are always the guity ones, like in child custody, and DomesticV

  • SuperParis

    I could write you a book on the subtle violence's and abuses committed against men and children and autograph for you. I am not intending to cause you further pain Superparis - I am offering insight and empathy - sincerely

  • Again, despite targeting the feminists.......... It was a good video.

  • Thanks. Unfortunately, feminists do have to be mentioned when talking about these issues.

  • You haven't seen anything about women that are abusive? Really? I have found alot of information on this. I agree with most of your video until you start targeting feminist. You get extreme and close minded in my opinion.

  • What is wrong with fighting for women's rights? What is wrong with talking about domestic violence towards women? I do see your point some, until you start stereotyping feminist. Again, you can say you are targeting the worst of the feminist; I can say commericials and politicians are targeting the worst of men.

  • Anyone that associates with the ideology is contributing to the harm caused by the others in the same ideology. Feminism was based on a myth of patriarchy, and has the objective of demeaning and eliminating existence of men. There can be no more stereotyping of feminists than stereotyping of loons who believe apples come from Mars or something like that. If feminism had anything to do with equality it would be called equalism or something like that and not "femin"-ism.