SHOULD I GET REVENGE ?

[87mcpena]

I'm Subscribing :D

Thank you momo your the shit

[MrKirbinio]

this guy is kind of creepy

[hyw09]

Hello MOMO i have question about the vid, what if you have to live with the person, and just have to live with it every single day. It is painful, viloent and argument have no use anymore, can't get away with it, but we don't want to call it life.

What can do in order to get better?

Thank you if you can answear this question.

[theanimal2121]

momo you have to make a vedio on how you cut people off and this vedio help a lot thank you

[ammusi]

a long time ago I cut alot of people out of my life - it wasn't easy - but it was one of the best things I ever did! Think of it as telling the Universe that you are DONE with that shit. It works. Recently I did it again with someone - hey if somone isn't treating you well, isn't appreciating you THEY GOTTA GO. Period.

[Kirbywasfun]

Thank you so much momo. I needed to hear this. There is so much I am going to apply this too. So much in my past I need to let go and forget. I am a very emotional person and hold on to the smallest things that hurt me. I put myself down more than anyone else. I am going to let it go and forget so I can be happy with myself.

[THATW3IRDKID]

revenge on someone kicks your ass?

i'd hit them with a car

[Peartfection]

You are the 2nd person in just days that I've heard about who feels these things this way in their body, gets bedridden etc. as I do. But I thought it was only with those kinds of people who process things through their body. In any case, I heard through a therapist that if you imagine a container to put all that negative energy in, this is a trick that works, but I have my doubts. It was only yesterday that I heard of the 2nd person and now you're the 3rd, amazing. Yet others not affected.

[singhsupremacy]

Total avoidance of somebody is the best way to make that person feel like shit and that is a relief for you.

[FelonyHatersGoinDown]

We CUT THEM off 100 times, but they just won't GO AWAY!

HELP MOMO, lolol!

[FelonyHatersGoinDown]

MOMO can't help people that SEND VIRUSES and make prank calls at 2 in the morning, Rob aka grayrealities and ebayboycotters!

[1731996]

my f*cking stupid pc keeps freezing damn it!!!!!

[anonymous11223345]

shutting bad people down is a good idea...i mostly do tht....

But i also generally try to make tht bad person realize what bad he is doing or what bad he has done . SO that he doesnt do tht with other people in future.....

[FelonyHatersGoinDown]

All I'm trying to do at this point.

[adamkirrmusic]

rockin', man! Love the new style...Hope all is well, brotha!

[The3rdFloorKidsBand]

Just like me. A few weeks ago I completly cut someone off who has literally been my best friend since 3rd grade. Btw Im 19 now. We were in the same band together and he was constantly a negative person,rude and treated my girlfriend like shit. So I kicked him out of the band and refuse to talk to him anymore. I should have done that a long time ago because now I dont have as much negative energy around me,therefor making me a happier person.

Peace!

[ToddFabyanic]

Thanks,,,

That sounds like a really good idea....

[skinny3600]

If your smart enough you can do something that will REEEAALLy mess em up :P

Bye bye over confidence :D hello wallowing sludge

[eventide925]

You don't need revenge. You just need to live long enough to watch them fuck themselves, And trust me, They will!!! XD

[svglettuce]

Really liking the new video format & style of the Express series - works well! I'm all for fighting back as long as you remember the subtle difference between revenge is THEM controlling the situation & causing you to react AND standing up for yourself is when YOU take control of the situation & being proactive. Easy to confuse the two at times, but by even cutting the negative people out, you are taking control of your situation. Awesome vid Momo-

[capcom101you]

That's it.

[celeste33035]

the best type of revenge is the kind that you wait for

like for me the people have been fucking around with me just went drunk driving and got in a huuuuuuuuge car crash two died other two are crippled XD and now the people who would make fun of me are making fun of the cripples ^_^

[supercows1]

If he's 14 and hes in a class with someone who is that way, it would be hard to cut them out, as they see each other every day.

[TheMomoZone]

Hey supercows1 thats a case where he could practice his adult to be experience. Be polite in the case of a face to face contact,make sure you dont sit near the person and practice on how to render an individual invisible as if they dont even exist. Its all about personal survival and at that age it starts with mind survival. This is where he will get molded and branded for the next chunk of his life. I say that soap operas should stay on tv where you have the choice to watch or not.Momo

[siXkNiGht]

What I get from this video is that if you're always looking in the rearview mirror it's pretty hard to move foreward. When you dwell on negative events (or people) you just end up frustrated, angry, bitter and sometimes there's the desire to get even. It ends up becoming a big waste of energy. Reminds me of something I heard way back when...

"Hating someone is giving them too much, Just leave them alone. "

- Henry Rollins

Thanks for another great video Momo

[timmeah1]

Would you have the same advice in regard to family Momo? Immediate family like a parent or sibling? People would are in your life often through no choice of your own, like the old adage: "you can choose your friends but not your family".

Just curious, it sometimes seems less black and white than erasing someone

Thanks again, I always enjoy your vids,

Tim

[TheMomoZone]

Hi Tim They say that family should be unconditional and i can understand that priority but it really depends on the individual case and the power that the abused has and how far they have gone in trying to resolve the situation. At one point abuse is abuse and there are many cases of loved ones doing unspeakable things to family members where as a total stranger would have treaded them better at this point we have a problem.

If its killing your dreams and draining your life i say exit stage left

[timmeah1]

Thanks Momo, you seem a good bloke. I believe life is about balance and I wonder how you can be so selfless in your constant advice and not be out of sink somewhere else. I guess thats what makes you who you are, and maybe you gain as much from this as others do from you.

Ok past my bed time, beginning to ramble. Cheers mate,

Tim

[asrex101]

@TheMomoZone what if some bitch lies and sends your brother to prison..let me know.. feel like strangling the bitch for my mothers sake...love the posts

[xxToxic69]

You are awesome momo, just like that car that pulled out behind you, anyways thank you soo much for this video momo, it really helps me, most your vids do. =D

[jdrizd2]

Jesus said turn the other cheek.

[2of6Solutions]

Autonomy is a big deal, nobody wants to live their life as a slave to the demands of others, specially if they have no appreciation to offer. It takes a great deal of courage and trust to reveal our unmet needs. If ending your connection to another works for you then cheers to you Momo.

[XDesiredEffectX]

Love the new format momo. You are a legend. great advice. Agreed with everything you said. Made a lot of sense

[thenicoleshow]

Having "thoughts" of revenge is perfectly normal when someone has caused you to feel powerless or victimized. No need to act on revenge. Momo is absolutely right about just cutting them off. They are EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES and your negative reaction to their bullshit is EXACTLY what they want. I just dealt with something like this two days ago. When you cut off their supply they go bananas & that is the best revenge because they lose their shit & you don't give a F*ck, shake em off like teflon!

[kennosen1]

You are now crowned the Rock Sage! :o)

[gerry2345]

Right on...

[Schmelvis]

Momo, your words of advice are 'Right On' & this street scene is in 'your face' Rocks!!

[jassydevil]

oh wow Momo - I am totally the same with the physical reactions! Last night I had and extreme amount of physical pain after an incident with my SO. It really sucks, but I think it can really help you to deal with things.

[Rayzlin]

Is it just me or is no one driving the car at 1:54 :P kinda freaky :D Momo just edited him/her out prolly :o

[fabi507714]

Greate Momo you really Rock!!!!^^ The less edited video is awsome, it puts over the information and the feel very clear and smooth!;-)

Greets from Europe / Fabian

[SOCRATES012]

YOU rock! Thanks Momo

[soonerryan2000]

Brilliant as usual. But beyond brilliant, useful. I swear, I still find myself checking your videos out just to get a life boost. It's like a mental vitamin.

[onebluestone]

cool

[DarkenedTwilight]

Awesome as usual. I think it's amazing how you've trained yourself to pretty much forget about people, I hope one day I can learn to cut people out like that who don't do me any good. o.o

[enderwigginsx]

dude, this is brilliant as usual.

keep rockin!

[itsthebean]

great as always my friend -like the fact that you went outdoors - more vibrant urban feel to the whole vid! :) xo

[w0r1dpeace]

I just thought about this BUT the advice I got was "stay connected" cuz then you can use them to proliferate your memes.

[13thDimension]

love the new setting

[amjPeace]

Great advice, Momo! I once spent way too much mental and emotional energy trying to think what I could have done differently to avoid being hurt by a certain individual. Years later, having grown past it, I ran into this person. I took one look and couldn't believe how I had wasted my time letting this jerk get to me. If only I could have just "cut him out" back then, I could have saved myself alot of anguish.

Keep up the good work, Momo!

[MizVanity]

Still waitin' for that call, Momo... =D

-Miranda K.

[jasonsgroovemachine]

As always Momo, damn good advice.

Love the new format too by the way. Still dig the older 'in depth' stuff, but this is like 'Momo On The Street' type assistance.

Very cool dude.

[XFry333X]

I know what you mean about the getting sick part. I've been putting up with it for 2 years giving me migraines and massive amounts of physical pain and soreness through my body. Best advice I've heard so far.

[kylester89]

I have that same problem Momo. When I become stressed out it makes me very sleepy.

[GeneralHasslehoff]

Great momo more videos is better so I like this momo express :]

[Ourdreamskim]

Wish my brain could work like yours, I have never been able to erase people from my mind, since I was a young child. Interesting points.

Thanks again

Momo

[GiveUpTV]

Great advice Momo.

I get "emotionally sick" as well...it hurts when that happens.

Your insight will prove useful.

[spookyboo22]

People mistake kindness for weakness. I see it alot these days. Good work Momo!

[ANDYGLOV3R]

I dunno man. I agree in the sense that sometimes you have to step back from friendships or relationships when what you're giving is hurting you more than helping you, I think, though, that if you give people second chances, they will sometimes surprise you.

[mapofhell]

i no this isnt exactly the same thing but at school i always get beat up pretty bad and no one seems to care, i tell teachers and they say they will handle it but they dont do anything. my mum says i just have to wait it out, but once i got beaten up pretty bad and i just used all my strength to get up and walk away and say nothing about it. was that the right thing to do?

[bombkangaroo]

If you're getting physically assaulted then the school needs to do something about it.

If they won't, then go to the police, there are laws against it.

Worst case scenario: make a hit list and get a baseball/cricket bat and give your attackers a limp.

If people are attacking you physically, they're endangering your life. You have a responsibility to yourself to do whatever it takes to make them stop.

[Scorch251]

if its really bad you should call the cops on the punks that attack you, if you have a videocamera or something as proof they can get arrested

[GetDamage]

You must fight back. Bullies usually target non violent ones, usually ones that don't fight back. You can learn to fight a little by watching UFC, boxing, and muay thai videos on here. Get physically and mentally stronger. Cheap shot the guy when he is not ready and don't stop swinging. teach him a lesson. Make him fear you. Get on top of him and keep on punching. Even if you lose. you will damage him badly and we won't want to get hurt- fight you the next time . This happened to my friend.

[jassydevil]

someone beating you up is classed as assault and that is a crime. If your teachers are not looking out for you go speak to a local police officer or your guidance counsellor at school about what you can do. People should not be beating you up regularly - that is not on!

[CAKEISFUNNY]

Cool new idea Momo!

[FelipeSparx29]

Just ask Momo Express?, neato!