My dear, I would say, you don't owe him and he does not owe you. If he wants something else, like playing around, leave him to be the person he wants to be, and move on. (and leave this 'problem' to that other woman) The point is, that you think he is MY man or you are HIS girl. People always get what they deserve, just learn to accept the consequences.
I would advice you to read "the 4 questions" by Byron Katie. And rethink this subject again. A happy life is not about fighting, so leave that.
@rierreljirre - I'm married to him, he does owe me and vice versa. I take marriage seriously. And as I addressed in the video, the issue is not soley with him looking at other women because I don't have a problem with it when I'm not there, however in my presence I find it disrespectful. I always will, regardless of your stance on the matter. If your comfortable with your partner chatting up or oggling ppl infront of you, that's great for you, very liberal. Thanks for commenting.
@Kandgoods Honestly, what is the difference between him being disrespectful in your company and being disrespectful without your company. Is it worth living the life of other people's opinion?
Marriage makes it more complicated, but still I beleve, everything is a matter of BASIC-questions (nót SIMPLE-questions).
I would be very sad, if my partner would act disrespectful. It would mean, my wife would be better off without me. Marriage or not, I am clear to her and she knows.
@rierreljirre (cont) Which I have conformed to, solely because others around me will interpret this as disrespectful. Otherwise I wouldn't care. It's literally a matter of me caring what other people think. This is my personal outlook. It's the general consensus that it shouldn't be done and we live in social groups, thus it must be observed. But on a biological level, I understan it. Hence why I don't care if it's done when I'm not around.
@rierreljirre, (first part) well I think this comes down to a matter of personal opinion. I don't believe it's disrespectful to look at another woman in my presence. I'm an evolutionary psychologist, I'm aware it's natural to be attracted to others. It's only a question of disrespect these days because it's SOCIALLY unacceptable.
Yes,from "Woman to woman... Part 1", you said you cute your hair & you look fabulous as always!And yes, you are talking complete sense about us guys looking at other woman but should remain loyalty and faithful. These getto,thug want to be guys here in a America with try ti talk to a female RIGHT in front of her man,ESPECIALLY in the club...lol...sAd but true! :-) *Nice video & insight*
oh but i've a question. in a situation like that, would u find it fitting to beat him up? well of course if the glove was on the other hand it would be a double standard. but what say u?
lol savages yes. and i concur. granted, he knows better than to smile but i wouldn't be surprised to know that most guys would find pleasure in two females fighting over him. haha @ 'i'm not going to say anything to you. but it's there. wait till we get home' lawd :( why dis a happen to mi now? u just made me have a flashback to when i was a pitney and my mom would whisper that in my ear.
@RuhlaxBrah lol, that's because I got that line off my mum. She used to say it to me when I was a kid lol. In response to your other question, I wouldn't act out of character in public. There's a certain way people should conduct themselves, black women in particular because they get judged the most and it reflects on the rest of us. Like I said, I would wait till we got home, then he would find out whats really good lol.
yur gorgeous ma, i was wonderin where r yu from i cant figure out yur accent??
seanjr19 1 year ago
@seanjr19 - lmao, thank you Sean. I'm from London, England. x
Kandgoods 1 year ago
My dear, I would say, you don't owe him and he does not owe you. If he wants something else, like playing around, leave him to be the person he wants to be, and move on. (and leave this 'problem' to that other woman) The point is, that you think he is MY man or you are HIS girl. People always get what they deserve, just learn to accept the consequences.
I would advice you to read "the 4 questions" by Byron Katie. And rethink this subject again. A happy life is not about fighting, so leave that.
rierreljirre 1 year ago
@rierreljirre - I'm married to him, he does owe me and vice versa. I take marriage seriously. And as I addressed in the video, the issue is not soley with him looking at other women because I don't have a problem with it when I'm not there, however in my presence I find it disrespectful. I always will, regardless of your stance on the matter. If your comfortable with your partner chatting up or oggling ppl infront of you, that's great for you, very liberal. Thanks for commenting.
Kandgoods 1 year ago
@Kandgoods Honestly, what is the difference between him being disrespectful in your company and being disrespectful without your company. Is it worth living the life of other people's opinion?
Marriage makes it more complicated, but still I beleve, everything is a matter of BASIC-questions (nót SIMPLE-questions).
I would be very sad, if my partner would act disrespectful. It would mean, my wife would be better off without me. Marriage or not, I am clear to her and she knows.
rierreljirre 1 year ago
@rierreljirre (cont) Which I have conformed to, solely because others around me will interpret this as disrespectful. Otherwise I wouldn't care. It's literally a matter of me caring what other people think. This is my personal outlook. It's the general consensus that it shouldn't be done and we live in social groups, thus it must be observed. But on a biological level, I understan it. Hence why I don't care if it's done when I'm not around.
Kandgoods 10 months ago
@rierreljirre, (first part) well I think this comes down to a matter of personal opinion. I don't believe it's disrespectful to look at another woman in my presence. I'm an evolutionary psychologist, I'm aware it's natural to be attracted to others. It's only a question of disrespect these days because it's SOCIALLY unacceptable.
Kandgoods 10 months ago
Love your hair, love your views
rozzzbbaby 1 year ago
@rozzzbbaby - thank you hun! x
Kandgoods 1 year ago
Yes,from "Woman to woman... Part 1", you said you cute your hair & you look fabulous as always!And yes, you are talking complete sense about us guys looking at other woman but should remain loyalty and faithful. These getto,thug want to be guys here in a America with try ti talk to a female RIGHT in front of her man,ESPECIALLY in the club...lol...sAd but true! :-) *Nice video & insight*
Dirtywayne80 1 year ago
oh but i've a question. in a situation like that, would u find it fitting to beat him up? well of course if the glove was on the other hand it would be a double standard. but what say u?
RuhlaxBrah 1 year ago
lol savages yes. and i concur. granted, he knows better than to smile but i wouldn't be surprised to know that most guys would find pleasure in two females fighting over him. haha @ 'i'm not going to say anything to you. but it's there. wait till we get home' lawd :( why dis a happen to mi now? u just made me have a flashback to when i was a pitney and my mom would whisper that in my ear.
RuhlaxBrah 1 year ago
@RuhlaxBrah lol, that's because I got that line off my mum. She used to say it to me when I was a kid lol. In response to your other question, I wouldn't act out of character in public. There's a certain way people should conduct themselves, black women in particular because they get judged the most and it reflects on the rest of us. Like I said, I would wait till we got home, then he would find out whats really good lol.
Kandgoods 1 year ago