shit my mother on law she is the devil itself srry to say that but if i girls r in my shoes u will know exactly what i am talking about nd srry to put tue word hate but i hate her so damn much......
yog yus tau ib tug nyab zoo li no ces yeej tag kev cia siab lawm yog leej twg tau cov nyab zoo li no mas tu siab kawg li nawv peb ib tsoom niam ntshe yog niam txoj hmoo tsis zoo li zaj yas suab no yog leej twg yuav mus ua nyab los thov kom tsis txhob ua li zaj yas suab no nawv mog cov ntxhais hmoob
I rather let him be with his mom! then kick her out because i know how it feels to be a mom! Sometime mother in laws are mean too. I rather be the bad one and leave because I don't want that burden of kicking her out! Because I can never repay her back for taking care of her son.
Hello! I'm hmoob but I'm Hmong American. Lost my language when i was little. I was wondering what this song really about? I want to dedicate the song for my mom at my college graduation. I just like the song and it related of how i treated my mom terrible wrong when I was in my teenage years. Can u please help me out on this? I would appreciate very much.
@gohan0917 sure no problem.. the song is basically about a mom that has hopes of her two sons to find a nice and loving wife to love her when she gets old.. but it isn't what she expect, her sons are not man enough to take the their place as husband and can't control their wives.... the daughter in laws (there are two) are mean and force the mother and sister to go live somewhere else. she again sings that it is not worth her (the mother) sweat and love to raise her sons... she is sad..
This song makes me miss my mom and it also makes me cry. I cnt stand to see a elder cry weather its a man or women. it makes me cry if i see any of my elder or parents cry.
so sad my grandma actually go through this before she pass away. so sad my aunty doesn't like my grandma, but to me she is a mother. the song always make me cry :'(
every time i listen to this song, makes me cry. sometimes, it may not only be the nyab doing it to his parents but also the vauv that don't love her parents as much as she loves his. either way, it's breaks my heart when I hear some thing similar to it.
hais rau txhua tus uas yog ntxhais thiab yog tubtib si.....thov hais rau cov ntxhaistxhua tus yog thaum nej sawv kev tawm hlam nej niam thiab txiv lub taw rooj mus ua nej lub neej lawm ces tsuas xav kom nej mus lub neej zoo hlub nej niam pog thiab txiv yawg thiab cov muas, cov khwv yau......qhov no yog qhov uas koj tus txiv thiab koj niam pog lawv xav tau tshaj......txhob pub nej niam lub kua muag poob rau nej nawb mog.........:)
Zaaj nkauj nuav yog ib zaaj kws tu sab kawg nkaus, yog thaum yug tau ib tug quas puj tsi txawj xaav, lub sab yaw, sab qa dlub, sab ndlai ntuj, tsi muaj lub sab zoo rua yug nam. Yug ceeb laaj ua lub neej laug tuag nrug tug quas puj nuav os. Txawm le caag los yug yuav tau saib xyuas zoo yug leej nam os peb ib tsoom tub txhua tug.
you can replace your wife (if she's bad) but you can never replace your mother. you can replace a friend but you can never replace your brother or father.....replacing your mom is like cutting off your own arm. but then again there are bad mothers these days too. good moms are meant to be kept and loved forever.
zaj nkauj no zoo heev, txawm yog thaum ub thiab tam sim no los tej laus yeej cia cia rau lawv tus tub nad. es yog tau tus nyab tsis zoo ces ntshe yuav tus sib sim neej li os.
sad to say but some people are really like this... they make movies like this to set an example... please love both sides of your family........especially your mothers...
Does anyone know why she's not making anymore music/cd? She is one of my favorite singer. Her songs always has such deep meaning and she sings it beautifully.
Does anyone know why she's not making anymore music/cd? She is one of my favorite singer. Her songs always has such deep meaning and she sings it beautifully.
Thanks for sharing this song. This is such a sad song. Those who have never seen it happen will never know how much it hurts to see your love one be treated in such a bad way. so unacceptable.
This is why it is important to meet the parents first before marriage. Establishing good relationship with the family is key also. Many young couples married each other without knowing one whole background. I have a friend who wants to marry her bf, but she is having mix feelings that her bf's mother don't like her. They are planning to marry anyways and soon too so good luck to her.
Most say it does not matter, as long as ya love each other then it is fine. I say no no to that if you are Hmong and especially if your family is still very traditional. Family is important. Most nyab nowadays don't understand the fact that It is not like American when you are married you are married to each other, But when you are Hmong, you are married him and his family, not to mention clans.
that is why when one is divorce that say "don't marry those 'clan name' again, they are evil...blah, blah, blah..etc..." Anyways I talk too much. eheheh But this song is sad. Best wishes to all my Hmong fellows! ^_^
I choose my mother over my husband anytime if he's such an asshole like that girl in there. In this world I can always find a husband to love me, but in this world I can not find someone, who would love me like my mother.
Awh`s , this song is soooo sad ! my cousin sanged this for the hmong pagent thing , and my mom was crying . i can tell it touched many people`s heart , only if you sound like you meant it .
i agree wat goes around comes around...im not goin to tak sides...in my opinion it is all based on the persons heart n personality n how they were raise...in other words the environment they grew up wid..its not that the niam poj did tat to her in laws...is js that the nyab is jus plain mean...u wnt kno unless its u in their shoes...i know bc i seen it all...my nyabs are all lik dat to my mom widout a gewd reasn...n it makes me so freak mad...erggh...
my wifes mom or should i say my bitch ass mother n law is a total bitch. She always tell my wife to leave me cause i dont go to fucken church and shit, Heck, my wife whole family is BITCH they only think about their bitch ass and dont care about others...
awe everytime i watch this music video with the movie it makes me wanna cry!!! its so sad!! i cant believe the guy chose his wife over his mom!!! its makes me angry!!!
Whenever I listen to this song makes me want to do better for my mother and father n law even though we had our moments. It reminds me that they don't have much time with us anymore, so I'm trying to cherish every moment of it with my mother and father n law.
i think no matter what the situation maybe. if you are become a nyab, you should consider the things that you do to your husband mother as if you are treating your own mother... Peb cov girl in the hmoob society should remember that no matter how much our birth parents love us we will always be a "guest" in their house. Therefore, when we get marry we should love and respect in laws because they are the parents that you will have to take care and be responsible til death...
Hey, I've been thru enuff craps with the nyab. She lives with us for 5 yrs and left with my bro and kids without telling us where they lived but me and my mom were crying why she hurting us so much that we became heartbroken. But as yrs passes by and see what happened to them...They sows what they reaps...-NPAM tiag tiag li cov laug hais ntag. Yug ua zoo yug ua siab ntev tau ntuj ntoos tiag tiag os lawm aws. Koj raug koj mam paub how we feel the pains.
Wow one of great song, but who is the bad guy here?
Is the son or daughter -in-law?
us girl should learn something if you have a sister in-law like that, you don't like it than when you uas nyab you should think twice and be good.....lol.
whenever i see this song it make me cry. cause i feel very cry for them i mean like i have only one bro n his wives try to called the copes like all the time. Do they knw how hurt it is for my mom.whenever they did it to my family i just want them to STFu cause it's very hard for my family to have a sister in law like this. i meant like her mom is been bitches too.
The title of the song is the title of the movie... If I have a choice between my mom or my wife, by all means I choose my mom without a second thought...I can always replce my wife but I can never replace my parents...keep that in mind ppl...I kno a few couple here in the US that dosent give a shit bout their parents n let their parents struggle, shame on their kids..What goes around come back around...
@gogohmoobboy, what you say is true however, when it comes to finding a love, that love should love your parents too; my in laws love my parents as much as we do, you should not have to choose between your parents and your love; be wise in the love you choose. when we are young we do not appreciate our parents, but when one day when we become older and wiser and have kids, we know then our parents are important to us.
@gogohmoobboy, what you say is true however, when it comes to finding a love, that love should love your parents too; my in laws love my parents as much as we do, you should not have to choose between your parents and your love; be wise in the love you choose. when we are young we do not appreciate our parents, but when one day when we become older and wiser and have kids, we know then our parents are important to us hopefully not too late.
I'm not going to take side blaming on nyab or niampog, but cov laus hais tias NPAM maybe she used to do that to her In-Law lawm es nim no her nyab thiaj li ua rau her the same she did. Come on people, that just a song xwb las mas.
@Chai2598 you said the mother used to do that to her in law so now her nyab thiaj li ua rau her the same?? that meant the nyab used to be the mother niampog too? and the mother used to be the niampog's niampog too? right? and they used to threat each other for generation over generation? right? and when the nyab is a mother the niampog will be the nyab again to threat her ? right?
Probably you confuse what i said read this ever and over!
@highang Na, I don't know nothing bout redie/rebirth and back to ua nyab & niampog again to revenge tiam to tiam. What I'm saying is a "CURES". Like if U do bad to Ur parents then one day Ur kids going to do to you the same to you. If you understand the meaning of "CURES" then you know what I'm saying.
This is so sad.. Reminds me of my mom too.. She tries her best to make my brothers have a good life but they take advantage of her and when things go bad they blame it on her.. I feel so sorry for my mom because she only have two sons and both their wives are bitches.. They both are pussy whipped!..
have you guys heard, "yog niam txiv phes yuav phes mus tag ib sim yog nws phes yuav phes ib chim?" I think that's what it's said lol but yea take that to considerate.
COULD SOMEONE PLEASE UPLOAD "NIAM LUB KUA MUAG" MOVIE!!!! I WANT TO WATCH IT SOO BAD! OR IF SOMEONE HAVE THE MOVIE COVER, GIVE ME THE NUMBER ON THE BACK SO I CAN CALL TO ORDER ME ONE!
@whytetearz i bought this movie 4 my mom 3 years ago. when i go visit her i watch it sometimes... ill look 4 the number 4 u k. there are 2 parts... i dont like the 2nd one...
there nice mothers and then there are mean mothers.
the nice mothers always get crappy nyabs and vice versa with the mean mothers.
with mean mothers...the only way to stay alive is show that devil woman you can be ten times better than she is....
make yo food better....make your house cleaner, work that garden! old people nag because they think the younger generation won't live up to expectations.
make yo own expectations that will excell so well that all they could do is bite there tongue
@msshengyang Yes, the movie is called, Niam Lub Kua Muag, It's Cha Bee Thao production. It have two parts. I hope this answer your question. Good luck, hope you can find it.
I'm glad that i dont have the movie and have not seen it..i know for sure that if i seen this movie, i'll cry my heart out...this song and the video is already making me cry...and yes i know that some moms out there really do need a good nyab...
OH...so SAD! this song makes me sad every time i listen to it cause that's how my ex-nyab was. i was young like the sister in the music video too so i couldn't help my mom much either...sooo SAD...but i think God likes to mix it up, he gives the good daughter-in-laws to the mean mother-in-laws and mean daughter-in-laws to the good mother-in-laws...maybe. ^_^....
@ Sammiexyooj & donnie467. I guess we are the ones with unfortunate poeple in our lives. My mom's Mother-in-law was an ass to my mother. They treated her really badly back in laos. Now that she was able to bring them to the U.S they are starting to like her a little bit. I guess just for the hell of it. But then my brother got married and his wife is an asshole to my mother too. I don't think she deserves all the pains that she is getting right now.
@ Sammiexyooj & donnie467. I guess we are the ones with unfortunate poeple in our lives. My mom's Mother-in-law was an ass to my mother. They treated her really badly back in laos. Now that she was able to bring them to the U.S they are starting to like her a little bit. I guess just for the hell of it. But then my brother got married and his wife is an asshole to my mother too. I don't think she deserves all the pains that she is getting right now.
@sammiexyooj-That's my mom who suffer all their pains they had cause her.I really hate them for treating her that way.My mom just past away last year and they didn't even bother to come to the funeral.When she was sick, she wanted to see them one last time, but they never bother to call & check up on her and visit her.Thinking about this, makes me so angry and pissed off.I reallly HATE them now and will never forgive my nyab and so call brother.They're not my familys anymore after my mom died.
@sammiexyooj-I'm sorry to hear about yours..Yes, you just have to make life better and succeed it all the way...MAke them know that you are a good nyab too..Not the way the in laws would think or said.
True.IT's the son's fault who is not man enough to take control in the first place.My mom loved them very much, but they both were really cruel to her for the past 10 years now..She hasn't even seen them for this long..They never bother try to visit her, but came to visit her parents instead.
@shenghlubteng37-thanks...I am sorry to hear about what happen to u too..My nyab was pretty much like yours too.
.At first, she was really nice and all, but after she had her daughter, it all changes...She hated my mom and won't let my mom eat anything that she buys for her & my brother...When she cooks, she never invites my mom to eat..My nyab wouldn't let my mom hold her own granddaughter..It was my mom's very first granddaughter too...I was young and can't do anything..
From personal experience, my mom's been through all these pains & more from her own son & nyab.They didn't even loved her a bit.Treated her soo bad and made her cry each & everyday..They moved far away out of state and made no contacts with her.He was her only son..And no, it was never my mom's fault on not liking her nyab.It was my nyab who didn't like her.My mom just past away last year of heart broken.They are cruel & evil, didn't show up for her funeral.what goes around, comes around.
awww i'm sorry for your lost. My nyab (not anymore) was like that too, they got married at such a young age that she never get along with either of us (the family) she never brought up a conversation and talk to my parents. She even cost $10,000 when the wedding was held. Now what, today my brother just moved to Georgia because she listen too much of her mom's blabbing and dump my brother, won't even let him see his kids for one last time.
And when she was living with us, she never wanted to, always telling my brother to take her to visit her mom. She never know when to cook and she influence my brother to be a bad person, having gambling problems just because of her. She wanted to move so bad that she told my brother to sneak out the window. Got caught by my parents and they moved without telling us. We had to find out. It was my parent's first time crying for one of us, and it had to be my oldest brother.
@donnie467 sorry to heard about your nyab being a ass but its the son's who can't be man enough to step up and take control. i'm a nyab myself and their is no such perfect nyab. my problem was the other way around. getting marry to the only son and child, got kick out becuz of their son & parents disagree, mother-in-law tells the whole world your a bad nyab, when non of the OG cousin like her. work hard and start from scratch, make my life have everything i want and that is when they cameback
saying we love our mommy and showing that we love them are two very diffrent thing.so if we can let's not only say that we love them but show it, and if u have a big enough heart don't just cere for yr mommy but all the "good" and "wonderful" mothers in the wourld pleace.
kuv xav mas cov nyab tim meska no ces yeej zoo li no xwb tiag luag yeej tsis hlub yus li xav mas tuag zoo dua yog nej muaj lus dab tsi tso pub peb saib thiab sau npe
shit my mother on law she is the devil itself srry to say that but if i girls r in my shoes u will know exactly what i am talking about nd srry to put tue word hate but i hate her so damn much......
lorihawj 14 hours ago
My mom is 46
Touilee 1 month ago
my grandma going through this right now :(
88specv 3 months ago
@88specv sorry to hear about that... hope one day she will get out of it soon.... really sad...
aomjames 2 months ago
yog yus tau ib tug nyab zoo li no ces yeej tag kev cia siab lawm yog leej twg tau cov nyab zoo li no mas tu siab kawg li nawv peb ib tsoom niam ntshe yog niam txoj hmoo tsis zoo li zaj yas suab no yog leej twg yuav mus ua nyab los thov kom tsis txhob ua li zaj yas suab no nawv mog cov ntxhais hmoob
shimxng 3 months ago
i wanna see this verison...this verison looks more sad
vxion428 3 months ago in playlist Favorite videos
what movie is this called again? saw this movie sumewhere.?? but forgot wat it is call?
Angel39397 3 months ago
I rather let him be with his mom! then kick her out because i know how it feels to be a mom! Sometime mother in laws are mean too. I rather be the bad one and leave because I don't want that burden of kicking her out! Because I can never repay her back for taking care of her son.
ceciliavang86 4 months ago 2
Hello! I'm hmoob but I'm Hmong American. Lost my language when i was little. I was wondering what this song really about? I want to dedicate the song for my mom at my college graduation. I just like the song and it related of how i treated my mom terrible wrong when I was in my teenage years. Can u please help me out on this? I would appreciate very much.
gohan0917 4 months ago
@gohan0917 sure no problem.. the song is basically about a mom that has hopes of her two sons to find a nice and loving wife to love her when she gets old.. but it isn't what she expect, her sons are not man enough to take the their place as husband and can't control their wives.... the daughter in laws (there are two) are mean and force the mother and sister to go live somewhere else. she again sings that it is not worth her (the mother) sweat and love to raise her sons... she is sad..
aomjames 4 months ago
Anybody know what this movie is called? I need to find it.
derxia 4 months ago
yeah it true sometime mother-in-law are too......
yi1990kao 4 months ago
hey could you please upload the instrumental....thanx alot
khlubk1 4 months ago
@khlubk1 i don't think i have the software to do it... sorry..
aomjames 4 months ago
so sad..i cant no watch this
iliketoread1000 4 months ago
Some daughter-in-laws are unthoughtful and mean, but sometimes the mother-in-laws are too.
MrAndythai 4 months ago
can u pls upload the instrumental? i will sub(: thanks<3
STUNNAHSHAWTYY 5 months ago
This song makes me miss my mom and it also makes me cry. I cnt stand to see a elder cry weather its a man or women. it makes me cry if i see any of my elder or parents cry.
padeeLchia 5 months ago 4
I miss you mom! RIPARADISE 03/15/60-03/10/11
mnleebabe 5 months ago
can i please have the instrumental if you have it?
misselainevang 5 months ago
@misselainevang sorry i don't have it...
aomjames 4 months ago
sorry i don't have it...
aomjames 4 months ago
so sad my grandma actually go through this before she pass away. so sad my aunty doesn't like my grandma, but to me she is a mother. the song always make me cry :'(
yykibum 5 months ago
this movie made me cry!!!!!!!! soo sad!!
ipswichyangs 5 months ago
@ipswichyangs
can you uploaded this movie
nana00757 5 months ago
sad song here
pen817 5 months ago
every time i listen to this song, makes me cry. sometimes, it may not only be the nyab doing it to his parents but also the vauv that don't love her parents as much as she loves his. either way, it's breaks my heart when I hear some thing similar to it.
ladyang00 6 months ago 2
zoo heev phim rau cov nyab..
daochan9 6 months ago
Your video is mess up.
SuperJason91 6 months ago
@SuperJason91
uumm... i don't see anything wrong with it.. i think ur the one who's meesed up.... probably...
aomjames 6 months ago 6
tis song is sad
Chadwazup 6 months ago
i listened to this and boy it made me cry.... so freakn true.
cehsboi 6 months ago
maybe the 14 dislike are not hmong, they don't understand the meaning
gameking1231 6 months ago
hais rau txhua tus uas yog ntxhais thiab yog tubtib si.....thov hais rau cov ntxhaistxhua tus yog thaum nej sawv kev tawm hlam nej niam thiab txiv lub taw rooj mus ua nej lub neej lawm ces tsuas xav kom nej mus lub neej zoo hlub nej niam pog thiab txiv yawg thiab cov muas, cov khwv yau......qhov no yog qhov uas koj tus txiv thiab koj niam pog lawv xav tau tshaj......txhob pub nej niam lub kua muag poob rau nej nawb mog.........:)
yi1990kao 7 months ago
nice song
yi1990kao 7 months ago
Zaaj nkauj nuav yog ib zaaj kws tu sab kawg nkaus, yog thaum yug tau ib tug quas puj tsi txawj xaav, lub sab yaw, sab qa dlub, sab ndlai ntuj, tsi muaj lub sab zoo rua yug nam. Yug ceeb laaj ua lub neej laug tuag nrug tug quas puj nuav os. Txawm le caag los yug yuav tau saib xyuas zoo yug leej nam os peb ib tsoom tub txhua tug.
XAAVTAUKEVHLUB 7 months ago
love this song so much can someone post the instrument please
LubPajTswQab 7 months ago
All the more reasons to love your mom! Cherish every moment and tell her you love her.
resav23 7 months ago
you can replace your wife (if she's bad) but you can never replace your mother. you can replace a friend but you can never replace your brother or father.....replacing your mom is like cutting off your own arm. but then again there are bad mothers these days too. good moms are meant to be kept and loved forever.
xeronade 7 months ago
My mom crys everytime she watches this movie. Very sad & good
daonym 7 months ago
zaj nkauj no zoo heev, txawm yog thaum ub thiab tam sim no los tej laus yeej cia cia rau lawv tus tub nad. es yog tau tus nyab tsis zoo ces ntshe yuav tus sib sim neej li os.
MrKuvhlubkoj1 7 months ago
its so sad i cry so much
if i'm that guy i was just kick her out of the house and even hit here
putfaithinu 8 months ago
woow! it very shit
herpaothao80 8 months ago
i was just wondering do you have this movie on here?
vajimage10 9 months ago
@vajimage10 sorry no one has uploaded this movie on here yet...
aomjames 8 months ago
if it was me, i'll SLAP the FUCK out of that BITCH, BITCH!!
HmoobHawj1000 9 months ago
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HmoobHawj1000 9 months ago
I listened to this song long time ago and it made me cry!!!
cutiegurl1023 9 months ago
Without mother, you wouldn't get a wife that easy... so Why choose your wife instead your mom? This is sick! : (
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TheRice09 9 months ago
exx123456 tej niag tsov tom nyab no ua cas yuav phem ua luaj li ned.....
MrTouaxiong 9 months ago
Lmbo @ 2:58 i still laugh at that!!!
dazies1 9 months ago
if it was me, i'll DROP kick THAT damn WIfe of his!.
YojHmongVaJ 9 months ago 3
This song is so sad... I would cry.. if i ever do this to my mom....
BabycakeBlossomsx33 9 months ago
i wonder if they would have this movie on youtube lolz cuz i cant really find it no where.....can someone please upload it?
missinyoubabe 9 months ago
sad to say but some people are really like this... they make movies like this to set an example... please love both sides of your family........especially your mothers...
yourstrulyserena 9 months ago
just watching this mv makes me cry.
tearshiddeninmyheart 9 months ago
Does anyone know why she is not making anymore music/cd?
txablaurie 9 months ago
Does anyone know why she's not making anymore music/cd? She is one of my favorite singer. Her songs always has such deep meaning and she sings it beautifully.
txablaurie 9 months ago
Does anyone know why she's not making anymore music/cd? She is one of my favorite singer. Her songs always has such deep meaning and she sings it beautifully.
txablaurie 9 months ago
I wonder y they stopped doing this movie. It was so sad and good.
sexiliciousnally 10 months ago
thirteen people are bad nyab
SombersTale 10 months ago 13
@SombersTale
hahaha true that cause they dislike lolx
YojHmongVaJ 9 months ago
Thanks for sharing this song. This is such a sad song. Those who have never seen it happen will never know how much it hurts to see your love one be treated in such a bad way. so unacceptable.
MaiXYang 10 months ago
Do you know where i can buy this movie at?
CindyLovingVahn12 10 months ago
what is this movie called?
ShaoYee84 10 months ago
@ShaoYee84 Niam Lub Kua Muag.
vuestachick 9 months ago
This is why it is important to meet the parents first before marriage. Establishing good relationship with the family is key also. Many young couples married each other without knowing one whole background. I have a friend who wants to marry her bf, but she is having mix feelings that her bf's mother don't like her. They are planning to marry anyways and soon too so good luck to her.
pammi89 10 months ago
@pammi89
Most say it does not matter, as long as ya love each other then it is fine. I say no no to that if you are Hmong and especially if your family is still very traditional. Family is important. Most nyab nowadays don't understand the fact that It is not like American when you are married you are married to each other, But when you are Hmong, you are married him and his family, not to mention clans.
pammi89 10 months ago
@pammi89
that is why when one is divorce that say "don't marry those 'clan name' again, they are evil...blah, blah, blah..etc..." Anyways I talk too much. eheheh But this song is sad. Best wishes to all my Hmong fellows! ^_^
pammi89 10 months ago
oh crap! this song is a tear jerker
kulyia 10 months ago
i still be crying when i hear the song....even in the car
fated2love 10 months ago
@hmongxboy98-- i don't think its uploaded on here...
cuteangel18 10 months ago
@hmongxboy98--its the same as the song title...Niam Lub Kua Muag...Starring Tsav Npis Thoj
cuteangel18 10 months ago
they should sing a song about inlaws being mean to their good daughter inlaw
graciethao08 10 months ago 2
I choose my mother over my husband anytime if he's such an asshole like that girl in there. In this world I can always find a husband to love me, but in this world I can not find someone, who would love me like my mother.
myssLADYlee 11 months ago
Fobby song but the words are so sad it made me cry. Reminds me of my parents and my dumb-ass selfish brother and his wife.
3monkiesforme 11 months ago 2
this song is so sad...
ruk93 11 months ago
WHO EVER FUCKING DISLIKE THIS IS A SON OF A BITCH!!!! WHO THE FUCK IN THE WORLD WOULD NOT LOVE THEIR OWN MOTHER....SIAJ MAN........
MoBLuBSiAb4LiFe 11 months ago 2
Awh`s , this song is soooo sad ! my cousin sanged this for the hmong pagent thing , and my mom was crying . i can tell it touched many people`s heart , only if you sound like you meant it .
bootifullmhyy 11 months ago
This is happening to my grandma too , :'(
seeyang10 11 months ago
i agree wat goes around comes around...im not goin to tak sides...in my opinion it is all based on the persons heart n personality n how they were raise...in other words the environment they grew up wid..its not that the niam poj did tat to her in laws...is js that the nyab is jus plain mean...u wnt kno unless its u in their shoes...i know bc i seen it all...my nyabs are all lik dat to my mom widout a gewd reasn...n it makes me so freak mad...erggh...
kytco2010 1 year ago
danng i just can't stand watching these kind of videos. its sad.. :(
noujjoppa 1 year ago
13 people need a Doctor to fix their ears.
salor99999 1 year ago
there should be a song about nyab lub kua muag too, because sometimes tus niam pog is mean to tus nyab.
BeautyOfTalent 1 year ago
my wifes mom or should i say my bitch ass mother n law is a total bitch. She always tell my wife to leave me cause i dont go to fucken church and shit, Heck, my wife whole family is BITCH they only think about their bitch ass and dont care about others...
this1hater 1 year ago
@this1hater don't u hate people who always based things on man made religion and use it as an excuse
dededoi 1 year ago
@this1hater true, church?wheres jesus. lol
xifuseng 1 year ago
the wife is such a bitch!!!
cutiegurl1023 1 year ago
This is sooo sad!!!!!!!
cutiegurl1023 1 year ago
who needs a good nyab, tell me!
xifuseng 1 year ago
The 13 people dont like this may not be hmong gotta be so deform human from space ahaha
ovgproduction 1 year ago 33
awe everytime i watch this music video with the movie it makes me wanna cry!!! its so sad!! i cant believe the guy chose his wife over his mom!!! its makes me angry!!!
elmoly8 1 year ago
is there a movie on this?
hhh112206 1 year ago
Every time I listen to this song, it made me cry....
maycholovue 1 year ago
How could there be 13 people who hate this video. They must be the slut Nyab.
nujtxeej 1 year ago 4
lub neej ua nyab tsis yooj yim os law!!! Been there done that.
MsAnaconda2010 1 year ago 2
Aww so sad. Nyab's these days. And Im dealing with one right now.
MsNanceyVangel 1 year ago 3
Whenever I listen to this song makes me want to do better for my mother and father n law even though we had our moments. It reminds me that they don't have much time with us anymore, so I'm trying to cherish every moment of it with my mother and father n law.
maovanglo 1 year ago
Ladies, learn from your nyab. When it's your turn don't be that bitch.
Not pointing fingers of or addressing it towards anyone.
hert1028 1 year ago
Tsis tau raug dua ces yuav tsis paub. Ua nyab thiab ua niam pog ces yog ib txoj kev uas peb cov poj niam coob yuav khiav tsis dhau.
maycholovue 1 year ago
i think no matter what the situation maybe. if you are become a nyab, you should consider the things that you do to your husband mother as if you are treating your own mother... Peb cov girl in the hmoob society should remember that no matter how much our birth parents love us we will always be a "guest" in their house. Therefore, when we get marry we should love and respect in laws because they are the parents that you will have to take care and be responsible til death...
Maimay07 1 year ago 2
imma try to sing this song for a requested from a friend... thankz for the upload - mainia ^^
nianpao 1 year ago
@nianpao do it and upload it
dededoi 1 year ago
@dededoi ok thank u for ur support ^^
- mainia
nianpao 1 year ago
Hey, I've been thru enuff craps with the nyab. She lives with us for 5 yrs and left with my bro and kids without telling us where they lived but me and my mom were crying why she hurting us so much that we became heartbroken. But as yrs passes by and see what happened to them...They sows what they reaps...-NPAM tiag tiag li cov laug hais ntag. Yug ua zoo yug ua siab ntev tau ntuj ntoos tiag tiag os lawm aws. Koj raug koj mam paub how we feel the pains.
GaoHlub123 1 year ago
some nyab kws hais tias nws tseem yog neeg sab nrau xwb tsis tau yog ua yug tsevneeg kiag li...nws tias nws tsis hlub nws tus hubby's tsevneeg ib txhis tsuas yog yuav for money xwb...thiab nws muab nws tus hubby's tsevneeg rhuav rau niamtais mloog tias lawm phem xwb...tabsis txawm yog nws hais niampog rau niamtais mloog tag lawm los zoo nkaus li nws rov qab rhuav nws lub neej tsis zoo xwb os. nws twb yog neeg txomnyem los cas nws tsis txawj hlub hubby's tsevneeg kiag li.
GaoHlub123 1 year ago
Wow one of great song, but who is the bad guy here?
Is the son or daughter -in-law?
us girl should learn something if you have a sister in-law like that, you don't like it than when you uas nyab you should think twice and be good.....lol.
HaKuNaMaTaTa2002 1 year ago
whenever i see this song it make me cry. cause i feel very cry for them i mean like i have only one bro n his wives try to called the copes like all the time. Do they knw how hurt it is for my mom.whenever they did it to my family i just want them to STFu cause it's very hard for my family to have a sister in law like this. i meant like her mom is been bitches too.
laughablegurl 1 year ago
i'm always sad when i listen to this song
juniperdragon 1 year ago
Well, ya gotta admit, that Nyab is quite the looker. LOL
derxia 1 year ago
this movie is soooo sad...
BeautyOfTalent 1 year ago
iits sad if u r a girl and ur mom can't live with u and she live with ur brother n he can't be a man and let his wife treat ur mom hella mean...
mzsexyluss 1 year ago 3
The title of the song is the title of the movie... If I have a choice between my mom or my wife, by all means I choose my mom without a second thought...I can always replce my wife but I can never replace my parents...keep that in mind ppl...I kno a few couple here in the US that dosent give a shit bout their parents n let their parents struggle, shame on their kids..What goes around come back around...
gogohmoobboy 1 year ago 69
@gogohmoobboy, what you say is true however, when it comes to finding a love, that love should love your parents too; my in laws love my parents as much as we do, you should not have to choose between your parents and your love; be wise in the love you choose. when we are young we do not appreciate our parents, but when one day when we become older and wiser and have kids, we know then our parents are important to us.
svan0001 1 year ago
@gogohmoobboy, what you say is true however, when it comes to finding a love, that love should love your parents too; my in laws love my parents as much as we do, you should not have to choose between your parents and your love; be wise in the love you choose. when we are young we do not appreciate our parents, but when one day when we become older and wiser and have kids, we know then our parents are important to us hopefully not too late.
svan0001 1 year ago
whats the name of the movie?
mhchue 1 year ago
I'm not going to take side blaming on nyab or niampog, but cov laus hais tias NPAM maybe she used to do that to her In-Law lawm es nim no her nyab thiaj li ua rau her the same she did. Come on people, that just a song xwb las mas.
Chai2598 1 year ago 7
@Chai2598 what if the mom didnt do that
xifuseng 1 year ago
@xifuseng Then 1 day her Nyab will threat her twice bader than what she did to her Niampog. Ha ha ha!!!!
Chai2598 1 year ago
@Chai2598 you said the mother used to do that to her in law so now her nyab thiaj li ua rau her the same?? that meant the nyab used to be the mother niampog too? and the mother used to be the niampog's niampog too? right? and they used to threat each other for generation over generation? right? and when the nyab is a mother the niampog will be the nyab again to threat her ? right?
Probably you confuse what i said read this ever and over!
highang 1 year ago
@highang Na, I don't know nothing bout redie/rebirth and back to ua nyab & niampog again to revenge tiam to tiam. What I'm saying is a "CURES". Like if U do bad to Ur parents then one day Ur kids going to do to you the same to you. If you understand the meaning of "CURES" then you know what I'm saying.
Pakoukers110 11 months ago
I love mom so much when i hear this song.... i never try to hurt my mom ..keep it up
hlub001 1 year ago
This is so sad.. Reminds me of my mom too.. She tries her best to make my brothers have a good life but they take advantage of her and when things go bad they blame it on her.. I feel so sorry for my mom because she only have two sons and both their wives are bitches.. They both are pussy whipped!..
BeautifulThoj 1 year ago
Love this song
baBiesMiL3 1 year ago
have you guys heard, "yog niam txiv phes yuav phes mus tag ib sim yog nws phes yuav phes ib chim?" I think that's what it's said lol but yea take that to considerate.
TuagVimKoj 1 year ago
COULD SOMEONE PLEASE UPLOAD "NIAM LUB KUA MUAG" MOVIE!!!! I WANT TO WATCH IT SOO BAD! OR IF SOMEONE HAVE THE MOVIE COVER, GIVE ME THE NUMBER ON THE BACK SO I CAN CALL TO ORDER ME ONE!
whytetearz 1 year ago
@whytetearz i bought this movie 4 my mom 3 years ago. when i go visit her i watch it sometimes... ill look 4 the number 4 u k. there are 2 parts... i dont like the 2nd one...
kuvncokoj1leeg 1 year ago
there nice mothers and then there are mean mothers.
the nice mothers always get crappy nyabs and vice versa with the mean mothers.
with mean mothers...the only way to stay alive is show that devil woman you can be ten times better than she is....
make yo food better....make your house cleaner, work that garden! old people nag because they think the younger generation won't live up to expectations.
make yo own expectations that will excell so well that all they could do is bite there tongue
veggyher 1 year ago
AS==I'm sorry! But do you know what is this movie call?
Japaneseandkoreanlov 1 year ago
this song is so freakin sad. :(
icommentwonderfully 1 year ago
i love this song to because if you listen you will have a good life and it makes me cry.
khou65448 1 year ago
love the song & it's so sad... ):
yiavue1 1 year ago
but sometime its the woman too ya know it can always be on us
NOUCHENGVANG 1 year ago
..does anyone know the title of this movie with these actors and actresses?
msshengyang 1 year ago
@msshengyang Yes, the movie is called, Niam Lub Kua Muag, It's Cha Bee Thao production. It have two parts. I hope this answer your question. Good luck, hope you can find it.
HlubTshajTxojSia 1 year ago
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yiavue1 1 year ago
I'm glad that i dont have the movie and have not seen it..i know for sure that if i seen this movie, i'll cry my heart out...this song and the video is already making me cry...and yes i know that some moms out there really do need a good nyab...
Iriea09 1 year ago
does anyone have this movie...if anyone do, PLEASE do upload it so i can watch it, especially part 2
autumnnoahgracie 1 year ago
this is so sad
lilovanggirl 1 year ago
@lilovanggirl WHEN WHO WATCH THIS VIDEIO, HELL SAD THAT DAUGHTER IN LAW WAS SO BAD. EVERYTIME LISTEN THIS SONG, FELL SAD
XAAVTAUKEVHLUB 1 year ago
OH...so SAD! this song makes me sad every time i listen to it cause that's how my ex-nyab was. i was young like the sister in the music video too so i couldn't help my mom much either...sooo SAD...but i think God likes to mix it up, he gives the good daughter-in-laws to the mean mother-in-laws and mean daughter-in-laws to the good mother-in-laws...maybe. ^_^....
nkaujhmoobmuas 1 year ago
Sons who are like him should GO TO HELL!
and the Nyabs you are married with their son for
1. to help out the family
2. To Cook For his parents because hey are older now
3. to be a role model
PATHETIC SHIT!
but yes i know its a video lol
but its so damn sad!! making me cryy
--MaivNtxawmXyooj
Dragon1me2 1 year ago
Zaaj kauj nuav yog ib zaaj kws ncu txug leej nam txuj kev hlub. Peb txhua leej hab txhua tug yuav tau xaa txug leej nam txuj kev zoo. Ua tsaug rua Maiv Lug Xyooj lub suab hu zaaj nkauj nuav. Yog ib txuj nkauj txhawb peb ib tsoom Moob txhua tug lub dlaag lub zug.
XAAVTAUKEVHLUB 1 year ago
wow reading wat all of u guys writing this makes me sad already....
i dont have a sis-n-law yet soo i dont kno how it really feels in person
but hearing it is sad enough already
deystiny 1 year ago
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@ Sammiexyooj & donnie467. I guess we are the ones with unfortunate poeple in our lives. My mom's Mother-in-law was an ass to my mother. They treated her really badly back in laos. Now that she was able to bring them to the U.S they are starting to like her a little bit. I guess just for the hell of it. But then my brother got married and his wife is an asshole to my mother too. I don't think she deserves all the pains that she is getting right now.
fattyvang 1 year ago
@ Sammiexyooj & donnie467. I guess we are the ones with unfortunate poeple in our lives. My mom's Mother-in-law was an ass to my mother. They treated her really badly back in laos. Now that she was able to bring them to the U.S they are starting to like her a little bit. I guess just for the hell of it. But then my brother got married and his wife is an asshole to my mother too. I don't think she deserves all the pains that she is getting right now.
fattyvang 1 year ago
@sammiexyooj-That's my mom who suffer all their pains they had cause her.I really hate them for treating her that way.My mom just past away last year and they didn't even bother to come to the funeral.When she was sick, she wanted to see them one last time, but they never bother to call & check up on her and visit her.Thinking about this, makes me so angry and pissed off.I reallly HATE them now and will never forgive my nyab and so call brother.They're not my familys anymore after my mom died.
donnie467 1 year ago
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donnie467 1 year ago
@sammiexyooj-I'm sorry to hear about yours..Yes, you just have to make life better and succeed it all the way...MAke them know that you are a good nyab too..Not the way the in laws would think or said.
True.IT's the son's fault who is not man enough to take control in the first place.My mom loved them very much, but they both were really cruel to her for the past 10 years now..She hasn't even seen them for this long..They never bother try to visit her, but came to visit her parents instead.
donnie467 1 year ago
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donnie467 1 year ago
@shenghlubteng37-thanks...I am sorry to hear about what happen to u too..My nyab was pretty much like yours too.
.At first, she was really nice and all, but after she had her daughter, it all changes...She hated my mom and won't let my mom eat anything that she buys for her & my brother...When she cooks, she never invites my mom to eat..My nyab wouldn't let my mom hold her own granddaughter..It was my mom's very first granddaughter too...I was young and can't do anything..
donnie467 1 year ago
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Chueyim 1 year ago
dangg tis song is soo sad....the movie is reli sad too
ROCKIEVANGIE 1 year ago
From personal experience, my mom's been through all these pains & more from her own son & nyab.They didn't even loved her a bit.Treated her soo bad and made her cry each & everyday..They moved far away out of state and made no contacts with her.He was her only son..And no, it was never my mom's fault on not liking her nyab.It was my nyab who didn't like her.My mom just past away last year of heart broken.They are cruel & evil, didn't show up for her funeral.what goes around, comes around.
donnie467 1 year ago
@donnie467
awww i'm sorry for your lost. My nyab (not anymore) was like that too, they got married at such a young age that she never get along with either of us (the family) she never brought up a conversation and talk to my parents. She even cost $10,000 when the wedding was held. Now what, today my brother just moved to Georgia because she listen too much of her mom's blabbing and dump my brother, won't even let him see his kids for one last time.
shenghlubteng37 1 year ago
@donnie467
And when she was living with us, she never wanted to, always telling my brother to take her to visit her mom. She never know when to cook and she influence my brother to be a bad person, having gambling problems just because of her. She wanted to move so bad that she told my brother to sneak out the window. Got caught by my parents and they moved without telling us. We had to find out. It was my parent's first time crying for one of us, and it had to be my oldest brother.
shenghlubteng37 1 year ago
@donnie467 sorry to heard about your nyab being a ass but its the son's who can't be man enough to step up and take control. i'm a nyab myself and their is no such perfect nyab. my problem was the other way around. getting marry to the only son and child, got kick out becuz of their son & parents disagree, mother-in-law tells the whole world your a bad nyab, when non of the OG cousin like her. work hard and start from scratch, make my life have everything i want and that is when they cameback
sammiexyooj 1 year ago
saying we love our mommy and showing that we love them are two very diffrent thing.so if we can let's not only say that we love them but show it, and if u have a big enough heart don't just cere for yr mommy but all the "good" and "wonderful" mothers in the wourld pleace.
meispax 1 year ago
kuv xav mas cov nyab tim meska no ces yeej zoo li no xwb tiag luag yeej tsis hlub yus li xav mas tuag zoo dua yog nej muaj lus dab tsi tso pub peb saib thiab sau npe
xyooblis
miltowndumbo 1 year ago
I've witnessed both sides of the story. F*ck those who are mean to others.
berry24 1 year ago 2
wat vol is dis?
PajHuab16 1 year ago
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww i love my mama
t0utube 1 year ago
ohh this so sad....at 2:38 how the mom got kit out..
highang 1 year ago
anybody knoe the title for this movie i would like to buy it.
BEASTLYLOVED2PMBB 1 year ago
@BEASTLYLOVED2PMBB--its called Niam Lub Kua Muag...music video and movie have same name title....
cuteangel18 1 year ago
this song makes me sad... i love my mom!!
kwona 1 year ago
This-mv-makes-me-cry-b/c-my-sister-in-law-treats-my-mom-like-this-but,-my-brother-can-not-do-anything-about-it.--I-feel-sad-for-my-mom-but-told-her-that-what-goes-around-comes-around.--My-sister-in-law-has-two-son...someday-she'll-get-her-turn.--Even-if-my-mom-is-no-longer-living...I'm-still-here...I'll-witness-the-moment.
hlubkojxwb2010 1 year ago
the movie was reallie sad....
i'm not an angel but still
how cruel
chameexiong 1 year ago
My dad like this song and my mom like this song I don't know about my mom.
thaoamy35 1 year ago