she better learn how to work it like "ruth" go down to the threshing floor AFTER boaz is half sleep and drunk!! oh and don't forget to oil yourself up...
Black people, your last and only chance is Louis Farrakhan. If you don't do as quickly as possible what that man said to do, your race will be totally destroy.
When black women find out that i don't go to church that is usually the end of us getting to know each other.I wonder how many good black are thrown back because they won't play make believe.
People need to stop acting as if being single is a curse. Having a mate is no prescription for happiness. I know alot of married people who were unhappy.
Then for all that she should just be a damn nun!! And what stupid on her part is that the man said if you meet a man that is right for you and he is everything on your list but god said no what are u gonna do? She said run lmao!! Wow this is crazy I'm glad we are finally waking up! 2012
to be honest I'm surprised she hasn't taken her vows to become a nun. To be honest yes I agree people are waking up that's great, but if you want to pursue your belief like her then like her she needs to show her convictions and take those vows to become a nun. Because well simply put nuns are like that, plus she'll actually have real status XD Anyway 2012 all the way
1:14 This GIRL just read herself. If you still single and well above thirty your relationship advice has been revoked, wearin that tired ass pink suit, GIRL BYE!
They always place the ugliest or fattest (or both) black broads on TV. This one is ugly and brainwashed! She'll be single until she dies. If Jesus is her man, then that's a one-sided relationship.
She done got on my nerves. I do believe in prayer but I also believe in taking responsibility. She is using her god as a mr. fix it all. Perhaps he wants her to stay single :-)
REWRITE: I say no to undercover agape men. If you looking for a man that "love's" the biblical GOD (more than you), and is totally into you, your waiting for a while. That brother might be GAY!
I can't stop laughing! Single Black women, I rather have a man that the woman and man together creates life. Than a man who thinks that a woman is an abomination and worships the symbol of death.
This is delusional to hear this woman speak, all this God this, God that all this bullshit about prayer and she has not found a man? I could see why she's by herself and will continue to be by herself..These are the same perverts molesting children, sexing the married pastors, have all these children with different men and act so damn pious..Yeah, stay by you damn self because you have mental health issues that should not be visited upon anyone else...
Just watched again, she said she want man that was in love god. The god figure of xstianity is a male, no wonder she's single. She's praying for a gay man to be her mate. So glad I didn't grow up indoctrinated!!!
I pray that sweet white Jesus will send me a freak like this sister. She doesn't think we know how she gets when the lights are turned off. Don't make me tell you about the way-back-when days...be hollering Jesus name so loud the neighbors start pounding the ceiling.
Another great vid! See this is a classic example why some simple-minded women like her make some brothas date other races of women due to lack of thinking outside religion & church. The solution is simple: you want to find and keep a good man, take religion away, think for yourself, improve yourself and the rest will follow.
This video is more of a "slave sermon" than anything else. Grossly distorting the life of a woman trying to live right is disgusting. To act as if "religion" is the main cause of problems in relationships, when premarital sex and other immoral actions cause more problems, is insane. This is no more than an exercise in special pleading and distortion. Typical of dishonest unbelief. Bertrand Russell had more sense.
Funny why would you ask "god" to "REMOVE THE LONELINESS" that is idiotic.. if you are going to pray, ask for the LONELINESS TO BE ELIMINATED BY GIVING YOU A MATE!!! Duhhhh!!! If you are reading Genesis, even the creator was SOLUTION ORIENTED.. didn't "take the lonely feeling" away from Adam.. but GAVE HIM A MATE!! foolishness abounds .. this lady is messed up mentally.
I used to be like that.. a lil bit.. (giggles) it was the church conditioning.. nothing wrong with wanting a "good man.." a "godly man"..but some of the requirements sound like they are looking for a mythological character (Geezeus) I will not be a 40yo gal with no husband and no chirren cause I couldn't find a man that would go to church 5 times a week, etc. I don't even go anymore. Being "busy in
" the IMAGINARY "kingdom " is NOT a practical solution nor has it PROVEN to bring desired results
agreed best comment ever black women need to stay away from the church and stop being manipulated whereas other groups of women are getting married. it's time to start addressing the issues head on.
THIS VID MAKES ME THINK ABOUT A FEW X GIRLFRIENDS WHO ARE JUST AS CRAZY AS THIS DIZZY BITCH ON HERE. IT JUST MAKES ME ANGRY ALL OVER AGAIN THAT IT IS A FALSE GOD(ALLAH AND JESUS INCLUDED) THAT CAUSES PEOPLE TO BREAK UP. IF IT WASNT FOR THIS JESUS BULLSHIT I COULD PERHAPS HAVE A HAPPY FAM BY NOW BUT NOOOO! 5stars on this piece.
LOL!! This is CRAZZEE!! She was talking to much I don't think she even realized she came close to contradicting herself! Back and Forth! This is Cognitive Dissonance at its best! Great Video, Jeremiah.
Either this lady is insane or she ain't been praying right. Who the hell is gonna take this kinda advice from a lady her age and still single.
This religion thing is for slave making and slave keeping. The only thing slavery every brought Black people was dirty ass knees and broke pockets. Here it is 2011 and some still worshiping white people and scared not to. Our brains have really been trashed.
BULLSHIT, serving the church will not warm your bed @ night, protect you, give you children, help put food on the table, or lay some pipe. I'm tolerant of Christians, it's their intolerance, blind believe, and forcing their religion down other peoples throat that bothers me. that I look foward to every addition of your series.
I'm an atheist, happily child-free by choice, and anti-marriage, but seeing this poor deluded girl ramble on about her dependency on fairy tales makes me sad in a way, but the upside is no man is having his ears rotting away because of her non-stop Jesus talk and no kids will ever be indoctrinated and brainwashed by her.
As I watched this "single" black woman, I thought about J A Rogers when he wrote "the slogan of the Negro devotee is: Take the world but give me Jesus, and the white man strikes an eager bargain". I agree the interviewer had smirk, at least she don't have kids she's indoctrinating... Great video
She seemed to be happy with her life with the decisions she has made. Of course, she was in front of the camera. More power to her. This video was funny with the editing.
HYSTERICAL!!!!! This woman is so dellusional. Most women love the "image" of Mr. Right, instead of the man with flaws like any other human. These same women with out of wedlock kids will raise their sons to be this dellusional, non realistic man that they have never seen themselves. This is so on point
@BlackSkinnedWarrior "If only these women put the same sort of emphasis into nation building."
I'm wondering if men put emphasis on nation building'. When you have the majority of inmates behind bars are black men, the majority of high school drop outs are black men, the men who are abandoning their families, not marrying the women they make babies with, men who are not seeking college education at the same rate as women, who exactly is demolishing the 'nation building?
@nancydrew5 I can't argue with that because I know too well that that is the reality we face with our men also, Our entire people as a whole are in serious need of waking up from this lame state of mind that is embedded in us.
Great Video. Ive talked to sistas that have told me "I dont need a man Jesus is my man"! This Imaginary Jesus cant keep them warm at night when they're cold and he cant stroke that little man in tha boat ,he cant scratch that itch when they get that tingle. These sistas need to stop liveing in Fantasyland and then maybe they will meet and be mentally ready for that Mister Right. This way of thinking will just continue to leave them with a cold bed at night and Cobwebs.
This video clearly shows how the black women in America especially has been victumized by the christian church. The uphold the church and the imaginary christ before all others. I know this personally and unfortunately, the black women instills these values into their children. It is a real shame and I hope the young people wake up to the game soon. Good work Jeremiah
Is there at least one comment that leaves her brain and comes out her mouth based on reality? GOD, GOD, GOD, GOD, GOD. It sounds to me that if everyone died on this planet except her she would be ok as long as she has God. What B.S. Any reasonable theist would at least admit that God isn't the only thing that gets them through the day. This sounds like a big F you to everyone in her life to me.
@JJPHILLYLG : Exactly JJPHILLYG3. If you ask 1000 people, you will get 1000 different answers. It's just an ambiguous statement that has no grounding and is unverifiable. The basis of all religion is grounded in ambiguity.
Just because black men are not physically in the church, it does not mean that they are not EQUALLY affected by the church. Christian/white values are all around us.
Just because men are not physically in the church, does not mean that they are not just as affected by the church. Christian values/white values are everywhere.
If you want to destroy a nation, go after that nation's women...Black women have been destroyed by the church....the proof is in the pudding....look at our communities
@dame2809 "Black women have been destroyed by the church....the proof is in the pudding....look at our communities"
But its the black man who is behind prison bars in droves, who is dropping out of high school and not seeking higher education. In 2011 black women outnumber black men in college and black women are more independent career wise and financially than they have ever been. Meanwhile stats show the black man can't keep up, so who is destroying 'our community and abandoning family?
This mf will be a pile of dust on her sofa waiting GAWD to send her a man. Who would want to hear this shit she is talking for the rest of their lives? I'd sooner blow my brains out. She has nothing to run away from. As soon as she opens her mouth, no man would hang around long enough to hear her say GAWD a second time. Sheeple, you gotta laugh at 'em!
Note how the white guy has a smiirk on his face while she's explaining her love of Jesus. In the back of his mind he's thinking..single woman, no man in her life, no children, she's getting older...this is genocide of the Black Family.
Im no Christian nor athiest but of coufse christians are gonna have a higher divorce rate than atheist. There are a billion+ more christians than atheist.
Brother, I tell you. I do believe that if there is a God, he is far beyond our understanding and a book written 2000 years ago is not the way to get to him.
It's always funny to me how they emphasize this "doctrine" for the women/girls, but for the men/boys it's a whole different standard. How many men/boys are saving themselves (virgins), and waiting for ms religious right? how many men, in the church, have you heard say "i don't need a woman, the lord is my woman"? i have NEVER heard/known of a christian man who says he's going to be alone (for years), until he finds the right christian woman (nor he is not "expected" to be). GREAT VID!
@outoftwnr22 "It's always funny to me how they emphasize this "doctrine" for the women/girls, but for the men/boys it's a whole different standard."
That's because religion is created by men for men and the sole purpose of it is to control women. Even these men who sit and make fun of the woman in the video still hold religious patriarchal beliefs and none are willing to examine themselves and what they can do to be better men. Women are socialized to want marriage, brainwashed by religion.
I bet when she gets horny (to the point she can't take it anymore) she gives in and masturbates. Then she repents to sweet Jesus- for the millionth time lol
I've always said, if these black women would love their men the way they love imaginary Jesus, the black community would be at the top, instead of struggling at the bottom. I already know where a woman's mind is at when she says, "Jesus is first in her life"
@snakejohnson I've always said, if these black men would love their women the way they love to exploit them, treat them as jump offs, get them pregnancy, skeeting and running, abandoning the black women and doing all kinds of things, black men do, but if black men would truly love and respect and uplift the black woman instead of doing what he does, the black community would be at the top instead of struggling at the bottom with single mother headed homes cause the black man isn't there.
@nancydrew5 Hey, if you want a man that's going to stick around, you have to actually date a real man first. Real black men don't treat real black women like jump offs. Sounds like you are talking about the buffoons that walk around with their pants sagging and the hoes that love them. And no one can "get" a woman pregnant. Like you ladies always say "it takes two to tango" . You don't open your legs unless you want to. There is no excuse for unwanted pregnancy.
@snakejohnson No snakejohnson, since you are not a woman, you have no place to say what women encounter. I'm engaged, however plenty of men from all walks of life treat women like jump offs. you have married men cheating on their wives, college educated men treating women like jump offs, wanting wife benefits but not ready to commit. committment phobes aren't relegated to thugs. So called 'good men' always think that they are immune to dogging women out when they are guilty of doing just that
@snakejohnson You don't open your legs unless you want to. There is no excuse for unwanted pregnancy. "
And you don't put your dick inside her vagina unless you want to, so there is no excuse for a man inserting his dick inside of a woman and ejaculating inside of her then acting surprised when she turns up pregnant. A man can have responsible sex, that's what condoms are there for. No woman forces a man to ejaculate inside of her. A real man can always say no and walk away from the pussy.
@nancydrew5 Nancy, you sound like a very confused woman. What has feminism taught us about women. "IT'S MY BODY, MY CHOICE" Either you respect your body or you don't sista. You can't have it both ways. Unless you are raped, it is the woman's choice who they let into their body. If you are letting men go in you raw with no condom, WHAT DO YOU EXPECT TO HAPPEN. The only man that should do that is your husband. I don't see what is so difficult to understand.
@snakejohnson YOu sound like a double standard sexist man who thinks any woman who doesn't agree with you is wrong. You think and act entitled to be right just because you are a man and that women are supposed to go along with what you say and be in agreement. I don't have any kids but I am engaged to be married this fall. I am educated, financially successful and doing well for myself so save your erroneous cybperspace diagnosis for someone else. Not every woman is ghetto
@nancydrew5 I'm not sexist at all. If what you say about yourself is true, than I am on your side. If you are being a responsible woman who has decided to get married first before you become a mother, than I have nothing but the utmost respect for you. And you say not every woman is ghetto, but there are enough of them out there. And it's partially your fault, because good women like you don't say anything against the bastard baby makers. Men like me fight tooth and nail against the deadbeats.
@snakejohnson Until you answer the specific questions about YOUR behavior, you have no room to condemn women because men are part of the problem. Women don't get pregnant by themselves. If you are one of those men who sexed up women sans marriage how can you then turn around and condemn the women? Again were you a virgin before marriage? Are you a baby daddy? How many women did you sex up? Turn that focus back on the men and what they need to be doing but it's easy to blame shift
@nancydrew5 And I am not gonna pat you on the back for being educated and financially successful. I expect that from an intelligent black woman. What I don't like is when the educated sistas make excuses for the ghetto trash. It's like their this sisterhood to defend dumb hoe behavior. I don't associate with deadbeat and lowlife negroes. You should do the same.
@snakejohnson I am not going to pat you on the back for being the typical double standard sexist male who thinks because he is male he is right. What I am going to do is call you out on deflecting and refusing to put the onus on men for their egregious behavior towards women. How you continue to deflect and blame shift and point the finger at what women should/could do while refusing to focus on what men need to be doing.
@snakejohnson continued: "How you continue to hold women to a standard that perhaps you don't even meet. I've asked you specific questions about how you conducted yourself sexually towards women and you've refused to answer them. Yet you all up and down this thread telling women how they should be but refusing to answer how you are. Again, were you a virgin when you married? How many women did you sex up? Are you a baby daddy? Answer ..You can't call women out on behavior you don't meet.
@nancydrew5 I do have standards for my behavior. That is why I can judge. I had a real example from my grandparents how a real man and woman should act.
So you condone what this woman in this video is saying according to your standards. She should remain chaste and wait on the Lord to give her the right man. She should remain a virgin (if she is one). You talk out of both sides of your neck. You put this woman down for her beliefs, which are actually the same as yours. Women talk like this because men like you are judging them purely based on what they've done with their vaginas. Stop judging women.
@snakejohnson You need to be judging men. And men love to talk about their mothers and grandmothers. You just said you were married, so why go back and pull up your grandparents, what about you and your wife. I know I wouldn't want the type of marriage my grandmother had. Women got married back then because they had to and the men were religous, pious double standard and condeming. Traditional marriages sucked for women back in my grandmother's day but they had no choice.
@nancydrew5 BTW I always uplift the black woman. But I despise hoes. Real black women like my wife and her family knew how to respect a man. They also knew not to be out in the streets letting every moron have sex with them. They stayed virgins till they got married. Isn't that what your Bible teaches you?
@snakejohnson "BTW I always uplift the black woman. But I despise hoes." I have to laugh at the irony of men like you who put down women who are religious yet you adhere to the double standard religious teachings of the bible that condemn women for the very same sexual acts that uplift men. Men are praised and encouraged to 'sow their wild oats' until they meet the 'right woman' to settle them down. If a woman sows her oats she is a ho. It's all jedi mind tricks and BS brainwash by men
@nancydrew5 Once again nancy it is all about having respect for your body. I do not advocate men "soiling their oats" And a woman can't soil her oats, she only gets soiled by other men. No man wants a woman that has been run through to be his wife. That's just the bottom line. Now I do think if a man makes a baby he should take responsibility to take care of the child. I hate men who are out here just banging women and breeding like animals. But I hate the women that do it too.
@snakejohnson " In 2011 no woman wants a double standard sexist minded man who thinks he is right just because he is a man and no woman wants a man who has gotten soiled by skeeting and running through women. The same expectations you put on women put right back on yourself. Were you a virgin before you got married snakejohnson? Are you a baby daddy? Did you marry the women you sexed up? Answer those questions instead of attacking me in order to deflect focus off of you.
@snakejohnson "Once again nancy it is all about having respect for your body."
Did you have respect for your body and that of women? Did you sleep with numerous women? Did you marry the woman you slept with? How many women did you sex up before you got married? How many women did you 'soil with your dick? Why do you hold women to a different standard than you can meet yourself? Men can have morals and character. They can walk away from sex. Men have the power to say no. That's all on men
@nancydrew5 And you sound like someone that has several bastard babies hanging off of them. You should have made better choices in your life. You can't blame the men for getting you pregnant. That's the reason the bible teaches women not to be whores. Because your body is supposed to be sacred. You bare the child, it's your body that goes through all of the changes. Why would you not want to share that only with a man that you love, instead of letting every lowlife use you like a human toilet.
@snakejohnson You said that you expect women to be virgins like your wife was when you married her and that no man wants a woman who has been run through by men. Answer these questions about your sexual character and history. (1) Were you a virgin when you got married? (2) Did you sex up women? (3) why didn't you marry the women you sexed up (if you didn't). Are you a baby daddy? Can you meet the same moral sexual standards in your behavior hat you expect from women?
@nancydrew5 I was a virgin when I got married. There was a teenage girl that tried to take advantage of me when I was 10, but I am sure you agree that is not a proper sexual experience. And no I don't have any children. I went out on dates with girls but I wouldn't get to close unless I wanted a serious relationship. In fact I found myself alone a lot of the time because I could not find a decent woman to be with. At least not until I met my wife.
@snakejohnson Just because you chose to be a virgin when you got married, you don't get to set that standard for everyone else. The problem is that men use a woman's sexuality to judge her character. A man won't know unless a woman told him, how many men she's slept with, just like a woman wouldn't know unless a man told her. Too many men put too much weight on what a woman has done with 'her body' her pussy'. It's her pussy not yours and hers to do with what she pleases.
@nancydrew5 See, I was taking you seriously before, but now I see that you are full of it. You first tried to challenge my life style, then when you found out that I practice what I preach, you say I can't hold everyone to my standard. It's either one way or the other my friend. You can't have it both ways.
@snakejohnson Just because you use virginity as the gold stamp of approval on marriage, doesn't mean you can impose your judgment on other couples. Plenty of people make successful marriages and they aren't virgins when they meet. Plenty of people get married who are virgins and end up getting divorced. A marriage is not all about whether someone is a virgin or not . Marriage is much more than about sex. You do what is right for you and that's all that counts.
@snakejohnson The value of a woman lies in how she is when you meet her and how you and she connect and treat each other, not in what she did with her body when she wasn't even involved with you. Before I got engaged, a dude who would come at me with that kind of sexist talk like you are doing, would never even get past date one. That type of narrow minded thinking does not go down well with me and would not bode well for the future. Men like that tend to be insecure and overtly jealous
Of course you were. Of course you would answer this way, to do so in any other way would oppose the hypocrisy of what you've been saying all along. So you were a straight up virgin huh, no oral sex, or anything, did you kiss? Feel up women? Do any of that. Sure I don't believe you but whatever, you're a stranger in cyberspace. A religious bible thumping stranger just like Jeremiah talks about which is why the woman in the video is drying up
@nancydrew5 I am actually an agnostic. That's why I watch Jeremiah's videos. And now I see that your just trying to find anyway around what I said. Deep down you know I am right, you just seem to be a selfish person who wants to have things your way. You think it's okay to have every tom dick and harry skeet all over you when you're young, and then when you get old you expect a decent man to come and wife you up. Like I said, you can't have it both ways.
@nancydrew5 No oral sex either man. Why would I put my mouth somewhere if I would not put my penis there. That would be hypocritical. So I said no to that to. You claim that men have to be real men and say no to pussy, then when you meet one, you still attack him. That's part of your problem. You don't recognize a real man when you meet one.
@snakejohnson lOL at you. You are a trip. I think part of your problem is you and I have different ideas of what constitutes a real man. You base everything on sex and I don't. Then you expect people to co-sign with how you think because you claim you are a real man and therefore you are supposed to be right. Anyway it's been fun but gotta run, happy marriage to you snake. What was that gramama klump said in the nutty professor about sherman being a virgin all that sex just gonna explode!
@snakejohnson Did you stay a virgin until you got married? Didn't your bible teach you that? isn't that what real men do? Stay off the streets and stop skeeting and running and screwing every woman just because you can? Don't real men keep it in their pants and not make babies they aren't prepared to marry the mother and be an active father and make a legitimate family? Didn't the bible teach real men that? See this is what I'm talking about. Why don't you focus on that?
@snakejohnson "They also knew not to be out in the streets letting every moron have sex with them. They stayed virgins till they got married. Isn't that what your Bible teaches you?'
Women are damned if they do and damned if they don't. That's why women need to do what makes them happy. Men make fun of them if they do like this woman in the video and stay chaste waiting on the lord, meanwhile the man is not doing that. But if a woman is enjoying herself same as man she is a ho.
@snakejohnson 'They also knew not to be out in the streets letting every moron have sex with them. They stayed virgins till they got married. Isn't that what your Bible teaches you?"
Men seem to hold women to a sexual standard that they themselves don't adhere to meanwhile they make fun of the very women who sit in church lonely waiting for a man. Now I see why women like the one in the video talk like she does. She is brainwashed or should I say 'manwashed to pleasing a double standard. BS!
@pcmiler2000 I'm not throwing the men under the bus. Why is it that all these men all up and down this thread can deride this woman, and talk about how black women are letting down the black community by what they say do and think and the minute a black woman says that about a black man she is supposed to be throwing him under the bus? What yall can dish out the criticism but don't want it directed back at you? That's a double standard right there and exactly how religion teaches.
@pcmiler2000 YOu like a lot of other men think all women go around dating thugs. I have never dated a thug, but men dog women out from all walks of life, too many examples to name. College educated men, docs, lawyers, accountants all dog women out. So stop the madness. I have friends who have been dogged out by men who would be considered upstanding based on their 'job'. But they cheated and dogged out the woman who loved them. Men need to look at themselves instead of always berating women
@pcmiler2000 You don't date your mother so why are you using her as an example. How do YOU treat women? Stop defending these men who treat women as jump off who want wifey benefits but not marriage. who think if they take a woman out on a date once or twice, that means sex. Men who wants sex after the 3rd date or even after a month. If you love your mother so much stop calling women hoes, that's disrespectful to women. Did you marry the woman you had sex with why not?
no I am commenting same as you. Now you have to resort to lame tactics/questions like this when you see I don't bow down and co-sign with what you're saying.
@pcmiler2000 You are just defensive probably because you have treated women as jump offs, expected sex and exemplified all those things I posted about in my comments. Are you married? How many women did you sleep with, while you are calling women hos. Are you a baby daddy? you say i'm deflecting but you're refusing to talk about yourself and how YOU treat women. When a man has to talk about his mother and can't talk about himself, that's a red flag. how quick do you expect sex from a woman?
@pcmiler2000 "Rather you cosign or not, the truth is the truth"
No it's just your defensiveness showing. You are not a woman therefore your truth cannot be that of a woman. But again, how many women did you and snakejohnson screw before you married? If you're married pcmiller? How soon do you expect sex from a woman you go out with? Do you think o f marrying the woman you're sexing up? You and snake are quick to call women hosand slow to look in the mirror at yourselves.
@pcmiler2000 ". I'm talking about the hoes and you know what I'm exactly talking about. Stop defending these hoes who chosen the fuckup lif"
Any man who sleeps with a woman and thinks she's only good enough for sex but does not want to marry her has no grounds to call a woman a ho. If men were more inclined to marry these women they are so quick to sex up, then there would not be any hos there would be wives. But men want the sex then turn around and call these women names. hypocrites.
@pcmiler2000 When men date women, they potray their 'interview' front, and then not until later on down the line does the woman realize he is a fool. You all act as though none of you have ever dogged out a woman, you act as if you all are choir boys when we know that's not true. But again, stating the stats there bear out the fact is not throwin black men under the bus, they put themselves there. Black men as a collective have failed in staying out of prison graduating hs, getting degrees,
@pcmiler2000 ...cont. not marrying their baby mamas so how is it that a man can say, if a black woman loved a man like she loves jesus then the black community would be better and you guys not think that isn't throwing the black woman under the bus, but when a black woman points out all the ways black men have failed to better themselves in the basic things in life, job, education, marriage etc.. she is throwing black men under the bus. The stats show the truth in this, the 2010 census show
As a 24 year old black man with a college degree, no kids, no std/hiv, no prison record and not on the DL; I'm waiting for black women to stop having babies with men who clearly cannot take care of themselves let alone a child. I want to marry a black woman and have children.... in that order.
@Toa41587 As an engaged 28 year old graduate educated financially secure own my own home black woman, I'm waiting for black men as a collective to raise themselves up. Far too many black men are behind bars, dropping out of high school. I hardly saw any black men while I was in grad school, but I saw plenty of them on the streets. As far as babies are concerned, if these black men married these women they were making babies with, then we'd have less single baby mamas. Black men do better.
@snakejohnson Black men lovee to put the onus on theh success of the black community on the shoulders of the black woman instead of looking at themselves and what they need to be doing in order to raise up the black community. What about the black man? Is he showing love to the black woman? How come they don't talk about that?
This is my FAVORITE episode... i know people like this.
bernapril20 3 days ago
Dead on and completely hilarious! I love the bubbles and music in the background!!
mgarvey719 5 days ago
wait!!! was that eddie in the beginning???? bahaaaa!
daughterofchrist83 3 weeks ago
she better learn how to work it like "ruth" go down to the threshing floor AFTER boaz is half sleep and drunk!! oh and don't forget to oil yourself up...
daughterofchrist83 3 weeks ago
love it!!! bahaaaa!
daughterofchrist83 3 weeks ago
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BRILLIANT WORK.
Black people, your last and only chance is Louis Farrakhan. If you don't do as quickly as possible what that man said to do, your race will be totally destroy.
shawnkwill 1 month ago
chick uses holy water based lube.
domeaflava 1 month ago
vibrator probably in the shape of a cross.
domeaflava 1 month ago
she need some dick in her life. lmao
domeaflava 1 month ago
@domeaflava Lmfao exactly lord knows
qbwill 1 month ago
WoW!
EboniTrue7691 1 month ago
COooooooooOOOOOOooOooOOOOOOOnerrrry!
stevewhitestl 2 months ago
Brainwashed sistas like this will stay single 4 the rest of their lives. she is nothing but a mordern day mental slave how sad.
garychldress74 2 months ago
When black women find out that i don't go to church that is usually the end of us getting to know each other.I wonder how many good black are thrown back because they won't play make believe.
59westfederal 2 months ago
People need to stop acting as if being single is a curse. Having a mate is no prescription for happiness. I know alot of married people who were unhappy.
ctibaga 2 months ago
Then for all that she should just be a damn nun!! And what stupid on her part is that the man said if you meet a man that is right for you and he is everything on your list but god said no what are u gonna do? She said run lmao!! Wow this is crazy I'm glad we are finally waking up! 2012
missnaturalbeauty21 3 months ago
@missnaturalbeauty21
to be honest I'm surprised she hasn't taken her vows to become a nun. To be honest yes I agree people are waking up that's great, but if you want to pursue your belief like her then like her she needs to show her convictions and take those vows to become a nun. Because well simply put nuns are like that, plus she'll actually have real status XD Anyway 2012 all the way
lordblazer 2 weeks ago
1:14 This GIRL just read herself. If you still single and well above thirty your relationship advice has been revoked, wearin that tired ass pink suit, GIRL BYE!
jlltruthseeker 4 months ago
Sex is a part of life and waiting on the so called GOD is just insane
AVTRU1 4 months ago
They always place the ugliest or fattest (or both) black broads on TV. This one is ugly and brainwashed! She'll be single until she dies. If Jesus is her man, then that's a one-sided relationship.
Khemistry101 4 months ago
she keeps that silly grin on her face to keep from breaking down. She could probably use a man right now also.
screwface1011 5 months ago
She done got on my nerves. I do believe in prayer but I also believe in taking responsibility. She is using her god as a mr. fix it all. Perhaps he wants her to stay single :-)
QueenTMakila 5 months ago
@QueenTMakila
she should really just become a nun and stop wasting everyone's time.
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REWRITE: I say no to undercover agape men. If you looking for a man that "love's" the biblical GOD (more than you), and is totally into you, your waiting for a while. That brother might be GAY!
lilcoco770007 5 months ago
I say no to undercover agape men. If you looking for a man that is totally into you, your waiting for a while.
lilcoco770007 5 months ago
I can't stop laughing! Single Black women, I rather have a man that the woman and man together creates life. Than a man who thinks that a woman is an abomination and worships the symbol of death.
lilcoco770007 5 months ago
Great video bro, that woman delusional.
FreeBlackness 5 months ago
@FreeBlackness Compare women's delusions with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 2 months ago
This is delusional to hear this woman speak, all this God this, God that all this bullshit about prayer and she has not found a man? I could see why she's by herself and will continue to be by herself..These are the same perverts molesting children, sexing the married pastors, have all these children with different men and act so damn pious..Yeah, stay by you damn self because you have mental health issues that should not be visited upon anyone else...
blkpanther08 6 months ago
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blkpanther08 6 months ago
Why can't this DEVIL have this conversation with a Black Man !!!!
Navithapoet 6 months ago
@Navithapoet Because according to them subconsciously, the Black Man is the devil, while the White Man is the Messiah.
pcmiler2000 6 months ago
Just watched again, she said she want man that was in love god. The god figure of xstianity is a male, no wonder she's single. She's praying for a gay man to be her mate. So glad I didn't grow up indoctrinated!!!
nyiskillinme 6 months ago
This woman know for a fact; her advice will help no one. None of that has helped for her, she is still single.
MrsBooker100 6 months ago
@MrsBooker100 THIS is a very dangerous woman to even her own children. she is a willie lynch slave
nappyg1 6 months ago
I pray that sweet white Jesus will send me a freak like this sister. She doesn't think we know how she gets when the lights are turned off. Don't make me tell you about the way-back-when days...be hollering Jesus name so loud the neighbors start pounding the ceiling.
"Ooooh, Gaaaaawddd!
keidiobiawadu 6 months ago
Another great vid! See this is a classic example why some simple-minded women like her make some brothas date other races of women due to lack of thinking outside religion & church. The solution is simple: you want to find and keep a good man, take religion away, think for yourself, improve yourself and the rest will follow.
sykedaddy8 7 months ago
@sykedaddy8 I am guilty of that but guess what . . other races of cultures are jus as dumb
nappyg1 6 months ago
Entertaining and sickening at the same time.
Khemistry101 7 months ago
This video is more of a "slave sermon" than anything else. Grossly distorting the life of a woman trying to live right is disgusting. To act as if "religion" is the main cause of problems in relationships, when premarital sex and other immoral actions cause more problems, is insane. This is no more than an exercise in special pleading and distortion. Typical of dishonest unbelief. Bertrand Russell had more sense.
CRoadwarrior 7 months ago
Funny why would you ask "god" to "REMOVE THE LONELINESS" that is idiotic.. if you are going to pray, ask for the LONELINESS TO BE ELIMINATED BY GIVING YOU A MATE!!! Duhhhh!!! If you are reading Genesis, even the creator was SOLUTION ORIENTED.. didn't "take the lonely feeling" away from Adam.. but GAVE HIM A MATE!! foolishness abounds .. this lady is messed up mentally.
WeLoveBlackMen 7 months ago 2
@WeLoveBlackMen and she probably has sons.. gotdamn
Blackaveli1000 5 months ago
I used to be like that.. a lil bit.. (giggles) it was the church conditioning.. nothing wrong with wanting a "good man.." a "godly man"..but some of the requirements sound like they are looking for a mythological character (Geezeus) I will not be a 40yo gal with no husband and no chirren cause I couldn't find a man that would go to church 5 times a week, etc. I don't even go anymore. Being "busy in
" the IMAGINARY "kingdom " is NOT a practical solution nor has it PROVEN to bring desired results
WeLoveBlackMen 7 months ago 4
That's a damn shame!
pogistarr 7 months ago
Sister needs some serious HELP!!
freerayhn 7 months ago
She should throw the White mans book away , and go get her a Man.
dsa4898 7 months ago
@dsa4898
agreed best comment ever black women need to stay away from the church and stop being manipulated whereas other groups of women are getting married. it's time to start addressing the issues head on.
tanio12 7 months ago
THIS VID MAKES ME THINK ABOUT A FEW X GIRLFRIENDS WHO ARE JUST AS CRAZY AS THIS DIZZY BITCH ON HERE. IT JUST MAKES ME ANGRY ALL OVER AGAIN THAT IT IS A FALSE GOD(ALLAH AND JESUS INCLUDED) THAT CAUSES PEOPLE TO BREAK UP. IF IT WASNT FOR THIS JESUS BULLSHIT I COULD PERHAPS HAVE A HAPPY FAM BY NOW BUT NOOOO! 5stars on this piece.
blackbirdmarkvii 7 months ago
SHE AND FOOLS LIKE HER MAKE ME LAUGH SOOOOOOOOOOOO HARD.SMH
cynd675 7 months ago 3
THE TRUTH !!!!! I dated Black women like that !!!! I feel sorry for them !! Really !!!
cleeshoe 7 months ago 4
Lmao! ANOTHER *CLASSIC*!!!
wordsharris 7 months ago 2
Sad to see this but a lot of women think like this
BlackAndLiberated 8 months ago
LOL!! This is CRAZZEE!! She was talking to much I don't think she even realized she came close to contradicting herself! Back and Forth! This is Cognitive Dissonance at its best! Great Video, Jeremiah.
OQUENDO1968 8 months ago
LOL!!! "We don't know what we need." "God knows what we need." Consider me godless!!
nyiskillinme 8 months ago
Most women like this stay single,because they're in a sexless marriage to the Lord or Jesus,to which a horny mere mortal man can't compete.
ariespow 8 months ago
Either this lady is insane or she ain't been praying right. Who the hell is gonna take this kinda advice from a lady her age and still single.
This religion thing is for slave making and slave keeping. The only thing slavery every brought Black people was dirty ass knees and broke pockets. Here it is 2011 and some still worshiping white people and scared not to. Our brains have really been trashed.
screwface1011 8 months ago 28
@screwface1011 right on!
TerikaSaidIt 7 months ago
@screwface1011 thats an understatement
Blackaveli1000 5 months ago
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screwface1011 8 months ago
she beating off in the kingdom. poor lady, she missin out on some good stuff.
TanikAyanna 8 months ago 3
BULLSHIT, serving the church will not warm your bed @ night, protect you, give you children, help put food on the table, or lay some pipe. I'm tolerant of Christians, it's their intolerance, blind believe, and forcing their religion down other peoples throat that bothers me. that I look foward to every addition of your series.
nassor02 8 months ago 41
I'm an atheist, happily child-free by choice, and anti-marriage, but seeing this poor deluded girl ramble on about her dependency on fairy tales makes me sad in a way, but the upside is no man is having his ears rotting away because of her non-stop Jesus talk and no kids will ever be indoctrinated and brainwashed by her.
gir908922 8 months ago 3
very sad and dark..
teamgrn 8 months ago
As I watched this "single" black woman, I thought about J A Rogers when he wrote "the slogan of the Negro devotee is: Take the world but give me Jesus, and the white man strikes an eager bargain". I agree the interviewer had smirk, at least she don't have kids she's indoctrinating... Great video
lee1906 8 months ago
All I can do is laugh and laugh and laugh... and then giggle...
cosmicbrotha 8 months ago
@painlessreborn "prayer don't do shit....the power is in you. damn!"
I agree!
nancydrew5 8 months ago
She is stupid as hell !!!! Hahaha keep coming with those slave sermons Jeremiah!!!
rajounmwangi 8 months ago
She seemed to be happy with her life with the decisions she has made. Of course, she was in front of the camera. More power to her. This video was funny with the editing.
popnstart 8 months ago
HYSTERICAL!!!!! This woman is so dellusional. Most women love the "image" of Mr. Right, instead of the man with flaws like any other human. These same women with out of wedlock kids will raise their sons to be this dellusional, non realistic man that they have never seen themselves. This is so on point
coreyaustin1 8 months ago
If only these women put the same sort of emphasis into nation building.
BlackSkinnedWarrior 8 months ago 2
@BlackSkinnedWarrior "If only these women put the same sort of emphasis into nation building."
I'm wondering if men put emphasis on nation building'. When you have the majority of inmates behind bars are black men, the majority of high school drop outs are black men, the men who are abandoning their families, not marrying the women they make babies with, men who are not seeking college education at the same rate as women, who exactly is demolishing the 'nation building?
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 I can't argue with that because I know too well that that is the reality we face with our men also, Our entire people as a whole are in serious need of waking up from this lame state of mind that is embedded in us.
BlackSkinnedWarrior 8 months ago
Great Video. Ive talked to sistas that have told me "I dont need a man Jesus is my man"! This Imaginary Jesus cant keep them warm at night when they're cold and he cant stroke that little man in tha boat ,he cant scratch that itch when they get that tingle. These sistas need to stop liveing in Fantasyland and then maybe they will meet and be mentally ready for that Mister Right. This way of thinking will just continue to leave them with a cold bed at night and Cobwebs.
AGYMAH 8 months ago
This video clearly shows how the black women in America especially has been victumized by the christian church. The uphold the church and the imaginary christ before all others. I know this personally and unfortunately, the black women instills these values into their children. It is a real shame and I hope the young people wake up to the game soon. Good work Jeremiah
egbcrushers 8 months ago
Omg lmao you nailed it again bravo I got to share this.
SaltyFisherman 8 months ago
I. Love. These. Vids!!! They get better and better with each episode. I swear.
windwalker1313 8 months ago
Okay, this one made me laugh out loud!
ohpuhleeeze 8 months ago
I LOL'd so hard at 3:09 .
fallingskyz 8 months ago
Is there at least one comment that leaves her brain and comes out her mouth based on reality? GOD, GOD, GOD, GOD, GOD. It sounds to me that if everyone died on this planet except her she would be ok as long as she has God. What B.S. Any reasonable theist would at least admit that God isn't the only thing that gets them through the day. This sounds like a big F you to everyone in her life to me.
JJPHILLYLG 8 months ago
LOL Normal People you Black Mammy SMH
Jahbril30 8 months ago
LMAO
Jahbril30 8 months ago
What does put God first mean? How exactly do you do that?
JJPHILLYLG 8 months ago
@JJPHILLYLG : Exactly JJPHILLYG3. If you ask 1000 people, you will get 1000 different answers. It's just an ambiguous statement that has no grounding and is unverifiable. The basis of all religion is grounded in ambiguity.
VariableUnit 7 months ago
Just because black men are not physically in the church, it does not mean that they are not EQUALLY affected by the church. Christian/white values are all around us.
wiseeyes81 8 months ago
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Just because men are not physically in the church, does not mean that they are not just as affected by the church. Christian values/white values are everywhere.
wiseeyes81 8 months ago
Word of advice to single women wanting to be marry, get advices from successful married women.
pcmiler2000 8 months ago 2
Religion and crack cocaine are neck and neck. I've met plenty of otherwise perfect sistas that are on this drug........SMH
TheTruth27536 8 months ago
No you didn't have Tina running from Ike LOL!!!
kookoo78 8 months ago
If you want to destroy a nation, go after that nation's women...Black women have been destroyed by the church....the proof is in the pudding....look at our communities
dame2809 8 months ago
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@dame2809 "Black women have been destroyed by the church....the proof is in the pudding....look at our communities"
But its the black man who is behind prison bars in droves, who is dropping out of high school and not seeking higher education. In 2011 black women outnumber black men in college and black women are more independent career wise and financially than they have ever been. Meanwhile stats show the black man can't keep up, so who is destroying 'our community and abandoning family?
nancydrew5 8 months ago
This mf will be a pile of dust on her sofa waiting GAWD to send her a man. Who would want to hear this shit she is talking for the rest of their lives? I'd sooner blow my brains out. She has nothing to run away from. As soon as she opens her mouth, no man would hang around long enough to hear her say GAWD a second time. Sheeple, you gotta laugh at 'em!
VariableUnit 8 months ago
@VariableUnit I never thought about it put that way, but you are very much on point with that comment!
TheTruth27536 7 months ago
Note how the white guy has a smiirk on his face while she's explaining her love of Jesus. In the back of his mind he's thinking..single woman, no man in her life, no children, she's getting older...this is genocide of the Black Family.
moormagic1 8 months ago 7
That's why she single.
moormagic1 8 months ago
Im no Christian nor athiest but of coufse christians are gonna have a higher divorce rate than atheist. There are a billion+ more christians than atheist.
trayder29 8 months ago
@trayder29 Shhhh, it still sounds good
kookoo78 8 months ago
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@kookoo78
its the divorce rate among christians/born agains vs. div rate among atheists, which makes the number of christians vs. atheists irrelevant.
alovelytime 8 months ago
@trayder29
its the divorce rate among christians/born agains vs. div rate among atheists, which makes the number of christians vs. atheists irrelevant.
alovelytime 8 months ago
@alovelytime Yeh.. you're right actually. My bad XD. But anyway there's like a 3-5% difference. Not enough to make an argument.
trayder29 8 months ago
LMAO!!! Great Vid Jeremiah!!! We Gotta Get Outta The Oppressorz Chuuch!
MA'AT ONE LOVE!!!
Slojamoz 8 months ago
another get sermon
NowRenaissanceGroup 8 months ago
Brother, I tell you. I do believe that if there is a God, he is far beyond our understanding and a book written 2000 years ago is not the way to get to him.
pjstudevent 8 months ago
It's always funny to me how they emphasize this "doctrine" for the women/girls, but for the men/boys it's a whole different standard. How many men/boys are saving themselves (virgins), and waiting for ms religious right? how many men, in the church, have you heard say "i don't need a woman, the lord is my woman"? i have NEVER heard/known of a christian man who says he's going to be alone (for years), until he finds the right christian woman (nor he is not "expected" to be). GREAT VID!
outoftwnr22 8 months ago 3
@outoftwnr22 ...you got a valid point!
dame2809 8 months ago
@outoftwnr22 I knew one, I thought about "deflowering" him, but he annoyed the shit out of me.
kookoo78 8 months ago
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@outoftwnr22 "It's always funny to me how they emphasize this "doctrine" for the women/girls, but for the men/boys it's a whole different standard."
That's because religion is created by men for men and the sole purpose of it is to control women. Even these men who sit and make fun of the woman in the video still hold religious patriarchal beliefs and none are willing to examine themselves and what they can do to be better men. Women are socialized to want marriage, brainwashed by religion.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
I bet when she gets horny (to the point she can't take it anymore) she gives in and masturbates. Then she repents to sweet Jesus- for the millionth time lol
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VariableUnit 8 months ago
@KomicGenius ROTFLMFAO! All day long!
VariableUnit 8 months ago
I've always said, if these black women would love their men the way they love imaginary Jesus, the black community would be at the top, instead of struggling at the bottom. I already know where a woman's mind is at when she says, "Jesus is first in her life"
snakejohnson 8 months ago 18
@snakejohnson I've always said, if these black men would love their women the way they love to exploit them, treat them as jump offs, get them pregnancy, skeeting and running, abandoning the black women and doing all kinds of things, black men do, but if black men would truly love and respect and uplift the black woman instead of doing what he does, the black community would be at the top instead of struggling at the bottom with single mother headed homes cause the black man isn't there.
nancydrew5 8 months ago 2
@nancydrew5 Hey, if you want a man that's going to stick around, you have to actually date a real man first. Real black men don't treat real black women like jump offs. Sounds like you are talking about the buffoons that walk around with their pants sagging and the hoes that love them. And no one can "get" a woman pregnant. Like you ladies always say "it takes two to tango" . You don't open your legs unless you want to. There is no excuse for unwanted pregnancy.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson Cosign, and a better response comment to her than me.
pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@snakejohnson No snakejohnson, since you are not a woman, you have no place to say what women encounter. I'm engaged, however plenty of men from all walks of life treat women like jump offs. you have married men cheating on their wives, college educated men treating women like jump offs, wanting wife benefits but not ready to commit. committment phobes aren't relegated to thugs. So called 'good men' always think that they are immune to dogging women out when they are guilty of doing just that
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson You don't open your legs unless you want to. There is no excuse for unwanted pregnancy. "
And you don't put your dick inside her vagina unless you want to, so there is no excuse for a man inserting his dick inside of a woman and ejaculating inside of her then acting surprised when she turns up pregnant. A man can have responsible sex, that's what condoms are there for. No woman forces a man to ejaculate inside of her. A real man can always say no and walk away from the pussy.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 Nancy, you sound like a very confused woman. What has feminism taught us about women. "IT'S MY BODY, MY CHOICE" Either you respect your body or you don't sista. You can't have it both ways. Unless you are raped, it is the woman's choice who they let into their body. If you are letting men go in you raw with no condom, WHAT DO YOU EXPECT TO HAPPEN. The only man that should do that is your husband. I don't see what is so difficult to understand.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson YOu sound like a double standard sexist man who thinks any woman who doesn't agree with you is wrong. You think and act entitled to be right just because you are a man and that women are supposed to go along with what you say and be in agreement. I don't have any kids but I am engaged to be married this fall. I am educated, financially successful and doing well for myself so save your erroneous cybperspace diagnosis for someone else. Not every woman is ghetto
nancydrew5 8 months ago 2
@nancydrew5 I'm not sexist at all. If what you say about yourself is true, than I am on your side. If you are being a responsible woman who has decided to get married first before you become a mother, than I have nothing but the utmost respect for you. And you say not every woman is ghetto, but there are enough of them out there. And it's partially your fault, because good women like you don't say anything against the bastard baby makers. Men like me fight tooth and nail against the deadbeats.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson Until you answer the specific questions about YOUR behavior, you have no room to condemn women because men are part of the problem. Women don't get pregnant by themselves. If you are one of those men who sexed up women sans marriage how can you then turn around and condemn the women? Again were you a virgin before marriage? Are you a baby daddy? How many women did you sex up? Turn that focus back on the men and what they need to be doing but it's easy to blame shift
nancydrew5 8 months ago 2
@nancydrew5 And I am not gonna pat you on the back for being educated and financially successful. I expect that from an intelligent black woman. What I don't like is when the educated sistas make excuses for the ghetto trash. It's like their this sisterhood to defend dumb hoe behavior. I don't associate with deadbeat and lowlife negroes. You should do the same.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson I am not going to pat you on the back for being the typical double standard sexist male who thinks because he is male he is right. What I am going to do is call you out on deflecting and refusing to put the onus on men for their egregious behavior towards women. How you continue to deflect and blame shift and point the finger at what women should/could do while refusing to focus on what men need to be doing.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson continued: "How you continue to hold women to a standard that perhaps you don't even meet. I've asked you specific questions about how you conducted yourself sexually towards women and you've refused to answer them. Yet you all up and down this thread telling women how they should be but refusing to answer how you are. Again, were you a virgin when you married? How many women did you sex up? Are you a baby daddy? Answer ..You can't call women out on behavior you don't meet.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 I do have standards for my behavior. That is why I can judge. I had a real example from my grandparents how a real man and woman should act.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson "That is why I can judge."
So you condone what this woman in this video is saying according to your standards. She should remain chaste and wait on the Lord to give her the right man. She should remain a virgin (if she is one). You talk out of both sides of your neck. You put this woman down for her beliefs, which are actually the same as yours. Women talk like this because men like you are judging them purely based on what they've done with their vaginas. Stop judging women.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson You need to be judging men. And men love to talk about their mothers and grandmothers. You just said you were married, so why go back and pull up your grandparents, what about you and your wife. I know I wouldn't want the type of marriage my grandmother had. Women got married back then because they had to and the men were religous, pious double standard and condeming. Traditional marriages sucked for women back in my grandmother's day but they had no choice.
nancydrew5 8 months ago 3
@snakejohnson that makes sense
AlignmentPictures 7 months ago
@nancydrew5 BTW I always uplift the black woman. But I despise hoes. Real black women like my wife and her family knew how to respect a man. They also knew not to be out in the streets letting every moron have sex with them. They stayed virgins till they got married. Isn't that what your Bible teaches you?
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson Cosign again.
pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@snakejohnson "BTW I always uplift the black woman. But I despise hoes." I have to laugh at the irony of men like you who put down women who are religious yet you adhere to the double standard religious teachings of the bible that condemn women for the very same sexual acts that uplift men. Men are praised and encouraged to 'sow their wild oats' until they meet the 'right woman' to settle them down. If a woman sows her oats she is a ho. It's all jedi mind tricks and BS brainwash by men
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 Once again nancy it is all about having respect for your body. I do not advocate men "soiling their oats" And a woman can't soil her oats, she only gets soiled by other men. No man wants a woman that has been run through to be his wife. That's just the bottom line. Now I do think if a man makes a baby he should take responsibility to take care of the child. I hate men who are out here just banging women and breeding like animals. But I hate the women that do it too.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson " In 2011 no woman wants a double standard sexist minded man who thinks he is right just because he is a man and no woman wants a man who has gotten soiled by skeeting and running through women. The same expectations you put on women put right back on yourself. Were you a virgin before you got married snakejohnson? Are you a baby daddy? Did you marry the women you sexed up? Answer those questions instead of attacking me in order to deflect focus off of you.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson "Once again nancy it is all about having respect for your body."
Did you have respect for your body and that of women? Did you sleep with numerous women? Did you marry the woman you slept with? How many women did you sex up before you got married? How many women did you 'soil with your dick? Why do you hold women to a different standard than you can meet yourself? Men can have morals and character. They can walk away from sex. Men have the power to say no. That's all on men
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 And you sound like someone that has several bastard babies hanging off of them. You should have made better choices in your life. You can't blame the men for getting you pregnant. That's the reason the bible teaches women not to be whores. Because your body is supposed to be sacred. You bare the child, it's your body that goes through all of the changes. Why would you not want to share that only with a man that you love, instead of letting every lowlife use you like a human toilet.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson You said that you expect women to be virgins like your wife was when you married her and that no man wants a woman who has been run through by men. Answer these questions about your sexual character and history. (1) Were you a virgin when you got married? (2) Did you sex up women? (3) why didn't you marry the women you sexed up (if you didn't). Are you a baby daddy? Can you meet the same moral sexual standards in your behavior hat you expect from women?
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 I was a virgin when I got married. There was a teenage girl that tried to take advantage of me when I was 10, but I am sure you agree that is not a proper sexual experience. And no I don't have any children. I went out on dates with girls but I wouldn't get to close unless I wanted a serious relationship. In fact I found myself alone a lot of the time because I could not find a decent woman to be with. At least not until I met my wife.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson Just because you chose to be a virgin when you got married, you don't get to set that standard for everyone else. The problem is that men use a woman's sexuality to judge her character. A man won't know unless a woman told him, how many men she's slept with, just like a woman wouldn't know unless a man told her. Too many men put too much weight on what a woman has done with 'her body' her pussy'. It's her pussy not yours and hers to do with what she pleases.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 See, I was taking you seriously before, but now I see that you are full of it. You first tried to challenge my life style, then when you found out that I practice what I preach, you say I can't hold everyone to my standard. It's either one way or the other my friend. You can't have it both ways.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson Just because you use virginity as the gold stamp of approval on marriage, doesn't mean you can impose your judgment on other couples. Plenty of people make successful marriages and they aren't virgins when they meet. Plenty of people get married who are virgins and end up getting divorced. A marriage is not all about whether someone is a virgin or not . Marriage is much more than about sex. You do what is right for you and that's all that counts.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson The value of a woman lies in how she is when you meet her and how you and she connect and treat each other, not in what she did with her body when she wasn't even involved with you. Before I got engaged, a dude who would come at me with that kind of sexist talk like you are doing, would never even get past date one. That type of narrow minded thinking does not go down well with me and would not bode well for the future. Men like that tend to be insecure and overtly jealous
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson "I was a virgin when I got married."
Of course you were. Of course you would answer this way, to do so in any other way would oppose the hypocrisy of what you've been saying all along. So you were a straight up virgin huh, no oral sex, or anything, did you kiss? Feel up women? Do any of that. Sure I don't believe you but whatever, you're a stranger in cyberspace. A religious bible thumping stranger just like Jeremiah talks about which is why the woman in the video is drying up
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 I am actually an agnostic. That's why I watch Jeremiah's videos. And now I see that your just trying to find anyway around what I said. Deep down you know I am right, you just seem to be a selfish person who wants to have things your way. You think it's okay to have every tom dick and harry skeet all over you when you're young, and then when you get old you expect a decent man to come and wife you up. Like I said, you can't have it both ways.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson A BIG AMEN!!!
pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 No oral sex either man. Why would I put my mouth somewhere if I would not put my penis there. That would be hypocritical. So I said no to that to. You claim that men have to be real men and say no to pussy, then when you meet one, you still attack him. That's part of your problem. You don't recognize a real man when you meet one.
snakejohnson 8 months ago
@snakejohnson lOL at you. You are a trip. I think part of your problem is you and I have different ideas of what constitutes a real man. You base everything on sex and I don't. Then you expect people to co-sign with how you think because you claim you are a real man and therefore you are supposed to be right. Anyway it's been fun but gotta run, happy marriage to you snake. What was that gramama klump said in the nutty professor about sherman being a virgin all that sex just gonna explode!
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson Did you stay a virgin until you got married? Didn't your bible teach you that? isn't that what real men do? Stay off the streets and stop skeeting and running and screwing every woman just because you can? Don't real men keep it in their pants and not make babies they aren't prepared to marry the mother and be an active father and make a legitimate family? Didn't the bible teach real men that? See this is what I'm talking about. Why don't you focus on that?
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson "They also knew not to be out in the streets letting every moron have sex with them. They stayed virgins till they got married. Isn't that what your Bible teaches you?'
Women are damned if they do and damned if they don't. That's why women need to do what makes them happy. Men make fun of them if they do like this woman in the video and stay chaste waiting on the lord, meanwhile the man is not doing that. But if a woman is enjoying herself same as man she is a ho.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
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@snakejohnson 'They also knew not to be out in the streets letting every moron have sex with them. They stayed virgins till they got married. Isn't that what your Bible teaches you?"
Men seem to hold women to a sexual standard that they themselves don't adhere to meanwhile they make fun of the very women who sit in church lonely waiting for a man. Now I see why women like the one in the video talk like she does. She is brainwashed or should I say 'manwashed to pleasing a double standard. BS!
nancydrew5 8 months ago
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pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 I'm not throwing the men under the bus. Why is it that all these men all up and down this thread can deride this woman, and talk about how black women are letting down the black community by what they say do and think and the minute a black woman says that about a black man she is supposed to be throwing him under the bus? What yall can dish out the criticism but don't want it directed back at you? That's a double standard right there and exactly how religion teaches.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
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pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 YOu like a lot of other men think all women go around dating thugs. I have never dated a thug, but men dog women out from all walks of life, too many examples to name. College educated men, docs, lawyers, accountants all dog women out. So stop the madness. I have friends who have been dogged out by men who would be considered upstanding based on their 'job'. But they cheated and dogged out the woman who loved them. Men need to look at themselves instead of always berating women
nancydrew5 8 months ago
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pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 You don't date your mother so why are you using her as an example. How do YOU treat women? Stop defending these men who treat women as jump off who want wifey benefits but not marriage. who think if they take a woman out on a date once or twice, that means sex. Men who wants sex after the 3rd date or even after a month. If you love your mother so much stop calling women hoes, that's disrespectful to women. Did you marry the woman you had sex with why not?
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 Are you trolling?
pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 "Are you trolling?"
no I am commenting same as you. Now you have to resort to lame tactics/questions like this when you see I don't bow down and co-sign with what you're saying.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5 Rather you cosign or not, the truth is the truth.
pcmiler2000 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 You are just defensive probably because you have treated women as jump offs, expected sex and exemplified all those things I posted about in my comments. Are you married? How many women did you sleep with, while you are calling women hos. Are you a baby daddy? you say i'm deflecting but you're refusing to talk about yourself and how YOU treat women. When a man has to talk about his mother and can't talk about himself, that's a red flag. how quick do you expect sex from a woman?
nancydrew5 8 months ago
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@pcmiler2000 "Rather you cosign or not, the truth is the truth"
No it's just your defensiveness showing. You are not a woman therefore your truth cannot be that of a woman. But again, how many women did you and snakejohnson screw before you married? If you're married pcmiller? How soon do you expect sex from a woman you go out with? Do you think o f marrying the woman you're sexing up? You and snake are quick to call women hosand slow to look in the mirror at yourselves.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 ". I'm talking about the hoes and you know what I'm exactly talking about. Stop defending these hoes who chosen the fuckup lif"
Any man who sleeps with a woman and thinks she's only good enough for sex but does not want to marry her has no grounds to call a woman a ho. If men were more inclined to marry these women they are so quick to sex up, then there would not be any hos there would be wives. But men want the sex then turn around and call these women names. hypocrites.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 When men date women, they potray their 'interview' front, and then not until later on down the line does the woman realize he is a fool. You all act as though none of you have ever dogged out a woman, you act as if you all are choir boys when we know that's not true. But again, stating the stats there bear out the fact is not throwin black men under the bus, they put themselves there. Black men as a collective have failed in staying out of prison graduating hs, getting degrees,
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@pcmiler2000 ...cont. not marrying their baby mamas so how is it that a man can say, if a black woman loved a man like she loves jesus then the black community would be better and you guys not think that isn't throwing the black woman under the bus, but when a black woman points out all the ways black men have failed to better themselves in the basic things in life, job, education, marriage etc.. she is throwing black men under the bus. The stats show the truth in this, the 2010 census show
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@nancydrew5
As a 24 year old black man with a college degree, no kids, no std/hiv, no prison record and not on the DL; I'm waiting for black women to stop having babies with men who clearly cannot take care of themselves let alone a child. I want to marry a black woman and have children.... in that order.
Toa41587 8 months ago 2
@Toa41587 As an engaged 28 year old graduate educated financially secure own my own home black woman, I'm waiting for black men as a collective to raise themselves up. Far too many black men are behind bars, dropping out of high school. I hardly saw any black men while I was in grad school, but I saw plenty of them on the streets. As far as babies are concerned, if these black men married these women they were making babies with, then we'd have less single baby mamas. Black men do better.
nancydrew5 8 months ago
@snakejohnson Black men lovee to put the onus on theh success of the black community on the shoulders of the black woman instead of looking at themselves and what they need to be doing in order to raise up the black community. What about the black man? Is he showing love to the black woman? How come they don't talk about that?
nancydrew5 8 months ago 2
@snakejohnson Maybe if black men as a collective acted right to black women, the black women wouldn't hav