This brother is speaking the truth! Elite men do NOT compete with other men. I myself will consider it a deal breaker if I feel I have to compete for your love. I'll definitely stop dealing with a woman who is dating other men. Also, if you're emotionally unavailable then I'm unavailable.
....and stop make only daughters for white men who will be just strippers, white man's porno whores or babymamas for white race. make more real dark/brown skin black sons for black race only when real black ppl and african/black culture still alive in this world! fuck racist whites and their dumb whores!
brohars we need stop dating/marry all these dirty self-hating sellout spoiled black/mixed whores/hoes after non black/mixed men because all these whores/hoes thinks this is ok to suck/f'ck with white slave masters/mexican/mixed white latinos and after that go back to us. NO!! if you f'cking with non black/mixed men you need to stay with him and end!!
we don't want spoiled dirty black women after white man's dicks and non black man plus a lot of us hates white man and we have reason for this! maybe if black women wouldn't be such cheap sellout self-hating white man's whores maybe then we wouldn't have so many problems in black community, black race and black sons/men wouldn't be in sh't!
they love white men and his lil d'ck just like in porno that smart racist white men shows to their dumb self-hating black azzez but only ugly old nasty looking crakkkers or wiggers date or want marry them. that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women.
because black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's wh0res who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep sh't. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them ... smh!
Most but not all black women expect respect when they are going around having sex with multiple men and being jump offs.WTF!!!! YOU CARRY YOURSELF LIKE A HOE THEN YOU SHALL BE TREATED AS ONE.
What women must understand is they cannot behave like men, and think that men will still treat them like ladies. No real man wants to marry a hoe, this notion that some of you have saying things like (it shouldn't matter because it was in the past) is just plain crazy. In life your judged by who you are and what you've done, time and time again, from your work history to your credit score and so on Etc. women should stop trying to be like men, and aspire to be better then them.
@djobsession Very true, which is why I eliminated black men from my dating pool. Black men keep multiple concurrent partners and have double standards, most don't bring much to the table which is why I no longer date/nor would marry a Black man.
I think its more advantageous for me to date/marry a White man or a different race. Black males have the lowest track records and the highest negative statistics. I have no interest in taking care of a man!
@Klass761 to be honest nobody really give a shit about your dirty horny black vagina and how she want pale small white man's pink penises just like in porn that your dumb lonely self-hating black ass watching most every fuckin day.
@Klass761 the problem is that all this racist crackers bullshit named "interracial" that is the genocide of many real strong talented dark/brown skin black sons/kids. because most your ugly pale crackers who date interracial are racist who want only sex or racist sick shit that's why we have biracial boy in white house today. that's real problem is in black community a not your horny dumb vagina! smh!
@326Ka, Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that Ive seen who is Blk is Obama!
@Klass761 its abit extreme to say there are no elite black men, its true they are not in abundance or seldom seen. usually because the few who would qualify as elite or high standard, are usually busy maintaing/trying to obtain that status. sadly alot of times do not get much attention.
@lovechild0716 Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that Ive seen who is Blk is Obama!
@lovechild0716 - Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that's is Obama!
@lovechild0716 Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that Ive seen who is Blk is Obama!
@Klass761 your comments is so fuckin bullshit. is it like saying that all black women are dirty dumb sellout self-hating white man's porno whores/hoes with white looking kids and diseases! smh!
**yawn** . there IS a middle ground... u can date other men and HE doesnt have to ever find out about it lol..men do it all the time and get caught, women can do it all the time and never get caught.. she can have sex with the "elite man"(whatever thats worth) and DATE the other men.. then when the elite man is busted for cheating then the woman will go be with her jump off in waiting .. which may not be as elite but probably WILL be more true to her anyways...
Ok, you just lost all credibility you barely had. So men can date as many people as they want but women are supposed to only date one person? Way to be sexist buddy. If a man wants a woman to only date him, he needs to put his cards on the table and do as he asks her to do. If not, then that woman is free to see as many women as she likes. Note: I say date not have sex with. Don't confuse the two.
I know you mean well, but I think you lost 80% of the people who may have wanted to use your services. You need to study a little more about health relationships before you can speak publicly about them. You can't be sexist and give healthy responsible information about relationships. Please study the topic Sexist mindset.
First let me say I AM A MAN. How can you date another womem but she can't date another man. Neither one of you should be date someone else if you are dating eachother. You cannot preach double standard and think you will be respected.
I am a man and Please listen you are way off the mark. It is 2011. I hope your wife does't look at this video, because you are telling on yourself. Wake up. Why is it when men have ladies is ok. When ladies have men they are Hoes.
Elite my ASS...elite man are some of the biggest hoers!!! Wifey at home with the kids and a jump off on the side there mostly strippers. Lets get real people!
Please, give me a break its the same crap that men do. Ok so you put some honesty in it. REALITY OF THE SITUATION is everyone can get their hearts hurt because you human, thats bullshit, its all about that guy and that female. You should date and look around. Men get dogged too darling. Elite men who, where, when. FOR some men its all about the TIME. Good luck with that.
The topic is black women who date and sleep around, I'm sure he'll get to the topic of men who sleep around eventually, just give him a chance to before you start saying how onesided his view is. Anyways, THIS IS ABSOLUTELY ON POINT!!!!!!!!!!!! THERES TOO MANY WOMEN TO HAVE TO PLAY TUG OF WAR WITH THESE CLOWNS!!!!!
HECKS YEA!!! MORE LIGHT HAS BEEN SHED HOMIE!. its a good thing your show should be here this fall. The name of it needs to get out there in the public seriously!!!
You said you'll have sex with a woman but not invest anything in her, while at the same time you're telling these women to stop sleepng around. Maybe you should post a video giving guys the same advice, and stop being such a hypocrite. You want to use a woman just for sex, but it's wrong if they do it to you? In other words, "do as I say, not as I do." You make no sense at all, and you think the universe revolves around your big head. Get real.
@bklynAtrain Thats how men in this society operate. It's always a double standard between men and women. IT is unfair and unequal. if a man walks down the street shirtless, its ok. but if a woman does that she is classless, trashy, worthless, low self-esteemed and/or nasty. If a man sleeps with numerous of women in a night, he's player, player; but if a woman sleeps with two men in one month she's a whore. I wont bash all men but men who thnk like this are pitiful!
Well i sense that there are emotions getting involved in this but i wont debate. first i want to say it is not a man's world nor a woman's; its God's world whom created you and me (note:if you read the Bible, it has never said that "men" control the earth). second, you have to respect the temple of God (your body) whether you are a woman or man. So, both men and women have to respect that it doesnt matter who you are the matters of respect, rules, or holiness doesnt change just becuz of the sex
An alpha male (elite male) is on the prowl for an alpha female. Men compete; women choose. An alpha female is on point & does not waste her time having low quality, un-marriageable males who don't live up to the standards a good woman, wife and mother would need in a man, as sex partners. She just doesn't...
At the same time, he can't put women down for sleeping around & then not put men down for doing the same dirt. An elite man isn't wasting his time w/ multiple hoes trying to find a wife.
You wouldn't know an "alpha-male," if one walked up to you and ate your fucking snatch. Lmfao! Save that bullshit for some weak-minded-ass motherfucker. You're not even an "alpha-female," so what the fuck are you talking about?
one out of every four black women got hiv.one out of every two black women got babbies out of wedlock.THATS WHY WE PIMP THERE ASS! IF a thug can get lock up for five years and not have sex why can a women stop having sex for a week.Get it threw your heads black women have the highest birth rate and disease rate.Because they fuck the most,and thats in the whole entire world.When we pimp them we kept the birth and disease rate down.now they started fucking white men for free! there stuipid no hope
@az097637 THERE should be THEIR/ lock should be locked, threw should be Through, Stuipid should be STUPID.... and that is exactly what you sound like.
And NEWSFLASH: For all the guys who have the mindset that there are MILLIONS of gals who you can choose from, um guess what....there are of you out there too for us to choose from. To think the world is supposed to stop while I date you is ridiculous, especially if you haven't given me a reason to do it. Just like you would do.
This is probably the nuttiest thing I have seen in a while. So this is what you do ladies...keep your dating business to yourself. Just like men do. If he asks, don't tell because apparently their egos can't handle it.
i understand that but at the same time you have to date & see what you like. Black women shouldn't be held to the standard of dating on person its stupid & if a guy can't accept that too bad; guys date multiple girls when they are single . THIS is stupid and it shows just how society puts double standards on women for dumb reasons
It is stupid. That makes zero sense to not date different people if you are a single woman. Why doesn the single definition change for men and women? This is a caveman mentality.
@thegamefacegroup exactly elite man my ass ; he can go somewhere with that bullshit. we go the same rights as men ; and if we don't he is saying we are less than he is . i for one am not less than any man so there for with that being said if he can date and see what he likes so can i .
@thegamefacegroup That's because men morality is screwed up. lol. Women are supposed to be the man's best kept secret. Forget that. And omg, they all be pissed when a woman perfer polyandry. I remember telling a guy that. He said some mess about the reason men do it andd how it was good for the population, yet find it wrong for a woman practiced it.
@musiclover77able LOL! Maybe you can speak for yourself. In this case he is being onesided. The men who are sleeping around are sleeping around with AH HA! Women! Understand? Are you saying these men are sleeping w/other men then? Physically speaking why are not womens bodies (since you said body) not equipped to sleep around? I am so excited to hear your answer.
FORGET DOUBLE STANDARDS I must say, people should take responsibilities for what they DO...DATING ISN'T WRONG LADIES, YOU CAN DATE AS MUCH AS YOU WANT UNTIL YOU CHOOSE TO DATE EXCLUSIVELY, But SLEEPING AROUND IS Not the business - ohh, no its not...GETTING INTIMATE TOO QUICKLY CAN DEFF. RUIN A RELATIONSHIP
I dated more than one man at a time.. and i am happily married now, so it worked for me. Men do it, the game demands it. No man was able to treat me as a jump-off because I wasnt sleeping with them, we were just dating. You can only be a jump-off if you allow yourself to be one.
Frankly if a man dumps me for doing the same thing HE is doing, that is NOT someone i want to spend the rest of my life with because frankly those double standards WILL resurface in your married life
@Randy2020 ummm helloooo. drop her. you asking that question implies you already see some problem with it. that early in the relationship with a girl even the smallest reservation about her should be reason enough to move on to another of the MILLIOOOOOOOONS of women. tell her goodbye. unless you're ugly and have low self esteem
Excellent advice for any woman, black or white. I believe in guarding your heart wisely, but not in closing it up completely. There's a sad deficit of sensible women these days.
my man is 100 percent right to men they're are only 2 types of women the ones you fuck and the ones you marry.how many baby mamas we know who have never been or never will be married.plenty.as the old saying goes "why by the cow when you can get the milk for free"so so true.
@326Ka I met an attractiveed looking woman at her work. She made a lot less than she used to and had no kids. She brought up a bf she easn't crazy about and after I left I reflected on her for a couple days. First, I recalled a man flirting with her like he knew her. Second, when I sat and talked to her she bad mouthed her bf for not being smart. Third, when he arrived he kissed her, then she ignored him and kept talking to me! Fourth, a phone number for someone else ended up being hers! BEWARE!
Meh...you are so onesided in your thinking. Its basically women you must put all your faith in one guy even when he is not doing the same thing. Women--you must not do the EXACT same thing I do cause you will be considered a jump off or whore. Gimme a freaking break
@superslyfoxx1 Lol, i hear your frustration and understand what you are saying but what he is saying is absolutely true. You've got to let go of that "If ya'll do it we can do it too" mentality. The fact is that men and women ARE different and we will look at eachother differently based on each sex's behavior. The advice he's giving is for obtaining a GENUINE man, and trust, a GENUINE man will pass over a woman that has "multiple irons in the fire."
@76malibu81 I really don't have the mindset of "If yall do it we can do it" I am basically speaking on what the position of this video is taking. If you want me to me a mindful, intelligent,kind and chaste individual shouldn't you work on being that way too? I am not saying whore myself and expect a good looking honest, well off man to sweep me up and make me his bride. Montel Williams married a hooker and nobody batted an eyelash. Its just so odd and unsettling what we say about blackwomen.
@askdedan I feel you 100%. Testing the water is appropriate when you are just vibing with a guy and want to test out if he and you connect just right....but when it becomes just a thing to get an ego boost of getting a free meal and being sweated...then I too would frown on that. Even if I find out you've got someone else in the picture and are still offering to go out...I'm still cool on any sort of interaction with someone who is emotionally engaged in an individual & dating for ego boost
Man....I meet so many black who want to date, but nothing serious. If I meet a woman and find out she's fucking someone...I might hit it, but thats about as far as I would go. I dont want a woman who is hollerin' at other cats.
This brother is speaking the truth! Elite men do NOT compete with other men. I myself will consider it a deal breaker if I feel I have to compete for your love. I'll definitely stop dealing with a woman who is dating other men. Also, if you're emotionally unavailable then I'm unavailable.
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....and stop make only daughters for white men who will be just strippers, white man's porno whores or babymamas for white race. make more real dark/brown skin black sons for black race only when real black ppl and african/black culture still alive in this world! fuck racist whites and their dumb whores!
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brohars we need stop dating/marry all these dirty self-hating sellout spoiled black/mixed whores/hoes after non black/mixed men because all these whores/hoes thinks this is ok to suck/f'ck with white slave masters/mexican/mixed white latinos and after that go back to us. NO!! if you f'cking with non black/mixed men you need to stay with him and end!!
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we don't want spoiled dirty black women after white man's dicks and non black man plus a lot of us hates white man and we have reason for this! maybe if black women wouldn't be such cheap sellout self-hating white man's whores maybe then we wouldn't have so many problems in black community, black race and black sons/men wouldn't be in sh't!
HIV come from white man!
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they love white men and his lil d'ck just like in porno that smart racist white men shows to their dumb self-hating black azzez but only ugly old nasty looking crakkkers or wiggers date or want marry them. that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women.
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because black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's wh0res who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep sh't. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them ... smh!
blckla999 1 week ago
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that's where all of these problems come from: BLACK WOMEN'S VAGINAS!
blckla999 1 week ago
let me explain...as a white man, i would never want to have offspring with a black woman...not even the first lady.
black people are totally unacceptable on every level. rich ,poor, good looking, ugly....you are still a black person.
STAY WITH YOUR OWN KIND!!!!!
Ostaraian 3 weeks ago
@Ostaraian And your opinion matters... because?
Desiree2006 3 weeks ago
# 1. there is no such thing as an ELITE black man.
Ostaraian 3 weeks ago
People can 'date multiple guys'' BUT DONT SLEEP WITH THEM.....there is no birth control and stds are RAMPANT
49jubilee 1 month ago
BLACK WOMEN IS NOT THE ONLY WOMEN WHO SLEEP AROUND...THE OTHER RACE DO IT QUICKER ...AT ANY COST. WE, AS BLACK DON'T SETTLE AS QUICKLY.
megamardee 1 month ago
Most but not all black women expect respect when they are going around having sex with multiple men and being jump offs.WTF!!!! YOU CARRY YOURSELF LIKE A HOE THEN YOU SHALL BE TREATED AS ONE.
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@pineboy23 - I don't go for Double Standards, black men are the HOES and also Gold Diggers!
You reaped what you've sown!
Klass761 1 month ago
What women must understand is they cannot behave like men, and think that men will still treat them like ladies. No real man wants to marry a hoe, this notion that some of you have saying things like (it shouldn't matter because it was in the past) is just plain crazy. In life your judged by who you are and what you've done, time and time again, from your work history to your credit score and so on Etc. women should stop trying to be like men, and aspire to be better then them.
djobsession 1 month ago
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Klass761 1 month ago
@djobsession Very true, which is why I eliminated black men from my dating pool. Black men keep multiple concurrent partners and have double standards, most don't bring much to the table which is why I no longer date/nor would marry a Black man.
I think its more advantageous for me to date/marry a White man or a different race. Black males have the lowest track records and the highest negative statistics. I have no interest in taking care of a man!
Ill pass!
Klass761 1 month ago
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@Klass761 to be honest nobody really give a shit about your dirty horny black vagina and how she want pale small white man's pink penises just like in porn that your dumb lonely self-hating black ass watching most every fuckin day.
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@Klass761 the problem is that all this racist crackers bullshit named "interracial" that is the genocide of many real strong talented dark/brown skin black sons/kids. because most your ugly pale crackers who date interracial are racist who want only sex or racist sick shit that's why we have biracial boy in white house today. that's real problem is in black community a not your horny dumb vagina! smh!
blckla999 1 week ago
He speaks the truth.
LinkStarbureiy 1 month ago
You are completely hypocritical....
DivaNatural 1 month ago
@326Ka, Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that Ive seen who is Blk is Obama!
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@Klass761 its abit extreme to say there are no elite black men, its true they are not in abundance or seldom seen. usually because the few who would qualify as elite or high standard, are usually busy maintaing/trying to obtain that status. sadly alot of times do not get much attention.
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@lovechild0716 Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that Ive seen who is Blk is Obama!
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@lovechild0716 - Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that's is Obama!
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@lovechild0716 Meeting an "Elite BM" is rare to none existence. Most BM have little or no education, felonies, ghetto, marginal, have OOW babies, have no plan for their lives, broke , sleep with multiple partners, live high risk lives. Consider the high risks dating BM; I rather chose to marry a white man who accepted me for me! BM have too many issues and bring nothing to the table but high risk behaviors. Many are sexist and misogynistic! The only Elite man that Ive seen who is Blk is Obama!
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@Klass761 your comments is so fuckin bullshit. is it like saying that all black women are dirty dumb sellout self-hating white man's porno whores/hoes with white looking kids and diseases! smh!
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@Klass761 obama is not black and i bet you're just ugly as shit!
blckla999 1 week ago
It's hard to find good quality people in life. Male and Female. @HairByDanni
dannidutchess 3 months ago
**yawn** . there IS a middle ground... u can date other men and HE doesnt have to ever find out about it lol..men do it all the time and get caught, women can do it all the time and never get caught.. she can have sex with the "elite man"(whatever thats worth) and DATE the other men.. then when the elite man is busted for cheating then the woman will go be with her jump off in waiting .. which may not be as elite but probably WILL be more true to her anyways...
guacgirl 3 months ago
Ok, you just lost all credibility you barely had. So men can date as many people as they want but women are supposed to only date one person? Way to be sexist buddy. If a man wants a woman to only date him, he needs to put his cards on the table and do as he asks her to do. If not, then that woman is free to see as many women as she likes. Note: I say date not have sex with. Don't confuse the two.
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I know you mean well, but I think you lost 80% of the people who may have wanted to use your services. You need to study a little more about health relationships before you can speak publicly about them. You can't be sexist and give healthy responsible information about relationships. Please study the topic Sexist mindset.
I hope you grow and do great things :-)
kamkea12 3 months ago
First let me say I AM A MAN. How can you date another womem but she can't date another man. Neither one of you should be date someone else if you are dating eachother. You cannot preach double standard and think you will be respected.
I am a man and Please listen you are way off the mark. It is 2011. I hope your wife does't look at this video, because you are telling on yourself. Wake up. Why is it when men have ladies is ok. When ladies have men they are Hoes.
She should do as he does. period!
kamkea12 3 months ago
that's woman in general not just black woman. your so ignorant. why specify to only one race????
mizzbahamas88 4 months ago
Elite my ASS...elite man are some of the biggest hoers!!! Wifey at home with the kids and a jump off on the side there mostly strippers. Lets get real people!
SLIMGOODIES06 4 months ago
@SLIMGOODIES06 lol
january719 3 months ago
@superslyfoxx1 you understood me! you tramps need to fuck a hunkee and die.
az097637 5 months ago
Please, give me a break its the same crap that men do. Ok so you put some honesty in it. REALITY OF THE SITUATION is everyone can get their hearts hurt because you human, thats bullshit, its all about that guy and that female. You should date and look around. Men get dogged too darling. Elite men who, where, when. FOR some men its all about the TIME. Good luck with that.
MYSTREZ0 6 months ago
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I agree with you 100%
sweetjune2010 6 months ago
The topic is black women who date and sleep around, I'm sure he'll get to the topic of men who sleep around eventually, just give him a chance to before you start saying how onesided his view is. Anyways, THIS IS ABSOLUTELY ON POINT!!!!!!!!!!!! THERES TOO MANY WOMEN TO HAVE TO PLAY TUG OF WAR WITH THESE CLOWNS!!!!!
RawBizzness83 6 months ago
son!!!!!!he took every word out my head and said it!!!
FlatbushGunman 6 months ago
HECKS YEA!!! MORE LIGHT HAS BEEN SHED HOMIE!. its a good thing your show should be here this fall. The name of it needs to get out there in the public seriously!!!
hulkandsuperman 6 months ago
You said you'll have sex with a woman but not invest anything in her, while at the same time you're telling these women to stop sleepng around. Maybe you should post a video giving guys the same advice, and stop being such a hypocrite. You want to use a woman just for sex, but it's wrong if they do it to you? In other words, "do as I say, not as I do." You make no sense at all, and you think the universe revolves around your big head. Get real.
bklynAtrain 6 months ago
@bklynAtrain Thats how men in this society operate. It's always a double standard between men and women. IT is unfair and unequal. if a man walks down the street shirtless, its ok. but if a woman does that she is classless, trashy, worthless, low self-esteemed and/or nasty. If a man sleeps with numerous of women in a night, he's player, player; but if a woman sleeps with two men in one month she's a whore. I wont bash all men but men who thnk like this are pitiful!
PSALMSOFSONGS 6 months ago
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AvOiRunJeNeSaiSquOi 6 months ago
Well i sense that there are emotions getting involved in this but i wont debate. first i want to say it is not a man's world nor a woman's; its God's world whom created you and me (note:if you read the Bible, it has never said that "men" control the earth). second, you have to respect the temple of God (your body) whether you are a woman or man. So, both men and women have to respect that it doesnt matter who you are the matters of respect, rules, or holiness doesnt change just becuz of the sex
PSALMSOFSONGS 6 months ago
An alpha male (elite male) is on the prowl for an alpha female. Men compete; women choose. An alpha female is on point & does not waste her time having low quality, un-marriageable males who don't live up to the standards a good woman, wife and mother would need in a man, as sex partners. She just doesn't...
At the same time, he can't put women down for sleeping around & then not put men down for doing the same dirt. An elite man isn't wasting his time w/ multiple hoes trying to find a wife.
ladyEulaelie 6 months ago
You wouldn't know an "alpha-male," if one walked up to you and ate your fucking snatch. Lmfao! Save that bullshit for some weak-minded-ass motherfucker. You're not even an "alpha-female," so what the fuck are you talking about?
AvOiRunJeNeSaiSquOi 6 months ago
@seeking911,
you really are seek'n help,huh?
TheBlackGlenBeck 6 months ago
one out of every four black women got hiv.one out of every two black women got babbies out of wedlock.THATS WHY WE PIMP THERE ASS! IF a thug can get lock up for five years and not have sex why can a women stop having sex for a week.Get it threw your heads black women have the highest birth rate and disease rate.Because they fuck the most,and thats in the whole entire world.When we pimp them we kept the birth and disease rate down.now they started fucking white men for free! there stuipid no hope
az097637 6 months ago
@az097637 THERE should be THEIR/ lock should be locked, threw should be Through, Stuipid should be STUPID.... and that is exactly what you sound like.
superslyfoxx1 6 months ago
And NEWSFLASH: For all the guys who have the mindset that there are MILLIONS of gals who you can choose from, um guess what....there are of you out there too for us to choose from. To think the world is supposed to stop while I date you is ridiculous, especially if you haven't given me a reason to do it. Just like you would do.
thegamefacegroup 6 months ago 2
This is probably the nuttiest thing I have seen in a while. So this is what you do ladies...keep your dating business to yourself. Just like men do. If he asks, don't tell because apparently their egos can't handle it.
thegamefacegroup 6 months ago 3
&& too emotionally available you get hurt and thats how we end up with the baggage smh what is wrong with men these days ?
fantazylovezyou 7 months ago
i understand that but at the same time you have to date & see what you like. Black women shouldn't be held to the standard of dating on person its stupid & if a guy can't accept that too bad; guys date multiple girls when they are single . THIS is stupid and it shows just how society puts double standards on women for dumb reasons
fantazylovezyou 7 months ago 2
@fantazylovezyou
It is stupid. That makes zero sense to not date different people if you are a single woman. Why doesn the single definition change for men and women? This is a caveman mentality.
thegamefacegroup 6 months ago 2
@thegamefacegroup exactly elite man my ass ; he can go somewhere with that bullshit. we go the same rights as men ; and if we don't he is saying we are less than he is . i for one am not less than any man so there for with that being said if he can date and see what he likes so can i .
fantazylovezyou 6 months ago
@thegamefacegroup That's because men morality is screwed up. lol. Women are supposed to be the man's best kept secret. Forget that. And omg, they all be pissed when a woman perfer polyandry. I remember telling a guy that. He said some mess about the reason men do it andd how it was good for the population, yet find it wrong for a woman practiced it.
seeking911 6 months ago
@musiclover77able LOL! Maybe you can speak for yourself. In this case he is being onesided. The men who are sleeping around are sleeping around with AH HA! Women! Understand? Are you saying these men are sleeping w/other men then? Physically speaking why are not womens bodies (since you said body) not equipped to sleep around? I am so excited to hear your answer.
superslyfoxx1 7 months ago
I won't commit to a man unless he commits to me. Until then I'm a FREE AGENT
inuejo 7 months ago 3
FORGET DOUBLE STANDARDS I must say, people should take responsibilities for what they DO...DATING ISN'T WRONG LADIES, YOU CAN DATE AS MUCH AS YOU WANT UNTIL YOU CHOOSE TO DATE EXCLUSIVELY, But SLEEPING AROUND IS Not the business - ohh, no its not...GETTING INTIMATE TOO QUICKLY CAN DEFF. RUIN A RELATIONSHIP
licialicous 8 months ago 4
So you're a huge fucking hypocrite basically?
Mokurentate 8 months ago
DOUBLE standard!!!
Why not just compete and WIN the woman.
TheAhlivia 9 months ago 2
LOL wow this has gotta be a joke!
LetsCatchYourDream 9 months ago
I dated more than one man at a time.. and i am happily married now, so it worked for me. Men do it, the game demands it. No man was able to treat me as a jump-off because I wasnt sleeping with them, we were just dating. You can only be a jump-off if you allow yourself to be one.
Frankly if a man dumps me for doing the same thing HE is doing, that is NOT someone i want to spend the rest of my life with because frankly those double standards WILL resurface in your married life
DolceVita 10 months ago 4
@DolceVita
Thankyou! Everything you said is fact!
Mokurentate 8 months ago
if i was on a date and i find out that shes going on date the next day should i leave her alone ourgive her a chance
Randy2020 10 months ago
@Randy2020 ummm helloooo. drop her. you asking that question implies you already see some problem with it. that early in the relationship with a girl even the smallest reservation about her should be reason enough to move on to another of the MILLIOOOOOOOONS of women. tell her goodbye. unless you're ugly and have low self esteem
365to173repubsPWNED 10 months ago
Excellent advice for any woman, black or white. I believe in guarding your heart wisely, but not in closing it up completely. There's a sad deficit of sensible women these days.
christy0misty 11 months ago
my man is 100 percent right to men they're are only 2 types of women the ones you fuck and the ones you marry.how many baby mamas we know who have never been or never will be married.plenty.as the old saying goes "why by the cow when you can get the milk for free"so so true.
326Ka 1 year ago 9
@326Ka I met an attractiveed looking woman at her work. She made a lot less than she used to and had no kids. She brought up a bf she easn't crazy about and after I left I reflected on her for a couple days. First, I recalled a man flirting with her like he knew her. Second, when I sat and talked to her she bad mouthed her bf for not being smart. Third, when he arrived he kissed her, then she ignored him and kept talking to me! Fourth, a phone number for someone else ended up being hers! BEWARE!
MadeByEduNotLaziness 6 months ago
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I support you all the way dedan,but I think men and women should date each other one parther at a time not multiple partners
AceAnalyst 1 year ago
I support you all the way dedan,but I think men and women should date each other one parther at a time not multiple partners
AceAnalyst 1 year ago 2
Meh...you are so onesided in your thinking. Its basically women you must put all your faith in one guy even when he is not doing the same thing. Women--you must not do the EXACT same thing I do cause you will be considered a jump off or whore. Gimme a freaking break
superslyfoxx1 1 year ago 16
@superslyfoxx1 Lol, i hear your frustration and understand what you are saying but what he is saying is absolutely true. You've got to let go of that "If ya'll do it we can do it too" mentality. The fact is that men and women ARE different and we will look at eachother differently based on each sex's behavior. The advice he's giving is for obtaining a GENUINE man, and trust, a GENUINE man will pass over a woman that has "multiple irons in the fire."
76malibu81 6 months ago 2
@76malibu81 I really don't have the mindset of "If yall do it we can do it" I am basically speaking on what the position of this video is taking. If you want me to me a mindful, intelligent,kind and chaste individual shouldn't you work on being that way too? I am not saying whore myself and expect a good looking honest, well off man to sweep me up and make me his bride. Montel Williams married a hooker and nobody batted an eyelash. Its just so odd and unsettling what we say about blackwomen.
superslyfoxx1 6 months ago
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No man competes another man for a jumpoff.. Elite or not Especially a black man with high self esteem.. Kudos to that!
PHEOLA1 1 year ago
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PHEOLA1 1 year ago
@askdedan I feel you 100%. Testing the water is appropriate when you are just vibing with a guy and want to test out if he and you connect just right....but when it becomes just a thing to get an ego boost of getting a free meal and being sweated...then I too would frown on that. Even if I find out you've got someone else in the picture and are still offering to go out...I'm still cool on any sort of interaction with someone who is emotionally engaged in an individual & dating for ego boost
DonCheadleCorleone 1 year ago
Man....I meet so many black who want to date, but nothing serious. If I meet a woman and find out she's fucking someone...I might hit it, but thats about as far as I would go. I dont want a woman who is hollerin' at other cats.
Thrown2010 1 year ago