You have to believe in yourself.

[SarahTremblay21]

i looooooovvveeeee yoouuuuu

[janetmecha]

Think outside the gay  :) Haha i love it.

[superclarinetkid]

you guys are sooo cute together!!! i think i missed the majority of the message though... CUTENESS OVERLOAD!

[drywit1984]

I'm a lesbian...I need confidence...Thank you for making this...seriously! This is very helpful.

[RoyalMaui]

the metaphorical introduction in this video is awesome!!

best regards from germany

[blinknjay06]

cute

[angelsugardust]

I MISS U GUYS TOGETHER.. :( YOU SHOULD MAKE A VIDEO TOGETHER. AGAIN.. PLEASE.. :)

[DomBarber]

Have you thought about visiting a barber shop together ?

[singisking14]

U both were such a cute couple..

[svenskacat]

@singisking14 what do you mean "were"????????????? They're totally still together!!! :)

[beaverbunch]

@svenskacat no. no they're not.

[mycandiebopaudrey]

think outside the gay <3

[mycandiebopaudrey]

ah so cute <3 jess and mary b make me smile!

[FluteStar09]

i soo adore these two!!! 

[mechel444444]

i love u jess and mary

[SomethingQueer]

The monster's gonna come out and kick my ayssssss

[Minni8787]

That was soooo insightful! This helped me a lot with...life, basically. =]

[TheBlankPage22]

I get so jealous of your adorable relationship when I watch these videos of you two lovely ladies together. :)

[blaytonx04]

omg mary is so hot

[2mumdad]

U need to do more vids coz iv seen all of them now we need more coz u have helped alot or people be there self and not to be scared of who they really are xxx thank you for everything u have done for people u two are really somethig xxx love you lots

[Taarable]

Since when does wearing rainbow mean you're gay? Is that just in America?

[ashlyn57]

@Taarable All the friends and family I know say rainbow means you are gay. Or if they are more open minded, that you support gays.

[Taarable]

@ashlyn57 Seriously? It doesn't mean that in my country :L

[FM897]

@ashlyn57 Or it could just mean that someone likes rainbows :)

[ashlyn57]

@FM897 True. Tons of toddlers wear rainbows, so does that make them gay? lol haha

[boredominitsprime]

Lmao pretty awesome.

[cornstarch27]

hahahahaha then he's gonna come out here and kick my ask!

again- you guys are totally adorable. i'm so glad you did the video together! :] brightens my day.

[BigBrotherWii]

It's official...you all are the biggest teasers on the planet! And I fancy that too!

[IndiaJ92]

I'm so digging the analogy(my room is covered in wooden panels so nothing but brown really) also, you guys advice always rock.

[okirish5]

i dig the analogy, great video!

[dbz8866]

SO cute and i loved the analogy, keep up the great videos!

[Shpants9710]

Wise old Aunt Mary B. ;-) You're not old. Mary B, I envy you. And Jess, theres never a moment in your videos where you come off as someone that isn't confident.

[CriminalMinds89]

Aww Oh My God! How cute are you two?! Even when you're not talking to each other, the way that you were talking in that video is so different to the way you talk separately in videos...SO CUTE! Love you guys!

[Kk1085]

Adorable.

You two could change the world.

[LadyGM720]

Think outside the gay lol ahahahaha I was trying to talk to my grandmother and I had to take my headphones out because I was laughing so hard. I was like "Sorry grandmaw they were making me laugh!"

[SchrodingersPet]

I love you Jess and Mary B!

[jazzie0707]

You guys are so ADORABLE!

I'm just gonna asplode from the cuteness XD

[Rampagelil]

You guys are awesome, my soon to be sister in law is a lesbian and she finally came out and I've noticed she kind of censors herself but she's getting better.

[Minireb123]

you guys are so cute it makes me so happy :D

[Pozoe12]

*parents.

[Pozoe12]

I want to be your child. And I don't mean that in any creepy sort of, "I WANT YOUR DNA" way. I just mean that Ithink you guys would make excellent ch

[jpollem]

Jess, you're awesome on your own. Mary B, you're awesome on your own as well. Together? The awesomeness gets multiplied exponentially! I'm continually inspired by the both of you and am so pleased to see the number of views you get. You make a difference!

[MartineisRawr]

You two are so cute :D And Mary's theory, or game is right! If you view the brown to how to be lesbian or what to do about being gay and all those other worries, then you're not going to see the green. The green representing the rest of your life or yourself. At least, that's what I think.

You two should make tons more videos together, it's cute.

[riotgrrrrl1288]

if theres an ad with hot lesbians, you guys are in it! :D

[stardowl]

You guys are really effing adorable. I'll probably have to re-watch the video and actually listen to what you were talking about coz I was so distracted by the cuteness.

[blacksnow42]

I completely agree with you guys. For the first week of realising I was gay I had a continual internal dialogue of 'here is my gay self picking up a pencil' to 'here is my gay self having a shower' and 'here is my gay self looking for my car keys'.

It takes time to get use to being gay, and other people seeing you as gay. But it will happen, and it will become less of an identity crux (hopefully) as time goes on :)

[thinksmiles]

OMG! You have the same glasses as me or I have the same glasses as you. Haha. Awesome! Also great video and you two are too freaking cute. :D

[darkinuangel]

XD You guys are hilarious! Too cute to! I really do get what your saying though. I've stopped finding problems where there weren't any and life got great relationship because of it.

[autoswerve]

definitely needed this, thanks you two!

ps, we have the same drinking glasses. i was too amused to not mention it.

[reaganladouceur]

I misclicked but this vid is interesting

[V33queen]

"hey wanna make a video with me?!"

"maybe."

i thought that was just soo cute! lol

[skipperdoofus]

y'all are cute. still. "it's not funny!"

[Linen15]

Naaw, you're so cute togehter ^^ Now I miss my girlfriend :P

[Rawrimdarren]

Make More Videos with Mary!!! You two together are soooooo cute!

[LordSariel42]

You two are the reason I love lesbians. You're an adorable couple who are just living your lives happily, the way every kid questioning his/her sexuality wishes they could. With someones arms around you and no one judging. Just being you. <3

[java2guava]

Hey, thanks Jess for another great vid that could not have come at a better time. I'm in a "crisis" situation of sorts that relates to this week's topic. I've been focusing in on the "gay box" a lot lately, coming to terms with things, etc. So maybe, I should take a step back for a little while. "Take a break from the gay" I guess you could put it. And just focus on other things about me! :) See if that works. (I <3 all you Big Beavs!)

[bernhardtsen74]

Stop being so cute together girls!!!!!

[eaglebreath5]

you got me mary b I stopped the video cuz I knew there was tons of brown things in my room. I'm a little disapointed I thought you had a fun brain testing game. jess are you letting your ears grow in??

[Natalii84]

yall are sooo adorable! <3 i want a girlfriend now :)

[Amandinedinedine]

i guess it helps to be in a relationship to be self confident... what's ironic is that you often need to be somewhat self confident to be with someone.. but i guess not always. but really... when you think about it there's no reason not to be self confident... i mean we're all here for a reason and we're worth it so yeah. and being gay or whatever is super awesome... we should all be proud.

[wecouldallbefaceless]

I love bonus clips. :)

[1c3l]

tunnel vision

[biscuit13185]

your love is inspiring. <3

[SKYking1807]

you guys always make me smile. you give awesome advice too.

[ooxxJJxxoo]

Actually my bedroom colour scheme is green and brown ... :/

Maybe I should try with different colours :P

and LOL at the "Kick your ask"!! haha

Very entertaining and great advice as always! :)

[yourrrsmile]

you two are so cute, it hurts.

and trololol at the ending <3

[smile4everandalways]

you two are an errupting volcano of cuteness! :) please do Wednesday with Mary too! I can't get enough of you guys! much love all the way from canada.

[xSophieCuyler]

Thanks you guys! Sometimes I just get in this bubble where I think "all I am is gay". No, that is just one small part of me! Its taken me awhile to realize this, and it's something i'm still working on, but thanks for reminding me. I think we sometimes feel this way because of how society can make it such a big deal, when really we know that it isn't. I'm proud of liking girls lol, but it isn't my only defining characteristic. Oh and you two are adorable as always <3

[corbeau909]

holy crap you guys are ridiculously cute!

[malo20malo]

you guys are the cutes couple ever :)

[arsnel366]

Haha i love the "Think outside the gay"

[V33queen]

this was very helpful ladies! im just now coming out so this is a big help.

ps u guys are soo cute together. anyone could tell that u two are crazy for eachother. keep it up! :)

thanks jess & mary!

[TheCheapshot10]

So adorable! You guys are amazing!

[BrittParker23]

Yay!!! Jess AND Mary:) love you guys:)

[mijababygurl4]

This video is AMAZING..You two are adorable, and everything you said in the video is extremely helpful

Thank youu

<3

[skooldrpout]

you 2 always make me laugh fanks x

[skooldrpout]

theres no brown arhhhhhhhhhh lmao

[misabelhvc]

this was a very helpful video, thank you so much :)

[lebiansopp]

I love it when you do videos together :)

[9Squishy9]

its amazing everytime i see you two in a videa together a great fat smile gets slapped on my face :D love you guys!! xx

[911Some1]

Are you familiar with the LIGHTNING PROCESS? If not I am really impressed with how you see things! Love you guys! :D

[marybside]

@911Some1 -- What's the LIGHTNING PROCESS??

[911Some1]

@marybside I couldn't figure out a way to explain it in less than 500 characters so this is from the website: "The Lightning Process is not a therapy, a treatment or a cure; it’s a non medical training programme that combines concepts from Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Life Coaching and the principles behind Osteopathy."

It is not physically demanding, but it helps you to concentrate your thoughts for the better. Kind of what you were talking about, just on a bigger scale =)

[lindseyclark08]

I wish I could put you both in my pockets and carry you around everywhere

[PurelyUnpure]

The way Mary looks at you, Jess. You can tell that she really cares about you. You guys are really adorable together (:

[Mandy2356]

Ohgosh. I LOVE you guys. The way you look at each other its amazing.

I'm hoping so much to find someone who clicks with me as much as you click with each other. You're truely amazing. =]

[unexpectedexplosion]

I love u guys! u were apart of those who inspired me to become apart of TheSevenQueers collab channel :)

u guys r adorable!

[DisasterPanda1994]

I love you two. Separately and together. Whatever the topic, you always seem to make me feel better and I find that you definitely help me in various situations I find difficult to deal with. (Even if you don't know it. Advice can go a long way!) Thank you, (again), for another amazing video. (:

[clydevalentine2240]

very cute. and well said;)

[waarea]

you guys did it again :D my day is so much better now : )

[whatthefrenchtoast87]

omg!!!!!!!!!!! you girls are sooooooo adorable! i love when you make videos together!its adorable!!!

[12Tuboo]

Aw. you two are so damn cute! I'm jealous

[s8ntmark]

I love you guys so much! Cutest couple on Youtube :D

[lizrem]

I know everyone's prob. gonna say this, and already have, but it was sooo good seein' you in a BB vid again! I don't even think you understand the level of awesome that you two are on! For reals!.. I just love the two of you. End of comment.

Oh, great opinions on topic, btw :)

[gelz4life]

Loved your approach on answering the question :D

You guys are so cuteeee

love you both <3

[TheWolfOfTheCity]

Your haircut is awesome and this video was so helpful. lease do more vids with your gf you to are awesome together XD

[JaviFairground]

Aaaahw you are too adorable!

[bunnydust1]

YAY you guys made my day :) more videos together please!!!! Love you guys so much

[jaysyntax11]

hahahahahha the end. aw mary, you two are just too cute.

[funlovingnun]

Omg you guys are so adorable. Shaking and crying right now

[IAmWhoIAmandIamME]

"Think outside the gay" lol, great MB =)

You guys just made my day.

xoxx

[WyldFire777]

Such a cute video. "Think outside the gay." lol, love it!

The best advice I have for this topic is to simply to be honest with people. And I think, over time, with enough positive reinforcement from herself and the closest people in her life, she should feel more and more comfortable to be herself, though it is a slow process. But if the person who wrote that question is reading this right now, just know that you are a unique and worthy individual, and take pride in all aspects of your life.

[harpsmor]

but i actually remember 3 things that are green (my wall, pillow, and mattress) many things in my room are green so that was probably not an example for me but i get what you guys are saying lol

[JUSTALICEDUDE]

"How many of you saw beige stuff and tryed to call it brown!?" and theres me holding this beige lid thing :') made me laugh so much :D made my day, thanks guys ^_^. love from birmingham (uk) (:

[marybside]

@JUSTALICEDUDE -- hahah gotcha!

[jayneedschocolate]

do you guys have tumblr?

[jeskadroosh]

I have those same cups!

[maybekarly]

That just made my day.You guys are way tooo cute!Too cute for words :) .

[brooklynbees]

soo cute lol :) and i like the topic a lot 

[aqstoy]

thanks for the memories guys!! you are so cute both of ya!!! GREETINGS FROM DOWNEY CALIFORNIA

[RVloveland]

we love YOU big! Good to see you ladies. You just made my day XX

[Foolishheart12123]

The ending was so cute. You guys are great.

[xbellaxbrutalityx]

you guys are too cute! =]]]] great video jess and mary! it was good to see a video with you two

[ItsOnlyADayAway]

just simply thank you

[OnlyGirlsLikeMe]

haha awwww you're both so adorable!!

would you guys adopt me? haha joking (not really joking)

[baller202308]

I love you two it gives me hope that there are sane couples out there.

[Randigrrr]

I wish everyday was Monday. I can't get enough of you two.

[smartalec452]

That intro reminded me of reading rainbow :p

[QueenxofxSekyd]

You guys are the cutest couple, and I loved the reference at the end :) lol

[emmerised]

Mindfulness isn’t so much a change in thoughts and images as a change in awareness of thought.

[AnonymousFreakazoid]

YOU TWO ARE SO ADORABLE!!!!!!!!!

[amccrazgrl]

My dog is brown. Crash the puggle!!!

[ximepe88]

how can i finish my paper when you guys kill me with cuteness??

[allyjoYAknow]

Yall are just too cute for words! We all love yall too! I loved the insight provided to this topic; well done yall...as always :-)

[glasseyelashes]

my thing is- at first, i was all about "oh man, what if they think i'm gay? should i act differently? whaddoido?" but now, i couldn't care less. i am who i am. i don't change for anyone. still, i do have days where i bothers me, but the straights can go about their business as they are, who's to say i can't?

[losr18]

i can't even take all the cuteness that happened in this video.

love you two! =)

[ahappygay]

this response to this topic is so well done. Coming to terms with yourself and gaining the confidence takes forever. it's your skin. Gay or not, it happens to everyone in some aspect. Love you.

[MollyMisfit1]

Keep it real lovelies!

[MollyMisfit1]

You are both very beautiful people! Love your videos!

[softballluver90]

I love your gals laugh still great video by the way made me a little bit more confindent about myself but still a little scared about every little thing that happens

[theywillknowyou]

You guys are so cute together! I smiled the wholeee time...thank you! :)

[IreneFelton]

and we love you even more. you as in you guys. you are so lucky to have each other. you guys give us hope. i'm sure i speak for more than just myself. <3

[patitofeo26]

"kick your ask" LOL i love that little girl.

[vexire]

I'm not gay so this doesn't apply strictly in the sense you're talking about, but I'm going through some rough times at the moment and this has helped me a lot. Thank you so much for sharing such love and hope with your viewers. -Michelle

[kimber1ysue]

love, love, love the two of you together!! you both look so happy (: thanks for making my monday! <3

[chipech5]

Jess, you´re so lucky. Mary, you´re too. =D Thanx for sharing your life with us beavs. It really gives me hope that I´ll be able to live happily and have a loving relationship, even though I live in a very narrow minded environment. I send you both big hugs all the way from Guatemala. =D Yo inspire me to be the best person I can be.

[simplayaj]

Ooo I learned something new today!

[parramania8]

yeah im not even gonna lie, i watched the last ten seconds of this video like 10 times

[writeitdown]

Kind of off topic, but the "you only find what you're looking for" thing made me think of the search for love. I kept searching and searching for that perfect girl, but she was never there. So when I stopped, my eyes were opened wider and I found her. If I had been looking still...I would have missed her. =(

I love you both so much!! Jess & Mary B. <3

[virylicious]

omg, the cutest couple ever!!!

[heck2theno1]

i love you too. you are honestly my role modles. life is just so hard right now, and you two are a place for me to go to just feel safe <3 so thank you so much(: you have no idea how much it means to me! i love you!! !:)

---JESS! u still need to message me bak --- 

[MaeGal]

Hey, we have those cups. ;)

[LeathermanFan]

This youtube video is brought to you by Crest Whitening Toothpaste, lol, j/k.

[FM897]

That was a great exercise and great advice!  You guys are so adorable and awesome!!

[GeekyKaz]

So much cute @_@

[Minireb123]

yay nothing makes a monday better than a jess and mary b video :D