Beginner's Guide to Getting Over the Death of a Loved One

[MinajShuffler]

@randomcupacakee you explained it way better than any book or video thank you.

[05matthew]

@menwoolover1 long as your friend lived for we will get attached, not only humans are the ones who pass away and are grieved over. So next time please keep ignorant comments to yourself. Thank You.

[05matthew]

@menwoolover1 Just because they aren't human doesn't mean anything other then they are defensless creatures and they always have their innocence, waking up to my dog every morning and him liking my face and greeting me is somthing that i'll always remember and cherish, he is apart of me and my family and he will always be in our hearts, just like deceased parents and grandparents.. ect. So just thought i'd let you know how some of us people feel about our pet companions for 17 years.. almost as

[05matthew]

@menwoolover1 You know you say you have had a friend your whole life who passed away and i'm very sorry as my Nonna passed away 1 month of tomorrow, and I completley understand why you are upset about your friend passing away. But for some people their pet (dog or cat) may have been their companion for so many years. It is like losing somone apart of the family so don't be saying don't comment because when my pet passes away it's going to be extremley difficuilt for me to cope with,he is family

[LiMeej]

I lost my Fiance 3 years ago because she took her own life because of all of the hardships that she has gone through and I'm still mourning her death till this day. Every night I see her in my dreams because of the Guilt that I've been feeling because of the fact that I was not able to fulfill my promises I made her..

[cutie19x]

thanks for uploading

[menwoolover1]

People complaining about dogs and cats dying.. It's not the same as parents or grandparents. I get it, it may hurt you emotionally but on sunday night, a VERY close friend died. He was 18 and I had known him my whole life. You may feel upset, but don't comment about it, please.

[xopme3]

my mom died arount 2 this morning from a heartattak

[joebeansify]

@xopme3 im soz to hear that m8

[righty121v2]

My Great Grandma was buried today... Someone please help.... D:

[HustlerJerbear]

My grandma just passed away last night :(

[sigrestbrandon]

My cousin died November 30 last year :'(

[AntiBookReader]

My 17 year old friend died in a car accident. I knew him so well...

[MrLiljay000]

Anyone know how to get over a dog passing away??? Im finding it hard to sleep, hard to eat im breaking down into tear's, my dog had cancer and my mum woke me up one morning to tell me are dog is dieing, the poor thing was yelping because of the pain she was in, we had her put down an hour later, it was horrible, I cant erase thoe's memories. I am an emotional wreck!. I need help :( As it is i already suffered from depression, And this has topped it off.

[mapledrops]

@MrLiljay000 My dad died of a heart attack.! While i was at school. =( im 13. He dies 3 months ago. I am really close to him.

[NineInchNails25]

@mapledrops Sorry about your beloved dad, he loves you alot. Look up Armor For A Sleep, The Truth About Heaven on youtube. It is a song about loss. I'm truely sorry.

[nicolek1996]

My grandpa died ealier this morning....

[its3quiet]

I was feeling depressed until i hear his last name. this guys good

[randomcupcakee]

my mom passed away this month November 2nd. She was the only person who I told everything too and it's like I feel like nothig now. I just wanna lay in bed all day... :( I know it's gonna take a really long time and I don't think we can ever actually "get over" a loved ones death because they will always be in your heart and you can't really ever forget about them. All I can say is to be as strong as possible. Everything happens for the better...

[eliasgamer]

@randomcupcakee I lost a great friend two months ago. I don't know how to cope with this as it is eating me up inside. If you would like to chat feel free to send me a message maybe we can help each other.

[Bluetablepainting2]

My cat died 3-4 yrs ago and I still cant get over it. My mom is selling most of the old stuff that i had before my cat died. But now whenever i go downstairs for something to drink i just end up running back upstairs and start crying to my self the moment i see the boxes.

[Blast5400]

My grandma died about a month ago and I saw her body when she died and who she reacted the day before she died because she had a cancer she really couldn't talk or breathe she would only breathe about eight or nine times a minute and today I get flashbacks

[HeenriqueM]

my grandfather died yesterday :(

[Slipknotfan4611]

@HeenriqueM Sorry that happened to you :(

[Sonarchilles]

My 5 yr old cousin died from a gunshot to the head.

I wasn't super close to them but I've never cried more than for her.

[Cyber24681]

my mom died 35 housr ago i feel like niothin

[ilovegir1246]

My best friend died.. 12 yars old. :/

[imaburrit0]

i went to see my granpa on my 9th birthday,then i found out he died the next day. Im 19 now and I i still cant get over it. :'(

[UrMomComputer]

....my bunny died.

[krazykittykat17]

Ive had two deaths and one in intensive care this week, i feel like my world is ending and my supposedly boyfriend doesnt want to talk right now, luckily i do have good friends and I believe without them it would be so much harder. So a huge thank you to Dan,Jess, Chaz and laura.

[ReneeZimbodgi]

this dosen't help! my cat died yesterday, and this says to get professional help and make yourself sound like a weirdo. 

[lloolliie]

My friend died on monday from asthma attack :( only 17 :( R.I.P Elmo <3

[fuzeful]

my beloved aunt just died last night from a heart attack..it was unexpecting :(

[NekoBeau]

I think its dangerous to tell people that they're going to 'get over' death. You won't. You just get through it.

[jubjubmh316]

@NekoBeau thats true, its impossible to get over it. My dad died in april, and i try and try to not think about it and not remember it because it hurt so much, but eventually it just builds up and you let everything out. I think the best thing to do is let yourself cry and cry, and dont isolate yourself from your family. Then, you will wake up one day and realize that they are at peace and feel no pain, and life will always go on.

[KidZeroTube]

i lost my uncle and 2 cusins in 3 months :(

[paulma222]

My dad died today and I cant stop crying. It feels like a part of me is gone.

[HelloKittyKit7722]

@paulma222 I'm so sorry to hear this. I lost my dear Mum on June 19th. I know that they can still see us from heaven -- we never really have to say "goodbye," but only "goodnight" for a season. We'll see them again. God bless you; I hope that we can be friends

[southernsweet14]

@lionliberty I'm sorry about your grandma my grandma died today to and I'm absolutely heartbroken

[LionLiberty]

i just found out my great grandma died this morning. I'm crying buckets right now.

[xGEO175x]

@LionLiberty and i just found out my grandma died this morning.... may they both r.i.p

[LionLiberty]

@xGEO175x I'm so sorry for your loss. thank you for your kind words.

[hyster714]

im 14 my dad died when i was 13 of cancer at my house and im still very emotional

[thecupcakesmoving]

My mommy died yesterday, I found her dead, and she was my bestie, it hurts so bad.

[meeecoe]

@thecupcakesmoving You just found her dead? What happened? I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll pray for you, sorry for your loss.

[LtnOmar]

I cannot understand 80 % of what he is saying, Open your mouth! Speak clearly

[xXAnnaDrewXx]

My best friend died a little over a month ago after being hit by a car. I have been so unhappy since, that people have noticed that I'm not the same person. My friend, who is very religious, keeps telling me "it's part of God's plan." What kind of plan, that is suppose to be so great, has to cause the death of a 14 year old boy! I know he still wants me to be happy, and all that stuff, but I can't....I just can't......

[savvysarusrex]

he says it like it's nothing...like getting over somebody who died is nothing...what if you shared so much with each other and he killed himself because he wasn't going to live much longer and because you hurt them...he kept on saying is "if you lived me so much y did you rip out my heart" how do you get over that?!?

[liz3videoz3]

My boyfriend has Cancer. I'm always crying, school, home, everything. I cry myself to sleep every night because I really love him </3

[ForeverBriXoxo]

My grandma has cancer. She's not dead yet but my parents told me she has less than a week. I'm always crying even at school. And I don't want my friends do think I'm a drama queen... My grandmas dying. And we were so close. And my poor grandpa, his dad just died a month ago and now his wife. /: I saw her 8 days ago. And that was the last. /;

[Sonofaratdog]

My little brother died when I was 10 and now im 17. I still haven't gotten over his death. I'm a Catholic and people would tell me that his death was part of "God's Plan". I'm realizing now that if God's plan involves killing the ones i love when they are only 8, then I don't want to have anything to do with that God.

[prizefighter26]

this one girl who i liked and we almost became bfgf but a long time after we stopped talking for uncertain reasons, my best friend told me she died from the anastesia given to her during wisdom teeth surgery or whatever. i realized how stupid i was for not giving her a chance cause she was a wonderful person and you all need to realize this too, dont let people drift away so easy because one day, they might not be there ever again :(

[rockinbull101]

im 13 years old and my daddy died a while back of a sudden heart attack. closest person i could ever be with.i still cant handle this pain and i dont know what to do. no one to talk about it with. my moms in denial that i could be clinically depressed and she doesnt even care :( but somehow i can put on a fake smile when i go to school

[MaratSafinVideos]

@rockinbull101 I hope you're okay, it says a lot that you're even on this video, I hope you're as mature and strong as you seem, it's not easy but try and remind yourself that there are lots of people who have gone through similar things, you're not alone, just try and live your life the way your dad would've wanted you to.

[mrsbieber4250]

My cousin died yesterday in a car accident... I just am so confused

[meggytron1]

so me and my boyfriend broke up and he movies back to Ohio and some one sad that i killed my self and i did not as u can tell and he ommmmmm killed his self to be with me and i cant handal this!

[frizzhome]

how do u help a friend get over the death of her dog that she has had since birth

i lost my dog 2 years ago and i still cry i dont want her to go through that...

[RastaLOVE4EVA]

my best friends brother died in a car crash this morning i cant stop crying ):

[BetascapePS]

thank you for makeing this vidoe my cousind die last year and my ather one died 3 years to

[katieee14ist]

i miss my kitten more and more with every passing day :'( </3

[asthewallsclosein]

My Girlfriend's, Sister's Boyfriend died in a car accident. He was 17, Just finished school. Got great exam results and was in a great relationship.

and it all just hit me now.. :'(

[JayNickie]

My great grandma just died this morning. :(

[spacecake3000]

i just found out today my dog has arthritis 

[amberorton1]

i lost my grandfather on fathers day 2 years ago and i was really close to him and its hard with out him, he would sing me to sleep everynight and he cant anymore... he had cancer for a while and when he went to check out what was going on the doctors told him he had stage 4 cancer and its still sad, i still mourn over him but i know he wouldnt want me 2. i miss you grandaddy you were the biggest influence of my life and im deadicating been here all along to you. thanks for being in my life.....

[danielmokey]

my beloved cat was put down earlier this afternoon... i'm absolubtely devastated and can't picture my life without her :'(

[shorty32598]

@danielmokey my dog died today and i cant stop crying

[danielmokey]

@shorty32598 i'm really sorry to hear that :(

it's horrible, a pet becomes one of your family and when you lose one it's like losing a close relative or friend :(

[snag001]

@shorty32598 Mine too, hun. Stay strong. We had to put our dog down because of a tumor that couldn't be operated on.

[missballetdancer]

my 10 year old freind lost her brother 9-21-10 :'( i still cry and cant get over it or i just cant stop thinking about him his name was ryan

[vomitingcat]

lost my mom 11/15/2010 2:04pm

[regjegleg]

I lost my brother 12/15/2010, and i still cant get over it.

[Tbirds2012]

I lost my Grandpa yesterday, everybody watching, we are in the same boat, and all of you guys are in my prayers.

[LuffChristianBeadles]

my doggie wast away 1/02/2010.

i cant stop crying.

[PinkandBlueAnimation]

My cat Max passed away August 12th this year (2010) and it's been very hard. We grew up together. I am 14, he was 10.

[XIanX01]

I loss my brother 1 1/2 weeks ago im so sad.

[danielcreitz1]

My best friend 15 years old died this week, and i cant stop working out, making my muscles hurt helps me for some reason. I still miss him alot :.(

[XxxXxemoprincesx]

i listen to music and cry my eyes out and leve her messages on her msn and wee world <\3 broken forever i miss u tilly v.v

[helloboal]

U should make a memorial of your grandfather full of pictures in your room

[vulta01]

my grandpa died 2 years ago and every time i see a picture of him i start to cry what should i do

[myshininglight]

I like this presentater's calm manner and the content is useful. Two months of grieving for my partner - it's hard-going some days....I'll watch this again to remind myself it is a healing experience.