I would like some advice. me and my husband have only been together a year and a half. and before we were married, i got pregnant, and about 3 months after we got together i just knew he was cheating on me. He denied it and finally told me a few nights ago. Now I thought i had dealt with this by myself but now I'm getting a lot of angry feelings. I'm the type of woman, you cheat, theres the door but because i was pregnant and hormonal, i didnt want to make any rash decisions. How can I deal?
ok, well i would like some advice from you guys. i found out that my boyfriend at the time cheated on me a year ago. we have gotten married since then but i knew on some level he cheated. well we had not been together very long and i had gotten pregnant. So, I'm trying to figure out how to deal with this because he had came clean about it a few days ago. I'm one of those, you cheat, theres the door. but i was pregnant and hormonal so i didnt want to make any rash desisons. how do i deal now?
Nobody should have to put up with cheating. As long as you are the faithful type, you have the right to better company than that. You don't have to lay with a dog, that tends to bring one fleas. And all men are not dogs, but women need to be able to discern men of honor from men who don't think it's a big deal. Sometimes in the process of choosing based on sex, income, status, attractiveness, and emotions, yall forget to weigh the character of the man into the equation!
Dude in the suit...if the "monkey" is being thrown at you from other women, and you can't control yourself, you don't need to be in a relationship anyway. Period, point blank. Whether you are going out and actively looking and sniffing around for it or whether it falls into your lap and you can't help yourself, the problem is the same: your lack of self control as a man and disrespect for your woman. If you love who you with, you know how to say "no" to OPP, that goes for anybody.
see now heres the thing....If I marry my fiance and then 10 years from now get paralyzed and cant physically have sex anymore.....should I not expect my faithful husbad of ten years to still be faithful??? I mean damn....if that happened to my husband, I still wouldnt cheat on him just cuz he couldnt pound me....its called masturbate....cheaters do nothing but break hearts
@4LOSTSOULSONLY true dat b/c a lot of women out there got their "licker" license labeled class 'A(+) wherever applicable. At the same time though, weighed against the girlfriend/wife who doesn't perform oral sex I'd presume that the door to cheating would be little wider cracked.
I enjoyed this so much. I too am from a different era but I tend to be very liberal. I will say however I disagree on your statement as to when/if he cheats, we need to look in the mirror...ANNNNT...We don't cause him to cheat anymore than he causes us to cheat. We cheat because WE CAN and DO. Some use fault as a tool so as to be forgiven. OWNERSHIP totally ours. I have cheated but it was because the guy was HOT and I wanted some PERIOD!!! LOL
fajfred - LOL thanks so glad u liked the Video! Actually what I said was we should look in the mirror first and if we know we didn't do anything to push them away than yes we can fully blame the other party... Yes most times people cheat cuz they want to but every so often someone may cheat cuz they're needs aren't getting met at home... Thanks for sharing your thoughts w/ me!!!
@VuVlogs if their needs aren't getting met at home they can work that out with their partner or they can leave the relationship. Cheating is an option only for those who don't value fidelity. There is always a better option than for one to throw their integrity out of the window. Often cheaters claim they cheated because they weren't getting X, Y, Z at home, but you'd be surprised at how many people don't even verbalize what they want to their partner/spouse before stepping out.
Hey Vu! I'm Vics gurl and he just turned me on to your vlog, I really enjoy the topics I write continuously for a group of women who have relationship issues. Presently in a new relationship with a great man this has given us a positive outlet which adds to our communication in a positive way. Have written for magazines as well as other venues I would love to continue following your vlog. Great Job! God Bless! And Much Success Maria
Interesting topic and discussion. Aria sent me to you and have I enjoyed it. I turn 50 tomorrow, so my views differ a bit from young people on your show, however, I do relate to some of the sentiments. Thanks for keeping it real Ms. Vu. Easy.
As I said before Vu in a comment I left on your face book about a month ago. Ophra will need to be placed one day and you have exceelant potential. think big and go for it. Regarding the guest and topics, excellant choice. A little controversial but kool and funny. I like whats goin on here..
Wow Vu has some incredible breasts....
MrCasper1981 2 weeks ago
bitch thats why u aint married you talk to much\
mricecreamman1000 1 year ago
@mricecreamman1000 U don't have ur profile pic up, u must be ugly with a little dick and not married yourself. lol
VuVlogs 1 year ago
6:14 - Two hand motion, tend to the children!! HAHAHA! I am a MAN and the girl best give me some HEAD! or else it's bye bye! Haha!
Trixiaoyu 1 year ago
I would like some advice. me and my husband have only been together a year and a half. and before we were married, i got pregnant, and about 3 months after we got together i just knew he was cheating on me. He denied it and finally told me a few nights ago. Now I thought i had dealt with this by myself but now I'm getting a lot of angry feelings. I'm the type of woman, you cheat, theres the door but because i was pregnant and hormonal, i didnt want to make any rash decisions. How can I deal?
Marshallsgirl1 1 year ago
ok, well i would like some advice from you guys. i found out that my boyfriend at the time cheated on me a year ago. we have gotten married since then but i knew on some level he cheated. well we had not been together very long and i had gotten pregnant. So, I'm trying to figure out how to deal with this because he had came clean about it a few days ago. I'm one of those, you cheat, theres the door. but i was pregnant and hormonal so i didnt want to make any rash desisons. how do i deal now?
Marshallsgirl1 1 year ago
lol Paul Wall
mpm1985 1 year ago
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mpm1985 1 year ago
Nobody should have to put up with cheating. As long as you are the faithful type, you have the right to better company than that. You don't have to lay with a dog, that tends to bring one fleas. And all men are not dogs, but women need to be able to discern men of honor from men who don't think it's a big deal. Sometimes in the process of choosing based on sex, income, status, attractiveness, and emotions, yall forget to weigh the character of the man into the equation!
dealmaker007 1 year ago
@dealmaker007 great comment love it
VuVlogs 1 year ago
Dude in the suit...if the "monkey" is being thrown at you from other women, and you can't control yourself, you don't need to be in a relationship anyway. Period, point blank. Whether you are going out and actively looking and sniffing around for it or whether it falls into your lap and you can't help yourself, the problem is the same: your lack of self control as a man and disrespect for your woman. If you love who you with, you know how to say "no" to OPP, that goes for anybody.
dealmaker007 1 year ago
P.O.R.N gooood...Not drinking the babies(spitting out)Baaad...
BUNNOBB 1 year ago
see now heres the thing....If I marry my fiance and then 10 years from now get paralyzed and cant physically have sex anymore.....should I not expect my faithful husbad of ten years to still be faithful??? I mean damn....if that happened to my husband, I still wouldnt cheat on him just cuz he couldnt pound me....its called masturbate....cheaters do nothing but break hearts
KrazyLoveless 1 year ago
@KrazyLoveless - u're right cheaters do nothing but break hearts!
VuVlogs 1 year ago
Oral sex is not going to stop a girl's boyfriend or husband from cheating but you don't hear me though.
4LOSTSOULSONLY 2 years ago
@4LOSTSOULSONLY true dat b/c a lot of women out there got their "licker" license labeled class 'A(+) wherever applicable. At the same time though, weighed against the girlfriend/wife who doesn't perform oral sex I'd presume that the door to cheating would be little wider cracked.
ankokugaiBOSS 2 years ago
I agree!
VuVlogs 2 years ago
I agree completely, I think if someone's going to cheat, sometimes it doesn't matter how well u treat them, sometimes it's not even personal
VuVlogs 2 years ago
I enjoyed this so much. I too am from a different era but I tend to be very liberal. I will say however I disagree on your statement as to when/if he cheats, we need to look in the mirror...ANNNNT...We don't cause him to cheat anymore than he causes us to cheat. We cheat because WE CAN and DO. Some use fault as a tool so as to be forgiven. OWNERSHIP totally ours. I have cheated but it was because the guy was HOT and I wanted some PERIOD!!! LOL
fajfred 2 years ago
fajfred - LOL thanks so glad u liked the Video! Actually what I said was we should look in the mirror first and if we know we didn't do anything to push them away than yes we can fully blame the other party... Yes most times people cheat cuz they want to but every so often someone may cheat cuz they're needs aren't getting met at home... Thanks for sharing your thoughts w/ me!!!
VuVlogs 2 years ago
@VuVlogs if their needs aren't getting met at home they can work that out with their partner or they can leave the relationship. Cheating is an option only for those who don't value fidelity. There is always a better option than for one to throw their integrity out of the window. Often cheaters claim they cheated because they weren't getting X, Y, Z at home, but you'd be surprised at how many people don't even verbalize what they want to their partner/spouse before stepping out.
dealmaker007 1 year ago
Victor/Maria - wow thanks so much for the feedback I soooo appreciate it, I'm really glad u like it... thanks Maria!!!!
Digisouldream - wow 50?? that's awesome thanks for watching and would love ur feedback from someone who is more wise than me! I love to learn!
VuVlogs 2 years ago
Hey Vu! I'm Vics gurl and he just turned me on to your vlog, I really enjoy the topics I write continuously for a group of women who have relationship issues. Presently in a new relationship with a great man this has given us a positive outlet which adds to our communication in a positive way. Have written for magazines as well as other venues I would love to continue following your vlog. Great Job! God Bless! And Much Success Maria
victorconcepcion1 2 years ago
Interesting topic and discussion. Aria sent me to you and have I enjoyed it. I turn 50 tomorrow, so my views differ a bit from young people on your show, however, I do relate to some of the sentiments. Thanks for keeping it real Ms. Vu. Easy.
digisouldream 2 years ago
As I said before Vu in a comment I left on your face book about a month ago. Ophra will need to be placed one day and you have exceelant potential. think big and go for it. Regarding the guest and topics, excellant choice. A little controversial but kool and funny. I like whats goin on here..
victorconcepcion1 2 years ago
LOL eeedel!!!!!
VuVlogs 2 years ago
"eehh.. alright my dicks out" WYLINNNnn! "tend to the children" hahaha... quoateables for DAYS.
eeedel 2 years ago