guys put so much thought into whether other guys are gay. who cares? I mean I honestly couldn't give a shit less. Yet everytime my friends and I go anywhere, they look around and go "dude I think he's gay" or "that dude's a fag, do you think he's a fag?" it's irritating. Am I wierd for not caring about another's sexuality? I like girls. Is there something wrong with my friend?
its not how we perceive you. is how you have been socialized that identifies you as gay. You being a white male in the US you as a gay man have learned certain behaviors that are placed in your subconcious. you dont realize it but your socialization as a gay man is very obvious. you might not realize it, but it is very obvious.
I don't think it matters what you look like, or how you dress, or act. I was on a bowling team a few years ago where the only crossdresser present was actually straight and engaged to a woman. I also think alot of straight guys live their whole lives putting on a masculine act just to make sure people know they're straight. How sad they can't just be themselves
"In some regions physical contact with other men is not seen as gay at all": I agree. Here in South Korea the guys hold hands some times when they talk, and the younger men hug and put their heads on eachother's shoulders a lot. It's not gay in any way, jus affectionate.
and finally i had to get rid of all my punctuation etc.. from my post because it said i was trying to post a url or email address...what is with that?
i watched the rest of it i thought if i'm going to leave a comment the least i can do is actually watch it start to finish i was impressed at how much thought you've put into the issue Gay or straight, you've got good insight I hope you are straight, cause it would be so refreshing to have someone straight actually think about the issues gay people go through.
watched first min or so...don't really care what you point is.. but dude, i'm gay, well lesbian, and from my experience... i'd say SOOOOOO GAAAAY. Just the fact you made this video! so gay. anyway...good for you. Good luck with it
And in my experience, sexual orientation does not define character.
I know several bi/gay guys who 'act straight' and vice versa. I think we are all people with personalities shaped by our experiences first, and after that we are defined as gay, straight, bi or whatever the case may be.
I agree!!! I'm the shyest person I know...and I know alot of people!!! when my friends found out that I was Bi they went crazy with gasping and saying "NO WAY!!! You gotta be KINDDIN' ME!!!" I don't care if random people that I don't know know about me -_- I don't give a damn what you stupid people think about me!!!!!.........I WATCHED THE WHOLE THING!!! ^-^ sorry about my ranting -_-
Talk LESS..SHOW More..and I don'T mean Sexually. InsaneShayne is also doing what you're trying to do in promoting/commenting on others, but he SHOWS clips that make it more entertaining and bearable to watch/listen to..no offense. Are you a Gemini ? BREATH AND MEDITATE More !
Wow, I really enjoyed this video. I think you are quite intriguing and knowledgeable. I think it'd be cool either way, because I tend to like it when guys are gay or when heterosexual guys are okay with gays. =) I also like smart people and you seem really smart. Whoohoo! But I must admit I dislike the word "metrosexual". I feel like that word shouldn't exist. I'd say more, but I probably ran out of space...
you seriously think that theres a fine line with gay or staight? haha i think its about as grey area as those men who take it up the ass or give it to men up the ass are gay. metro sexual is not about sexual orientation you tool!
Why should I care? Two things - your S's are just barely short of a lisp, perhaps enunciating would get rid of the slur/lisp. You tend to over-communicate and that makes most men uncomfortable, since that is usually a trait of women. Fix those and no one could believe that you are gay, if you should care. Personally I could care less what people think, they are just scenery in my world.
I guess you don't know what is going on here. Watch 10-15 of loconut's videos and the posted videos where female YT members are in question about loconut's heterosexuality.
I found this a very interesting video. I have only just discovered you, this being only the 2nd video I have watched. I now intend to work my way through the rest of your stuff and maybe I will form an opinion of whether I think you are gay or not :-)
MertZiver: I realize some of my information might be based on isolated instances I observed when I was there, and not a general fact. Perhaps I will clarify this in a future video.
dude u talk quite a bit and are very articulate lol im drunk and it took me like 5 min to think of that word. but anyway. I think you are gay but i think ur cool as shit but anyway i dont care. anyway i got off track...you need a directors account. Oh and those guys forgot butt pirate and bone smuggler :P anyway dont worry about the haters...watch my TO suicide video to see how many haters i have peace
I NO doubt think you are a straight man who is pretending to be gay.I can definately tell by the width of your eyebrows. Anyways, I'm not really caring if you are gay. What I am more concerned about is if you neighbor is gay? That is the question.
WHO CARES, look man, now a days its not that big of a deal to most people. Once people realized you couldnt contract it like AIDS, they didnt care. Now there are some close minded people out there who are still gonna run their mouths because thats how they resolve their own issues. So gay or straight, I dont care and I believe most of your fans wont either.
i don't care whether you're gay or not. the important thing is; if you're gay, you have better tastes in restaurants? i don't know. i actually think that homosexuality is a choice as much as heterosexuality, albeit unconscious, that we make without being aware of it, when we're young. or, do i?
i mean, there's clearcut reasons you could be seen as gay as much as there are for you to be seen straight but, these are all not only arbitrary but, ... and i lost my train of thought.
If someone said that partitions make you gay obviously has never lived in a heavily populated metropolis! It's New York genius, a lot of people have them in their apartments! Have they never heard of privacy?
Great video...Can't wait to see part 2...So here I go to watch it!
insaneshayne: yeah, people I guess don't get exposed to much a lot of the time. Not really their fault, just too bad. Privacy is nice now and then, especially in NYC.
People are wasting time with bothering about if tey are gay or not or whatever. Just fuckin' live an make something great for this world. i neeed some sleep
Rangifulla: people like to be clever, and sometime forget that in doing so they are offending people. I'm sure I'm guilty of it as well. Human nature?
Ohhhhh the suspense! Ohhhhhhh the wait! I am biting my nails which is regression because we had finally worked me out of that habit in my therapy sessions.
I will state though that no matter what the answer you are still damn sexy to me :)
I/m of an age, and have been married so long, that someone's state of being gay or not gay is so far down my list of concerns I hardly get that far. I sometimes ask "is he smart", "is he trustworthy", "is he rich"...but hardly ever "is he gay". Gay is like a tiny footnote,as in, oh yeah, btw, Gay.
I suppose. I own property with a gay guy, I work with gay women and men, I shop the same places they do... like who the hell cares! I sure don't. As long as they are trustworthy, if matters not the least to me. Like I said, footnote. They say the same sort of thing about me.. "btw.. middle aged straight" hahahaha
Im not into football either but Id like to get into a football player......score!!! LOL
AstroMen2911 1 year ago
guys put so much thought into whether other guys are gay. who cares? I mean I honestly couldn't give a shit less. Yet everytime my friends and I go anywhere, they look around and go "dude I think he's gay" or "that dude's a fag, do you think he's a fag?" it's irritating. Am I wierd for not caring about another's sexuality? I like girls. Is there something wrong with my friend?
itsjustme2919 2 years ago
If you were gay, that would be okay. You would make for a great gay.
JonWRowe 2 years ago
to me, your misunderstanding and stereotyping of straight behaviors sound like an outsider's perspective. I vote gay or bisexual.
arsepoetica71 2 years ago
Gay or not you're gotee is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
matthewjhill 2 years ago
I wear a John Queer hat and people stare at me all the time, I love it! You have good points, cool!
candyshopgirl71 3 years ago
you dont seem gay to me
ObamatheONE 3 years ago
My guess is your card number 3 of "The Sexual Orientation Game" playing cards.
timelessgame 3 years ago
I made it all the way through!
shlubbage 3 years ago
i want a hotdog
nativestyle26 4 years ago
its not how we perceive you. is how you have been socialized that identifies you as gay. You being a white male in the US you as a gay man have learned certain behaviors that are placed in your subconcious. you dont realize it but your socialization as a gay man is very obvious. you might not realize it, but it is very obvious.
15anerachoreographer 4 years ago
ur sssssssssooooooooooo gay.
JJYazzie73 4 years ago
I don't think it matters what you look like, or how you dress, or act. I was on a bowling team a few years ago where the only crossdresser present was actually straight and engaged to a woman. I also think alot of straight guys live their whole lives putting on a masculine act just to make sure people know they're straight. How sad they can't just be themselves
pf008 4 years ago
man that is so true...
ishldknwbttr 4 years ago
I like how corporate America generally continues to assume that good grammar means gay. HAH.
Btw, Sublime is the bomb. Kudos :]
betweenXtheXstars 4 years ago
"In some regions physical contact with other men is not seen as gay at all": I agree. Here in South Korea the guys hold hands some times when they talk, and the younger men hug and put their heads on eachother's shoulders a lot. It's not gay in any way, jus affectionate.
tesol16 4 years ago
You're awesome, straight boy!
MySecretPumkin 4 years ago 2
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No limp wrist, no swish, no lisping voice...you're not gay.
BeatBuddy 4 years ago
lol i love the 2nd song in the background
you seem kinda gay but i dunno, your cute though
RippedLikeJesus101 4 years ago 2
and finally i had to get rid of all my punctuation etc.. from my post because it said i was trying to post a url or email address...what is with that?
salza201080 4 years ago
i watched the rest of it i thought if i'm going to leave a comment the least i can do is actually watch it start to finish i was impressed at how much thought you've put into the issue Gay or straight, you've got good insight I hope you are straight, cause it would be so refreshing to have someone straight actually think about the issues gay people go through.
again good luck with it
salza201080 4 years ago
watched first min or so...don't really care what you point is.. but dude, i'm gay, well lesbian, and from my experience... i'd say SOOOOOO GAAAAY. Just the fact you made this video! so gay. anyway...good for you. Good luck with it
salza201080 4 years ago
gah! get your fucking room tidied you horrible american tramp!
adz870 4 years ago
man i never get tired of the first 10 seconds of this vid
etnies7797 4 years ago
lol...hi guys how are you doing today...lol but for real no homo you dont look gay
tziokas7 4 years ago
Well said...
And in my experience, sexual orientation does not define character.
I know several bi/gay guys who 'act straight' and vice versa. I think we are all people with personalities shaped by our experiences first, and after that we are defined as gay, straight, bi or whatever the case may be.
FerreThoughts 4 years ago
You might want to turn the music down you start to shout .
xJohnasaurus 4 years ago
I agree!!! I'm the shyest person I know...and I know alot of people!!! when my friends found out that I was Bi they went crazy with gasping and saying "NO WAY!!! You gotta be KINDDIN' ME!!!" I don't care if random people that I don't know know about me -_- I don't give a damn what you stupid people think about me!!!!!.........I WATCHED THE WHOLE THING!!! ^-^ sorry about my ranting -_-
rainathewatergirl 4 years ago
sounds like youre saying everyone in the midwest is a hick/redneck.....this upsets me
thejewsandwich 4 years ago
your names jewsandwich dude and your being offened?
Ako3000 4 years ago
im not jewish though
thejewsandwich 4 years ago
watched the first minute of it...
Sound pretty gay to me, but If I was to guess I'd say str8
DavidsAwesome 4 years ago
your roommate is gay or "mostly gay" ??? How can someone be "mostly gay"?
survey4 5 years ago
are you done making justifications instead of just being you and admitting it to yourself first?
hottieformyass 5 years ago
oh god! thank you! finally i can find people who have culture awareness! thank you !
t66o66m66 5 years ago
diversity is a beautiful thing...
humyngal 5 years ago
Have you heard of the group Dangerous Muse? their gay.
AmauryGarcia 5 years ago
Their gay what? Or do you mean THEY'RE gay?
CaptDouchebag 5 years ago
Remember me? What's up?
AmauryGarcia 5 years ago
if you re-arrange the letters in your username it makes "loocunt".
that is awesome :)
iareAJ 5 years ago
That made me laugh :-p
I like this dude but i dunno if your comment was taking the piss but i found it funny :-p
Samboras4star 4 years ago
Talk LESS..SHOW More..and I don'T mean Sexually. InsaneShayne is also doing what you're trying to do in promoting/commenting on others, but he SHOWS clips that make it more entertaining and bearable to watch/listen to..no offense. Are you a Gemini ? BREATH AND MEDITATE More !
JBME 5 years ago
Wow, I really enjoyed this video. I think you are quite intriguing and knowledgeable. I think it'd be cool either way, because I tend to like it when guys are gay or when heterosexual guys are okay with gays. =) I also like smart people and you seem really smart. Whoohoo! But I must admit I dislike the word "metrosexual". I feel like that word shouldn't exist. I'd say more, but I probably ran out of space...
phantompanther 5 years ago
FOOTBALL OWNS
disobedient1 5 years ago
Woops-wrong video cmment sorry! Ok gay stuff..saaaaweeeeeet! I think you are smart...can I have a cookie?
BennyB5555 5 years ago
Would you poop with me and still love me in the morning?
BennyB5555 5 years ago
mate your as bent as a 10 pound note
fmburchillfan121 5 years ago
you seriously think that theres a fine line with gay or staight? haha i think its about as grey area as those men who take it up the ass or give it to men up the ass are gay. metro sexual is not about sexual orientation you tool!
xdefiantxangelx 5 years ago
you fucking fag, turkish dont kiss on the lips. stfu faggot
YMovie 5 years ago
maroon 5 is pretty gay...I vote gay, but you started talking so i say a hint rainbow.
OOOO is the twist that your bi?
KarenCarpenter 5 years ago
Why should I care? Two things - your S's are just barely short of a lisp, perhaps enunciating would get rid of the slur/lisp. You tend to over-communicate and that makes most men uncomfortable, since that is usually a trait of women. Fix those and no one could believe that you are gay, if you should care. Personally I could care less what people think, they are just scenery in my world.
Geminate7 5 years ago
Gem? WTF? Listen..he is explaining the demographics of gay profiling- duh!
BennyB5555 5 years ago
I guess you don't know what is going on here. Watch 10-15 of loconut's videos and the posted videos where female YT members are in question about loconut's heterosexuality.
Geminate7 5 years ago
Long, yes - but it was interesting and well worth the time.
l0gically 5 years ago
i know cuz im Turkish for god's sake! lol
MertZiver 5 years ago
<Font color=LIGHTBLUE>Yes, lol I got through it. Very interesting views... ( :
asautumnfalls 5 years ago
I found this a very interesting video. I have only just discovered you, this being only the 2nd video I have watched. I now intend to work my way through the rest of your stuff and maybe I will form an opinion of whether I think you are gay or not :-)
positivesue 5 years ago
positivesue: haha. thanks. :)
loconut 5 years ago
Turkish guys don't kiss each other on the lips! they kiss both cheeks.
MertZiver 5 years ago
MertZiver: I realize some of my information might be based on isolated instances I observed when I was there, and not a general fact. Perhaps I will clarify this in a future video.
loconut 5 years ago
cool talk
bigtalkingbreasts 5 years ago
HA!
great reply! Thanks for reading my post!
Actually you know I was joking right!
I can care less too! You are cool ! Thanks for the fun!
patddd 5 years ago
patddd: well, it gave me something to work with and had a good point. :) thanks for watching.
loconut 5 years ago
i think i'm in love...lol
shelbyj67 5 years ago
of course i got throught the hole vid.
the music is to load, but as far as i understood
everything was totally correct (from an european point of view)
ogier1 5 years ago
Are you still pondering whether you're gay or not?
If you're gay, screw you, if you'r not, i think you're gay so either way, screw you.
Saleucami 5 years ago
dude u talk quite a bit and are very articulate lol im drunk and it took me like 5 min to think of that word. but anyway. I think you are gay but i think ur cool as shit but anyway i dont care. anyway i got off track...you need a directors account. Oh and those guys forgot butt pirate and bone smuggler :P anyway dont worry about the haters...watch my TO suicide video to see how many haters i have peace
juggernotbich 5 years ago
lol, I have got red and orange walls because I'm too lazy to paint them. Ok, on to the next part!
Redfrettchen 5 years ago
Sorry I haven't commented in a while - I <3 ya no matter what! Love your music choices....what was that last song?
bonequeesha81 5 years ago
i think it's your choice of paint actually.are the other walls red, orange and yellow like a pretty little rainbow?
tellyouwhat 5 years ago
listen, people probably think that you're gay because of your voice. just to let you know.
Flamer25 5 years ago
yes definitly his voice...it's so flamboyant...is he talking with his hands?
tellyouwhat 5 years ago
I NO doubt think you are a straight man who is pretending to be gay.I can definately tell by the width of your eyebrows. Anyways, I'm not really caring if you are gay. What I am more concerned about is if you neighbor is gay? That is the question.
gursuper 5 years ago
Enough talkie talkie... when you going to show us proof :P
DeviLizious 5 years ago
Gay or Straight?
WHO CARES, look man, now a days its not that big of a deal to most people. Once people realized you couldnt contract it like AIDS, they didnt care. Now there are some close minded people out there who are still gonna run their mouths because thats how they resolve their own issues. So gay or straight, I dont care and I believe most of your fans wont either.
glnnboyd 5 years ago
that fuckin' banana kills me
TAOTEHPROTUCTIONS 5 years ago
TAOTEHPROTUCTIONS: Videos of food being eaten in reverse have always amused me for some strange reason.
loconut 5 years ago
i didn't realize that was backwards.
you know, i'm beginning to regret using that as a name. call me jason or, alashua.
TAOTEHPROTUCTIONS 5 years ago
okay, jason. I'll try to remember. :)
loconut 5 years ago
i don't care whether you're gay or not. the important thing is; if you're gay, you have better tastes in restaurants? i don't know. i actually think that homosexuality is a choice as much as heterosexuality, albeit unconscious, that we make without being aware of it, when we're young. or, do i?
i mean, there's clearcut reasons you could be seen as gay as much as there are for you to be seen straight but, these are all not only arbitrary but, ... and i lost my train of thought.
TAOTEHPROTUCTIONS 5 years ago
TAOTEHPROTUCTIONS: what's a train of thought? I must have missed mine a long time ago.
loconut 5 years ago
it would be a pandora's box!
you're onto something...
xyzdanny123 5 years ago
"Football, YEAH!" That was awesome.
If someone said that partitions make you gay obviously has never lived in a heavily populated metropolis! It's New York genius, a lot of people have them in their apartments! Have they never heard of privacy?
Great video...Can't wait to see part 2...So here I go to watch it!
insaneshayne 5 years ago
insaneshayne: yeah, people I guess don't get exposed to much a lot of the time. Not really their fault, just too bad. Privacy is nice now and then, especially in NYC.
loconut 5 years ago
No. It is their fault. They need to educate themselves. J/K But yeah, I can imagine it is nice now and then.
insaneshayne 5 years ago
My boss is Italian, you are so right they welcome attention from anybody no matter their orientation. AND he wears sarongs.
londonlondonbridge 5 years ago
Oh yeah, lol love the thing at the start....and "this love". What were the other songs, though?
hannahruth0 5 years ago
hannahruth0: second song is What I Got by Sublime. third song is Sick by Sneaker Pimps.
loconut 5 years ago
Glad you're back on here. :) I like the term assclown...it just sounds funny. :o)
hannahruth0 5 years ago
hannahruth0: assmonkey? how's that?
loconut 5 years ago
i love you no matter what!!! :) but i can completely understand why you are making these vidoes.. ok, on to part 2!!!
xgobobeanx 5 years ago
xgobobeanx: you love me? woo! ;)
loconut 5 years ago
People are wasting time with bothering about if tey are gay or not or whatever. Just fuckin' live an make something great for this world. i neeed some sleep
trogenus 5 years ago
trogenus: hope you get some sleep. :)
loconut 5 years ago
I saw a protest group once, protesting gay marriage, one guy had a sign saying 'AIDS cures fags.'
It made me laugh so hard yet I think it's a horrible sentiment.
Someone called me a 'Home-owner' once too, classic.
Rangifulla 5 years ago
Rangifulla: people like to be clever, and sometime forget that in doing so they are offending people. I'm sure I'm guilty of it as well. Human nature?
loconut 5 years ago
I have the definitive answer!
Loconut is nothing but a total _tease_.
How long is he going to lead us along before he comes out as being either gay or straight?
:-)
geekeasy 5 years ago
geekeasy: I just seem to have a lot to say on this. Hope part two is satisfactory.
loconut 5 years ago
Ohhhhh the suspense! Ohhhhhhh the wait! I am biting my nails which is regression because we had finally worked me out of that habit in my therapy sessions.
I will state though that no matter what the answer you are still damn sexy to me :)
Ameratis 5 years ago
Ameratis: thanks. All is revealed in part two.
loconut 5 years ago
I/m of an age, and have been married so long, that someone's state of being gay or not gay is so far down my list of concerns I hardly get that far. I sometimes ask "is he smart", "is he trustworthy", "is he rich"...but hardly ever "is he gay". Gay is like a tiny footnote,as in, oh yeah, btw, Gay.
utubersf 5 years ago
utubersf: do you think that living in San Francisco might make you have a different perspective on this than someone living say in des moines, IA?
loconut 5 years ago
I suppose. I own property with a gay guy, I work with gay women and men, I shop the same places they do... like who the hell cares! I sure don't. As long as they are trustworthy, if matters not the least to me. Like I said, footnote. They say the same sort of thing about me.. "btw.. middle aged straight" hahahaha
utubersf 5 years ago
Good work. It was very intresting.
chrrix 5 years ago
chrrix: thanks. glad you found it so. I'm afraid it's too long for most people to find interesting. oh well...
loconut 5 years ago
interesting stuff, can't wait for part 2.
timtwo12 5 years ago
timtwo12: it should be up in a few minutes from now
loconut 5 years ago
whooo
tinka023 5 years ago
tinka023: whooo?
loconut 5 years ago
still think your straight dude
although if your gay i don't matter to me
p.s you will say if your gat or straight in part 2 right?
greatkioman 5 years ago
greatkioman: yes. part 2 is uploading right now. It will answer this.
loconut 5 years ago
this no doubt will get thousands of views too
chicelias 5 years ago
chicelias: I wonder... hard to say.
loconut 5 years ago