Nothing wrong with being a nice guy, just got to understand that being "nice" is not attractive. It's a GOOD quality of a human being, but it's not a (sexually) ATTRACTIVE one. There are plenty of jerks out there failing with women too, but it's easier to have confidence and be straight-up with the ladies when you don't care about hurting them, hence the myth that nice guys finish last and women only want assholes.
@Turbovolver This isn't about the "myth" or attractiveness, it's about the so-called "nice guys" getting criticised and hated on - at the same time not being helped or supported - by people who have no idea what it's like.
@drewmaughan Yeah, but I think a lot of it comes down to the misunderstanding I was trying to address. The people bashing the "white knights" are often those mistakenly believing that "nice guys finish last" too. And often people who have no more luck with women but try to use that mistaken philosophy to feel superior.
Well said m8.
poligon333 2 months ago
Nothing wrong with being a nice guy, just got to understand that being "nice" is not attractive. It's a GOOD quality of a human being, but it's not a (sexually) ATTRACTIVE one. There are plenty of jerks out there failing with women too, but it's easier to have confidence and be straight-up with the ladies when you don't care about hurting them, hence the myth that nice guys finish last and women only want assholes.
Turbovolver 4 months ago
@Turbovolver This isn't about the "myth" or attractiveness, it's about the so-called "nice guys" getting criticised and hated on - at the same time not being helped or supported - by people who have no idea what it's like.
drewmaughan 4 months ago
@drewmaughan Yeah, but I think a lot of it comes down to the misunderstanding I was trying to address. The people bashing the "white knights" are often those mistakenly believing that "nice guys finish last" too. And often people who have no more luck with women but try to use that mistaken philosophy to feel superior.
Turbovolver 4 months ago
@Turbovolver I get you.
drewmaughan 4 months ago