Old Lady Dying - Part One

[popazz1]

I find it mildly 'amusing' how a short clip like this can have people making instant judgements about how the people in the clip behaved.But I guess that's 'human nature'.I can only recount how my mother was in her last few weeks before she died. This was in '83 & I was barely 22.I couldn't get to grips with how her personality changed out of all recognition.Who knows how ANY of us would react when faced with the possibility of our death?! Let's all just have a little dignity.

[artiebarnes]

@popazz1 I find it oddly amusing how people react to these series of video's that simply show "reality". It seems to be taboo to some....

[popazz1]

@artiebarnes ,

Bravo! It seems that the only form of 'reality' some folk can deal with are the multitude of 'reality shows' No-one seems to have an issue with sitting,slack-jawed in front of the tv to watch a group of 'celebrities' desperately try to increase their profile on ice or the dance floor or in an Australian jungle etc.But show a true reality & some folk scream for the hills.*Shakes head in despair*.

[listenlightlove]

What everyone is missing is the fact that even though she is dying, no matter what age or sex, we all have rights. The right to decide what happens to us and when.Dont you? You heard him say shall we take you to the hospital, she said no.Then he says I'll just scoop you up", he didnt hear her the first time?She said ' dont do that" she wasnt being rude, she was just telling him. Finally she has to say take your hands off me. That child was being rude and disrespectful, the same as the father.

[artiebarnes]

@listenlightlove You, sir or madam, have NO understanding what the relationship between this woman and her family was. The woman could care LESS about the humor the family is displaying with her! Or the fact she is being videotaped, GOD FORBID! You deal with your family, we'll deal with ours! I love how people love to tell other families how to act or feel.

[ummkoko]

Lolololol.

[garysquirrelreviews]

u shud have dragged out her pain muahahaha stupid old rude hagg

[JubalCalif]

I know she's frail and in pain....but that was rude for her to say "get your hands off me". She could have said "please dont' touch me". Ill health is no reason for ill manners.

[TheChickenRiceBowl]

@JubalCalif "I know she's frail and in pain....but that was rude of her to be upset and say "get your hands off me". She could have said "please don't touch me thank you good sir". Dying is no excuse to not be polite. What a horrible woman!" <How I read what you just typed.

[Robotdrummerzzk]

@JubalCalif of course there is.

[cannoir]

well if I was her I would have told them to foxtrot off pronto.

[0iMySize]

OLD SLUT

[artiebarnes]

@0iMySize she was a good piece of ass.....

[bzylizzy]

@0iMySize why would u say that, honestly I hop your mom knows you are on here, I can only asume you are a young kid as nobody with any maturity would say that....

[Quiltinguk]

@oSEIDOSHIo

Thank you

[Quiltinguk]

@PesciGaris

Thanks

[Quiltinguk]

@oSEIDOSHIo

Thanks for your reply.

The person / people who is / are comforting & supporting the dying person will hopefully NOT be dying as well.

[bowlchamp411]

when did she die?

[Quiltinguk]

I am 40 years old, happily married with two sons. I also have advanced breast cancer growing in my liver which is no longer responding to treatment.

Speaking as a terminally ill person one of the hardest things is the way society treats death as a 'taboo' subject'. We see gross sexual acts, babies being born, surgery but not death & dying.

Videos like this helps me. One of the kindest things you can do is stay with someone & comfort them as they die.

I don't want to die alone.

[artiebarnes]

@Quiltinguk Your posting is touching. I'm glad you see it as I do. I wish you the best of luck and good health....

[Fearforyoursoul]

@Quiltinguk You will not die alone we are never alone our Father above is always with us it may not respond to treatment but there is nothing God can not heal.

[artiebarnes]

@Fearforyoursoul Bullshit. He lets these nice old people die and he lets babies die. There is no god. He can be YOUR god. He ain't MY god.

[cccourtney97]

@artiebarnes people have to die eventually, thats just the way it goes. everyone has to go some time, whether young or old.

[artiebarnes]

@Quiltinguk I wish you well. This woman did not die for MANY YEARS after this video was shot.

[depg1979]

Folks!!!! Pay no attention to tapdancegirl88. She has really

crossed the line.

[stevo6969]

Old lady dying - part 1? How fucking long did she die for? She trying to win an Oscar or something? Christ, she looked ready to drop dead in part 1 - can't be arsed watching part 2.

[tearsdripsore]

Why would you put something like that on here? That's a horrible thing to do. She's probably rolling over in her grave right now. You're a sad excuse for a human being.

[artiebarnes]

@tearsdripsore the old lady is now dead.....

[cambo3202]

That's not even funny.

[artiebarnes]

@cambo3202 it's not sposed to be funny...

[tapdancegirl88]

@cambo3202 the old fuk should hurry up and die

[Braleven]

@tapdancegirl88 Lol, Youtubers are always leaving lovely positive comments :3

[mortonsalt18]

@tapdancegirl88 Is that you tap dancing??? hahahahhahahahahaha Can anyone say Woof Woof to this no talent?

[mortonsalt18]

@tapdancegirl88 Is that you tap dancing? I laughed my arse off. You look like a horse face and you can't tap dance. hahahahhahaha

[tapdancegirl88]

@mortonsalt18 your jealous of my shiny pretty shoe metal taps.. you arsehole  furthermore you need your teeth removed from your face by my husband if you have any

[mortonsalt18]

@tapdancegirl88 I can see those bucked teeth shining from the cheap tap shoes you have on. You need a monkey to tap dance with you or maybe a horse...bucky.

[YourDarkAccomplice]

Wait, why was this posted on NEW YEARS?!?!?!?

Lol!

[harmonicgrunt]

DICK.

[artiebarnes]

@harmonicgrunt cock

[92sergei]

can you imagine she is Madona?

[tapdancegirl88]

stupid dead rotton old bag

[artiebarnes]

@tapdancegirl88 dead as a doornail

[mortonsalt18]

@tapdancegirl88 Dance Bucky Dance....Horse face dance.

[h0ustonxmamii]

uhh so y is this on youtube ?

& she wants to die because she is tired of suffring..

[artiebarnes]

she's still alive. hard to believe but true. she doesn't say much anymore though. she had a great 85 years, then "hit the wall"..... she's almost 94 now.

[Miles52431]

i'm sorry but dude why are you saying don't you feel good mama, she's dying you evil dude, why tape it, omg, poor woman!!!

[artiebarnes]

@Miles52431 What is your problem, that you're so obsessed with my video's?? Get a life. Do you see anyone abusing this woman? I don't! Videotaping this is the same thing as making a documentary! And who said this is my mother?

[Slic3R1]

you did

[KittyCatGirl4Ever]

@artiebarnes well your picking on her and making her suffer more

[artiebarnes]

@KittyCatGirl4Ever No one is being picked on! What do YOU know about the relationship between this lady and the cameraperson? Nothing, that's right. For your info, the woman is still alive 4 years later----

[KittyCatGirl4Ever]

@artiebarnes well for one thing she told you to stop

[artiebarnes]

@KittyCatGirl4Ever U do NOT know the dynamic of this relationship, so I suggest keeping your mouth closed. You talk of what you DO not know. And quit watching the video over and over! U need a life! Go on now.... Run along and get a life, my petulant young child-fanatic posting friend...

[KittyCatGirl4Ever]

@artiebarnes i watched it only one time and i already have a life if you didnt notice that i am talking . so and dont call me a young child because im not. i already have a life so go away and zip it. :)

[artiebarnes]

@KittyCatGirl4Ever No Kitty, I willl NOT have sex with you, so stop asking-

[KittyCatGirl4Ever]

@artiebarnes what the heck are you even saying? thats exactly why i flagged this video for abusive comments. your just gross. whats wrong with you?

[asandman94]

@artiebarnes your pathetic, not the fact of you recording this or posting, the fact of your insolent arguing, seriously, the only one who needs a life is you, i fail to see all the people you've said to who need a life, and why they do, your nothing more then a waste of life, trash, and go ahead, reply with a feeble attempt at making me frown, it wont happen, prepare your comment for a few days if you want the smallest reaction from me, but why should you care, your soulless, once again = trash

[artiebarnes]

@asandman94 I have a big ol' hairy soul! You are the PEE PEE MAN!

[asandman94]

@artiebarnes lmao, is humor your only way out of an argument? seems that way, pathetic feeble mainstream style attempt to end the argument i have to start, others my give up but i wont, don't really care if you block me or whatever you want, but you better be ready for all your videos to be flagged and spammed, your useless, not to mention how immature you are, people like you deserve nothing but pain, but someone as immature, soulless, mind dead pieces of shit wouldn't understand...

[AJHcorolla]

the fuck is this the person who filmed this is a real patronising arsehole just because some one is dying doesnt mean that they should lose thier dignity and be treated like a child

[Miles52431]

So True, the guy is faggit

wt a loser, he even said it's not his mum, WHAT A LIER! i'll slap him if i ever see him!

[artiebarnes]

@Miles52431 YOU'RE A STALKER who is NOW reported.

[Miles52431]

you're just evil dude, evil, i've done all to reason with you!

[dalooloo28]

WHY would you post your grandma/ma dying on YOUTUBE??????

don't you have any respect??

and WTF!!! you don't call it "Old Lady Dying - Part 1"

where's the love????!!!!!

this has to be some kind of a trick, are you FAKING this??????

leave the poor lady alone if this is real - let her die in peace - and don't fucking LAUGH

if she was really in so much pain - why didn't you let her pass away by overdosing her or giving her some painless euthanizing inection or something??

I DONT GET U PPL!!

[artiebarnes]

It's SO cool, isn't it? You LOVE it, doncha! The Old Lady still lives, too!!!!!

[rosiepurplestar]

She didnt die but you got me to click on it artiebarnes lol i love 0.11

[willygfc]

What a wanker you are m8

[Kingddd333]

whoever recorded this is a major asshole.

[artiebarnes]

Tell me about it! Showing an unpleasant part of life that is known as "reality"..... MAJOR asshole, whoever did this!....

[artiebarnes]

@Kingddd333 You are WAY wrong about that. You don't get it at all.

[MrMrKingfisher]

Not for showing reality, for giving such a bad and horrible topic to this vid.

Maybe the video is okay but not the topic.

God bless this old lady :'(

Wishes from germany

[artiebarnes]

What does that mean? Video is ok, but not the topic?? You mean showing a person wasting away in life? Happens to all of us eventually.

[MrMrKingfisher]

You are a really ashole!

Just want to have much views and no respect of other People...

You did smth. wrong in youre Live!

[artiebarnes]

I'm an asshole for showing reality? Hardly, baby!...

[vannawh1te]

Well then i hope these videos arent her..

:-\

[vannawh1te]

yeah this is pretty disrespectful, but you're probably some creepy 40 year old guy that sits on youtube all day also.. so i can see where your responses come from..

oh well i guess it's cool you act this way and have a bunch of respect for your mother or whoever that is..

[artiebarnes]

Quite the contrary, I have HUGE respect for my mother-

[vannawh1te]

Wow.. whos the asshole who made this video.. what a jerk..

[artiebarnes]

some dumbass idiot i used to know....

[Pellentior]

This is fucked up.

And I know you will comment me back and say "should we have sex now?" or something like that, which will add the fucked-up-part of this video.

[artiebarnes]

Ok, listen... we don't have to have sex right now, but let's think about having it soon, ok? Thanks.

Also, this bit of video is from an upcoming documentary about dying, and having sex with old people as they're slipping away.

[Pellentior]

If you just replied in a mature way, it would be possible to talk to you. But you're just referring to sex all the time in a childish way.

I KNOW you will reply once more, in a pathetic way, so I rest my case with:

Fucked up.

Oh, and I don't want to have sex with you, not now or when I die...

[artiebarnes]

Yes, I'm replying once more. Maturely. What do you want to say or ask?

[Pellentior]

1. Why this documentary? What do you want to show?

2. Do you know this lady?

[bff9899]

well dont u think that is rude i would be so embarrassed if some body did that to me and then u would write back its only a part of life she would be dead any way that is real dis respect everybody has to die but puberty is a part of life 2

[bff9899]

your sick and twisted

[artiebarnes]

What's sick and twisted about a documentary of real life?

[MeinFuhrerICanDance]

Gritty! Raw! YouTube could certainly use more videos of this caliber! A gripping portrayal of a woman's last moments. Even Faces of Death was not nearly as brutal or visceral in its approach. You are a true auteur, sir. I hope that I can expect more videos such as this in the near future!

[TheSwillMan]

I agree wholeheartedly! Mr. Barnes has privileged us with an intimate glimpse into his private life. Rarely has any réalisateur dared to share with us such a personal slice of reality.

Brilliant and daring are two adjectives that come to mind here. I was immediately struck by the old woman's plight, and awed by Barnes' decision to portray her exactly as she lives in real lfie, without obscuring her misery.

A more honest and touching short film one could not ask for. Only its sequels best it!

[artiebarnes]

Thanks Mr Swill! I'm glad you also understand my intentions. It's called "viewing reality"....

[artiebarnes]

I'm glad you "get" it! Thanks-

[artiebarnes]

@MeinFuhrerICanDance this woman lived MANY MANY more years after this was filmed.

[conradhw]

.. I think once they look at this, you simply get your account banned. after that.. seek therapy.

[artiebarnes]

you're a scary stalker. i hate that. you've been reported once, shall I have to report you twice?

[conradhw]

seek therapy..

[artiebarnes]

You are harassing and stalking me. I've reported your behaviour.

Youtube does not take kindly to that.

[conradhw]

not obsessed... disturbed is the word. you have the mind of an 8yr old. look at you.

[artiebarnes]

does this mean we can't have some sex??

[conradhw]

in any case.. i reported this (as I don't think you're man enough to take it off yourself).

[artiebarnes]

I see you are now obsessed with my video. You watch it constantly, don't you?! It IS good, isn't it! Thanks-

[conradhw]

i'd rather not bother checking out.. just passing by to give friendly advice, not to give attention.

[conradhw]

you are indeed sick (as many stated) if you leave this on here. in which case i hope karma will get you. you'll regret this once you matured.

[artiebarnes]

Does this mean we can not have sex now??

[conradhw]

the poster is obviously retarded or mental. why not point the cam on your own stupid face for the world to see

[artiebarnes]

Not retarded or mental, but a caring citizen of the world. I HAVE turned the camera on myself many times. Check it out.

[conradhw]

respect the elders .. i wouldnt be alive if it weren't for my grandparents. why post this on youtube?

[dillinstube]

you fucken freak...go fuckin die u sound like a fucken pedo

[artiebarnes]

i'll fucken die when im ready, poopy head! your just a pee pee man anyway, pedo boy! shall we have some sex now then???? thanks!!!!

[dillinstube]

very mature for a 26 year old man isnt it? freak

[artiebarnes]

who is trying to be mature here?? me??? FUCK no!

[mlo75]

This video should be taken down...what were you thinking putting this up ....

[artiebarnes]

It's like a documentary. What's wrong with that? It's real life. Where do YOU hurt?

[Chessierox]

this is so sick

[artiebarnes]

Not sick at all. It's real life-

[u2bmetub]

You people are fucked in the head.

[TNFan32]

Ooh Daddy got dissed!

[artiebarnes]

I've tried. My hand doesn't go far enough inside her asshole to make her feel better. Damn...

[AutisticPersona]

How about scooping her asshole!

[anhacus]

Give her dilaudid, clean her up, then ride her as you wish. Mark Twain said they're good right up to the day they die. LOL.

[Lizzieloco2]

Wait mother fucker to it do your mom!

[AutisticPersona]

OOOOH!! Daddy got dissed! I take it your son likes you, artie?

[clockoutx]

What your momma really wants is a water slide.

[dadoodaidy]

I think Momma Just Left. She's not really dying, is she?

[TheSwillMan]

Sick. Twisted. Deeply disturbing that you'd post these.

[artiebarnes]

Thanks SwillMan. From you, I consider that a compliment.

[TheSwillMan]

...is she really 90 years old? And was she the inspiration for "Momma's Still Here"?

[artiebarnes]

Yes and yes. Don't ever try to scoop her up, ok? Thank you.

[TheSwillMan]

Oh, don't worry, Artie. She's your momma. You do the scooping.

[artiebarnes]

Yes, only I shall do the scooping.

[TheSwillMan]

Has she heard Momma's Still Here?

[slangshotstudios]

and the pooping