Cool! Found you through VarmitCoyote, so I thought it was funny you referred back to him. I think any sort of "coming out" videos are brave. Like you said, you put up with a lot of stupid comments.
ASEXUAL - THEN YOU ARE IN GOOD COMPANY - EARTH WORMS ARE ASEXUAL AND I HAD RATHER HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON WITH THEM THAN I HAD WITH THE SEXUALLY PERVERTED WHORE MONGERS AND COCK SUCKERS OUT THERE.
I am asexual myself, I understand how people judge it. So many people have told me that I "Just havent found the right someone" or that I "am too young to understand" myself. I still seek romantic attachments but as far as sexual attraction or needs or whatever, I have never ever felt them, I am so happpy that I found the term "asexual". I spent so long thinking I was broken or faulty, its been a huge release being able to identify myself completely. Thank you for making this!
@TheColaGoodfellow A so-called Christian nation and actual Biblically literate Christians are two different things. The Bible makes it clear that some are born asexual Matthew 19:12 (no, this doesn't cover someone supposedly being born homosexual. Sorry. It only deals with heterosexual marriage). Also celibacy is considered one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit listed within the Bible. A Biblically literate mature Christian shouldn't have any problem with someone being asexual.
You are very brave for making this video. I too am an asexual, however I'm not quite confidant enough to come out yet. I really admire you for this. Stay strong <3
Hey youre NOT ALONE! i am to. Its sooo hard for people to get me - They automatically think its something wrong with me. but its not. everyones different
I find it funny when people tell me that it's waste for me to be asexual and it's true that trying to convey the fact that I'm content (or not simply content, but fulfilled or happy, etc) with who I am is probably the most annoying task.
Thanks for this video. I am a filmmaker and am interrested in making a documentary or short about asexuality to rase awareness as i have found a lot of sexual peaople have dificulties emphatising with asexuals. I myself am bi-curious but am very openminded and respect you the same way as i respect straigh and gay.
The project is in very early stage but if you have any tips that can help me please answer to this or send me a mail: ina.bird@hotmail.com
@ZimmermanHound Asexuality is not a sexual disorder. Your choice of words have slightly offended me by suggesting that there is something wrong with being asexual. Homosexuals don't need doctors to tell them who they want to have sex with and asexuals don't need doctors to tell them they don't want to have sex.
@expressexpose Asexuals don't fall in love in a romantic way. There's no desire to make out etc. An asexual can fall in love, the same ways someone falls in love with a pet dog for instance. Lots of affection is possible, but it's non-sexual. Just think of someone you really love, but would have no interest whatsoever in making out with.
I fall in love in a romantic way (I think holding hands and stuff is cute and a sign of being dedicated to someone you think is s great person and pretty), but I don't desire sex atall and never have done.
Oh.I understand. You are talking about caring/affection. So you did experience falling in love with someone's being/I guess some people would say 'personality'? Or someone's mind.Have you seen someone in a special/diff.light than everyone else? The exact things that make being in love with an individual different than caring for a cat etc. The thing is, I don't believe that love has to have a sexual aspect necessarily. Perhaps in its purest forms it has nothing to do with sex.
Yes, that's what I was getting at. Deep love without a romantic aspect. A parent's love for a child etc. A life long friend one loves enough to die for. So asexuality doesn't mean loveless but rather not inclined sexually i.e. passionate kissing, petting, intercourse. I know of senor citizens who've been married for 40 something years, who are still in love, but that aspect of their marriage no longer exists.
@lynnmist123 There's an ongoing debate as to if Asperger's is autism,
but there are a lot of similarities between them.
Asperger's is different from what is called "classical autism," because intelligence is normal or above normal. Whereas in classical autism intelligence must be below normal.
I'm not asexual but I'm a celibate heterosexual aromantic. It's the best way I can explain it. Thanks for posting this video, asexuals and aromantics don't get talked about alot.
I'm asexual too! What's your romantic orientation? I'm either a heteromantic or aromantic who has random romantic attractions to random guys (sort of how straight people feel random attractions to the same sex), not quite sure about that yet.
Oh, by the way, where are you from? You sort of sound like you're from Ireland, but I'm not quite sure. :)
I'm asexual as well and can relate to your experience of people relating to you that you are either missing out, or are not yet sure of who you are. There is an odd incapability in most people of thinking of love without sex or the possibility of never being sexually interested in anyone (regardless of whether or not you are interested in romance or not, as there are aces of both inclinations). At any rate, my regards to you, on coming out and putting such a level headed explanation online.
I'm sorry that people are being trolls/jerks on your videos. There's nothing wrong with being asexual. Sometimes sexual people find it impossible to see the world from another perspective.
@madcunnt yeah but thats not our fault, im asexual because i feel no "urge" to have sex, not bc im prude,not bc im scared but maybe it has something to do with testosterone yes.
You are very eloquent, and a confident person.....but really who cares exactly what people think of you...they all have their own judgements and we have to learn to accept what they think....the point is I'm glad you know who you are and where you stand.
you love your web cam dont you,give up the web cam and get out more and talk to any bitch that comes near you,buy a bottle of vodka for your flat,do you sleep in the wardrobe,is it like the tardis from doctor who,you could grow a marjuna plant in the wardrobe and no one in uni would know.look out the wardrobe is opening on its own, am glad you shaved off the bum fluff it looked silly,remember to eat your greens and look out for the strawman,your left hand looks like the alien.need more drugs,
i fill kinda bad for being asexual. i wont reproduce. i hope this is jus a phase and the right GIRL comes along. even though I'm asexual i do resent homosexuality.
Im Asexual i support all Sexual orientations, im a GREY A (an Ace with gray) but i do have some interest in sexual interest just low sexual attraction but i am hetero romantic.
Odd, one of these days I was just thinking about how a lack of sexual drive in a person can confuse and irritate their environment. Maybe it's because the options of manipulating them via flirting etc is gone.
@republicofsandles Indeed I think being less sexually interested can make one less likely to be manipulated by another person.
What I meant though was that this lack of influence over them confuses and possibly irritates the environment, not the person themselves. I do not know whether it would confuse the person themselves... I'd hope not.
@republicofsandles Why does it have to be either or? I'd say all of those to some extend. Do not get me wrong, I do not believe that everyone has to react that way. I just think it's possible because I have seen it happen.
What are your experiences in this regard if I may ask?
in many ways i am the same, to be fair, although not quite the same, some attraction but not a great amount of attraction, i can't say i find much in people, to be fair even sex is a bit of a joke, and much of what i do is to fit in, but i find a sense of care from and towards people, but i can't say i am attracted to people in the same way as every other person around me, i am fittingly unique enough.
Great video Mark, I am proud of you dude, that took a lot of guts to be that honest, and to be honest it is none of no one's business what you are, be proud of yourself.
i'm glad you made this video, i'm asexual, it can be extremely difficult being asexual, it can be especially tiresome when confronted with people who refuse to accept or understand it. some are so incredulous they try to tell you what they believe you are.it's really strange.thanks for the video suggestion.
@RayDandy and in spite of the social difficulties i've experienced,i feel the same way you do,i'm happy to be asexual,i don't consider the orientation itself to be a problem.
What is the best thing you have read about the social construction of sexuality? I am assuming since you said you've thought about it, akin to an outside looking in to these kinds of discourse, and you may be able to point me in the best direction to read something more that you respect?
Thanks for your kind words about my video, and indeed, I was glad to see this response.
A much better version of my shirtless video, in which I am shirted and don't swear, will be uploaded onto the SexualFuturist channel soon ^^ That one is probably just better in general ^^;
@HannibalBarca13 Wait with conspiracy theories ;D republicofsandles can tell my channel is available.
To come to your question: "I am not assimilating." That's about it :D You bring up the point. DSM-IV reacted with a class "asexuality" as a disorder, because of people on the internet claiming they have asexuality. For me, this is not kinda profound. Further I didn't get the impression that republicofsandles feels inferior. And I definitely think he shouldn't :D
@HannibalBarca13 Hi hannibalbarca. My channel is free for everyone. Whereas I am interested how you would like to conclude from my channel, what education I have. :D If I got you right. Asexual people have a 'you' or an 'i' that is defined by their asexuality. Well, I don't agree. I don't think it's of high importance i nowadays society if they are asexual. Especially because the term 'asexuality' is only defined as a lack of sexual interest. For me this is not enough.
Good for you, and I really admire you for having the courage to do this video. We should all be proud of who we are, it really does not matter about sexuality at all, it is who you are as a person. Take care.
@HannibalBarca13 As a psychology student I am really interested, what you define there as "you". What is it? Is this a very individual definition of yours? I aspect i lacks of empirical evidence. But maybe you can put forward, what you mean with it... ;D
Hi republicofsandles, hope you don't hate me now, but asexuality is not yet defined in one way or another. In contrast to heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, or in a wider meaning of the word classifikation transsexuality. :D So, I would say the sentence: "I am asexual". lacks of determination. I hope you don't mind my oppinion.
asexual? you must be one of the luckiest people alive. haven't you noticed how much time people waste and how much suffering they put themselves through over the whole business?
This is fascinating! :) Can I ask you one question, the fact that you are asexual does it mean that you have no sex drive? Don't you experience any desire or need for masturbation?
Cool! Found you through VarmitCoyote, so I thought it was funny you referred back to him. I think any sort of "coming out" videos are brave. Like you said, you put up with a lot of stupid comments.
maarakailet1 1 day ago
your probley the luckest person ever.
Bdawkins11 2 days ago
so are you more succsesful than most people because that is what i asume.
Bdawkins11 2 days ago
ASEXUAL - THEN YOU ARE IN GOOD COMPANY - EARTH WORMS ARE ASEXUAL AND I HAD RATHER HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON WITH THEM THAN I HAD WITH THE SEXUALLY PERVERTED WHORE MONGERS AND COCK SUCKERS OUT THERE.
TAKE CARE.
jehovahuponyou 3 days ago
I am asexual myself, I understand how people judge it. So many people have told me that I "Just havent found the right someone" or that I "am too young to understand" myself. I still seek romantic attachments but as far as sexual attraction or needs or whatever, I have never ever felt them, I am so happpy that I found the term "asexual". I spent so long thinking I was broken or faulty, its been a huge release being able to identify myself completely. Thank you for making this!
Gl0wst1ckDr3ams 4 days ago
good for you,man.sorry if you get hate for this,people can be cruel jerks.
Kerolden 6 days ago
I'm surprised that asexuals get trouble in predominantly christian nations. Considering one of the apostles outright condoned it in the bible.
TheColaGoodfellow 1 week ago
@TheColaGoodfellow A so-called Christian nation and actual Biblically literate Christians are two different things. The Bible makes it clear that some are born asexual Matthew 19:12 (no, this doesn't cover someone supposedly being born homosexual. Sorry. It only deals with heterosexual marriage). Also celibacy is considered one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit listed within the Bible. A Biblically literate mature Christian shouldn't have any problem with someone being asexual.
aceinlasvegas 1 week ago
You are very brave for making this video. I too am an asexual, however I'm not quite confidant enough to come out yet. I really admire you for this. Stay strong <3
youcanttakethesky92 1 week ago
Good job man, Asexuality is an emerging type of sexuality maybe over 1% of people are Asexual.
Dont force yourself to do anything, just be yourself keep on rolling mang.
FraseLuy 2 weeks ago
wtf of coarse you know who you are!!! if thats how you are<3 BE THAT WAY. just have a fun, life,! :) best of luck to you haha:P
iheartkidcudiforevr 2 weeks ago
Hey youre NOT ALONE! i am to. Its sooo hard for people to get me - They automatically think its something wrong with me. but its not. everyones different
TyroneKOTD 3 weeks ago
I find it funny when people tell me that it's waste for me to be asexual and it's true that trying to convey the fact that I'm content (or not simply content, but fulfilled or happy, etc) with who I am is probably the most annoying task.
SuperSkips 3 weeks ago
Thanks for this video. I am a filmmaker and am interrested in making a documentary or short about asexuality to rase awareness as i have found a lot of sexual peaople have dificulties emphatising with asexuals. I myself am bi-curious but am very openminded and respect you the same way as i respect straigh and gay.
The project is in very early stage but if you have any tips that can help me please answer to this or send me a mail: ina.bird@hotmail.com
Best wishes / Paulina
inabird 3 weeks ago
Is your sexual disorder clinical verified or is it just you that want to be special?
ZimmermanHound 3 weeks ago
@ZimmermanHound Asexuality is not a sexual disorder. Your choice of words have slightly offended me by suggesting that there is something wrong with being asexual. Homosexuals don't need doctors to tell them who they want to have sex with and asexuals don't need doctors to tell them they don't want to have sex.
SuperSkips 3 weeks ago
@SuperSkips What is the definition of a disorder? What is the definition of a sexual identity?
ZimmermanHound 3 weeks ago
$1000 says he thinks little boyss are "beautiful" KnowwatImsayen?
Tryoutz747 4 weeks ago
No wonder the entire Western world is going down...
NL316 4 weeks ago
Wow! It's a big deal to perform a video like this! I mean, I admire your braveness to tell this.
By the way, I am asexual too, aromantic asexual I think.
I'm really pleased and thanksful that you had upload such a neat video like thise!
I'm watching that you have some other asexual-type videos, I'm going to look forward it.
=)
shujiinservant94 1 month ago
I'm Asexual buddy. But I am only able to preform sexual acts with woman. But I have no lust or desire. I am just able to. Ah and I'm a male
Norwayflex89 1 month ago
ty for responding to my comment. peace
lynnmist123 1 month ago
Hiii, please answer
Do you not feel ANY attraction to anyone? I mean, whats the diffrence when u say sexual attraction, and just being attracted?
careerofbeingblue 1 month ago
@careerofbeingblue I said that I don't experience intellectually experience attraction.
I suggest you ask a sexual person about sexual attraction versus other attraction.
I'm not an nearly ideal commentator; but I also don't experience romantic attraction, because I'm aromantic.
Your question seems really vague. Please rephrase if you can.
republicofsandles 1 month ago
@republicofsandles Im not that good at English, but thank you.
careerofbeingblue 1 month ago
@republicofsandles
Oh. So you have never been 'in love'?
expressexpose 1 week ago
@expressexpose Asexuals don't fall in love in a romantic way. There's no desire to make out etc. An asexual can fall in love, the same ways someone falls in love with a pet dog for instance. Lots of affection is possible, but it's non-sexual. Just think of someone you really love, but would have no interest whatsoever in making out with.
aceinlasvegas 1 week ago
@aceinlasvegas
I'm confused with your definition of asexuality.
I fall in love in a romantic way (I think holding hands and stuff is cute and a sign of being dedicated to someone you think is s great person and pretty), but I don't desire sex atall and never have done.
TheColaGoodfellow 1 week ago
@aceinlasvegas
Oh.I understand. You are talking about caring/affection. So you did experience falling in love with someone's being/I guess some people would say 'personality'? Or someone's mind.Have you seen someone in a special/diff.light than everyone else? The exact things that make being in love with an individual different than caring for a cat etc. The thing is, I don't believe that love has to have a sexual aspect necessarily. Perhaps in its purest forms it has nothing to do with sex.
expressexpose 1 week ago
Yes, that's what I was getting at. Deep love without a romantic aspect. A parent's love for a child etc. A life long friend one loves enough to die for. So asexuality doesn't mean loveless but rather not inclined sexually i.e. passionate kissing, petting, intercourse. I know of senor citizens who've been married for 40 something years, who are still in love, but that aspect of their marriage no longer exists.
aceinlasvegas 1 week ago
you thought about it but have you actually been checked out by a doc?
you know, hypogonadism, some kind of hormonal imbalance etc etc
because if you havent, asexuality might just as well be another symptom of a deeper medical condition
MrUlutraman 1 month ago
@MrUlutraman I'm not sick.
republicofsandles 1 month ago
@republicofsandles
from your answer i deduce you havent really been checked for hypogonadism, hormonal imba etc
i dont know you and maybe its rude but here goes
if your insurance covers it,i d visit a specialist. you dont have anything to lose. (well money if the insurance doesnt cover it)
MrUlutraman 1 month ago
@MrUlutraman Listen. I'm probably asexual because I have Asperger's.
Asexuality is more common among people with Asperger's.
Also I don't want to be made sexual.
I think that's something you don't quite understand.
republicofsandles 1 month ago
@republicofsandles
ah aspergers ok i didnt know that
MrUlutraman 1 month ago
@republicofsandles Aspeger's. I think I had of that before. Is that some kind of autism?
lynnmist123 1 month ago
@lynnmist123 There's an ongoing debate as to if Asperger's is autism,
but there are a lot of similarities between them.
Asperger's is different from what is called "classical autism," because intelligence is normal or above normal. Whereas in classical autism intelligence must be below normal.
republicofsandles 1 month ago
I'm not asexual but I'm a celibate heterosexual aromantic. It's the best way I can explain it. Thanks for posting this video, asexuals and aromantics don't get talked about alot.
MountainQueen 1 month ago
NO sexual attraction? verrry interesting...
TheAnimeStreamer 1 month ago
I'm asexual too! What's your romantic orientation? I'm either a heteromantic or aromantic who has random romantic attractions to random guys (sort of how straight people feel random attractions to the same sex), not quite sure about that yet.
Oh, by the way, where are you from? You sort of sound like you're from Ireland, but I'm not quite sure. :)
animefan815 1 month ago
I am too, and this is kills me thatmy mom can't understand it :\
PiggyManXD 2 months ago
Does your parents know?
GTXMAN 2 months ago
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muabuon80 2 months ago
it takes you 3.30 minutes to finally talk about yourself. think about that.
omarion2410 2 months ago
@omarion2410 Most of my videos are structured this way,
but I thought I opened by talking about myself.
republicofsandles 2 months ago
I'm asexual as well and can relate to your experience of people relating to you that you are either missing out, or are not yet sure of who you are. There is an odd incapability in most people of thinking of love without sex or the possibility of never being sexually interested in anyone (regardless of whether or not you are interested in romance or not, as there are aces of both inclinations). At any rate, my regards to you, on coming out and putting such a level headed explanation online.
EthrinOfCygnus 2 months ago
this is a feeble attempt at picking up girls!! dude come on!
bababribri 2 months ago
@bababribri No I'm genuine.
republicofsandles 2 months ago
I'm sorry that people are being trolls/jerks on your videos. There's nothing wrong with being asexual. Sometimes sexual people find it impossible to see the world from another perspective.
ubiquitousfacts 2 months ago
Too bad for you.missing out..Big time!
Low testosterone levels and bad social skills
madcunnt 3 months ago
@madcunnt yeah but thats not our fault, im asexual because i feel no "urge" to have sex, not bc im prude,not bc im scared but maybe it has something to do with testosterone yes.
DrOvyZ 2 months ago
@madcunnt no he's not
LMTR14 2 months ago
You are very eloquent, and a confident person.....but really who cares exactly what people think of you...they all have their own judgements and we have to learn to accept what they think....the point is I'm glad you know who you are and where you stand.
bluedress18 3 months ago
I am Asexual too. I am homo-romantic asexual.
paoolos 3 months ago
@paoolos Glad to hear.
republicofsandles 3 months ago
you love your web cam dont you,give up the web cam and get out more and talk to any bitch that comes near you,buy a bottle of vodka for your flat,do you sleep in the wardrobe,is it like the tardis from doctor who,you could grow a marjuna plant in the wardrobe and no one in uni would know.look out the wardrobe is opening on its own, am glad you shaved off the bum fluff it looked silly,remember to eat your greens and look out for the strawman,your left hand looks like the alien.need more drugs,
TheAnthonycrowley 3 months ago
i fill kinda bad for being asexual. i wont reproduce. i hope this is jus a phase and the right GIRL comes along. even though I'm asexual i do resent homosexuality.
boyboy2000ful 4 months ago
@boyboy2000ful not sure if serious...
IFE10M 3 months ago
Im Asexual i support all Sexual orientations, im a GREY A (an Ace with gray) but i do have some interest in sexual interest just low sexual attraction but i am hetero romantic.
MarineBrandon123 4 months ago
@MarineBrandon123 An Ace with Grey. Hilarious. I like how we accept grey aces.
Elitism doesn't seem appropriate in asexuality.
I'm aromantic myself.
republicofsandles 4 months ago
I knew an asexual girl in high school. She loved videogames as much as I did.
U4rikmind 5 months ago
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captainstern3 5 months ago
@captainstern3 Oh cool my first anti-asexual troll.
Your hilarious really.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
Odd, one of these days I was just thinking about how a lack of sexual drive in a person can confuse and irritate their environment. Maybe it's because the options of manipulating them via flirting etc is gone.
Goldkehlchen20 5 months ago
@Goldkehlchen20 Do you mean to imply, that it's generally more confusing to establish oneself rather then be sub-ordinate.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@Goldkehlchen20 Do you mean to imply, that it's generally more confusing to establish oneself rather then be sub-ordinate.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@Goldkehlchen20 Do you mean to imply, that it's generally more confusing to establish oneself rather then be sub-ordinate.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@republicofsandles What does sub-ordinate mean in the context of your question? (I assume it is a question despite there being no questionmark).
If it is a question what exactly is the question? Sorry but it's late over here I and believe my wit went sleeping an hour ago.
Goldkehlchen20 5 months ago
@Goldkehlchen20 Yes it was a question. Apologies for miss-typing.
If your were suggesting that a lack of vulnerability to flirting makes a person harder to manipulate,
as you seem to suggest.
Are you suggesting that probably being less manipulated, can make a persons life confusing?
If you are tired I can easily wait until tomorrow for an answer.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@republicofsandles Indeed I think being less sexually interested can make one less likely to be manipulated by another person.
What I meant though was that this lack of influence over them confuses and possibly irritates the environment, not the person themselves. I do not know whether it would confuse the person themselves... I'd hope not.
Goldkehlchen20 5 months ago
@Goldkehlchen20 What is the environment. Is it a flirtatious person who is not receiving attention,
or maybe you mean society at large?
Or do you mean ones immediate circle of influence: Family, friends, partners, peers, etc.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@republicofsandles Why does it have to be either or? I'd say all of those to some extend. Do not get me wrong, I do not believe that everyone has to react that way. I just think it's possible because I have seen it happen.
What are your experiences in this regard if I may ask?
Goldkehlchen20 5 months ago
in many ways i am the same, to be fair, although not quite the same, some attraction but not a great amount of attraction, i can't say i find much in people, to be fair even sex is a bit of a joke, and much of what i do is to fit in, but i find a sense of care from and towards people, but i can't say i am attracted to people in the same way as every other person around me, i am fittingly unique enough.
good video
RobLesterArchive 5 months ago
@RobLesterArchive Thanks Rob your a great friend.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
As long as you know that's who you are then embrace it.
RickyMcGinnis 5 months ago
@RickyMcGinnis Thanks I will.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
Great video Mark, I am proud of you dude, that took a lot of guts to be that honest, and to be honest it is none of no one's business what you are, be proud of yourself.
mikethehammertackett 5 months ago
man i understand yer
i actually feel the same way, i have just never known wat to call it
BENTHEMAN11 5 months ago in playlist 12
i'm glad you made this video, i'm asexual, it can be extremely difficult being asexual, it can be especially tiresome when confronted with people who refuse to accept or understand it. some are so incredulous they try to tell you what they believe you are.it's really strange.thanks for the video suggestion.
RayDandy 5 months ago
@RayDandy and in spite of the social difficulties i've experienced,i feel the same way you do,i'm happy to be asexual,i don't consider the orientation itself to be a problem.
RayDandy 5 months ago
@RayDandy Clearly your suffering is greater than that of even homosexuals. LOL
iCalintz 5 months ago
@iCalintz well, i didn't claim to be suffering
RayDandy 5 months ago
Asexual? hmmm :/. If I have very little sexual desire and never had sex then... what does that make me? o.O.
NeCacaluXuxultic 5 months ago
@NeCacaluXuxultic That's up to you to determine.
What seems like very little desire to you, could seem like a lot of desire to someone else.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@republicofsandles hmmmm
NeCacaluXuxultic 5 months ago
What is the best thing you have read about the social construction of sexuality? I am assuming since you said you've thought about it, akin to an outside looking in to these kinds of discourse, and you may be able to point me in the best direction to read something more that you respect?
scrufduf 5 months ago
@scrufduf Interested in scientific literature :D let me know...
greenwoodonearth 5 months ago
@scrufduf I mostly studied definitions of different orientations and considered I was attracted to whatever the love-object in question was.
To date, the answer in all cases has been no.
As regards some studies of wider sexual trends; I was never keenly interested in that,
and have no significant studies in that area.
This may sound amateur, but Wikipedia lists more or less all evidenced orientations and paraphernalia,
so I would start there.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
Thanks for your kind words about my video, and indeed, I was glad to see this response.
A much better version of my shirtless video, in which I am shirted and don't swear, will be uploaded onto the SexualFuturist channel soon ^^ That one is probably just better in general ^^;
VarmitCoyote 5 months ago
@VarmitCoyote Your video was made at the most opportune moment for me.
I'd considered every orientation I'd ever heard of, including paraphernalia, and none of it moved me the way it did for nearly everyone else.
I thought maybe I was love shy. But even when I had social anxiety, I excelled at talking to girls, by contrast to some of my peers.
Anyway I very confident I've come to the accurate conclusion, and hearing some profess their orientation, who wasn't claiming to be gay was helpful.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@republicofsandles I'm just glad I could help inspire/motivate you to make this video ^^;
VarmitCoyote 5 months ago
@HannibalBarca13 Wait with conspiracy theories ;D republicofsandles can tell my channel is available.
To come to your question: "I am not assimilating." That's about it :D You bring up the point. DSM-IV reacted with a class "asexuality" as a disorder, because of people on the internet claiming they have asexuality. For me, this is not kinda profound. Further I didn't get the impression that republicofsandles feels inferior. And I definitely think he shouldn't :D
greenwoodonearth 5 months ago
@HannibalBarca13 Hi hannibalbarca. My channel is free for everyone. Whereas I am interested how you would like to conclude from my channel, what education I have. :D If I got you right. Asexual people have a 'you' or an 'i' that is defined by their asexuality. Well, I don't agree. I don't think it's of high importance i nowadays society if they are asexual. Especially because the term 'asexuality' is only defined as a lack of sexual interest. For me this is not enough.
greenwoodonearth 5 months ago
Good for you, and I really admire you for having the courage to do this video. We should all be proud of who we are, it really does not matter about sexuality at all, it is who you are as a person. Take care.
PaulJameson100 5 months ago
@HannibalBarca13 As a psychology student I am really interested, what you define there as "you". What is it? Is this a very individual definition of yours? I aspect i lacks of empirical evidence. But maybe you can put forward, what you mean with it... ;D
greenwoodonearth 5 months ago
Hi republicofsandles, hope you don't hate me now, but asexuality is not yet defined in one way or another. In contrast to heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, or in a wider meaning of the word classifikation transsexuality. :D So, I would say the sentence: "I am asexual". lacks of determination. I hope you don't mind my oppinion.
greenwoodonearth 5 months ago
asexual? you must be one of the luckiest people alive. haven't you noticed how much time people waste and how much suffering they put themselves through over the whole business?
tooltime9901 5 months ago
@tooltime9901 Yes I've often wondered about the moral purpose of all that stuff.
It's amazing how much a big deal people can make out inserting sausages into doughnuts.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
@HannibalBarca13 Thank you.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
This is fascinating! :) Can I ask you one question, the fact that you are asexual does it mean that you have no sex drive? Don't you experience any desire or need for masturbation?
TheRightDecision 5 months ago
@TheRightDecision Yes I have no sex drive. I don't need to masturbate, and don't enjoy it.
I've tried pornography and all that stuff already, and all of it bores me frankly.
Of course there's dopamine from masturbation, but I get that in spades by smoking and drinking,
without feeling uncomfortable.
republicofsandles 5 months ago
We are all sexual about some one but a-sexuals go one sex further
Coughlan616 5 months ago
@Coughlan616 Nothing is more ironic then the point that asexual people can strike other people as being their greatest challenge, and therefore sexy.
"I'm too sexy for".....sex?
republicofsandles 5 months ago