How to Deal with Rejection - Relationship Experts inc. John Gray

[worldwildwest]

Having a long lasting relationship is not always going to be picture perfect specially if any of your spouse's friends or family member isn't good enough to accept you in the family, no matter how much diplomacy you put into getting along they're just happen to have those tendencies to hurt you in any way leading you to weight the options to either Ignore their ignorance or breaking up a Good Relationship.

[Tanishispinky]

i got reject on friday so yeah sad but I have to move on

[henryjefferies]

Help me... I'm with a girl who said she wanted to be with me but now I'm getting the feeling she feels awkward around me. I haven't done anything wrong...

I'm completely lost, I haven't slept in days, and I have lost my appetite.

[njoy012]

@henryjefferies I don't have the "answer." However, I know exactly how you feel. For me, in the end, I felt that she lost interest in me and I ended up breaking up the relationship. Its been 2 years and I still look back. Its more awkward than ever. I never knew what she thought or wanted or why she felt that way. If I were back there again, I would like to talk to her. I realize its been 4 months since your post and I hope it went well. If you are with the person you love, god bless.

[frz655]

@jannalli well duh if i get hurt easliy i wont even post this. as a guy if u keep up such attidute ur never gonna survive in this world be it work or relationship. for a girl, its ok, cause girls tend to be more sensative and soft. a guy must be a fighter and if u get hurt so easliy, how are u gonna protect ur love ones if u cant even handle ur self

[frz655]

u are rejected, so? get over it, find someone else, why so desprate to cling on to someone? If ur a girl, ok not so bad, if ur a guy, dun be a pussy if she dun want u get over it some idiots act like it's the end of the world

[Agent1W]

I hate to say this, but true toughness takes years to develop. But trust me, guys, it is worth it. Don't be afraid of rejection, FACE IT! Take the pain and do not resist! Yes, it's gonna hurt. I've been hurt a lot, but I'm a much better man for it!

Women want a perfect man, that is being a fully mature man, a complete man.

[MrMetalcore66]

@Agent1W ......... yes positive view but there is just no way you can win! ive been hurt and am hurting now... deviance and chaos is rife, but there is no sense of love untiy balance in my life.. not like this romantic music on this video.... people just want to get their kicks and in my view are basically eating each other at best! hate to sound negative but my reality hasnt had much of this 'nice' lovely stuff in it... rejection is a reality of life we shouldnt focus on. but we do

[Agent1W]

@MrMetalcore66 I really couldn't care less about winning the "game" of love as it were. The only game I knew I could win(and for any guy) is to become a REAL MAN who knows what he wants and dismisses any distractions. I appreciate the nice lovely stuff here and I've made lifestyle choices that honors it.

But having been seared much by very hot iron, it wouldn't matter if I never enjoy a good marriage because I won't feel anything. I never wanted it this way but that was never in my control.

[warmonster86]

i have been rejected eveytime i ask someone out and ive never had a girlfriend but the way i deal with it is this quote "life goes on" so i just say let it go and forget about

[bqureshi21]

I've been rejected several times and have found it very emotionally overwhelming.. And I just recently got a girl's number but unfortunately I fear it will end in a similar way and I just don't want to get rejected again, it's hard to cope with for me.

[Ajxskyline]

this is a great video. thank you

[drifanti]

I have always been very good at of standing up and carrying on whenever I stumble(although allowing myself to go through the feelings so nothing is in my chest) but this time it has been different , I don't seem to be recovering from this major rejection. I know I did nothig wrong but it won't ease the pain. Hearing a professional's opinion would be very useful I think. Could u help me? Kind regards.

[drifanti]

There's nothing I can do to help , despite my attempts to satnd y him and support him through a treatment but that didn't work cuz he'll admit the problem one minute and the next gets mentally confused and refuses to admit.

[drifanti]

This happened recently to me. I found out that my ex boyfriend suffers from bipolar dissorder and suddenly leaves the mania( intensive feelings and wills) state to the apathetic and depressive state.

It was such a shock , i'm finding it very hard to overocme it. From being my tru love he went to the person who treated me in the coldest way ever. He even sad that seeing me suffering didn't ven touch him in any way.

[drifanti]

The other asks why and the other person can't give an answer because he simply doesn't know why all of sudden all those feelings are over. ?

This happened recently to me. I found out that my ex boyfriend suffers from bipolar dissorder and suddenly leaves the mania( intensive feelings and wills) state to the apathetic and depressive state.

[drifanti]

Hi there. What if you met someone who seemed to share the same principles as you and the same views on what a relationship and love is about. What if both of them seemed to be completly in love in the purest way there's ever been. What if both wanted to build a life together and from one day to the other one of them simply becomes ice cold, disappears and says to you I don't want ever want to see you again.

[AntMcL1]

Thanks. Video was useful & highly informative.

[iSHaayDiiVA]

beautiful...i love it, its exactly what i needed to hear..