Is like that saying, The Gov puts an innocent person in Jail or in Prison for a Crime that they NEVER had done nor DID, Just to see the OUTCOME of that Person?
Now we all know, Is NOT a good OUTCOME....etc
So, that's what the GOV is doing to US right now .... MEN'S, WOMEN'S ..... to all OF US !!!
Their USING and DOING the same thang/Experiment/Snow Balling Samplimg on us ......The Same Way.....LIKE
We're CRIMINALS!
THE MAIN FOCUS IS ON THE .. Direct Attorney ......Hell with the Jugde.
My socal daugther dropped out of school, and is working off the books, I've been paying this socal Childsupport payments for a good 18 1/2 years "my socal daugther is 19 y'o and a parent and works off the books", ----why off the books---"Why not pay taxes", Is just to proof to the courts, BY HER MOTHER. that my socal daugther is still living with her, just to collect childsupport. And the Jugde knows this.
Thanks Mala for your video and your precious support!
Especially coming from a woman!
I'm an Italian father and my wife kidnapped and alienated my son last year to Los Angeles and after a ten days trail in another country and all kind of accusations (sexual abuse-domestic violence on my son and her-been accused to have hired a killer to kill her and my son-ectera)all dismiss..the judge rewared her and let my son stay with her!
But I'm still fighting and I'm ready for the appeal in August..
I have no relationship with my child thanks to her mother.I should have gotten custody of my child, but they gave it to my ex-wife. My child is adult now and my child does not want anything to do with me still. I can't wait until the day when men rule the courts.
Los Angeles Superior Court Judges are excpting bribes. California judges are employee's of the State not the County. The County is currently giving them $57,688.00 per yr per judge in addition to the pay and benefits they receive from the State. After being exposed for the bribes (Sturgeon v Los Angeles County) the judges paid a lobbyist to pass SBX211 granting the retro active imunity from prosecution. SBX211 does not address the loss of due proccess.
The worst part of this all, more so than the mothers, is that courts step in and enable the bad behavior, they encourage it with their unreasonable court outcomes.
While my daughter know the truth of it all, they should never had been put in that position to start with, they shouldn't have to know the truth of who is really to blame. My 12 year old step daughter, an A & B student is starting to really become angry at her mother, the courts handed her mother the ability to create this anger.
Thank you mala, This judicial alienation of a parents unalienable right shows that the UN is serving up tyranny. we in the USA are supposed to be free from this crap. after 15 years of dealing with this, my son wants to live with me and her answer is to have me put in jail for contempt of court. She literally told my son that is what she would do. so now my son said he will stay with her and by next month I will be going to jail for six month. Tyranny is alive and well in TX
As a father that has been going through this for 3 years now, knowing my daughter is dying inside because of it, I salute your insight. And I pray that my little one is able to ovecome this in the end. Thanks Mala this really helps.
Amen Mala! I wish parents that do this could step into their children's shoes or the other parent's shoes for 5 mins so they could get a true understanding of what they are doing and I wish they could see themselves through our eyes and see how selfish and evil their actions are.
100% RIGHT ON. PAS(Parental Alienation Syndrome) is real. I have a 13 year old son,his mother and i split when he was 2,from that day on,my son and i have been a victims of PAS in the last stages.I have experienced the worst results,including going to jail.I could go on and on about my opinion per his mother,but the bottom line reality( i believe) is that these women are sick.Our system is corrupt,theres not much we can do,unless we collectively come together as one entity...
I have no relationship w\my son,he hates me,stated he wanted bad things to happen to me,where did he get these thoughts?I've taken him to therapists,dr's,etc,and all have said he is being mentally abused.Want sad?His mother kept him away from me for 6 months,i filed contempt charges,in court the judge said she was a bad mother,etc,and by law he(judge) was to hand full custody to me...but she received no discipline.Talk about almost the 2nd greatest day of my life(1st was his birth)...
Suffice to say that the pain that i have for not seeing the love of my life is perhaps what someone feels right before they know they are going to die.I wonder everyday how this hasn't killed me.Would i deal with the death of a child better?That kind of loss would be closure,and theres no choice but to deal with the loss that way.Better than the feeling of knowing that not just anyone,but your child,a part of you,the only proof you existed,hates you.
@ZOMBIELANDakaUSA I truely believe everything that goes around comes around.... truth cannot be silent and hidden forever ... I believe your son, if not sooner then later, will know the truth one day. I wish you the best .
I appreciate your post(and video),but with due respect,i am not so optimistic.I formed this seemingly cynical attitude on my experience,zero positive results,and the overwhelming negative mentality of society.With a society consumed by negativity,i don't believe the 'what goes around comes around' theory,i believe we are in the most evil,vicious times,and only a few here and there will have success.
If, at the least,i can help others as you,then maybe i can begin to cope.
do you know what my friend can do he just left his wife and its been 3 weeks since he has seen his kids the mother is being really difficult and won't let him see them i don't know what it is he can do if you know of anything can you please write me back thank you
@ERIKAVILLA08 I dont know what the situation is there...... but is there anyone that is neutral to the situation that can possibly talk to the mother? Also get your friend to check out the RFFJ channel here on youtube ...or go to the realfathersforjustice website ... there is plenty of advice around. God bless.
I havent seen my son for ten years now. I was 20 yrs old when my ex girlfriend gave birth to my son. Before birth she was sweet to me but after she turned nasty and never put my name down anywhere on the birth certificate without telling me and she and her extremely racist jewish mother both told me never to come back and see him and they moved somwhere without telling me. a lawyer said nothin i can do because my names not down on the BC
I believe that if feminists wanted equal rights for fathers they would fight very very hard to ensure that men and woman were treated equal in custody cases.
By getting more custody woman end up missing more sick time, transporting their children more, all of which takes a huge amount of time from their personal and professional lives.
I believe feminists want special treatment for woman.
Where are the feminists when female pedophiles are being let go with barely a slap on the wrist?
@mae951 Thats mainstream feminism in a nutshell...They want to be able to have all the perks with no responsibility/drawbacks. And because of them, misandry is considered the norm in todays society...even in our family court system..its extremely one sided.
This is a good video... Glad to hear a woman who finds that their are a lot of good dads, even poor dads who dont have the money to fight the system of unequal justice.
It's a joke feminists opposing pedophilia but supporting abortion. Women supporting the mutilation of children and the extermination of babies. Women it's high time you were held accountable & responsible for your horrendous bad choices & decisions. Stop blaming men. Take responsibility . Your Adults not children.
Mala265, I am glad to see that a woman understands the plight of the father ... I pay $1100 a month for one child that's mind has been poisoned against me and reminds me that I don't do anything for her.
I had never been late one time, but going to court for not getting my visitation cost me $3500, and it did nothing to improve my relationship with my daughter.
Could it be that we need Sharia Law in the USA for men to get any rights? You are one of the few great women with empathy!
I'm telling you ms.mala,if you were not married I would marry you myself,because you are just the perfect woman,you're beautiful,smart and God fearing.
I do do go to churh sometimes as well, but not regulary. I think people here in Sweden behave a bit differently when it comes to going to church! At least compared to USA.
Maybe I should visit our nearest church a bit more regulary!... It is a beautiful and very old church! :-)
ok! It is hard for me to understand what distinguish between pentecostal and other churches in Canada! How would you describe the difference?
Here we have a luthern church which is connected to the state. I don´t like that! I´m looking into the greek orthodox church, which sounds better to me! :-)
you can tell the church by the doctrine and believes. Like pentecostals believe in the Holy Trinity,other churches may only believe in the Jesus,others may only believe in the Father and other might only believe in the Holy Spirit.
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Hi othsma!
Personally I do NOT belive in any doctrins at all!! I think your relationship to Christ need to be PERSONAL, and NOT ruled by doctrines and rules from a certain church and/or people!
To rely on, and trust, your PERSONAL relationship to Christ is to be a true christian in MY opinion! :-)
now i don't know what word doctrine means in you perspective but some doctrines are the best understanding of who God is & good doctrines should improve your PERSONAL relationship with God
if you don't have a solid ground of what you believe in you are going to be a pushover & anybody can trick you in to believing something that is wrong
you might start believing in something wrong that is not in the Bible, but you might think that it is Biblical
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Simpleandmean!
Thank you for your concern! Yes "doctrines" can help when forming a personal relationship to God, you´re right there!
Personally I always think carefully what the doctrines are telling me personally, maybe over long periods of time. Sometimes I value them highly, sometimes not! But this is only me you know!
Do a YouTubesearch for "Ken Ring - bryter tystnaden"
It is a swedish artist expressing a fathers view on this! I know the words may only be understood by swedes, but I think you can FEEL the desperation in this song!...
Hi, Thanks to Catbrush my good friend for sending me this video.Suppose what it tells me is that there is another person out there that can see through this amazing abuse. Have not seen my kids sor almost 2 years and the courts were used to aid her abuseice behaviour. I feel that the only way to survive is to attempt to block out the hurt until such time as she will come to her senses. Its a dangerous stratedgy yet i feel its the only one that might keep one from going mad . Well done yo you.
I know that your heart was in a good place Mala and for that you should be comended. I just think it's sad when a really neglectful and delusional father uses that as a justification. But you have a wonderful heart and I do agree on most parts.
sehr welldone, dieses Thema braucht mehr Frauen wie Sie sich zu Wort zu melden und kommen nach vorn. elterliche Entfremdung ist ein Verbrechen, muss ausgesetzt werden
Mala, Thankyou so much for this video. I sincerely believe that you have done a wonderful thing here. Every man/woman subjected to this behaviour from ex partners should be very proud of you.
You chose not to be in my son's life Dan. You chose not to go to court. When you did have visitation you chose not to be there. He sat at the PD station waiting. Remember that? You were not only abusive to me you were abusive to him as well.
mala-this is such a crucial point you make on this video. Extremely relevent to myself of course at the moment.
I've been advised to utlize a conciliation facility and of course, will have to tread on rice paperi not provoking yet more anti dad propaganda from her -i call dealing with this te hostage situation-trying to gently talk the kidnapper finto taking that verbal gun away from my sons head!
Further to my recent posts, all of you parents and children that are living under the control of the alienator, remember this. These parents are very aware of the crime they have commited, they are guilty of an unquestionable act, and few things can ever come close to attempting to remove a childs love from the other parent. Ultimately, the final judgment will see them punished by their own self loathing, and the failiure to ever find inner peace. The truth will shine, it always does.
My dad was smart & lucky enough,to get full custody of me. And my bro's,don't get me wrong my dad never shut my mom,out. Of our lives,but when she was around,she gave us childhood scars & now. Moms gone so crazy,I won't let her near me,after some bullshit she pulled. Recently,to be honest I have allot of mommy issues!
You can not change her or control her. But you can control yourself and move past this. She is not the judge and jury on your personality and future happiness. Best wishes and God bless crypter27.
I turned out pretty well,no thanks to mom,if it wasn't for my dad. I would of been pretty bad off,as for my mom I wouldn't. Even try to control,that wild beast,its just in my adult life I don't want. To deal with her any more,I don't care what she thinks about me. The only thing I care about,is moving on with my life & putting. My crazy family behind me,thanks Mala for the kind words!
I'm very concerned about this question. I lost my own father when I was a child. He couldn't see his sons, and my mother, brainwashed my feminism, turned us against him: he ended up to comit a suicide. Fathers ARE important. Children need them to grow, and become decent adults. I know it too well. When fathers are symbolicaly and physicaly removed, children are in pain. That's why all western countries are criminals, because they let feminism destroy fathers with the help of their legal system.
ty mala-you and bernard ave been rocks for me in recent times with your posts. A crack appeared in the wall yesterday. some councelor at the school sent me message saying my son had expresed his anxiety at losing touch with me! I called the councellor-he advised me i might be able to have resort to legal means given my sons special needs-he attends a special needs school here in cambridge england. i'm going to see the solicitor todAY
ty so much for this video...if only there were more people like you prepared to speak out. i'm having my son officially kidnapped from me as we post. Theres not a thing i can do about it-despite being is carer for nine years! Because i am male nobody believes a word i say
Thank you for supporting children and their parents who are being separated for no good or valid reason. This abuse has to stop and the more we talk about it the greater the chance of seeing things change.
Parental Alienation and Parental Kidnapping should be recognised as a serious form of Child Abuse. Parents responsible for such Abuse should have their Mental Health assessed, and the children returned to the innocent loving parent, in most cases the father. Very good video Mala 5 stars.
Yes, the family courts need to smarten up. It's not always in the best interest of the children for the mother to have custody. We've got to stop assuming who's the best parent based on gender. This kind of thinking is being programmed into people through the media. It's the children who suffer the most and it's sad how children are often the pawns being used in a game being played between their parents. It's utterly sickening.
Superb video Mala, and something i had no idea about untill a couple of months ago. These woman have no morals, no family values, a disgrace to parenting.
Another fine video Mala, really excellent but dam it woman I could still not see your arms lol. Joking aside, please keep producing your videos, even if they only get viewed by a few women, it will help.
When the men become frustrated and try to stand up for their rights, they are ridiculed and shot down. You are right Mala, one day such women would be haunted by their own wickedness.
A very insightful video. Thanks for sharing Mala. After many men have been pushed away from the familiy unit and denied their right to be fathers, they are constantly (as well as incorrectly and maliciously) blamed for neglect. This view is promulgated by the media to label men as "good for nothings, " abusers and commitmentophobes.
When the children lack that crucial stong male figure in their lives and they grow up delinquent or psychologically imbalanced, people stupidly wonder why.
So glad you shared this video with me, Mala. I would have been mad to have missed it! VERY VERY well-said, and how true! Society is bound and determined to get the woman on top, no pun intended, end of story. Anything that is in direct defiance of the way we were created to function as a family unit, a married couple, anything that goes against the natural order of things as ordained by our Creator- the governments are siding with. Destroy the family- destroy all faith in what is right. --
--This is the underlying secular movement that has boosted the public's approval of the GLBT and feminist movements. Gain the public's approval, you have a free ticket. Problem is, these lifestyles are going outside of the natural design of the human race, and therefore the lifestyles are doomed for failure. Say what they will- defying the Almighty comes with a price. We would be wise to honor His wishes, obey and simply accept the life He wants us to have more abundantly! 5* dear, as always!
P.S. Videos like this, some that you and I have covered on similar issues of men vs. women for control- are needed so desperately. I wish everyone and their brother would do a video on a man's rightful place in his family- as head of the household, not just on paper, not just for when the telemarketer calls, and not when it makes you look good, but ALL THE TIME. Even when men make mistakes, their rightful place is at the head of the home, with their wives supporting them, not taking the kids!
Mala, you are a truly wonderful woman. There is no doubt that you study your subject with great care before making your videos. The direct approach you make in them, especially this one, makes you a true inspiration to good parents and woman with family values. PA IS CHILD ABUSE and must be recognised as such. Thankyou Mala.
Thank you Mala, its so kind of you to take the time to talk about this very sad issue children need to be put first they should never be use as a weapon
as in doing so you will hurt the child,
the sad facts are
40% of children will lose all contact with their father with in 2 years of separation.
40% of mother admit to thwarting contact to punish a former partner.
Its the child that suffers as their emotions are ignored buy a selfish parent seeking revenge.
Your right Today's Parents (mostly Women) are so selfish, all bout themselves. The problem young women marry for Status, Looks, Money, Lust, Peer Pressure and other stuff that has nothing to do with Love, Children and Family. The Rockeffellers, Government, CIA, Bankers, politicians, need to be thrown in Jail for destroying this society.
You are right kids will figure it out as they get older.I was the acusser of not letting my kids see there dads.For years they gave me a bad rep in that dept.Until my kids got old enough to see there dads were really dogging them.I thank God the truth finally came out.
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ONCE UPON A TIME AGO THEY SAID
WHAT THEY WERE DOING TO MY DAD
WAS IN MY BEST INTEREST. . .THEY FUCKING LIED.
We know what you have been doing to our fathers
in your corrupt family courts you sick mother fuckers.
classaction666 2 months ago
Is like that saying, The Gov puts an innocent person in Jail or in Prison for a Crime that they NEVER had done nor DID, Just to see the OUTCOME of that Person?
Now we all know, Is NOT a good OUTCOME....etc
So, that's what the GOV is doing to US right now .... MEN'S, WOMEN'S ..... to all OF US !!!
Their USING and DOING the same thang/Experiment/Snow Balling Samplimg on us ......The Same Way.....LIKE
We're CRIMINALS!
THE MAIN FOCUS IS ON THE .. Direct Attorney ......Hell with the Jugde.
smrfr 5 months ago
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In Reality, an a Adult is 18 years Old.
They can DO what ever they Like or Want.
From Filming or making a Porn movie, Smoking MJ or Cig even Drinking a Beer.
Robbing or Kill someone, Drive any types of Car's.
Work/Job thats if thay want to, or Drop out from any School's?
Have a child with any or many partner's ?? Gay etc.
Do time in Jail or in Prison as an Adult.
BUT CHILDSUPPORT IS UPTO 21 YEARS OLD, BECAUSE THEIR CONSIDERD AS AN INFANT IN THE COURTS OF NYC ???.
That's not Reality.
smrfr 5 months ago
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@mc1dash1b So your saying, IS TO LATE just like EVERYBODY.....that bought A HOUSE or a CAR?
But aslong the deed is done, The situation. hAs to go on. All because Collateral Damage, That's was done by the GOVERMENT.
Look, If your a Spy ??
I wasn't in No Military to pay No CHILDSUPPORT!!! You feel me.
Hell with the EX and my SOCAL Daugther, I don't own theme SHIT......as well to the Goverment.
I've payed my TAXES...Fuck them.
Make them work ..on the BOOKS!!!
Like Hitler made those JEWS.
smrfr 5 months ago
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BamJayMomma 5 months ago
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The Sickness of Peasants, Pay your Childsupport, I can't take care of your Kids and My Husband.
smrfr 5 months ago
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My socal daugther dropped out of school, and is working off the books, I've been paying this socal Childsupport payments for a good 18 1/2 years "my socal daugther is 19 y'o and a parent and works off the books", ----why off the books---"Why not pay taxes", Is just to proof to the courts, BY HER MOTHER. that my socal daugther is still living with her, just to collect childsupport. And the Jugde knows this.
Those are the part that hurts me.
Dropping out of school and not paying taxes.
smrfr 5 months ago
Just to hear i'm not the only one, has given me strength. Thank you.
marksman244 6 months ago
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evenToddlers1 6 months ago
Great video! I would like to put a copy on my website. Would this be acceptable? In any case well done - Kingsley Miller
evenToddlers1 6 months ago
great video and i love ur accent
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spitalas 6 months ago
Thanks Mala for your video and your precious support!
Especially coming from a woman!
I'm an Italian father and my wife kidnapped and alienated my son last year to Los Angeles and after a ten days trail in another country and all kind of accusations (sexual abuse-domestic violence on my son and her-been accused to have hired a killer to kill her and my son-ectera)all dismiss..the judge rewared her and let my son stay with her!
But I'm still fighting and I'm ready for the appeal in August..
TheMaluArt 6 months ago
I have no relationship with my child thanks to her mother.I should have gotten custody of my child, but they gave it to my ex-wife. My child is adult now and my child does not want anything to do with me still. I can't wait until the day when men rule the courts.
billthemisogynist 7 months ago
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CUSTODY CREATES SUB-CLASS CITIZENS WITH DIMINISHED RIGHTS
These People Are Perverts & Criminals Who Enjoy The Wages & Benefits
of Legalized Child Trafficking In The Courts Making Merchandise of Children.
All These Criminals Do Is Modify Their Crimes Like The Word 'Dead Beat'
A Modified Version of The Word 'Nigger' Written In The Back of A Bus.
Just Because Your Skin Is White Does Not Make You A Better Person,
And Just Because You Have A Uterus Does Not Make You A Better Parent.
44AlphaMale44 8 months ago
Thank you for making this video
militaryvetandfather 9 months ago 2
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Los Angeles Superior Court Judges are excpting bribes. California judges are employee's of the State not the County. The County is currently giving them $57,688.00 per yr per judge in addition to the pay and benefits they receive from the State. After being exposed for the bribes (Sturgeon v Los Angeles County) the judges paid a lobbyist to pass SBX211 granting the retro active imunity from prosecution. SBX211 does not address the loss of due proccess.
(see) How To Disqualify Your Judge
danielcooper1000 10 months ago
The worst part of this all, more so than the mothers, is that courts step in and enable the bad behavior, they encourage it with their unreasonable court outcomes.
While my daughter know the truth of it all, they should never had been put in that position to start with, they shouldn't have to know the truth of who is really to blame. My 12 year old step daughter, an A & B student is starting to really become angry at her mother, the courts handed her mother the ability to create this anger.
simonenglish1 1 year ago
Thank you mala, This judicial alienation of a parents unalienable right shows that the UN is serving up tyranny. we in the USA are supposed to be free from this crap. after 15 years of dealing with this, my son wants to live with me and her answer is to have me put in jail for contempt of court. She literally told my son that is what she would do. so now my son said he will stay with her and by next month I will be going to jail for six month. Tyranny is alive and well in TX
txflyguy40 1 year ago
thank u for this video
themaniusedtob 1 year ago
if you had wings, you would be an angel...
Kenshiroit 1 year ago 8
@Kenshiroit :)).. that was nice. thankyou.
mala265 1 year ago 6
As a father that has been going through this for 3 years now, knowing my daughter is dying inside because of it, I salute your insight. And I pray that my little one is able to ovecome this in the end. Thanks Mala this really helps.
grahamrd1 1 year ago
Amen Mala! I wish parents that do this could step into their children's shoes or the other parent's shoes for 5 mins so they could get a true understanding of what they are doing and I wish they could see themselves through our eyes and see how selfish and evil their actions are.
tesharika 1 year ago
100% RIGHT ON. PAS(Parental Alienation Syndrome) is real. I have a 13 year old son,his mother and i split when he was 2,from that day on,my son and i have been a victims of PAS in the last stages.I have experienced the worst results,including going to jail.I could go on and on about my opinion per his mother,but the bottom line reality( i believe) is that these women are sick.Our system is corrupt,theres not much we can do,unless we collectively come together as one entity...
ZOMBIELANDakaUSA 1 year ago
I have no relationship w\my son,he hates me,stated he wanted bad things to happen to me,where did he get these thoughts?I've taken him to therapists,dr's,etc,and all have said he is being mentally abused.Want sad?His mother kept him away from me for 6 months,i filed contempt charges,in court the judge said she was a bad mother,etc,and by law he(judge) was to hand full custody to me...but she received no discipline.Talk about almost the 2nd greatest day of my life(1st was his birth)...
ZOMBIELANDakaUSA 1 year ago
Suffice to say that the pain that i have for not seeing the love of my life is perhaps what someone feels right before they know they are going to die.I wonder everyday how this hasn't killed me.Would i deal with the death of a child better?That kind of loss would be closure,and theres no choice but to deal with the loss that way.Better than the feeling of knowing that not just anyone,but your child,a part of you,the only proof you existed,hates you.
Sorry to ramble...
ZOMBIELANDakaUSA 1 year ago
@ZOMBIELANDakaUSA I truely believe everything that goes around comes around.... truth cannot be silent and hidden forever ... I believe your son, if not sooner then later, will know the truth one day. I wish you the best .
mala265 1 year ago
@mala265
I appreciate your post(and video),but with due respect,i am not so optimistic.I formed this seemingly cynical attitude on my experience,zero positive results,and the overwhelming negative mentality of society.With a society consumed by negativity,i don't believe the 'what goes around comes around' theory,i believe we are in the most evil,vicious times,and only a few here and there will have success.
If, at the least,i can help others as you,then maybe i can begin to cope.
ZOMBIELANDakaUSA 1 year ago
3 WEEKS ITS BEEN 5 MOUTHS WITH ME.I have the best team
but still being screwed.Have had two court order pick up orders
and still she runs and stops me seeing my little girl who turn 3
a week ago.No pictures no contact nothing.I pay each mouth but
the state will not give me an address.THAT SOUNDS FAIR RIGHT!!
bitukukuasukgremany3 1 year ago
Absolute right, thanks
applesofeyes0 1 year ago
finally a women thats thinking about a childs best interest to have mom and dad not just a mom..
themaniusedtob 1 year ago
Hi mala, thank you for your thoughtful, kind, and wise video. You are wonderful.
freeheretic111 1 year ago
do you know what my friend can do he just left his wife and its been 3 weeks since he has seen his kids the mother is being really difficult and won't let him see them i don't know what it is he can do if you know of anything can you please write me back thank you
ERIKAVILLA08 1 year ago
@ERIKAVILLA08 I dont know what the situation is there...... but is there anyone that is neutral to the situation that can possibly talk to the mother? Also get your friend to check out the RFFJ channel here on youtube ...or go to the realfathersforjustice website ... there is plenty of advice around. God bless.
mala265 1 year ago
@mala265
I havent seen my son for ten years now. I was 20 yrs old when my ex girlfriend gave birth to my son. Before birth she was sweet to me but after she turned nasty and never put my name down anywhere on the birth certificate without telling me and she and her extremely racist jewish mother both told me never to come back and see him and they moved somwhere without telling me. a lawyer said nothin i can do because my names not down on the BC
ditdatdot 1 year ago
@ditdatdot Thats terrible..you can thank the radical mainstream feminists for that.
Nightshade323 1 year ago
@ERIKAVILLA08 3 WEEKS ITS BEEN 5 MOUTHS WITH ME.I have the best team
but still being screwed.Have had two court order pick up orders
and still she runs and stops me seeing my little girl who turn 3
a week ago.No pictures no contact nothing.I pay each mouth but
the state will not give me an address.THAT SOUNDS FAIR RIGHT!!
bitukukuasukgremany3 1 year ago
@ERIKAVILLA08
If this woman is full blown PAS,then your friend needs to ACCEPT that the mom hates him and is willing to ruin his child to hurt him.
1st,if he doesn't have a custody order,GET ONE.Because if after he has an order and she violates said order,he can proceed legally
2nd,if he gets an order and she abides,get the child counseling
If all he has in the end to give his children is a large box of "I TRIED",like me,YOU TRIED.Havent given my son his box,he won't care,but i tried
ZOMBIELANDakaUSA 1 year ago
Thank you for your words. The world needs more women like you.
Hulkmania316 1 year ago
@TheNothingexists :) thankyou
mala265 1 year ago
I believe that if feminists wanted equal rights for fathers they would fight very very hard to ensure that men and woman were treated equal in custody cases.
By getting more custody woman end up missing more sick time, transporting their children more, all of which takes a huge amount of time from their personal and professional lives.
I believe feminists want special treatment for woman.
Where are the feminists when female pedophiles are being let go with barely a slap on the wrist?
mae951 1 year ago 2
@mae951 Thats mainstream feminism in a nutshell...They want to be able to have all the perks with no responsibility/drawbacks. And because of them, misandry is considered the norm in todays society...even in our family court system..its extremely one sided.
Nightshade323 1 year ago
@mae951 i agree with you on this...
Kenshiroit 1 year ago
This is a good video... Glad to hear a woman who finds that their are a lot of good dads, even poor dads who dont have the money to fight the system of unequal justice.
barrenpaladin 1 year ago
Avrei dovuto sposare e fare i figli con una donna come Te, una donna vera, la vera madre. Ti auguro tutto il bene divino per la Tua magnanimità!
I'm very happy to see the woman like You!
All mans have to thanks Good for womans like You..
babboperbene 2 years ago
We love you Mala
PhuqueU 2 years ago
:))
mala265 2 years ago
It's a joke feminists opposing pedophilia but supporting abortion. Women supporting the mutilation of children and the extermination of babies. Women it's high time you were held accountable & responsible for your horrendous bad choices & decisions. Stop blaming men. Take responsibility . Your Adults not children.
brendubab 2 years ago 14
@brendubab seriously?
Tomoliver09 10 months ago
@brendubab Hmm, so is masturbation a genocide a sex cells?
DaveElectric 3 months ago
great video Mala
dave777blaster 2 years ago
Mala265, I am glad to see that a woman understands the plight of the father ... I pay $1100 a month for one child that's mind has been poisoned against me and reminds me that I don't do anything for her.
I had never been late one time, but going to court for not getting my visitation cost me $3500, and it did nothing to improve my relationship with my daughter.
Could it be that we need Sharia Law in the USA for men to get any rights? You are one of the few great women with empathy!
ben5017 2 years ago
great vid
pastorpowerful 2 years ago
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EvilUrago 2 years ago
sorry ms. mala.
othsma 2 years ago
You´re welcome mala, you are worth the compliments! :-)
Archos72 2 years ago
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mala - you are flattered, admit it!! ;-)
Archos72 2 years ago
I'm telling you ms.mala,if you were not married I would marry you myself,because you are just the perfect woman,you're beautiful,smart and God fearing.
othsma 2 years ago
othsma!
That was supposed to be MY comment man! ;-)
Archos72 2 years ago
...it would be if I did not have a woman of my own anyway!... :-)
Archos72 2 years ago
well..I said it first.
othsma 2 years ago
Yeah, you sure did othsama!
Can you read my thoughts man? ;-)
I could not have expressed that better than you did! :-)
Archos72 2 years ago
lol,no. Are you a believer? because that's one of the things I like about ms. mala.
othsma 2 years ago
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Well, I DO believe in God, if this is what you are asking?
Archos72 2 years ago
what church do you go to?
othsma 2 years ago
well, I basically have my personal "church" "inside of me"! :-)
But I AM christian!
Archos72 2 years ago
What church do you go to othsma?
I do do go to churh sometimes as well, but not regulary. I think people here in Sweden behave a bit differently when it comes to going to church! At least compared to USA.
Maybe I should visit our nearest church a bit more regulary!... It is a beautiful and very old church! :-)
Archos72 2 years ago
I'm pentecostal but I go to a reformed church.
Sometimes I don't go,but I listen to sermons on t.v.
othsma 2 years ago
ok! It is hard for me to understand what distinguish between pentecostal and other churches in Canada! How would you describe the difference?
Here we have a luthern church which is connected to the state. I don´t like that! I´m looking into the greek orthodox church, which sounds better to me! :-)
Archos72 2 years ago
you can tell the church by the doctrine and believes. Like pentecostals believe in the Holy Trinity,other churches may only believe in the Jesus,others may only believe in the Father and other might only believe in the Holy Spirit.
othsma 2 years ago
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Hi othsma!
Personally I do NOT belive in any doctrins at all!! I think your relationship to Christ need to be PERSONAL, and NOT ruled by doctrines and rules from a certain church and/or people!
To rely on, and trust, your PERSONAL relationship to Christ is to be a true christian in MY opinion! :-)
Archos72 2 years ago
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I read in a book by Robert Kiyosaki yesterday that some belivers (churches) FEAR God and some LOVE God!
I think these different aspects should be considered in your christian life!
Archos72 2 years ago
now i don't know what word doctrine means in you perspective but some doctrines are the best understanding of who God is & good doctrines should improve your PERSONAL relationship with God
if you don't have a solid ground of what you believe in you are going to be a pushover & anybody can trick you in to believing something that is wrong
you might start believing in something wrong that is not in the Bible, but you might think that it is Biblical
sinners are tricky & good lairs, so be careful
Simpleandmean 2 years ago
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Simpleandmean!
Thank you for your concern! Yes "doctrines" can help when forming a personal relationship to God, you´re right there!
Personally I always think carefully what the doctrines are telling me personally, maybe over long periods of time. Sometimes I value them highly, sometimes not! But this is only me you know!
Archos72 2 years ago
One is coming to turn the hearts of children back to their fathers,
dispite all of the attempts at devision via TV and drugs by Rothchild & Co.
PhuqueU 2 years ago
My father took his own life when I was small!
My mother allienated me from my MEMORY of him my whole childhood because of bitterness!....
Archos72 2 years ago
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Not only me, but my younger brothers as well, and not only from the memory of myfather, but from his side of the family (emotionally) as well!
I have suffred badly from this in my life!
Archos72 2 years ago 2
Do a YouTubesearch for "Ken Ring - bryter tystnaden"
It is a swedish artist expressing a fathers view on this! I know the words may only be understood by swedes, but I think you can FEEL the desperation in this song!...
Archos72 2 years ago
"bryter tystnaden" means "braking the silence"!
Archos72 2 years ago
Parent alienation is the worst form of child abuse ever and anyone who allows this in any form or name they want to give too it great video thank you
jdsonicx 2 years ago
Hi, Thanks to Catbrush my good friend for sending me this video.Suppose what it tells me is that there is another person out there that can see through this amazing abuse. Have not seen my kids sor almost 2 years and the courts were used to aid her abuseice behaviour. I feel that the only way to survive is to attempt to block out the hurt until such time as she will come to her senses. Its a dangerous stratedgy yet i feel its the only one that might keep one from going mad . Well done yo you.
frogbrush 2 years ago
I could not think of a greater pain to be going through. If you can get through this....you can get through anything life throws your way.
Be strong for your kids...never give up on your kids.God Bless you and yours.
mala265 2 years ago
You have said everything I feel on this subject.
catbrush123 2 years ago
wow you look beutiful and hearing you talk confirms that your beutiful on the inside too.
danielcooper1000 2 years ago
I know that your heart was in a good place Mala and for that you should be comended. I just think it's sad when a really neglectful and delusional father uses that as a justification. But you have a wonderful heart and I do agree on most parts.
devilxdollo 2 years ago
sehr welldone, dieses Thema braucht mehr Frauen wie Sie sich zu Wort zu melden und kommen nach vorn. elterliche Entfremdung ist ein Verbrechen, muss ausgesetzt werden
mariaengeln 2 years ago
Mala, Thankyou so much for this video. I sincerely believe that you have done a wonderful thing here. Every man/woman subjected to this behaviour from ex partners should be very proud of you.
alansawyer500 2 years ago 13
Thank you for your much needed post on this subject. I hope your words will touch my x's mind and heart. God bless you.
northeastson 2 years ago
You chose not to be in my son's life Dan. You chose not to go to court. When you did have visitation you chose not to be there. He sat at the PD station waiting. Remember that? You were not only abusive to me you were abusive to him as well.
devilxdollo 2 years ago
Hi Mala, We really need more of this speaking out. Thats all I will say. It really is sad and we can just wish and hope and pray for the best!!
xhemexx 2 years ago
Well stated Mala. Your input into this subject is much appreciated.
Mechanized0 2 years ago
Great vid Mala.
MewHamHead 2 years ago
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MewHamHead 2 years ago
Most excellent comments. You are part of a still young but emerging voice of men and women who have had enough of this nonsense.
Thank you for speaking up!
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
Thankyou....although Im not all that young..:) Thanks for the video response.
mala265 2 years ago
mala-this is such a crucial point you make on this video. Extremely relevent to myself of course at the moment.
I've been advised to utlize a conciliation facility and of course, will have to tread on rice paperi not provoking yet more anti dad propaganda from her -i call dealing with this te hostage situation-trying to gently talk the kidnapper finto taking that verbal gun away from my sons head!
DashiellCabasa 2 years ago
Further to my recent posts, all of you parents and children that are living under the control of the alienator, remember this. These parents are very aware of the crime they have commited, they are guilty of an unquestionable act, and few things can ever come close to attempting to remove a childs love from the other parent. Ultimately, the final judgment will see them punished by their own self loathing, and the failiure to ever find inner peace. The truth will shine, it always does.
shygirl750 2 years ago
My dad was smart & lucky enough,to get full custody of me. And my bro's,don't get me wrong my dad never shut my mom,out. Of our lives,but when she was around,she gave us childhood scars & now. Moms gone so crazy,I won't let her near me,after some bullshit she pulled. Recently,to be honest I have allot of mommy issues!
crypter27 2 years ago
You can not change her or control her. But you can control yourself and move past this. She is not the judge and jury on your personality and future happiness. Best wishes and God bless crypter27.
mala265 2 years ago
I turned out pretty well,no thanks to mom,if it wasn't for my dad. I would of been pretty bad off,as for my mom I wouldn't. Even try to control,that wild beast,its just in my adult life I don't want. To deal with her any more,I don't care what she thinks about me. The only thing I care about,is moving on with my life & putting. My crazy family behind me,thanks Mala for the kind words!
crypter27 2 years ago
I'm very concerned about this question. I lost my own father when I was a child. He couldn't see his sons, and my mother, brainwashed my feminism, turned us against him: he ended up to comit a suicide. Fathers ARE important. Children need them to grow, and become decent adults. I know it too well. When fathers are symbolicaly and physicaly removed, children are in pain. That's why all western countries are criminals, because they let feminism destroy fathers with the help of their legal system.
EuropaPhoenix 2 years ago 2
ty mala-you and bernard ave been rocks for me in recent times with your posts. A crack appeared in the wall yesterday. some councelor at the school sent me message saying my son had expresed his anxiety at losing touch with me! I called the councellor-he advised me i might be able to have resort to legal means given my sons special needs-he attends a special needs school here in cambridge england. i'm going to see the solicitor todAY
DashiellCabasa 2 years ago
I hope it goes well. ... Understanding the system you face is your greatest defence.
Keep your wits about you, and stay calm.....remember your son will feel what you are feeling. Goodluck my dear.
mala265 2 years ago
Great Mala...thanks so much...awesome video...
Motherhoodinrealtime 2 years ago 2
ty so much for this video...if only there were more people like you prepared to speak out. i'm having my son officially kidnapped from me as we post. Theres not a thing i can do about it-despite being is carer for nine years! Because i am male nobody believes a word i say
DashiellCabasa 2 years ago 3
Very sorry to hear that. Stay strong and look into support groups, do not give up on your son. Best wishes to you both...and God bless.
mala265 2 years ago
Thank you for supporting children and their parents who are being separated for no good or valid reason. This abuse has to stop and the more we talk about it the greater the chance of seeing things change.
doozytube 2 years ago 4
Parental Alienation and Parental Kidnapping should be recognised as a serious form of Child Abuse. Parents responsible for such Abuse should have their Mental Health assessed, and the children returned to the innocent loving parent, in most cases the father. Very good video Mala 5 stars.
dinkymummy 2 years ago 5
Yes, the family courts need to smarten up. It's not always in the best interest of the children for the mother to have custody. We've got to stop assuming who's the best parent based on gender. This kind of thinking is being programmed into people through the media. It's the children who suffer the most and it's sad how children are often the pawns being used in a game being played between their parents. It's utterly sickening.
TheMadShangi 2 years ago 5
Superb video Mala, and something i had no idea about untill a couple of months ago. These woman have no morals, no family values, a disgrace to parenting.
MrSadandre 2 years ago 4
Talk on sister.
3RDIDGUY1 2 years ago 4
I have been amazed at how the animals have more sense to their young than humans. GOD is the answer. repent and live
mysacredhonor 2 years ago 2
Amen.
mala265 2 years ago
Another fine video Mala, really excellent but dam it woman I could still not see your arms lol. Joking aside, please keep producing your videos, even if they only get viewed by a few women, it will help.
bettyswolloks2 2 years ago
bettyswolloks....lol, cut me some slack will ya...its in the middle winter here!!!
mala265 2 years ago
swettybollocks, I think she is mainly armless.
MewHamHead 2 years ago
okay, just posted it
pinegrove33 2 years ago
Keep up the good fight, Mala. I'll post this on Mensnewsdaily tomorrow.
pinegrove33 2 years ago 2
Cheers Bernard....Have a good vacation?
I'll be expecting the inferno intro to be extra special in the next inferno!!!!!!!!!!!
now your so re-energized.
mala265 2 years ago
When the men become frustrated and try to stand up for their rights, they are ridiculed and shot down. You are right Mala, one day such women would be haunted by their own wickedness.
God's justice is slow but it is definitely SURE.
truthseeker1971 2 years ago 2
A very insightful video. Thanks for sharing Mala. After many men have been pushed away from the familiy unit and denied their right to be fathers, they are constantly (as well as incorrectly and maliciously) blamed for neglect. This view is promulgated by the media to label men as "good for nothings, " abusers and commitmentophobes.
When the children lack that crucial stong male figure in their lives and they grow up delinquent or psychologically imbalanced, people stupidly wonder why.
truthseeker1971 2 years ago
So true truthseeker!!! And yes .....I believe everything comes around.
mala265 2 years ago
So glad you shared this video with me, Mala. I would have been mad to have missed it! VERY VERY well-said, and how true! Society is bound and determined to get the woman on top, no pun intended, end of story. Anything that is in direct defiance of the way we were created to function as a family unit, a married couple, anything that goes against the natural order of things as ordained by our Creator- the governments are siding with. Destroy the family- destroy all faith in what is right. --
YounaTuber 2 years ago
--This is the underlying secular movement that has boosted the public's approval of the GLBT and feminist movements. Gain the public's approval, you have a free ticket. Problem is, these lifestyles are going outside of the natural design of the human race, and therefore the lifestyles are doomed for failure. Say what they will- defying the Almighty comes with a price. We would be wise to honor His wishes, obey and simply accept the life He wants us to have more abundantly! 5* dear, as always!
YounaTuber 2 years ago
P.S. Videos like this, some that you and I have covered on similar issues of men vs. women for control- are needed so desperately. I wish everyone and their brother would do a video on a man's rightful place in his family- as head of the household, not just on paper, not just for when the telemarketer calls, and not when it makes you look good, but ALL THE TIME. Even when men make mistakes, their rightful place is at the head of the home, with their wives supporting them, not taking the kids!
YounaTuber 2 years ago
Absolutely true youna, thanks for the comment. Everything depends on the 'family unit',...always has, always will.
mala265 2 years ago
Thats sad killa. Your daughter is VERY lucky to have YOU for a dad.
Your 10 dads and as many mothers rolled in one.
mala265 2 years ago
Mala, you are a truly wonderful woman. There is no doubt that you study your subject with great care before making your videos. The direct approach you make in them, especially this one, makes you a true inspiration to good parents and woman with family values. PA IS CHILD ABUSE and must be recognised as such. Thankyou Mala.
shygirl750 2 years ago
Thankyou.
mala265 2 years ago
What you have said is so very true.
childlostdad 2 years ago 2
Cool video mala >=] thanks for sharing!
DwayneHollowayTV 2 years ago 2
thanks Dwayne, and for watching.
mala265 2 years ago
your most welcome >=]
all the best...
DwayneHollowayTV 2 years ago
Thank you Mala, its so kind of you to take the time to talk about this very sad issue children need to be put first they should never be use as a weapon
as in doing so you will hurt the child,
the sad facts are
40% of children will lose all contact with their father with in 2 years of separation.
40% of mother admit to thwarting contact to punish a former partner.
Its the child that suffers as their emotions are ignored buy a selfish parent seeking revenge.
rffjbanner 2 years ago 2
rffbanner....if parents give up the fight for children....then what in this world is worth fighting for, might as well give up on everthing else.
mala265 2 years ago
the family court is anti-male and the mothers who turn a blind eye to a child crying for their father should be ashamed of themselves
crh2010 2 years ago 7
very true.
mala265 2 years ago
Your right Today's Parents (mostly Women) are so selfish, all bout themselves. The problem young women marry for Status, Looks, Money, Lust, Peer Pressure and other stuff that has nothing to do with Love, Children and Family. The Rockeffellers, Government, CIA, Bankers, politicians, need to be thrown in Jail for destroying this society.
BigC83Boss 2 years ago 3
Yes bigboss....the root of this problem goes much deeper than alot of people realise.
mala265 2 years ago
You are right kids will figure it out as they get older.I was the acusser of not letting my kids see there dads.For years they gave me a bad rep in that dept.Until my kids got old enough to see there dads were really dogging them.I thank God the truth finally came out.
keepinthfaithlastday 2 years ago
Everyones situation is different....but yes, the truth WILL always come out, that much you can count on.
mala265 2 years ago