It's still alive, it"s just rare. Parents aren't teaching their sons how to be gentlemen and daughters how to be ladies anymore. It's unfortunate that the burden falls on the female now. It's up to her what she will and will not except...I'm soooo glad I'm out of the dating race and I'm married!!
I like this video cause she's putting herself out there and i have the same questions. You have to find an extremely special person that look at life the way you do. I hope you find it but it's very rare these days.
I would love to go back to the old days. a lot of women don't want thatr anymore so men have become hard/cold scared of being called a weak. My ex called me all those things it hurt. It killed the romantic man inside me.
I was super nice to women with opening doors, pulling out chairs, giving flowers basically treating women nice how I want to be treated, that got me nowhere. I couldnt buy a g/f so I stayed the big V for a long time. Then I started dressing hoodish and the girls actually came to me. Even then I couldnt click with them and I realized that me and hoodrats dont mix. So I went back to my nice ways and yrs. later I lucked into the longterm relationship Im in now.
Is Romance Still Alive? No...It dosn't work, I know some women who like that, but most women hate it now! because the man needs to be a thug and act hard, All the girls care about is their ego and being better than their friends... The minute u put a girl on a pedestal, they treat u like a pathetic loser...
Romance almost took a killer blow due to the feminist movement. Whenever men would open a car door for a women for example he would be greeted with "you think i can't open the door myself!". men have been frightened away from it. men used to stand at the dinner table when a women attended or exited their seat. because feminists wanting equal treatment socially, men were unable to treat women any different from men or they would get abused. men want to be romantic but the traditions were lost.
Romance is alive but the basis of romance should not be a porno or romance movie, or novel.
By doing so you are only setting yourself up for disappointment. Pornos always end soon after orgasm is reached just as romance movies end after the marriage ceremony.
Men are given pornosand women are given romance movies and novels. Both corrupt the mind if one chooses to want they've seen or read forever. Forever in looks, sex, or romantic gestures tends not to occur at the same frequency or extent.
Plus sometimes familiarity breeds contempt, and annoying habit could be all that is needed to justify divorce in these times of No-fault divorce.
Anti-male laws like the VAWA act and our culture in which some women want to be taken care of without submitting to their husband man. Women tend to say they want to be equals and in reality they want you to pay to keep them and be in charge.
Divorce rates are 80% in California currently, I have the soul of an accountant and not a gambler and see Marriage as a raw deal.
To punish men women withold sex. Men experience romance mostly through sex with a woman they love.
I can hug a woman, hold hands, send flowers and write love letters. You, as a woman, might find me to be expressing my love through these romantic gestures. It's all to make her feel good. Doing these leads up to me being able to truly express my love.
I receive the enjoyment of seeing you smile, but that pales in comparison to the joy I am given from intimate relations with the lady I think the world of.
I have been on this earth for a few decades, I can say for certain that romance does still exist. Unfortunately, it's being discouraged by those who've suffered from making bad choices and blaming all but themselves.
There r those who can actually like u w/o seeing u naked 1st.
There r those who will actually love u 'cause they LIKE YOU.
The thing is, we r sometimes surprised at the pkg. that this "realness" comes in. Sometimes it's not what we expe
romance was never alive. it was only an illusion that guys played along with the females they were trying to have sex with. romance dies after the guys gets that pussy. romance is an illusion thats why it starts evaporating after the guy gets up in between your legs and bustes a nut because the ass felt ohhh so good. once he does all that the romantic illusion he played along with you in dies abruptly. both of the individuals living in that goofball illustions (lusting illusions) until......
it dies and or is conquered. now females dont like hearing the hard reality of that but ask a guy why he isnt the same romantic character after he got up in you, and then see his response. ASK YOUR OLD BOYFRIENDS WHY THEY GOT TIRED. THEY GOT TIRED OF PLAYING ALONG IN A BULLSHIT ILLUSION. that is the truth. but females dont want to hear that. :shrugs: but its the truth. shits goofy. lol.
I like VickyNJ because I watch her videos and there's not even a hint of the bitterness and cynicism so common in today's black woman. What makes her so unique is the fact that she's not only attractive, but also YOUNG: There is no greater turn-off than a woman who's wasted her youth and beauty on getting men to buy her drinks at the club or being taken on dates to expensive restaurants. And then when she hits 30--BING--suddenly the light bulb pops on and suddenly she wants to be "romanced."
dlfunky, I agree. There are plenty of beautiful black women like VickyNJ. I encounter them every day. But here's problem; Too many of the bitter black women are walking around claiming the "Good Black Woman" moniker. Not enough of the Truly good black women are calling these bitter women out on their behavior. Most of the time they defend these women, ESPECIALLY if she is attacked by a black man.
Since when being 30 for a woman is old and being 30 for a man is not? In case you didn't know, 30 is the new 20! Black women age better than other race of women. All we have to do is to keep our weight down and we're cool. I refuse to let somebody tell me that because I'm 32, my chance of getting a man is over. I think that's a bunch of crap. Women over 30 are always getting men and getting MARRIED too, so don't think that it's over for a woman over 30 who takes care of herself.
So you're 32, and according to you "30 is the new 20!" And then when you're 40, you'll be saying "40 is the new 30!" And then when you hit 50, it'll be "50 is the new 40!" And on and on and on...
Black women may age better than women of other races, but women of ALL races generally hate getting old or being reminded of their age.
True, but if women takes good care of themselves, they wouldn't have to worry about it. I'm just getting sick and tired of people dissing women over 30 like we're a bunch of old hags. Case and point, I know a WHOLE lot of women who LOOK GOOD over 30 that just starting to get married and everything. That's all I'm saying. Black women and white women age differently. All black women have to do to look youthful is to exercist and eat right. White women have to do MORE to look youthful.
You're 39, and you probably like women in their 20s, and that's nothing wrong with that. Hell, I know women over 30 that have young men, but what I'm saying is that I'm tired of people think that women in their 30s and 40s are old hags. I've NEVER heard of women in their 30s and 40s being OLD. 50s maybe. I agree with the biological part as far as abililty to have children decreases but a woman who does not want children like myself is cool.
Yes, at 39 (40 in January) I like women in their 20's. But guess what? When I was 20 I liked women in their 20's. What we like, what we're attracted to, doesn't change just because we're older. The only thing that really changes is what we will and won't tolerate.
And I never meant to imply that women in their 30's have zero chance of finding a man. What I'm saying is that for women, the older she gets, the more competition she has, namely younger women. Lets face it, when you were in your 20s, especially early 20s, I doubt there were many 30, 40, and 50 year olds you considered competition.
Do you have something against women over 30? What do you like about women in their 20s that makes you date them? Do you ever consider marrying them and having children with them? Is that why you choose women in their 20s and not their 30s? What do you mean I doubt that there were many 30s, 40s, and 50s I considered competition? You act like women in their 30s are grandmas or something. I will look at women who LOOK GOOD in their 30s and 40s competiton, yeah.
70sbaby80schild321, c'mon! you know good and well why men like women in their 20's. You're 32. You're not that naive. But if I must....
It's not that I don't like women in their 30's. I just don't like stretch marks, grey hair, etc. Just being honest. And as far as dating and settling down? Been there, done that. And before you respond with something crazy, know that I'm a single father of two, a son and a daughter.
Ok, now you are sounding superficial. Excuse me, but women in their 20s after they have a baby have stretch marks all over their bellies and asses. And since when women in their 30s have grey hair???? You just want a yound woman to control, and I'm in my early 30s. How dare you insult me as a 32-year-old trying to make it seem like I will never have a man simply because of my age. So you are going to pass up an attractive thin no stretch mark 30 something year old woman?
Black women age more gracefully than women of ther races. Black women in their 30s look like they are in their 20s, and you are going to pass them by just because they are in their 30s, no matter how attractive they are???? Just because a woman is in her 20s doesn't mean that she'a automatically thin and attractive, especially where I live. I've seen 20-something women that look older than me, and you are going to pass me by for them??? WTF????
70sbaby80schild321, I dont date women with children. And with me sounding superficial, chew on this: I never said I date women SOLEY on looks. But younger women tend to not have acquired the baggage of older women, kind of like youre displaying right now. Women like you want us to remember your birthday, but not your age. You want us to know your dress size, but not your weight. You want us to treat you like a virgin, despite having kids.
And never said I only like women who are thin and attractive. I said I like women who are attractive. And if she happens to be younger than me, so what? Attractive does not automatically translate to thin. But thats the typical assumption of older women.
I can do bad all by myself
I want a man on my level.
Women say this all the time. So in an ironic way, Im kinda like a woman in that I simply choose to only date women on MY level.
I don't care if you like women who happens to be younger, BUT what I DON'T like is assuming because I'm in my 30s that I'm this or that. I NEVER say that I can do bad all by myself. It ain't nothing wrong with wanting an attractive woman just like it ain't nothing wrong with being with a man who makes more money than me YET treats me like a lady.
Ok, now you are prejudging me just because I'm over 30. I don't have any kids. I'm just as youthful as I was when I was in my late teens. What makes you think that I have baggage? You are prejudginging me just because I'm 32. You are in your 30s yet you don't want women in their 30s. WOW! Not every woman in their 30s are the same. IT sounds like you are speaking from experience.
Look at the title of VickyNJs vid. Is Romance Still Alive? Now look at what you posted previously. Do you have something against women over 30? What do you like about women in their 20s that makes you date them? Do you ever consider marrying them and having children with them? What in the HELL is romantic about that?? Sometimes a romantic encounter is just that, a romantic encounter. Why does EVERY. FLIPPING. THING. with yall have to revolve around MARRIAGE??
Sometimes I want to just cuddle on the couch on a Sunday morning watching DVDs of my favorite show Lost. Sometimes I want to spend a Saturday night with someone trying out an ice cream cake recipe. Sometimes I want to just hang out doing my laundry while shes watching Snapped. Why does every aspect of a mans interaction with a woman HAVE to center around whether or not hes going to marry her?
I tell you, what I cant stand most about older women, certainly not all, because Ive encountered some of the most amazing women, but what I cant stand is this constant haranguing of "Where is this relationship going?" "What am I to you?" "What do you feel about me?" "I dont want to waste my time if this isnt going anywhere." Im like, damn, I just asked you what time is it. (That was a joke.)
I think that women tend to build up more baggage and bitterness as they age It's just life experience. I also think it's natural for women to be a bit more impatient as they age, because we cannot have children forever. I'm not that far from 30, but I am very selective, so that I do NOT have bitterness when it comes to dating.
That's very smart of what you are saying, and you are at the right track. Keep doing what you are doing, and don't let ANY man take advantage on you. Make sure that you don't end up hurt and bitter when you get older. Being selective is VERY important, especially nowadays. I don't want any kids, but I just want a companion to do stuff with.
I'm just telling you that women in their 30s is not old. Hell you're over 35 and you're older than me, and you prefer to me as an older woman, and I don't like that.
I'm sorry. It's just that I'm going through a vulnerable situation right now. My ex-boyfriend left me for an 18-year-old, and he's 36. He used to be romantic, go places and everything, but when I hit 30, we barely go anywhere. All we do is stay in the house, watch movies, and have sex. It's like he's 36 but he has a mind of a teenager. He still living at home with his mother. I guess he's looking for a mommy figure, well, don't look at me!
People are so afraid of pain these days. I understand the old days that you are talking about where a man would basically die for a woman that's beautiful and supportive. Unfortunately, we live in a punish society and we have to change that.
I agree with you, and I also think a lot of men want everything, and don't want to give anything. Being selfish isn't going to work in any relationship.
The coolest thing is when you hold the hands of your mate as you walk through a park and not only see the forestry but the tress the birds butterflies squirls.and to look in her eyes and share a light kiss followed by picknick basket of goodies.nestled near a tree by calm waters as doves float by.I can go on and onwith the sweet and gentle smile on her face is a thing of wonder.
When do the games stop.for women i would say around 26 or 28. For men around 28 or 30.True romance and chilvery is still alive but rare in a world of hustle and busssle,I mean most pple dont take the time anymore.
From what I know, people who play games tend to attract other people who play games. So women who play mindgames tend to find themselves with very two-faced men and two-faced men end up with the wrong sort of women.
I think the key is to be honest and to pay attention to one's partner's feelings, because from my experience that attracts women of a similar disposition.
There are guys that are still romantic like that. I was just always myself when I got older and over that. I figured they are either going to like me or not. If they don't, hell with him. You are very pretty and you shouldn't have a problem.
Men do need to quit being babies... but so do women! Both are current;y acting childish by expecting unrealistic "notebook" or "playboy" situations to happen!
You are very gorgeous, you will find one. trust me progress is a process and yes my girlfriend still bakes me cookies. lol we need more black women like you.
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sonika763 9 months ago
It's still alive, it"s just rare. Parents aren't teaching their sons how to be gentlemen and daughters how to be ladies anymore. It's unfortunate that the burden falls on the female now. It's up to her what she will and will not except...I'm soooo glad I'm out of the dating race and I'm married!!
tcvejones 10 months ago
Typical modern day woman, typical.
Women today aren't worth anything.
You place too much emphasis on how you look, whether a man is short or attractive.
What you superficial cunts never place emphasis on is how good a person is.
I will never touch or marry a woman, today's women are just worthless.
It is disgusting and disturbing.
lifeisforaseason 11 months ago
You and I have the same ideas sis. Too bad you are not in the Washington DC area.
mostsincere7 1 year ago
ROMANCE IS DEAD CUZ THE BLACK WOMEN DON'T LIKE IT AND THEY HATE BLACK GOOD MEN.
LTrainStudios 1 year ago
I like this video cause she's putting herself out there and i have the same questions. You have to find an extremely special person that look at life the way you do. I hope you find it but it's very rare these days.
KEchillinwutsgood 1 year ago
fuck no it aint around! its all abt fucking to be honest!
NoLaTvShow 1 year ago
I think your retarded, all jokes aside.
jamesdh76 1 year ago
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IAMSAFARI 1 year ago
@IAMSAFARI
I never wore my bottom retainer.
VickyNJ 1 year ago
I would love to go back to the old days. a lot of women don't want thatr anymore so men have become hard/cold scared of being called a weak. My ex called me all those things it hurt. It killed the romantic man inside me.
manweller1 2 years ago
If women liked nice guys then men would be nice.
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago 2
I agree. Some women have ruined it for all of us. lol.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
The brothers who would wanna do that stuff
Are looked at as weak or corny!
And would usually get dogged out for some
Thug who don't do a damn thing for you
nice guys are not valued.
I think some women don't think they deserve
A nice man so they will resent him for being
Nice
xclusiv118 2 years ago 2
Well, the black women who like that stuff are looked down upon as well.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
I was super nice to women with opening doors, pulling out chairs, giving flowers basically treating women nice how I want to be treated, that got me nowhere. I couldnt buy a g/f so I stayed the big V for a long time. Then I started dressing hoodish and the girls actually came to me. Even then I couldnt click with them and I realized that me and hoodrats dont mix. So I went back to my nice ways and yrs. later I lucked into the longterm relationship Im in now.
hrobbins 2 years ago
Is it just me, or does she talk really s-l-o-w and in circles?
verylastafrican 2 years ago
Yes, that's how I talk, lol.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
You're so soooothing.
09NXN06 2 years ago
No, because most women consider guys who are "Romeos" to be WACK, CORNY, and LAME. As they say chivalry is dead and women killed it
BruhMan09 2 years ago 3
I agree. Women need to stop putting down the nice guys.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
Is romance still alive ...Answer: no and Black women killed it.
ezekielthemack 2 years ago 2
Is Romance Still Alive? No...It dosn't work, I know some women who like that, but most women hate it now! because the man needs to be a thug and act hard, All the girls care about is their ego and being better than their friends... The minute u put a girl on a pedestal, they treat u like a pathetic loser...
XXTheRealMcCoyXX 2 years ago 7
Romance almost took a killer blow due to the feminist movement. Whenever men would open a car door for a women for example he would be greeted with "you think i can't open the door myself!". men have been frightened away from it. men used to stand at the dinner table when a women attended or exited their seat. because feminists wanting equal treatment socially, men were unable to treat women any different from men or they would get abused. men want to be romantic but the traditions were lost.
Endolaylith 2 years ago
Romance is alive but the basis of romance should not be a porno or romance movie, or novel.
By doing so you are only setting yourself up for disappointment. Pornos always end soon after orgasm is reached just as romance movies end after the marriage ceremony.
AntArt141 3 years ago
Men are given pornosand women are given romance movies and novels. Both corrupt the mind if one chooses to want they've seen or read forever. Forever in looks, sex, or romantic gestures tends not to occur at the same frequency or extent.
Plus sometimes familiarity breeds contempt, and annoying habit could be all that is needed to justify divorce in these times of No-fault divorce.
AntArt141 3 years ago
Anti-male laws like the VAWA act and our culture in which some women want to be taken care of without submitting to their husband man. Women tend to say they want to be equals and in reality they want you to pay to keep them and be in charge.
Divorce rates are 80% in California currently, I have the soul of an accountant and not a gambler and see Marriage as a raw deal.
To punish men women withold sex. Men experience romance mostly through sex with a woman they love.
AntArt141 3 years ago
I can hug a woman, hold hands, send flowers and write love letters. You, as a woman, might find me to be expressing my love through these romantic gestures. It's all to make her feel good. Doing these leads up to me being able to truly express my love.
I receive the enjoyment of seeing you smile, but that pales in comparison to the joy I am given from intimate relations with the lady I think the world of.
AntArt141 3 years ago
exactly! i love your relation of porn to romance movies it really is all just a distortion of reality.
misMITU 3 years ago
Thank you.
AntArt141 3 years ago
Perfect woman!
norsemancool 3 years ago
I also wanted to say that it takes some bravery to be a romantic, especially in this superficial society we live in.
Why play games? Let's make healthy and wise decisions about people we date and just be real.
dbrunsonsr 3 years ago
I have been on this earth for a few decades, I can say for certain that romance does still exist. Unfortunately, it's being discouraged by those who've suffered from making bad choices and blaming all but themselves.
There r those who can actually like u w/o seeing u naked 1st.
There r those who will actually love u 'cause they LIKE YOU.
The thing is, we r sometimes surprised at the pkg. that this "realness" comes in. Sometimes it's not what we expe
dbrunsonsr 3 years ago
Romance is alive, it just all depends on who you're dealing with.
xxShannonGreenxx 3 years ago
romance was never alive. it was only an illusion that guys played along with the females they were trying to have sex with. romance dies after the guys gets that pussy. romance is an illusion thats why it starts evaporating after the guy gets up in between your legs and bustes a nut because the ass felt ohhh so good. once he does all that the romantic illusion he played along with you in dies abruptly. both of the individuals living in that goofball illustions (lusting illusions) until......
NiggaJukeyJohnson 3 years ago 3
it dies and or is conquered. now females dont like hearing the hard reality of that but ask a guy why he isnt the same romantic character after he got up in you, and then see his response. ASK YOUR OLD BOYFRIENDS WHY THEY GOT TIRED. THEY GOT TIRED OF PLAYING ALONG IN A BULLSHIT ILLUSION. that is the truth. but females dont want to hear that. :shrugs: but its the truth. shits goofy. lol.
anyway. have a good day.
NiggaJukeyJohnson 3 years ago 2
Interesting angle.
opposethis 2 years ago
I like VickyNJ because I watch her videos and there's not even a hint of the bitterness and cynicism so common in today's black woman. What makes her so unique is the fact that she's not only attractive, but also YOUNG: There is no greater turn-off than a woman who's wasted her youth and beauty on getting men to buy her drinks at the club or being taken on dates to expensive restaurants. And then when she hits 30--BING--suddenly the light bulb pops on and suddenly she wants to be "romanced."
Haywerth 3 years ago
swp should watch this video there are millions of black women like her, its so sad that people like him cant see it.
dlfunky 3 years ago
dlfunky, I agree. There are plenty of beautiful black women like VickyNJ. I encounter them every day. But here's problem; Too many of the bitter black women are walking around claiming the "Good Black Woman" moniker. Not enough of the Truly good black women are calling these bitter women out on their behavior. Most of the time they defend these women, ESPECIALLY if she is attacked by a black man.
Haywerth 3 years ago 2
Since when being 30 for a woman is old and being 30 for a man is not? In case you didn't know, 30 is the new 20! Black women age better than other race of women. All we have to do is to keep our weight down and we're cool. I refuse to let somebody tell me that because I'm 32, my chance of getting a man is over. I think that's a bunch of crap. Women over 30 are always getting men and getting MARRIED too, so don't think that it's over for a woman over 30 who takes care of herself.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
@70sbaby80schild321,
So you're 32, and according to you "30 is the new 20!" And then when you're 40, you'll be saying "40 is the new 30!" And then when you hit 50, it'll be "50 is the new 40!" And on and on and on...
Black women may age better than women of other races, but women of ALL races generally hate getting old or being reminded of their age.
Haywerth 2 years ago
True, but if women takes good care of themselves, they wouldn't have to worry about it. I'm just getting sick and tired of people dissing women over 30 like we're a bunch of old hags. Case and point, I know a WHOLE lot of women who LOOK GOOD over 30 that just starting to get married and everything. That's all I'm saying. Black women and white women age differently. All black women have to do to look youthful is to exercist and eat right. White women have to do MORE to look youthful.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
You're 39, and you probably like women in their 20s, and that's nothing wrong with that. Hell, I know women over 30 that have young men, but what I'm saying is that I'm tired of people think that women in their 30s and 40s are old hags. I've NEVER heard of women in their 30s and 40s being OLD. 50s maybe. I agree with the biological part as far as abililty to have children decreases but a woman who does not want children like myself is cool.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
70sbaby80schild321,
Yes, at 39 (40 in January) I like women in their 20's. But guess what? When I was 20 I liked women in their 20's. What we like, what we're attracted to, doesn't change just because we're older. The only thing that really changes is what we will and won't tolerate.
Haywerth 2 years ago
And I never meant to imply that women in their 30's have zero chance of finding a man. What I'm saying is that for women, the older she gets, the more competition she has, namely younger women. Lets face it, when you were in your 20s, especially early 20s, I doubt there were many 30, 40, and 50 year olds you considered competition.
Haywerth 2 years ago
Do you have something against women over 30? What do you like about women in their 20s that makes you date them? Do you ever consider marrying them and having children with them? Is that why you choose women in their 20s and not their 30s? What do you mean I doubt that there were many 30s, 40s, and 50s I considered competition? You act like women in their 30s are grandmas or something. I will look at women who LOOK GOOD in their 30s and 40s competiton, yeah.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
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Haywerth 2 years ago
What is it with you men liking women in their 20s? Why do you consider women in their 30s old? Answer that question, please.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
70sbaby80schild321, c'mon! you know good and well why men like women in their 20's. You're 32. You're not that naive. But if I must....
It's not that I don't like women in their 30's. I just don't like stretch marks, grey hair, etc. Just being honest. And as far as dating and settling down? Been there, done that. And before you respond with something crazy, know that I'm a single father of two, a son and a daughter.
Haywerth 2 years ago
Ok, now you are sounding superficial. Excuse me, but women in their 20s after they have a baby have stretch marks all over their bellies and asses. And since when women in their 30s have grey hair???? You just want a yound woman to control, and I'm in my early 30s. How dare you insult me as a 32-year-old trying to make it seem like I will never have a man simply because of my age. So you are going to pass up an attractive thin no stretch mark 30 something year old woman?
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
Black women age more gracefully than women of ther races. Black women in their 30s look like they are in their 20s, and you are going to pass them by just because they are in their 30s, no matter how attractive they are???? Just because a woman is in her 20s doesn't mean that she'a automatically thin and attractive, especially where I live. I've seen 20-something women that look older than me, and you are going to pass me by for them??? WTF????
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
70sbaby80schild321, I dont date women with children. And with me sounding superficial, chew on this: I never said I date women SOLEY on looks. But younger women tend to not have acquired the baggage of older women, kind of like youre displaying right now. Women like you want us to remember your birthday, but not your age. You want us to know your dress size, but not your weight. You want us to treat you like a virgin, despite having kids.
Haywerth 2 years ago
And never said I only like women who are thin and attractive. I said I like women who are attractive. And if she happens to be younger than me, so what? Attractive does not automatically translate to thin. But thats the typical assumption of older women.
I can do bad all by myself
I want a man on my level.
Women say this all the time. So in an ironic way, Im kinda like a woman in that I simply choose to only date women on MY level.
Haywerth 2 years ago
I don't care if you like women who happens to be younger, BUT what I DON'T like is assuming because I'm in my 30s that I'm this or that. I NEVER say that I can do bad all by myself. It ain't nothing wrong with wanting an attractive woman just like it ain't nothing wrong with being with a man who makes more money than me YET treats me like a lady.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
Ok, now you are prejudging me just because I'm over 30. I don't have any kids. I'm just as youthful as I was when I was in my late teens. What makes you think that I have baggage? You are prejudginging me just because I'm 32. You are in your 30s yet you don't want women in their 30s. WOW! Not every woman in their 30s are the same. IT sounds like you are speaking from experience.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
Look at the title of VickyNJs vid. Is Romance Still Alive? Now look at what you posted previously. Do you have something against women over 30? What do you like about women in their 20s that makes you date them? Do you ever consider marrying them and having children with them? What in the HELL is romantic about that?? Sometimes a romantic encounter is just that, a romantic encounter. Why does EVERY. FLIPPING. THING. with yall have to revolve around MARRIAGE??
Haywerth 2 years ago
Sometimes I want to just cuddle on the couch on a Sunday morning watching DVDs of my favorite show Lost. Sometimes I want to spend a Saturday night with someone trying out an ice cream cake recipe. Sometimes I want to just hang out doing my laundry while shes watching Snapped. Why does every aspect of a mans interaction with a woman HAVE to center around whether or not hes going to marry her?
Haywerth 2 years ago
I tell you, what I cant stand most about older women, certainly not all, because Ive encountered some of the most amazing women, but what I cant stand is this constant haranguing of "Where is this relationship going?" "What am I to you?" "What do you feel about me?" "I dont want to waste my time if this isnt going anywhere." Im like, damn, I just asked you what time is it. (That was a joke.)
Haywerth 2 years ago
I think that women tend to build up more baggage and bitterness as they age It's just life experience. I also think it's natural for women to be a bit more impatient as they age, because we cannot have children forever. I'm not that far from 30, but I am very selective, so that I do NOT have bitterness when it comes to dating.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
That's very smart of what you are saying, and you are at the right track. Keep doing what you are doing, and don't let ANY man take advantage on you. Make sure that you don't end up hurt and bitter when you get older. Being selective is VERY important, especially nowadays. I don't want any kids, but I just want a companion to do stuff with.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
I'm just telling you that women in their 30s is not old. Hell you're over 35 and you're older than me, and you prefer to me as an older woman, and I don't like that.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
I'm sorry. It's just that I'm going through a vulnerable situation right now. My ex-boyfriend left me for an 18-year-old, and he's 36. He used to be romantic, go places and everything, but when I hit 30, we barely go anywhere. All we do is stay in the house, watch movies, and have sex. It's like he's 36 but he has a mind of a teenager. He still living at home with his mother. I guess he's looking for a mommy figure, well, don't look at me!
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
Maybe you gained weight and he got tired of your fatass
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
dang gurl.. you be like the wind beneath a good brother's wings. I like you!!!!!!
SpeakDaReal27 3 years ago
People are so afraid of pain these days. I understand the old days that you are talking about where a man would basically die for a woman that's beautiful and supportive. Unfortunately, we live in a punish society and we have to change that.
silverdragon1979 3 years ago
new proverb- the women that bakes me nothing maybe my baby mama, but the women that bakes me brownies cookies, is a women who will be my wife...
dimebeats 3 years ago
meh! im tryna keep the romance in me....but slowly but surely i feel it leaving me.
OffBrandDutchess 3 years ago
I believe in romance, but rarely do I met a woman so giving that it would make a man like me want to give ten times more. But I will keep on hoping!
willia3r 3 years ago
feminism... and the constant demanding of women without offering anything (the whole "me me me" attitude) is why romance is dead.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago 3
I agree with you, and I also think a lot of men want everything, and don't want to give anything. Being selfish isn't going to work in any relationship.
VickyNJ 3 years ago
The coolest thing is when you hold the hands of your mate as you walk through a park and not only see the forestry but the tress the birds butterflies squirls.and to look in her eyes and share a light kiss followed by picknick basket of goodies.nestled near a tree by calm waters as doves float by.I can go on and onwith the sweet and gentle smile on her face is a thing of wonder.
mallen4000 3 years ago
When do the games stop.for women i would say around 26 or 28. For men around 28 or 30.True romance and chilvery is still alive but rare in a world of hustle and busssle,I mean most pple dont take the time anymore.
mallen4000 3 years ago
You are correct....it would be nice to go back to those times with dating.
There are unfortunately not enough men and women who want that....which is sad.
I think relationships would last longer and would be more enjoyable if we could be openly romantic.
I have always been like that but had a difficult time finding women who appreciated that style.
Too many people wrapped up in "keeping it real". The funny thing is...they define "real" as they go...at one time...romance was "real".
cont...
KaptanSolo 3 years ago
Now it's a fairy tale...
KaptanSolo 3 years ago
go figure...
KaptanSolo 3 years ago
Good point about how romance was once real and it is now a fairy tale.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
I bake brownies...Not cookies.
Hipznbutt 3 years ago 5
From what I know, people who play games tend to attract other people who play games. So women who play mindgames tend to find themselves with very two-faced men and two-faced men end up with the wrong sort of women.
I think the key is to be honest and to pay attention to one's partner's feelings, because from my experience that attracts women of a similar disposition.
Myndir 3 years ago
There are guys that are still romantic like that. I was just always myself when I got older and over that. I figured they are either going to like me or not. If they don't, hell with him. You are very pretty and you shouldn't have a problem.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
Men do need to quit being babies... but so do women! Both are current;y acting childish by expecting unrealistic "notebook" or "playboy" situations to happen!
OrangeSodaTV 3 years ago 3
Ca i have it Like that v-('_')-v
SLUGTHUG 3 years ago
You are very gorgeous, you will find one. trust me progress is a process and yes my girlfriend still bakes me cookies. lol we need more black women like you.
justinclarkbigsports 3 years ago 4
AMEN.
a woman who actually bakes... great stuff
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
Thank you, and I hope the whole race thing can be discarded soon. I'm a woman first, a black woman second. (wink, wink)
VickyNJ 3 years ago