Black Marriage/ Do Black Men Hate Black Women?/B Intentional/ Black Love

[caramelking2000]

Black Women are the ENEMY ~ ecclesiastes 25:24

[caramelking2000]

Black Women are the ENEMY ~ ecclesiasics 25:24

[MAJESTY357]

As a BM, I can honestly say that I don't hate BW. However, I do hate STUPID pro-IR BW. Why? Because these bitches will HAPPILY bash BM while praising WM. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against interracial dating, but when a BW has to degrade BM in the process of proclaiming her LOVE for WM, then yes, that's a PROBLEM. Why? Because it shows that for all their whining, BW aren't HAPPY with the WM they've chosen, and that they claim to be so SUPERIOR to BM as far as being better mates.

[jamare456]

I dont blame the black men who hate black women. Because black women are always acting too cocky,stucked up. They acts too much as airheads an acts like they shit dont stank. Maybe if black women would give ugly niggas more of a chance then they wouldnt get much hate. Now aint that the truth?

[impatientwithdesire]

Yes, black men hate black women. If the millions of you tube videos, stereotypes, rapes, sexualization, colorism, facebook/myspace groups, uncaring of children or community has showed you that yet- what will?

Yes, black men hate black women because they hate themselves and what their blackness represents in white society-and instead of battling white standards, they mold into it as much as possible- but thats another discussion.

[MAJESTY357]

@impatientwithdesire As a black man, I can honestly say that I don't hate black women, but I do hate you. Why? Because you're a HYPOCRITE; you have the AUDACITY to talk about how BM demean BW while you bash BM in the same breath. You go on and on about how BM hate themselves, when in REALITY, you're the STUPID bitch who CAN'T STAND herself. You can't talk about battling white standards while you're on your knees worshipping WM at the same time. ROFL

[soulsearch1234]

@impatientwithdesire We dont hate black women. I think that many of our young men, but not all dont have general respect for women and have not been taught this respect. We dont hate ourselves, this has nothing to do with it. This is more of an issue of subculture, but not hate for ourselves or black women. The norms that have been established among our people as acceptable is the problem. I hate bad women and I love good women, HER COLOR NEVER TOLD ME WHICH ONE SHE WAS. LOL

[soulsearch1234]

@impatientwithdesire In addition, the videos that BM post about BW is a demonstration of the desire for the BW love. Those black men are injured and desire for black women to come home to love them like they want to be loved. To a black man (in general), there is nothing more beautiful, sexy, and emotionally comforting than a good and supportive black woman. It just so happens that these good black woman run into evil men who happen to be black and turned to a cold heart

[RizzoAstronama]

The difference for me is older black women seem to have more morals than the younger black woman. I am 20 years old and I've met black woman from several different up bringings. The common consensus is the lack of self-respect firstly, and secondly the lack of respect for their man. So after my last relationship with a black woman, from that point I will never get into a SERIOUS relationship with a black women. I will still have black girls that are friends with benefits though.

[santiagodananperry]

black men dont hate black women we hate loud mouth man acting women now me give me a black women anyday of the week they are the best when they are women and no how to let me lead us to the futher i know right now in my city all the black girls want a man off of bet are in the nba and the thug! i will not act like a child to get a black women but i know theres a black women out there thats for me if she is not in the states there is a big black world out there to get a black women with values

[vincent15641]

I spoke to a black woman the other day and she ignored me. But 20 seconds later, she had the nerve to ask to use MY phone. Translation: the average black woman won't even speak to a black man unless she can use him in some way. So I contend the black woman hates black men more than black men hate them, especially since we try to be sociable by asking them to dance- but they usually reject us and then wonder why so many of us date outside of our race. The average black woman is brainwashed blind!

[impatientwithdesire]

@vincent15641 you proceeded to use one black woman to explain the average black woman...are you fuckin kidding me? And we are still asking this question..OF COURSE BLACK MEN HATE BLACK WOMEN- yall are the only men who love bashing your women as publicly as possible and for no reason at all!

[MAJESTY357]

@impatientwithdesire We could use you to explain bitter, self-hating, black-man-hating while collectively kissing the asses of white men, because WE ALL KNOW you fit the bill. You have the nerve to talk about how BM supposely bash BW, but you spend all of your free time DEGRADING BM. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. LOL

[soulsearch1234]

@vincent15641 I hear you, but you must consider the history of that black woman. Im not saying this the case with her, but sometimes the woman has dealt with black men who used her in the past and has a general distrust for black men until she observes you over a time period to see if you are who you say you are.

[vincent15641]

@soulsearch1234 Your point contradicts itself. You implied the average black woman is now paranoid & distrusts black men because she was hurt in the past. But if such black women had taken a long period of time to observe the ways of him before allowing herself to get used up- she never would have gotten used! After all, players are not patient because there are too many other easy women waiting to get used and abused quickly.

They love bad boys but distrust good men. Backwards!

[soulsearch1234]

@vincent15641 Something is obviously going on in your life that needs attention. I was responding to a man who felt a black woman didnt give him the time of day until she needed something. I simply asked him to consider the idea that she could have been hurt in the past and developed a distrust for black men in general WHICH DOES HAPPEN!! STOP ACTING LIKE THAT NEVER HAPPENS!! I mean seriously, if you are in fact a black woman, you are an example of what black men are talking about

[vincent15641]

@soulsearch1234 Why do U claim I need obvious attention? All I did was point out a common flaw of many black women. They go from one bad decision (man) to another- never learning from their mistakes.

But then again, only a Mrs. Right could find or keep a Mr. Right.

Mrs. Wrong is not attracted to Mr. Right and that's her choice. But she cries like this is not so because she is blind to the fact that she is living a lie and is deceived!

[CalabarSweetii]

The 'gluteus maximus'. Is that the only distinct quality men can see in a black woman?

[CalabarSweetii]

There are some black men who will 'respect' you, but even they don't value you.

[CalabarSweetii]

The problem is not just images. It is not just music. It is not just mass media. It is the accepted reality that is yes--SO pervasive, that even the most liberated individual can't see, and/or refuses to see it.

[SuperKim2981]

Amen for you two.

[mdna72]

Black women fall for the propaganda so easily.90% of black men who are married guess who they are married too.black women

[nomyaw]

if a chick gets paid to be in a video to walk around half necked, she is disrespecting herself. a possibility could be, not that we hate black women, but love all women.

[Tiabiacha1]

I think alot of these young black guys in these coming generations are going to 'hate' black women because I watch these yoing girls act foolish, loud, and dramatic.They wont be wife material like some of us old school chicks. This will be a problem for a while. These young men will be glad to graduate high school and go to college to experience another race because it will be peace and quiet. and black men, stop labeling all black women bad, or some will continue to label you. :)

[charliemarc]

the question was the black man hate black women and the woman did most of the talking then the man tried to explain how he feels about black women in videos she cut the shit short. very ironic

[charliemarc]

when she said I agree that brother looked at the camera and thought thank god.

[AfroCuban78]

I think in order for Black men and women to make it, we have to learn to love and respect each other as a whole. We need to stop feeding into all this bs in the media that's being portrayed about Black men and women in general.

[AfroCuban4life]

@AfroCuban78 Hey fellow Cuban!! I agree with you btw lol!

[AfroCuban78]

@AfroCuban4life Thank you, I'm glad somebody does:)

[cinnamonbrownskin]

I love seeing a black couple who is committed to one another. I can't wait to be blessed with that. I

[cinnamonbrownskin]

You all are a very attractive couple. Great message!

[mrcharles007]

I do not hate black women I don't hate native african women. caribbean sistesr or our sisters in europe or canada. however most afro-american women I can't fucking stand. disgusting attitude, fetish for thugs, bum and players loud and obnoxious behavior, male bashing, bad parenting, most black women in america makes me sick .

[DowntonStudios]

Maybe it is because most black women are loud and annoying and white women are less aggressive and manly.Plus most black women are ugly as hell and look like men.

[MsZan30]

I am very happy you both made this video. I agree with you both, but more with Aiyanna lol (black women in videos). I hope you two will continue to make vidoes that challenge contemporary (and historical) stereotypes that are just disturbing and wrong. You two make a good looking couple, and I hope to see more of you both.

[spainishgirl]

i meant....." HOW TO MAKE A  BLACK WOMAN SMILE "VIDEO.....

peace.

[OfficialKohieArts]

"Black men and Women hatred is only on the Internet", people take the Internet too seriously. I like all kinds of women equally and no favoritism. All women in my eye's are beautiful no matter what shade. Its not what the person looks like on the out side its what the person can offer you.

[spainishgirl]

look.... i hear people say that the sisters need to smile more... why not do something to make her smile more by being more understanding. maybe she had a bad day or she is going through something like an abusive relationship,ect and doesn't have much energy even to smile. some black women go through hell that they can not even talk about. why not tell her a joke and do something to make her day and also listen to the " HOW TO MAKE A BLACK WOMEN SMILE ". VIDEO on the youtube channel.

[mbsunlimited]

Do black men hate black women?!!! HELL NO! Not even close. Please let's not mistake CRITICISM OF SOME BLACK WOMEN'S BEHAVIOR as black men hating black women. Nothing is greater to a black than a classy black woman. The thing is that nowadays the standards for black women's behavior has fallen so low that some sistas do not conduct themselves in a manner that comands respect.

Are there some reptiles who direspect women? Of course. But they are not the norm.

[weasapeople]

@mbsunlimited WELL SAID!

[TheBourgeoisDubois]

Black men don't hate black women. It's very simple. If black women lost weight, smiled more often, made smarter decisions in the bedroom, and stopped being confrontational like men, then perhaps they'd be more attractive, from a commitment standpoint. All men would agree with this. Most black women would protest this. Hence the disconnect.

[bubblebum333]

@TheBourgeoisDubois Many black women do need to smile more, maybe I haven't suffered as much as the next black woman but whenever I smile at people, it is mainly my sisters from another race that smile back while my black ladies just frown.

[dginki]

@TheBourgeoisDubois There are plenty of black women who are not over weight and do smile. They could push diamonds out of their uterus and some people like you would find fault. I see plenty of black men with fat nonblack women ALL the time, so please just stop. You have simply bought into the lie and it will come back to bite you. Peace.

[moondear2000]

we black people nees to focus on being the good people and behaving responsible in education,marriage,and uplift our image in society.you are a great couple...showing us black love can exist!!!!good job...with your example to us!!!!

[ArtistBet]

The man in this video knows how to offset positives of black men his wife speaks about by feeding into selling black women the negative stereotypes of black men. What's funny is that black women believe all the negative stereotypes more so than white women; my grandmother, mother, sister don't believe them, because they weren't purposely brainwashed by the Willie Lynch Syndrome like black women. Black Women have been brainwashed to destroy the Black man, thus destroying Black America.

[bubblebum333]

@ArtistBet We're not destroying black men, we give birth to black men. We are collectively destroying ourselves. Black people have been victims for so long that we seem to have a defensive attitude that women, when having to deal with many idiots, seem to hold onto more. Thats the problem I see.

[AvailabilityNow]

'let's not dress that one up' loool. Might steal that one!

[Cherry32able]

4:43 She kept it real I love them! lol

[loveedigveggies1004]

Beautifully said.

[OfficialKohieArts]

The problem is everyone is making bad views off their bad experienes on other people. I think people should find other places where theirs people on their level of maturity. Im talking about Young women and men between the ages of 18-50 years of ge.

[ThePurplepistol]

blk men dont hate blk women

all of this is just on youtube!

[Missy2012NY]

Generally speaking, black men do not value black women.--If this weren't so, you wouldn't see the disrespect in black music, also -more black males would be building black businesses, and establishments to ensure the success of their sons and daughters. --Actions speak louder than words...

[BigBlaqueKat]

Black men don't respect or appreciate black women.

[Drebln893]

If black men hate black women...it comes from their child hood. Boys should not be disciplined by women, that is a fathers job. Question is...where is the father??? now you know where any hatred would come from, especially knowing how black women of old beat their sons. Like the saying goes...if the foundation is weak, the house wont stand. This all goes back to PARENTING...AND THE EXAMPLES THEY SET AND SHOW THEIR CHILDREN. Fathers set the example

[SexyAsia09]

im surrounded by good black men...I love them so much. Nothing will change that

[lemmieatit]

@KharismaBrown I haven't met a loyal Black woman yet!

[1redGee]

how sad...

[illl7775able]

I appreciate your video thank you, but it seems like the black men around here dont want to treat black woman with respect. I know no one is perfect but why men can't pull a woman's coat tail and say hey, that's not a good thing to do, that goes for the women too. It seems like everyone likes when people make mistakes I guess so they can talk about it. It's a shame.

[KharismaBrown]

I couldn't agree with you more. I would lie to see a video about how Black men can love Black women better. I see so many about what the Black woman is doing wrong, what she needs to fix to be with Black man. Very few about how a Black man can uplift their women and love them better. This is what contributes to the bitterness in many Black women, a lack of appreciation and love for what she sacrifices for her man. Despite the mistreatment overall Black women are still loyal to the brothas.

[hetheru]

I think black men are sexist and oppress black women. If you put a woman in a video with her azz shakin'...the mother of the universe...yes that is definately HATE. I don't see any of the so called brothas that love black woman try to every stop the producers from demeaning their mother sisters and daughters. They see us as objects to be used for their pleasure and the black women have internalized their oppression. Sistas free yo mind as yo azz will follow!

[jg95mia]

Misguided about the attitude about black women.. Oh please, look from my observations and experiences black women are being disrespected because of their stank attitudes. Do I hate black women? No, I don't. Do I hate the disrespectful attitude they display? Yes I do. They go on television shows and disrespect black men. Even in the movies you see how black men are portrayed, the wife beating, drug dealing asshole.

[jetblakink]

Black men don't hate black women! A Black man by definition is one that knows his self, and you can't do that and hate your Black woman! A Nigga on the other hand, is the opposite. He (or she) hates him/herself and everyone else! The question asked confuses the two terms, by referring to any male of colour as a Black Man. This is incorrect. A Nigga can only put the ignorant woman (or a nigga woman) in a thong on tv!

[message2blackwomen]

There are millions of black men who are good and healthly black men wanting to meet their black queen. This is a media trick to destablize and have us fighting each other. NOTHING WILL EVER get done in black communities if black men and black women are distrustful of each other!! that is the eternal goal of the enemy.

[mightyblack1]

There black people who love each to the up most and then there are alot of us as black people who hate each othermand that's a damn mental illness .There some brothers out here{not all but too damn many}and there black women out here{not all but too damn many} and with all this happening it case a hughe problem that's gonna to kills.Playa hating girl friends will tell another woman to leave her man if he lose that real good job.Playing hating male friends will do the same too.

[bigpokedogg]

So the women are being forced to wear thongs and pop the p***y? We need a federal investigtion into this slave ring those black men are running as soon as possible.

[bc6uk9]

It's all about perspective. Individually we as human beings have many factors that sway our outlook on the opposite sex. Our race has endured so much in the U.S. with slavery and the residual mental effects. By no means should it be an excuse to why our people as a whole do some of the things we do, but rather it should be a starting point for rehabilitating. I agree with techsupportguy101 as far as men having their women speak for them. Men, as well as women, should be able to speak what's on

[techsupportguy101]

Two house niggas. Nothing to see here. I can't stand men who need a women to speak with and for him. BE A MAN! Speak for yourself. Black women are either lesbians, haters, or whores. Every black women I have ever dealt with were terrible, period. It's like the black women is a deity. Un fucking believable.

[GataAgressiva411]

I don't need to surround myself with the wrong crowd to know the vast majority of black males hate black women. If you want to sum up rape, torture, disrespect, family abandonment, public disgrace, worshiping white womanhood, and emotional and physical abuse as simple "misguidance", kudos-but I prefer to call it hatred. To be more specific, it's called racio-misogyny.

[Mary2020VA]

@GataAgressiva411 As you wisely pointed out, one simply has to look at the actions of black males to understand that many of them certainly hate black women. Let's not sugar coat the truth; because this realization will help black women move forward and search for guys that truly value and respect them, irrespective of color/race.

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[autoserver22]

i think both black men and women are to blame for interracial dating because black women listened to white women with the whole feminist bs and i am a black woman and i would not dream of dating outside of my race other races of men seem nasty to me so i support black love i will never bash a black man just to be with a euro man

[obifromsouthlondon]

it's like some kind of twisted self-actualization, the desire to be as separate from whom one really is. were I've come across this expression of dislike (agree "hate" is too strong a word) is amongst some brethren who are relatively privileged, educated and should know better. Almost like validation should come from without the culture instead of within. So white girlfriend/wife, ignorant-on-purpose remarks about black women, deep-seated inferiority that plays out as "hate".

[jazzyphay21]

@obifromsouthlondon bless you, bc your statement was nothing but the truth

[1venavena]

There are blacks who seem to suffer from self hate, this is coming back from slavery where the whites taught the blacks to hate themselves- it's still going on today with some black people they were brainwashed into hating themselves. Some blacks seem to not know how special and beautiful they are not to mention they age so well unlike other races. All blacks need to emancipate themselves from mental slavery only they can do this which starts with self love

[BINTENTIONAL]

@1venavena

True dat - Ayize

[003bone]

@BINTENTIONAL you guys where on marriage saved me lol 

[Drebln893]

@1venavena ...Its not self hatred...most of these dudes love themselves too much. It is mostly the upbringing / parenting. Fathers have to be in the home setting a positive example. Stop the self hatred myth. Too many black homes have no positive father figure AND mothers should not be the ones discipling sons...AND THATS THE TRUTH

[em19jay88eff]

@1venavena dont say "blacks" say "black people"

[alihr787]

Its nice to see a black married couple get along but if God says its over because of lack of love and respect then its OVER!

[morningafter86]

Some do, but overall I think black men have resentment towards black women, the same can be said for black women.

[pbg98pbgpbg98pbg]

Black men dont really hate black women, they hate the issues they face as a black man and who better to blame but their mothers for making them black...and black women because they are easy to pick on. Black men have issues and weak black men hate black women for reminding them of the hardships they face as black men. I am happy to see black men turning to white women for love. A white women cannot provide half of what a black woman can give a black man....in time he will learn that.

[mrblackalchemist]

@pbg98pbgpbg98pbg Yeah right

[BlackWomenInLove]

@pbg98pbgpbg98pbg What can a Black female give a Black male that a white female can not? Why do "weak" black females blame Black men- is it because they are easy to pick on? The white run media surely does a whole lot of that. I see alot of so called Black females online & in person who have issues & those weak black females hate black men for reminding them that they are STILL BLACK. Black females seem to be returning to their white massas- at least on Youtube..500+ year sexual relationship.

[alihr787]

@pbg98pbgpbg98pbg

Exactly! My husband is into white women but thats okay it just means he couldn't handle a strong black woman like me. He told me one time white women don't fuss if you mess something up or they have a better attitude then black women. I' v been so opposite of that so it cant be morals, maybe he like "the white look" better and I' am not knocking that but we have to divorce because he done some ugly things in my face pertaining to these so called white beauties he love so much.

[craigblast]

The female host is a perfect example of why many brothers hate black women. When the male host spoke his opinion he stated fairly and without blaming anyone, but when it was the sisters turn she did`nt hesitate to call the brothers "fools" for hatin on the sisters, and without revealing the reason on why these brothers hated these sisters in the first place, she acts as though brothers hating on sisters for nothing when many sisters give you dam good reasons to hate them.

[aferg76]

@craigblast maybe she responded like that because she is a black woman.

[pbg98pbgpbg98pbg]

i think i know what that person was asking...i do believe alot of black men now adays dislike being in the company of black women, for many reasons.

Bad relationships with black mothers. Feeling guilty for loving white women. Shying away from BW for having been rejected by them in the past. Staying away from Bw because their own thoughts of bw, are unhealthy, The biggest reason...?when a black man looks at a BW he is reminded figuratively, physically, and litterally of where he comes from...

[ANIMALMOTHERFUCKYEA]

@pbg98pbgpbg98pbg Thats BULLSHIT. Most "people" hate BW. Because BW are extremely outspoken, egogistical and ignorant. I couldn't care less if the majority of BW vanished off the face of the earth, I don't think anyone would notice. I was speaking to these white girls and this LOUD Black friend of theirs intertupted and pulled her White friend away. I DISLIKE all black women from average to attractive. From nerd to airhead. Nobody cares about your fucked up emotional baggage. YOU GUYS SUCK.

[pbg98pbgpbg98pbg]

@ANIMALMOTHERFUCKYEA Thats nice, there are some people who would care if all black women disappeared...those with black mothers, black sisters, black Aunties, Black nieces. White men who pay black women to have sex with them, the president would miss his, wife very much, and who would teach weak minded white women how to stand up for them selves...Black woman go through alot, that is how we are as strong as we are, im black, a woman, and i am proud. Thanks for sharing though.

[BlackWomenInLove]

@pbg98pbgpbg98pbg the people who couldn't care less if bfs disappeared, are the white people who keep pushing bfs toward relationships with white men. WM don't produce black females, they produce mulattos. That's funny that you speak of teaching "weak minded white women" how to "Stand up for themselves"...White women in the system of racism have MORE POWER & WEALTH than Bf. They don't need us to "mammy them" & give them strength- the wmensures that they remain the most powerful females.

[kahanyah]

my dude, you look like smoking joe frasier who fought muhammed ali. Ever been told that?>

[rewindfive]

you dont see many healthy black relationships these days...=P

everyone hating on each other i dont think black men hate black women i think the media just got them twisted

[jordan484]

Black men love black females its just on youtube(which some of them be non black men protraying themselves as black men)these uncle toms make real black men look bad!

[cinnamonbrownskin]

@jordan484

exactly!

[cecinia23]

@jordan484 is nice to see there still some black men in this country that dont throw us under the bus every chance they get

[Dblock7185]

I don't think brothers do . For years and Years brother have been taking it on the chin with no way to speak their minds until now. Eventually the brothers frustration built-up ,and it comes in form of revenge in a sort of way.I say it's more about being tired of being blame period. The way I look at it is when ever the media wants to bash black men .They use the sistas right down to the T,but when ever a black woman is missing . Now can you tell me how much air time does she get????

[Dblock7185]

I don't think brothers do . For years and Years brother have been taking it on the chin with no way to speak their minds until now. Eventually the brothers frustration built-up ,and it comes in form of revenge in a sort of way.I say it's more about being tired of being blame period. The way I look at it is when ever the media wants to bash black men .They use the sistas right down to the T,but when ever a black woman is missing . Now can you tell me how much air time does she get??????????

[midnight7sunz]

no we dont .................and he has a great looking queen.....you go boy

seems like they always want to dress men as the ones who hate - we dont hate sistas

[atonausar]

It is a sick child that hates their own mother. A disturbed concept bearing self evident dysfunction.

[kuunami]

Whoever asked this question might be basing her perception on the silly "gender war" between black men and women that started on youtube For decades, black women have been willing and given an open forum in mainstream media to criticize black men. Basically saying that BM are bums. But until youtube, black men haven't had a medium to respond. So I think now we're seeing decades of black men's frustrations with black women crammed into 4 years of videos and can create a perception of hate.

[PresidentOfTheBlack]

great video i hope you guys post ideos often. dam man your girl is soo sexy.

[blackwolverine1]

Good topic folks and i can definitely relate sista to what u where saying in terms of the blatant disprespect a number of bm out here in todays society r showing bw, as a bm myself it's to the point where i myself am angry and embarrassed by such behaviour. At times i feel like punching some of these brothers in the mouth but that's just not me, i for one love my sistas and i commend u folks 4 ur effort.