How to dress for success with women

[CharlesKing104]

Hey, thanks for this great video.

[HIllBilly212212]

Thanks man great advice helped alot

[VirtuesPenumbra]

Great videos. Keep it up.

[geobreezy]

make me a bowl of cheerios ?

[Mrbaltimore2001]

damn I want some cheerios now

[mr007tycoon]

I somewhat disagree with the idea of not wearing clothes that make you stand out from the crowd. Obviously you want to be reasonably appropriate for the environment and not look like a clown, but I find that it bars and restaurants I draw the attention of women and have a easier time initiating conversation when I am wearing bold colors like red or royal blue. It doesn't hurt to wear form fitting clothing in these colors too if you work out and can wear them well.

Just a thought.

[seuss0ceuticals]

I eat honey nut cheerios too

[youthman7]

Great suggestions, next time use a different setting than your kitchen

[niox20]

thats pretty good - especially the part about feeling insecure

[ThorLightning1979]

girls look at clothes that signify the guy's interests.Want girls who like rich guys? Wear designer or high-end brand clothes...girls who like movies/bands? wear T shirt for your favorite.dress for the type of girl you want.if you stand out, a cute girl might ask you about your funny hat, cool coat, armored boots, etc. you want this. i like metal -rare in chicks, i know- but a long-haired guy in a metal shirt shows he'll have my interests and then i'll talk to him. now i'm married to a metal guy

[manosthedude]

nice work! but its not goin' to work to where i come from. im from a little town of greece and the society here is really close. meaning that whoever has a fancy car or in this case fancy clothes and wear every time different ones makes him really cool. and i know that almost all the girls want guys that dress really cool and have money. there are ofcourse exceptions but only a few. there are some girls that dont just see how your clothes are or what other people think of u and try to know you.

[Drayquan]

Cheerios commercial in disguise!

jk, good advice, thx :)

[Drayquan]

Cheerios commercial!

jk, good advice :) thx

[SelfDefenceExpert]

I think this is a great advice! If you dress upp like a clown like most emo dudes do it only gona look bad.

[Migvill]

be yoself... =] confidence!

[ninatbx]

Peacocking is bullshit.

[spoonman73]

LEORIPPE you are hilarious! I disagree with this guy saying not to dress to stand out from the crowd. I guess he has never heard of PEACOCK THEORY(Mystery method) Most guys dress boring and need help

[arkady39]

I am well familiar with the peacock theory. I am also familiar with the fact that the majority of women find peacocking to be a sign of insecurity and trying to hard which is hardly ever attractive. Flashiness works in some circles, and of course - if you are interested in being popular among those specific people, peacocking is the right way to go. It might work on drunk college girls at a bar (as in the show which is staged anyway), but hardly beyond that.

[sk8terman72]

ok wait wel what if u feel comfortable and falmboient, in something that makes u stick out?..some plz rpely

[ThoseEyesBlink]

this dude is genius

[Ougk]

i wear semi-tight shirts to girls see im exercising because i have big body than others who dont go to gym is that wrong and gay?

[EMOxCHICK91]

wow my bf watches u an he got me...keep it up..ur advice really helps pplz=]...thank u for helping my love

[djora9]

i like wearing fancy wardrobe,rose collor isnt only women collor, i love wearing it but some guys think if a guy wears rose collor his gay,thats stupid

[leorippe]

will U finish those cheerio's already =P

[mejiaman5000]

thanks man

[Fokosmok]

I will remember m8

[daddyjorg]

goooooood

[romania4uluv]

this is for men: pls try to feel confortable elegant! it makes men so desirable

[Sly000]

You atriculate youself very well.

[sweetkiss133]

I want the cheerio's in your backround

[drpepperdre]

YOUR A GENIUS ARKADY

[PoeticAdaptation]

good advice

[jpsweetheart]

I agree. My boyfriend only wears t-shirts and khaki pants and I love him still!

[sergiomcfly]

I do not agree with the third one

[Someone0like0me]

why not?i agree- as long as you do not STEAL their style its all good but if you see them wearing a really nice shirt why not buy one of the same style(obviously not the exact same one)

[yoimbrad]

thanks man, found my new style it's well not so sloppy anymore its more along the lines of nicely fir not gay but just nicely fir nothing is super baggy or whatever.

[unni3063]

Awesome straightforward advice...

[funnymagicianman]

look up the mystery method, see how he dresses and read up on the peacock theory, no offence

[arkady39]

Mystery method is a good guide to what NOT to do, if you want to be attractive to quality girls, because the vast majority of them perceive peacocking as cheesy and trying too hard.

[funnymagicianman]

wow dude, im confuse, ive been able to pickup some hot girls with the mystery method, but then again i want to believe you, i dont really use peacocking, i simply wear fit close, not tight and i dress like if i was going to my girlfriends party

[arkady39]

Good for you. So... you are not really using mystery method, right? :)

Also, we have to remember that different girls respond to different things.... so... there obviously isn't a single rule that would fit any one woman (the same applies to us, guys).

[funnymagicianman]

Well now that i think about it, i use almost all of his methods but not all. By the way did you study it?

[arkady39]

No, I looked at it briefly and wasn't very impressed with the whole story telling, peacocking and bar pick-ups. But hey - to each his own. If it works for you, you should stick with it.

[funnymagicianman]

lol, i start it reading it because the guy uses magic to pick up chicks.

I still think youre like my friends twin brother that was raised in another country.

lol

[arkady39]

:) That's funny. Do you have his photo... I wonder what he looks like.

[funnymagicianman]

his you but he has spiky hair

[fysnow]

cool ...tanks

[pecpec2606]

Ok heres where I am on the whole tight shirt thing. I understand what you are saying about not wearing tight shirts and looking gay but i believe you can get away with it so long as you have an attractive personality. for me, although i show of my muscles and chest with my shirts, i always act as thought there not there, that way women see them as a bonus to my personalty. hey, does anybody think schwarzenegger is gay? thought not. why not, because he has such a strong personalty!

[arkady39]

Certainly, not acting like you are think you are hot will help, but still - many girls have preconceived notions about guys who are too muscular and too big - believing that they have very little in their heads, whether it's true or not.

It would be much, much, much more impressive if a woman didn't know you had big muscles when she meets you and found out later by touching you or seeing your body under any given natural circumstances.

[Zulnic]

Very good advice.

[arkady39]

Thanks.

[yoshigforce]

thank you.

[Zae180]

This is good advice. lol one of my friends looks jus like you. i thought he was you un til i heard ur voice.

[arkady39]

Thanks!

[LifesaGardenDigit1]

Ok..here is the million dollar question... Should real guys wear pink?

[arkady39]

Probably not, although I have known some very "real" guys who would wear pink shirts / pink ties and that would look great on them... again - depending on the occasion.

[funnymagicianman]

lol same here

[gyromancy2]

good advice

[arkady39]

Thanks.

[n01ca22]

Hey I went to a club on day and im a very athletic type of guy I decited to buy a white dress shirt for the club it fit kinda tight like fuckin 3 gay people were hiting on me!

Man I have nothing against gay people but I was not having it u know so I culd see what this guy is talking about when it comes to style!!!

[arkady39]

Thanks. That's the idea. Looking flamboyant will get you no or only negative attention (or attention from girls who are unworthy of your attention).

[alexsamuraiuuu]

Nice video man, I think im doing 2 of the no-nos already lol. Yes, I do usually wear tight upperbody-long-sleeved clothes, but I dont usually wear tight pants. ANyway, the thing u said about trying too hard with women.... I totally agree!!!! Just like some animals can smell fear, women can smell (and see) desperation.

[arkady39]

Good point! That's exactly the idea. Trying too hard is a first sign of insecurity anywhere and in any aspect of social dynamics.

[arkady39]

Thanks!

[ragdemus]

a definite guide on how to dress you!!

[arkady39]

What do you mean?

[arkady39]

Thank you! Good point! People tend to assume things based on what they here that were actually never told. I appreciate your clarification. It's right on point. I would never tell anyone how to dress - we are all different with our different styles and preferences. However, certain elements of style are generally big turn-offs and they are easy and important to avoid.

[Jayhawkblue]

Actually, become successful in something you are passionate about.

[bytemeVV]

This is a waste be youself! Don't let someone tell you how to dress. Think for yourself.

[MonkGizmo]

Lol i thought the wearing things to tight in united states thing was funny good job I like alot of your videos they help and without acting like a jerk

[arkady39]

:) Thanks. My mission is to make a difference in the world of generic, useless, cliche advice.

[lksdaklsad]

good stuff

[arkady39]

Thanks!