if i took my mate on tour for years ,sorted him out and then he started pokin my ex who i was with for 10 years plus id smash fuck out of of his house and car as well !!! go on kelly
This song is so sad. You can see how uncomfortable and sad Kelly is singing it. It must have been hard enough to break up with his fiancee Emma anyway let alone finding out that she was dating his best mate, I really feel for the guy. This songs simply beautiful.
What a great person to say at the end of it all "I hope you're happy the both of you and that sometimes you miss me too". Thanks for that, flioustsiou - I always wondered what this song was about. I <3 this band... no words can describe them.
it's about his former photographer that hooked up with his ex-girlfriend(fiancee) after a 14 year long relationship. he was also one of his best mates.
This was written after kelly found out about his one time friend and band photographer julian castaldi was dating his ex emma dunn 4 weeks after there 12yr relationship ended...This was kelly response...well after he went to his castsaldis house kicked in the door, smashed his window with a brick and vandalised his 2 cars with a scaffolding pole(nice!!)...(he was drunk at the time lol)...but wat a tune!!!!
Kelly wrote this song for his old friend/ band photographer who apparently started dating Kelly's girlfriend only 4 weeks after their 12-year relationship ended..
When Kelly found out he smashed up that dude's car, that's why he says in the song "How's your car and how's your life? How's my friend - when's she gonna be your wife?"..
@flioutsiou well i dont think he wrote it for him i think it was in spite of him and his ex. and he was right to smash his car in lol he shoulda smashed his face in.
@flioutsiou I cant believe it,your comment it old but I really didnt know that,I bet his relationship with his ex did breake thanks to that photographer,i mean probably he took a big part in it
i just found out my girlfriend cheated on me this was the girl i wanted to be with for the rest of my life i dont know what to do with my life and she hurt her self because she did this im lost im so lost
this song is so good kellys voice breaks your heart this is my fav phonics track .can't listen to this without a tear in my eye but god it's brilliant xx
i think he made this song for his best friend (a photographer). Kelly broke up with his gf and his "best friend" starting to date her so when kelly found it out went to his house and smashed his car with a baseball bat. (how's ur car) ;)
Love them! Love this song! Beautiful! This is my first time hearing this one, Stereophonics are just Amaaazing, What an awesome band. They have become one of my favorite bands.....What album is this from??
well he had a gr8 friend who was a photographer and also worked for the band and in 2000 kelly had just split from his girlfriend who he had being going out with for 13 years,,, then kelly had found out his mate the photographer had started seeing his ex girlfrend......so kelly went to the mates house and smashed up his cars and winds and was aressted!!!!! haha rock n roll:P what a legend
was one of 1st songs i learnt on the guitar, when u know the background to the song it makes the lyrics even more epic and raw.love it, kelly defo the voice of his generation.
he could,nt have been that gr8 a friend or he would'nt have done that.i no where kellys comin from my so called best m8 done the dirty with me with my childs mother so i can relate 2 this song greatly
This music give mi chance to believe in my self, i became stronger, i don`t know why but this musig is powerfull and calm in the same time and .... i love Kelly ;DD
best band ever ,,, me sigue gustando despues de anos de haberla escuchado
cristian23c 1 month ago
ahhh no puede ser tan hermoso ese temaaaaa encima en vivooo =)
aeroalien 2 months ago
Someone answer me this, how famous are stereophonics really?
LordAudio 3 months ago
11 people suck donkey balls and have no need to live!!!!!!
simmy296 6 months ago 5
I don't understand the reason why 10 dislike this video. It's impossible!
MsMais27 6 months ago
I love how there is no chorus! No monotonous bits or anything. Can't remember another song especially this long that does not have a chorus.
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@Katalyste "Can't remember another song especially this long that does not have a chorus."
you should look into post-rock music :)
Stefan1703 4 months ago
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terrible voice
BlueBlazer89 7 months ago
@BlueBlazer89 wow u should die
cristian23c 1 month ago
@cristian23c so rude and uncalled for kid..apologize pending
BlueBlazer89 1 month ago
@BlueBlazer89 ok im sorry
cristian23c 1 month ago
phonics are the best, kelly's voice is just amazing, out of this world
jorgepacker 7 months ago
i keep forgetting how much i like this band
Dacijo 8 months ago
sin palabras..!! =(
Reibun006 8 months ago
one of the best songs of all time
graemelaw1 9 months ago 2
10 dislikes 10 arseholes
loftershughes 9 months ago 2
i love the message, reminds me of someone, he really means what he is singing here, so easy to connect to such a beautiful, emotional song XD ♥
craigdingwallnufc 9 months ago 2
me absolute favourite!
barbieb1961 9 months ago
so good.
norcogun 10 months ago
I can't believe I had never saw this video to this day. I need to see this live once in my life.
jacksmithstereos 10 months ago
fuck emma, kelly doesn't deserve that bitch
3M00RI 11 months ago
brilliant song, Kelly looks unreal I love him!! best band on the planet!!! :o)
xPhonicsGirlx 1 year ago
died and gone to heaven
c22phonics 1 year ago
y they wen't together my philosophy is never look back
1Breadweard 1 year ago
if i took my mate on tour for years ,sorted him out and then he started pokin my ex who i was with for 10 years plus id smash fuck out of of his house and car as well !!! go on kelly
didsy81 1 year ago
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Gayish
sammerro 1 year ago
@sammerro youre gay
thetm102 1 year ago
Love his whisky voice
thetm102 1 year ago 3
This song is so sad. You can see how uncomfortable and sad Kelly is singing it. It must have been hard enough to break up with his fiancee Emma anyway let alone finding out that she was dating his best mate, I really feel for the guy. This songs simply beautiful.
SinceIToldYouItsOver 1 year ago
Where can I legally get a copy of this video?
MoreCowBellFever 1 year ago
where can I get a copy of this song from?
dsmith2360 1 year ago
@dsmith2360 by the album you gotta go there to come back... or just illegally download it ;-)
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I don't think there was ever a time I listened to this song without crying. It is perfect.
TheSqueeksqueek 1 year ago
I don't think there was ever a time I listened to this song without crying. It is perfect.
TheSqueeksqueek 1 year ago
His voice makes me cry...
What a great person to say at the end of it all "I hope you're happy the both of you and that sometimes you miss me too". Thanks for that, flioustsiou - I always wondered what this song was about. I <3 this band... no words can describe them.
yourvigilante 1 year ago 7
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it's about his former photographer that hooked up with his ex-girlfriend(fiancee) after a 14 year long relationship. he was also one of his best mates.
marcelpi 1 month ago
Just awesome... =')
GuIISs3 1 year ago
Wonderful song but so sad...
LaCab1 1 year ago
That'll be Julian....lol
Marky1888 1 year ago
Aww, bless his little cotton socks! Saw them in Birmingham, amazing! :D x
Ververeid 1 year ago 2
@Ververeid lol cotton socks >.< i love that saying.
yourvigilante 1 year ago
An old one, just beautiful as always when Kelly is singing in an acoustical way, ,good old days, great memories. Thanks. Love!
misshardrock1 1 year ago
se nn smetto di guardarlo finirò in cumunità....evviva kelly!
alezy77 1 year ago
makes liam gallacher sound like the cunt he is. superb singer. and doesn't walk with a swagger that you could dry a damp donkey jacket on.
jamiepaton5 1 year ago
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...well said. Well said. I got to talk to gallacher once at a restaurant I worked in London. Wished Id ran into him after a few.
malakispanien 1 year ago
Best band in the world by far in my opinion! And so underated just because they havent sold out.
manufourlyf 1 year ago 10
His voice sounds amazing live
Dylanf3000 1 year ago
I love this song!! Emma was stupid to throw away such an amazing man! His voice makes my heart melt each time i hear it which is most of the time <3
SinceIToldYouItsOver 1 year ago
I suppose it's different now it's new
Whoever points the finger at whom
I really hope you're happy both of you
And maybe sometimes you miss me too
ricardo250689 1 year ago
my favorite one ! no doubt!!!!
love his voice
pinkgeneration4 1 year ago
Amazing. My new fav song! his voice takes my breath away
RancidSoho 1 year ago
dam good tune, great emotion
pauliewaulieflimflam 1 year ago
12 years relationship?.. didn't propose at all?.. (.)(.) hmmm i guess its not that dudes fault lol....
mukatero 1 year ago
@mukatero yeah, 12 years... it was time to stop dribbling and pass that ball
syu001 1 year ago
@mukatero He did they were engaged when they split.
SinceIToldYouItsOver 1 year ago
bellissima...una delle mie preferite
gnsxnap 1 year ago
bellissima...una delle mie preferite
gnsxnap 1 year ago
Brilliance :) pure brilliance :) The Stereophonics are my favourite band!
This is such an amazing song :) I somehow like it better live than recorded :)
LOVE this band!!
BKJNock 1 year ago 2
Her loss!
24071980 1 year ago
bravo!!!!!!
alezy77 1 year ago
@alezy77 bravissimo;)))
steffloveskelly 1 year ago
@steffloveskelly ha tutta la mia stima ;-)
alezy77 1 year ago
@alezy77 anche la mia!!! vieni all'heineken festival? io ho perso milano anche se avevo il biglietto e ora li voglio vedere assolutamente!!!
steffloveskelly 1 year ago
@steffloveskelly sarebbe moooolto bello, ma la vedo dura, li hai mai visti dal vivo? mi piacerebbe vederli in patria.......
alezy77 1 year ago
@alezy77 sì, anni fa...ma ho visto più spesso gli oasis...certo a cardiff sarebbe magnifico. li apprezzo ogni giorno di più!!
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oneAXLinamillion 1 year ago
@oneAXLinamillion il tre luglio a venezia
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@steffloveskelly ha tutta la mia stima ;-)
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alezy77 1 year ago
class
TheKevsmith19 1 year ago
This was written after kelly found out about his one time friend and band photographer julian castaldi was dating his ex emma dunn 4 weeks after there 12yr relationship ended...This was kelly response...well after he went to his castsaldis house kicked in the door, smashed his window with a brick and vandalised his 2 cars with a scaffolding pole(nice!!)...(he was drunk at the time lol)...but wat a tune!!!!
TheKevsmith19 1 year ago 4
@TheKevsmith19 plus minor detail...."how's ur car?" smashin his car up after findin out about his ex-bird & photographer...
NorternMonkeyUS 1 year ago
this song is so touching and honest and sad and brilliant, all at the same time...
just love it.....
andrea1710 1 year ago 2
This is actually brilliant!!!!
jayraycee1983 1 year ago 3
seriously cool, love the voice
darrenblackbird 1 year ago 3
Love it
lorant666 1 year ago 2
what a tune, this helped me through ma first love breakup, love it
johng1912 2 years ago
one of the greatest songs ever
MedicatedDaze 2 years ago 7
so sad:(
xssttaarrx 2 years ago 4
What a painful but beautiful song.........
29BlackRaven 2 years ago 3
Kelly wrote this song for his old friend/ band photographer who apparently started dating Kelly's girlfriend only 4 weeks after their 12-year relationship ended..
When Kelly found out he smashed up that dude's car, that's why he says in the song "How's your car and how's your life? How's my friend - when's she gonna be your wife?"..
flioutsiou 2 years ago 101
where did you get this information from?
Aqualung1990 2 years ago
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10Hurst 2 years ago
cheers back 10hurst, cheers for bothering to comment
flioutsiou 2 years ago
@flioutsiou Yeah thats true
EvtheNev 1 year ago
@flioutsiou well i dont think he wrote it for him i think it was in spite of him and his ex. and he was right to smash his car in lol he shoulda smashed his face in.
thetm102 1 year ago
@flioutsiou
Kelly went to his house an smashed his car up with a scaffolding pole
Scousetom16 1 year ago
@flioutsiou I cant believe it,your comment it old but I really didnt know that,I bet his relationship with his ex did breake thanks to that photographer,i mean probably he took a big part in it
LostShadow901 6 months ago
old best friends.
TheBee38 2 years ago
stunning
marroblex 2 years ago
wow,his voice is just awesome is this song off an album???ive gotta have this.
ostu777 2 years ago 2
off the album 'you gotta go there to come back'
marcmus14 2 years ago 2
this is my all time fave phonics song ever.. Kelly's voice just makes me melt!
Beckpatton 2 years ago 6
this is beautiful
kellypurple100 2 years ago
i just found out my girlfriend cheated on me this was the girl i wanted to be with for the rest of my life i dont know what to do with my life and she hurt her self because she did this im lost im so lost
inuyashu1235 2 years ago
sorry man, i broke up with my girlfriend long ago, it's tough but it gets better..
stewekiwi 2 years ago 2
Hey, man. I know that nothing I say will make you feel any better.
I've been drinking my heart out for months. It doesn't help.
Even though you are a total stranger, just know that I still care.
christophermadams1 2 years ago 5
Don't know what to do? Get bottle of whiskey, drink it in 3 hours. Everything after the recovery from the hangover will seem easy. Simple.
s4099274 2 years ago
i love this song!!! i love this band!!! i love kelly jones!!! and im gonnalove march 11th when i see them live at wembly
tigerclose 2 years ago 2
this song is so good kellys voice breaks your heart this is my fav phonics track .can't listen to this without a tear in my eye but god it's brilliant xx
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i love this song
francibe2 2 years ago
Been Listening to this alot lately, and billy davies daughter.. Just an awesome band. and a very emotional song.
7DAVIES 2 years ago 2
i cant find a word to describe this song..mixed emotions
aussiekangs 2 years ago 3
does any1 notice thier is no chorus to this song? kelly just pours his heart out!!!! gr8 tune the mans a true poet!!
patnamuzikman 2 years ago 3
What is the story behind this great song ?
urikoa 2 years ago
i think he made this song for his best friend (a photographer). Kelly broke up with his gf and his "best friend" starting to date her so when kelly found it out went to his house and smashed his car with a baseball bat. (how's ur car) ;)
Memilia18 2 years ago 4
same happened to me, i remember when his first album come out, this song means so much to me.... cheers for the info ;)
goonermarky84 2 years ago
is that really true?
rnm90 2 years ago
Yep, the band's photographer/friend of Kellys weaseled his way onto his ex girlfriend a month after they broke up.
KonohaRamenNoodles 2 years ago
i love the song, i love his hat
furak21 2 years ago
Love the "Hows Your Car? hows your life?" bit
Haha classic
callumg2310 2 years ago 2
legend, but take that fuckin hat off!!
nayefc 2 years ago
heyy I love the hat!!!!!!
anything looks good on him :D
Memilia18 2 years ago
guid song like.
nowhere near as good as their new stuff though.
one of my fave old ones :]
mep05 2 years ago
Amazing voice!!!
1172404 2 years ago 4
simply amazing
Dyche9 2 years ago 3
This song has the power of bringing tears to your eyes : '(
You can feel the pain ..
Iverson78700 2 years ago 5
I LOVE IT!!
luvangel1883 2 years ago 5
Love them! Love this song! Beautiful! This is my first time hearing this one, Stereophonics are just Amaaazing, What an awesome band. They have become one of my favorite bands.....What album is this from??
hatethatsmirk 2 years ago 13
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Iverson78700 2 years ago
the "Gotta go there to come back" album
The studio version of this song is not bad either.
ther are strings on it.. makes you cry even more tears : (
Iverson78700 2 years ago 4
2003 you gotta go there to came back ...this is the title of this album
birilli2 2 years ago 3
Say it again, call the cops, this is abuse,
I'm sure felt better before listening lol
Solvskudd 2 years ago 7
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errol161 2 years ago
Love this band, esp. Kelly, he just sings from his soul .His voice is lovely and heartbraking to hear at the same time.
jomac1971 2 years ago 24
best band ever!!!
pimgta 2 years ago 12
wow..tears,,i love this song..but wow did it just hit me...:(
KITANA91 2 years ago 11
best song ever
kjpk81 2 years ago 10
He sings it as tho his life depended on it.
My favourite of theirs... Soulful, beautiful and cutting to the bone...
Gives me goosebumps... And pretty symollically ironically real - in reflection on my own life...
Fantastic to see them live. One of my all time favourite memories. Kelly is a legend.
MattsMinx2009 2 years ago 12
So where are the cops??...this can't be healthy...
Solvskudd 2 years ago
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that's pretty friggin funny...........
thewilk1961 2 years ago
This is one of my all time favorite songs. :)
wjjh4443 2 years ago 8
OMG! this song will make stones cry...
Kelly's got the most powerful voice ever!!!
Memilia18 2 years ago 6
any1 notice theres no chorus 2 this song.he just pours his heart out,sad story behind it pure class song tho
patnamuzikman 2 years ago 3
choruses r overated.... sometimes
juniwilliams 2 years ago 4
It's my favourite these day.. I'm enduring a break up
I cry my heart out on this songs .. the lyrics are so real and amazing.
Thanks for evertime to the Stereophonics.
Iverson78700 2 years ago 2
omg i cry every time i hear this. it is amazing x
j06hutchinson 2 years ago 3
la banda de la vida.
stereobugs 2 years ago
So emotional, so heartfelt... this is another I'd like to see live... but I don't believe it will be performed live any time soon...
rosiewise 2 years ago
He looks like the character Spencer from iCarly. Good music!
JustForLaughs2008 2 years ago
Such a story. Great song. Kelly is a really great songwriter, one of the best.
Malcomdaughter 2 years ago 4
I ADORE KELLY'S VOICE! They have such such amazing songs! This is one of my favourite rock ballads..it has such depth and emotion..
gloomyJulia 2 years ago
i freakin adore this song, t'was great live =D
ZyggieFromJiU 2 years ago 4
i watch this 30 times a month and i still cant believe it. what a voice. i love them since 10 years and i cant get enough of them.
amazing...
saw them in so many concerts and each one of them was brilliant...
hope he´ll keep his voice together...
schwenni5679 2 years ago 7
So much pain in this song ...
Stunning
Iverson78700 2 years ago 3
gives ya chills...
mrroykeane16 2 years ago 2
My fave song of his.. Been to see them 11 times an also had the pleasure of meeting the man himself.. keep it up lads, #1 always!
EvtheNev 2 years ago 2
if u have to smoke 50 a day to sound like him. id be a chain smoker. wot a voice
MrGthebodyT 2 years ago 13
You don't have to. You just need a gravelly tone in your throat. Fucks up your voice, but it's well worth it.
Smoking does help.
TrippingOnAHeadShot 2 years ago 2
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annoying voice, like he smoked for 50 years
Timseheer 2 years ago
his voice is anything but annoying. Its one of the best voices ever!
ProperRadge 2 years ago 14
although he has smoked about 50 a day for the past 15 years! haha
Great voice though.
RobSladeMusic 2 years ago 3
gr8 song phonics definatley ma fav band
jojo280686 2 years ago
I really love this song.
throwbackto1987 2 years ago 2
i think this is the most poetic song he has ever wrote!!
bonesmoloney16 2 years ago 9
aw he looks tired... mind you id give my right testicle ( if i had any) for the money he makes from his hard graft.
pharmypad1 2 years ago
Happy Birthday mr. Kelly Jones!!!!
1LadyM7 2 years ago
Kelly Jones <3
suma2106 2 years ago 2
the mans a true poet luv it
patnamuzikman 2 years ago 7
there's no chorus, if you notice, he's just poured it out... poor kelly
malogolemo 2 years ago 9
best story teller in music since jim morrison
patnamuzikman 2 years ago 5
Amazing Song, amazing Band, and an Amazing Singer!! ,,,Desperatly trying to become a backing singer,,,Would love to do it for them!!
alucya 2 years ago 4
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suma2106 2 years ago
It's on the gem list, part I like about it is the the obvious effort on vocals and at the same time the ease in appearance/smoothness of it.
dasz1430 2 years ago
Great story behind this song :)
best storyteller/songwritter of all time
roddyod07 2 years ago 3
yer i totally agree
whats the story?
zanda123456789 2 years ago
well he had a gr8 friend who was a photographer and also worked for the band and in 2000 kelly had just split from his girlfriend who he had being going out with for 13 years,,, then kelly had found out his mate the photographer had started seeing his ex girlfrend......so kelly went to the mates house and smashed up his cars and winds and was aressted!!!!! haha rock n roll:P what a legend
roddyod07 2 years ago 3
yeahh i heard about him being arested ages ago but didnt realise what he did/why he did it :P
sounds like the lad deserved it tbh
thanks
zanda123456789 2 years ago 3
was one of 1st songs i learnt on the guitar, when u know the background to the song it makes the lyrics even more epic and raw.love it, kelly defo the voice of his generation.
bazzasmog 2 years ago 4
WOW. i love it. so intense. heartwrenching vocal. thanks for sharing bazza.
healthyaddixion 2 years ago 6
even better to know the meaning behind the lyrics.every lyric has meaning and truth behind them...toally love the rawness in his voice
bazzasmog 2 years ago 4
he could,nt have been that gr8 a friend or he would'nt have done that.i no where kellys comin from my so called best m8 done the dirty with me with my childs mother so i can relate 2 this song greatly
patnamuzikman 2 years ago 3
dude am a massive phonics fan but to say that means ur putting him infront of the likes of weller, lennon,mcCartney...i gotta disagree
bazzasmog 2 years ago
This song sends waves of emotions through me whenever I hear it
SJsuperstar80 2 years ago 4
OMG i just love them!!!!!!
This music give mi chance to believe in my self, i became stronger, i don`t know why but this musig is powerfull and calm in the same time and .... i love Kelly ;DD
seszenka 2 years ago 2