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  • it gets better for JP and for us.

  • janice feels so awkward

  • He just broke my heart...Hating himself because he's gay.... =(

  • kinda sad how he needed incentives to come out

  • I think Janice handled it quite well... not as well as she could have but good enough..

  • @107109 she benefited from this, for tv ratings, agency revenvue. don't forget

  • he's beautiful, and he hate himself.... wow

  • why are all the handsome men at this level gay?

  • It feels staged. I'm only seeing it for the first time now, and I think before this happened, he maybe mentioned being gay and wanting to come out, or mentioned toh er being gay and she came up with this. Then they talked about it, and put a little scene for the camera. I mean, props to him coming out, I respect that, I'm gay myself. But the way this went, I think it was staged. I think they both knew beforehand. It's fine of course, but I don't think he was ambushed by this question.

  • dios mioooooooo es el hombre mas bello del mundo, esa cara ese cuerpo es perfecto, ojala y sea activo

  • it's ok to be gay. just don't be feminine and ppl won't be so hard on you

  • OMG if your gay your gay damn why is it such a big deal to you j.p so fucking what if your gay just be gay and be proud and be confident

  • I don't like the way she pushes him at his expense.

    This is not a thing to do on camera.

    I feel sorry for him.

  • When you look as 'good' as J.P. Calderon - more doors are open to you -- socially, economically .. etc etc. I'm fine with all this whoop-tee-doo. I think he is keen to what people think of him. But the lesson for us all may be to not let what others think of us -& cripple us from living our lives.

    I hate labels and I wish people didn't focus so much on who people want to sleep with ... and make that a leading identifier. "Here comes the gay model". Cripes. Its so juvenile.

  • OH! He's so full of bullshit!

  • so hot, very sexy lips .. so wrong to give job for outting somebody on national tv ... like a threat !!! someone should do it behind the scene .... but i am sure he feels relived though for doing that . so much courage to do it in front of camera

  • why are some of the best looking men gay?

  • no one knew he is gay??? PULL-EEEEEZE!!! all he is missing is a big flashing neon sign blilnking "gay" gay "gay".

    and as for that cunt interviewer...what a setup. and she feels so awkward. gimme a break. she knew exactly what she was fucking doing.

    let this be a lesson, kids. no matter how pretty you are, you can still be miserable.

  • he is so up himself

  • Oh man, He's attractive

    

  • He`s cute but lets be real here if I saw him on the MIAMI streets my gaydar would go off quicker than a..... something.. he looks too manicured. Ppl say straight men are into looking manicure and metro.. no they arent. Not real straight men because i`m gay and I would never get my nails done or dye my hair to some loud color/highlights.....

  • Omg he's to hot to be gay. I totally agree with some one noted. Watching this video clip does make tears in my eyes. Love his attitude I mean his good attitude....

  • C`mon jeesh , as soon as he opens his mouth the worlds gaydar go`s BEEP!! FUCKING BEEP !!! :-)

  • I understand where he's coming from. I don't like the fact that it was done on TV and she coerced him. But at the same time she's very supportive. It makes me emotional. I wish he were my bf or at least be able to give him a hug.

  • Hay knew he was gay the minute he walkin to hot to be straight

  • OMG, he's gay! some lucky twat is gonna wake up next to him, HOT HOT HOT.

  • dont apologise for being gay, your true friends will still be true friends.

  • janice was just decent in this clip. at least we know janice can be sane every now and then.

  • hey seems cool here, kinda a douche on survivor though

  • I just knew he´s from Costa Rica, I´m  from Costa Rica too. He´s hooooooot!

  • i swear sometime Janice can be a bitch but its moments like these that makes me love her even more. so accepting.

  • OMG u don't like who u r ?!!!!

    r u crazy?!!

  • I don't think he wasn't ready. If he wasn't ready, he would have still hidden the fact that he's gay. Unless, money means more to him than respect from himself...

  • Hey JP...we're all rooting for you in England....Good Luck and keep on being brave a man is a man whatever the day !!!

  • JP is awesome and a brave person for coming out but I kinda hate it when other people try to out a closeted person especially when they are not ready. Its always best for for the that closeted person to accept himself first before coming out to the world ratgher than the other way around.

  • A true inspiration :)

  • Gay or not, . .I want him !

  • damn hes hot, thank god hes gay because i am too ;)

  • @KawaiiEthan the other day, someone asked me why all the hot guys are gay, and I said ''thank god''.

  • @msmithstud yes that treu n why hot guys is gay..urm..like me...

  • go J.P., that damn Parvati from Survivor Cook Islands did this to you...anyone know what im talking about?

  • He's so hot I wanna rape him ;)

  • "I really don't like myself" That was gut-wrenching! I just want to hug him and tell him everything will be allright!

  • he's so hot it makes me sick, but still yay for him !! lolll

  • this was awesome, and i don't know how i missed it. the language jp used was so telling, "i guess if i do the cover, i'm gay, right? i'll do it." then to explain his honest concerns and admit that he hates himself (hopefully for being a hypocrite) is amazing. this is the most honest three minutes i've ever seen on tv.

  • Seeing his face makes me wanna cry wit him >_<

  • i loved how comprehensive Janice was but also her nervousness and expressions from 0:30 to 0:37 like she didnt really want to make him come out of the closet and respects the guy but at the same time it's a smart move for his career

  • This is actually one of the few tines that I have respect for Janice. Usually she's so loud and obnoxious but here she's so sweet and lovely. Two faces of a coin I guess :-/

  • It's a shame society puts so much unnecessary emphasis on the issue of sexual preference. Nobody should have to feel like they need to hide themselves in plain sight like that. Sadly, ignorance runs rampant and has for milennia. Won't be in my lifetime, but I look forward to the day when an open mind and an open heart are a bigger part of our world

  • wow, this is one great guy, I hope this all went well for him

  • was this before or after he was on survivor. damn, hes sexy. even though im a girl i gota crush on him;)

  • @lovinliverpool you still wanna suck his cock?

  • @GIA13615093 is it really necessary to be crass? whats wrong with having a crush on a beautiful man, who gives a shit if hes gay

  • @lovinliverpool are you a girl?

  • @GIA13615093 yes!!!!!

  • @lovinliverpool I have a cock by the way.

  • @GIA13615093 good for you

  • @lovinliverpool it is good for you too!

  • @GIA13615093 no thanks

  • @GIA13615093 LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @GIA13615093 mmmmmm Give me that cock

  • @BrianEaZy ok cum here it's right here waiting for your eager self.

  • @GIA13615093 U Sluuuut

  • @BrianEaZy i'm the best sluuuut in town!

  • @C3461397

    You are such an asshole. Because of people like you there is so much misery in this world. Grow up and get a life.

    I wished no one gets AIDS or any horrible disease.

    Calderon can be so proud of himself for admitting who he is.

  • braaaavo!

  • WoW... I know this was emotional and heart reaching but i must say.... Dear god JP is a catch! Whew hes way sexy! He was born to model baby.

  • Is this real ?

  • Oh my God! A gay model? How unbelievable! He's gotta be the first one to come out. The models from Prada must be baffled out of their minds. It's very common to see guys with perfect bodies and really cute faces to hate themselves all the way to commit suicide though. It's like they literally work out themselves to death.

  • was it worth it jp

  • jp is a good guy... he was a bartender here and i got to know him [kind of] well. well all called him 'Just Perfect' lol.

  • GOOD FOR HIM!!!

  • I Love Janice! ♥Sweetheart♥

  • I love Janice's awkwardness in this video!!!! Its awesome! I've never seen her like this.

  • being a man is about honesty and having balls. This guy has both. Being masculine doesn't make you a man.

  • He's one tough gay I should say.

  • i watched this and felf bad for JP.. hes shaking so badly.. ='(

  • He is beautiful, the most attractive man I have seen in ages

  • Such a beautiful guy(inside and outside) i wish him the best...

  • I've wished this guy to be my boyfriend every time on my birthdays since the first time I saw him. He is hot, sexy and gorgeous !!

  • I hope he will go porn!! MMMMMMMM

  • The way they do this is makes it seem like he just said he's gay to get the cover. He's been saying he's gay but I don't really think he is. Of course i have no idea and he probably is, but i dont think so. I like that hes costa rican like me too!

  • He is my favorite JD model

  • Jesus fucking Christ! It's 2010! Why is it that masculinity still belongs to heterosexual men? What is it that they do that legitimatizes them as real fucking men? They stick their dicks in vaginas? That's it. Why are we as gay men still perpetuating this? Why are we letting heterosexual men maintain hegemonic control over our definitions?

  • men are supposed to be like women, and women are supposed to like men. it's that simple.

  • @alaveto12 you're a fucking useless simpleton. Read a book. It's not that simple. Nowhere in nature is it that simple you useless excuse of a lifeform

  • @Qrstnce

    Great comment. It's time to be honest and progressive, not fake.

  • i'm gay and i am sick of being put into the same category as these paris hilton worshiping anorexic men with tight shirts and lisps. it pisses me off. i don't have a lisp and hate shopping ... i've played football all my life and was captain of my hs basketball team. so why the hell would i be placed under the same category as them?

    i am a dude that's gay ... not a gay dude. i hate fags.

  • @sphumi yr not a gentleman...a real man would never be so small.

  • how am i not?i reallllly don't like being put in such category. i'm fine with being gay ... i love my life .. but i don't make it my life. JP looked hot here ... like a man. now he lost so much weight and wears makeup that he is unrecognizable. it sucks

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  • @sphumi I do not have effemacy. I do however have a problem with the idea that somehow to be a 'real' man, means to be straight. But this is something that gay men themselves propagate and endorse, as is the current trend in porn of the 'real man' 'straight boys for hire' or 'gay for pay' as if their heterosexuality somehow is an valuable economy. If the demand wasn't there however, there would not be a market for it.

  • @Qrstnce So true. On another note, I liked Janice here, shes gone off the rails a bit since.

  • @Qrstnce I totally agree! There's still such socially--programmed self-hatred within the gay community it's astounding to me. So many guys are quick to point out how "straigh-acting" they are and that they want a masculine, "straight-acting" guy, as well. What does THAT mean? Sylvester Stallone is straight, but so is Woody Allen. Quite a wide range. Same goes for gays.

  • @Qrstnce well said!

  • @Qrstnce Because men are stronger than women. Duh. Men are for the most part smarter. They're physically stronger and generally taller. And, I don't care who's gay or not. I'm a woman, I don't care. But, gay men are seen as more emotional and feminine. That's why there will always be a stigma. Cuz of woman. And, how they are weaker physically and more emotionally.

  • how can he hate himself...

  • Um...Did he really need to be "outed"? It seems pretty damn obvious that he's gay to me.

  • I really think that it was good that he was outed by her, In a way that was exactly what he needed hopefully now he will began to live his own life without feeling self loathing and shame, If this was not done he would probably have introduced a woman into his personal hell and destroy her as well as his life trying to live a lie.

  • he's a handsome man that finds himself in a business that is all about facade, fake and fashion...does it get any shallower than that...i urge him to continue his education, save his money and focus on what makes him happy, 'cause the world that he is in right now will only exploit and destroy him and he seems like a nice person who is going to need a lot of support from the people who really love him...the rest are just maggots who want to feast off his success...the best to him

  • @portacoelhi A business that HE CHOOSE TO BE IN. He is choosing his "own" exploitation by participating in the celebration of his narcissism. And do you think he'd give the time or the day to someone who didn't meet up to HIS standards of beauty, which are probably just the same as the cookie cut world he is working in. God, what a tired critque you make.

  • Qrstnce, wow that was one big load of pc homo clap-trap...do you stay up nights channeling your inner dragqueen? all i said is that he better watch out for himself because the world he has chosen is so sick and demented...his choice, but those are the facts. support him and don't be such a bitter old fag...i think it's time for your double cappuccino enema. get over your crotch-shaved self already.

  • @portacoelhi You're a fucking useless misogynist bitch. What if I was "channelling my inner dragqueen?" what a fucking stupid thing to say because I'm not droning over some self-absorbed princess who ended up gaining from an act of self-exploitation? He had better watch out for what? The money he made and the useless twits sticking up for him because he's attractive? Hardly the kind of homophobia worth any concern. As for getting over my crotch-shaved self really, this is your debate tactic. Sad

  • @portacoelhi I think your arguments are useless and cliché and the fact that you are taking cheap shots at me such as cappuccino enema and bitter old fag, because I'm not taking part in pathetic, shallow idol worship says more about YOU as a person, your intellect and how seriously you are taking yourself over some celebrity whore. The track record of this individual has been to seek the spotlight. This is just one more sacrifice at the altar of fame.You are just another dumb pig at the trove.

  • qrstnce, you may not believe this, but this model is not of any importance to me, but as a fellow human being, i would encourage anyone to support him because when his career in this f#cked up "career" comes crashing down in baldness, wrinkles and flabbiness, he will need all the support he can get 'cause I doubt that Dickinson will still be on this earth plane to "counsel" him with her insipid "wisdom"...that's all. Believe me I do not worship him or his shallow, self-absorbed world.

  • She fucking pushed him outta the closet, what a bitch

  • Shallow. Lets face it, this is not a soldier or a young muslim boy coming out of the closet, it is a male model. Adjustment = negligible

  • @juniornutshell Well said. He is there out of his own priviledged choice. If he wasn't pretty and didn't know he'd be nowhere near that setting.

  • he seems really nice , somebody tell him not to hate himself !

  • How can he hate himself ? He is such a success in so many ways

  • i cried like a baby when he came out....

  • Not sure if anyone realised that this is the first time for Janice to stammer and be repetitive due to the awkwardness. Look at 0.35 and 0.47.

  • lol like no one ever knew he was gay. but this was still touching nonetheless

  • That was so sweet <3

    you can rule the world totally right now.!

    Cutiie.

  • DO u have proof that he was out

    he just came out infront of janice and infront of thousands of american viewers and thousands of viwers right here on Youtube so eat ur words.

    and dont diss anyone

  • WHERE IS UR PROOF

  • no he was already out, this was such BS

  • oh god that seemed so uncomfortable

  • he seems like a great guy

  • so sad~

  • He's Gay... i Love Gay guys

  • Like someone didn't already think he was gay

  • YaY!!! That's a HUUGE weight off his shoulders. I hope he went out to celebrate after!

  • j.p. is so beautiful and yes janice rocks!!! :D

  • First of all, it takes MAJOR guts to admit something that extremely personal on a national TV show, and I give my utmost respect and admiration to J.P. I respect you, as a man.

    Janice, on the other hand, is a crazy, calloused b!%$*. Sorry to those of you who love her, but what kind of suffocating and completely unnecessary pressure is that to place on someone? Good lord, woman. Think about people first, and then your ratings.

  • hed prob stil be in the closet if not for her and it was ob-viouzz hez gay aywayzzz

  • @OnMyWaytotheFLA I know she was kind of mean when she did it this way, but think about how great his life will be now when he's out of the closet ;)

  • You know it takes a TRUE Man to actually admit that if he is gay or bisexaul or any type of inside feeling.. whatever. JP is a man for having the courage to admit to Janice.. Remember that JP.. You're a man..

  • @pandaboi12

    I completely agree with your statement pandaboi12. It takes incredible courage to finally live your own life as it was meant to be lived. And, it isnt easy on the man/woman who does. I know all too well.

  • @pandaboi12 people always doute janice and say shes a bitch , yes shes a bitch , but shes amazing and truely dose help people ...

  • @pandaboi12 Believe it... You put a Heterosexual man into a position like this... Having to admit or "come out" They wouldnt stand a chance.

    I don't even have the guts to say it to my family yet !

    GO JP!

  • janice Rocks! people hate her cuz shes not afraid of anyone !

  • he's so hot.

    i wish i were a man just for him.

  • he's gorgeous.

  • Ouuu tell mee somebody what this seasons???

  • sseason 2 episode 4

  • y dnt they show this on tv anymore :c

  • Janice didn't want to continue the serious.

  • God, I wish I was a man.

    He's stunning.

  • ahw.. im so touched jp. did you know you were my crush in JDMA show? but now, i just dont like you, i admire you and love you for your courage. pride! xD raise the flag my fellow! go! mwah!

  • aww this is touching. and janice was so decent and nice. he got a nice body hehehehe

  • i love how janice is so cool about it. i watched her show and this was my favorite moment with her and a model.

  • Yes, i agree

  • too bad hes gay.

    hes so hot.

    it sorta sounds like he pushed him into saying i tho

  • so bad..homophobes still exist here...poor america...

  • More power for JP. He's is so adorable.

  • Oh, so sensual, I like him.

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  • I love JP's story. I think he had legitimate fears. He's from a Latino background that has a very precise image of what a man is. Then there's the fact that he's a volleyball coach and he's worried about his relationships with his team mates. He also teaches volleyball to kids and he's worried about how his students and the parents of his students see him.

    I think he's really brave and I wish him the best life he can live. Love ya JP!

  • he looks like francois sagat.

  • wow do those feelings take me back. good for him and he'll be fine. we're the guys who end up putting the good fight to get rid of all the stereotypes that get slapped on us. its hard but doable

  • I think he is the best guy I ever seen around and on the JDMA he deserves happiness and he seems to be doing well.

    You's guys are just tio critical

  • "Masculinity"? Gimmie a fucking break. Some gay men have more balls than straight men! Some gay men handle responsibility better than straight men! I hate gay people like JP. I am gay and I am proud! And I am a MAN!!! I AM A MAN! The fact that I am gay doesn't make me less of a "man" than someone who is straight. What makes a man? A PENIS MAKES A MAN! Plain and simple. A man is not someone who fucks pussy. A man is someone who is biologically born with a dick!

  • He's very good looking...Well, most gay men are.

  • The dude works as a model and wants to be in this industry but is afraid of coming out. What´s up with americans. This is the strangest thing in the world

  • He pretty much sums it up at 1:50.

    We humans really do put a lot of stress on each other and make each other feel bad for being who we really are, don't we?

  • she is such a bitch.i can imagine if i have fight with her she would scratch and sqush me for sure.

  • He's so hot

  • it took him 30 years to come out? That sucks, it's like living a lie for so damn long.

  • YES YES!!! at 3:06 now theres something that he doesnt have to hide anymore! Freedom!!!!

  • Quote of the Year: "Being a man is not being an athlete or big muscles. Its about being honest. Its about being a man, having true convictions to yourself."

    I need to repeat this stuff in my mind over and over!!!