Toby's Trip

[pinkflower7783]

ugh you know what you know nothing about me so you can take the bullshit views you have about adoption and shove it. I love my parents because you know what they're me parents regardless of whether or not they gave birth to you. Adoption will always be around so in the end you loose and we win. Ugh if your not a liberal I'd be so suprised

[ashatbulaparanormal]

So so sad

[pinkflower7783]

@ashatbulaparanormal how is it sad? a child has a family and a home.

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@pinkflower7783 Your right,this child does have a family,but this couple is not his family.His family lives in Korea and probably wasn't even given the chance to take him in.This couple are nothing more then a caregivers,a person who snatches other family members from other homes.That is what is sad.Most adopters pay a $40,000.00 fee for adoption,to me that is selling a human being and that is wrong in my book.

[pinkflower7783]

@ashatbulaparanormal So it would just be okay to have them stay in a oprhanage with no family?? That's okay too??? I'm a Korean Adoptee myself you dumbass so unless your adopted yourself don't go assuming things you know nothing about!!! You don't know anything about Korea!!!

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@pinkflower7783 Look don't start calling names here.I have a three sisters that was adoptive and nieces and nephews that are adoptive,so I know what I'm talking about.My aunts we're willing to take my sisters in,but wasn't giving the chance,I was willing to take in my niece and nephews but was denied. you have a poor judgment on orphans.Orphans are children with no living family members.You got screwed out of knowing where you came from and knowing your blood line.~cont~

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@pinkflower7783 You like looking over your shoulder wonder who your really related too.Do you like testing every single person before you have any kind of relationship with to make sure he or she is not your brother,sister,cousin? something to think about,huh?You don't think I know anything about adoption your wrong.Do you ever think you have other family members that think about you and cry for you,wishing you where with them? ~cont~

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@pinkflower7783 Do you like being bought for $40,000.00.Your country is fighting to stop adoption and keep families together.I guess you can care less about your biological family that probably wanted you but wasn't giving the chance to do so,cus some American wanted to pay for a child that they know would go looking for their bio-family.You've been brain washed and that is sad.You could have a loving family who care so much about you and Adoption Agencies ripped you away from them.

[pinkflower7783]

@ashatbulaparanormal Then I feel sorry for you you obviously don't know what family is

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@pinkflower7783 Now I'm going to ask you something.Let say your sister or brother has a baby and CPS or Adoption agency took that child without giving you chance to raise your family member,how would you feel if Korean or some other person raise your family member as their own? Stripping them of their true identity and where they came from. CPS and adoption Agencies don't care about families or their members,just so long they make that $40,000.00 or more dollars.

[SherylNguyen]

I'm a Korean adoptee and this video is precious! I love the music and comments. So heart-felt and genuine to how magical adoption is for everyone!!!

[bsktlvr97]

Thank you for your comment! Our joy continues as we celebrate 2 years since the day of his homecoming! God has been so Good to us and our family! Praying more people can experience the Joy of Adoption!

[showerdance101]

Hello.

I'm Korean but I'm not adopted. But I do have friends that are adopted from Korea. Every summer I go to this camp called Korean Heritage Camp and that is how I met them.

I just wanted to say that your video brought me into tears.

[bsktlvr97]

Thank you for your kind comments! We have heard of the Korean Heritage Camp and hope to be able to send our son there when he is old enough if he is interested. I've heard wonderful things about it! Many Blessings!

[youthewhat]

congrats! i hope you continue to love this child as there is no one for this child except for you two. god bless you and yours.

[colorchalk]

i HAD TEARY EYES THROUGHOUT THE VIDEO. HOPEFULLY TOBY IS DOING GREAT! GOD SENT TOBY TO BE WITH YOUR FAMILY. AND THE LETTER FROM FOSTER MOM, .... I CRIED!

[motleycrue66666]

sktigerjs... you are truley a sad git if this can`t touch your soul you are already dead.

To this amazing family my love, wishes & gratitude

[darlingdublin]

We are all one race..the human race...who needs love and validation... you will be a family who unfortunately still needs to educate the world. GOd bless you

[linduhbinduh]

this is so cute

[amyfk]

Just lovely!

[marvy3]

god bless, your family looks beautiful

[sktigerjs]

This might sound kind of rude, but I have a real question. If a couple were to adopt why not adopt a race that is like theirs then one so different?

[bsktlvr97]

What do you mean different? I don't understand your question! We are all Human and made of the same God! Thanks for the comment!!

[pinkflower7783]

@sktigerjs geez what kind of person are you??? what the hell does race matter??? one you adopt a child their yours regardless of race!!! ugh can't stand people like you!!!

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@sktigerjs I agree to some level,but the real truth is why would they adopted another person's family member to begin with. This little boy has other living family members that they could have given this little boy to,but I'm guessing they didn't,cuz adoption agencies need that $40,000.00 or more to put in their pockets.They don't care if they destroy families,they only want the money.Adopters are really need to adopted within their own families.

[bsktlvr97]

@ashatbulaparanormal I'm sorry that your views are so jaded and hateful, but you have no right to comment on my son or my family. If you would like to pass judgement on my family, please do so as a personal message so I can make clear to you our intentions. And as an FYI, our son was in an orphanage in Korea for almost 2 years before we began the process to adopt him, which I would think would be plenty of time for his family to make decisions they felt they needed to make.

[bsktlvr97]

@ashatbulaparanormal CONT. I have no doubt his biological family loves him and misses him very much, and that does break my heart, but I also have no doubt that his birthmother did what was she thought was best for her based on our correspondence. I am just sad for you, that as a human you see it as your right to judge people you have never had more contact with than a 6 minute video. I am just blown away by your lack of compassion and your hurting heart.

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@bsktlvr97 I have lots of compassion,keeping biological families together is my passion.It doesn't break you heart, not the least little bit ,you can care less about his biological family's feelings,otherwise you would have left that child there with biological family.Don't feel sorry for me,your the one that commented a sin and broke two of the ten commandments,not me.I didn't steal , or take what was not mine,you folks did.

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@bsktlvr97 My heart only hurts when folks like you buy and steal a child from its real family.You have no doubt about the child's mother feelings,did she beg you to your face to take her child?I'm guessing she didn't,adoption agencies don't allow that.Do you ever stop to think Adoption agencies are liars, thieves and steal people's children just to make a buck,no matter who it hurts?

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@bsktlvr97 Now here's another question,let's say adoption agencies/CPS came and took your biological child away from you and adopted to a Korean family or any other family for that matter.They told that family your child is an orphan or you simply just couldn't take care of it. Wouldn't you want to know the truth or would you simply let that child go without knowing the real truth?Think about.People love to badger people into doing what they don't want to do to get what we want.

[charityodey]

Absolutely fabulous!  It brings tears to my eyes!