I had a great night out with a girl a couple of nights ago, we chatted, hooked up and had alot to drink. She asked for my number so I gave it to her, I also got hers. I text her the next day just to start off a general conversation which went fine. Now today I haven't been in contact at all, im thinking of ringing her after work tomorrow to see if she would like to go on a date. Does anyone have any advice on how I should go about asking and if this is a good idea?
to be honest, this is just corny, calling her on the phone while shes there, its not reli that funny/entertaining, cus alot of people when they exchange numbers would ring them on the spot anyway to give the other person their number, but standing there still on the phone trying to make it into a joke. meh, its a bit cheesey, i dont know many girls that would find it funny.
@DuhEnlightenedOne sorry but what the fuck are you on about. get a job, then you get money, then you can get a phone, or steal a phone. simple. you sir, are retarded.
Great advice, but that phone trick.. honestly, if you do it wrong you will come across really lame, or at worst a potential stalker. Gotta be real careful with tricks like that, it has come across natural, and in the moment , dont force these tricks in to a conversation.
For eg, me and mate took two grils to a forest at night that we hardly knew, and we joked about how we could be pshyco killers, (ofc we are not), but the girls found it funny and it broke the ice > that wont work with everyone
Hey good advice also Im telling my all guy friends to look up your videos, Im telling my friends to subscribe to your channel because your advice is amazing.
Although it's weird to think you're "training" us to associate your voice with having fun on the phone. Feels kind of manipulative.... haha great advice
hey i recently started watching your videos, iæm trying to improve my lie in several way including with women, could you give some advice on how to appeal to emotions, and how and what to say to girls at party
I'm gonna say to begin....A MAJOR reason girls probably talk to you is your British Accent...
hizetsorin323 1 week ago
Brilliant! Do you have any more fun games? I just bought your stuff and I'm excited to check it out.
MontyCulligan 2 weeks ago
best video so for, yes this association with having fun on the phone is very powerful. GENIUS, really.
weirdwordcombo 3 weeks ago
Awesome
ebermtheburn 1 month ago
What if she had given a fake number ??
MrBratspants 1 month ago
@MrBratspants then he would know when he'd call her & her phone wouldn't ring...
he'd also have an idea of how she might feel about him then.
rockxhero 1 month ago
but if she doesn't take it :S ??
MrYankeeeeeee 1 month ago in playlist Talking To Women - Stephan Erdman Coaching
I had a great night out with a girl a couple of nights ago, we chatted, hooked up and had alot to drink. She asked for my number so I gave it to her, I also got hers. I text her the next day just to start off a general conversation which went fine. Now today I haven't been in contact at all, im thinking of ringing her after work tomorrow to see if she would like to go on a date. Does anyone have any advice on how I should go about asking and if this is a good idea?
Thanks.
SuperiorNizzle 2 months ago
6:19 'Next time she hears your phone on the voice.' I get the same mixup with my wording from time to time :D
Necrastis 3 months ago 3
@Necrastis I didn't even notice during the video! lol
JoshuaTaylor1992 1 month ago
its also a good way to find out if she gave you her real number too lmao
TamaraLyynn 4 months ago 14
to be honest, this is just corny, calling her on the phone while shes there, its not reli that funny/entertaining, cus alot of people when they exchange numbers would ring them on the spot anyway to give the other person their number, but standing there still on the phone trying to make it into a joke. meh, its a bit cheesey, i dont know many girls that would find it funny.
MistaMase102 4 months ago
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DuhEnlightenedOne 5 months ago in playlist More videos from stephanerdman
@DuhEnlightenedOne well you have a computer for fk sake, you cant be broke.
MistaMase102 4 months ago
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DuhEnlightenedOne 4 months ago
@DuhEnlightenedOne get a job. or deal, or steal, its not good karma but hey its money lol
MistaMase102 4 months ago
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DuhEnlightenedOne 4 months ago
@DuhEnlightenedOne sorry but what the fuck are you on about. get a job, then you get money, then you can get a phone, or steal a phone. simple. you sir, are retarded.
MistaMase102 4 months ago
Thanks your Great
MrCoadama 7 months ago
next time she hears your phone on the voice lol
btw great tips :)
213543531246 7 months ago
Great advice, but that phone trick.. honestly, if you do it wrong you will come across really lame, or at worst a potential stalker. Gotta be real careful with tricks like that, it has come across natural, and in the moment , dont force these tricks in to a conversation.
For eg, me and mate took two grils to a forest at night that we hardly knew, and we joked about how we could be pshyco killers, (ofc we are not), but the girls found it funny and it broke the ice > that wont work with everyone
TonyMon16 11 months ago
i kno wut ur sayin but when they say they will call and they dont thats pretty fucked up especially when their doing the pursuing ur pretty smooth
letstalkdirty1 1 year ago
Hey good advice also Im telling my all guy friends to look up your videos, Im telling my friends to subscribe to your channel because your advice is amazing.
BRADLEYHUH 1 year ago
@BRADLEYHUH Thanks, I appreciate it!
stephanerdman 1 year ago
good advice...
but a little verbal diarrhea....."next time she hears your phone on the voice" 6:19
Imprezziveness 1 year ago
hmmm...lot of great practical psychology...now i'm curious about your background
fiercex 1 year ago
dude you are a genius i am a great ladiesman but this trick was really great thx ;)
SavigeBlazer 1 year ago
dude you are a genius i am a great ladiesman but this trick was really great thx ;)
SavigeBlazer 1 year ago
dude you are a genius i am a great ladiesman but this trick was really great thx ;)
SavigeBlazer 1 year ago
Simple and seemingly useful ideas... And the phone trick is a good one. I actually thought of it before you described it :)
humanyoda 1 year ago
Interesting! This would definitely work on me :)
Although it's weird to think you're "training" us to associate your voice with having fun on the phone. Feels kind of manipulative.... haha great advice
lovemyvanity 1 year ago
6:20 when she hears your phone on the voice haha, that was funny, but good advice none the less man.
nitrousflash59 1 year ago
could u give some advice on how to appeal to emotions and interaction at parties
marcoupha 2 years ago
Stephan here, Thanks for your questions...tell me what you mean by "appeal to emotions" exactly...and parties...yes I can do a video on that....S.
stephanerdman 2 years ago
hey i recently started watching your videos, iæm trying to improve my lie in several way including with women, could you give some advice on how to appeal to emotions, and how and what to say to girls at party
marcoupha 2 years ago
I agree. This is a good one. :)
dreamcatcherr2002 2 years ago