Physical Attraction & Testosterone - Episode #16

[dj6230]

WTF?

I might start high on attracted then go way below bottom as time goes.

I always ALWAYS see every flaw in a woman as time goes by.

Fucking pisses me off, never manage to settle with one for more than a week.

I can see that your line for woman is true tho, as they just wont let me go, if its because of the 'hard to get' concept or not I dont know.

I know for certain that your graph is not true for everyone.

[TheFourFactors]

@dj6230 I don't think it's uncommon for your attraction to a woman to go down. Perhaps there are factors that dampen it down like you're not interested in them anymore or don't want a relationship with them, but they do or you were more interested in some physical intimacy one night, but not more... Thanks for commenting.

[Tutilost]

Good vid. I'm a mid-age male. Always noticed that chicks, young & old (20s - 60s) were attracted to me. In my teens-20s was bold/good confidence level with babes, work , etc. Then, for some damn reason, I became shy/feelings of unworthyness w/beautiful chicks, work promotions, etc. Recently took T-test, low (175), doc puzzled, all normal except T. Replacement T working well, bolder, happier, hornier, haha...must be careful w/babes at work...sex harassment thing. T may've been low since 30s. Thx

[TheFourFactors]

@Tutilost Glad the video helped. Thanks for the comment!

[wacoinferno]

@TheFourFactors today is 01/26/2010 and today i begin testosterone shots. it is now 10;45 here i'll take my first shot @ 3;00 oclock. how long will the shot last and how long will it take befor i start to feel anything. . cause right now i have a level of testosterone of 241 and iam 4 months away from being 50 my wife is 32. .the last few years i have had no energy at all i like to sleep a lot and i a grouch or so says my wife. but my sex drive is good. will i not feel as tired all the time?

[TheFourFactors]

@wacoinferno Hi... Thanks for the comment. To be clear, I'm not a medical doctor and am not an expert on testosterone shots. You should direct all questions in that area to your physician.

I am interested in how your physical attraction is for you wife. E.g. when you first met her was your testosterone low? And how was your physical attraction for your wife? Were you immediately physically attracted to her, or did it take time for you to become physically attracted to her?

Best, Ron

[NCBCSPRINGRETREAT]

Fascinating, fascinating. Every person seems to be different here. For me at least, it takes me quite some time to realize if I'm attracted to someone; in any way. I get to know them in group settings, and an interest grows over time as I see who they are. Great video!! ^^

[TheFourFactors]

Thanks for your post. Glad you like the video. Good that you know which group you fall into so you can act accordingly.

[NorthCentralMass]

interesting...so if a girl thinks I'm attractive and I do whatever I want and act like an asshole, she won't change her opinion of me, haha. Good to know.

[TheFourFactors]

She may still find you physically attractive, but she's not going to want to be with you because of your behavior. Physical attraction is only one of the things that matter.

[NorthCentralMass]

haha i know, I find this video and topic very interesting though

[TheFourFactors]

Thanks!

[jessefriesen]

so men are generally basing their view of what is considered attractive by the physical appearance, whereas women seem to be more inclined to judge a man based on his acquisition of materials (money, anyone?) or flourishing of personality traits (the 'artists') Cool Cool. So women, I guess no matter how intelligent you may be, we just don't give a shit in the end.

[TheFourFactors]

Thanks for the comment. What I'm saying is that for men, their level of physical attraction to a women is set and doesn't fluctuate much. Whereas for many women it can fluctuate dramatically.

[EonnIRISHOConner]

Excellent video and true.

[clap5]

I'm a guy. I agree 100%. I've had this theory looking back at my past relationships. I didn't know if I was crazy. Women can look more attractive if they change there physical appearence. Even if they show some type of determination and good work ethic. Strong qualitys and personality can affect physical attraction slightly in men. But WAY more in women. I see fine ass girls with ugly ass guys on a regular basis. Humor and witt can go a LOOONNNGGG way for guys. I'm just good looking not funny.

[TheFourFactors]

Hey clap. Thanks for commenting. Sounds like the video really resonated with you... Ron

[clap5]

Sure does. I happend to be searching for side affects that taking testosterone might have. I'm planning on getting checked for low testosterone. I took a online questionaire and I seem of have the symptoms. Tired, low sex drive, weak, and depressed. Started about 4 yrs ago. I'm 25 right now. Not over weight. Figured i'd consult my Dr. about it. Great video by the way.

[LatinSoul89]

i used to be the kind of girl that would be like "OOOOH, look at him he's hot!" but then i would get to know some of those guys and they were really full of themselves.

so now i pretty much see most guys the same, knowing that if i get to know a guy who i'm not so physically attracted to at first, i could eventually be crazy for them.

so for me it's mostly personality based.

[TheFourFactors]

The important thing is that you've figured out how you work with respect to physical attraction and then are acting accordingly. Good for you. You sound like you are quite evolved!

[LatinSoul89]

that is such a compliment oh my goodness thanks (i'm only 20)!

[drakendrones]

i would second you on this LatinSoul89! I have learnt my lesson the hard way :-(

[LatinSoul89]

LOL barry white music to rats