this is an excellent video. I have definitely observed what you say to be 100% true. Good guys and bad guys get equal amounts of success with ladies, in accordance to their attractiveness and general confidence/ ability to hold conversation/ interestingness. Nice guys are always the ones who are the most frustrated and confused.
Why would she be any harder to pick up than any other girl? Knowing all of this isn't a how-to-never-get-laid skill, it's a social lubricant to get to know graceful people at their top and have a good time, in the bar or in bed. Great vid.
@tubehows4life , the guy's comment below is a shame never gets better, that's just an excuse to always be in the comfort zone and do not show all the potential in humans, all for a traditionalist upbringing .
Manipulation has nothing to do with being a nice guy. Nice or not, people are out doing their best not to screw things up so they can get the girl. The worst is when people try to make nice guys out to be assholes which is totally not the case. Nice guys are simply nice to people. You can call it manipulation, but in order to get the girl, a guy will automatically do things towards that. AFC or PUA. The idea that nice guys are manipulative is just an attempt to make them look bad.
@camvibrance I know what you mean, since I felt that way for years; then I finally realized what I was doing to myself and other people. I was being dishonest, and that's the main flaw of the "nice" guy. He tries hard to please others to the point that he becomes someone he's not. The "good" guy, on the other hand, knows his values and convictions and sticks by them no matter what. He's more of an anti-hero, neither good nor bad; just true to himself. It actually takes guts to be honest.
The nice guy is manipulating the woman without knowing it. He gives her flowers, expensive dinners, flowers, shines her shoes basically anything she want him to to "maybe get laid". Once he see a hot girl he think she is soooo great without actually knowing what's behind her looks. So in conclusion, its nothing wrong by treating her nicely, but more about being a firm confident person.
Well, I agree. It's what i learnt also the hardest way, nice guy and good guy is not the same. It doesn't mean being an asshole is gonna work, BUT it's a matter of getting to know the woman. And as a man it's important to not let ourself be walked over, not be afraid to disagree with the woman. The key here is that she has to EARN that you are nice to her, if she don't deserve it why be good.
I think this is great for guys who are insecure,and guys who are not looking to settle down . It gives them great insights on confidence and the correct way to exhibit yourself to sleep with a woman. A long term quality relationship will seldom be found in this avenue...
forget American women, go for Brazilian and Colombian, they're wayyyyyyy better in ALL aspects and you don't need to learn "special PUA techniques", just be yourself and treat them with respect. Search Youtube for Brazilian Women Chasing Foreign Men in Brazil and you'll see what I mean.
thanx I'm a good guy. I have no problems attracting women, but for the most part I'm just too lazy and preoccupied to "play the game" right now.
I think women who are drawn to the psychotic type bad boys are just feeding into their own need for chaos within their lives. One psychologist calls this Denova -- or the devine nature of paradox. Meaning people want what they can't have and or attract what they most fear.
Good video, very good explanations. I myself toe the line between good guy and nice guy, the key is knowing your own standards and not being afraid to loose a woman, when you loose this fear only then will progress start to happen.
Women inherently want to be challenged so step the game up and understand that you are the one in control of your life.
its nice to see some women that are into pick up. When someone is on his best game this would be a challenge, a sexual challenge aswell. Even though kezia knows all the things that men are doing she CANT resist attraction.
Im actually really confused............I've always thought im a nice guy....but.....Everything she says a good guy is. I am. Everything she says a nice guy is. I'm not, but the description of the nice guy, i am. Bascally based on what she says i have the exact same qualities of the good guy but i get treated like a nice guy. That doesn't make sence. I thought it was my hig standards which didn't make girls like me. Im confused lol
lol. I've always thought i was a nice guy coz i am bland, boring and forgettable. But how she described them, i disagree with girls, i dont bend my reality to fit them, i challenge and poke fun a them.
BAD GUY = alphamale or just real man. Not all women like such type. Some call it next dog, loser, f*er, standing d*ck (bi, feminists, girls with bad experience with men).
NICE GUY = betamale, or even gay... just best friend for girl. Girls (bi, feminists) can talk with such boys, spend time, marry but if betamale is in job erning money girl f* with the bad guy...
So this is why real men wear masks! to hide the burning dog eyes... ;)
im a good guy and all i met was hot women but so shallow . that didnt even last with me more then 7 months ? my colour and origin was not excepted by there family .. and its not funny ..
I dont think so dude I mean these are two completely opesit things. On the other hand everione has posetive and negetives caracteristics. Anyway i can say one thing for sure THIS GIRL IS HOT
even though I am decent guy (with average looks, I think) after 30 minutes conversation always treat girls like they are worthless shit , and with 3/4 of them end up on bed . Of course there is technique and tricks involved ,but I found this much more effective than playing a gentleman , or friendly chap where your chances between 5-25% depending on your attractiveness and social skills
I think it's the first time I hear the distinction between good guy and nice guy so well explained.
OK, perhaps it can be resumed in that the good guy is a winner, the nice guy is a wuss.
Also, it's nice to hear it from a woman perspective.
BTW, why do you guys complain about her being stunning and that you can't take her seriously? Would you prefer some old lady in an archaic dress? That would make her more believable?
Hmm.... Even though she knows the information logically , here feminine emotions overpower her logic , Since pickup is designed to affect the emotions , I think she can be picked up , but you would have to close the deal before her backwards rationalization kicks in
@LiquidRush ... she wants the same thing every girl wants... she takes dick just like the ugly ones, the only difference would be that she has the opportunity to be more selective, but i'll tell you this it's most times the hottest ones that are the most insecure, they spend more lonely nights than the average girl because the majority of good men are intimidated by a woman's looks and in turn the guy who is too afraid to go talk to her just might be the only guy she wants. so take a chance!!
i know exactly what she means i was a nice guys problebly the nicest ever...lol...but when i met zan perrion i became good...and the cool thing about being a good guy is that a woman can never forget you...ever...even if you guys spends months without communicating then later you see her again...her heart will start to pound...and she will even get nervous and she will be shy and everything...kind of like her first crush all over again...and after all her break ups she will always think of you
Your videos are really good, and I suppose it coming from a girl makes it more convinceing.
You could be a good psychologist/NLP practioner.
I would really like to come to one of your lectures as I'm totally convinced attration is completly mechanical and want to get better at being attractive
Excellent video, I have had the dreaded "nice guy syndrome" for many years and have had some terrible experiences with women because of it and I am just starting to shed that now and this video really puts things into perspective. Thanks.
she reminds me of lara croft from tomb raider. also, i love the way she described the nice guy as wearing a mask over their real personality. with help of this video its something that ive just noticed myself doing in real life, so now i can change this, thanks
Women, watch this, but don't take it literally. If you expect all men to act like this then don't be surprised when a man doesn't fit into these categories.
Well done. The difference between the Nice Guy & Good Guy is one I happened to figure on my own at about 19-20yrs old, but I'm glad someone is aware enough to explain it so clearly on video for others to see. Keep making more vids.
a great analysis, full of originality and insight, into what goes on in both women and men's minds, and how it impacts their behaviour. Don't miss the description of the Nice Guy: a real shorthand of how not to be, and of what not to do, with women. Understanding the different between the Good Guy and the Nice Guy, as explained in this lesson, is essential for all of us who do not see themselves, and can never be, Bad guys, but who still want to get a (love and sex) life...
I liked this video. Its a lesson I understood on my own, but haven't been able to explain well to others. Anyways, you sent me a Facebook invitation recently, so I decided to see if you had any PU videos up. Anyways, keep it up, I enjoyed it. I'll try to take a bootcamp someday if I have the chance.
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everythinglikethat 1 month ago
Good Video By the Way Kezia.
Knowing the difference between a Nice- and a Good Guy is Important and can be mistaken with.
Andif you don't like my Previous message... hmm ... I can Edit it to your liking, but with me as Primair and you as Secundair lol.
First give Value away, than get it back + say ' lol '=Surprise Effect+Laugh= teh Lady's like ya= I LIKE LADIES !!
everythinglikethat 1 month ago
Thank God I can say I'm the good guy. Enlightening video. Thanks.
7575047 5 months ago
this is an excellent video. I have definitely observed what you say to be 100% true. Good guys and bad guys get equal amounts of success with ladies, in accordance to their attractiveness and general confidence/ ability to hold conversation/ interestingness. Nice guys are always the ones who are the most frustrated and confused.
HamerD 6 months ago
hot teacher
cowfordflorida1 6 months ago
i'm schizophrenic, i can be all three ;)
PrinceZappa 6 months ago
she is right!
lp0715 7 months ago
i'm bipolar, i can be both ;)
DavithRedway 7 months ago
would pollinate
ccssdxdx 7 months ago
all i gotta do is show her my fucking abs and BOOOM she is all over me!!!!!!
kashman92 8 months ago
oh man that hurts im usually the nice guy
smo1765 9 months ago
keziah I think your book is by far the best one i have read
waddellski 10 months ago
Why would she be any harder to pick up than any other girl? Knowing all of this isn't a how-to-never-get-laid skill, it's a social lubricant to get to know graceful people at their top and have a good time, in the bar or in bed. Great vid.
h0b0ch1c 11 months ago
Wow! you are smoking hot!
stickshift237 11 months ago
I used to be the nice guy, but not anymore, now I DO know when to ditch a girl, who's acting like a bitch ^^
flashpeter91 1 year ago
Great!
saintklargh 1 year ago
traditional education MUST GO TO FUCKING HELL , OPEN MIND WELCOME
pierredaviladiaz 1 year ago
shes cute how she only says 2 w's
tubehows4life 1 year ago
@tubehows4life , the guy's comment below is a shame never gets better, that's just an excuse to always be in the comfort zone and do not show all the potential in humans, all for a traditionalist upbringing .
pierredaviladiaz 1 year ago
Manipulation has nothing to do with being a nice guy. Nice or not, people are out doing their best not to screw things up so they can get the girl. The worst is when people try to make nice guys out to be assholes which is totally not the case. Nice guys are simply nice to people. You can call it manipulation, but in order to get the girl, a guy will automatically do things towards that. AFC or PUA. The idea that nice guys are manipulative is just an attempt to make them look bad.
camvibrance 1 year ago
@camvibrance I know what you mean, since I felt that way for years; then I finally realized what I was doing to myself and other people. I was being dishonest, and that's the main flaw of the "nice" guy. He tries hard to please others to the point that he becomes someone he's not. The "good" guy, on the other hand, knows his values and convictions and sticks by them no matter what. He's more of an anti-hero, neither good nor bad; just true to himself. It actually takes guts to be honest.
mrboombasticx 1 year ago
to pick up this girl, u need to be a fucking genius.
lukewazea2k7 1 year ago
the nice guys are really just cunts deep down
fuck shes hot bet she takes it in the ass
shotbyagun 1 year ago
lol Gotta love that accent: "The nice guy is a mosque." "The nice guy equals blaahnd and fughettabooll." ;)
mrboombasticx 1 year ago
Good video
spoonman73 1 year ago
Adam Lyons' friend fucked her and he ran routines on her, but she fucked him anyway
ngolimit2 1 year ago
hey ppl..yes this girl is kinda onto everything...but the best part is she is still a girll..:D.....wanna start hitting on her?....
notdacoolest 1 year ago
The nice guy is manipulating the woman without knowing it. He gives her flowers, expensive dinners, flowers, shines her shoes basically anything she want him to to "maybe get laid". Once he see a hot girl he think she is soooo great without actually knowing what's behind her looks. So in conclusion, its nothing wrong by treating her nicely, but more about being a firm confident person.
NattHrafn 1 year ago
Well, I agree. It's what i learnt also the hardest way, nice guy and good guy is not the same. It doesn't mean being an asshole is gonna work, BUT it's a matter of getting to know the woman. And as a man it's important to not let ourself be walked over, not be afraid to disagree with the woman. The key here is that she has to EARN that you are nice to her, if she don't deserve it why be good.
Nice guy isn't really that nice.
NattHrafn 1 year ago
I think this is great for guys who are insecure,and guys who are not looking to settle down . It gives them great insights on confidence and the correct way to exhibit yourself to sleep with a woman. A long term quality relationship will seldom be found in this avenue...
Cloudforever99 1 year ago
Thumbs up if you were looking for some Protest The Hero stuff, but just have watched a couple of speaking tits
Nubsibet 1 year ago
nice
CRCRmoshed 1 year ago
this was quite an eye opener i thought i was a nice guy but im deffinetly a bad guy.
fracturedfist 1 year ago
Very insightful.
Aznchanter 1 year ago
forget American women, go for Brazilian and Colombian, they're wayyyyyyy better in ALL aspects and you don't need to learn "special PUA techniques", just be yourself and treat them with respect. Search Youtube for Brazilian Women Chasing Foreign Men in Brazil and you'll see what I mean.
museclips 1 year ago 2
thanx I'm a good guy. I have no problems attracting women, but for the most part I'm just too lazy and preoccupied to "play the game" right now.
I think women who are drawn to the psychotic type bad boys are just feeding into their own need for chaos within their lives. One psychologist calls this Denova -- or the devine nature of paradox. Meaning people want what they can't have and or attract what they most fear.
bluehorse888 1 year ago
Good video, very good explanations. I myself toe the line between good guy and nice guy, the key is knowing your own standards and not being afraid to loose a woman, when you loose this fear only then will progress start to happen.
Women inherently want to be challenged so step the game up and understand that you are the one in control of your life.
Mavado1 1 year ago
hey , I m bad guy good guy bed guy :D nice guy everyting on me :D lets marry me !!
I actually wanna pick up you ? where are youuuu
retsnomonster 1 year ago
hey , I m bad guy good guy bed guy :D nice guy everyting on me :D lets marry me !!
I actually wanna pick up you ? where are youuuu
retsnomonster 1 year ago
hey , I m bad guy good guy bed guy :D nice guy everyting on me :D lets marry me !!
I actually wanna pick up you ? where are youuuu
retsnomonster 1 year ago
hey , I m bad guy good guy bed guy :D nice guy everyting on me :D lets marry me !!
I actually wanna pick up you ? where are youuuu
retsnomonster 1 year ago
its nice to see some women that are into pick up. When someone is on his best game this would be a challenge, a sexual challenge aswell. Even though kezia knows all the things that men are doing she CANT resist attraction.
lazy610 1 year ago
i'm STIFFFFF
joshierox 1 year ago
i'm STIFFFFF
joshierox 1 year ago
Having a woman teach proper pick up brings much needed humility to the community, cant wait her book to come out :)
S0undBite 1 year ago
Having a woman teach proper pick up brings much needed humility to the community, cant wait her book to come out :)
S0undBite 1 year ago
just be the bad guy... :P
EmotionFlow 1 year ago
hi kezia, the things you say about the bad guy and good guy nice guy. are so true
lennoxone100 1 year ago
hi kezia, the things you say about the bad guy and good guy nice guy. are so true i acc
lennoxone100 1 year ago
Im actually really confused............I've always thought im a nice guy....but.....Everything she says a good guy is. I am. Everything she says a nice guy is. I'm not, but the description of the nice guy, i am. Bascally based on what she says i have the exact same qualities of the good guy but i get treated like a nice guy. That doesn't make sence. I thought it was my hig standards which didn't make girls like me. Im confused lol
nickmeredith002 2 years ago
What am I then? I'm not a good guy or a nice guy.
nickmeredith002 2 years ago
lol. I've always thought i was a nice guy coz i am bland, boring and forgettable. But how she described them, i disagree with girls, i dont bend my reality to fit them, i challenge and poke fun a them.
nickmeredith002 2 years ago
Oh crap, I am definitely the NICE GUY. I fit the criteria almost exactly!!! Time to make some changes. Crap, why didn't I watch this video years ago?
Whir25 2 years ago 5
Related to other categories:
BAD GUY = alphamale or just real man. Not all women like such type. Some call it next dog, loser, f*er, standing d*ck (bi, feminists, girls with bad experience with men).
NICE GUY = betamale, or even gay... just best friend for girl. Girls (bi, feminists) can talk with such boys, spend time, marry but if betamale is in job erning money girl f* with the bad guy...
So this is why real men wear masks! to hide the burning dog eyes... ;)
NiceTubeAccount 2 years ago
im a good guy and all i met was hot women but so shallow . that didnt even last with me more then 7 months ? my colour and origin was not excepted by there family .. and its not funny ..
TheRey4you 2 years ago
I'm in between good and bad guy .
irkman123 2 years ago
she stands and looks at the camera like she wants to rape it.
iWriteOink 2 years ago 3
so basically, be the nice guy when you want to attract an emotionally stable girl, be the bad guy when you find a girl that's easily manipulated.
Check
VMLM3 2 years ago
I'm both the bad and the good guy. Is that possible?
WrAth2110 2 years ago
yes it is
Greatmk 2 years ago
I dont think so dude I mean these are two completely opesit things. On the other hand everione has posetive and negetives caracteristics. Anyway i can say one thing for sure THIS GIRL IS HOT
metalballsofchaos 1 year ago
id like to finish last ... all over her face
johnykoop 2 years ago 8
lol awesome
thesparitan 2 years ago
even though I am decent guy (with average looks, I think) after 30 minutes conversation always treat girls like they are worthless shit , and with 3/4 of them end up on bed . Of course there is technique and tricks involved ,but I found this much more effective than playing a gentleman , or friendly chap where your chances between 5-25% depending on your attractiveness and social skills
ytertyu 2 years ago
Well presented synopsis :)
GemmBakko 2 years ago
damn this girl is good
iamcool69inu 2 years ago
I think it's the first time I hear the distinction between good guy and nice guy so well explained.
OK, perhaps it can be resumed in that the good guy is a winner, the nice guy is a wuss.
Also, it's nice to hear it from a woman perspective.
BTW, why do you guys complain about her being stunning and that you can't take her seriously? Would you prefer some old lady in an archaic dress? That would make her more believable?
Your accent makes me crazy though ;)
Aofex 2 years ago 3
nervous laugh noooo!!!
mateor09 2 years ago
excellent video but can you imagine trying to pick up this girl? she's onto everything..
LiquidRush 2 years ago 26
Hmm.... Even though she knows the information logically , here feminine emotions overpower her logic , Since pickup is designed to affect the emotions , I think she can be picked up , but you would have to close the deal before her backwards rationalization kicks in
kestuff 2 years ago
@LiquidRush ... she wants the same thing every girl wants... she takes dick just like the ugly ones, the only difference would be that she has the opportunity to be more selective, but i'll tell you this it's most times the hottest ones that are the most insecure, they spend more lonely nights than the average girl because the majority of good men are intimidated by a woman's looks and in turn the guy who is too afraid to go talk to her just might be the only guy she wants. so take a chance!!
coochsucker 2 years ago 3
maybe as a good guy, like she explained ;)
argenus 2 years ago
i know exactly what she means i was a nice guys problebly the nicest ever...lol...but when i met zan perrion i became good...and the cool thing about being a good guy is that a woman can never forget you...ever...even if you guys spends months without communicating then later you see her again...her heart will start to pound...and she will even get nervous and she will be shy and everything...kind of like her first crush all over again...and after all her break ups she will always think of you
vincentv1988 2 years ago
well what is the horny guy supposed to do, i mean i can be nice good bad whatever im horny i just wanna get laid.
Thehappygoluckytime 2 years ago
Hey Kezia, I can't find you on Facebook??
Your videos are really good, and I suppose it coming from a girl makes it more convinceing.
You could be a good psychologist/NLP practioner.
I would really like to come to one of your lectures as I'm totally convinced attration is completly mechanical and want to get better at being attractive
Thanks :)
brixism 2 years ago
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brixism 2 years ago
we have different cultures, nice guys in our country have many friends, therefore more chance of finding a quality woman,
kevinjml 2 years ago
Excellent video, I have had the dreaded "nice guy syndrome" for many years and have had some terrible experiences with women because of it and I am just starting to shed that now and this video really puts things into perspective. Thanks.
Whir25 2 years ago
Nice work, your have good psychology skills - well observed
brixism 2 years ago
ur not the girl from dragons den are you?
anitawee 2 years ago
I'm a mix of good and bad :P
irkman123 2 years ago
Honestly do you guys think oposites attract?
Do u think it's true or false?
totalanthony 2 years ago
I HAVE AN ERECTION
totalanthony 2 years ago 39
she reminds me of lara croft from tomb raider. also, i love the way she described the nice guy as wearing a mask over their real personality. with help of this video its something that ive just noticed myself doing in real life, so now i can change this, thanks
WarnyBoy 2 years ago
nice rac..;)
noop34 2 years ago
Women, watch this, but don't take it literally. If you expect all men to act like this then don't be surprised when a man doesn't fit into these categories.
VivaLaPol 2 years ago 2
i must say, the bad guy always has to most fun out of the three!! =)
killlagger468 2 years ago 2
Wowie ... this girl is sooo cute :)
TheGogija 2 years ago 3
Well done. The difference between the Nice Guy & Good Guy is one I happened to figure on my own at about 19-20yrs old, but I'm glad someone is aware enough to explain it so clearly on video for others to see. Keep making more vids.
SLICENSLASH 2 years ago
a great analysis, full of originality and insight, into what goes on in both women and men's minds, and how it impacts their behaviour. Don't miss the description of the Nice Guy: a real shorthand of how not to be, and of what not to do, with women. Understanding the different between the Good Guy and the Nice Guy, as explained in this lesson, is essential for all of us who do not see themselves, and can never be, Bad guys, but who still want to get a (love and sex) life...
Italian1974 2 years ago
Ive heard this Mr Guy theory from many other pua's and theory but this was a nice and simplified presentation
StrangerThenRedz 2 years ago
Nice house Kezia!
JokerPUA 2 years ago
I was going to say that!
marceldelta666 2 years ago
I liked this video. Its a lesson I understood on my own, but haven't been able to explain well to others. Anyways, you sent me a Facebook invitation recently, so I decided to see if you had any PU videos up. Anyways, keep it up, I enjoyed it. I'll try to take a bootcamp someday if I have the chance.
hillerm 2 years ago
You know when you make these types of vids, can you dress less sexy because your stunning.
And it becomes a distraction which then flips a switch in my mind not to take you seriously.
Thanks
simplyalif 2 years ago 5
So,So, So, So Needed. And so English too, which is quite sexy.
Post anytime, Kezia. Lovely stuff.
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RedArrow73 2 years ago