Cheaters Caught Cheating

[SerpentStare]

"If you really love someone, you don't [have sex with] someone else" - I think this needs to be qualified.

There are people out there in loving and lasting relationships who have agreed with each other that they are allowed to have sex outside of that lasting, loving relationship without violating it. Where sex outside the relationship has been discussed beforehand with ALL concerned parties, considerately and WITHOUT COERCION, and has been agreed upon, I don't believe it is immoral.

[Pastor9764]

"Once they cheat, they should be dead to you." -- Completely correct. I loathe the lifestyle-magazine advice to reconcile at almost all costs, even your own dignity. That guy or girl *cheated* on you. What else is there to say? Chuck them aside and get on with your life, and regain your dignity, and surround yourself with positive energy, not with some bastard who has proven beyond the shadow of a doubt that they don't value you.

[bkksugarsyrup]

photo hunting you dear>>>please not ppointed to my fault that time i'm young and evil deed

[MCWiggidyWhoo]

I was cheated on and I'm still with that person. We are doing just fine. : /

[leadwerewolfofpack18]

Hey y'all watch ur mouths I'm eleven

[iiLuvSparkles]

@leadwerewolfofpack18

Get off youtube if you're 11 and can't handle bad words. This is the internet, bad things happen here. Get used to it.

[leadwerewolfofpack18]

FYI I love to post comments

[leadwerewolfofpack18]

:p and ur hooot

[leadwerewolfofpack18]

Hater united

[DarkCarnival42O]

i hate that, why would you go out with someone if you dont like them?

[xilix]

I just was cheated on after 6 years of monogamy (known her for more than 15 years), and it's been about 6 months, and I'm still devastated. She regrets it, and I'm now stuck wondering what to do with her. I love her unconditionally, which throws a wrench in logic. I know I shouldn't go back with her or entertain any romance with her, but I go through fits of "I want to marry this women and have kids with her" and it's fucking insanity. I'm still lost as to what to do. Maybe I'm just in denial.

[DarkCarnival42O]

@xilix dang, that must be hard.. hope you make the right choice and get better :)

[peroxowhygen]

so true on that last part that you said.

[insanitybrutality]

I "was in love" with this guy I was with for 3 years... I find out he had cheated on me with 6 different girls, while I was with him. I obviously had no clue that he was doing this behind my back, and I didn't find out, until my brother told me. At first I didn't believe, then I noticed he talked to me and saw me less. It made me die on the inside, and I didn't know what to do. I broke up with him... he lied to me, and played me like I was a toy. Anyways.. I agree fully with Greg.

[jenavie1000]

thats whats up

[TheRandomCrapSection]

And how many hermaphrodites do you know, Onision? How many do you know that have a fully functioning set of both male and female genitalia? Food for thought.

[fodabonita]

if your wife wanted to have a threesome, you, her, and another girl, would you do it?

[Moonstruck220]

I've always thought one simple thing about cheating.

If you cheat, if you need to physically be with someone else, then obviously the relationship you're currently in is NOT working and you need to stop lying to yourself and end it.

I see this issue the same way I see the PMS issue I commented on. Sure, things happen to you that you can't control (ie. PMS or sexual desires), but you always, ALWAYS have SELF-CONTROL. "Wanting" and "acting on" are two very different things.

[bobwatters]

this is the problem i have

i can put my dick in someone i dont even like

but when a girl gets cock it just seems diff like there cheating is worse since like yea idk since its in them i guess it seems worse

[MissUniverse67]

watch Onision's video Banana Sell Out! if he wins then the video gets to be in a commercial!! :)

[TurtleyPompato]

If for example; a boy cheats on a girl, while they are in love.

That doesn't mean that the boy doesn't love her.

And if the girl loves him, it doesn't mean that she immediately gets stonecold, towards him, and stops loving him.

Love is also about forgiveness, and sometimes people make mistakes, because they're stupid.

This video is far from reality.

Real love doesn't end like: "BAM!! That was it".

Unrealistic.

[DMAC211990]

I wouldn't go as far to say that cheaters belong with cheaters and non-cheaters belong with non-cheaters. While I do agree that once someone cheats they should not remain in a relationship, I do believe that past behavior is not indicative of future behavior. What I am trying to say is while someone may have cheated in a previous relationship, it was only because their partner (through no fault of their own) was not the right one. I do have more to say but am interested in your response.

[Moonstruck220]

@DMAC211990 That still doesn't justify cheating. If their partner "wasn't the right one", they shouldn't have been together. If two people are in a relationship and, for example, the guys thinks "hmm, this isn't really working out"...then he should grow some balls and say so and end the relationship. Instead of going out behind her back, betraying her, and mutilating any kind of trust she might have had in him.

NOTHING justifies cheating. Nothing.

[rottencakefrosting]

@DMAC211990 but if someone isnt the right one, why not just break it off? why hurt that person? I agree that if youre that type you deserve what you are.

[DMAC211990]

@rottencakefrosting but that is letting someone else tell you what you deserve. no one should be able to tell you what you deserve or what you can or cant do, only you can truly do that. no one has the right to stop you if your ready to battle and fight to change, no one can say change is not possible, those are just people who have given into their own limitations and individuals telling them they cant do what they want. only you can change yourself, and if they dont want to then i agree.

[rottencakefrosting]

@DMAC211990 Good point. I agree with you.

[RainbowBeenie]

the hermaphrodite comment made me laugh but i agree!

[Psychiatrium]

@RainbowBeenie same herexD

[Pandanomnoms]

My first boyfriend cheated on me with a couple girls and i just never talked to him again. I believed in one strike your out until i met my current boyfriend who i love so much he is pretty much my husband at this point. He stopped flirting and trying to cyber after he admitted he had a problem. I am with him only because he has vowed not to get on the internet unless it is youtube or work related and 7 months now he is doing amazingly. We plan on marring in a year or so.

[RareOpalDragonPerson]

Wow.. that's good to hear. My ex cheated on me with 3 other girls. I had always felt I dealt with him harshly by immediately breaking up. Glad to hear I wasn't (at least in your opinion...) in the wrong.

[Tide12NC]

Wow!!! Dude that's deep. All you had to say is if you choose to be in a relationship then you need to stay faithful. For me as a Christian, it's trying to be obedient to God's word. Temptation is there for all of us, but in the end it's all about choices. Remember, it is suppose to be for life, so make wise choices. That's some shared wisdom for you lol.

[EysFoxFilms]

i was recently cheated on by a girl whom i loved with all my heart... and i didnt find it so easy to make said cheater dead to me relationship wise. i agree compleatly i just feel it is easier said than done.

[rollercoasterbarbie]

i do agree with him on cheating but i would like to explain something and see what his followers and he thinks about it.... technically im a cheater. though i dont think i am. i was at a party and got drugged and raped and dumped because that still makes me a cheat cus i had sex with someone else....i dont understand the situation and would like some input

[DaleStrickland]

In my personal opinion, that does not constitute as cheating. If it was not of your own free will in the slightest, then it does not make you a cheater.

Although this is probably far-fetched, I think there is a possibility that your significant other that dumped you because of it planned it all along.

IMO, it is also not cheating as long as the other partner knows about and is not against the actions you take with another person.

[LuvBugBlaqkHart]

You dont put your penis and startle someone if youre a hermaphrodite any way lmao that made me totally lol ^^

[libertine234]

Once again you have blown my mind , and to say all of this on here , your a man who is not affraid to show his true soul ,

[Jasrey32390]

Taking a cheater back depends on how they dealt with it. If they tell you immediately upfront, it's worth considering giving that person a chance. Once it's more than once, it's time to pack up and go. Multiple people or a whole other relationship is unacceptable. Once with one person is possibly forgivable in my eyes.

[xSweetFancyMoses]

Ahhhh, I completely agree!!!

[TeeBaggora]

@Onision

What if I say I do not fantasize about others outside of relationships and expect the same out of the person I am with? Is that too much?

[PinkOwlChannel]

Yes it is too much asked for.....you have to let the other person live...because fantasy is = JUST FANTASY...

UNTIL the other person (as Onision said) turns this into reality...

So dont worry, let your bf/gf fantasize ;-) Its okay...dont try to control peoples thoughts (wont work, I tried it...trust me)

(sorry if you actually wanted him to answer that XD")

[VeniNephifade]

I've been cheated on =/ on several occasions,

And I'm a lil stronger because of it, I know not to give second chances to cheaters, and I know I need to be able to trust the person I'm with not to cheat.

[AsiaChase]

It's funny when people who haven't ever cheated in their life talk about how cheaters never change and how they shouldn't be given a second chance. Being a one time, and one time only cheater, I have to disagree. Some people can change. My boyfriend and I had been going out for a month before I kissed - and only kissed - another boy. I panicked, felt massive amounts of regret and called him and told him what I had done. I demanded that he yell at me (or something of that sort) but he didn't..

[AsiaChase]

We kept on going out after that, but eventually the guilt overtook me and I broke up with him because I felt that he resented me but he wasn't showing it. We gave it a couple of months not expecting to ever be together again, but we came to a realization that we wanted to be together. His commitment to me was stronger than anyone else's. The situation made me realize how lucky I was, and I've changed. We've been together for 1 and a half years now, and I have not done it ever again.

[kadyzation]

i just found out that my boyfriend kissed another girl :\ .. he told me that it was an accident and that she kissed him :\ .... the thing is that he kept saying sorry :\ idk what to do .. he said he would never do anything like that just as long as i didnt but i never did :\ he tried to kiss me after i accepted his apology but i turned away :\

[sweetdory16]

ok, i know you have alot of really good points on everything you talk about and have very strong views, so i want to know, what do you think about homosexuality and bisexuality. myself, i feel that everyone should be able to choose their sexual preferance and that if someone has a problem with the choice they make that they should just mind their own busniess and let them live thier lives. if you've already answered this question plz let me know, i really want to hear your opinion on this. Ty

[PandaTomTV]

i cheated on my gf about almost 2 years ago we're still 2gethor da reason y is cause i changed its a hard skill 2 perform and only a few can master it, but when u do it u can still work out a good relationship

[jpete12]

i think what you do is talk to her about it not cheat on her and then leave her with a smashed heart.

[drimachuck]

subtle humour. hermaphrodite xD

[otakumei]

me and my fiance both cheated on eachother, broke up. and are "starting fresh." or "forgiving and forgetting" as they say. we both emptied out everything we had done against each other to each other of our own free will. i just want to know what you think of that. is that we went and told eachother good enough to show that we meant that we were "starting over" to you?

[xXDraethXx]

Completely true! :) I'm glad to see some people in the world that actually want to focus on serious relationships! :)

[NeroxxHero]

oh gosh i could stop laughing about the hermaphrodite thing :)

[missashley8]

i totally agree with you.

[AshleyG8689]

lmao...if you really love someone, you don't put your penis in someone else....funny but super true.

[blinksourskittle8]

people dont always cheat because they have sexual desires. there is an emotional influence behind it. every persons situation is different. i have seen cases of this in real situations... so yeah

[boredboredbored118]

i have a friend who cheats on her husband because he wont have sex with her ( she also knows hes currently cheating on her though = \

[Jareddpwnz]

The solution is simple, don't have sex unless you love the person. Don't hurt the ones you love. If you love two people, be in a porn or soap opera. Which ever you prefer.

[Radrei]

I think you need to look at each individual case. In most cases, cheating is wrong and unforgivable. But there are cases where it was a simple mistake and should be forgiven, or at least looked past. Not everyone cheats because they're horny.

And no, I've never cheated.

[Shanoa321]

But this is a very slim portion of cheating, and he's speaking in general.

And for those people "it was a mistake", but if it was a mistake don't make it.

I understand completely that people make mistakes but if you are in a relationshp with another person you have absolutley no right to go off and be with another person under any circumstances in my opinion.

These people who say "I didn't mean to". Well, what exactly did you think you were doing?

And kudos for never cheating, neither have I

[Radrei]

Yeah, I know. But I still just think people deserve a second chance if you really love them and think they love you. And if not, then I guess just move on.

[futureTFBdunker]

if they cheated on you once theres still a chance it could happen again yeah some people might not do it again but how are you supposed to know the best thing is to move on the moment it happens i think because if they could cheat on you or even think about it then they truely dont love you :)

[Jareddpwnz]

We make mistakes. We all need second chances. But that doesn't mean were entitiled to them. It just means alot of us were lucky enough to get them.

[Jareddpwnz]

Please.PLEASE.

Give me a single situation that cheating is acceptable, I'd really like to know.

[Radrei]

I didn't say it was acceptable. I said it was forgivable.

[stoneofrefuge]

I had my taste of being cheated on, after that, i seen the guilt the female had. I am going to make it a priorty not to accept this woman's written letter of apology. She paid for her mistake with her child being molested and raped. I thank her for screwing up her own life. Its all on her. Not on me.

[CaramellDansenFan08]

Honestly,Onsinion,some poeple cheat because they're stuck in an abusive relationship where they're partner threatens the others life if he/she breaks up with them. One of mt friends was in that kind of relationship and I put a stop to it by telling the police. And now that I think about it,make a video on Abusive and Sexually Abusive Relationships,please

[DamienDemenace]

Well, what do you do if you have a little kid with this bitch and you find out she's been cheating on you for some time? Walking away from her, yes, but you just can't walk away from your own child. What are you supposed to do then? Leave the kid with her and become a weekend dad, let the next idiot she mets become a part-time dad to your kid? So, you get cheated on, you lost your kid, the kids lost a warm home and feeling of security. All this just because she went and became a whore? WoW!

[MissLovelyLindsey]

Ummm take the kid with you? hahaha

[30Tie]

hard to move on when a large amount of your time and personalty turns out to be a lie they really do pull you into there wonderland of shit

[SuperSarcastic]

I concur with you.. even though I still allow the person who hurt me (because of cheating) back into my life not too long ago. Bah, I'm fool-hearted.

[30Tie]

i took mine back too several times although couldnt trust at all and just went from sour to bitter, if i wanted a whore i would have dated one ,messes with your head cos who else is a undercover whore? heh

[XlindsayX00]

Youre my favorite. :D Youre a great person.

[LovesRockers]

cheating is pointless. if you want to fuck/ be with more than one person than don't get into a relationshp with a girl/boy who will be cominted to you. just date whores ....

[SuperDrew561]

100% Agreed!

[celeste33035]

What if you didnt cheat for sex?

O.o

[l0veridonthavetolove]

your nice and clean shaven =]

[ClubPenguin4Three]

where do i ask a question?

[grimrepr]

okay what else is considered cheating? of course sexing is XO LOL .. cheatings bad mmkay

[Limei666]

Well said, I've never cheated on anyone, and Love is more important than Lust, actually Lust isn't important at all. Self control is best, and your partner probably wasn't taking you into consideration or thinking about your feelings when they cheated on you, most of them are probably only sorry if they got caught. I'll never cheat, and if I'm cheated on they will be dead to me. <3Onision

[Tetsacry]

I compleatly agree with everything you said!

[stivvyjoe]

cool new picture

what do you think about people dressing there pets up loke humans?

[PhilomenaPhoenix]

and what do you think about people loving two people, and genuinely loving them both? my friend has that problem, but shes about to break up with the older relationship. your opinion?

[1xREAPERx1]

And you shouldn't put your penis in someone and straddle them if your a hermaphrodite, lol. Keep the videos coming, always enjoy them.

[DaneVincentVid]

I disagree and think sometimes things can be worked out.

[falloutgurl247]

omg i agree

[StanRather]

You look really cute in this video. No homo

[MrRAndom5]

stfu

[12astile]

I find your way of expressing yourself very offensive,

Greg what do you think of the moronic statement "No Homo"?

[StanRather]

I find your offense very offensive. Greg what do you think of the statement "Greg what do you think of the moronic statement "No Homo"?". I mean, is this kid is an ass kisser, or what?

P.S. I'm sorry I've offended you.

[12astile]

wow stan wow............

[StanRather]

STILL OFFENDED? Maybe you should crawl in a hole and get off you tube. Go some place "nice". I hate people that waste their lives getting offended by things. Grow up. Life is offensive.

[StanRather]

P.P.S. Lighten the fuck up. I love all nice people no matter what type of genitals they enjoy. For instance, I saw a hermaphrodite porn the other day whilst masterbating and I gotta admit, I think I'd try it if she/he had a nice face and the opportunity arose

[KillSwitchEngage0101]

great video man, 5 stars.

[migey2]

I agree completely.

Thank you, Onision.

Do you have any advice about a significant other who suspects you of cheating? I've had that problem, even though I've never cheated in my life.

[greatestsongsofLIFE]

I cheated on my HAND with a DONKEY! Allah Ackbar! Allllllaaaaaalllaaallalalal

[123SAMH321]

what do you think about people who lie to get what they want?

[taratazo11]

what do you think about fame, money, power and sex.?

[Ninety9Soulz]

Alright I'll admit, that Hermaphrodite bit was funny.

[Sammietheanimechick]

cheating is disgusting

[quirkjerks]

What is your opinion on Democracy? -The jerk.

[Velonese1]

So, Onion do you have an Onision prayer for your followers? like........

Our Onion who art better the us, douche be thy name. Thy fanatical Vegetarianism come, your will be done on earth as it is in Onisonland. Give us this day our daily veggie's and condemn meat eaters as we condemn rapists and pedophiles that work against you. And lead us not into equality but deliver us from meat eaters for thine is your kingdom, your power, your glory forever and forever. Onion

[BpRt1206]

Ha ha, very funny. This is me clapping my virtual hands..............a'sdhiok;nh­vkljaasdbljkvabasdlkjbvhk;asdb­hjklsdbhak

[TShamTV]

right mentality :)

[purplestardust74]

You have this weird(to me)way of pushing everyone that makes a mistake away from ur holy self. In time u will see that things dont work the way u plan them in ur mind.

[vfamily4]

Onision, what do you think about young people dating and having sex? I'm talking about kids age 13-17 or in that range....

[En3rgyM4XX]

This.

[evilsqurrel420]

Well said. Thank you Onision!

[zeiorii]

I loved that you disapproved of cheating hermaphrodites as well as male and female cheaters.

[Supermely12]

You have changed my life:)

[RebelPebble432]

i love your hair, i hate cheaters, it hurts people too much :(

[urineTroubleBOY]

Thank you so much for making a video on this Onision.

[nardxcorebitch]

i completely agree. however i do believe once in a great while there are those people who just genuinely make a mistake and who probably won't do it again. and no i have never cheated on anybody and i have been in a committed relationship for over 4 years.

[katiefershadybaby]

if I have a dream that I cheated I feel guilty.

I can not believe that someone would actually cheat.

But thats why I dont have relationships anymore. people suck.. and cheat

[mikeSrayS]

Yea I wouldn't cheat on anyone.

But since i am single, and am cursed to always remain so, the chance to wouldn't occur to me in the first place.

[Lioness9885]

How do you handle your best friend continuously going back to someone who continuously cheats on them? :(

[eddyjoshua6]

woot woot 5 stars,

this is all so true.

[Kasayk310]

thats why i don't date or do any of that shit at all. Saves me having to go through all the time and trouble.

[HisManifest]

Hey Onision, I love these daily videos and hearing your opinions on various subjects. It's all very interesting to me.

[andybruintje]

i hate cheaters.and braking up and going hit soem one els straight away also counts as cheating!

id love to kick evry cheater in the crotch.girl or boy i dont care.

[deathkiss878]

Awesome vids onision, I agree with you on nearly everything, except for eating meat.

[OnisionSpeaks]

I think you will find something in time to disagree with me on... I change as the days go on --- sometimes I look back to see that I disagree with some of the things I've said before... I am growing and learning ---

[Kasayk310]

"I am growing and learning"

Arn't we all? :)

[RandomShadowMan]

Keeping it real dude.

[TwistedTrainWreck]

i dont know how anyone can do such an unfaithful thing

its just wrong

i could never cheat

good vid 5 stars xxx

[OnisionSpeaks]

Very good for you :)

[DasMatta]

Onision keeps it real! xD

[hitoco9]

what do you think of someone who gets back with someone after being cheated on. do you think there is such thing as to forgiving. do you think these people are just really forgiving or not ver intellegent?

[urineTroubleBOY]

This person they've put all their trust in, it's hard for anyone to just let all of that go. But if you don't, you won't ever be able to trust them again. You'll always wonder if they're still out cheating and you won't ever be able to fully forgive & forget. I think they're just trying to avoid the pain of ending a relationship, letting go of someone they care about. In the long run it's not worth it.

[hitoco9]

yup

[ZeroThomas5]

First! woo!

I do agree!

Cheaters are cowards. Plain and simple.