I had no idea you made videos like this. To my luck i stumble upon this video and find all your other videos like this. Really shows your broad spectrum of talent you have.
Hmmm, I'm not normally the jealous type in a good relationship. For instance, in a steady long term relationship with an honest man who I know loves me I don't get jealous. I don't even mind him sleeping around as long as he follows a few rules (don't fall in love, don't know her up, be sure she knows you're taken, be safe, be respectful of me, etc) But in a bad relationship with a guy who lies and gets off on the sneaking around for sex, I will lose my mind with jealousy.
My biggest issues is getting over the fact that most men act like dogs in heat and I watch them as they practically undress my gf with their eyes and there is nothing I can do about it. I'm not rly worried about her cheating on me I just get so angry at the fact that guy are always going to look...I know everyone says u should feel flatter or whatever but I don't. Maybe I'm just over protective.
this reminds me of all those "controversal" talk shows where they'd have guests on that found on the b/f or g/f or spouse was cheating and they get in fights with eah other while one cries and says IM SORRY IM SORRY I LOVE YOU I DIDNT MEAN IT, and I facepalm and laugh, except I dont really because its too stupid to be funny, they're just all stupid horny idiots or stupid idiots that "love" cheaters.
I've been watching for videos for fucking years now.
This video... It's really kept me basically alive this past week. I watch it over and over,oddly enough. But it helps. Highly. It helps me remember where my head needs to be. You truly are one of the kind. Out of all the videos I could have watched that covered this, yours is the one I needed to see. You were able to get through to me where most fail. And if there is an actual form of deity, I truly believe that's how I found you.
I do respect your way of dealing with it, and I do also respect your opinion, but jealousy isn't only about the fear of getting cheated on, there are many things that you can feel jealous about.. Many friends including me, we are over-reacting probably, but still, I can't even stand the idea that some @ss is pervertly looking over my gf, I mean I just wanna beat them ;s There are many kind of jealousy, still your way 'not to care' is one of the best solutions :3 but stiill.. D:
im in love i will always love this person and pleas somone reply cus it will hapen but they will be mean i don care i love this person and would never cheat on this person and im straight i just have a softer side witch all of me
I do think cheating is bad but instead of just saying i cant love this person because they cheated on me you should ask why did they cheated. I cheated on my boyfriend. Instead of keeping it secret I told him because I dont like keeping things from him. At the time that i did cheat on him, it was when he told me he didnt think he loved me and he might love someone else so i was upset and reacted like i normally wouldnt. We talked about it and we resolved the issue and are still together.
The best 'revenge' (which, let's face it, is the emotion generally wanting out) to employ against those who "cheat" - defined as "going behind someone's back" - is *not*:
"A dish best served cold"
No, it is actually best served by "living well" - achieving the state you alude to in your vid; one in which you really don't have any 'feeling' for it, or them, one way or the other ;-)
i think you're ignoring the fact that this cheater is someone you loved and cared about, and that supposedly loved and cared about you. the idea that someone you thought to be the one for you and cared about nothing but you and your love has no problem in "caring" about someone else is just...i don't even know the word.
it makes you question everything, y'know, and that's just...that same word again.
when you say you realize you shouldn't have loved a cheater anyway what about the hurt of like all of that love you gave them being betrayed? i mean i don't know i think it would hurt to know that i was ever sucked into loving and trusting someone who would cheat on me. mmm yea it's a complicated subject
What if that person really did care about you but was so conflicted and insecure or maybe they aren't getting the support or mental stability that it lead for them to cheat?
Im jealous because my bf wanted to have sex with someone else with my permission. I not afraid he will cheat on me because I really do trust him. And he asked me. Am I being a jealous *****? Am I a bad person now?
He wants an open relationship, I dont like that... And he did know about this before we had a relationship...
i just stopped believing that my girlfriend would cheat on me. i believed that she loved me enough to respect me and not cheat on me. she then broke up with me and told me she cheated on me
I 100% agree. Ive been with my bf faithfully for 3+ yrs and he still calls me out on false accusations his mind makes up. And I tell him every time that he doesn't trust me and is insecure. My opinion is that WELL IF YOU REALLY THINK THAT THEN LEAVE ME. I mean, if youre really going to put stuff like that out on the table with no evidence to back it up and act irrational, the fate of the relationship is up to the one who is jealous.
omg you always post something about what i feel/ going through, thanks ive been worried about this, and i trust my bf completely i just dont trust his friends that are girls........ blah
These thoughts do not always appear because of a lack of trust. I have a very trustworthy significant other, HOWEVER I always think about the worst case scenario simply because I am extremely paranoid. I lack self confidence and feel inadequate, thus I begin to conspire because of my own lack of self esteem. It is not always jealousy that causes this fear, but also self-doubt. A lot of the times we all just feel as if something is too good, and because of that we think we are bound to lose it.
But people may also be afraid of being with a cheater because what if they wasted all that time with a cheater? They may want all those months/years of their life back . . .
If you're in my shoes...I've been cheated on before after being in a relationship for 2 years. She was cheating on me for the last 3 months. It honestly hurts like hell. But you bring up an amazing point Onision. You really do. If someone is careless enough to cheat on you...then really...they were never worth your time in the first place. Go find another girl/guy who will be all yours ^^! And don't let the past get to you (in my case)
You know, ive been struggling with this concept for almost a year now. My boyfriend (now ex) cheated on me three times, (probably even more). the first two i forgave, the third one i presented him with a choice, the whole "its me or her" thing. And he didnt want to choose. So i ended the whole thing, as hard as it was to. It's still hard. I still talk to him every day, and im still left with what may or may not be a disappointment tomorrow (were supposed to hang out). But this video is help.
eh, i dont entirely agree with this segment, my girlfriend and i have been dating for a while now...almost 2 years(i know its not much but im in 11th grade so its a lot longer than most in high school)and she's cheated on me once, and almost left me again almost a month ago for someone else...i have issues with people leaving...all i have is my mother and her, and to be honest i never want her to leave, but thats normal but even though she cheated on me, i still trust her,cause thats who i am...
@fireball31794 and adding to that, every girlfriend i have had has cheated on me, so i sorta just expect it one point in time, were teenagers it happens, but i cant say iv ever cheated on anybody :/
but your missing one point they just broke your heart so you lost a b/f or g/f or partner whatever they were too you so yes im jealous because they played around on me.!
Not care.... I would have put it in diffrent words.... I have these fears and im trying my best to ignore them ^^ cause I know that trust is the best way to keep a realationship.
I think the solution to jealousy is that there is no solution.
When you lose the one you love, you pick yourself up and you move on to bigger and better things, because you have to.
You have to . . . but you don't want to.
Life can be full of joy if you work at it . . . but pain comes, out of the blue, with no effort on our part whatsoever. It's as if it were all planned by Someone ahead of time and it will all make perfect sense in the end.
what are you doing making a video on thanksgiving? :) go eat some tofu turkey and vegan pumpkin pie and vegan green bean casserole... yumm! if i hadn't already eaten id be hungry again! :D
Sometimes it's intuition... are they acting different? Do they seem to be keeping secrets? What is their body language telling you? Do your friends and family think they are playing you? If so DO NOT ignore your feelings; get to the bottom of it instead. Then dump the bastard for cheating. If there is no sign of cheating but you feel jealous/paranoid , then well, it's your own insecurities. In that case, learn to trust this person before they get fed up and leave.
Thanks Onision, you made me feel a little better. My ex (who cheated on me and other things) has been on my mind a lot lately, and I've been feeling worse as the day's progressed and I've gotten close to caving and texting him.
Thing is, I know it's pointless since I know he won't text back or will be a jerk.
I suppose you can choose to live however you may, I just feel sad to think someone so young would give up so easily. Best of luck to you, whatever you choose.
it just sucks when you've been with someone for like a year and they cheat on your with your best friend o_o cause in that year you have time to get REAL affinity for that person, it's hard getting over someone but it's for the best most of the time
i was waiting for when he said i would not be in a relation with a chearter i was waiting for skye so somehow trick him but at the same time thats good she'd never cheat or he wouldn't cheat
Well there would be heartbreak in a sense that even if they were a cheater, you may not know, perhaps not for quite some time. And then this person you did trust, and you did love, betrays you. There's no way for that not to hurt. But the best way to not be jealous whether it is with friends, family, or relationships, is to take care of your own insecurities.
@LOBO01AR I think there can be...in the past I have felt jealous when a close friend starts to spend a lot of time with another person and seems to prefer that person over me. Jealousy can occur in any type of relationship. I think its different than romantic jealousy though...u can't really "cheat" on a friend the way you could a partner or a spouse.
This video reminded me of how Ambrose Bierce defines jealousy in The Devil's Dictionary: "JEALOUS, adj. Unduly concerned about the preservation of that which can be lost only if not worth keeping." Lol. True.
Wow, I completely agree on every vid you make! But I don't think that Onision for president is a good idea, I mean, when you are the president, you can't really say what you want.
But...Onision.....what if you LOVE the cheater? sure you hate the cheating, but does that really end your love for the cheater? how deep did that love go then ?
I think in the end it comes down to personal opinions I chose to forgive my ex for it and whilst we did break up it wasn't related - she got a job overseas. Sometimes it can work out if you want it to and you can sincerely get over it its not easy but it can happen. My point is it's not as black and white as "she cheated thats it" and even if it were theres still emotional hurt to contend with just because someone cheated doesn't mean your feelings are instantly turned off towards that person.
* Well.. as you said - when you've found out he/she cheated you're not really losing anything except a cheater that you shouldn't have loved in the first place - however the heartbreak comes from a self hate . Self hate as in " OMG ! I can't believe I trusted him, I should've never let him into my life.. I should've known better . " It's still going to hurt regardless of the fact that your boyfriend or girlfriend was a douchebag and cheated - because either way you did have feelings for them .
On the other side of the issue, my boyfriend constantly is suspicious of everything I do online (we met online 2 years ago and now live together). He constantly wants to know who I am talking to, what I am doing, and has essentially made me stop talking to everyone I have ever spoke to online. :/ I actually feel insulted! I have never cheated on him, even after living separately for almost 2 years. Yet, his constant jealous behavior and prying is driving me away. Advice?
Wow thanks for the advice! ^^ I've been dealing with the same issue kinda and it really is just from my own insecurities. >.> I never feel good enough for him so I think he'll go off with someone else. ._. But you're right! ^^ If he ever did something so horrible to me like that just cause I wasn't good enough then I wouldn't be losing much anyway. <3 Thanks so much. Your wisdom of life is beyond amazing. o.o
That is exactly how I feel about cheaters. I'd be thankful they made the mistake, because then I know I don't need to waste any more time with them. They've proven they aren't the kind of person I need in my life. <3
Example, I love my best friend and he had a girlfriend. I wasn't jealous. He broke up with her. I didn't get a feeling of ''haha, that girl is not with him anymore! haha, shes screwed'' I felt sorry for my friend. I wished they didn't break up....
it happened I didn't care that much can't believe I ever cared don't even like her anymore :3 and she still want's me back for none specific reasons :P
Thanks man,this helped me alot
Sleepynogin 1 week ago
I had no idea you made videos like this. To my luck i stumble upon this video and find all your other videos like this. Really shows your broad spectrum of talent you have.
Yonktech 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
There is also the fear about looking like a fool if your girlfriend who is really a cheater to be cheating on you when you don't know about it.
tayray88 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
One more like from me. :D
LucidPerception 2 months ago
This helped me so much Greg, thank you for clearing my mind(:
LolaCola101 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
He reminds me of Shane Dawson
But I love this, I really do
xKrimmySan 4 months ago
right
tineeeable 4 months ago
Very well said man
99ridebmx 4 months ago
actually after all the advices that i have been searching for this was really helpfull.
Thanks x
xxxCNXxxx 5 months ago
Hmmm, I'm not normally the jealous type in a good relationship. For instance, in a steady long term relationship with an honest man who I know loves me I don't get jealous. I don't even mind him sleeping around as long as he follows a few rules (don't fall in love, don't know her up, be sure she knows you're taken, be safe, be respectful of me, etc) But in a bad relationship with a guy who lies and gets off on the sneaking around for sex, I will lose my mind with jealousy.
wolfcat87 5 months ago
Flattered*
AK3mm3 5 months ago
My biggest issues is getting over the fact that most men act like dogs in heat and I watch them as they practically undress my gf with their eyes and there is nothing I can do about it. I'm not rly worried about her cheating on me I just get so angry at the fact that guy are always going to look...I know everyone says u should feel flatter or whatever but I don't. Maybe I'm just over protective.
AK3mm3 5 months ago
Thank you. Just...... thank you.
sarahxDjiggzz 5 months ago
this reminds me of all those "controversal" talk shows where they'd have guests on that found on the b/f or g/f or spouse was cheating and they get in fights with eah other while one cries and says IM SORRY IM SORRY I LOVE YOU I DIDNT MEAN IT, and I facepalm and laugh, except I dont really because its too stupid to be funny, they're just all stupid horny idiots or stupid idiots that "love" cheaters.
xINVISIGOTHx 5 months ago
This makes me moist. So true.
xkillerwolfstudios 5 months ago
So friggin true. If someone cheats on you it's the same thing as breaking up with you.
Oh and you look like Shane Dawson :)
Qtpsg 5 months ago
ouch
lovey1017 6 months ago
Dude you are insane.... In a good way though. That pretty much is the answer to almost every jealous pang an emotional human faces.
chrizum 6 months ago
I may not have these problems, but I like hearing and helping people who does
Dantaru78 6 months ago
We winked in the end :D
ThisIsAweshum 6 months ago
thanks buddie :D
Mrlanderos007 6 months ago
I can relate to these videos so much that it's unreal. This is a very therapeutic experience. <3 i appreciate you and this channel.
TheKatieFatality 7 months ago
Haha your a banana....hehe :3
sk8trboy360 7 months ago
Thank you, this video really helped!
boricuaboss09 9 months ago
Thanks. That helped me alot. It's really what I needed just now.
TheseBonesLiquify 10 months ago
*Your videos.
&& Thank you. So much.<3
Yoharashi 10 months ago
Oh greg.
I've been watching for videos for fucking years now.
This video... It's really kept me basically alive this past week. I watch it over and over,oddly enough. But it helps. Highly. It helps me remember where my head needs to be. You truly are one of the kind. Out of all the videos I could have watched that covered this, yours is the one I needed to see. You were able to get through to me where most fail. And if there is an actual form of deity, I truly believe that's how I found you.
Yoharashi 10 months ago
Dear Onision,
I do respect your way of dealing with it, and I do also respect your opinion, but jealousy isn't only about the fear of getting cheated on, there are many things that you can feel jealous about.. Many friends including me, we are over-reacting probably, but still, I can't even stand the idea that some @ss is pervertly looking over my gf, I mean I just wanna beat them ;s There are many kind of jealousy, still your way 'not to care' is one of the best solutions :3 but stiill.. D:
DeadlyFanis 11 months ago
I always see it like this.
If they cheat on me, then It's their loss? I don't need a cheater as a girlfriend.
you THINK you're bullet proof and you won't feel crap.
But when it happens and you've been cheated on, none of that crap matters.
All that matters is that you've been betrayed, and stomped on mentally.
There is nothing that stops the fear of your BF/GF cheating on you other than finding the right girl, enough said.
TheFacelessXXX 1 year ago
Thank yoouuu!
Dooooodle 1 year ago
oh my god, thank you Onision, thank you so much!!!
DestructionRiot 1 year ago
I adore your videos - you;re so normal, but at the same time very special. Thank you;)
AnneMoskwa 1 year ago
im in love i will always love this person and pleas somone reply cus it will hapen but they will be mean i don care i love this person and would never cheat on this person and im straight i just have a softer side witch all of me
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NmhjyZvcfd 1 year ago
The heartbreak comes in realizing that person wasn't who you though he or she was.
SirRofflez 1 year ago
ur rght if someone cheats he /shes not a gf/bf anymore its just a 'stranger/cheater/trash' =)
SandyMikiG 1 year ago
Thank you
ZombieFR3AK91 1 year ago
oh onision i love when you sit in my lap and talk to me, it makes me feel all warm inside
DeathBySuiside 1 year ago
um just to tell you you cant piss on it and then light it on fire case urene is a even bettere fire well stoper thean wahtter
hebrouw 1 year ago
"stomping on it, pissing on it, nd setting it on fire.." LOL
superkat5551 1 year ago
This video helped me out, like, alot.
Thanks dude <3
FataleChryses 1 year ago 4
I do think cheating is bad but instead of just saying i cant love this person because they cheated on me you should ask why did they cheated. I cheated on my boyfriend. Instead of keeping it secret I told him because I dont like keeping things from him. At the time that i did cheat on him, it was when he told me he didnt think he loved me and he might love someone else so i was upset and reacted like i normally wouldnt. We talked about it and we resolved the issue and are still together.
LunaZorge 1 year ago
this totally opened my eyes just got out of a bad relationship and this really helped thanks onision :-)
chantel743 1 year ago 3
The best 'revenge' (which, let's face it, is the emotion generally wanting out) to employ against those who "cheat" - defined as "going behind someone's back" - is *not*:
"A dish best served cold"
No, it is actually best served by "living well" - achieving the state you alude to in your vid; one in which you really don't have any 'feeling' for it, or them, one way or the other ;-)
BrianJ1962 1 year ago
i think you're ignoring the fact that this cheater is someone you loved and cared about, and that supposedly loved and cared about you. the idea that someone you thought to be the one for you and cared about nothing but you and your love has no problem in "caring" about someone else is just...i don't even know the word.
it makes you question everything, y'know, and that's just...that same word again.
wealldieeventually 1 year ago
"ripping your heart out, stomping on it, pissing on it, set it on fire" LMAO
wealldieeventually 1 year ago 90
when you say you realize you shouldn't have loved a cheater anyway what about the hurt of like all of that love you gave them being betrayed? i mean i don't know i think it would hurt to know that i was ever sucked into loving and trusting someone who would cheat on me. mmm yea it's a complicated subject
UpEataakadaman 1 year ago
i love you
msbbdarling 1 year ago
Dude...your like reading me...
LilyzLily 1 year ago 58
@LilyzLily your not the only one.
TheNoookiie 1 year ago
We have a masochistic relationship.
OMJskits 1 year ago
What if that person really did care about you but was so conflicted and insecure or maybe they aren't getting the support or mental stability that it lead for them to cheat?
purplepinkpillow 1 year ago
@OnisionSpeaks
Im jealous because my bf wanted to have sex with someone else with my permission. I not afraid he will cheat on me because I really do trust him. And he asked me. Am I being a jealous *****? Am I a bad person now?
He wants an open relationship, I dont like that... And he did know about this before we had a relationship...
I couldnt do it after al
Shadow9T 1 year ago
I totally agree! This helped so so much! Thanks Onision :D
kingdomheatskeyblade 1 year ago
i just stopped believing that my girlfriend would cheat on me. i believed that she loved me enough to respect me and not cheat on me. she then broke up with me and told me she cheated on me
life is a bitch then you die
get over it
Ryjekt 1 year ago 3
@Ryjekt "All you lost is a cheater."
CrimsonRebelGhost94 1 year ago 2
I 100% agree. Ive been with my bf faithfully for 3+ yrs and he still calls me out on false accusations his mind makes up. And I tell him every time that he doesn't trust me and is insecure. My opinion is that WELL IF YOU REALLY THINK THAT THEN LEAVE ME. I mean, if youre really going to put stuff like that out on the table with no evidence to back it up and act irrational, the fate of the relationship is up to the one who is jealous.
cahbayb 1 year ago 3
@cahbayb sounds like he has one of the couple FIXABLE mental illnesses ( that are very painful to all involved ).
HolyShitsickles 1 year ago
I really want to know what it would be like to be Gregs neighbor? Probably.. pretty epic! :D
thedragonlord15 1 year ago
You're totally right about this.
Mousteache 1 year ago
omg you always post something about what i feel/ going through, thanks ive been worried about this, and i trust my bf completely i just dont trust his friends that are girls........ blah
MellowMelodie 1 year ago
These thoughts do not always appear because of a lack of trust. I have a very trustworthy significant other, HOWEVER I always think about the worst case scenario simply because I am extremely paranoid. I lack self confidence and feel inadequate, thus I begin to conspire because of my own lack of self esteem. It is not always jealousy that causes this fear, but also self-doubt. A lot of the times we all just feel as if something is too good, and because of that we think we are bound to lose it.
jri94 1 year ago
@jri94 im with you 100% im kind of going through this =[
MellowMelodie 1 year ago
@daveismad2 I am sure there are plenty of people who disagree with Onision's opinions.
jrcahill2 1 year ago
yesyesyesfreakingyes.
i love you Onision
Ninjasshoutzombie 1 year ago
Good way of looking at it.
But people may also be afraid of being with a cheater because what if they wasted all that time with a cheater? They may want all those months/years of their life back . . .
CodeofVideos 1 year ago
well said once again onision
your awesome
EckoMunky 1 year ago
If you're in my shoes...I've been cheated on before after being in a relationship for 2 years. She was cheating on me for the last 3 months. It honestly hurts like hell. But you bring up an amazing point Onision. You really do. If someone is careless enough to cheat on you...then really...they were never worth your time in the first place. Go find another girl/guy who will be all yours ^^! And don't let the past get to you (in my case)
arterialshadow 1 year ago
u made me shed a tear
chuckforeman13 1 year ago
onision = win ;)
metallicat22 1 year ago
how do you stop thinking about things like suicide or cutting or things like that
musicmaster421 1 year ago
@musicmaster421 you dont just stop, you need to get help, from a therapist or something.
sillygabbyx 1 year ago
You know, ive been struggling with this concept for almost a year now. My boyfriend (now ex) cheated on me three times, (probably even more). the first two i forgave, the third one i presented him with a choice, the whole "its me or her" thing. And he didnt want to choose. So i ended the whole thing, as hard as it was to. It's still hard. I still talk to him every day, and im still left with what may or may not be a disappointment tomorrow (were supposed to hang out). But this video is help.
coralcay222 1 year ago
eh, i dont entirely agree with this segment, my girlfriend and i have been dating for a while now...almost 2 years(i know its not much but im in 11th grade so its a lot longer than most in high school)and she's cheated on me once, and almost left me again almost a month ago for someone else...i have issues with people leaving...all i have is my mother and her, and to be honest i never want her to leave, but thats normal but even though she cheated on me, i still trust her,cause thats who i am...
fireball31794 1 year ago
@fireball31794 and adding to that, every girlfriend i have had has cheated on me, so i sorta just expect it one point in time, were teenagers it happens, but i cant say iv ever cheated on anybody :/
fireball31794 1 year ago
@fireball31794
yeah i never cheated either, never even thought about it, nor did i deserve it ( everyone else's opinion not mine)
somehow nice guys end up with not so nice girls .. and the other way around ..
xenonnati 1 year ago
Love is like a card game. In the end, cheaters always lose
XDRecca 1 year ago
but your missing one point they just broke your heart so you lost a b/f or g/f or partner whatever they were too you so yes im jealous because they played around on me.!
masterbearar 1 year ago
Not care.... I would have put it in diffrent words.... I have these fears and im trying my best to ignore them ^^ cause I know that trust is the best way to keep a realationship.
Nyuukamasuki 1 year ago
Hell yeah Onision!!! Thank you so much...
mylesc99 1 year ago
no second chances?
IviewitUpostit 1 year ago
@IviewitUpostit no, once a cheater always a cheater imo
DIABOLI999666 1 year ago
I think the solution to jealousy is that there is no solution.
When you lose the one you love, you pick yourself up and you move on to bigger and better things, because you have to.
You have to . . . but you don't want to.
Life can be full of joy if you work at it . . . but pain comes, out of the blue, with no effort on our part whatsoever. It's as if it were all planned by Someone ahead of time and it will all make perfect sense in the end.
In the mean time, we have to be patient.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago 2
what are you doing making a video on thanksgiving? :) go eat some tofu turkey and vegan pumpkin pie and vegan green bean casserole... yumm! if i hadn't already eaten id be hungry again! :D
animegirl13pain 1 year ago
Well said.
dontforgetimtheshit 1 year ago
Sometimes it's intuition... are they acting different? Do they seem to be keeping secrets? What is their body language telling you? Do your friends and family think they are playing you? If so DO NOT ignore your feelings; get to the bottom of it instead. Then dump the bastard for cheating. If there is no sign of cheating but you feel jealous/paranoid , then well, it's your own insecurities. In that case, learn to trust this person before they get fed up and leave.
Kristy0025 1 year ago
i love how when you go black and white everything gets...........dramatic... :)
xXKittyTreatsXx 1 year ago
What about polygamy?
I'd like onision film a vid talking about it.
aleexx42 1 year ago
Thank you.
FramingMike 1 year ago
this was really nice.
audreyeg7 1 year ago
wow that actually helped alot thank u
slothking66 1 year ago
my realtionship has ended because of this , since then i am all allone
maciexp 1 year ago
suddenly you've gotten so serious in your videos D:
duckcluck123 1 year ago
I want you to give some tips on how to get over jealousy, period. Not just being worried about cheating, but for example, flirting, etc...
diamondgirlcici 1 year ago
Thanks Onision, you made me feel a little better. My ex (who cheated on me and other things) has been on my mind a lot lately, and I've been feeling worse as the day's progressed and I've gotten close to caving and texting him.
Thing is, I know it's pointless since I know he won't text back or will be a jerk.
mydnyt 1 year ago
You don't WANT to love them, but you kinda just do...
Even when they cheat, you still have feelings for them.
macirockstar3 1 year ago
@macirockstar3 I agree! You can't just turn those feelings off like a light switch.... It's just not that black and white!
JustaWyomingGirl 1 year ago
Don't date. Fixed the problem.
zomgwtfbbqbagel 1 year ago
@zomgwtfbbqbagel - How old are you?
YourDarkAccomplice 1 year ago
@YourDarkAccomplice 23
zomgwtfbbqbagel 1 year ago
@zomgwtfbbqbagel - And you don't date? --.--;;
Fair enough, I won't get involved. But that's a pretty early age to be making such a decision.
YourDarkAccomplice 1 year ago
@YourDarkAccomplice Dating causes problems, and a lack of money.
zomgwtfbbqbagel 1 year ago
@zomgwtfbbqbagel - So does being single if you do it wrong. ;)
I suppose you can choose to live however you may, I just feel sad to think someone so young would give up so easily. Best of luck to you, whatever you choose.
YourDarkAccomplice 1 year ago
If there is a solution to a problem why worry?
and if there is no solution worrying does you no good.
Lawliet0100 1 year ago
@Lawliet0100 - Nice! I like that.
YourDarkAccomplice 1 year ago
Dude, this is one of the only things that is wrong with me in relationships. I need to trust.
Alyronx 1 year ago
@Alyronx same here
SiBluede 1 year ago
Onision as the new Dr. Phil XD
Lordwakka 1 year ago 2
You´re the most objective person!
I love how you talk and how everything makes sense and gets better as you keep talking
:)
PamsGoingOnRightNow 1 year ago
Now if only God could get over his jealousy.
Beatnick79 1 year ago
it just sucks when you've been with someone for like a year and they cheat on your with your best friend o_o cause in that year you have time to get REAL affinity for that person, it's hard getting over someone but it's for the best most of the time
SoloJolii 1 year ago
Ain't that the effin truth
anjyl667 1 year ago
No need to get upset about it. Just wash off the other person's cooties with a little soap, and move on.
venomjuicy 1 year ago
i was waiting for when he said i would not be in a relation with a chearter i was waiting for skye so somehow trick him but at the same time thats good she'd never cheat or he wouldn't cheat
Meemo12 1 year ago
Well there would be heartbreak in a sense that even if they were a cheater, you may not know, perhaps not for quite some time. And then this person you did trust, and you did love, betrays you. There's no way for that not to hurt. But the best way to not be jealous whether it is with friends, family, or relationships, is to take care of your own insecurities.
GreenTaurosGuy 1 year ago
what about Jealousy between friends? is there such a thing call jealousy in a non romantic way?
LOBO01AR 1 year ago
@LOBO01AR I think there can be...in the past I have felt jealous when a close friend starts to spend a lot of time with another person and seems to prefer that person over me. Jealousy can occur in any type of relationship. I think its different than romantic jealousy though...u can't really "cheat" on a friend the way you could a partner or a spouse.
Jmarie1216 1 year ago
That's one of the reasons I'm anti-romantic
XRockcityofpeaceXx 1 year ago
This video reminded me of how Ambrose Bierce defines jealousy in The Devil's Dictionary: "JEALOUS, adj. Unduly concerned about the preservation of that which can be lost only if not worth keeping." Lol. True.
Anyway, thanks! Great video.
janetitan 1 year ago
ONISION FOR PRESIDENT, YEEEEEES
AdamAnalyzes 1 year ago
Jealousy is a poison that ruined 2 relationships for me over the past 6 months.
BapometChiram 1 year ago
I always consider jealousy is a disease
MrRatchet1995 1 year ago
ummmm
iloveseattle123 1 year ago
Onision, sometimes it seems like you can read minds ;)
Merciaks 1 year ago
thank you
sxerDude 1 year ago
Thank you a bunch. I normally don't care about other things exept for this and death but you just saved me. Thanks Thank Thanks~ Happy Turkey Day.
pokeseye 1 year ago
Wow, I completely agree on every vid you make! But I don't think that Onision for president is a good idea, I mean, when you are the president, you can't really say what you want.
wardenzo 1 year ago
Onision, I respect you, well said
paulogomes16 1 year ago
I completely agree with this~!
PikaPikaStar 1 year ago
But...Onision.....what if you LOVE the cheater? sure you hate the cheating, but does that really end your love for the cheater? how deep did that love go then ?
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AlouaisA 1 year ago
I think in the end it comes down to personal opinions I chose to forgive my ex for it and whilst we did break up it wasn't related - she got a job overseas. Sometimes it can work out if you want it to and you can sincerely get over it its not easy but it can happen. My point is it's not as black and white as "she cheated thats it" and even if it were theres still emotional hurt to contend with just because someone cheated doesn't mean your feelings are instantly turned off towards that person.
LazySquirell 1 year ago
what about if the person they are with is known as a cheater?
withtrevor 1 year ago
Ah finally a good question.....rather than
"hey my dad shot me in the leg 4 times wut should i do?"
attackRus 1 year ago
"Cheater Cheater,Where'd you meet that no good,whitetrash ho?"
crazywanch101 1 year ago
Hey!!!Wormy is my friend on there...wewt.Well cheating just sucks.
crazywanch101 1 year ago
whats a thanksgiving?
ddupizz 1 year ago
dude you should be a presedent
CuteDanie 1 year ago
Amazing video man, Thanks so much for this :)
HOBOconspiracy27 1 year ago
cheat on them before they cheat on you
SuperGilberto1977 1 year ago
@SuperGilberto1977 you fucking idiot.
LordShikarii 1 year ago
@SuperGilberto1977 Two wrongs never make anything right, just leave them before it's too late.
malcolmcox 1 year ago
Very nicely put, I agree 100%.
UltraKillor 1 year ago
This was an awesome video man, thanks :) i shouldve asked this forever ago...
HOBOconspiracy27 1 year ago
Free psychiatry ftw <3
Mudlvl3 1 year ago 5
wow, nice opinon. i like it. i´ll try :) thanks
filzlaus01 1 year ago
Greg you give the best advice for everyone :) Thank you.
LurvYhooXX 1 year ago
* Well.. as you said - when you've found out he/she cheated you're not really losing anything except a cheater that you shouldn't have loved in the first place - however the heartbreak comes from a self hate . Self hate as in " OMG ! I can't believe I trusted him, I should've never let him into my life.. I should've known better . " It's still going to hurt regardless of the fact that your boyfriend or girlfriend was a douchebag and cheated - because either way you did have feelings for them .
FuzzyDelirium 1 year ago
btw, happy thanksgiving
wanttobezacs 1 year ago
Thank you onision. Thank you for giving us advice. Thank you for helping us with out knowing us personaly. Again, thank you.
wanttobezacs 1 year ago
yeah but sometimes its not just that easy. cant just forget about someone who you've loved and been with for a long time. i wish it was =\
riasroxy 1 year ago
Very good point.
On the other side of the issue, my boyfriend constantly is suspicious of everything I do online (we met online 2 years ago and now live together). He constantly wants to know who I am talking to, what I am doing, and has essentially made me stop talking to everyone I have ever spoke to online. :/ I actually feel insulted! I have never cheated on him, even after living separately for almost 2 years. Yet, his constant jealous behavior and prying is driving me away. Advice?
crystalsunshine 1 year ago 2
Wow thanks for the advice! ^^ I've been dealing with the same issue kinda and it really is just from my own insecurities. >.> I never feel good enough for him so I think he'll go off with someone else. ._. But you're right! ^^ If he ever did something so horrible to me like that just cause I wasn't good enough then I wouldn't be losing much anyway. <3 Thanks so much. Your wisdom of life is beyond amazing. o.o
TheFailGoddess 1 year ago 2
u said cheater so many times...at one point i started hearing "cheetah"....random..
jsantis91 1 year ago
Onision you are very amazing. You helped me understand not to be sad or anything. I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving.
MrUberEpicAwesome1 1 year ago
WOW.
AlahRed17 1 year ago
Can't really say more than that I wholeheartedly agree
shadowman784 1 year ago
interesting
KroliggBloodhoof 1 year ago
Interesting. You should be the next Oprah. haha jk she sux
junetterocks 1 year ago
Onision, great words of advice.
desterband 1 year ago
thank you , for making me see a a person who cheats in a whole new perspective , this helped a lot
btw happy thanksgiving
ZombieAttac 1 year ago
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ZombieAttac 1 year ago
i'm also a cheater :( i can't play GTA without cheating
ianmeesters88 1 year ago
my dad is a cheater....bastard
WiiMiiGirl7 1 year ago 2
@WiiMiiGirl7 :( I' sorry.
JESSESEIBEL 1 year ago
@WiiMiiGirl7 So is mine
katpower31 1 year ago
@WiiMiiGirl7 Then tell your mom. Quit telling people this and take action. Quit makeing people feel sorry for you and make it better. Jeez.
Cloakedsphere 1 year ago
@Cloakedsphere um.. nobody asked you troll and btw how am i supposed to take action over something i have no control over.
and im not trying to make people feel sorry for me im letting people know that they're not alone.
WiiMiiGirl7 1 year ago
if i was going out with a cheater and saw her with another guy i would thank them for showing me that she dosent deserve someone like me :)
HungryConnor 1 year ago
agree with the coment below
loriensuomi 1 year ago
That is exactly how I feel about cheaters. I'd be thankful they made the mistake, because then I know I don't need to waste any more time with them. They've proven they aren't the kind of person I need in my life. <3
Awesome answer, Onision.
Ig0tlif3 1 year ago
I never get jealous.
Example, I love my best friend and he had a girlfriend. I wasn't jealous. He broke up with her. I didn't get a feeling of ''haha, that girl is not with him anymore! haha, shes screwed'' I felt sorry for my friend. I wished they didn't break up....
greenday2themax 1 year ago
like how skye cheats in playing video games with u :D
thatsmeyay90 1 year ago
it happened I didn't care that much can't believe I ever cared don't even like her anymore :3 and she still want's me back for none specific reasons :P
Godzelot 1 year ago