Disconnect from a person

[thelifeofdoug]

Thank you for posting this. I watched this several times and I can say that this has worked. "something" has changed inside regarding this particular person. I came across the term" disconnect" from a group I was apart of but never learned how to use it until you showed how to use it. thank you so much. I should mentioned every time I heard that buzzer it was like a wave coming over me. Interesting.

[medgurl03]

Wow, that really worked!!! Thank you! You have no idea how much this person has weighed on my heart and body...to the point of waking up and thinking about them or dreaming about them. This is amazing!

[peacenhappiness2010]

This technique has work VERY well for me. THANK YOU!

Would it be possible that you have a technique to control jealousy, envy, & or fear of abandonment?

These are issues my co-workers & I often deal with as we are shiftworkers & are often left out of family & community functions on a reguar basis :(

[leparks]

@peacenhappiness2010 Yes, I know it does. And I thank you for reinforcing my belief.

As for the other things you asked about, I don't have experience there that amounts to much but we could try. Give a specific target and an email address and I'll send the voice message. Loren

[peacenhappiness2010]

This technique has work VERY well for me. THANK YOU!

[bekblakley]

I have found this to be really helpful. I feel freer and calmer after doing it. Thank you!

[naomi298]

thank you I feel better.

[leparks]

The jump is a common response when there is a disconnect. Some notice more relaxed feeling.

Loren

[msjbrock]

Yes I will thank you. I'm the type of person who carries unnecessary feelings with me. It has helped me to let go of them. I also suffer from horrible migraines. The video on the headaches has help me as well, but this one I think gets to the root of it all. Bless you for helping me and others.

[msjbrock]

So glad I found this. I realize I will need to continue to work at it, but it does lessen the pain, anger, grief, guilt. Thank you.

[leparks]

@msjbrock It is one of the most effective videos. You cn play it as often as needed.

Loren

[flumoxed38]

Been doing some of your other videos, all day I've been crying over a conglomoration of ghastly recent events. I think the others have helped - depression, bad love, most upsetting time in life (now). This one though, about someone who is slandering me, I thought of the person and still felt some disgust! Nevertheless, I feel quite a bit better than half an hour ago. I've been so debilitated by these events, a year+ of them, - that I have been more or less immobilized wiith depression.

[leparks]

You should do a separate disconnect from anyone who hurt your feelings going back in time as far as you can. Recent upsets have their foundation in earlier upsets. Early rejections by parents, other kids, or lovers are most important. You should feel a lifting of your mood immediately when you disconnect upsets or persons who have criticized or rejected you. Repeat playings days later can help. One exercise is going up on the happiness scal. Try that a few times. Loren

[Splangy1]

the person on my mind became for the most part a meaningless body of dead fleash. I did feel for powerful as a person after but I want to take this strength somewhere and am not sure of a new feeling that could come from it

[leparks]

It's just that there is no upsetting feeling if you should encounter or think of that person. Only the upsets are disconnected and they are specific to the person you had in mind. Loren

[dryerase121]

weird, after the video i felt kind of disoriented and shaky, its going away now and when i try to think of the person all i get is no negative emotion.

[leparks]

Certainly one of the most effective of my videos.

Loren

[kutekerri]

nice! feeling better, watched 5 or ur vids so far, good work brother! and thanks so much for ur free but very valuable healing!

[leparks]

One of my most effec tive videos. Glad you were helped.

Loren

[waypastthat]

When I think of that person now, all I think is "meh!".

So thanks!!

[leparks]

I know it really works well. Thanks for writing.

Loren

[GcGameCube]

is it ok to feel a little bit of nausea?.. i don't know.. it worked! just like in other videos, but this time i feel kinda nauseated

[leparks]

I've never heard of that but think it will pass. Probably rela ted to person you disconnected. Loren

[ottawafrenchy]

i've had quite the amount of characters in my short 37 yr life span .. i think i'll have to play this for many many 10's of times..

again thank you for your help.

i've been waiting to find something like this and free..!

[leparks]

It actually works quite well. I used it when my girlfriend accidentally died and it helped. Test it by seeing if you can bring up negative feelings about the person you disconnected.

Loren

[leparks]

I think it is OK. Do it until you feel nothing while thinking of them. Loren

[AwakenToYourTruth]

I had to do it for about 10 times before I could let that one go. He was my ex, and really did a number on me for 23 years.

Thanks.

[leparks]

Sometimes it takes persistence, but it's worth it! Loren

[debswildhoney]

I feel much more neutral and relieved. I favorited this video for continued therapy - I also gave it 5 stars.

[leparks]

It certainly works well for most.

I used i t when my belovedd girlfriend accidentally died. It helped.

Loren

[slick32]

I was sceptical of this video when i found it. But i was willing to try for the sake of my own sanity, and i can honestly say i feel more calm in myself, and no longer have this person draining all my energy. Many thanks

[ernestine7]

Yes, it really works for most people. Glad you were helped. Loren

[Balelot]

I am sorry for your loss! It has been a successful video for me, sometimes I have tried it many times for different people. It has been such a relief!! I can sleep better.

[leparks]

I used it on myself when my girlfriend recently died. It wasn't total, but it did help. I think it is one of the best videos I've made.

Loren

[Balelot]

It has excellent results. Thanks, thanks!

[leparks]

Do it again, one at a time. One disconnect may not do the job if you really want to disconnect.

Loren

[17allina17]

Strangly enough, i don't feel completely disconnected from the two man i buzzed off. Now i feel them loving and caring for me. Go figure :)

[leparks]

That's what is supposed to happen. Loren

[leparks]

Thanks for the report. Magic balloon really works, and so does disconnect from a person. You should function better now.

Loren

[starchildrevolt]

Because of the magic balloon exercise I had trouble feeling the negativity associated with the person who's hurt me the most. Now it's as though I barely remember what they look like or what they said that hurt me so much. I actually feel a little dumb like my brain was using so much space to work through this problem all of my life and now my brain doesn't know what to do. Amazing!

[leparks]

Yes, I've helped many with this problem. When hubby comes to pick up kids, they don't feel the rage. Glad you were helped.

Loren

[ago31421]

Hi Loren, really helpful to disconnect from my former husband.

[leparks]

Yes, that one works well for most people. Thanks for letting me know. Loren

[BradnTina]

Thank you! This is amazing and I'm grateful for the gift you have given me.

Tina

[leparks]

It's one of the m ore effective messag es.

Loren

[nadaoptima]

Thank you again. It's worked for me (at least for now) and I know it becouse I could think at the person and (for the first time) smile.

[wienchee]

Thank you for everything!

[L0ruth]

thanks

[leparks]

I told you not to do it unless you were sure you wanted it to be permanent.

[leparks]

I told you not to do it unless you were sure you wanted it to be permanent.

[leparks]

I have never tried a reverse. I warned you not to disconnect from anyone you may want to get back together with. Howeveer, it only disconnects upsets with that person. Nothing more.

Loren

[melxike]

Wow.. I just cant belive it. After disconecting i had no feelings for her anymore..

Thank you!

[leparks]

It really works for most people. I recommend you NOT do it for parents or anyone you might want to get back together with. However, it only disconnects the upsets so probably not contraindicated for others.

[ModeratelyNeatO]

This Video Really Helped... Thank You So Much!

[davfritz]

this guy is kind of amuseing, but i think he is right

[nikolica87bg]

this is very helpfull thanks!

[yaldaraz]

Thank you Loren, this video really works. That phone call we had also worked really well for me. I am no longer affected by my past. Thank you for all your help.

[jonathanungeroleary]

This is the third video i have watched from you....i feel the connection is gone....i find the buzzer sensation very abrasive, yet at the same time very essential! it is scary, and not scary at the same time. i want to thank you for your kind soul to do this to help people. for them to feel alive agian. yes, i know this video worked!

[Brat1232003]

this really worked for me......thank u so much

[leparks]

When you have such a reaction, your brother's past behaviour is still controlling you. You can't change what happened but you can disconnect from it--and stay away from him if possible. I suggest you play the video another time or two until the emotion is gone.

[Dalishika]

I have a huge grudge towards my elder brother due to the physical and mental abuse he put me through when I was younger. I tried this and the feelings arent all the way gone but it did seem to ease up. I still can't even stand to look at his name without feeling some anger or at least disgust.