Not favour,silly,unsocial, she loves & feels he s not good 4 her,then make gud 'cause u like him.We eat icecream in winter & drink hot water, to make good.U can make good but u cannot love whom u don't like. She says she hardly knew him, this is a true love (unconditional) which make u feel that u miss,when u condition love u say it's not good 4 u,don't change the person as said by guru but change the condition to feel good.If you follow guru u will feel 4 life time. Woman r creators of mankind.
@pritipatel0721 like the blind love you have on guriji & accepted his answer, simillarly have a blind love on the one whom you love and trust unconditionally, he will become good for you. Think good and create good in him. don't be blind. You should know the disciples of swami nitiyananda who accepted him blindly. Lots to quote. A Iceberg put in the water will hide most of its presence, similarly are human, gurus are no exception it is fate.
@iceknight99 Perhaps that is the course one has to take...sleep around and be promiscuous. It will hurt, but you will see the other side of the coin.
Sadly, we are afraid of being hurt and becoming 'unclean' by promiscuity. We can think about whether it makes us unclean and how we will deal with the hurt. (I am 29 and male, stating this because I think one's ability to cope with hurt generally increases with age )
@iceknight99 I think people folks flock to most Gurus for 'wisdom' so that they can stop hurting and make better decisions. However, I feel that it is cheating because its like asking for a cheat-sheet (or short-cut) to one's own lessons in life.
Do we learn from our experiences only? Don't we learn from books, from scientists, from parents, teachers, great achievers in their own fields? It matters when that book(ideas of one or more persons), or conversation actually affects your way of thinking, your outlook etc. That is what we call learning.
So why not a Guru? Guru means teacher, we have all met teachers, good or bad. So if you learn from a good teacher( Sadguru ), it's not a shortcut, it IS learning.
@lokenath123 Believe in guru but don't blindly believe in today's guru. We should understand that he is also a human, may be with some diff. Today's guru die only after they suffer from death bed but there are lots of people who go to bed comfortably but don't wake next morning, they are gifted.
@ShaolinHero1 woman should think long before decision but once taken should not change. If u think ure mind is wrong then intrapersonal conflict arise ie you are stranger to ure mind. You know smoking is injurious to health but you smoke because u are stranger to your mind. Don't change partner as u change your dress... not good.
@ayyamperumalr well I'm not interested in a game of semantics as you are. I can read between the lines. This is not my guru, not my teacher, not anything, but why should I question every word like you?? I think you just like to be the one who is right. You are trying to correct people here but nobody wants you to. Why don't you let people make up their own minds, and mind your own business!
@ShaolinHero1 the result of both is same. Don't be blind, finding diff. meaning for the words to justify. Find someone means you need another, not the one u love. get another one also means the same. If there is diff. explain........
The audience is plain silly and dumb... ready to laugh at any word that comes out of the 'Guruji's' mouth.
MsPalak69 1 month ago
@MsPalak69 Well, they look better laughing than they would complaining :-)
nakuldhawan 4 weeks ago 3
Not favour,silly,unsocial, she loves & feels he s not good 4 her,then make gud 'cause u like him.We eat icecream in winter & drink hot water, to make good.U can make good but u cannot love whom u don't like. She says she hardly knew him, this is a true love (unconditional) which make u feel that u miss,when u condition love u say it's not good 4 u,don't change the person as said by guru but change the condition to feel good.If you follow guru u will feel 4 life time. Woman r creators of mankind.
ayyamperumalr 1 month ago
i dont get it? ... huh oh well ... on to another
Demoness82 1 month ago
:D lyt ans to heavy question...!!!
siddyfriendsonly 2 months ago
Guruji's answer also gave me satisfaction. Maybe because I love Guruji soo much. And I trust him unconditionally
pritipatel0721 6 months ago
@pritipatel0721 like the blind love you have on guriji & accepted his answer, simillarly have a blind love on the one whom you love and trust unconditionally, he will become good for you. Think good and create good in him. don't be blind. You should know the disciples of swami nitiyananda who accepted him blindly. Lots to quote. A Iceberg put in the water will hide most of its presence, similarly are human, gurus are no exception it is fate.
ayyamperumalr 1 month ago
Guruji, Is this as simple as that? Move from person to person?
Thats why there is no grounding and lot of promiscuity and jumping from one ship to another.
iceknight99 1 year ago
@iceknight99 Perhaps that is the course one has to take...sleep around and be promiscuous. It will hurt, but you will see the other side of the coin.
Sadly, we are afraid of being hurt and becoming 'unclean' by promiscuity. We can think about whether it makes us unclean and how we will deal with the hurt. (I am 29 and male, stating this because I think one's ability to cope with hurt generally increases with age )
cosmic248 10 months ago
@iceknight99 I think people folks flock to most Gurus for 'wisdom' so that they can stop hurting and make better decisions. However, I feel that it is cheating because its like asking for a cheat-sheet (or short-cut) to one's own lessons in life.
cosmic248 10 months ago
@cosmic248
Do we learn from our experiences only? Don't we learn from books, from scientists, from parents, teachers, great achievers in their own fields? It matters when that book(ideas of one or more persons), or conversation actually affects your way of thinking, your outlook etc. That is what we call learning.
So why not a Guru? Guru means teacher, we have all met teachers, good or bad. So if you learn from a good teacher( Sadguru ), it's not a shortcut, it IS learning.
lokenath123 4 months ago 2
@lokenath123 Believe in guru but don't blindly believe in today's guru. We should understand that he is also a human, may be with some diff. Today's guru die only after they suffer from death bed but there are lots of people who go to bed comfortably but don't wake next morning, they are gifted.
ayyamperumalr 1 month ago
@ayyamperumalr Read what I have written.I have not said one word about 'believing'.I have said 'learning'.I don't believe,I learn.
Belief is always 'blind'.So I find it funny that you say 'don't blindly believe'.What should I believe in then?
Don't know what sense your dying in suffering and sleep means!
lokenath123 1 month ago
@iceknight99
My dear, I was there and he said what i needed to hear that day!
In fact he said "Wait till you find somebody else!..
The real stranger to us is not somebody but our own mind"
So, till you wait for somebody else get to know your mind! ;)
If you got hurt,take care of yourself,meditate,listen to knowledge,
become a better human being,dedicate sometime to service!
Listen it again..He didn't said to go into promiscuity!
Now i clearly see i needed to became Love to i met her! :)
TrueWealth108 8 months ago 2
@iceknight99 He said "wait" to find someone, not "get" another one ;)
ShaolinHero1 4 months ago
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kumbharshrikant84 3 months ago
@kumbharshrikant84 Let go. Someone better will come along when you let go of your attatchments to the wrong people
ShaolinHero1 3 months ago
@ShaolinHero1 woman should think long before decision but once taken should not change. If u think ure mind is wrong then intrapersonal conflict arise ie you are stranger to ure mind. You know smoking is injurious to health but you smoke because u are stranger to your mind. Don't change partner as u change your dress... not good.
ayyamperumalr 1 month ago
@ayyamperumalr well I'm not interested in a game of semantics as you are. I can read between the lines. This is not my guru, not my teacher, not anything, but why should I question every word like you?? I think you just like to be the one who is right. You are trying to correct people here but nobody wants you to. Why don't you let people make up their own minds, and mind your own business!
ShaolinHero1 1 month ago
@ShaolinHero1 the result of both is same. Don't be blind, finding diff. meaning for the words to justify. Find someone means you need another, not the one u love. get another one also means the same. If there is diff. explain........
ayyamperumalr 1 month ago