its not hard being white and liking asians at my school, 70% of the people at my school are some kind of asian. so its easy to find a cute asian boy, but they all seem so shy, when i know their not! some people think its because they find white girls intimidating do asian guys actually find white girls intimidating?i have tried other methods like with alot of guys i've liked if i talk to them first they stop being so eh. i think guys in general are just eh sometimes when it comes to girls lol.
You are awesome! I agree..I'm like.. dude ask me out! If you can't approach me, you're not worth my time. I like a guy who is respectful but he has to be confident enough.
I always wait for the guy to make the first move, and most girls are like that. Oh and there's only been two times in my life when it was creepy... one was in Victoria's r CSecret and the other was when this random guy was like "Hey, I see you're doing calculus homework. You know I wish I was your calc homework... because then I'd be really hard and you'd be doing me on your desk..." WTF?
i am a type of person that is part shy but mostly outgoing, so i would approach the guy, if i wasn't with my parents.... *cough* then i cant approach them at all :/
I prefer the guy to approach me, mainly because I'm shy too. So guy, save your time thinking about the "what ifs" and just approach the girl. :D It is creepy though if a guy is like stalking you around or something... XD
I'm a white girl and I find Asian guy really hot but most of them are really shy >< and sometimes it would be nice if they would come up to other white girls~ I don't know why people think that Asian guy cant get white girls :/ because there are a lot of white girls that love them but we get the impression that Asian guys don't like white girls because they don't come up to us :( but I think they should be more confident and give it a go~ :D
If you get dumped by a guy/girl it's mostly not your fault, You probably went with this person because you expected something, maybe a relationship or something like that. And only had good intentions with this person.
Feelings are often blind, and you cannot forsee what's coming in the future, so take risks, but at least TRY to not get yourself hurt! <3
(hope you get my message here, my grammar isn't the best) /Swedish girl.
Well one way to make an approach to a girl that's NOT creepy is to just casually glance at her (not like a "checking you out" kind of glace), and if she catches you looking at her, then smile at her (and not like a "pedo-face" smile). xD At least this lets her know that you find her attractive, that way, when you actually talk to her, she already gets the idea that you like her. :)
shooooot, when i first saw my boyfriend, he was shy and akward, and had the goofiest laugh. but i thought it was so cute. we're still together today, one and a half years later. nice guys rule!
And honestly...I dont get how assholes get girls in the first place...>__< I think the girls are just missing a piece from their brain or something. I mean cant they tell when a guy is being well...you get my point. I think girls should not go into a relationship with eyes closed and expect to be the perfect, prince charming they dream of. That is NOT going to happen. I think girls hold more expectations for their partner than the guy does for his. Does anyone agree with this?
I am am picky when it comes to liking a guy. I really prefer a guy to be kind and respectful to a girl. I cant stand it when a guy tries to flirt, especially when they are cheesy!>__< I think the guy should be the first one to approach a girl...I dont know why, its just I like it that way Maybe it shows that the guy is a real man and has confidence in himself and is taking the initiative to ask you out himself. I think guys should just be themselves--of course in a nice way!
well... i do prefer a guy aproaching because if left to me, nothing will ever happen. I'm so ^#%$* shy and kind of awkward. It would be fine if the guy was calm and normal, but I would find it very creepy if the dude was too flurtacious as in if he was obviosly a player trying to act smooth anf feeding me cheesy lines. I dont really know though. Don't have much experience
Theres a guy I met last year at German competition and I basically did the same thing as you but I actually saw him again and may be able to see him one more time before I graduate and I wanna talk to him but I don't really know ... I need advice lol
I've never approached a guy before. I'm very awkward when meeting new people and I'm shy -.- so, yea, scared to do that. But I don't like it when a guy approaches me around his friends, while they're watching. It just feels like I'm a joke to them.
I'm the shyish type of girl so i wouldnt just randomly go up to a guy and flirt. But it depends on his approach, if he's nice i'll return the favor. But a big turn-off is constantly trying to talk to me a lot and a lot of touching too. We need our space and not all girls like to be touched! For me, the best way meeting a decent guy would him just saying hi and small talk then work from there. Just simple smiles from afar are fine. Most girls define 'creepers' as stalkers. Give girls some space!
ok if I was in a situation with a cute guy i would have aproched them as long as they make their first move Now if its was a creeper I would have probly go to a different seat or punch the guy in the face if they tryed to touch me
Sooo true! I mean it can't hurt to ask. So often we're standing around just WAITING for the guy to make a move. General consensus is that approaching a guy first is bad for his ego/confidence and therefore bad for any type of relationship so...yeah. As for how to approach, just be honest and down to earth and it won't be creepy. Also, make eye contact, flash her a smile. They way she responds will normally tell you if she's interested.
Sooo true! I mean it can't hurt to ask. So often we're standing around just WAITING for the guy to make a move. General consensus is that approaching a guy first is bad for his ego/confidence and therefore bad for any type of relationship so...yeah. As for how to approach, just be honest and down to earth and it won't be creepy. Also, make eye contact, flash her a smile. They way she responds will normally tell you if she's interested.
Sooo true! I mean it can't hurt to ask. So often we're standing around just WAITING for the guy to make a move. General consensus is that approaching a guy first is bad for his ego/confidence and therefore bad for any type of relationship so...yeah. As for how to approach, just be honest and down to earth and it won't be creepy. Also, make eye contact, flash her a smile. They way she responds will normally tell you if she's interested.
I have the biggest crush on this geeky dude in my class but yeah I'm waiting for him to approach me. I've considered approaching him but he's so shy and quiet I'm afraid I'll scare him off LOL.
I like the kind of quiet yet intelligent gentleman. I mean, I'd prefer to date someone I know of if I'm asked out get to know you as a friend first. But I always find it sad when a very nice guy like a girl but never says anything or hints at it. Because, face it, if you don't tell it to us straight, well... chances are we won't realize you like us. Or we may find someone else were interested in.
i love those shy gentleman type guys and i would love to date with a nice handsome guy who some day may askes me to be his gf and we take is a bit more slow (where are they? huh?)..but today it always happens so fast,you get to know some new guy via your friends and you talk to him ,both know that you like each othe and than you kiss and then both wonder, are we now a cuple or not? and actualy you don't realy know a thing about that person. GUYS if you like a girl just ask her nicely.
@CaroKrabbenburger same!!!! last week my friend met a guy because of a dare to put her number under his door, the next day they met up and started being gf and bf after a day of knowing each other!
i wish relationships would just be fun and realxing instead of everything going too quickly, it really puts me off relationships!
lol im a girl n i get tht feelin too... except im still lik young so if i approached someone random it wud b weird. i see this guy around my age around once every 3 weeks cuz it seems lik i think we tak the same subway. either way im strangely attracted but id nevr hav the guts to EVER approach him... ahh shit happens :P
I love starting off a relationship not based on friendship, but based on first attraction. It's the funnest relationship, everything is so new and amazing. I love that feeling. Those usually don't last long, or end in endless arguments, but hey it was fun! The idea of a handsome man coming up to me and telling me he had to talk to me because he was afraid he wouldnt see me again is so sweet, unfortunately the only guys that ever do that to me are creeps! and no I was not hit with the ugly stick!
I'm not the sort of girl that finds it normal to approach a guy I don't know and be like "Hey..." (yes I realize I probably set back feminism by like a hundred years) It makes it totally frustrating when you can tell a guy likes you and wants to say something and never does. What's more annoying are the guys that do, and they're like "Yo! Can I get your number?" which means they have no manners. What I'm saying is the next time you think a girl is cute approach her and do it like a gentleman^^*
It's creepy when a guy walks up to you an ask you out or wants ur number----just doesn't seem like a normal thing to do:/ And girls so tend to want guy to make the first move but she'll drop hints :P since accient time, well not really, girls wil never make the first move. lol we'll be to nervous and just start acting a tiny bit weird but for guys being weird is normal XD kinda
Almost the same thing happened to me like 2 years ago in an amusement park... Yes, I got over it and forgot his look few days after that. LOL For your questions, I haven't approached the guy first because I was too shy. Look doesn't matter when a guy approaches me and if I'm not attracted by him I might just have found a friend! If you ever approach a girl I'd say act normally...What creeps me out is when it's obvious he approached just for THAT something and without any real interest in me.
(Without my glasses on) Girl: Hey. (Have a small conversation or don't even talk to me at all)
(With my glasses on) Girs: You look soo hot ;) ..(O_o)
I don't get it... like I enjoy it to a certain extent, but well you know I don't always wear my glasses and I still don't understand females... I guess I never will :\
I want the guy to make the first move! lol im too scared to ask him myself...It doesn't really matter how they look, just how they say it...Like if a hot guy says it all snobby like he'll get rejected, but if a shy nerdy guy says it all nice and is embarassed (in a cute way:3) then yeah it'll probably work...This video is SUPER FUNNY:D
@Nerdie4Life 1st love the name and agreed wtf y would a guy do that and say he doesnt like u?? Maybe he does but wouldn't wanna say it and if he's a friend maybe he doesn't wanna loose u cause he doesn't know ur feelings (if he doesn't know) and too every girl out there if a guy is ur friend and he likes u but doesn't ask u out he's afraid he would loose u as a friend and then make u feel awkward
@WitchMeVideo omg really 12 I'm in high skool now and yea it would be weird if a stranger just asked u out cause u know nothing bout them and then they wanna go out with. And some girls wait for the guy and some don't me personally I would be in between
i'm shy and wait to be approached first. ugly or attractive = neither is creepy. unless the person is beyond an appropriate age. it's not a sin to be ugly! lol
There's always a quote that comes to mind when it comes to talkin to guys
No matter how old I get
"When I'm with a boy I like, it's hard for me to say anything cool, or, or witty, or at all. I-I can usually make a few vowel sounds, and then I have to go away."
yeah theres some truth to that..when attractive guys come up and talk to u its not creepy but when ugly guys come up and talk to u, it is. not to be a bitch but just to let u all know
@B1A4banaFOREVER No worries, I actually didn't see it like that, just wanted to put my two cents in haha. And I couldn't help but read those previous posts, but nice to see a fellow K Pop fan lol
in my opinion, tottaly agree with u. boys should make the first move. u know why?simple :) bcz they're BOYS lol thats all! ps girls r shy so ofcourse they wont start it. well not all girls r shy.. but yeah im shy..ps u know it from her feelings about u.. so if she acts diff when shes with u, then boy she likes u :) go for it!! just do it & go ask her out~ dun end up regreting it in the end,, it wont help! dun end up like Taeyang in his song 'wedding dress' xD
LOL it matters how they act, if they're acting creepy, then it's creepy. But otherwise I'd be flattered. Sometimes I'm mad embarrassed but if a guy likes me, then come tell me because I won't be making any moves, it's worth the try haha :)
Actually, unless you're going meeting girls by random, girls actually make the first move most of the time. Not an actual 'move', so to speak, but she will often indirectly (body language, etc) tell the boy to come to her.
I had a crush on someone in high school, and had help from my male friends to see what he thought about going to prom with me. I was too shy to ask him myself. I ended up getting told that he didn't even want to go to prom, so I asked one of my male friends if he wanted to go with me instead. To my surprise, he accepted, and I had a really fun time and hung out with him more. In the end, I started to like him, talked to him more and gave him hints that I wanted to spend time with him, and he be
DUDE I hate how no guys but the not so hot ones are brave. I mean, I like the shy nerdy guys, theyre freakin hot at my school. I like asian guys too. Guys, I approched a shy nerdy guy and asked him to sadie hawkins, his reaction was no, i cant dance. -_- ALL YOU SHY NERDY GUYS NEED TO STEP IT UP!!!! - A real girl
yeah ill talk to them ill just be funny beause aprently every person i ever talked to comes to the conclusion that im funny so might as well get a laugh out of him i guess lol
Hahaha fuckness dude lol ur funny! Lol the creepiest way for a guy to ask a girl out is by acting like you want to sleep with her or to stare down every flaw if a guy did that to me my reaction will be freaked out...
As long as the guy has something to say, It's nice fro them to come talk to us. If you make an observation, or like a joke, it's all good, but if your just like "hi" I'm gonna get a little creeped out
Well, it's creepy when the guy...Acts creepy-like? It's not creepy when the guy is just acting casual. Or if he's blushing, because the cuteness of guys blushing is like a creepiness terminator xD
I'm usually just friends with guys. But there were a few guys who told me they liked me, but over strange ways. One of them had ther friend who I never met tell me over a text. Another one told me in my yearbook. And the third one told me over a calculator... Yes, a calculator.
@simsvideoshahaha hahah man I´ve been trough the same thing! .. not exactly tho but the "my friend likes me but don´t have the curage to say it".. My friend told me trough a chat on MSN.. afterwards I found out that the entire class knew (yes he went in my class)
i wait for a guy and i dont care care hoe the looks i care how he treats me and how acts its okay to approach us grils this girl at my school came up to my friend guy and said i like you your eyes i didnt same it was a dare to ay hi to a dude but i said hi your hot see you later lol.
I put off telling the guy I liked how I felt, and then a month before I was going to tell him he moved. I regretted it so much because two years later I told him I liked him, and he said that we could have gone out if he still lived there. The moral of my story is don't be shy, and tell that person that you like them instead of worrying what will happen because if the person rejects you then they are not what you need in your life therefore the experience opens your heart to other guys.
Nah I'm a guy and I never approach any girls, I don't really care I mean I want to have sex with them but I know they don't want to. I'd only approach a girl if it was an Asian K-pop star Like SNSD or Kara. Btw nice Run devil Run poster :)
Make it natural. Go up to her, start up a conversation, ask for her name, then her no. But honestly, yes, if he's unattractive I'd find it creepy. But still, just be as warm and friendly as possible.
Yep sorry but that's true if the guy is hot or hot to the person then of course it's not creepy but if he's ugly or ugly to the person then it's really really creepy-_-
just be like..... and just do it! lol. im a girl and i hes ugly its creepy cuz ur not attracted to them but if a really hot guy just came up and talked to me in the mall i would definatly talk. i find where i love and this is really sad but u find the cutetest guys in mcdonalds here!
Well every guy who asked me out was Fuckin Ugly!!! My old school was full of a bunch of MoFo's but I moved to Arizona and OMG all the guys are H.A.W.T. When I was new to the school the principal let this cute guy show me around :D we talked every day then we bacame friends then we became best friends then had feelings for eachother so I just asked him out and he said yes :D I was suprised at my self because I'm a VERY SHY person =X
Just curious, but are you into non-Asian girls at all? I seem to have this problem where Asian guys won't approach me, but it's typically because a) they just aren't into me, or b) they're interested, but are far too shy to say anything. So, are you personally attracted to non-Asian girls?
Usually I wait for a guy to approach me, but as a White girl attracted to asian males I've found that I've had to start approaching them. I end up feeling the same way though. Im nervous and I always tell myself oh I'll wait till next time. I finally grew some lady balls and talked to the boy I like who goes to the same university as me. I can't really tell if he likes me or not because he's really shy, but its worth a shot!
"If a guy is hot, it's not creepy. If a guy is ugly, it's creepy." <-- I think that's true and that's why some guys don't approach girls, because they think they are ugly (therefore creepy). At least, that's what I think.
I have never asked a girl out on a date. I have never actually found someone that's worth getting my balls all sweaty of nervousness to ask the friking bitch. I just like to believe that love at 1st sight bullshit.
Honestly, i'd like if a guy made the first move. I'm waaay to nervous to ask a guy. And i think it's right for a guy to make the first move. A situation where it's creepy is if theres a majorly huge age difference and the guy is really... pushy. Like seriously, just leave us alone. and if the guy like.. tries holding your hand or making out with you when you first meet.. like.. Seriously? An okay situation is if the guy's nice.. and confient, but not.. better-than-everyone confident. haha yeeh:P
I'm the type of girl who approaches guys. Haha, when I want something, I go out and I get it, so it's the same for guys. But I think it's refreshing when a guy approaches me for once, because it feels good to know that I was cute enough or pretty enough or whatever for them to come and talk to me :D
im girl and would approach the guy if i really really like him, i wouldn't mind, in fact it would be fun like trying to hunt down something haha. and yea it's annoying when guys go wimpy, girls know when a guy has even the slight interest in them, and when they don't do nothing, it might be just that they don't like you enough. in a way it is easy to please girls if you can get over with it
@amu3331 Well mabye for you I never got a clue abouth when a boy likes me bacuse I live in Sweden and the boys just thinks it's funny to tell me that they like me becuse I'm not the popular girl so now I just think that everybody is making fun of me...
I like a guy to approach me because im so shy. I prefer the guy to be atleast average or cute but if they are like hella fugly then like we can be friends but nothing more.(ussualy i fall for male bestfriends)
I like how all the chicks are saying guys should approach since their insecure and shy. The guys all feel that way at first, they have to get over that every single time they want to ask a chick out and they get rejected most of the time. Just guess how that feels.
A random guy approaching... I would be kind of touched...
But don't say stuff like "Nice ass"... I've had that one and it pissed me off... Also... Don't send your friends to tell. When a girl hear "That guy thinks you're cute" they will walk away.
it is only okay to approch a girl when u no she is around ur age caz most guyz just be acting like perv all heavy breathing saing ( u look nice baby) and i am the 1 person who says
(when the hellz did i become ur baby and back the fu*k up homeboy caz homey dont play dat)
there's not really any guy i have a crush on. but i wouldn't mind if a guy approached me. as long as he's not an idiot and is the same race as me (asian) since i'm not allowed to date other guys :L in all honesty, even if a guy i didn't want to go out with asked me out i still wouldn't mind. in fact, i'd feel happy cause if a guy had to guts to talk to me it makes me feel good about myself xD
im a girl and the guy made the first move. all was going well, we loved eachother, etc. he wanted to keep it a secret though......i have no idea why......and we went out for 6 weeks. this happened last year, and i just found out that he was paid to go out with me. he never loved me, and i still love him.
Wow, I really hope you´ll meet her again so you can gather your corage and speak to her ~ ! Well, for me it doesn´t really matter. I could approach a guy, he could approach me. :)
lawls, lookin at some of these comments saying they need a friend(s) there to ask a guy out sounds like they work better in groups, gotta have that team back up, which is cool but if you go to ask a chick out and they got a group of friends, that just makes that shit so much harder lol, well if you give a shit bout the possible outcome, like if she says yes and then you gotta deal with her little friends for mounths on end because they are up each others ass all hte time, can get old =\ oh well.
lol if you think your then s*** then you are the s***.honestly i think the guy should ask me first just because im really shy and probably wont ask him lol
i think guys should always make the first move...but lets say he doesnt know you like him, then the girl should flirt just a tiny bit so then he knows xD
it doesnt really matter how he approaches you, just no cat calling, or creepiness. for example, one time i was at the mall, and this random dude starting FOLLOWING ME. like, it was creepy! it wasnt like just a bit to say hi or something, like, the whole time i was there kind of following! gahh, guys--please dont stalk and im sure you'll be fine
@bespeckledbunny Yea guys should always make the first move that way the girl never gets hurt. Wow you suck then you complain about then stalking you. No u really suck!
@papertreegun Yea, idk why people would complain about someone stalking them. It's not like it's an invasion of privacy, illegal, or a crime...oh wait it is. I guess @bespeckledbunny isn't the one who sucks then, is she?
I'd like it if a guy approached me because I'd always think that guys would look at you weird if you made the first move. I'm a girl btw. and girls might think that guys should make the first move, because they think the guy they're attracted to is out of their league. that's how I felt when i saw this super cute guy at the mall.
It doesn't really depend on looks as much as the way the guy approaches me. Creepy Example: The other day I was eating lunch and this guy sitting at the table next to me goes "HEY! HEY! Hey honeyyy! Hey honnneyyy!!"
Not creepy example: I'm at college and someone in my class begins talking to me about an upcoming test then asks if we could study together in the library.
@papertreegun LOL actually I've never had a bf SO THERE!! =P I was just giving my opinion. I am a girl and therefore I have the authority to speak on this subject. Your reply was very well thought out and intelligent and I do applaud you for that, but how about we try using our words to encourage people instead of tear them down? We're not in 2nd grade are we? Also idk if I've ever even met a 5' guy. =)
@bespeckledbunny Thank you for your concern. I don't get offended by insults like his, I actually had a good laugh. Don't be hurt by people like him, they're just trolling. =)
i don't know if it's just me but i've had a lot of random ppl come up and talk to me and it actually turns out that the ppl i thought were the most awkwardest are the ppl that are really amazing--so either way i think that i would be just as afraid to talk to a guy
it actually takes me a long time to talk to guys i like so i really admire ppl that have the confidence to can do that
Guys think that girls should make the first move but us girls are really insecure on the inside, we fear rejection, and we get rejected a LOT more than guys do.
I think it can be creepy when its noticeable the guy lacks confidence in himself, flirts/asks at the wrong time or is one of those touchy foes! Like many girls if the guy is cute its okay but love isn't based on looks.
Its so cool to see when a guy has the guts to ask you out or even flirt but sometimes all they need is to show who they really are and that will make them worth dating. Ive been flirted at but never dated anyone (I'm 16) but I would like a guy who will be himself and respect me!
What's creepy is having some COMPLETELY random guy at ur school come up behind you, hug u by the waist, pull u in & and ask you out... O_o like seriously, who the fuck does tht?!?! Sad thing tho, i didn't get a good look at his face, so i said no... Later on i asked my friends, who were there, wat his name was, and i looked for him...turns out...i just rejected a really cute guy -____- FML
@soffiejj Aww lol woww, yeahh the guy i hav a crush on hugs me frm behind alot ;D so i thought he likes me, but just like 6 days ago, he was hugging me and he tld me "Hey, just so we're clear..we aren't gonna be dating anytime soon.." -___- im like wtf, why u hugging me like this thn?!?! :\
its not hard being white and liking asians at my school, 70% of the people at my school are some kind of asian. so its easy to find a cute asian boy, but they all seem so shy, when i know their not! some people think its because they find white girls intimidating do asian guys actually find white girls intimidating?i have tried other methods like with alot of guys i've liked if i talk to them first they stop being so eh. i think guys in general are just eh sometimes when it comes to girls lol.
skullcandyluver9 20 hours ago
are you fucking wearing lipstick?
upload11 1 day ago
omggg the same happened to me :')
karuymaru 1 day ago
i got a nice guy and i love the shits out of him D: 030410 ;)
LienhhlovessyhuuXx 4 days ago
i met once a girl -.-
had a crush for her >.>
after a time she stoped talking to me n idk why>.>
n i cant get rid of her-.-
+1 for the nice guyz part
Axelz58 5 days ago
i say guys, go for it :D
addictdisarray 5 days ago
lol well she likes pepsi! that narrows it down to like a few billion people? xD
0bstinacy 5 days ago 3
C": You're adorable. I hope you run into that girl again someday.
blitzzers 5 days ago
You are awesome! I agree..I'm like.. dude ask me out! If you can't approach me, you're not worth my time. I like a guy who is respectful but he has to be confident enough.
Shizznickel 5 days ago 2
I always wait for the guy to make the first move, and most girls are like that. Oh and there's only been two times in my life when it was creepy... one was in Victoria's r CSecret and the other was when this random guy was like "Hey, I see you're doing calculus homework. You know I wish I was your calc homework... because then I'd be really hard and you'd be doing me on your desk..." WTF?
ARIAJEON 5 days ago
i am a type of person that is part shy but mostly outgoing, so i would approach the guy, if i wasn't with my parents.... *cough* then i cant approach them at all :/
megashellybelly123 6 days ago
I'll grab lunch with you!!!!
CoconutSandwich 1 week ago
I prefer the guy to approach me, mainly because I'm shy too. So guy, save your time thinking about the "what ifs" and just approach the girl. :D It is creepy though if a guy is like stalking you around or something... XD
wearekpopluvers 1 week ago 2
I'm a white girl and I find Asian guy really hot but most of them are really shy >< and sometimes it would be nice if they would come up to other white girls~ I don't know why people think that Asian guy cant get white girls :/ because there are a lot of white girls that love them but we get the impression that Asian guys don't like white girls because they don't come up to us :( but I think they should be more confident and give it a go~ :D
oOBoWcHaNOo 1 week ago 15
@oOBoWcHaNOo
ahahha my cousin thinks that white girls at his college dont like asians. but trust me hes NOT shy
B2stsB2uty 2 days ago
@oOBoWcHaNOo Black girls too!!!
MaxichaChan 1 day ago
For me, I'm completely flattered when any guy takes the time to talk to me.
Guys, just go for it.
You have absolutely nothing to lose and might just gain something out of it.
MiseriWay 1 week ago
oh my god it was meeeeeeee XDDDDD
TaIeuKyuMin 1 week ago
I Prefer guys to approach me ..If your'e my type I be nice to you " ugly " we can be friends .I'm like super shy though .. ♥♥
malikadiamond 1 week ago
If you get dumped by a guy/girl it's mostly not your fault, You probably went with this person because you expected something, maybe a relationship or something like that. And only had good intentions with this person.
Feelings are often blind, and you cannot forsee what's coming in the future, so take risks, but at least TRY to not get yourself hurt! <3
(hope you get my message here, my grammar isn't the best) /Swedish girl.
Sashaa94 1 week ago
Well one way to make an approach to a girl that's NOT creepy is to just casually glance at her (not like a "checking you out" kind of glace), and if she catches you looking at her, then smile at her (and not like a "pedo-face" smile). xD At least this lets her know that you find her attractive, that way, when you actually talk to her, she already gets the idea that you like her. :)
xXAnimeAznXx 1 week ago
shooooot, when i first saw my boyfriend, he was shy and akward, and had the goofiest laugh. but i thought it was so cute. we're still together today, one and a half years later. nice guys rule!
heririswing 1 week ago
*expect the guy to be the
Sorry my bad>__<
YukiMigoto 1 week ago
And honestly...I dont get how assholes get girls in the first place...>__< I think the girls are just missing a piece from their brain or something. I mean cant they tell when a guy is being well...you get my point. I think girls should not go into a relationship with eyes closed and expect to be the perfect, prince charming they dream of. That is NOT going to happen. I think girls hold more expectations for their partner than the guy does for his. Does anyone agree with this?
YukiMigoto 1 week ago 2
I am am picky when it comes to liking a guy. I really prefer a guy to be kind and respectful to a girl. I cant stand it when a guy tries to flirt, especially when they are cheesy!>__< I think the guy should be the first one to approach a girl...I dont know why, its just I like it that way Maybe it shows that the guy is a real man and has confidence in himself and is taking the initiative to ask you out himself. I think guys should just be themselves--of course in a nice way!
YukiMigoto 1 week ago
Well for me if I find a guy attractive I look at him or smile at him, then don't hesitate just walk up to whoever looked at u and say hey.
11dotcom111 2 weeks ago
well... i do prefer a guy aproaching because if left to me, nothing will ever happen. I'm so ^#%$* shy and kind of awkward. It would be fine if the guy was calm and normal, but I would find it very creepy if the dude was too flurtacious as in if he was obviosly a player trying to act smooth anf feeding me cheesy lines. I dont really know though. Don't have much experience
alerq 2 weeks ago
A guy approaching you is very attractive..because it shows he is confident which is sexy
haneul2310 2 weeks ago
Theres a guy I met last year at German competition and I basically did the same thing as you but I actually saw him again and may be able to see him one more time before I graduate and I wanna talk to him but I don't really know ... I need advice lol
dweajitokki 2 weeks ago
I've never approached a guy before. I'm very awkward when meeting new people and I'm shy -.- so, yea, scared to do that. But I don't like it when a guy approaches me around his friends, while they're watching. It just feels like I'm a joke to them.
Jen321able 2 weeks ago
i'm to shy to talk to some guys ... but i like asian guys much
maybe i would talk to them when they look nice and they laugh but i don't know what to say ...
exoWhatIsLove 2 weeks ago
I'm the shyish type of girl so i wouldnt just randomly go up to a guy and flirt. But it depends on his approach, if he's nice i'll return the favor. But a big turn-off is constantly trying to talk to me a lot and a lot of touching too. We need our space and not all girls like to be touched! For me, the best way meeting a decent guy would him just saying hi and small talk then work from there. Just simple smiles from afar are fine. Most girls define 'creepers' as stalkers. Give girls some space!
ATLL0VR 3 weeks ago
ok if I was in a situation with a cute guy i would have aproched them as long as they make their first move Now if its was a creeper I would have probly go to a different seat or punch the guy in the face if they tryed to touch me
lizzy1242 3 weeks ago
i have a legit excuse though, my penis is small
A3znqaey 3 weeks ago
lol i like how its says "Bro Talk" yet im pretty sure these are mostly girl comments...
DubuLoving 3 weeks ago 3
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Sooo true! I mean it can't hurt to ask. So often we're standing around just WAITING for the guy to make a move. General consensus is that approaching a guy first is bad for his ego/confidence and therefore bad for any type of relationship so...yeah. As for how to approach, just be honest and down to earth and it won't be creepy. Also, make eye contact, flash her a smile. They way she responds will normally tell you if she's interested.
kurarisusa 4 weeks ago
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Sooo true! I mean it can't hurt to ask. So often we're standing around just WAITING for the guy to make a move. General consensus is that approaching a guy first is bad for his ego/confidence and therefore bad for any type of relationship so...yeah. As for how to approach, just be honest and down to earth and it won't be creepy. Also, make eye contact, flash her a smile. They way she responds will normally tell you if she's interested.
kurarisusa 4 weeks ago
Sooo true! I mean it can't hurt to ask. So often we're standing around just WAITING for the guy to make a move. General consensus is that approaching a guy first is bad for his ego/confidence and therefore bad for any type of relationship so...yeah. As for how to approach, just be honest and down to earth and it won't be creepy. Also, make eye contact, flash her a smile. They way she responds will normally tell you if she's interested.
kurarisusa 4 weeks ago
with all the free porn out there today, im not suprised that alot of young teens have alot of problems asking a girl out.
theory816 4 weeks ago
I have the biggest crush on this geeky dude in my class but yeah I'm waiting for him to approach me. I've considered approaching him but he's so shy and quiet I'm afraid I'll scare him off LOL.
numbuh53 1 month ago
I like the kind of quiet yet intelligent gentleman. I mean, I'd prefer to date someone I know of if I'm asked out get to know you as a friend first. But I always find it sad when a very nice guy like a girl but never says anything or hints at it. Because, face it, if you don't tell it to us straight, well... chances are we won't realize you like us. Or we may find someone else were interested in.
Sadat410 1 month ago
i love those shy gentleman type guys and i would love to date with a nice handsome guy who some day may askes me to be his gf and we take is a bit more slow (where are they? huh?)..but today it always happens so fast,you get to know some new guy via your friends and you talk to him ,both know that you like each othe and than you kiss and then both wonder, are we now a cuple or not? and actualy you don't realy know a thing about that person. GUYS if you like a girl just ask her nicely.
CaroKrabbenburger 1 month ago 2
@CaroKrabbenburger same!!!! last week my friend met a guy because of a dare to put her number under his door, the next day they met up and started being gf and bf after a day of knowing each other!
i wish relationships would just be fun and realxing instead of everything going too quickly, it really puts me off relationships!
rosiep16 4 weeks ago
If the guy acts like a gentleman, it isn't creepy but instead very flattering.
If he's drunk as fuck and has a weird look on his face and obviously is trying to get in your pants, it's creepy. Simple. =D
tatteredwing 1 month ago 2
LOL U R TOO FUNNY OMG OMG
salangAsia4do 1 month ago
You just described what happened to me only it was like six months and he never asked me out. Guys just need to ask I mean come on, at least try!
Seraphia93 1 month ago
Well,it's creepy when a guy approaches you,that you don't know,hugs and says,"I like your shirt."(He's my stalker now,btw.)
MemoriaPerierunt 1 month ago
lol im a girl n i get tht feelin too... except im still lik young so if i approached someone random it wud b weird. i see this guy around my age around once every 3 weeks cuz it seems lik i think we tak the same subway. either way im strangely attracted but id nevr hav the guts to EVER approach him... ahh shit happens :P
yijunwang98 1 month ago
I love starting off a relationship not based on friendship, but based on first attraction. It's the funnest relationship, everything is so new and amazing. I love that feeling. Those usually don't last long, or end in endless arguments, but hey it was fun! The idea of a handsome man coming up to me and telling me he had to talk to me because he was afraid he wouldnt see me again is so sweet, unfortunately the only guys that ever do that to me are creeps! and no I was not hit with the ugly stick!
oasissmc 1 month ago
RUN DEVIL RUN SNSD POSTER FOR THE WIN
mangabouy 1 month ago
I'm not the sort of girl that finds it normal to approach a guy I don't know and be like "Hey..." (yes I realize I probably set back feminism by like a hundred years) It makes it totally frustrating when you can tell a guy likes you and wants to say something and never does. What's more annoying are the guys that do, and they're like "Yo! Can I get your number?" which means they have no manners. What I'm saying is the next time you think a girl is cute approach her and do it like a gentleman^^*
QueenBea91 1 month ago
It's creepy when a guy walks up to you an ask you out or wants ur number----just doesn't seem like a normal thing to do:/ And girls so tend to want guy to make the first move but she'll drop hints :P since accient time, well not really, girls wil never make the first move. lol we'll be to nervous and just start acting a tiny bit weird but for guys being weird is normal XD kinda
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Bad boys get laid
Nice boys get ladies
HugoMadizon 1 month ago 68
@HugoMadizon THAT IS SOOOOOOOOOO TRUELOL
Candygirl3084 1 month ago
Almost the same thing happened to me like 2 years ago in an amusement park... Yes, I got over it and forgot his look few days after that. LOL For your questions, I haven't approached the guy first because I was too shy. Look doesn't matter when a guy approaches me and if I'm not attracted by him I might just have found a friend! If you ever approach a girl I'd say act normally...What creeps me out is when it's obvious he approached just for THAT something and without any real interest in me.
happywbfff 1 month ago
i was drinking a slushie n when it got to the ending i couldnt hold it in and i ended up spraying it all over my key board -_- lol XD
AlexCupCakeXD 1 month ago
(Without my glasses on) Girl: Hey. (Have a small conversation or don't even talk to me at all)
(With my glasses on) Girs: You look soo hot ;) ..(O_o)
I don't get it... like I enjoy it to a certain extent, but well you know I don't always wear my glasses and I still don't understand females... I guess I never will :\
GiftedFatal 1 month ago
I want the guy to make the first move! lol im too scared to ask him myself...It doesn't really matter how they look, just how they say it...Like if a hot guy says it all snobby like he'll get rejected, but if a shy nerdy guy says it all nice and is embarassed (in a cute way:3) then yeah it'll probably work...This video is SUPER FUNNY:D
DubuLoving 1 month ago
is that a run devil run poster in your room? snsd? no? okay.
WaffleshasaPineapple 1 month ago
@Nerdie4Life 1st love the name and agreed wtf y would a guy do that and say he doesnt like u?? Maybe he does but wouldn't wanna say it and if he's a friend maybe he doesn't wanna loose u cause he doesn't know ur feelings (if he doesn't know) and too every girl out there if a guy is ur friend and he likes u but doesn't ask u out he's afraid he would loose u as a friend and then make u feel awkward
Productions4Dreams 1 month ago
@WitchMeVideo omg really 12 I'm in high skool now and yea it would be weird if a stranger just asked u out cause u know nothing bout them and then they wanna go out with. And some girls wait for the guy and some don't me personally I would be in between
Productions4Dreams 1 month ago
Ahah yeah it is pretty creepy when a stranger asks you out... even if they're hot. But do it anyways! Because it makes us girls feel special :DDD
...Or just creeped out ;D
(Oh but please not in front of our mothers... that just does not work haha)
asiAori 1 month ago
the first time i was asked out was when i was 12 .. o__o
two people in one day ..
//bad memories.
WitchMeVideos 1 month ago
i'm shy and wait to be approached first. ugly or attractive = neither is creepy. unless the person is beyond an appropriate age. it's not a sin to be ugly! lol
funkylcd 1 month ago
Well since I'm WAY shy myself, I wait for the guy to ask me....which is not often :(
Either I fall for the really shy guys or I just can't attract guys....
darkestdreamer13 1 month ago
There's always a quote that comes to mind when it comes to talkin to guys
No matter how old I get
"When I'm with a boy I like, it's hard for me to say anything cool, or, or witty, or at all. I-I can usually make a few vowel sounds, and then I have to go away."
~ Willow, BTVS
Hannah11Bananas 1 month ago
yeah theres some truth to that..when attractive guys come up and talk to u its not creepy but when ugly guys come up and talk to u, it is. not to be a bitch but just to let u all know
HellNawBitch101 1 month ago
LoL why didn't talk to her .... i mean come on 10 mins debating =.= and haha I'm in Debate NOW MWAHAHA
yumixgurl 1 month ago
and i never approach a guy
it scares the shitt outta me
but if the guyss fit its fine :3 ~
B1A4banaFOREVER 1 month ago
do asian guys only go for asian girls?
hmmm...
B1A4banaFOREVER 1 month ago
@B1A4banaFOREVER this is random but, annyeong Bana :D
kaebbie 1 month ago
@kaebbie WOW KPOP FAN?
NICE TO MEET YOU ^^ ~
B1A4banaFOREVER 1 month ago
@B1A4banaFOREVER mm~ i'm a huge ELF <3 nice to meet you too :D
kaebbie 1 month ago
@B1A4banaFOREVER No, I'm an Asian guy and I actually would rather go for non-asian girls.
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@JamesEdwrD Sorry what I just said was probably really stereotypical :/
B1A4banaFOREVER 1 month ago
@B1A4banaFOREVER No worries, I actually didn't see it like that, just wanted to put my two cents in haha. And I couldn't help but read those previous posts, but nice to see a fellow K Pop fan lol
JamesEdwrD 1 month ago
loving dis vid ~ ur awesome :)
in my opinion, tottaly agree with u. boys should make the first move. u know why?simple :) bcz they're BOYS lol thats all! ps girls r shy so ofcourse they wont start it. well not all girls r shy.. but yeah im shy..ps u know it from her feelings about u.. so if she acts diff when shes with u, then boy she likes u :) go for it!! just do it & go ask her out~ dun end up regreting it in the end,, it wont help! dun end up like Taeyang in his song 'wedding dress' xD
TheTVXQlol 1 month ago
Holy frack. You're amazing. Ahahahahaha.
AliceAxie 1 month ago
LOL it matters how they act, if they're acting creepy, then it's creepy. But otherwise I'd be flattered. Sometimes I'm mad embarrassed but if a guy likes me, then come tell me because I won't be making any moves, it's worth the try haha :)
maddiearyanna 1 month ago
LOL "Oh hey. I'm a cute ass motha fucka" I laughed so hard
Valerie140798 1 month ago 6
@Valerie140798 LOL me too.
sirpaulmccartneysex 1 month ago
This is so true, especially the part about the assholes not caring.
JamesEdwrD 1 month ago
lol i love how you bleep the swear words :P
TheMelaniepizarro2 1 month ago
Actually, unless you're going meeting girls by random, girls actually make the first move most of the time. Not an actual 'move', so to speak, but she will often indirectly (body language, etc) tell the boy to come to her.
LainVesper 1 month ago
you are a cute ass xDD
isa17408 1 month ago
I had a crush on someone in high school, and had help from my male friends to see what he thought about going to prom with me. I was too shy to ask him myself. I ended up getting told that he didn't even want to go to prom, so I asked one of my male friends if he wanted to go with me instead. To my surprise, he accepted, and I had a really fun time and hung out with him more. In the end, I started to like him, talked to him more and gave him hints that I wanted to spend time with him, and he be
EvaValenti 1 month ago
DUDE I hate how no guys but the not so hot ones are brave. I mean, I like the shy nerdy guys, theyre freakin hot at my school. I like asian guys too. Guys, I approched a shy nerdy guy and asked him to sadie hawkins, his reaction was no, i cant dance. -_- ALL YOU SHY NERDY GUYS NEED TO STEP IT UP!!!! - A real girl
Micahsmind 1 month ago 80
@Micahsmind what did you answer then haha? :D
soffiejj 1 month ago
yeah ill talk to them ill just be funny beause aprently every person i ever talked to comes to the conclusion that im funny so might as well get a laugh out of him i guess lol
pokemontranierdawn 1 month ago
LOOOOOOOL
mstumtum 1 month ago
NOOOO i came to late!!;( ...1338 likes...GOD DAMNIT
imCVN 1 month ago
Hahaha fuckness dude lol ur funny! Lol the creepiest way for a guy to ask a girl out is by acting like you want to sleep with her or to stare down every flaw if a guy did that to me my reaction will be freaked out...
MaRmAr123204 1 month ago
As long as the guy has something to say, It's nice fro them to come talk to us. If you make an observation, or like a joke, it's all good, but if your just like "hi" I'm gonna get a little creeped out
KittenScrapbooking 1 month ago
I think all guise should watch this video (:
archerstar4444 1 month ago
As a girl I find this it so frustrating when the guy makes it so obvious that he wants to talk to you but he doesn't have the courage to do so...
xLetsFLY 1 month ago
Well, it's creepy when the guy...Acts creepy-like? It's not creepy when the guy is just acting casual. Or if he's blushing, because the cuteness of guys blushing is like a creepiness terminator xD
LaSmuffyDeWulf 1 month ago
I'm usually just friends with guys. But there were a few guys who told me they liked me, but over strange ways. One of them had ther friend who I never met tell me over a text. Another one told me in my yearbook. And the third one told me over a calculator... Yes, a calculator.
simsvideoshahaha 1 month ago
@simsvideoshahaha i'd go for the calculator dude XD hahaha nerd love
thecoolestnerdeva 1 month ago
@thecoolestnerdeva Haha, the calculator guy was an asshole, so no. So was the yearbook guy....
simsvideoshahaha 1 month ago
@simsvideoshahaha well.....then i take back my other comment XD
thecoolestnerdeva 1 month ago
@simsvideoshahaha hahah man I´ve been trough the same thing! .. not exactly tho but the "my friend likes me but don´t have the curage to say it".. My friend told me trough a chat on MSN.. afterwards I found out that the entire class knew (yes he went in my class)
soffiejj 1 month ago
i totally feel you ha
MonicazProduction 1 month ago
i wait for a guy and i dont care care hoe the looks i care how he treats me and how acts its okay to approach us grils this girl at my school came up to my friend guy and said i like you your eyes i didnt same it was a dare to ay hi to a dude but i said hi your hot see you later lol.
superasiangirl100 1 month ago
I put off telling the guy I liked how I felt, and then a month before I was going to tell him he moved. I regretted it so much because two years later I told him I liked him, and he said that we could have gone out if he still lived there. The moral of my story is don't be shy, and tell that person that you like them instead of worrying what will happen because if the person rejects you then they are not what you need in your life therefore the experience opens your heart to other guys.
LipsofaSockMonkey 1 month ago
omg AMEN. and i wait for a guy to approach me haha.
zinggibagoy 1 month ago
same happened with me... twice.
r3b1LLi0n 1 month ago
Nah I'm a guy and I never approach any girls, I don't really care I mean I want to have sex with them but I know they don't want to. I'd only approach a girl if it was an Asian K-pop star Like SNSD or Kara. Btw nice Run devil Run poster :)
songokukingdomhearts 1 month ago
I would totally approach a guy I like.. bec you know... if u find someone attractive then you mightve want to be friends with him..which is cool..
What im saying is that... you never know... just go for it.
TheKL0ver 2 months ago
Make it natural. Go up to her, start up a conversation, ask for her name, then her no. But honestly, yes, if he's unattractive I'd find it creepy. But still, just be as warm and friendly as possible.
Ilyanna28 2 months ago
THIS.
AnnKiins 2 months ago
If they just came up to me and be like " well hello there sexy wanna hang out sometime sugar?"
that's like ew. no. gtfo. but if it was like " hey" i'd be like " hi there :D"
michyJC 2 months ago
Yep sorry but that's true if the guy is hot or hot to the person then of course it's not creepy but if he's ugly or ugly to the person then it's really really creepy-_-
meli15p 2 months ago
@rainbowsparkles1000 lmfao!!!!! Exactly what i would say. Homey dont play dat! Lol homey da clown.....
dancelikeflames212 2 months ago
just be like..... and just do it! lol. im a girl and i hes ugly its creepy cuz ur not attracted to them but if a really hot guy just came up and talked to me in the mall i would definatly talk. i find where i love and this is really sad but u find the cutetest guys in mcdonalds here!
AndraHunterPaige1 2 months ago
Well every guy who asked me out was Fuckin Ugly!!! My old school was full of a bunch of MoFo's but I moved to Arizona and OMG all the guys are H.A.W.T. When I was new to the school the principal let this cute guy show me around :D we talked every day then we bacame friends then we became best friends then had feelings for eachother so I just asked him out and he said yes :D I was suprised at my self because I'm a VERY SHY person =X
TheBlasianPrincess 2 months ago
Just curious, but are you into non-Asian girls at all? I seem to have this problem where Asian guys won't approach me, but it's typically because a) they just aren't into me, or b) they're interested, but are far too shy to say anything. So, are you personally attracted to non-Asian girls?
rhythmic0skylines 2 months ago 6
Usually I wait for a guy to approach me, but as a White girl attracted to asian males I've found that I've had to start approaching them. I end up feeling the same way though. Im nervous and I always tell myself oh I'll wait till next time. I finally grew some lady balls and talked to the boy I like who goes to the same university as me. I can't really tell if he likes me or not because he's really shy, but its worth a shot!
musicrokzmyworld 2 months ago
"If a guy is hot, it's not creepy. If a guy is ugly, it's creepy." <-- I think that's true and that's why some guys don't approach girls, because they think they are ugly (therefore creepy). At least, that's what I think.
holyscythe 2 months ago 3
I have never asked a girl out on a date. I have never actually found someone that's worth getting my balls all sweaty of nervousness to ask the friking bitch. I just like to believe that love at 1st sight bullshit.
TomTomSATNAV3000 2 months ago
Honestly, i'd like if a guy made the first move. I'm waaay to nervous to ask a guy. And i think it's right for a guy to make the first move. A situation where it's creepy is if theres a majorly huge age difference and the guy is really... pushy. Like seriously, just leave us alone. and if the guy like.. tries holding your hand or making out with you when you first meet.. like.. Seriously? An okay situation is if the guy's nice.. and confient, but not.. better-than-everyone confident. haha yeeh:P
iWRITEonMYhands336 2 months ago
Me: Wanna go out?
Guy: No
Me: I didn't want to go out with you anyway.
StoleMyOwnUsername 2 months ago 66
that last part was so funny.. the nice guys finish last.. SO TRUE.
1dokbokki 2 months ago
I'm the type of girl who approaches guys. Haha, when I want something, I go out and I get it, so it's the same for guys. But I think it's refreshing when a guy approaches me for once, because it feels good to know that I was cute enough or pretty enough or whatever for them to come and talk to me :D
xManthaxXx 2 months ago
im girl and would approach the guy if i really really like him, i wouldn't mind, in fact it would be fun like trying to hunt down something haha. and yea it's annoying when guys go wimpy, girls know when a guy has even the slight interest in them, and when they don't do nothing, it might be just that they don't like you enough. in a way it is easy to please girls if you can get over with it
amu3331 2 months ago
@amu3331 Well mabye for you I never got a clue abouth when a boy likes me bacuse I live in Sweden and the boys just thinks it's funny to tell me that they like me becuse I'm not the popular girl so now I just think that everybody is making fun of me...
Mangacreysy 2 months ago
I like a guy to approach me because im so shy. I prefer the guy to be atleast average or cute but if they are like hella fugly then like we can be friends but nothing more.(ussualy i fall for male bestfriends)
sammieboo11 2 months ago
I like how all the chicks are saying guys should approach since their insecure and shy. The guys all feel that way at first, they have to get over that every single time they want to ask a chick out and they get rejected most of the time. Just guess how that feels.
sepirothfreak999 2 months ago
i would wait for a guy to approach me. haha
It would be weird for me to go up to a guy. I guess I would be shy as well. XD
JinxeeRay 2 months ago
A random guy approaching... I would be kind of touched...
But don't say stuff like "Nice ass"... I've had that one and it pissed me off... Also... Don't send your friends to tell. When a girl hear "That guy thinks you're cute" they will walk away.
BeatingBat 2 months ago
typo i meant saying
rainbowsparkles1000 2 months ago in playlist More videos from StillNotDavid
it is only okay to approch a girl when u no she is around ur age caz most guyz just be acting like perv all heavy breathing saing ( u look nice baby) and i am the 1 person who says
(when the hellz did i become ur baby and back the fu*k up homeboy caz homey dont play dat)
rainbowsparkles1000 2 months ago in playlist More videos from StillNotDavid
RUN DEVIL RUN. :D
W1KIPEDIA 2 months ago
there's not really any guy i have a crush on. but i wouldn't mind if a guy approached me. as long as he's not an idiot and is the same race as me (asian) since i'm not allowed to date other guys :L in all honesty, even if a guy i didn't want to go out with asked me out i still wouldn't mind. in fact, i'd feel happy cause if a guy had to guts to talk to me it makes me feel good about myself xD
Yinyueify 2 months ago
im a girl and the guy made the first move. all was going well, we loved eachother, etc. he wanted to keep it a secret though......i have no idea why......and we went out for 6 weeks. this happened last year, and i just found out that he was paid to go out with me. he never loved me, and i still love him.
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@froggy524 wow. that sucks
heathermcd89 2 months ago
I did yesterday and I got rejected...xD I'm not going to let it stop me thou ^^
XxmusicXx4LiFe 2 months ago 3
@XxmusicXx4LiFe just keep it rollin, one has to say yes eventually.
sepirothfreak999 2 months ago
This girl I really like is moving in a week and I am to scared to approach her :\
JumpTigerJump 2 months ago
like this if you just watched his lips the ENTIRE time
hut765 2 months ago 70
Wow, I really hope you´ll meet her again so you can gather your corage and speak to her ~ ! Well, for me it doesn´t really matter. I could approach a guy, he could approach me. :)
Thegoldenlock 2 months ago
lawls, lookin at some of these comments saying they need a friend(s) there to ask a guy out sounds like they work better in groups, gotta have that team back up, which is cool but if you go to ask a chick out and they got a group of friends, that just makes that shit so much harder lol, well if you give a shit bout the possible outcome, like if she says yes and then you gotta deal with her little friends for mounths on end because they are up each others ass all hte time, can get old =\ oh well.
Abionx 2 months ago
yes i would definitely approach a guy if i find him extremely!!!! attractive!!! haha but i will be all cool and shit LOL
ujin816 2 months ago
lol if you think your then s*** then you are the s***.honestly i think the guy should ask me first just because im really shy and probably wont ask him lol
jealousofmyninja96 2 months ago 2
i think guys should always make the first move...but lets say he doesnt know you like him, then the girl should flirt just a tiny bit so then he knows xD
it doesnt really matter how he approaches you, just no cat calling, or creepiness. for example, one time i was at the mall, and this random dude starting FOLLOWING ME. like, it was creepy! it wasnt like just a bit to say hi or something, like, the whole time i was there kind of following! gahh, guys--please dont stalk and im sure you'll be fine
bespeckledbunny 3 months ago
@bespeckledbunny Yea guys should always make the first move that way the girl never gets hurt. Wow you suck then you complain about then stalking you. No u really suck!
papertreegun 2 months ago
@papertreegun Yea, idk why people would complain about someone stalking them. It's not like it's an invasion of privacy, illegal, or a crime...oh wait it is. I guess @bespeckledbunny isn't the one who sucks then, is she?
BekahT2038 2 months ago
you hold your phone in the most interesting way
ohsoooominty 3 months ago
Honestly its not the guy's JOB to approach the girl.
(yes im a living breathing female of the human species)
but there nothing wrong with a girl finding a cute guy and going up to him first.
Guys arnt the only one with thoughts that go like "I'D TAP DAT ASS" girl think that too !
DestyloveSong96 3 months ago in playlist More videos from StillNotDavid 3
I'd like it if a guy approached me because I'd always think that guys would look at you weird if you made the first move. I'm a girl btw. and girls might think that guys should make the first move, because they think the guy they're attracted to is out of their league. that's how I felt when i saw this super cute guy at the mall.
lilapluto 3 months ago
It doesn't really depend on looks as much as the way the guy approaches me. Creepy Example: The other day I was eating lunch and this guy sitting at the table next to me goes "HEY! HEY! Hey honeyyy! Hey honnneyyy!!"
Not creepy example: I'm at college and someone in my class begins talking to me about an upcoming test then asks if we could study together in the library.
BekahT2038 3 months ago in playlist More videos from StillNotDavid
@BekahT2038 Bekah your talking crap bet u go out with a 5'0ft guy.
papertreegun 2 months ago
@papertreegun LOL actually I've never had a bf SO THERE!! =P I was just giving my opinion. I am a girl and therefore I have the authority to speak on this subject. Your reply was very well thought out and intelligent and I do applaud you for that, but how about we try using our words to encourage people instead of tear them down? We're not in 2nd grade are we? Also idk if I've ever even met a 5' guy. =)
BekahT2038 2 months ago
@BekahT2038 BEKA , dont listen to "papertreegun" he is mean for no reason. mkay, just thought id say that cause he was being mean to me too :/
bespeckledbunny 2 months ago
@bespeckledbunny Thank you for your concern. I don't get offended by insults like his, I actually had a good laugh. Don't be hurt by people like him, they're just trolling. =)
BekahT2038 2 months ago
@BekahT2038 thanks girly :)
bespeckledbunny 2 months ago
i don't know if it's just me but i've had a lot of random ppl come up and talk to me and it actually turns out that the ppl i thought were the most awkwardest are the ppl that are really amazing--so either way i think that i would be just as afraid to talk to a guy
it actually takes me a long time to talk to guys i like so i really admire ppl that have the confidence to can do that
dancerforever1115 3 months ago
"i'm a cute-ass muthafucka" lolololololol
polkaelephant 3 months ago
Guys think that girls should make the first move but us girls are really insecure on the inside, we fear rejection, and we get rejected a LOT more than guys do.
NarutoFanChristian25 3 months ago
@NarutoFanChristian25 thats a load of crap, no u dont. How often do u get called creepy? i bet u dont .
papertreegun 2 months ago
I ain't a pussy but it would be nice if girls make the first move for a change..
myusername94 3 months ago
He's like a mix of Se7en and Jiro Wang
selty 3 months ago
@selty and tablo
1lovetooneman 2 months ago
soooo...have you EVER liked a non asian?like a Black,Hispanic,Caucasian...anything for that matter?
rockgirlsinger88 3 months ago
I think it can be creepy when its noticeable the guy lacks confidence in himself, flirts/asks at the wrong time or is one of those touchy foes! Like many girls if the guy is cute its okay but love isn't based on looks.
Its so cool to see when a guy has the guts to ask you out or even flirt but sometimes all they need is to show who they really are and that will make them worth dating. Ive been flirted at but never dated anyone (I'm 16) but I would like a guy who will be himself and respect me!
rosaquatica 3 months ago
What's creepy is having some COMPLETELY random guy at ur school come up behind you, hug u by the waist, pull u in & and ask you out... O_o like seriously, who the fuck does tht?!?! Sad thing tho, i didn't get a good look at his face, so i said no... Later on i asked my friends, who were there, wat his name was, and i looked for him...turns out...i just rejected a really cute guy -____- FML
Nerdie4Life 3 months ago
@Nerdie4Life hahah maaan I feel your pain! I had this one guy hugging me the same way and I just like.. went away.. xD and that was a good as hug!
soffiejj 1 month ago
@soffiejj Aww lol woww, yeahh the guy i hav a crush on hugs me frm behind alot ;D so i thought he likes me, but just like 6 days ago, he was hugging me and he tld me "Hey, just so we're clear..we aren't gonna be dating anytime soon.." -___- im like wtf, why u hugging me like this thn?!?! :\
Nerdie4Life 1 month ago
Ur beeps hurt my ears, and while u were like I don't know etc. I was like, it sounds like ur denying that ur like a stalker xD