God bless you sis. I am just curious as to how old you are, just because you are young and full of wisdom. I am only 27 but wish I knew this earlier. Changed my whole concept of dating, as God is showing me day by day.
I LOVE THIS VIDEO LITTLE SISTER!! MY DAUGHTER IS 18 AND I WISH SHE HAD ONE FRIEND LIKE YOU...YOU ARE A GREAT ROLE MODEL. PLEASE BEFRIEND MY DAUGHTER ON FACEBOOK "AKEYLA BREWSTER". TAKE CARE AND MY THE MOST HIGH YAH BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU. SHALOM
I enjoyed this video very much. As a Brother in Torah, I really wish more Sisters out there would cling to this concept. Not just for respect but mainly because it's the way of The Most High. Wonderful video & wonderful to see how many of us young ones out here that are all for the Word of the Most High & His Torah!!!
this advice is actually good for both sexes. as a man I know men can get caught up in the concept of having a girlfriend too because of insecurity reasons...based on the comments I think the general message is that everyone should slow down in relationships. we're all so preoccupied with locking someone down. you can't lock no one down, if they're with you then they're with you for as long as that is, if that leads down the aisle then so be it.
I think the "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" thing is a stupid game. It is rushed and overly commited. Its like you only knew someone for 3 days and your already going out. You should be friends for like six or seven months and then start dating. If your going to have a boyfriend or girlfriend you should have to full intenion of getting married. Not playing games and going from one boyfriend to the next just for fun and all that gushy bullcrap romance. thats what i think about it.
Wow amazing video I love this whole concept but u know husbands can make u mad jealous too and. Some the things u said a husband could do the same that's why there are divorces.
OMG..(gosh)!!! I have been saying this since a break up I had!! It's good to know that someone understands what I've been saying over and over!!!! When I tell guys this they have the NERVE to tell me that I dnt know what I want!! Ummm...NEXT!! LOL Keep speaking the TRUTH Torah!!! I JUST subscribed!
The bottom line is that americans have grown up on American entertainment. It effects every facet of our personal, spiritual, financial, and sexual value systems. Black people are trapped behind enemy lines in a godless culture, and life as we know it, is a direct result of that. Money, egotism, perversion,independence, is their culture, not ours, but regardless, ot affects us all, even you and me to some degree, right?
The "boyfriend" concept is extremely new, like, 60 years ago dating the way people do, was not even conceivable... This is the 1st time in history that people date so easily and so fast and without their parents checking who's seeing their child. That was an awesome video, I agree with everything you said. I am more stable emotionally too.
I believe in properly vetting whom ever you want to commit to .. even that is not guaranteed and that is the real dilema .. as long as people can change, there is no real solution but to do your part and pray your partner is right there with you.
I agree that you dont marry a stranger but shouldn't be based on religious grounds either unless you are bias from the start and have only friends that are affiliated with your religion.. That same bias is what makes others think its ok to date a few men or women before making a commitment to one
Ok.. so this is good to hear but facts doesn't support it.. Christian marriages don't end up any different. In some researches out there it is actually worse.. and in the bible .. most of the "Righteous ONEs" .. were womanizers!! End of story .. read your bible
Thanks and I'm a man I learn much in this video and yes the west has ideas screwed up for and man who is looking at this video don't trip because if you really listen fellas this is vice versa this can apply to your future wife no disrespect to the women and the message at all i like it a lot
Preach that word (I thought your name was Alethea, my apologies). O M G, praise God for this video. You did your thing ma- set them captives free. Single Christian women everywhere need to hear this.
Preach that word Alethea. O M G, praise God for this video. You did your thing ma- set them captives free. Single Christian women everywhere need to hear this.
Good stuff as always... As an older guy I can't say I agree with it all but it's cool to get an alternate view on matters of relationships.. Also enjoyed your bars @ the end. Stay original!
well can me and u be friends i been watching your videos for a while and it seems we have alot in common, i also write righteous raps also i would love to email you some of my material and get your opinion
Great job torahcents! love it. If everyone applied this there would be alot less unwed pregnancies, STD, and broken hearts. There would be more commitment/covenant keepers and stable families.
Girl this is just confirmation for me! People look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them I don't want a "boy'friend! especially men! Their first question is usually "are you a dike?" then they come with "oh you must not want a husband"! I'm like get out of here with that mess... I don't want a boyfriend because I am a grown woman doing grown woman things and I don't want anything BOY like in my house! A man should have to prove his worth as a man and prove my worth to him! Every1 wont get that!
@licialicous #8 basically sums up how a man can make you really happy, really sad, really angry, and really jealous and you are not even engaged or married to him.
HEY SIS,KEEP KEEPING IT REAL...IMMA BOUT TO LET MY 16YR OLD DAUGHTER WATCH THIS, YOUR VIDS ARE REALLING ENCOURAGEING AND INCITEFUL...,MORE FOLK NEED TO STICK TO SCRIPTURE,INSTEAD OF STICKING TO THE SCRIP...
I commend you for opening up about your beliefs, and I challenge you to focus on the obsession people have with having a boyfriend as opposed to the lack of commitment in being friends first. The title of boyfriend is not needed, but there must be some form of commitment before marriage. Do we rush into things? Yes. Is the solution dating around? No. The solution is to slow down. People can date all day and create emotional ties to each person. That's another problem not a solution.
@TheChicBookworm Thats actually untrue. In fact, if you go by scripture, that entire process was not needed becuase the two people were expected to live righteously. You can find out anything about a person by just being their friend. The COMMITMENT before Marriage is the ENGAGEMENT process, which is "My INTENDED". You can easily gauge whether a person is WORTHY of potentially being your friend by having a STANDARD. The ONLY thing you wont learn from the FRIEND is romantacism which is good
Amen!! :) Very much agreed. When I was younger, I had two boyfriends. One lasted for 2 years, and honestly that taught me that boyfriends were not for me, because I rather to have someone spiritually mature who can be the righteous man God deemed for me. Fast forward to present.. Well after 7+ years of remaining absolutely single, and learning who I am in Christ, I realized and made sure to ask God to give to me whom He has chosen for me. Granted, there were some times I felt sad about it and ++
++ I sought to create my own options, trying to befriend guys and see if possibly they were the ones. Then finally during those same 7+ years I realized, just leave it all alone. I prayed to God that I don't want to have a guy come in my life then not be whom I am to marry..why? Well after seeing my friend's heartaches in college and the drama rollercoaster of loving then broken, I didn't want to face that. I figure leave God to give to me a righteous man who lives according to His Word ++
++++ and would as well be head of the household and lead me to only want to live a life for Christ. Happy to report, after having "waited" for those years, God is faithful. He's blessed me with someone who as we take it slow day by day, we keep our trust and faith in God alone. As well till the time of our marriage comes, we treat each other as a brother/sister to preserve all purity. Long story short. God knows best, just wait and trust in Him!! :) Great Video TorahCents!
THAN YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU HOly Spirit, for speaking through you! lol This was absolutely great! I work in youth ministry and talk to our girls about this from this perspective all the time.
Overall I love it and commend her for taking the time to get clear on what doesn't work about typical relationships. I wish more women would date strategically. I look forward to the what's next!
At some point the two people considering marriage will HAVE to invest some energy into looking at compatibility on a deeper level than just being "good friends"
You will never transition from "dating" to "affianced" without a period of commitment so...
She has collapsed having a boyfriend with moving quickly, sex, long-term commitment (2,3-8 yrs), and expectations of being "taken care of." Rather than ranting on and on about not wanting a boyfriend she needs to focus on how does one EVALUATE a man and deem him worthy of being a serious suitor (boyfriend), and how long should that commitment period be before getting married or choosing to move on.
@virtuousvixen1 she indirectly talks about how to "EVALUATE a man and deem him worthy" (as you say) in her video "I DON'T WANT A GOOD MAN!". It's not her job to educate us on every aspect of relationships and life...God has already done that through His word. I do appreciate her sharing her convictions with us and offering a awesome perspective :) I don't think "she needs to focus on how does one EVALUATE a man..." She needs to continue to focus on the Lord which what I get a sense she is doing.
I understand where she's coming from, BUT she's dealing with semantics. At SOME POINT in the courtship she will have to be committed before the "marriage " occurs. Now if she doesn't want to give it a "boyfriend/girlfriend" title fine, but end of the day all she is advocating is dating multiple people until you find a qualified candidate for marriage. No big deal and nothing new, its called "strategic dating," and SMART women have been doing it for years.
I think we have the highest divorce rate because we get divorced for reasons other countries are against because of their religion and traditions. Our country is clearly screwed in every way possible LOL. Love this video!
Samone!!! Oh my! LOL. This video is going viral. LOL. Hairlista's are tearing the tube Up! HaHa! Love. Love. LOVE! Great points, ma. Hope all is well with you.
Samone, You have a passion to help women maximize their potential and live fulfilled lives. Thank you for all of your efforts. I wish you continued success in this mission……Diane T.
This is an interesting video. Very good advice, but is not a necessary topic for Israelites. Their is no marriage in the Kingdom and the Kingdom is coming now. Any Israelite who is seeking a husband or wife now, haven't really came to the full realization of what is really happening in this world as we speak.
@JermanDailey3 Dude are you serious...Understand the text.Dude I respect your opinion but read THE WHOLE CHAPTER BRUH. and then read 7:38 and see what you come up with. #RESPECT
@L3FTFI3LDTV I read the whole chapter. It doesn't change what is happening in the world now nor does it change the fact our King said that their is no marriage in the Kingdom. Keep in mind that Shaul wrote this letter to the Israelites in Corinth about 3 or 4 Jubilees after our Tribulation started. That was about 39 Jubilees ago. Our Tribulation is at an end now. That was a different generation and a different time.
yes my sister right on spot!!!,its good for those having difficulty understanding this ...to read ..'i kissed dating goodbye by joshua harris',,it really opens up the mind to understand relationships on a more realistic mindset.
I like the concept but really can you actually marry someone without having sex with them 1st? I dont feel like I could deal with a life time of boring sex maybe its just me but sex does have some value in a relationship maybe not the most important but not to be dismissed either.
I'm going to say something...not to offend you...but in an attempt to provoke u to introspect.
You have a warped view of what real MARRIAGE ought to entail. It is a about whole hearted dedication of your life to someone. It's not about what about what u can get out of it...but rather about what you can give. THAT is true love... Sex is a part of marriage...but it is heavily overrated in our popular culture. Marriage involves making a choice to sacrifice SELF, for another.
@ManUtdRooney10 I am getting married and have yet to have sex with my future husband. There is an absolute clarity in the relationship, no emotional roller coaster. I see things for what they are. It is the order in which God intended. Thing is you are never comparing that person to another person when you do it right...
@evitasofly Yeah that makes sense but it only works if your a virgin and sadly with today's society that's not common. If you have had previous sexual experiences that will automatically give some expectations. It all depends on the person tho obviously some people do not have a high desire for sex and can go years without it but I think nowadays that's a minority tbh.
@ManUtdRooney10 It has nothing to do with experience...(Virgin Or Not) It has everything to do with a clear conscience decision. Either you're going to make up in your mind to do what's morally right...or socially wrong. It's a minority because the Immoral "majority" has suppressed the voice of the moral "Minority", There are people who are being freed because of the information TorahCents put out.
Good video, dope flow too. So when you find yourself regularly spending time with a nice guy and he starts catching feelings, but you don't want a relationship; how would you handle that? Considering that guys would think you're on straight games. I'm all for what you're talking about, but people tend to forget that guys get emotionally attached too.
Also, what you're presenting here is a Righteous Christian Courtship, how would you present this to one of a secular background. I can go on lol
@TheLarryWilson Naw...I usually attract men who believe the same way....so they never think I'm on games....and they know off top about emotional attachment. And I would not present this any other way b/c Righteousness is the only standard. People need to come up...I don't need to drop down. lol
I shared ya video on my page. I agree with you. Except for the no benefits part cuz ummm Im not proposing to no woman if I dont know what her sex game like cuz in real life, people divorce over wack sex, among other things lol
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS Thanks for sharing!...I really appreciate that. But yeah I'm an Ex-fornicator....and I attract other Ex-fornicators...so it works out pretty well. lol
I think the main problem is that people date way too young, I mean in high school you don't know love from your hormones, your still developing. In my opinion I think people really should wait atleast till college or even later. I'm a junior at UO and I don't have a boyfriend lol!
Lol, I can see her side, but at the same time it seems like she kinda doesn't like commitment and that also can be a problem, not to mention it seems like she really doesn't like guys, and I'm not talking in a sexual way lol. Unfortunately some guys are arrogant but not all of us are that way :). I wan a boyfriend!
@Jedidiah750 I want commitment...I just want it to be with someone who is going to be my husband. I don't play throwing my heart around with random men.
everything you said is the truth! Great video!
tomcrystalzzz 2 days ago
I love your videos Sis. There is lots of wisdom in your videos. Yah bless!!
lovetruthism 2 days ago
Omg! I like her!!!!!
pinkynthabrain4 6 days ago
exactly!!!!
HouseFlipperz 1 week ago
that rap!!! >>>>>>>> !!! 100stars lol
darknluv 1 week ago
Great video!
skgsauny1 1 week ago
Damn torahcents you could teach alot of women some sense...!
tjohnson7771 1 week ago
God bless you sis. I am just curious as to how old you are, just because you are young and full of wisdom. I am only 27 but wish I knew this earlier. Changed my whole concept of dating, as God is showing me day by day.
TheBaperry 1 week ago
I LOVE THIS VIDEO LITTLE SISTER!! MY DAUGHTER IS 18 AND I WISH SHE HAD ONE FRIEND LIKE YOU...YOU ARE A GREAT ROLE MODEL. PLEASE BEFRIEND MY DAUGHTER ON FACEBOOK "AKEYLA BREWSTER". TAKE CARE AND MY THE MOST HIGH YAH BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU. SHALOM
ShemaYah7777777 1 week ago
Shalom Sister,
I enjoyed this video very much. As a Brother in Torah, I really wish more Sisters out there would cling to this concept. Not just for respect but mainly because it's the way of The Most High. Wonderful video & wonderful to see how many of us young ones out here that are all for the Word of the Most High & His Torah!!!
May YAH Bless you Sister
Shalom
Colls1870 1 week ago
You are AWESOME!!!!!!!! is awesome to see a sister that can use her head and honor Christ with her life.
donaldphinney 2 weeks ago
You are so wise. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this. Many ladies could save themselves a lot of heartache if they followed this advice.
justice4alw 2 weeks ago
I am non-religious, but I have similar thoughts when it comes to having a boyfriend. Great vid!
taihobbs 2 weeks ago
this advice is actually good for both sexes. as a man I know men can get caught up in the concept of having a girlfriend too because of insecurity reasons...based on the comments I think the general message is that everyone should slow down in relationships. we're all so preoccupied with locking someone down. you can't lock no one down, if they're with you then they're with you for as long as that is, if that leads down the aisle then so be it.
MrMummRa 1 month ago
I think the "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" thing is a stupid game. It is rushed and overly commited. Its like you only knew someone for 3 days and your already going out. You should be friends for like six or seven months and then start dating. If your going to have a boyfriend or girlfriend you should have to full intenion of getting married. Not playing games and going from one boyfriend to the next just for fun and all that gushy bullcrap romance. thats what i think about it.
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Miikoong904 1 month ago
This makes so much sense to me.
lilmarules 1 month ago
you are my gospel lol. i love this video. all of the points you make are absolutely brilliant. thank you!!!!!!
bhammond1018 1 month ago
Wow amazing video I love this whole concept but u know husbands can make u mad jealous too and. Some the things u said a husband could do the same that's why there are divorces.
ChloeTVx 1 month ago
Someone's got a dildo...
MathiasVilain 1 month ago
this video is. the best video ever.
bhammond1018 1 month ago
OMG..(gosh)!!! I have been saying this since a break up I had!! It's good to know that someone understands what I've been saying over and over!!!! When I tell guys this they have the NERVE to tell me that I dnt know what I want!! Ummm...NEXT!! LOL Keep speaking the TRUTH Torah!!! I JUST subscribed!
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see we ARE on the same pagee
Candace1718 1 month ago
The bottom line is that americans have grown up on American entertainment. It effects every facet of our personal, spiritual, financial, and sexual value systems. Black people are trapped behind enemy lines in a godless culture, and life as we know it, is a direct result of that. Money, egotism, perversion,independence, is their culture, not ours, but regardless, ot affects us all, even you and me to some degree, right?
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@royal001ful That is very true.
Alexsh2010 1 month ago
Thank you. You have no idea what this video means to me.
scrunchie100 2 months ago
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scrunchie100 2 months ago
I needed this confirmation. Thank you!
HoustonNatural 2 months ago
and then on the wedding night you find he can't perform.
evelynrose75 2 months ago
Love the bit at the end;D
tinkerbellsmellsly 2 months ago
You gooooo girl !! Well delivered and topic, advice and or suggestions for ANY age group. Rap at the end was awesome!...Peace
mssquirrely 3 months ago
The "boyfriend" concept is extremely new, like, 60 years ago dating the way people do, was not even conceivable... This is the 1st time in history that people date so easily and so fast and without their parents checking who's seeing their child. That was an awesome video, I agree with everything you said. I am more stable emotionally too.
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I believe in properly vetting whom ever you want to commit to .. even that is not guaranteed and that is the real dilema .. as long as people can change, there is no real solution but to do your part and pray your partner is right there with you.
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I agree that you dont marry a stranger but shouldn't be based on religious grounds either unless you are bias from the start and have only friends that are affiliated with your religion.. That same bias is what makes others think its ok to date a few men or women before making a commitment to one
UniiQmusic 3 months ago
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UniiQmusic 3 months ago
Ok.. so this is good to hear but facts doesn't support it.. Christian marriages don't end up any different. In some researches out there it is actually worse.. and in the bible .. most of the "Righteous ONEs" .. were womanizers!! End of story .. read your bible
UniiQmusic 3 months ago
Thanks and I'm a man I learn much in this video and yes the west has ideas screwed up for and man who is looking at this video don't trip because if you really listen fellas this is vice versa this can apply to your future wife no disrespect to the women and the message at all i like it a lot
OMONEY09 3 months ago
"You even looked over the fact he robbed the bank,"
"Because he paid my water bill!!"
Spiders969 3 months ago
This is such an awesome video... Funny. I'm subscribing ;)
P.S. did you play the one girl with curly hair??
Spiders969 3 months ago
Preach that word (I thought your name was Alethea, my apologies). O M G, praise God for this video. You did your thing ma- set them captives free. Single Christian women everywhere need to hear this.
AnAttitudeOfLove 3 months ago
Preach that word Alethea. O M G, praise God for this video. You did your thing ma- set them captives free. Single Christian women everywhere need to hear this.
AnAttitudeOfLove 3 months ago
great as always sister!!!
FarroWife 3 months ago
wow great vid, i was gonna do a vid related to this
napzfaya 3 months ago
Good stuff as always... As an older guy I can't say I agree with it all but it's cool to get an alternate view on matters of relationships.. Also enjoyed your bars @ the end. Stay original!
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kdad64 4 months ago
well can me and u be friends i been watching your videos for a while and it seems we have alot in common, i also write righteous raps also i would love to email you some of my material and get your opinion
NICCAGE26 4 months ago
Wisdom for women of all ages!
mpenny226 4 months ago 2
Great job torahcents! love it. If everyone applied this there would be alot less unwed pregnancies, STD, and broken hearts. There would be more commitment/covenant keepers and stable families.
debibranchofisrael 4 months ago
I love the rap!!! This is awesome!
kingdomminstrel 4 months ago
Oh and when is the CD coming out??? I LOVED the rap at the end!!!
ProfoundWisdom 4 months ago
Girl this is just confirmation for me! People look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them I don't want a "boy'friend! especially men! Their first question is usually "are you a dike?" then they come with "oh you must not want a husband"! I'm like get out of here with that mess... I don't want a boyfriend because I am a grown woman doing grown woman things and I don't want anything BOY like in my house! A man should have to prove his worth as a man and prove my worth to him! Every1 wont get that!
ProfoundWisdom 4 months ago
I also gotta say what's suppose to be courtship is called bf/gf without following the proper laws.
licialicous 4 months ago
My lil sister and i was watching this, could you elaborate on number #8 for her please
licialicous 4 months ago
@licialicous #8 basically sums up how a man can make you really happy, really sad, really angry, and really jealous and you are not even engaged or married to him.
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@TorahCents Aww I'll tell her this tomorrow after she gets up..thank you very much I so very appreciate it ms Torah
licialicous 4 months ago
lmao are you in NY...
id love to collab with you
ohh u can teach me too
licialicous 4 months ago
@licialicous I am in Charlotte. What type of collab are you interested in?
TorahCents 4 months ago
@TorahCents submission, anything to help our sisters out there grow :) basically anyone
licialicous 4 months ago
@TorahCents I have family friends in NC,
Maybe we can deff link up someday :) i'll be honored
licialicous 4 months ago
LOVE!!!
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Love it
iHEARTGG4s 4 months ago
BRAPPPP! That was sick sis!
TheIAmAwakened 4 months ago
@TheIAmAwakened BRAPPPP! I'm sick!!! LOL
TorahCents 4 months ago 2
well said, agree with nearly everything you said :)
ally786 5 months ago
LOL, I love it!!!! Girl you hit the nail on the head!
MsDarkskinFLA 5 months ago
I love this!
tyrell71454 5 months ago
Say it girl, Amen!!!
sheritashairtemple 5 months ago
I just love your messages GF!!! Awesome!!!!
babydee114 5 months ago
@babydee114 Thanks so much for watching. :)
TorahCents 4 months ago
You are so beautiful. I love your personality... ur so funny.
Talented too...great rap.
Blessings.
3loveme1 5 months ago
@3loveme1 thank you so much. Many blessings to you. :)
TorahCents 4 months ago
HEY SIS,KEEP KEEPING IT REAL...IMMA BOUT TO LET MY 16YR OLD DAUGHTER WATCH THIS, YOUR VIDS ARE REALLING ENCOURAGEING AND INCITEFUL...,MORE FOLK NEED TO STICK TO SCRIPTURE,INSTEAD OF STICKING TO THE SCRIP...
ramalwhite 5 months ago
@ramalwhite So true...I really hope she enjoys it. :)
TorahCents 4 months ago
I commend you for opening up about your beliefs, and I challenge you to focus on the obsession people have with having a boyfriend as opposed to the lack of commitment in being friends first. The title of boyfriend is not needed, but there must be some form of commitment before marriage. Do we rush into things? Yes. Is the solution dating around? No. The solution is to slow down. People can date all day and create emotional ties to each person. That's another problem not a solution.
TheChicBookworm 5 months ago 11
@TheChicBookworm Thats actually untrue. In fact, if you go by scripture, that entire process was not needed becuase the two people were expected to live righteously. You can find out anything about a person by just being their friend. The COMMITMENT before Marriage is the ENGAGEMENT process, which is "My INTENDED". You can easily gauge whether a person is WORTHY of potentially being your friend by having a STANDARD. The ONLY thing you wont learn from the FRIEND is romantacism which is good
truthegreat 4 months ago 2
@truthegreat You betta teach boy. Love when you step in and handle my light work. :)
TorahCents 4 months ago
Teach the Truth Sister!
ChrisMccullers 5 months ago
I don't care what anyone says, but this Lady is telling the truth!
Mocharain 5 months ago
Amen!! :) Very much agreed. When I was younger, I had two boyfriends. One lasted for 2 years, and honestly that taught me that boyfriends were not for me, because I rather to have someone spiritually mature who can be the righteous man God deemed for me. Fast forward to present.. Well after 7+ years of remaining absolutely single, and learning who I am in Christ, I realized and made sure to ask God to give to me whom He has chosen for me. Granted, there were some times I felt sad about it and ++
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++ I sought to create my own options, trying to befriend guys and see if possibly they were the ones. Then finally during those same 7+ years I realized, just leave it all alone. I prayed to God that I don't want to have a guy come in my life then not be whom I am to marry..why? Well after seeing my friend's heartaches in college and the drama rollercoaster of loving then broken, I didn't want to face that. I figure leave God to give to me a righteous man who lives according to His Word ++
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++++ and would as well be head of the household and lead me to only want to live a life for Christ. Happy to report, after having "waited" for those years, God is faithful. He's blessed me with someone who as we take it slow day by day, we keep our trust and faith in God alone. As well till the time of our marriage comes, we treat each other as a brother/sister to preserve all purity. Long story short. God knows best, just wait and trust in Him!! :) Great Video TorahCents!
AfroQueenShae 5 months ago
@AfroQueenShae Awesome testimony lady. So glad you shared and I pray you have continued success with your current relationship. :)
TorahCents 4 months ago
THAN YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU HOly Spirit, for speaking through you! lol This was absolutely great! I work in youth ministry and talk to our girls about this from this perspective all the time.
ServantsHeart9180 5 months ago
@ServantsHeart9180 Awesome! So glad you enjoyed. Many blessings to your ministry. :)
TorahCents 4 months ago
Overall I love it and commend her for taking the time to get clear on what doesn't work about typical relationships. I wish more women would date strategically. I look forward to the what's next!
virtuousvixen1 5 months ago
At some point the two people considering marriage will HAVE to invest some energy into looking at compatibility on a deeper level than just being "good friends"
You will never transition from "dating" to "affianced" without a period of commitment so...
virtuousvixen1 5 months ago
@virtuousvixen1 "You will never transition from "dating" to "affianced" without a period of commitment so"
With this statement Im SURE you are not familiar with righteous relationships in scripture.
truthegreat 4 months ago
She has collapsed having a boyfriend with moving quickly, sex, long-term commitment (2,3-8 yrs), and expectations of being "taken care of." Rather than ranting on and on about not wanting a boyfriend she needs to focus on how does one EVALUATE a man and deem him worthy of being a serious suitor (boyfriend), and how long should that commitment period be before getting married or choosing to move on.
virtuousvixen1 5 months ago
@virtuousvixen1 she indirectly talks about how to "EVALUATE a man and deem him worthy" (as you say) in her video "I DON'T WANT A GOOD MAN!". It's not her job to educate us on every aspect of relationships and life...God has already done that through His word. I do appreciate her sharing her convictions with us and offering a awesome perspective :) I don't think "she needs to focus on how does one EVALUATE a man..." She needs to continue to focus on the Lord which what I get a sense she is doing.
viciouslady1 4 months ago 2
@viciouslady1 Killed it...in one comment at that. Much love to you :)
TorahCents 4 months ago
I understand where she's coming from, BUT she's dealing with semantics. At SOME POINT in the courtship she will have to be committed before the "marriage " occurs. Now if she doesn't want to give it a "boyfriend/girlfriend" title fine, but end of the day all she is advocating is dating multiple people until you find a qualified candidate for marriage. No big deal and nothing new, its called "strategic dating," and SMART women have been doing it for years.
virtuousvixen1 5 months ago
Interesting...........
mzmcse 5 months ago
@TorahCents You don't believe in boyfriends? Well, they exist, @TorahCents ...they exist...
quindelljohnson 5 months ago
TorahCents you are ON point! Friends make the best husbands! I'm a witness.
mznginear 5 months ago
Preach!!!
voyer0123 5 months ago
@TorahCents,,,you welcome,,glad to be of help..!
moondear2000 5 months ago
I bet she is single....
QisQ 5 months ago
You just sound bitter, like someone who can't find a good man -__-
QisQ 5 months ago
So let me just say you're amazing and that I'll probably do a video response to this. It's such truth contained in this video. Brava!
MsAngelofMusic777 5 months ago 2
@MsAngelofMusic777 AWESOME! Great....I look forward to it.
TorahCents 5 months ago
I RESPECT YOU....and your rhymes lol keep makin videos and let yah lead you
demireoh 5 months ago
@demireoh Thank you...much love to you. I'm not a rapper....but don't push me. lol
TorahCents 5 months ago
LOVE THIS!!!! FRIENDS TILL MARRIAGE SOUNDS LIKE A GOOD IDEA TO ME!!!! THANKS FOR SHARING!!!!!!
4EVABLESSED7 5 months ago
@4EVABLESSED7 Thanks for watching!
TorahCents 5 months ago
Amen. loved your flow @ the end. #rate&subscribe
aArREe314 5 months ago
@aArREe314 haha. Thanks for the sub.
TorahCents 5 months ago
This Is What I Try To Tell These Guys!!
Subbin :D
ALEXsimplycomplex 5 months ago
@ALEXsimplycomplex Thanks for the sub.:)
TorahCents 5 months ago
Beautiful
SWILLIAMS1982 5 months ago
Clearly, something wasn't working for you in your past you made changes. Kudos. I hope this works out for you sis.
whoissugar 5 months ago
@whoissugar thanks lady! I've been very successful. I appreciate it. :)
TorahCents 5 months ago
I think we have the highest divorce rate because we get divorced for reasons other countries are against because of their religion and traditions. Our country is clearly screwed in every way possible LOL. Love this video!
alicemariah 5 months ago
@alicemariah Thank you!
TorahCents 5 months ago
@alicemariah Well, except the whole you're free thing. Other than that, this country sucks!
quindelljohnson 5 months ago
GREAT VIDEO!! Currently single and will pursue this concept. Thanks!! I'm subb'n :)
Nu2BnNatRL 5 months ago
@Nu2BnNatRL Thanks for the sub.:)
TorahCents 5 months ago
Samone!!! Oh my! LOL. This video is going viral. LOL. Hairlista's are tearing the tube Up! HaHa! Love. Love. LOVE! Great points, ma. Hope all is well with you.
Vivalacious 5 months ago
@Vivalacious Hey Lady!! LOL Thanks for showing love...is the vid on the site? And all is well with me...I hope the same for you. :)
TorahCents 5 months ago
@TorahCents I browse the site every now and again, so I'm not sure if it's on the site. I saw this in 2 of the Facebook groups that I am in.
Vivalacious 5 months ago
@Vivalacious Ohhhhh. lol...wow..that's awesome. I really hope they are open to what I'm advising.
TorahCents 5 months ago
@TorahCents They are! That's the good part. LOL
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supermortalhuman 5 months ago
@supermortalhuman No problemo....anytime. :)
TorahCents 5 months ago
@TorahCents I came to delete my comment. It wasn't you.
supermortalhuman 5 months ago
She sounds like she wants to be a Playa! Playa!
musicjazztones1 5 months ago
@musicjazztones1 LOL!! Naw.
TorahCents 5 months ago
Samone, You have a passion to help women maximize their potential and live fulfilled lives. Thank you for all of your efforts. I wish you continued success in this mission……Diane T.
dthomas06690 5 months ago
@dthomas06690 Diane! Love you sis...so enjoyed the convo today!
TorahCents 5 months ago
@TorahCents :D So did I and I love you too sis! Talk with you soon~
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dthomas06690 5 months ago
young lady has an 'old soul'.. *brava!* :)
ladywyspr 5 months ago
whoa... I like your style! you are a smart cookie :) much success going forward for you. :) all the best!
:) -D
ZevsAunt 5 months ago
@ZevsAunt Thank you!
TorahCents 5 months ago
This is an interesting video. Very good advice, but is not a necessary topic for Israelites. Their is no marriage in the Kingdom and the Kingdom is coming now. Any Israelite who is seeking a husband or wife now, haven't really came to the full realization of what is really happening in this world as we speak.
(1 Corinthians 7:38 KJV)
So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
JermanDailey3 5 months ago
@JermanDailey3 Dude are you serious...Understand the text.Dude I respect your opinion but read THE WHOLE CHAPTER BRUH. and then read 7:38 and see what you come up with. #RESPECT
L3FTFI3LDTV 5 months ago
@L3FTFI3LDTV I read the whole chapter. It doesn't change what is happening in the world now nor does it change the fact our King said that their is no marriage in the Kingdom. Keep in mind that Shaul wrote this letter to the Israelites in Corinth about 3 or 4 Jubilees after our Tribulation started. That was about 39 Jubilees ago. Our Tribulation is at an end now. That was a different generation and a different time.
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JermanDailey3 5 months ago
yes my sister right on spot!!!,its good for those having difficulty understanding this ...to read ..'i kissed dating goodbye by joshua harris',,it really opens up the mind to understand relationships on a more realistic mindset.
moondear2000 5 months ago
@moondear2000 thanks for the reference. :O)
TorahCents 5 months ago
I'm a slut...There, the word is out...Ladies what's up LOL
7SaintsRow 5 months ago
@7SaintsRow Well at least you are honest. lol
TorahCents 5 months ago
I like the concept but really can you actually marry someone without having sex with them 1st? I dont feel like I could deal with a life time of boring sex maybe its just me but sex does have some value in a relationship maybe not the most important but not to be dismissed either.
ManUtdRooney10 5 months ago
@ManUtdRooney10
I'm going to say something...not to offend you...but in an attempt to provoke u to introspect.
You have a warped view of what real MARRIAGE ought to entail. It is a about whole hearted dedication of your life to someone. It's not about what about what u can get out of it...but rather about what you can give. THAT is true love... Sex is a part of marriage...but it is heavily overrated in our popular culture. Marriage involves making a choice to sacrifice SELF, for another.
ricplay7890 5 months ago
@ManUtdRooney10 I am getting married and have yet to have sex with my future husband. There is an absolute clarity in the relationship, no emotional roller coaster. I see things for what they are. It is the order in which God intended. Thing is you are never comparing that person to another person when you do it right...
evitasofly 5 months ago
@evitasofly Yeah that makes sense but it only works if your a virgin and sadly with today's society that's not common. If you have had previous sexual experiences that will automatically give some expectations. It all depends on the person tho obviously some people do not have a high desire for sex and can go years without it but I think nowadays that's a minority tbh.
ManUtdRooney10 5 months ago
@ManUtdRooney10 It has nothing to do with experience...(Virgin Or Not) It has everything to do with a clear conscience decision. Either you're going to make up in your mind to do what's morally right...or socially wrong. It's a minority because the Immoral "majority" has suppressed the voice of the moral "Minority", There are people who are being freed because of the information TorahCents put out.
L3FTFI3LDTV 5 months ago
Well said.
IAMACHOSENDAUGHTER 5 months ago
Good video, dope flow too. So when you find yourself regularly spending time with a nice guy and he starts catching feelings, but you don't want a relationship; how would you handle that? Considering that guys would think you're on straight games. I'm all for what you're talking about, but people tend to forget that guys get emotionally attached too.
Also, what you're presenting here is a Righteous Christian Courtship, how would you present this to one of a secular background. I can go on lol
TheLarryWilson 5 months ago
@TheLarryWilson Naw...I usually attract men who believe the same way....so they never think I'm on games....and they know off top about emotional attachment. And I would not present this any other way b/c Righteousness is the only standard. People need to come up...I don't need to drop down. lol
TorahCents 5 months ago 4
im so loving this video u go girl
qiyamah1000 5 months ago
@qiyamah1000 I love that you love this vid.:)
TorahCents 5 months ago
lmao Random:
rap at the end -_-.
great Vid
GorGeousyetsmart 5 months ago
@GorGeousyetsmart LOL @ the face. Thanks for watching
TorahCents 5 months ago
I shared ya video on my page. I agree with you. Except for the no benefits part cuz ummm Im not proposing to no woman if I dont know what her sex game like cuz in real life, people divorce over wack sex, among other things lol
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 5 months ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS Thanks for sharing!...I really appreciate that. But yeah I'm an Ex-fornicator....and I attract other Ex-fornicators...so it works out pretty well. lol
TorahCents 5 months ago
@TorahCents LOL. Well God speed with waiting till u get married, thats a noble cause, I respect it.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 5 months ago
Great vid! I sent it to my teen daughter! Very well said:)
PhoenixTears62 5 months ago
@PhoenixTears62 Awesome! Hopes she appreciates the message!
TorahCents 5 months ago
That's WORD
Orijinality305 5 months ago
Excellent example sis !!!
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TorahCents 5 months ago
i hope you marry black man as real black woman! because we need stop to marry ugly crackers and make mixed/white looking kids for white arce smh!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
I think the main problem is that people date way too young, I mean in high school you don't know love from your hormones, your still developing. In my opinion I think people really should wait atleast till college or even later. I'm a junior at UO and I don't have a boyfriend lol!
Jedidiah750 5 months ago
Lol, I can see her side, but at the same time it seems like she kinda doesn't like commitment and that also can be a problem, not to mention it seems like she really doesn't like guys, and I'm not talking in a sexual way lol. Unfortunately some guys are arrogant but not all of us are that way :). I wan a boyfriend!
Jedidiah750 5 months ago
@Jedidiah750 I want commitment...I just want it to be with someone who is going to be my husband. I don't play throwing my heart around with random men.
TorahCents 5 months ago
That flow in the end was HARD!! Great Vid!
ReliableLojic 5 months ago
love the rap at the end... yaayyy
QAzalee 5 months ago
preach it gurl! yes haha
auzzylicious2009 5 months ago
I told.my friends the exact.same thing. They totally disagreed. Lol. Buy amen sister!! You are so on point right now.
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