Domestic Violence - The Battered Woman - 1/2

[Varlwyll]

My mother was in an abusive relationship for a long time. You know what she did? She left.

[craigrmeyer]

Well done once again.

If ANY class of people isn't responsible for committing murder rather than Just Walking Away... then what rights do these people deserve again?

[SoggyPizzaPockets1]

Speaking of battered MEN...Miss Piggy & Kermit the Frog?

Gotta love the programming of our children.

[manwomanmyth]

@SoggyPizzaPockets1 Excellent. Thanks for reminding me.

[Sephlock]

@SoggyPizzaPockets1 Its not easy being green.



[MrBastilleDay]

@SoggyPizzaPockets1 HIIYYYYYYYYYYYYYYAH

[speakingtruly]

It's just as wrong for males to be abused as it is for females to be abused. It's not always as easy as call police and all will be fine. Police do nothing until your husband kills you or beats you in hospital. They want evidence you don't have. Another problem is that some cultures make it very difficult for females to speak up about abuse. In those cases I understand females killing their husbands/boyfriends. Not all case are the same. But it's true, no male or female should misuse the law.

[manwomanmyth]

@speakingtruly Where do you people come from?

1) If it's "very difficult for females to speak up about abuse" then it's 5 times more difficult for men to speak up.

2) The police are only too glad to arrest men, imprison them and remove them from their homes. It nets police force's greater income and more control.

3) "I understand females killing their husbands/boyfriends". Anyone that thinks that killing someone is easier than picking up the phone or leaving, is simply psychotic.

[Mechanized0]

@manwomanmyth The individual that you addressed is obviously and rather painfully naive.

[brownie1982ad]

@speakingtruly Some cultures? So you are talkign about the middel east here? In this country the police can get called on your for nothing, and you are getting arrested.

[arielavent]

This is complete BS

[firethrower1000]

it it murder because the men was only beating her and she literally mudrered him instead of calling the cops

[GvKc67]

@amnah10000 That is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard.

[lillie1990am]

It's premeditated. If the woman is unhappy but decides to stay, usually for financial reasons, she will take revenge when she has the upper hand, usually when the guy is asleep as the video states.

I've had women tell me they've done this, none had killed the man but in one instance the guy had to go out by ambulance because he had been smashed on the head and severely injured.

Her husband did not press charges, the cops did. The judge released her the next morning.

[matthewlwry]

i don't think it's the argument is that when women do it its okay, its that that due to that battering leading to that psychological trauma the context within which the murderer performs the murder is similar to when a person claims insanity and receives a lesser sentence. The same 'battered woman syndrome' can happen to men too.

[ManSpeakOut]

@matthewlwry Well currently, as feminists claim that only women can get this syndrome.

Hence why its called "Battered Woman's Syndrome" and not "Battered People's Syndrome".

[VAWAhorrors]

1. Give Women Voting Rights

2. Give Women Equal Rights

3. Give Women Extra Rights

4. Give Women Extra Protection... from Men

5. Hear only Women and Ignore Men

6. Believe Women only and Treat men as Perpetrators

7. Let Women Falsely Accuse Men without Consequences

8. Encourage Women to be Helpless Victims and to think of All Men as Rapists

9. Encourage False Accusations by Women (VAWA) and Punish Innocent Men

10. ...Watch Women Destroy Men, the Family and Society !!!

[angeltears87]

There is pretty good evidence for the concept of stockholm syndrome and the very similar concept of trauma bonding.

[blondecat666]

Of course a battered woman would kill the man in his sleep, because that is the only time she cannot be physically overpowered. I can't see how this whimp's argument would stand anywhere.

[LeonSkottKennedey]

@blondecat666 premeditated. if she has the kapziate av mind tu wait till the "batterer" ist aslseep, then she would hav the equal kapzitate tu leav ^^

[blondecat666]

@LeonSkottKennedey Sorry, I do not understand your English.

[Ironzealot7531]

@blondecat666 If she has time to kill him she has time to leave

or better yet, call the police. Battered women's syndrome also offers a convenient defense for women who murder non-abusive husbands. She can just fabricate a story of abuse and then get away with murder. This law also unfairly discriminates in that it's a defense that can only be used by women.

Though most of the time it doesn't work, thankfully. 93% of the women who have used this defense were still found guilty of murder

[KerraSeayWhat]

Could someone please tell me all of the sources used in this video!

I need it for a law project!

I have to write two essays (one pro and one con) about battered wife defence for my law class (but my con essay is my focus because thats the side im on ... and im a woman)

If you could help with that it would be amazing !! Thank you!!

[crysb77]

What about a woman who cannot leave because she fears her life? Domestic Violence is real and is too often down played by people who condone the whole thing.

[LeonSkottKennedey]

@crysb77 domestik violenz ist against either sex. Self Deffens=in the moment, whereas Premeditation=wating und planning. ja it ist real und he sehs that in the video ^^ if "shes" afraid und capable of waitng till the "mann9also leiklie a woman as its reciprokal" then "shes" capable of piking of a fon und dialing 3 digits for help ^^

[Shiblee1986]

I am a man and I have to support the women in this case. Being South Asian, I am an eye witness to domestic violence (my mother). These women don't have the choice of running away because they think about their children, economics, and reputation of the family. Often they reach out to friends and family and the only advice they receive is reconciliation. Thus, these women are stuck. Their thoughts are not modern and western. They can't escape. We, the men, need to treat women a lot, lot better.

[ssscybro2]

@Shiblee1986 what about wmen beating men....is it ok for a man to shot his wife for years of abuse?

[MikeTMerciless]

What these feminists are really saying is that women are inherently and completely inferior to men. Why else would they require such privileges over men?

[Abobojo]

A freind of mine got hauled away by police for yelling at a woman...who started yelling at him for 'taking her spot' at a Starbuck's parking lot.

[KerraSeayWhat]

@Abobojo Then that woman was just crazy. Not all women are like that, and not all men are abusive. I hope your friend didnt get charged because that just makes no sense.

[Abobojo]

@KerraSeayWhat No, not charged

[andron333]

what about when a teenage guy gets bullied and beaten at school. If he then goes out and kills his bullies, he will going to jail with no excuses. Yet women are treated like infants or mentally challenged individuals, and get let off the hook.

[amnah10000]

@andron333 It's not the same, a kid can defend himself, he's not forced to stay in that kinda situation where as women are stuck. Plus a man shouldn't hit a woman, if he does he should get what's coming his way.

[NumeralKillerlive]

Random fact: Crimes of passion are legal in Italy

[CircleBastiat]

Relativism is the hallmark of a liberal society and so it shouldn't be surprising that this type of nonsense is all-pervasive. 

[spoogeling]

look at you all, arguing over the internet, why don't we actually try something risky and protest until these god awful sexist laws are changed? Let's flex the Second amendment and stop taking it for granted.

[manwomanmyth]

@spoogeling Who is "we"? See the problem?

Don't be so disparaging. I hear what you're saying, but you need to understand what it is has taken to get even this far in terms of exposing the issues for proper debate. The effort has been enormous and has come at a lot of cost to many men.

Awareness of these things is the first step, and MOST men are yet to take that first step. That's what we're doing here. The changes will come but it's not really about your 2nd Amendment. At least not yet.

[MrSilicon605]

@manwomanmyth HOW COULD YOU SLAP?- INDIAN MAN SLAPS WOMAN ON TV SHOW

THIS IS WORTH WATCHING AND SEEING HOW UTTERLY STUPID MANY MALES ARE IN DEFENDING DOUBLE STANDARD FEMALES LIKE THE ONE SHOWN..

THE FELLOW WHOM DEFENDED HER, SHOULD HAVE BEEN SEVERELY THRASHED FOR HIS ONE SIDED, COUNTER PRODUCTIVE RESPONSE..

WHAT COMPLETE NONESENSE TO LET ANY FEMLE GET AWAY WITH ASSAULTING A PERSON.

[SchizoManatee]

@spoogeling So we should all go out and buy a bunch of guns in protest? That will do nothing but supply people with guns. Sorry, but the Second Amendment doesn't protect murder in any form. That last sentence leads me to infer that you might have some extremist tendencies, and that's exactly what any kind of anti-misandry movement doesn't need.

[spoogeling]

@SchizoManatee I never said we should buy guns, peaceful protest maybe?

[SchizoManatee]

@spoogeling Are you fucking kidding me? Do you even know what the Second Amendment is?

[spoogeling]

@SchizoManatee OOOOOH shit loloops I meant first amendment, I Goof'd, it was really late that night. sorry.

[SchizoManatee]

@spoogeling Ah, sleep deprivation. Yeah, I experience that on a regular basis.

[luckybozo1]

@spoogeling I agree. But remember what gender we are dealing with! They will use emotions to counter our logic!

[sotonindeda]

@AngryActivist45 ...in self defense ? says who ? how do we know it was self defense? oooh, I know... woman said it was self defense... so, it means only one thing, that was not self defense, it was pure murderer of a man who couldn't make more money so she can spend it...

[Gullick]

@akshunyob However, I do believe that it takes more strength to leave the abuser than to kill them, for the reasons that I stated. If you'd like to refute me please do. *shrug* perhaps there is a view I haven't thought of.

[Gullick]

@akshunyob Did I say anywhere or suggest anything that hinted that ' many people could target and kill people that they percieve as a threat against them in the future and kill them'? I can't see it in my comment and if to you i did, then that wasn't my intent. I do believe that women should be punished just as much as anyone else if they commit pre-meditated murder and according to research, women are a large part of the abusing population, more so than men.

[Gullick]

@akshunyob

You're suggesting that the amount of strength needed for both is the same. Way I see it, it isn't.

Killing abuser: End of all abuse. Possible legal reciprocations may be evaded through careful planning...end

Leaving abuser: Possibility of enraging the abuser. Possiblility of the abuser coming to find her. Possibility of the abuser targeting someone else in order to get back at her. Abuser may gain custody of children and then abuse them.

[SkaRocksYea]

I've said it before and I'll say it again, I love these videos.

[rafanna56]

@akshunyob You speak so eloquently how could I not listen! I'm impressed.

[rafanna56]

This is funny coming from the country that invented common law marriage and legalized 'ownership' of women as virtual chattel....ha ha ha. Go get some education.

[SkaRocksYea]

@rafanna56 Are you retarded or just high?

[Meta4ce]

@rafanna56 nice strawman argument. Go get some new tactics.

[ManSpeakOut]

A lot of women in western culture falsely claim they have been battered to escape any charges put on them.

Now think for a second, if any human being has the power to drop any serious charge put on them by just claiming you were battered by someone, what human being would not use this intentional loop hole in the system?

[tailgunner2]

This is why I am 31 years old and single. Is there any good reason left in existence why I should go out to meet women, eventually possibly marry? Is it considered reasonable to perform such actions when the magnitude of consequences invites complete ruin upon myself? Lately, I find it hard not look at women as two-legged land mines. Oh sure, they may look pretty, but step on them once, it will cost you your life. (Continued)

[tailgunner2]

(Continued)

Is there any way I can trust a woman not to stab me in the back, flip out over a trivial matter, or lie right to my face and smile? It's videos like these that force me to ask myself these questions, thus the very reason I have to ask these is why I'm alone. I have been coming home to an empty house for years, and I'm getting tired of it. However, it seems to me, the pain of loneliness is far less than the pain of a companionship gone a little offtrack, but God damn it still hurts.

[manwomanmyth]

@tailgunner2 Life is tough in the Feminist age. Our government, as well as numerous other agencies, charities, and people, have successfully invaded private lives and made the entire realm of intimacy between people a danger-area for men. It is the inevitable consequence of women embracing Feminism.

Unfortunately, there is no way to trust that a woman will not make malicious use of the menu of options granted to her by the state. As it stands, men need to take great care AND be lucky. Not easy.

[Meta4ce]

@tailgunner2 Sex.

[ClintonKE]

@AngryActivist45

I bet your mom would be just proud of you for saying something like that as well.

[burnedHAHA]

@AngryActivist45 so what you're saying is that its a good thing to murder men that dont agree with you? yay feminist equality, not...

[burnedHAHA]

@AngryActivist45 ahhh your an ignorant slut, case closed.

[SkaRocksYea]

@burnedHAHA LMAO! Owned!

[Urhoboman5]

Isn't it true that women going to prison is on a very sharp incline recently?

[ManSpeakOut]

and they also discourage men from going out and reporting this abuse

They are either told to man up, or mocked and picked on for getting beat up by a woman. At least when women get abused they can report it (even when no such abuse is happening btw).

[ManSpeakOut]

Men are also trapped, put into a never-ending cycle of abuse. Women's trap was made mentally, in their minds.

Men on the other hand had it forced upon them by the outside world. If a woman abuses him, simply leaving is not that simple. Cause if he files for divorce, he will lose half of everything, the kids, the house and also pay child support. The law not only encourages these women to be violent to their husbands but also discourage men from leaving, thanks to these sex biased laws.

[JAKETHEGREAT11100]

@ManSpeakOut preach my brother preach! its because of this reason that so many men (including myself) are opposed to getting married or having children. i would love to meet my soul mate and marry her but i refuse because the bad far outweighs the good. it is the opposite for a woman. many women marry rich men then immediately get a divorce to take everything he has for no legitamite reason. women divorcing men should get nothing. marriage is a trap for a man.

[maleabusedincorpus]

Now I get it, my ex had counseling, was hospitalized several times for her violent behavior, then she got involved with some women's programs that were supposed to help her. She came home one day and said that I was the abuser and that the reason I was being abused was my fault.

I have numerous recordings of my ex and, in one, we discuss her threatening to kill me, our pet cats, U.S. Federal Judges, herself if I report her all within the context of her calling the police to silence me!

[sotonindeda]

@maleabusedincorpus ...looks like your ex is begging for someone to put bomb in her pussy... I would even put nails in her...

[chris3325]

@AngryActivist45 wtf are you even talking about? troll harder.

[GetItRight222]

This video is bullshit. men who beats their wives or even girlfriends, are to be burnt alive while they're asleep, so they don't do that to other women. Somebody has to end this shit.

[etatslartnec]

u cannot hit a woman period

[BRYONMU]

in victoria bc, i have read the booklet regarding domestic abuse as issued by human resourses, and noticed that beyond the introduction, every situation involves the woman as victim. in a pie chart there is a section reserved for male supremacy.

by the way, the index provided no resource center for men.

[LutzfromPS2]

Whats not mentioned is that women are the ones starting most of the fights. In the state of California, domestic violence is defined as a man hitting a woman. Men are taught just to suck it up, mean while women are taught they shouldn't have to take that shit. That's a little fucked up, don't you think? Next time you wife pulls out the frying pan and starts beating you with it, do what you gotta do men. If women don't want domestic violence to happen to them, stop hitting men in the first place.

[GetItRight222]

@LutzfromPS2 When did you get released from a mental hospital?

[LutzfromPS2]

@GetItRight222 What are you talking about, women are the aggressive ones in domestic fights. Women pick up the nearest objects near them, and throw them at their male partners. Women beat men with baseball bats and golf clubs. Don't give me this crap women are defenseless. Women are a lot more aggressive towards men than men are towards women.

[LutzfromPS2]

@GetItRight222 What about when Tiger woods got beat half to death with a golf club for cheating on his wife? His car got smashed the hell up too by his wife. And all the suddenly, when he is hurt, she puts down the golf club and loves him again. And don't tell me he deserved it because he cheated on her, i'm not going for it. What if it were the other way around, and she cheated on him? What if it had been the roles were switched and he had beaten her and the car with the golf club for cheating

[LutzfromPS2]

@GetItRight222 If she cheats on him, is it alright for him to attack her with a golf club? Its a double standard. He was running for his life trying to get away from her and she hit the damn car with a golf club! This woman is a psychopath and deserves to be locked up in prison. But then again, i'm sure a man recieve's no damage to him when hes beaten with a golf club, right? wrong. Men may be tough but getting beat with a golf club several times can fuck us up pretty good.

[LutzfromPS2]

@GetItRight222 You know i'm right on this, so you shut up. Figures, you open your mouth, but when i have a good defense, you back the hell off. Let this be a lesson to you all who question me.

[Sasshh88]

They are like rational people who are unable to emphasize with these women and instead assume that it's easy to just walk out. In fact,it's impossible to put yourself in the shoes of those women! In some cases they have children or they are financially dependent upon the men. Also, it's not as if society looks upon raped women in a good light. I do agree that men and women should be treated the same way but you cant say the women were stupid when you werent raped or BATTERED for nearly a decade

[leytonarms]

great stuff lads

[sccrow72]

Can I make a wise-crack?

@1:45 - feminist psychologist?

That is almost a redundancy (LOL)

[RedSkullthagreat]

Fellas,this is how we(men) fight back & win!! STOP FUCKING!! LEARN TO LOVE beating your meat!! If you can wrap your head around that concept,they will come begging to have us back! Don't donate sperm!! Matter of fact if we all ,in a unified front, deny them companionship or any social interaction,they will turn on homosexual men as well,thereby forcing them to also join our ranks. B4 long we will develop sex bots that feel REAL and NOT need them. Ahhh,UTOPIA!!

[sotonindeda]

@RedSkullthagreat ...that's right... we don't need them.... I will cut of my balls before I touch a woman anymore...

[CarlPutz]

It's the women who deliberately go for the violent men. Women feel attracted by irresponsible and psychopathic behaviour from men.

If you disagree with this, ask yourself why these "bad men" are still around. For if women didn't want them and avoided them, their genes would die out, now, wouldn't they?

Women are just as much responsible for wife abuse as men, for they chose the violent men.

[GetItRight222]

@CarlPutz Women should stop giving birth to men from now on. This will stop the whole fucking shit that is happening on earth.

[MrSpieldose]

those women have borderline personality disorder.

I just argued with woman after woman buy commenting on the video about that female serial killer about how she was a cold blooded killer and it was feminazi after feminazi about being raped and whatnot and I erased it because those bitches are nuts and all of them want to kill men too.

And if you baby them they call you a faggot... they want to be treated like that on some level.

[pinegrove33]

I like the comparison between "hysterical females" and "normal people"=100 percent accurate.

[cjjaxxon]

Anybody wanna bend Harriet Harman over and do her..............with strap on!! I wouldn't touch her with my family jewels.

[TheAlaricPetz]

Funny.

I'm listening to "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Alice Cooper while a watch this!! Keep up the good work manwomantruth! I love seeing fresh new videos by you show up on my page whenever I log on. =)

[manwomanmyth]

I appreciate your support. As for daily motion, I will look at this too.

[sting444]

@manwomanmyth

You could reach to American audiences by highlighting the unequal contributions of women to US Social Security benefits via the FICA payroll tax (~12%, though in many cases, employers pay half)

avg. US female annual income rate to male : 8:10

avg US life span for men=75 women=80

avg US retirement age = 65

men draw 10 years of benefits

women draw 15 years of benefits

Women contribute at most 80% of US FICA tax and draw 50% more.

[St37One]

"Slow motion snaping"?

This is yet more Orwell inspired feminist poetry.

They just love the oxy morons and contradictory nonsense.

I begin to wonder if some of these activists have a mild and contagious form of receptive aphasia.

Green colourless ideas sleep furiously!

Furiously!

I call that language abuse.

[uratrick]

Andrea Yates , Amy Fisher, Susan smith the list goes on and on.

[RichKnight2010]

Speak loudly to a woman?

According to feminism, she's been 'battered'.

[MaxSachs]

Refuse to give her money....she's also been 'battered'! The word is as meaningful as misogyny now.....

[St37One]

Dead men can't testify.

[tripslikstar]

Dam! Thats a hard truth.

[thecreepyguy]

One of those little clips was just RIDICULOUS.

A woman is sitting IN A CAR

IN A CAR.

With all her kids and everything she needs to get out of that situation and she still kills the person and people would still interprete this as self defense..