It is soooo incredibly difficult for a child to voice what is happening to them. To have that voice ignored & disregarded by a parent, a protector, is just tragic! Parents need to talk to their kids all time about this. Parents need to be the type of parent that a child can actually talk too. My heartfelt apologies to you mjmusicfreak, I’m sorry our society ignored you & hung you out to dry. Live on and heal, the best is awaiting you.
These people who were so evil to the girl....they need to die. I would torch their houses down, kill everyone they love, then paint a room with their blood.
Thank you for uploading this video! I am a 42 year old man who was molested repeatedly by my brother when I was 7. I kept the secret for too many years just like I was told I should do. I am a broken and bitter man who has no contact with his family because they chose to ignore, deny, and downplay what has happened. The people who have said negative things about your video are ignorant and should be ashamed of themselves. Take Care!
Dont worry, my life was like that when i was 8 yrs old, now im 10. Everything that happend to you happend to me, except for going to a mental hospital and being molestered by grampa. I got molestered BY MY UNCLE! When he did that to me, I was afraid of people from now on. I always wished the was dead. My mom and my family dont know that he did that to me cuz i never told them. IF YOU THINK I SHOULD TELL THEM, LIKE THIS AND WHEN I GET 50 LIKES I WILL TELL THEM. This is my story.Thanks for reading
if I ever had that happen to my son and/or daughter I'd plain out shoot the person responsible there's no ands ifs or buts about it. Noone deserves that kind of trauma in there life. This is the reason why I bought a gun, this is why it won't leave my side. I'm sorry of this seems emotional and I am truly sorry for what happened to you. If there's anything you want to talk about message me I will listen.
im so sorry to hear that that has happened to you, i was also sexually abused, not but my grandfather, but by a very close family friend. i know how painfull and how hard it can be to deal with.
That little girl is also very much like me. My mother is still married to the man who ruined my life. And it is true no one cares. I was all alone and turned to music to help me cope. Dark music. I still love much of that dark music today. I am still very bitter and think a lot about killing people or killing myself. Fortunately I've never attempted either. It is hard not to think about it on a daily basis. There is NO ONE out there who can help except God. Good luck and may God be with you.
@hvislysettaros2010 SOLUTION-powerful matriarchy group which prevents child abuse-especially from fathers/gov/professionals who think their superiority justify abuse of poor mothers &their children- religion and teachers has exterminated the matriarchies of the world where mothers/grandmothers have POWER 2 resist fathers & gov abuses-for HOPE read iroquois women by w spittal-4 sane future generations of mothers clans"mothers and children need to take back their own territory "say H.I.C.india
@hvislysettaros2010 the only therapy which help me is the sia group- online and in groups- literature is very healing from other victims-we need matriarchy clans now
first of all my comment was not disrepect to you i just saying u saying that everyone on youtube is a pedo. That how i look at the tittle
:( and i got a family member got molestation from grampa so i know how u feel and i will not use this tittle i be little more smarter and do not make fun of how i type as i got speech impediment that cause me with poor grammer. so i report u for making fun of me.
How is that title saying everyone on youtube is a pedo? I don't see it. Maybe you need to learn how to read descriptions and understand things before you comment.
Ok, but it didnt happen to you so don't start to say you know how I feel. I hate that. You have NO IDEA!
Obviously I'm not making fun of you because I didnt know... You cant report someone for not knowing!!
I'm blocking you because this ""argument" is stupid.
People like you picking on every little thing bother me...
@mlafon25 .shut up wth that tatle tale. i mean please,you gonna go tell caus ur feelins got hurt.dont be a snitch.and for spelling,pppplllease,i always spell crappy,why,bcause i dnt care.type fast.people who care are really lamer than lamer.why wld a speach prob. cause you to type wrong? huh duuuu
child molestation please read description that is disrepectful u say all youtube user is a child molestation. change your tittle or i report this video.
your so brave to post this and be so open. i wish i could but sadly i cant. since my cousin was only three yrs older than me, everyone put it off as his 'curiousity' he went to live with his dad and we were never alone after i told but nothing was done either. he's back around now and everyone acts like it never happened. if i ever am around him i take a friend with me. sadly my church friends that know my story are closer family than my real family. thanks for sharing
Oh my Goodness! I'm very sorry about what happened to you. When I was 5 or 6 on a trip to Florida, my older male cousin touched me innapropriately and i kept it in for a long time until 2009. I felt scared and ashamed. but you are so courageous and you inspire me because of your strength. I didn't have it that bad and you had it terrible and yu survived through it. God bless.
thank you for sharing this video.. it is my life complete except it was a couple uncles who molested and raped me.. I tried to kill myself my husband did kill himself.. I am now alone with a 15 year old daughter who I over protect. however I trust NO ONE.. if you can't trust family who can you trust.. I am alone.. but not anymore. thank you for every word you spoke..
I know how u feel ,it happen to me to, my grandfather, from age 4-11 every day. but the truth came out and he went to jail then died, i am scared forever, you are not alone their (unfornetly) are many of us out there,,,,Take each day at time, and know that he may have stole your childhood , but he can't have your soul unless u allow him to.You never forget ,but you are stronger for having been through it and survived, pick ur self u dear ,dust urself off a move on inspite of him!
@brittyizawesome Tell some it will be the best thing you ever do for ur self. If it is stilll happing Tell now don't suffer another day, tell untill someone hears u and helps u. I went through it for many years,I was terrified to tell to, but i can't tell u how much it helped when i did.
@brittyizawesome Its hard to tell its very hard i understand ,my fears were what if they think im making it up, will i be hated sadly my mother and a few aunts refused to believe me and took my fathers side :{ there the reason i feel alot of regret but i feel at ease in my own bed.
my mother has been sexually abused by her father from the time she was 8 until she was 16. Then she allmost died because she stopped eating. When she was 18 she ran away and is scared of men until tiday (she is 50)
She never wanted a therapy, so i know all the side effects ..
I think the most important thing to do is to talk about it and to make these people see that they need a therapy as soon as possible
I had a life time of abuse and was lucky enough to get the help I needed to bust my abuser and he died a broken man. It's been so many years and my life is better but still the pain and domino effects from everything he did that made me suffer enough it was hard to have a normal happy life, still affects me and my family. Each day and week and year we get better but this I know...no one should take another human being and assume thier value in this world to be small enough it's ok to abuse them.
i'm 15 and im ashamed of what i let some of the people i know do to me. i should have known what they were doing was bad but i was to young to understand that it was wrong. i still see them sometimes in my town and all i hope for sometimes is that they'd forget about it and leave me alone
I'm like a cut that doesn't bleed. I watched this, and felt confused, then i felt ashamed for my troubled childhood. then sadness deeper sadness and now it's all just anger anger for what i could've done should've done. But thats behind me. I went through now its time to fight my demons by helping those who haven't gone through it. And should never have too. I was molested by women. billions of faces. Can you spot the devils?
i feel you in this it still hurts after a while i got molested too by my grandfather since i was 6-12 everyday and night. he died just 3 yrs ago i feel you so much and its still hard for me to go thru life everyday. i was diagnosed with depression and tried to commit suicide alot of times i even went to therapy just to find out why i was so depressed and afriad of boys
have seziours fo he rest of my life freakkk it so hurts and i still feel so much forgiveness and at the same time i want to scream out but its been so long even if i had the strenghth to do so i feel it just doesnt matter any more no one hears me except me im so grateful for you being the brave soul u are and thank u for speaking up still after all this time theres some of us out here that do hear u i wish i could take away all the pain u felt and how hard that freaking was bless u sweet sister
im still alone now and the rest of my family still blame me and i am very aware that im not welcome and i never felt welcome a matter of fact always felt nervious around them all now i have so much healing to dojust to let some one help me now that my health is going u se when i was a new born about a mth old i was droped or hit so badly in the head it fractured my skull and caused me to shake and
but it still is such a huge wound within me that ill never fonction the same i enternallized alot then my dad got sick and i was the only one there to take care of him my mom was to upset at him for being sick and dieing so i did and at that time i gave him what he could not give me LOVE compassion for his suffering
even though at age 5 i had effection with my kidneys and bladder a mager sign as well i finally let go and moved on i forgave i could see there suffering some times more than my own now it has grown into a very unhealthy situation not trusting any one feel i cant let any one close and i sooo want too its beyond me at times
i cryed so hard watching this it brakes my heart i went thru the very same thing but with my dad and mom at age 12 i told my mom and she called me a liar and said i was jelious and if he did if i didnt like it to get out very shocking moment on top of every thing eles i had no where and no one and as i got older it just built up inside of me then i finally stood up for myself and it all turn againstt me no one would listen no one believed me >>>
hahaha moskirider how would u like it this is not somthing to laugh about at all can u look inside and find compassion its there just look a little harder please and thank u :)
i m sorry i cant even imagine how you felt bout no one listening to you i have a daughter that is 2 and a half and anything and everything she tells mi no matter how little it is i always listen to her i m sorry that your family werent there for you bt because of girls like you mothers like me will know what are the signs to look for if we suspect anything tks and i m really sorry bt you and your family didnt do nathing for him bt just remember GOD watches everything and he will do something
i know how it feels to get molested i was molested too but by my friends grand- father more then once it horrible. i 11. when i was molested and the memories still haunt me right now i'm 13 and yeah i still carry the anger and sadness in my heart. i told his daugter and guess what she said. it was normal for him to molest kid cause he did that to her and and his grand dauther and they just laugh when he did that i got angeir at them also but he died last year.i wish u the best of luck.
Hi Maria, I am so sorry. I was abused by my father when I was a baby. I didn't get the memories back til I was in my 30's. I am 66 now. Life is much better, but I am still in therapy. I wouldn't be here if it weren't for my therapist. The effects of post-traumatic stress disorder are horrific. It is hard for people who haven't experienced it to understand, but many of us do understand. Group therapy is also very helpful. Hang in Maria. It is your life now. Lois
DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT LOVE!!! if you dont it will eat you up on the inside til you cant take it! confront him if you feel secure enough. if not seek a professional... theres a ton of them that can help confront your anger. you have every right to be angry and possibly frustrated. My grandfather isnt alive and sadly i can not confront him instead when i visit his grave site i almost want to spit in disgust.
@kriss18robinson seek help for ur pain and anger and make sure no other kid comes in contact with him,tell someone who will tell the police. Don't ignore the facts, my grandfather abused me and he had abused many more before me but they let it go,because he was family, but if they had told the proper people it could have saved me. so tell and make sure he hurts no one else most abusers go on to hurt many more, STOP the cycle.
BUT males also go through it... but i feel bad because some males, people would probably laugh in their face is they got sexually abused. :( But lots of people go through different kinds of abuse and it NEEDS to STOP!
I know how you feel, i told my mother, but she still left me with them, I am 31 & still cant forget. I have so much hate built up inside, I HATE my mother & havent seen her in 13yrs, i HATE the one that did this to me. You never forget, it changes you, how you see ppl...everything. I still cry & think why? Why wld they do that? I was just a baby.
ohmy god im am so sorry ihope all those people who have touch you when you were little go to hell because sexual abuse is not right andyou look very pretty.and i know it was hard for you in skool for everyone to call you that if you told me about i would have been your friend till you didnt havr to face that no more i hope you have a happy life and enjoy it !!!
Great video. To anyone that has been through this and anyone that wants to prevent this from happening to children. Please visit my channel. It is the official youtube channel for the non profit org Protect Children Inc. you can find access to free help and understanding if you have been abused and also request free guidelines using only your e-mail address, that will teach you and children how to prevent sexual abuse.
I know how you feel, my grandad abused me. I didn't dare tell, it went on for years... from around five yrs old till around 12. It finally came out . The difference in my story is that my parents did believe, and stuck by me. Moved me out of state . and had him put away. )My best friend wasn't so lucky , her parents didn't believe.) I am now 33, and i still struggle..He died in 99, but it doesn't make the pain go away...And I know it never will....I am a survivor
Heres a story I read ITS NOT MY STORY ITS OMEONE ELSES
"When I was 10 i went to a beach one day. I told my parents I had to go to bathroom so I went to a gas station-Alone. A 17 or 18 year old boy was there and he said "I hav to unlock the bthroom for you" He took me into the bathroom but followed me in. He said 'Your not a big girl yet. I have to be in here with you.>:)'" When I read that I almost cried. IThat story is the reason I hav a pocket knife everywhere i go.
I like porn not some pity story like this.
claireandress 1 week ago
It is soooo incredibly difficult for a child to voice what is happening to them. To have that voice ignored & disregarded by a parent, a protector, is just tragic! Parents need to talk to their kids all time about this. Parents need to be the type of parent that a child can actually talk too. My heartfelt apologies to you mjmusicfreak, I’m sorry our society ignored you & hung you out to dry. Live on and heal, the best is awaiting you.
leannewags 2 weeks ago
These people who were so evil to the girl....they need to die. I would torch their houses down, kill everyone they love, then paint a room with their blood.
theshiznits2020 1 month ago
Thank you for uploading this video! I am a 42 year old man who was molested repeatedly by my brother when I was 7. I kept the secret for too many years just like I was told I should do. I am a broken and bitter man who has no contact with his family because they chose to ignore, deny, and downplay what has happened. The people who have said negative things about your video are ignorant and should be ashamed of themselves. Take Care!
fufairy 2 months ago
Dont worry, my life was like that when i was 8 yrs old, now im 10. Everything that happend to you happend to me, except for going to a mental hospital and being molestered by grampa. I got molestered BY MY UNCLE! When he did that to me, I was afraid of people from now on. I always wished the was dead. My mom and my family dont know that he did that to me cuz i never told them. IF YOU THINK I SHOULD TELL THEM, LIKE THIS AND WHEN I GET 50 LIKES I WILL TELL THEM. This is my story.Thanks for reading
TheSisi508 4 months ago
thank you for telling your story. too many children are molested and no one knows.
with your story others feel support. thank you
phonixashes 4 months ago
i really pity this girl.
TheS9936744z 5 months ago
if I ever had that happen to my son and/or daughter I'd plain out shoot the person responsible there's no ands ifs or buts about it. Noone deserves that kind of trauma in there life. This is the reason why I bought a gun, this is why it won't leave my side. I'm sorry of this seems emotional and I am truly sorry for what happened to you. If there's anything you want to talk about message me I will listen.
apeterman0327 6 months ago
and Id guess theres stories a billion times worse than hers. She made it to high school, theres boys and girls who dont even make it there.
TheCaptainLulz 7 months ago
Omg why would he do that? It's just sick. Sorry it happened to you :( nobody deserves it.
laurenb5050 8 months ago
Same thing happened to my first cousin. Her father molested her and when he died she was still afraid of him.
Cainkane1 9 months ago
:( you have no idea
45ptowngirl 10 months ago
I hope that after you posted this, has helped you in more ways than one, every day is a hard day to start healing...:)
shezzallee 11 months ago
cops do nothing thats why she taped-but if offender is an authority cops destroy tapes etc-see franklin cover up
lmollot 1 year ago
im so sorry to hear that that has happened to you, i was also sexually abused, not but my grandfather, but by a very close family friend. i know how painfull and how hard it can be to deal with.
devil45110 1 year ago
That little girl is also very much like me. My mother is still married to the man who ruined my life. And it is true no one cares. I was all alone and turned to music to help me cope. Dark music. I still love much of that dark music today. I am still very bitter and think a lot about killing people or killing myself. Fortunately I've never attempted either. It is hard not to think about it on a daily basis. There is NO ONE out there who can help except God. Good luck and may God be with you.
hvislysettaros2010 1 year ago
@hvislysettaros2010 SOLUTION-powerful matriarchy group which prevents child abuse-especially from fathers/gov/professionals who think their superiority justify abuse of poor mothers &their children- religion and teachers has exterminated the matriarchies of the world where mothers/grandmothers have POWER 2 resist fathers & gov abuses-for HOPE read iroquois women by w spittal-4 sane future generations of mothers clans"mothers and children need to take back their own territory "say H.I.C.india
lmollot 1 year ago
@hvislysettaros2010 the only therapy which help me is the sia group- online and in groups- literature is very healing from other victims-we need matriarchy clans now
lmollot 1 year ago
all the strength in the world to you. Heaven knows you deserve it....
Mercuryrose86 1 year ago
im sorry
lovelifesolo 1 year ago
first of all my comment was not disrepect to you i just saying u saying that everyone on youtube is a pedo. That how i look at the tittle
:( and i got a family member got molestation from grampa so i know how u feel and i will not use this tittle i be little more smarter and do not make fun of how i type as i got speech impediment that cause me with poor grammer. so i report u for making fun of me.
mlafon25 1 year ago
@mlafon25
How is that title saying everyone on youtube is a pedo? I don't see it. Maybe you need to learn how to read descriptions and understand things before you comment.
Ok, but it didnt happen to you so don't start to say you know how I feel. I hate that. You have NO IDEA!
Obviously I'm not making fun of you because I didnt know... You cant report someone for not knowing!!
I'm blocking you because this ""argument" is stupid.
People like you picking on every little thing bother me...
mjmusicfreak 1 year ago 6
@mjmusicfreak rite said!!
depikahotty 5 months ago
@mlafon25 .shut up wth that tatle tale. i mean please,you gonna go tell caus ur feelins got hurt.dont be a snitch.and for spelling,pppplllease,i always spell crappy,why,bcause i dnt care.type fast.people who care are really lamer than lamer.why wld a speach prob. cause you to type wrong? huh duuuu
teamwilson2 8 months ago
child molestation please read description that is disrepectful u say all youtube user is a child molestation. change your tittle or i report this video.
mlafon25 1 year ago
@mlafon25
uhm excuse me this has nothing to do with all youtube users and no where in there says they are child molesters....
beside learn some grammar cuz that barely made any sense...
by making this comment you have disrespected me and I'll report you.
Read the description CAREFULLY before commenting, it is about ME not YOU or the others...
I will NOT change this title because it is appropriate!
Unless you can prove to me how this title is inappropriate I will block and delete you.
mjmusicfreak 1 year ago
your so brave to post this and be so open. i wish i could but sadly i cant. since my cousin was only three yrs older than me, everyone put it off as his 'curiousity' he went to live with his dad and we were never alone after i told but nothing was done either. he's back around now and everyone acts like it never happened. if i ever am around him i take a friend with me. sadly my church friends that know my story are closer family than my real family. thanks for sharing
Mysafehaven88 1 year ago
wait is that realy you?
angelmn95 1 year ago
@angelmn95 yes thats really me.
mjmusicfreak 1 year ago
Oh gosh, I feel bad for her. Her mom should've listen to her!
DOUGLA192 1 year ago
Oh my Goodness! I'm very sorry about what happened to you. When I was 5 or 6 on a trip to Florida, my older male cousin touched me innapropriately and i kept it in for a long time until 2009. I felt scared and ashamed. but you are so courageous and you inspire me because of your strength. I didn't have it that bad and you had it terrible and yu survived through it. God bless.
BlackorWhite0920 1 year ago
thank you for sharing this video.. it is my life complete except it was a couple uncles who molested and raped me.. I tried to kill myself my husband did kill himself.. I am now alone with a 15 year old daughter who I over protect. however I trust NO ONE.. if you can't trust family who can you trust.. I am alone.. but not anymore. thank you for every word you spoke..
Brenda
163Brenda1 1 year ago
I know how u feel ,it happen to me to, my grandfather, from age 4-11 every day. but the truth came out and he went to jail then died, i am scared forever, you are not alone their (unfornetly) are many of us out there,,,,Take each day at time, and know that he may have stole your childhood , but he can't have your soul unless u allow him to.You never forget ,but you are stronger for having been through it and survived, pick ur self u dear ,dust urself off a move on inspite of him!
chickluvbostons 1 year ago 2
I just don't see why I'm so terrified to tell someone what happened to me. I just can't do it but I wish I could.
brittyizawesome 1 year ago
@brittyizawesome Tell some it will be the best thing you ever do for ur self. If it is stilll happing Tell now don't suffer another day, tell untill someone hears u and helps u. I went through it for many years,I was terrified to tell to, but i can't tell u how much it helped when i did.
chickluvbostons 1 year ago
@brittyizawesome Its hard to tell its very hard i understand ,my fears were what if they think im making it up, will i be hated sadly my mother and a few aunts refused to believe me and took my fathers side :{ there the reason i feel alot of regret but i feel at ease in my own bed.
akatsukisunshine 1 year ago
u dont hav to be a child to be molested , dumbass n im 14 so go fuk off
TheToxicpanda95 1 year ago
thts sum crazy shit , ive ben molested by my ex ,
TheToxicpanda95 1 year ago
im also one of the 1 out of 7 abused victims
meowmeowarf 1 year ago
my mother has been sexually abused by her father from the time she was 8 until she was 16. Then she allmost died because she stopped eating. When she was 18 she ran away and is scared of men until tiday (she is 50)
She never wanted a therapy, so i know all the side effects ..
I think the most important thing to do is to talk about it and to make these people see that they need a therapy as soon as possible
iiisi1 1 year ago
dude.....
maenixon 1 year ago
1.put your hands on your chest
2.think of someone you like
3.tomorrow that person will ask u out or tell you they love you
4.the catch is that you have to write this on 5 videos before it works
olafur60 1 year ago
OMG IM SOO SORRY take a shotgun and shoot his ass in his grave what a sick son of a &*##@
records555 1 year ago
I had a life time of abuse and was lucky enough to get the help I needed to bust my abuser and he died a broken man. It's been so many years and my life is better but still the pain and domino effects from everything he did that made me suffer enough it was hard to have a normal happy life, still affects me and my family. Each day and week and year we get better but this I know...no one should take another human being and assume thier value in this world to be small enough it's ok to abuse them.
nashportismyhome 2 years ago
Im sooo sorry this happened to you i know what kind of pain you went through:'(
cool1forever 2 years ago
i'm 15 and im ashamed of what i let some of the people i know do to me. i should have known what they were doing was bad but i was to young to understand that it was wrong. i still see them sometimes in my town and all i hope for sometimes is that they'd forget about it and leave me alone
cdfitz100 2 years ago
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cdfitz100 2 years ago
thank you
cdfitz100 2 years ago
I'm like a cut that doesn't bleed. I watched this, and felt confused, then i felt ashamed for my troubled childhood. then sadness deeper sadness and now it's all just anger anger for what i could've done should've done. But thats behind me. I went through now its time to fight my demons by helping those who haven't gone through it. And should never have too. I was molested by women. billions of faces. Can you spot the devils?
FookinFooker 2 years ago 2
so very sad all i can say is iz 2 move forward nd dont luk back @ ur tragic past
:(
kaz271 2 years ago
i feel you in this it still hurts after a while i got molested too by my grandfather since i was 6-12 everyday and night. he died just 3 yrs ago i feel you so much and its still hard for me to go thru life everyday. i was diagnosed with depression and tried to commit suicide alot of times i even went to therapy just to find out why i was so depressed and afriad of boys
i understand your pain
mariposa1590 2 years ago
i love you and i feel so sad and i wish you all the best...
TheDeddppl 2 years ago
have seziours fo he rest of my life freakkk it so hurts and i still feel so much forgiveness and at the same time i want to scream out but its been so long even if i had the strenghth to do so i feel it just doesnt matter any more no one hears me except me im so grateful for you being the brave soul u are and thank u for speaking up still after all this time theres some of us out here that do hear u i wish i could take away all the pain u felt and how hard that freaking was bless u sweet sister
shanti1001 2 years ago
im still alone now and the rest of my family still blame me and i am very aware that im not welcome and i never felt welcome a matter of fact always felt nervious around them all now i have so much healing to dojust to let some one help me now that my health is going u se when i was a new born about a mth old i was droped or hit so badly in the head it fractured my skull and caused me to shake and
shanti1001 2 years ago
but it still is such a huge wound within me that ill never fonction the same i enternallized alot then my dad got sick and i was the only one there to take care of him my mom was to upset at him for being sick and dieing so i did and at that time i gave him what he could not give me LOVE compassion for his suffering
shanti1001 2 years ago
even though at age 5 i had effection with my kidneys and bladder a mager sign as well i finally let go and moved on i forgave i could see there suffering some times more than my own now it has grown into a very unhealthy situation not trusting any one feel i cant let any one close and i sooo want too its beyond me at times
shanti1001 2 years ago
i cryed so hard watching this it brakes my heart i went thru the very same thing but with my dad and mom at age 12 i told my mom and she called me a liar and said i was jelious and if he did if i didnt like it to get out very shocking moment on top of every thing eles i had no where and no one and as i got older it just built up inside of me then i finally stood up for myself and it all turn againstt me no one would listen no one believed me >>>
shanti1001 2 years ago
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hahahhaha you got raped by your grandfather muahahahahahhahah
moskirider 2 years ago
hahaha moskirider how would u like it this is not somthing to laugh about at all can u look inside and find compassion its there just look a little harder please and thank u :)
shanti1001 2 years ago
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moskirider 2 years ago
i m sorry i cant even imagine how you felt bout no one listening to you i have a daughter that is 2 and a half and anything and everything she tells mi no matter how little it is i always listen to her i m sorry that your family werent there for you bt because of girls like you mothers like me will know what are the signs to look for if we suspect anything tks and i m really sorry bt you and your family didnt do nathing for him bt just remember GOD watches everything and he will do something
xmariselax 2 years ago
i know how it feels to get molested i was molested too but by my friends grand- father more then once it horrible. i 11. when i was molested and the memories still haunt me right now i'm 13 and yeah i still carry the anger and sadness in my heart. i told his daugter and guess what she said. it was normal for him to molest kid cause he did that to her and and his grand dauther and they just laugh when he did that i got angeir at them also but he died last year.i wish u the best of luck.
natm150 2 years ago
Hi Maria, I am so sorry. I was abused by my father when I was a baby. I didn't get the memories back til I was in my 30's. I am 66 now. Life is much better, but I am still in therapy. I wouldn't be here if it weren't for my therapist. The effects of post-traumatic stress disorder are horrific. It is hard for people who haven't experienced it to understand, but many of us do understand. Group therapy is also very helpful. Hang in Maria. It is your life now. Lois
lc237 2 years ago
Same thing happened to me. Only my mom believed me, but not my grandmother:( My step-grandfather is still alive, and well. I'm so angry about him!!
kriss18robinson 3 years ago
DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT LOVE!!! if you dont it will eat you up on the inside til you cant take it! confront him if you feel secure enough. if not seek a professional... theres a ton of them that can help confront your anger. you have every right to be angry and possibly frustrated. My grandfather isnt alive and sadly i can not confront him instead when i visit his grave site i almost want to spit in disgust.
mjmusicfreak 3 years ago
@kriss18robinson seek help for ur pain and anger and make sure no other kid comes in contact with him,tell someone who will tell the police. Don't ignore the facts, my grandfather abused me and he had abused many more before me but they let it go,because he was family, but if they had told the proper people it could have saved me. so tell and make sure he hurts no one else most abusers go on to hurt many more, STOP the cycle.
chickluvbostons 1 year ago
Im sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorrry...
americansamoan08 3 years ago 5
BUT males also go through it... but i feel bad because some males, people would probably laugh in their face is they got sexually abused. :( But lots of people go through different kinds of abuse and it NEEDS to STOP!
MileyCyrusIsSoAwsome 3 years ago 6
@MileyCyrusIsSoAwsome see franklin cover uo for male victims of sex abuse- if offender is family see siawso dot org- all victims peer group -
lmollot 1 year ago
@MileyCyrusIsSoAwsome see franklin COVER UP for male victims of sex abuse- if offender is family see siawso dot org- all victims peer group -
lmollot 1 year ago
AWE I feel for you! :( I know what you've been through. It sucks that lots of FEMALES and not that many males go through abuse like that. :(
MileyCyrusIsSoAwsome 3 years ago
I know how you feel, i told my mother, but she still left me with them, I am 31 & still cant forget. I have so much hate built up inside, I HATE my mother & havent seen her in 13yrs, i HATE the one that did this to me. You never forget, it changes you, how you see ppl...everything. I still cry & think why? Why wld they do that? I was just a baby.
taffygirlgood 3 years ago
ohmy god im am so sorry ihope all those people who have touch you when you were little go to hell because sexual abuse is not right andyou look very pretty.and i know it was hard for you in skool for everyone to call you that if you told me about i would have been your friend till you didnt havr to face that no more i hope you have a happy life and enjoy it !!!
B3NITA08 3 years ago
thank you all for your wonderful and supportive comments...
mjmusicfreak 3 years ago
Great video. To anyone that has been through this and anyone that wants to prevent this from happening to children. Please visit my channel. It is the official youtube channel for the non profit org Protect Children Inc. you can find access to free help and understanding if you have been abused and also request free guidelines using only your e-mail address, that will teach you and children how to prevent sexual abuse.
ProtectChildrenInc 3 years ago
I know how you feel, my grandad abused me. I didn't dare tell, it went on for years... from around five yrs old till around 12. It finally came out . The difference in my story is that my parents did believe, and stuck by me. Moved me out of state . and had him put away. )My best friend wasn't so lucky , her parents didn't believe.) I am now 33, and i still struggle..He died in 99, but it doesn't make the pain go away...And I know it never will....I am a survivor
chickluvbostons 3 years ago
Heres a story I read ITS NOT MY STORY ITS OMEONE ELSES
"When I was 10 i went to a beach one day. I told my parents I had to go to bathroom so I went to a gas station-Alone. A 17 or 18 year old boy was there and he said "I hav to unlock the bthroom for you" He took me into the bathroom but followed me in. He said 'Your not a big girl yet. I have to be in here with you.>:)'" When I read that I almost cried. IThat story is the reason I hav a pocket knife everywhere i go.
YesIm10 3 years ago
I'm so sorry.
hellobbylove 3 years ago
I'm praying for you. I'm so sorry his happened. I know how you feel- I've been there.
candy3A3Z 4 years ago
great video. i have been there too.
ClarityStemp 4 years ago
i'm so sorry i know how you feel belive me my sisters sexually abused me and my father was beating me and once again i'm so sorry for you
figge2 4 years ago