Help!

[royceicon]

I really hope things are better for you now! What a shitty situation.. I actually moved back to Columbus around the time you posted this and was in a pretty bad spot myself...  Weird... You seem like an awesome person, I wish you only the bext..

[etheprez]

Hi Ashley.. Lee here, I own a small antique store in Washington state. Would you consider moving to here and going to work for me? I've been following your posts and feel you seriously got dealt aa crappy hand in this situation. The store is in the Seattle area. Let me know dear

[XLNCs]

how kind!

[TellsHowItIs]

How did you manage to sort the situation? If I had seen this b4 I would have helped how I could. The so called friend that just dumped you in it like that should have felt so bad for what she did.

[LordWassa]

you are divine, not problems for you, be happy!

[willowest]

"manned up" - god that sounds gross

I hope you sorted it out eventually

[bad2bone50]

I would like to help. How can i get help to you? gregg :)

[frnkcap]

ashley are you a hermaphrodite women...

[icecoldbath]

Funny how I went from the prettiest ladyboy you have ever seen to disgusting, did someone make a sticky mess in his hand?

lol.

[TheReasonWhyGuy]

dfgd3453dft4f-1

icecoldbath+1

[willowest]

omg are you referring to something he said earlier

haha, that would be funny :D

[TheReasonWhyGirl]

T_T

Omg

I was to just hug you, I wish I could have helped but that's long since over with.

[TheReasonWhyGuy]

"I was to just hug you"

I wa"nt" to just hug you,

sorry, I wasn't thinking to clearly...

[LadyLisa513]

Wow not much of a friend, that was so wrong on so many level's, i know this was a while ago but im so sorry that happened to you. She will get her's in the end.

[punkwendyhouse]

What a bitch!

Hope you found somewhere

[cabrina23]

your so beautiful your a great insperation=DDD~!!!!!!!!!!!!

[AndresRequenaFielOE]

ya ves no es bueno llorar no estas sola tkm!!! ok =)

[CumSailor69]

:;-( o no

[Tamai64]

Ahhh this vid shreddes my heart.

I can offer you.............with no strings attached,HONESTLY. :)

[mls52uk]

I share your pain, I came to Canada at the age of 18 knowing noone and placed with a relative I didn't know. Within 2 months I was asked to leave as I was disturbing their married life. Since then I've made them realize that if they had been a little less self absorbed they would have had a good friend and reliable family member. Too bad for them

[dinkyzebra]

oh my gosh this made me cry

i hope that things are looking up for you now i wish i could do more than give you my sincere wishes that things get better for you if i was in a position to help you i honestly would

[peaceandparty]

this is an absolutely stupid beyond belief comment!

and its people like you that amazingly succeed in this life because thats the way the world is....people with no heart become millionaires.....so you are on the right track to being a soul-less milliionaire!

yet...the regret for you and many like you will be not having friends with heart and real soul!

people taking hormones or naturally lacking in their respective hormones(me as an xxy)can be highly emotional--i ask u 2 have a bloody heart!

[MIDJOBZ]

Hi me again!

one question why is your so called best friend so mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

she must be very cold hearted to treat you like this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but their are places you can go for shelter, good Christian churches, welfair asociations, charity organisations, dont cry start going outside and reach these good people! dont worry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MIDJOBZ]

My heart reaches out for you! try talking to your friend, tell her how desperate you are! if not worse comes to the worse, go back to see your father to help you out! stay for a couple of weeks with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he is your dad after all, DONT WORRY! SMILE PLEASE, its not end of the world.

good luck!

let me know how your getting on!

[GLBTQcommunity]

i'm glad ur with sarah now, and hey, you're coming to NY!!! yay

[killerrodan]

i wish i could help......

[CrippledRetardo]

Your friends a fucking bitch!

[licherliesins]

who cares... im sure theres more important things in life then u moving out bitch!

[bouncer160]

i care. and this comment goes to prove that the community is self centered and self obsessed, ths is no reflection on the video

[sweetmissy88]

I hope that by now you have been able to improve things on your own...if you have paypal we could pass the hat arround here.

[icecoldbath]

Thank you so much. My head is up and high!

[blaire57]

you seem very heartless, maybe you should try living in Ashley's shoes for awhile

[kayserenity]

She wasn't lying. I hope you're never in the same situation.

[icecoldbath]

I'm pretty sure you didn't post a comment :)

[markdodge126]

Good and Bad everything happens for a reason..and you have to believe that. To learn and grow stronger as a person.My heart feels for you but I believe there is a reason for this.You may have some experiences or great things waiting for you in New York.I know its hard to think about..but when you are in the depths of bad times..thats when you find yourself.U inspire many and U might not even realize it.Keep up the vids and remember famly is who loves you..not just who your related to.

[icecoldbath]

I may disagree with most of the things you say, but I agree about the family bit. Thank you.

[markdodge126]

I know U might disagree because I too never believed that advice..but As a Gay man who has been through hell..I can relate to you..and I can honestly say that you one day may believe in what I said because you will see it come into existance when your not looking.Anyways..U have come so far in your journey so don't give up ok :)..Mugh Hugs

[OwenAB83]

Never depend on anyone else if you can help it. Best of luck to you

Owen

[icecoldbath]

Thanks for the luck!

[CatCommunication]

Horoto13 Don't be a meanie on a video where someone is crying because they are about to be homeless.

[CatCommunication]

I live in Columbus, and I would suggest that you go call or visit an organization called "Stonewall Columbus". They are a LGBT advocacy group. I am sure you would NOT be the first person who was facing a housing crisis to come to them. If they can't help directly, they might be able to tell you who can.

Before you go making a major relocation & possibly setting yourself up for the same situation to happen again, you should give this a try.

[icecoldbath]

Yes, thank you this is good advice and what I am definitely doing. Although I will be leaving ohio for greener pastures.

[icecoldbath]

i saw it, thank you very much! :-D

[seashechanges]

the paypal information is in both her profile and this video's info :)

[iiibbb313]

She does... check her profile

[shyven]

Hi Ashley, I've been watching your v-blog for a while now, off and on. Sorry that you have had a shitty existence as of late. Remember to try and think positive even though things seem to crumble. I know good things will come around soon. Keep your head up, get a job for now, even if you don't like it. Get on your feet and be strong. Feel free to write to me when you feel down, cause if anything it sounds like you need friendship. We don't know each other, but I'm willing to listen! Take Care!!!

[icecoldbath]

They will come soon, i can feel it.

[porolita22]

OMG I cannot believe she did this to you! I am so angry and worried I would not know what to do in your place. I feel so impotent because I live in another country :'( maybe you could put an account number of paypal or something so we could send you money if you ever run out and need it please ok? I will be praying for you for real.

[icecoldbath]

I'm a good scapegoat for problems with her gf.

[icecoldbath]

This is good advice, thank you for it.

[icecoldbath]

Thank you.

[icecoldbath]

She isn't a good friend.

[icecoldbath]

Thank you so much for this, it is great advice. I really appreciate it.

[icecoldbath]

*big e-hug back!*

[icecoldbath]

Well thank you for the thoughts. I really appreciate it. Fortunately I think it will work out.

[icecoldbath]

Thanks for the good luck!

[icecoldbath]

Thank you.

[Pyxl26]

Don't feed the trolls.

[icecoldbath]

if i even reply to trolls i tend to block them first so they can't respond back.

[robo3325]

You (peace) make very little sense. If it is the case that you badly need a job but would rather be homeless than work at a job you feel is beneath you, then you are truly pathetic. Also, I hate no intention of punching anyone in the face, but was simply relating potential desire to do, were certain conditions met, and they apparently are not.

[robo3325]

[The above was posted in the wrong location, ignore.]

[peaceandparty]

i will give you the benefit of the doubt that you are nicer than i would PRESUME......:)

tell me this then.....!!---if it is NOT the case that i badly need a job but would rather be homeless than work at a job i feel is beneath or above me.....---then!instead of being "truly pathetic" what would be the positive opposite of this presumed negativity and condescending nature of yours....for instance if i was nothing that you are presuming of me and when u find out i am a "worker"-what would u say?

[icecoldbath]

I will keep everyone updated. Fortunately things seem to be resolving themselves.

[robo3325]

Overqualified meaning... you apply but don't get hired, don't bother applying because you assume you won't get hired, or won't apply on principle? If it is the 2nd or 3rd scenario, then I want to punch you in the face.

[icecoldbath]

Its the first one.

[peaceandparty]

violence gets us nowhere!

ooooh yeah...i would love to see you try and try and touch me at the same time........you might get away with punching me in the face,slave-person!(lol)...but you wouldnt get away with not getting beaten badly up by others....because no matter where i am -no one ever thinks of doing that to me!ever--i am in majorly "dangerous precarious"situations sometimes but never get hit--i fit into the 2nd and 3rd categories of yours-your anger is yours not ours!peace to all idiots

[robo3325]

You (peace) make very little sense. If it is the case that you badly need a job but would rather be homeless than work at a job you feel is beneath you, then you are truly pathetic. Also, I hate no intention of punching anyone in the face, but was simply relating potential desire to do, were certain conditions met, and they apparently are not.

[peaceandparty]

you(robot)....obviously a robot slave to a very violent natured society......(well where you are from anyway)

you are right-i amke very little sense....on youtube it seems-yes!you are right there!but just because thats the vibe you get online...that is quite the contrary in real life!

again..i laugh off people like you because you are not coming from a peaceful mind....some people are not able to get jobs that suit them....i believe in a better society created by sound minds-u are a complainer!

[peaceandparty]

another comment for robocommentcop here is:

presumptions of strangers are the worst types of judgements.

hopefully that sentence makes sense to you....but maybe the only sense you make are the cents kind!i am getting a hint that you are not an english speaker-what is your mother tongue language!?i speak many languages sufficiently!

if you have no intention to use violence then i suggest not being threatening through language use!

sorry to call you an idiot because that makes me an idiot too!

[robo3325]

English is my first language. I haven't displayed anything like judgment. In the future, I'll try to refrain from using language that might be misinterpreted in a way that suggests I would like to cause actual physical harm to someone, thanks. Everything else you say/ask is either too vague, nonsensical or platitudinous to respond to. If you have any other concerns, feel free to message me directly, although honestly I prefer you don't.

[peaceandparty]

hi....i would prefer you to spit out your thoughts instead of being semi polite!

i would prefer if you werent so anonymous

i would prefer people who like commenting on youtube to show themselves instead of casually commenting and knowing that they will never get commented on because there are no vids of you!

but its not about what we would prefer in this life...its about dealing with the reality of many misunderstandings and sometimes too casual rudeness towards"poets"like me!

have a nice day!

[mrafx]

it sounds like america has let you down, move to england we are nicer over here.

i have no real family either so i made my own.

Good Luck XXX

[icecoldbath]

You are right, it is nicer in england. Thanks for the luck. :)

[mrafx]

get yourself over here then XXX

[CatCommunication]

England actually has really tough immigration laws, I've heard...

[GenieP]

San Francisco is pretty darned nice, too! Please don't make the mistake in thinking that every location here in the U.S. is all the same. Just like I bet not everywhere in UK is all lovely. P.S., I adore London. :)

[ClosetCaseLez]

The only advise I can give is if you have any money, get an RV (small & cheap). I know it sucks, but at least you will have a place to sleep, if worse comes to worse. Just do your best to get a job, save up and move back.

[icecoldbath]

Well there is no "moving back" unfortunately, just going forward. Thanks for the advice though. I really appreciate it.

[chrisvera0203]

it seems you need to move back, staying in ohio makes no sense because you have no one there.

[icecoldbath]

Well that would be good advice if there was a back to go to.

[jessykapop]

well what exactly happened? did you piss her off? be a bitch? neurotic? get on her nerves? people don't do things just to do them.. There are always (sometimes not) a good reason why people do thing so irrational.. are you telling the whole truth or is something being left out? what happened that made her change from sweet to bitter?

[icecoldbath]

I am a great scapegoat for the problems in her relationship.

[peaceandparty]

out of all the comments i am reading-this comment from jessykapop is actually asking rather than presuming and i think no one should mark it down..most people leave out parts of the truth..something happened-yes....but the reality of what had happened has nothing to do with the video titel and moving factor for ashley of the now!

we all need to live and learn-i am currently fighting to stay in my home due to financial stress-i have understood the homeless feeling!TRUST in life..POSITIVE THINKING

[AntidoteAstacia]

I live about 60 miles south of columbus, I used to live up there.. I hate to hear that your having such issues.. i mean what a friend! but you do have time to turn things around. People truly suck sometimes. Let me know if I can help.

[icecoldbath]

Actually if you have a vehicle I could probably use some help moving stuff around the columbus area. It would really help me leave this place as soon as possible.

[GenieP]

OMG Ashley!! You deserve better! I had the same thing happen to me here in SF. After I was told to "get out," I got a job as a waitress and rented a small unit in a residence hotel until I could afford my own apartment. The lesson I learned was NOT to "depend on the kindness of strangers." As you and I both learned, so-called friends aren't. C'mon, Ashley, you can pull yourself up and get on with life without this awful person who lured you there on false promises. I know you're strong.

[icecoldbath]

I will, and am pulling through. =) Thank you.

[peaceandparty]

GENIE P YOU ARE A TRULY GOOD PERSON ON YOUTUBE....FAIR PLAY TO YOU AND well done for having a heart

[GenieP]

Thanks, Peace, I have been a very lucky TS woman and am grateful for the goodness of life. It certainly doesn't cost much to be compassionate and understanding. I have observed, however, that the cost of ignorance, indifference, and hatred is astronomical. Power to "love and understanding!"

[Eopyk]

I think she who demands that you leav by the of september can go fuck herself.. who does she think she is..

[icecoldbath]

I dunno.

[Eopyk]

I made a poem for you sweeti. Hopefully it will make you feel better

Love Jasmine

[icecoldbath]

aww thank you.

[Auggie56]

Yeah,I'd say you live up to your name really well.

[pgy002]

See how funny it is when YOU'RE down and out!

[strongback]

You say your overqualified, well maybe just don't put on any application what you feel makes you overqualified for. its not necessarily lying but ommiting something. something will turn up. you can get past this. also think about contacting the community services there they ussually have a variety of programs to help people, including help finding job and job listings. good will is always looking for someone, they would rather you do well and pay taxes than not doing anything. Good luck.

[icecoldbath]

Its kind of complex, but I either put all my qualifications or I put none. It would look highly suspicious to have certain jobs without having certain degrees. I know that sounds fishy, but trust me. Its a complex thing. Thanks for the luck!

[mhtothee]

Oh my goodness, sweetie! My heart goes out to you. All I can offer is sending positive energy your way. A lot can happen within a month, and I'm certain things will change for the better. Is there any way of talking things out with your friend? Stay focused on your goals.

Take care,

Michelle

[icecoldbath]

Well thanks for the positive energy I really do appreciate it. Things will get better. i know it.

[AndrogyneMichinaga]

I really hope you find someone. I live in the UK, so would be of little use to you.

[icecoldbath]

Thanks for the thoughts anyway, they count too :)

[RealityOrNightmare]

Hi, i'm sorry to hear about your situation. I wish i could help you out. Keep strong and things will work out for you, i'm sure.

Hugs

Amelia x

[icecoldbath]

Thank you so much for your kind thoughts, they really do help me out. *hugs*

[Kaitliana]

I'm sorry to see you in-tears and desperate situation...I know I'm of little consulation to your problem you currently face. But I just wanted you to know that I care, and there are others here that care too... *A great big hugs to you*...I only wish I could be there in person.

Sincerely, Katelynn (Another Trans-Woman...going through hardship) Katelynn

[Kaitliana]

P.S. I'll keep you in my prayers, Hun...

[icecoldbath]

*great big hugs back*

[pgy002]

Sorry to hear about your bad luck sweety! I WISH there was something I could do, but I'm a long way away from Ohio. That really sucks, Please send your friend a MEGA "FUCK YOU" from Miss Pgy! Maybe try to hook back up with your friend Erin, maybe she can help until you get back on your feet.

[icecoldbath]

Ha will follow your instruction. Yeah Erin is part of the plan to salvage me from this. Hope it works.

[gothique11]

***hugs***

[icecoldbath]

*hugs back*

[jennystgirls]

i emailed you too girl

[icecoldbath]

thanks!

[Zeremonie206]

Oh sweetie. You poor thing. There will be something that works out for you. I know it.

[icecoldbath]

yes, i know :)

[bekabug]

That is a great idea. You might also want to contact any of the area Unitarian Universalist Churches (don't let that word scare you) to see if they have assistance programs or can provide you with resources (ie, a place to stay).

I'm sorry this is happening to you.

[darkwitchtori]

Hey sweetie. I hope everything works out for you.

-Tori

[icecoldbath]

I hope so too!

[AndresRequenaFielOE]

No llores =( no me gusta verte triste =(

[maatwerk67]

Get a Job!

[NaomiClareNL]

En dat is nou net het probleem...

[x36fistyourselfx]

aww im sorry that your freind is bein so cruel to you for no reason

id help u if i could

but im the otherside of the atlantic bt if u wanna move her il sure help you out.

stay strong i know this has gotta be frustrating

msg me if u wanna chat

[icecoldbath]

Your kind thoughts are appreciated and help me smile a bit more in this situation.

[theroachyjay]

I really wish there was something I could do to help you. -hugs-

I can talk if you need someone to talk with. I'll message you my contact information.

[icecoldbath]

*hugs*

[ChloeElise2007]

Please don't despair Ashley. This is indeed a rough patch, and I've been through a very similar situation. I want to help. Please check your inbox.

~Chloë

[icecoldbath]

I'm trying not to despair. It will pass.

[addiuslovidicus]

I don't get it. You're so nice. How could such things happen to you?

I feel bad for not being able to do anything significant to help you. But if it means anything, I include you in my prayer.

Bless you.

[icecoldbath]

nice girls finish last?

[FueledByBreebree]

dont worry things will change everything will be alrite.

[icecoldbath]

Yes This is what they say.

[KudouYusaku]

Where do you live? I don't have a job right now either, but I do have family here in NYC.

[icecoldbath]

COlumbus Ohio

[icecoldbath]

Thank you for the advice. I appreciate it. Your plan is what I have been trying to do. A big problem is that I am overqualified for most jobs. It makes finding work very tricky, but I am trying. Thank you for

[AndresRequenaFielOE]

hola icecoldbath!!!

[icecoldbath]

hola

[DDS5511]

step one get any job you can at first. Even if its mcdonalds. Then look to see if there are people in your area looking for a roomate. Once you have stablized your situation you can begin to look at getting a better job or training for a better job.