out of all the things that would corrupt your mind you really religious people think porn is the worst? porn is a way to express emotion. it sucks that i have to say this but its not even that bad. get a girlfriend nd move on. watching porn is a life stage just like puberty or watching cartoon as a kid. youll get ovr it.
Amen! God has set me free from sooooo many addictions, I've had a colourful past. Basically sex,drug and rock n roll and I tell you there is temporary happiness there but always emptiness. The more I did those things, the more empty and lost I felt. And that is the honest truth. Now I don't have any addictions AT ALL (Glory to God) and a beautiful wife and a gorgeous 1 week old little boy :) and a fantastic relationship with my Creator :) I wouldn't want my life any other way :)
pffft just cause you didnt get any poon as a teenager, doesnt mean we wont because we watch porn... I learn all my moves from Porn... and nice farting in walmart videos.. pastor?.. pffttt
I personally think that porn is very stupid and very pointless. I never, or hardly ever look at real life porn. Hentai/ anime porn is the only kind of porn that I look at occasionally, but I do that mostly for laughs and that it isn't real. It's just slapped on paper. Still, we need to be careful about what kind and how much porn we look at. I'm a very selective kind of guy.
Yet you made another video complaining that Christians were percieved as judgemental..
Do you believe in all of that Mathew quote or just the bit you used ? I think if we're honest, there should be a lot more one-eyed, amputee Christians.
Hello, I was addicted to pron, but i found freedom. It is possible. I give all the credit to God for setting me free and thank him. What really helped me was a teaching series from John Eldredge, called 'Men talking about woman.' Anyways i think you can find it on I-Tunes or on his website just search for Ransomed Heart Ministries. This is just for those who want freedom, and I am sure this isn't the only helpful thing out there it is just what helped me so I thought I'd share. :)
I have a girlfriend. We both masturbate, and have sex with each other. We don't care about looking at porn. I don't see why we have to be so afraid of our sexuality and being able to 'exercise' it. I also don't see how it makes us lonely. We love each other and have a healthy sex life. If anything, we're the opposite of lonely, because we aren't afraid to sexually satisfy ourselves while loving each other. I don't think porn is as destructive as you say it is.
I hate pornography. But I really want to videotape my cock in your ass, but in a non gay way. You see, because we love the lord we are required to ejaculate life into eachother. Which orifice is not important what is, is the juice of life flowing from me to you. Embrace my ejaculate and all its glory! God is great!
@AmericanWayne every man is tempted by sex,well almost every man i have my doubts about that amazing atheist fella.but spot on big time pit fall emotoinal twilight zone pornography is.this is a foul spirit of a high demonic order.not to be taken lightly.if your a christian don't take it for granted the addiction an emotoinal pit of woe that lies there with in.repent, an pray for strength to stay strong.as we must all do if we are in sin before GOD.
"Even among the Internet generation, the split between the sexes remains stark. A survey of American college students last year found that 70 percent of the women in the sample never looked at pornography, compared with just 14 percent of their male peers; almost half of the men surveyed looked at porn at least once a week, versus just 3 percent of the women."
Source: Ross Douthat. "Is Pornography Adultery?" TheAtlantic 10/2008."
Next, please cite your source. I would be interested in seeing it, who funded it, the purpose of the study, and the particulars of which you revealed nothing of.
Please, there is not need to be condescending. I never made any such claim that "women don't sleep around." Where did you think I said that? Also, I never said you denied men can enjoy sex without love, so no need to defend yourself there.
Please, understand this; I am not in the slightest bit interested in changing your mind so you can modify your debate strength accordingly. In such discussions, I'm interested in clarity over agreement.
2. By their nature, men can enjoy sex with whom they don't love much more easily than women who have a much closer relationship in their psyche between love and sex. Women cannot comprehend how we can look at another woman and not compare her to herself. Men compartmentalize in a way they are not wired to understand. If you don't accept those fundamentals, then there is no foundation on which we can discuss it and that's the gulf between our positions.
1. I believe that figure is grossly over-stated. I also believe that figure is distorted in a lot of that viewing is done in the company of a man who was the underlying motivator.
The difference between men and women is everything when acknowledging the harm of porn, discredit that and you've hobbled the recognition.
Also, recognizing "sexual curiosity" isn't the same as not seeing the harm in "sleeping around."
I'm not speaking of the exceptions and you can assume so for the rest of our discussion. The presence of an exception is not the negation of a rule. In terms of the overwhelming norms of female nature, women do not benefit by a marked amount by porn that males do. Again, do you agree?
Pornographic pictures are pretty much for the male's "benefit". Female nature has different sexual cues. Since porn is so one-sided, would you then acknowledge how many females likely allow porn in reluctantly? It's obvious to me most flat don't like it but are afraid if they refuse they'll drive their man off and convince themselves they can "master the beast" if they're involved, but they aren't, it becomes a crutch, and they don't know how to "get rid of her." Agreed?
I'm bringing up the matter of respect because I respect Wayne and would rather loose a debate than win at the cost of distracting his video or any any way devalue it with a discussion he might rather not have here.
I'm focused on not arguing and would rather pull the plug too soon than too late. That's all.
This is a broad topic and with the limits of YouTube, we have to focus on one thing at a time instead of leaping about. In order to discuss the harm of porn we must first acknowledge male sexual nature, female sexual nature and the inherent core differences. When you ask how does it mess with your sexual programming, I'm addressing how male sexual nature is overwhelmingly visually oriented and the female overwhelmingly not. So to begin, do you acknowledge that, yes or no?
I didn't dodge your comment, I responded to it. You didn't agree with my response (admitting to being provocative), that's not the same as dodging it. Consent in and of itself doesn't negate negative impact.
Most important, I'm in no way disrespecting you, and if I'm not successful in discussing this without you feeling that way, I won't bother. Using terms like "taunt" and "blow out of proportion" you're suggesting it, and I have no intension to drag Wayne's video down.
The greater point is I believe you’re making very light of the power of porn, which is tantamount to inviting a third person into one’s bedroom. One cannot control the impact porn has on one’s psyche (particularly female) through mere choice any more than one can choose who you are attracted to or choose to like broccoli. It is messing with your innermost programming and your sexuality isn’t fixed as you might like to think.
You speak about sex and porn as if you command your own subconscious, instincts, spirituality and sexual nature at mere will. You're speaking from the male sexual nature. Of course we can separate the emotions easy because we're wired fo sexual variety. But, do you actually think female sexual nature is identically emotionally inert? Who are you fooling? With that realization, you'd be just beginning to understand how porn is silently, insidiously harmful.
The manner in which you describe sex hurts your argument as much as helps. Such a methodical, cold description presents you as Exhibit A for the product of a diet of porn. Nobody is arguing that sex doesn't serve a biological function, but merely pointing out the obvious doesn't prove that's all there is.
That example isn't petty. You thought the mere suggestion that "some couples think it's fine therefore it is harmless" is vapid of argumentation.
The fact that "some relationships and marriages" take part in porn openly is hardly a defense. Every single abhorrent thing you can imagine has been tolerated between a couple before. The wife of Elizabeth Smart's kidnapper didn't take issue with it either. Common tolerance isn't relevant.
The repetitional conditioning alteration porn has on the psyche is indisputable. It warps the image of sex, the distinctions of love and sex, it spiders out to devalue everything social.
Very good message Brother. Porn and all other sin has destructive power in our lives. Only the HOLY SPIRIT can transform us and defeat these sinful desires that we all have inherited (sin nature).
@TheDrunkenCabDriver There is strong evidence that suggests that that porn addiction is higher amongst molesters than any other group. It doesn't mean that all porn addicts are molesters but it means that most molesters are porn addicts.
@AmericanWayne So what? Most criminals are probably potheads, but its not the pot making them criminals (Other then by smoking pot of course). That point is completely invalid. Most black people like fried chicken, its not the chicken that makes them black, genetics made them black, just like how genetics and the way you were brought up makes someone a molester. Im stoned as shit right now, but i want you to realize how stupid your point is.
@TheDrunkenCabDriver I found my dad's stash back when I was 12. That was before the easy access to porn like we have today. Let's take spirituality out of this and look at some facts you might not filter out as illegitimate. First, it's sexist. It degrades women. Second, it's addictive. You are a slave to your addictions. Porn cultivates a false standard and can make you bored with your spouse. It also detaches you emotionally from your spouse and other loved ones.
@AmericanWayne "First, it's sexist. It degrades women. " nah, it degrades men more. The woman is taking a cock up her ass and loving it, thousands of guys are sitting watching with their pants around their ankles and their seed all over their hand like a pitiful fool. It degrades men far worse.
I admit I have been a slave to porn. And its really hard when it has been years of training your hormones to spike at certain visuals and certain times. Jesus said "The spirit is willing but the body is weak" we have to remember that Jesus did not leave us alone to break our shackles, something we cannot do, but that He promised us the Spirit, a Spirit of Truth and Strength. We must learn to submit only to it and not to the flesh. Its a daily thing, picking that cross back up. God keep you.
@godswordsheal I have been slave to it, too at one time. That is why I get so passionate about this subject. I know how it effects the mind and spirit. God bless you, brother. We can't do it on our own but only by the grace of God.
Good video. I understood sin consciousness as iniquity for the first time through your expression. My mind then took off with Calvinistic thinking and ran all over the place. Like I said, good video.
Lust is a downward spiral. The more you eat, the hungrier you will become...until you are left wanting.
YoBravaFrumAnuvaMuva 1 week ago
out of all the things that would corrupt your mind you really religious people think porn is the worst? porn is a way to express emotion. it sucks that i have to say this but its not even that bad. get a girlfriend nd move on. watching porn is a life stage just like puberty or watching cartoon as a kid. youll get ovr it.
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Amen! God has set me free from sooooo many addictions, I've had a colourful past. Basically sex,drug and rock n roll and I tell you there is temporary happiness there but always emptiness. The more I did those things, the more empty and lost I felt. And that is the honest truth. Now I don't have any addictions AT ALL (Glory to God) and a beautiful wife and a gorgeous 1 week old little boy :) and a fantastic relationship with my Creator :) I wouldn't want my life any other way :)
Awake4Truth 5 months ago
pffft just cause you didnt get any poon as a teenager, doesnt mean we wont because we watch porn... I learn all my moves from Porn... and nice farting in walmart videos.. pastor?.. pffttt
MrJaykay121 7 months ago
Jesus will help me with my addiction? Oh I get it I jerk off to Jesus instead!!!! :D
DieOrBlink 9 months ago
I personally think that porn is very stupid and very pointless. I never, or hardly ever look at real life porn. Hentai/ anime porn is the only kind of porn that I look at occasionally, but I do that mostly for laughs and that it isn't real. It's just slapped on paper. Still, we need to be careful about what kind and how much porn we look at. I'm a very selective kind of guy.
puppetmaster1011 10 months ago
Yet you made another video complaining that Christians were percieved as judgemental..
Do you believe in all of that Mathew quote or just the bit you used ? I think if we're honest, there should be a lot more one-eyed, amputee Christians.
Al1981X 10 months ago
Pornography rapes the mind? Yeah kids! Go to your local priests, I am sure they will help you. ;)
scrap222666 10 months ago
@scrap222666 Who said anything about going to a priest?
AmericanWayne 10 months ago
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@scrap222666 Are you all really that stupid?
Seriously.
CarlosMarti123 9 months ago
Hello, I was addicted to pron, but i found freedom. It is possible. I give all the credit to God for setting me free and thank him. What really helped me was a teaching series from John Eldredge, called 'Men talking about woman.' Anyways i think you can find it on I-Tunes or on his website just search for Ransomed Heart Ministries. This is just for those who want freedom, and I am sure this isn't the only helpful thing out there it is just what helped me so I thought I'd share. :)
jakeshist 10 months ago
@jakeshist Praise God! Thank you for your comment.
AmericanWayne 10 months ago
lol, wonder when the atheist will get around to this crazy guy. xD
MirageScience 11 months ago
I have a girlfriend. We both masturbate, and have sex with each other. We don't care about looking at porn. I don't see why we have to be so afraid of our sexuality and being able to 'exercise' it. I also don't see how it makes us lonely. We love each other and have a healthy sex life. If anything, we're the opposite of lonely, because we aren't afraid to sexually satisfy ourselves while loving each other. I don't think porn is as destructive as you say it is.
CMyersFilms 11 months ago
This is hilarous. Nice fail at life, chubby "Wayne".
BorkaBonum 11 months ago
Be a man! Don't watch porn. Love another man more than you love yourself.
Wait... does anyone else think that "loving" Jesus that much is a little gay?
Liamthegreat2008 1 year ago
I hate pornography. But I really want to videotape my cock in your ass, but in a non gay way. You see, because we love the lord we are required to ejaculate life into eachother. Which orifice is not important what is, is the juice of life flowing from me to you. Embrace my ejaculate and all its glory! God is great!
rankrodney 1 year ago
@foxboy1618 If I were to create a video to gain popularity it wouldn't be titled "Pornography Rapes the Mind." That's not a very popular message.
AmericanWayne 1 year ago
@AmericanWayne every man is tempted by sex,well almost every man i have my doubts about that amazing atheist fella.but spot on big time pit fall emotoinal twilight zone pornography is.this is a foul spirit of a high demonic order.not to be taken lightly.if your a christian don't take it for granted the addiction an emotoinal pit of woe that lies there with in.repent, an pray for strength to stay strong.as we must all do if we are in sin before GOD.
mrsavoy66 11 months ago
Everyone loves them self more than they love their partner. It's impossible not to.
ReijiRomio 1 year ago
If I had a daughter I would rather her date a guy who watches porn than a guy who believes in God.
bagofvomit 1 year ago
if porn rapes my mind, im cool with that, seeing as it also frees my mind from rape
Fibah 1 year ago
Just finished whacking off and now I think I'll go back for seconds.
djk102391 1 year ago
I jerked off while wacthing this.
TheGreatOldOnes 1 year ago
im 11 and i love porn
Earl69er 1 year ago
@Earl69er I was about your age when I started looking at porn. I pray you get away from it before it warps your mind more than it already has.
AmericanWayne 1 year ago
@AmericanWayne like u said everyone iz in bed be wachin pron after last coment lol
Earl69er 1 year ago
Thanks for the great video, Wayne.
Keep it up.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheJediCharles Thanks Jeff! It looks like you and TheDrunkenCabDriver had a debate on here. Thanks for the encouragement.
AmericanWayne 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
"Even among the Internet generation, the split between the sexes remains stark. A survey of American college students last year found that 70 percent of the women in the sample never looked at pornography, compared with just 14 percent of their male peers; almost half of the men surveyed looked at porn at least once a week, versus just 3 percent of the women."
Source: Ross Douthat. "Is Pornography Adultery?" TheAtlantic 10/2008."
That's a source.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
Next, please cite your source. I would be interested in seeing it, who funded it, the purpose of the study, and the particulars of which you revealed nothing of.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
Please, there is not need to be condescending. I never made any such claim that "women don't sleep around." Where did you think I said that? Also, I never said you denied men can enjoy sex without love, so no need to defend yourself there.
Please, understand this; I am not in the slightest bit interested in changing your mind so you can modify your debate strength accordingly. In such discussions, I'm interested in clarity over agreement.
And I found the difference already.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
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Shelley tells the truth about the Pornography Industry
AlyssaLovesLife 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
2. By their nature, men can enjoy sex with whom they don't love much more easily than women who have a much closer relationship in their psyche between love and sex. Women cannot comprehend how we can look at another woman and not compare her to herself. Men compartmentalize in a way they are not wired to understand. If you don't accept those fundamentals, then there is no foundation on which we can discuss it and that's the gulf between our positions.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
1. I believe that figure is grossly over-stated. I also believe that figure is distorted in a lot of that viewing is done in the company of a man who was the underlying motivator.
The difference between men and women is everything when acknowledging the harm of porn, discredit that and you've hobbled the recognition.
Also, recognizing "sexual curiosity" isn't the same as not seeing the harm in "sleeping around."
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
I'm not speaking of the exceptions and you can assume so for the rest of our discussion. The presence of an exception is not the negation of a rule. In terms of the overwhelming norms of female nature, women do not benefit by a marked amount by porn that males do. Again, do you agree?
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
Pornographic pictures are pretty much for the male's "benefit". Female nature has different sexual cues. Since porn is so one-sided, would you then acknowledge how many females likely allow porn in reluctantly? It's obvious to me most flat don't like it but are afraid if they refuse they'll drive their man off and convince themselves they can "master the beast" if they're involved, but they aren't, it becomes a crutch, and they don't know how to "get rid of her." Agreed?
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
I'm bringing up the matter of respect because I respect Wayne and would rather loose a debate than win at the cost of distracting his video or any any way devalue it with a discussion he might rather not have here.
I'm focused on not arguing and would rather pull the plug too soon than too late. That's all.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
This is a broad topic and with the limits of YouTube, we have to focus on one thing at a time instead of leaping about. In order to discuss the harm of porn we must first acknowledge male sexual nature, female sexual nature and the inherent core differences. When you ask how does it mess with your sexual programming, I'm addressing how male sexual nature is overwhelmingly visually oriented and the female overwhelmingly not. So to begin, do you acknowledge that, yes or no?
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
I didn't dodge your comment, I responded to it. You didn't agree with my response (admitting to being provocative), that's not the same as dodging it. Consent in and of itself doesn't negate negative impact.
Most important, I'm in no way disrespecting you, and if I'm not successful in discussing this without you feeling that way, I won't bother. Using terms like "taunt" and "blow out of proportion" you're suggesting it, and I have no intension to drag Wayne's video down.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
The greater point is I believe you’re making very light of the power of porn, which is tantamount to inviting a third person into one’s bedroom. One cannot control the impact porn has on one’s psyche (particularly female) through mere choice any more than one can choose who you are attracted to or choose to like broccoli. It is messing with your innermost programming and your sexuality isn’t fixed as you might like to think.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
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TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
You speak about sex and porn as if you command your own subconscious, instincts, spirituality and sexual nature at mere will. You're speaking from the male sexual nature. Of course we can separate the emotions easy because we're wired fo sexual variety. But, do you actually think female sexual nature is identically emotionally inert? Who are you fooling? With that realization, you'd be just beginning to understand how porn is silently, insidiously harmful.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
The manner in which you describe sex hurts your argument as much as helps. Such a methodical, cold description presents you as Exhibit A for the product of a diet of porn. Nobody is arguing that sex doesn't serve a biological function, but merely pointing out the obvious doesn't prove that's all there is.
That example isn't petty. You thought the mere suggestion that "some couples think it's fine therefore it is harmless" is vapid of argumentation.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver
The fact that "some relationships and marriages" take part in porn openly is hardly a defense. Every single abhorrent thing you can imagine has been tolerated between a couple before. The wife of Elizabeth Smart's kidnapper didn't take issue with it either. Common tolerance isn't relevant.
The repetitional conditioning alteration porn has on the psyche is indisputable. It warps the image of sex, the distinctions of love and sex, it spiders out to devalue everything social.
TheJediCharles 1 year ago
EXCELLENT....FAVORITING THIS ONE...
m1tchish 1 year ago
Very good message Brother. Porn and all other sin has destructive power in our lives. Only the HOLY SPIRIT can transform us and defeat these sinful desires that we all have inherited (sin nature).
sincitypreacher 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver There is strong evidence that suggests that that porn addiction is higher amongst molesters than any other group. It doesn't mean that all porn addicts are molesters but it means that most molesters are porn addicts.
AmericanWayne 1 year ago
@AmericanWayne So what? Most criminals are probably potheads, but its not the pot making them criminals (Other then by smoking pot of course). That point is completely invalid. Most black people like fried chicken, its not the chicken that makes them black, genetics made them black, just like how genetics and the way you were brought up makes someone a molester. Im stoned as shit right now, but i want you to realize how stupid your point is.
TylersTurds 1 year ago
@TheDrunkenCabDriver I found my dad's stash back when I was 12. That was before the easy access to porn like we have today. Let's take spirituality out of this and look at some facts you might not filter out as illegitimate. First, it's sexist. It degrades women. Second, it's addictive. You are a slave to your addictions. Porn cultivates a false standard and can make you bored with your spouse. It also detaches you emotionally from your spouse and other loved ones.
AmericanWayne 1 year ago
@AmericanWayne "First, it's sexist. It degrades women. " nah, it degrades men more. The woman is taking a cock up her ass and loving it, thousands of guys are sitting watching with their pants around their ankles and their seed all over their hand like a pitiful fool. It degrades men far worse.
13anjowizard 1 year ago
I admit I have been a slave to porn. And its really hard when it has been years of training your hormones to spike at certain visuals and certain times. Jesus said "The spirit is willing but the body is weak" we have to remember that Jesus did not leave us alone to break our shackles, something we cannot do, but that He promised us the Spirit, a Spirit of Truth and Strength. We must learn to submit only to it and not to the flesh. Its a daily thing, picking that cross back up. God keep you.
godswordsheal 1 year ago
@godswordsheal I have been slave to it, too at one time. That is why I get so passionate about this subject. I know how it effects the mind and spirit. God bless you, brother. We can't do it on our own but only by the grace of God.
AmericanWayne 1 year ago
@AmericanWayne Amen.
godswordsheal 1 year ago
Good video. I understood sin consciousness as iniquity for the first time through your expression. My mind then took off with Calvinistic thinking and ran all over the place. Like I said, good video.
AnotherBrotherMark 1 year ago
@AnotherBrotherMark Thanks!
AmericanWayne 1 year ago