I'm missing my babies so much. Alan Sawyer, Real fathers for justice,

[luckyvet]

I spent 20 years finding a non-malicous old fashioned anti-feminist farm girl who I now have a family / kids with. I encourage all single men who wish to have families to do the same.



[stephenbradeley]

I know how you feel. scottbradeley.co.uk

[MrPoppykiss]

Having never been in this situation myself, i find it very hard to imagine the pain felt by those that have. The UK unfortunately seems to be a breeding ground for such evil ex spouses and their dirty tricks. Many appear to use the same tiresome tactics in their quest for state handouts and strings of new partners ... The victims are of course the poor innocent children, robbed of a good parent, and controlled by these sociapathic mental cases.

[MrPoppykiss]

Hopefully this mans children will learn very quickly, and return to his arms, away from their use as tools to extract welfare and self pity. As for his ex, i guess at least she keeps a few drunks off the streets at closing time.

[babboperbene]

I miss my kids every day, too... Mi mancano davvero tanto i miei figli. Anche a me è successa questa ingiustizia (alla sammarinese). Ti sono vicino. Tieni duro Allan.

[separatedfather]

wonderfull

[jdsonicx]

Parent alienation is the worse form of child abuse ever ...and the very ones who support this evil way (judges social workers and etc)are just as bad as the parent who does it in the 1st place

[Jaunnield]

and the children are the ones who always lose....

[852shayo]

From an old metal song......

Never surrender. When your backs against a wall, never surrender. Fight back, give it all

Make sure there is no limit to your resolve. Some days it takes it all, every day its worth it all.

[mariaengeln]

da tutti i padri di tutto il mondo, abbiamo thankyou nostri amici italiani. Il mondo sta cambiando, e non c'è spazio per l'alienazione parentale.

[violenzadonne]

Ciao Alan,siamo lontani ma molto vicini.

Uno dei tantissimi papà Italiani a cui hanno sottratto i figli.

Sergio N. da Taranto, Italy

[MrDeadlights]

I miss my kids every day, and every day it hurts. but god gave me another two children to care for because there father didnt care

[MrDeadlights]

I have a new family now, step dad ( hate that word) to a great lad of 13 who is an awesome rugby player, an a beautiful young lady of 19 who has learning difficulties and a rare genetic illness called glutathione sythatase deficiency

[MrDeadlights]

you thik some bleeding heart song is gonna help. bollocks..try mettallica it helps..or just nothing try seven years of being a ghost

[MrDeadlights]

she will lie and poisen them against you..trust me on this...I got an e mail from my daughter reently asking for the money my great aunt left in her will to them...nothing since

[NeuroParadise]

It is horrible, we need to all write a brief account of this, make a book. We need to try to change it. Its so bloody simple. 2 equal parents. I had mine taken by their dad 2 and a half yrs ago , Mr. Deadlights. both boys and used to be well into their train sets too! now im just getting to know them again. breaks my heart. regards, Ayla xx

[MrDeadlights]

your wasting your time, I lost my children 7 years ago when my x had an internet affair..she married the guy and I was history..doent matter that I ws ther for the first 14 years...read them stories, learned them to read..nursed them when they were sick..loved them

[mariaengeln]

At this moment i am studying law, and will soon become a lawyer. Because of my own life experience i will do battle to ending parental alienation. My love goes to all of you during this torture of your souls. These people that are doing this must be faced justice, and punished.

[thestreetdogg]

"mariaengeln" I wish u good luck in career. Many attorneys became very unsuccessful when trying to change the system.

Parent alienation happens as a result of the system. To change the system it takes all of us united and strong to fight the system through peaceful means.

Child alienation began the day the MAN gets Visitation Rights and that is 4 days a Month.

If we could change the law's that make child custody a 50/50 joint custody as a default, than alienation will go away.

[mariaengeln]

Wonderful Song eröffnet, dass eine Menge von nichtvernarbten Wunden. Ab dem Alter von zehn, die mein Bruder und ich waren zu einem Leben in emotionaler Missbrauch von unserer Mutter und Großmutter. Uns wurde gesagt, so viele Lügen, die er zu viel für meinen lieben Bruder, der hat sein eigenes Leben, gefolgt von unserem Vater, ein Jahr später

[Red0660]

My heart is with you. I am fighting for you everyday! Men are fighting to be able to have children, to be fathers. I am so sorry. I know that your heartbreak and torture is proportional to the depth of your love. I know your pain as all men who were once married do. One day men will have the right to have children. I am fighting everyday for you!!! Men you are not alone in that empty apartment. I am with you, your brothers are with you..

[whelkshuffler]

Hey everybody, just to say that your ranks have just swelled by my addition. Lets get fair rights on our kids. VIVE RFFJ!

[MrSadandre]

As Mala quite rightly says, this is child abuse. These mentaly unstable woman must realise the damage they are creating to the children that they supposedly love. To disengage the children from their father for no other reason than spite, is a serious illness that needs addressing. That said, I have noticed that more and more woman are now losing custody, giving the children a more stable, loving enviroment, and upbringing with a parent that wouldnt dream of doing the same. keep fighting

[momzilla57]

i feel grieved by divorce and seperation. when children are involved , adults have to put aside their grievences and always think of the child first. there are many circumstances that seperation is a necessity , assult, sexual abuse ect, on either side. but a father has rights also, no doubt. God given rights.

[devonmummy]

Happy Father's day to all the dads out there. If you are separated from your children by parental alienation this fathers day love your self and know in the core of your being that your children love you with their hearts... and remember their minds are being robbed of the opportunity and ability to love outside of their situation

[rffjbanner]

Thank you

[shygirl750]

Through tears and the pain, your head was held high, a mothers deceit, a mothers great lie. She tortured your soul, and yet still do you shine, missing your babies, all of the time. Very soon they will see, that this wasnt right, we love our daddy, our shining light

[guidoes1]

Hey Allen,

I know how you feel, my daughter and me dindt see us now for more then 5 months. And there's no support from justice. I dindt do anything wrong to my daughter. The only thing a did was that a broke uo with my ex.

Its a very beautiful song and i am sure you will see your children one day.

[mala265]

Beautiful song...I wish you all the best with your kids.

[mala265]

Parential alienation is abuse that must be put to a stop.All the pain your ex has caused you will come back to her... What these mothers dont seem to realise is that their children will not be little children forever...they will grow into teens / adults....and when that time comes she wont be dealing with little kids that are easy to minipulate, but angry adults that have a mind of their own and will want answeres!!! Your kids WILL know your love...she wont be able to hide that from them 4eva.

[dinkymummy]

I have downloaded this beautiful song, and listen to it all the time, the words are from the heart of a loving daddy, but the video breaks my own heart. Thankyou for sharing and we support you all.

[Twinhit]

There is another song that goes along with this one that I find is equally touching.

It is called " Dear Mr. Jesus "

You can find it on youtube

[Twinhit]

I have to give this one a second 5 stars.

Thanks again, Alan.

[shygirl750]

In answer to your comment raptoreyes666, we only have to look at the majority of our own mothers, to realise the people capable of such abuse are in a minority, many woman not only feel the pain you have been subjected to, but are living through it themseves. Sadly in most cases the end result is always the same, severe damage to the children involved. To deny a child the love of the other parent with no valid reason, is a violation of their human rights, and should be a crime.

[raptoreyes666]

Thanks for your reply shygirl.

I have deleted that last comment, it was bitter and petty, writen in the small hours after a few drinks. I could not justify it in the cold light of day. I hope it did not offend

[raptoreyes666]

in seven years. And only spoken to my daughter a handul of times. Someimes the pain is unbearable..it never goes away

[raptoreyes666]

I lost contact with my son and daughter in 2002, I was with my x for 16 years. in the last year i became so depressed by her behaviour i ended up in a mental hospital for 3 weeks. afteward i found out she had been having an affair online for a long time. i became homeless for a year, sleeping on friends sofas. gradually moving further away fom my home town. We were not married. I tried mediation but she was full of amunition..and I was told i had no rights. I havnt seen my son

[devonmummy]

Oh this is such a sad song and video, my daughter and i cant stop crying. These woman are not mums. How can they do this to little children. A whole year without seeing their daddy OMG.

[imafishgod]

Subbed & ***** for being so passionate to this situation that causes so much heartache... Much Respect, Paula

[misseightees]

A mother from Australia has lost custody of her two children after repeated attempts to frustrate contact beween the children and their father. This landmark case comes after the prime minister decided on an equal parenting policy in the Australian family courts.

[shygirl750]

Hopefully the Australian prime minister will persuade the rest of the world to follow his lead, in this much needed change to a very unfair and damaging family law system. Equal parenting is the only way forward. Children need the love of both parents.

[lisahere123]

What a beautiful song.

I know it all too well, unfortunately :(

I am so sorry for you and your children. Your wife doesn't know what a mess she is causing for her own children and you...so terrible. Thank you for sharing with the world this real and sad pain (in this beautiful song) that we parents and the children being sequestered, are going through.

I hope she sees the error of her ways and brings your babies back to you soon!!! Sincerely Lisa

[coolwater55]

I was moved to streaming tears and grief over this song. So sorry such a song had to be written.

May God grant you the courage to keep pursuing your right to see your children. May God soften your former wifes heart to see she is denying her children the best part of their life and hurting them by preventing them from seeing their father.

I will try to write more later.

Prayers for all people to understand that mothers and fathers cannot be replaced in the way some think.

[shygirl750]

What a beautiful message, and one i'm sure every good parent will more than agree with.

[devonmummy]

I guess youre from the same world as myself shygirl750, what some children have to endure in life is outrageous. These messages are so sad, but equaly beautiful.

[Twinhit]

This is a very nice song. Thank you for posting it.

I only wish it wasn't a song that needed to be sung. Not only for my own sake but for every father out there.

It is definitely an experience a father, mother and especially the children could do without.

I wish I understood why my children hate me so. The only thing I can conclude is that their mother taught them to love another and to hate me.

She has no just cause but my guess is deep down she has felt guilty about leaving me.

[Twinhit]

My children are grown now and I am now a grandfather.

I hope the rest of you will find the peace you need to eundure and cope with this

issue.

It's tough, no doubt about it. Just keep hangin' in there.

[jealzie]

Very touching lyrics and video, excellent message to all would be alienating ex partners. I cant help wondering how these child abusers would react if the situation was reversed.  anyone capable of denying children the other parent through vindictiveness is a very serious threat to society. Lock em up and throw away the key.

[alansawyer500]

To my darling little angels, words will never describe the agony and torture felt by me and all of your family on these special days, we all love you so very much. HAPPY EASTER my little babies xxx

[shygirl750]

My love, as hard as it seems at this moment in time, be patient, things are changing, and very soon you will again be able to share that special bond with your beautiful children. I imagine the woman that did this to you and your children is a very mixed up person, with no heart and very few morals. These so called parents need to be educated in child welfare, to learn right from wrong, and to stop the damage to everyone concerned.

[64silversurfer]

IMAGINE being

GUILTY of LOVE

[misseightees]

A Toronto mother has been fined more than $35000 for breaking court orders, in what the judge saw as severe parental alienation.... serves her right, justice is coming for these child abusers.

[morpheous7]

Bastard, you made me cry.

[shygirl750]

OMG this breaks my heart, what an amazing video. I just hope that all the judges and politicians can get off their bums and look at the real world. These vindictive parents need help. beautiful song, heart wrenching video.

[irenehall123]

if we stick together we will make a differenc good father should be allowed to see and love

their children this is so wrong I hope things get better

[4DRY4N]

Touching song and lyrics ! A.D. :)) thanks for sharing hewehe

[misseightees]

This song and video has broken our hearts, how can such cruelty be happening to such a loving dad, we hope and pray that this woman pays the price, and becomes an example to any would be child abusers, male or female. Children should never be used as weapons, what a sick world we live in. Rffj keep fighting against these mentally sick child abusers, justice is just around the corner. mums who care.

[MaryAsinger]

Wow Darren difficult situation...it's a great message thou, I really hope things will turn out for the best!!!

Goodluck with it!

Love and Peace Mary

[darrenpollard1st]

Why are people so insecure they have to resort to using children as weapons against fathers/mothers? The government take advantage of this to help further to gap between loving fathers & their children for thenwo agenda. The elite don't want united families, other than their own.

Good vid.

[hewehe]

so very true Darren

[alansawyer500]

Thankyou so very much RFFJ, the support you have given me through the worst time of my life is amazing, and this song is dedicated to you, and everyone living the same nightmare. Thankyou to rffjbanner, a very special person, who has done so much for me, and many others in the same position. Thankyou to everyone, this is for you and your babies

[doozytube]

Fantastic video and song. Well done and thanks for including campaign images and footage. This will really add to the cause messages. Best wishes with your own personal situation Alan. Great to see something helpful positive come out of all this pain and sorrow.

[dad4justice]

I wish the twisted judges could feel the roar of pain they cause when they help mothers destroy our children through PAS.

Look to the sky as JUSTICE is coming!

[barghumer]

A sad song for an unbearable situation. I am looking forward to the song that puts the finger on the causes of this catastrophe! There is a lot of head shaking, talk of feminism, confirmation that a Father has no real rights, and the slow destruction of coherent society, but what is the primary cause of it?

[pinegrove33]

Thanks for posting this.

[Verlch]

Feminism has created more misery than a standing army! Our own country women no less!

We gave them a little freedom, and they marry the State, and condemn their countrymen for not being women!

Irrational at best, suicidal at worst!

[CherishTheChildren]

Parent alienation has been orchastrated for the powers to be secret agenda . Destroy the family unit and soon the state will be rasing most children conditioning them to their false ideals and using them for their future plans . But because of fathers like yourself you can stop this never stop fighting were almost at the finish line ..Beautiful song maybe soon we will all hear a new recording my babies came home to daddy

Love Light

[Verlch]

Between foster homes, and single mother households, the West is creating a permanent underclass!

In America, or USSA, 40% of Foster kids will be homeless and 85% of homeless are foster care kids!

Out of the frying pan and into the fire, my goodness!

[no2hate]

awesome video. peace2u!

[johnbell000]

its good to see you back have put the vid up on my channel

[TheFlocklessShepherd]

Good job...I pray I never need you guys! And,sadly,whenever the courts get involved,its always the kids who lose :(

[hewehe]

Do you have the wording for this song

[Bizziboy]

Good video.

[johnhellding]

keep up the good work

[childlostdad]

Hi RFFJ Thank you for getting in touch, Im crying after watching this very moving video it shows how Brittens secret family courts are still failing many good fathers daily,

keep fighting for justice one day

Children will have a better future

[inchgroup]

Happy to give you support RFFJ its now on the inch channel give are best regards to Alan

INCH, in the name of the child.

[hewehe]

Well done Alan it shows the love you have for your children, thank you RFFJ for showing this moving video.

[speccwolf]

Its good to hear from you again rffjbanner, been a while.

[speccwolf]

Oh also my best man, got custody of his kids after his ex wife was finally convcted of drug abuse.