I shaved my head :0) I love it, makes my eyes really pop, fits my style, lots of classy tats and piercings. It's about confidence. We should all just enjoy waking up and feeling/looking beautiful IN OUR OWN EYES without the "cakey" make-up, weaves and wigs. Just be happy. Cheers!
I dont really get this bw thing, where they feel they are beyond any form of criticism. If a bw says too many niggas are going to jail, Ill say "Ur damn rite", too many niggas arent providing for their kids, Ill say "fo sho",. If you say too many blk women are wearing fukked up weaves, theyll say, "white women are wearing weaves too, why you putting us down". like wtf, they critical as hell but cant take shit.
UH That jolly girl was talking out of the side of her neck the whole segment. She really gave new meaning to the whole loud, ghetto, black women. The solution doesn't lie in the men, it lies in the women who choose to wear these horrible weaves.
Sometimes it's like arguing with a crack head about how bad crack is for them, they know but they can't quit. I overstand where the Sistar coming from when sometimes men try to tell a woman how to be a woman and that can be annoying. Long story short lace front wearers are either lazy or white identified, trying to be something they think/were told is the standard of beauty.
Black women like to make up fake arguments for going with nonsense.
For all of American history after European domination, black kinky hair has been shat upon. Period. Long straight or curly straight hair has always been promoted as the ideal for beauty.
The fact that black women are trying to adopt straight long so-called luxurious hair is testament to the impact of European domination on American culture. For black women to say otherwise is dishonest. This has nothing to do with Africa.
Hilarious. I wore lace fronts I admit that I wore it for a couple reasons and it was synthetic couldn't do the human hair. I threw it out. I love my own natural hair so much better. Yall seen my hair : - )
smh, i was cussin at my screen! I take the guys side on this one. (Even though she wasn't debating correctly) ~ as a young black female, not having weave n other garbage is a great way to weed out the losers! ^_^ 100% natural my whole life
@ MrHolipsism DAMNIT that was indeed a heated debate. My take on the whole lace front wig is that it's no different than rockin' a weave, it still gives bw the look of having straight, long, "luxurious" hair, when they in fact do not. Most bw do not like their natural hair, and don't want to take the time and patience needed to nuture their own God given hair. Then they wonder why they go bald at 60...come on man stop the foolishness.
Something that the ladies failed to mention when they talked about the Egyptian royalty wearing wigs. THEY WERE WEARING AFRICAN HAIR. They were not wear straight European or Aryan Indian hair. You don't see any kinky haired lace front wigs
"a lace fr-d-d-dont!!!" OMG! Hilarious! I am natural and do not wear wigs however I absolutely think a lace front is a good protective style for when a woman's hair is not cooperating with the weather. check out Borderhammer's youtube and she does rock the wigs beautifully as well as her natural hair. I think the convo is relevant too because bw need to know that bm love their natural hair. PEACE
@BlkprideX Huh???? Enabling what? He was talking about the so-called Black men who want to see our sistas in wigs and weaves. What are you talking about? Holla back. ONE
@MrHolipsism You must be kidding! NO MAN WILL ADMIT THEY LIKE WEAVES..unless he'll wear one himself!(lol) The real thing is that the males you're talking about are extremely desperate and don't care if a black female has a weave or a wig....they are just happy to be accepted by ANY woman!
@blkpryde1 No, I'm not kidding. I'm wondering if you even listened to the video because you are defending a point no one even raised. The men he was talking about were men who encourage their women to wear wigs and weaves and perms over their own natural hair. So if you are taking him to task for doing so you are actually defending the men who do that. That's why I asked what are you talking about?
@MrHolipsism Don't try that "did you listen" shit with me man,I heard what was said...and at the end of the video he jumps off the black female for being crazy and starts jumping on the males that single black women created?! WTF?! Have you ever heard a black man say they love wigs and weaves? NO..At least BM in california,HATE black women in weaves...why the hell do you think most black men date interracially?! It's not all attitude and self hate issues as you might think!
The point I'm constantly trying to hammer home is that putting the hair of other ethnic groups over your own natural hair texture is NOT NORMAL and should be viewed as ridiculous as it truly is. Of course, anyone who wants to look ridiculous has a "right" to do so.
I think more bw shud go natural but come on weaves are not that serious lol i wud wear lace fronts, sometimes i jus dont feel like doing my hair. And to those who keep saying bw are tryna look like white women utter bullshit. As distinctly different bw are to ww how can a hair make her look like a white woman? White women arent the only women with naturally straight hair.
Wow. Sista got real emotional at the end. It almost sounded like she was about to cry. I am glad my wife has an afro and I don't have to go through this stuff.
Overall, I think that if more black woman wore their hair natural & went against social norms of this white-supremacist patriarchal-feminist system, more black men(like MrHolipsism) would appreciate & respect them. I know a highly intelligent brotha who says the reason Y he doesn't date some black women who are interested in him is because so many of them are very artificial in their looks(weave, make-up, blond wigs, chemicals) imitating their white oppressors which he finds very unattractive.
It makes sense to me, why would a brotha date or engage himself in a relationship with a black woman who reminds him of the racist white Caucasian bitch who is the counter-part to the racist white dog? These weaves, blonde, blue, black & purple wigs & all the rest of these artificial accessories are very unattractive but I also respect a person's free-will. HOWever, would these same BW feel if black men started imitating their white bosses?(with straightened hair) This topic is NOT limited 2 BW
Holip: if it got something to do with black men, shut your goddamn mouth and sit down
Jolly: black men will always got something to do with black women cause we came out of their vagina. is this woman for real? last i checked it took a man's seed to make that man. it takes 2 to tango and until a woman can reproduce asexually we're both in this together. @31:30 i disagree cause you can have 1000 black man that like the natural hair and about 10 who likes weave or whatever and.... cont.
I love how the womb card got played out of nowehere. But at the end of the day,so long as Black men go after White features that's what Black women will try to emulate. Men and women are different. A woman's aesthetic is much more crucial to her than ours is because men are drawn visually,so I don't think conking compares to the psychological dependence BW have on fake hair. Personally, I blame Black men for this mess more than Black women. BW are just trying to supply the demand.
@Iannes33 So Black women refuse to listen to Black men on any other thing, but when it comes to hair they acquiesce like little lambs? Fam, someone has got to explain that one to me. LOL
Black women have the most distinctive hair in this society, and from the time they're little girls this distinctiveness is attacked both physically by their mothers with combs and chemicals and verbally by everyone both Black and White telling them all their life that their natural hair is nappy and makes them look ugly. It's not hard to see how such a sick environment breeds this response. If natural hair became an accepted standard of beauty I guarantee weaves would disappear.
@Iannes33 MEN in general, including BLACK MEN, prefer women who exercise and maintain physically fit bodies. Black women don't seem to be running to the gym, though. Quite the contrary, BW lead nearly all other demographics in rates of obesity.
I'd disagree with that. Many men and almost certainly most Black men prefer a voluptuous or full-bodied woman to a slender or skinny one. Men go hunting for a big ass, but I know very few if any Black men that scope the crowd for slim thighs or a 6-pack.
LOL Yea, I cannot fully comprehend why anyone would be so offended by this conversation that they would hit the dislike button. Unless, it struck a cord in within themselves; an issue that they refuse to address about themselves due to self hate. Either that, or some black misogynistic negro doesn't appreciate natural black beauty and sexiness. . Me, personally I think black men and women have everything to do with this topic and each other.
When you fella's stop fading your hair down to less than a grain of rice, Or even worse, balding your deity given nap; then you can talk about black women who perm, color, lace and weave their hair!!!
Give black women a break. When black NBA player have their handlers tell them, "don't date women with corn rolls, because it's bad for your image." AND THEY COMPLY! You can joke black women till the sun come down, but realize you're destroying our race. PBTA
@hotey125467 Everything you said was trash, sis. You spouted a litany of deflections that neither address the point nor apply to the type of men who subscribe to this channel.
Plus, cutting hair in a way which COMPLIMENTS our natural hair is different from changing the texture to imitate another culture.
But, you knew that. Your goal was to come in an confuse the entire conversation.
Stop acting as if your "deity given nap" is so sacred to you NOW. If it was you wouldn't be against the men in this video but rather on their side and defending them. Stop being hypocrites and have some consistency.
Damn, that girl got all emotional over weave! I always say, it is harder to get a black woman to let go of that weave/wig/relaxers/disguises then it is to take that crack pip away from the crack fiend!
OK WHEN I POSTED MY COMMENT I WAS HALF WAY THROUGH. I HEARD THE PART WHERE SHE TOLD YOU TO SHUT UP! WOW! THATS SAD, AND THIS WAS AFTER YOU EXPRESSED HOW YOU WANT TO SEE US NATURALLY. I THOUGHT THAT WAS SEXY AND VERY POWERFUL. I CAN SEE TAKING A MORE AGRESSIVE APPROACH AFTER THAT POINT! I LOVE THE FACT THAT YOU WANT TO SEE US NATURAL AND FOR US TO STAY NATURAL. PEACELUV!
MY THOUGHTS: I THINK WHATS INSIDE THE PERSON IS WHAT COUNTS FIRST. DONT COUNT A SISTAH OUT JUST BECAUSE SHE HAS WEAVE. IM NOT GON JUST COUNT A BROTHA OUT BECAUSE HE MESSED WITH A WHITE WOMAN/WOMEN. EVEN SOME THATS 'CONSCIOUS' HAS DONE THAT. IM HAPPY TO SEE BROTHAS WANTING TO SEE NATURAL, I JUST FEEL LIKE THE APPROACH WAS SOMEWHAT OFF. BUT KEEP SPEAKING OYUR MIND PEACE.
What the brothers were saying is too correct and it's sad that the girl had to tell you to shut the fuck up. We don't need to be speaking to our brothers like this.
"Don't Save Her, She Don't Wanna Be Saaaved Don't Save Her , She Don't Wanna Be Saved lol ..But forreal man its up to the individual weather or not they want to do better dont matter how logical ur argument is they'll try to counter it wit any typa excuse...So i dont even trip no mo
Look I have listened to 15mins. Of this that all I needed to hear. And all I wanted to hear. However. same story. same story, I don't think some of the black women In your panal undestand the point of view where the black men Is coming from. Black women has this ''ATTITUDE'' about them, like you should like us i we wear the weave or not. Now from the guys stnd point Is That they don't like it period It look's tacky It's not your hair why do you want It. In Your head. Be You be ''NATURAL''.
This is not a bw bashing video. This is indeed a public service announcement. These companies are selling some fd up glue that's hard to get off. Your edges are busted and you're a slave to these companies for ever. Yes, I'm tired of the internet clowns, but this is a legit argument. We should be able to listen to men who truly care. If we listen, maybe they will. To locks causing hair loss argument, sometimes it's from over twisting, tiny locks or some other proble
Look, everyone has a right to do what they want to do. Everyone has a right to dislike what they want. The Jermaine Jackson sharpie hair line is NOT the move. Koreans are laughing their asses off. We have more important things to talk about, but we can not ignore the dangers of the wack lace front! If you wear your own hair with confidence, no one can mess with you. I've been natural off and on (mostly natural) for many years. Natural for life now. Not trying 2b a natural nazi, but come on.
@Auntkekebaby "Natural Nazi" is a term the women who refuse to embrace their own hair texture and their panderers (accomplices) came up with as a defense mechanism to avoid the ugly truth. It serves the same function as the word "Hater" did when people got tired of being called out on the boo-sit things they do. So, don't let it bother you, Sis. It didn't work then and it damn sure ain't working now, you feel me? ONE LOVE!
@MrHolipsism Yes Sir. Your argument sounds very sexy. You sound like you really mean it. Some guys just speak on it as a joke. I can understand why some women are not there yet, but we are at the Zenith of cheese and bs. Now it's time to be the head of your own house, starting with your HEAD! It's time to stand tall and sexy in our own image. I do the Naomi walk with the dread version of the part in the middle. No problem with the sexy. I swim thru these waters and attract many fish.
I totally agree with you. I am a black women. I think weaves and lace fronts look horrible! Black women just don't want to accept themselves the way god made them. Yes. Asian make this hair and so called black hair products. And they are making billions of dollars off the black women's insecurities. These Asians don't even know what these problems do! Yes. Black women could put them out of business overnight. We just have to wake the fuck up. But, I don't see that happening anytime soon. One.
@Debatethecause3 Please and thank you for your comment. If some black people took the time to do some reading we wouldn't even be in the situation we're in. The time for talking is over some black people need a straight up kick to their temporal lobe.
I shaved my head :0) I love it, makes my eyes really pop, fits my style, lots of classy tats and piercings. It's about confidence. We should all just enjoy waking up and feeling/looking beautiful IN OUR OWN EYES without the "cakey" make-up, weaves and wigs. Just be happy. Cheers!
BKQUAV 4 days ago
black ppl are so ignorant and immature
spinmark1980 1 month ago
that girl got offended because she kept swearing
beckton11 2 months ago
I dont really get this bw thing, where they feel they are beyond any form of criticism. If a bw says too many niggas are going to jail, Ill say "Ur damn rite", too many niggas arent providing for their kids, Ill say "fo sho",. If you say too many blk women are wearing fukked up weaves, theyll say, "white women are wearing weaves too, why you putting us down". like wtf, they critical as hell but cant take shit.
TollFree999 2 months ago
UH That jolly girl was talking out of the side of her neck the whole segment. She really gave new meaning to the whole loud, ghetto, black women. The solution doesn't lie in the men, it lies in the women who choose to wear these horrible weaves.
LaMalia35 2 months ago
Sometimes it's like arguing with a crack head about how bad crack is for them, they know but they can't quit. I overstand where the Sistar coming from when sometimes men try to tell a woman how to be a woman and that can be annoying. Long story short lace front wearers are either lazy or white identified, trying to be something they think/were told is the standard of beauty.
mscurvy 2 months ago
Black women like to make up fake arguments for going with nonsense.
For all of American history after European domination, black kinky hair has been shat upon. Period. Long straight or curly straight hair has always been promoted as the ideal for beauty.
The fact that black women are trying to adopt straight long so-called luxurious hair is testament to the impact of European domination on American culture. For black women to say otherwise is dishonest. This has nothing to do with Africa.
dnifty1 2 months ago
All lace fronts should be incinerated!
leighvus100 3 months ago
Hilarious. I wore lace fronts I admit that I wore it for a couple reasons and it was synthetic couldn't do the human hair. I threw it out. I love my own natural hair so much better. Yall seen my hair : - )
naturalself9 3 months ago
@naturalself9 Yes and I LOVE it! You are the epitome of Afrikan Beauty, Queen. Don't ever change unless it is for the better. LOVE U. ONE
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
smh, i was cussin at my screen! I take the guys side on this one. (Even though she wasn't debating correctly) ~ as a young black female, not having weave n other garbage is a great way to weed out the losers! ^_^ 100% natural my whole life
Vrishchii 3 months ago
@ MrHolipsism DAMNIT that was indeed a heated debate. My take on the whole lace front wig is that it's no different than rockin' a weave, it still gives bw the look of having straight, long, "luxurious" hair, when they in fact do not. Most bw do not like their natural hair, and don't want to take the time and patience needed to nuture their own God given hair. Then they wonder why they go bald at 60...come on man stop the foolishness.
SelRastan 3 months ago
Something that the ladies failed to mention when they talked about the Egyptian royalty wearing wigs. THEY WERE WEARING AFRICAN HAIR. They were not wear straight European or Aryan Indian hair. You don't see any kinky haired lace front wigs
snakejohnson 3 months ago 2
"a lace fr-d-d-dont!!!" OMG! Hilarious! I am natural and do not wear wigs however I absolutely think a lace front is a good protective style for when a woman's hair is not cooperating with the weather. check out Borderhammer's youtube and she does rock the wigs beautifully as well as her natural hair. I think the convo is relevant too because bw need to know that bm love their natural hair. PEACE
Afrah22 3 months ago
i hate front lace , wigs and weave...i love back women but will not fuck with her if she got that shit in her hair....love yourself
DAPRODUCK 3 months ago
Why was that nigga at the end talking shit to black males? Black women have done this to themselves! That coon is nothing but an enabler!
BlkprideX 3 months ago
@BlkprideX Huh???? Enabling what? He was talking about the so-called Black men who want to see our sistas in wigs and weaves. What are you talking about? Holla back. ONE
MrHolipsism 3 months ago 2
@MrHolipsism You must be kidding! NO MAN WILL ADMIT THEY LIKE WEAVES..unless he'll wear one himself!(lol) The real thing is that the males you're talking about are extremely desperate and don't care if a black female has a weave or a wig....they are just happy to be accepted by ANY woman!
blkpryde1 3 months ago
@blkpryde1 No, I'm not kidding. I'm wondering if you even listened to the video because you are defending a point no one even raised. The men he was talking about were men who encourage their women to wear wigs and weaves and perms over their own natural hair. So if you are taking him to task for doing so you are actually defending the men who do that. That's why I asked what are you talking about?
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
@MrHolipsism Don't try that "did you listen" shit with me man,I heard what was said...and at the end of the video he jumps off the black female for being crazy and starts jumping on the males that single black women created?! WTF?! Have you ever heard a black man say they love wigs and weaves? NO..At least BM in california,HATE black women in weaves...why the hell do you think most black men date interracially?! It's not all attitude and self hate issues as you might think!
blkpryde1 3 months ago
@blkpryde1 WTF are you talking about? You know what? Never mind. Good bye clown
MrHolipsism 3 months ago 2
The point I'm constantly trying to hammer home is that putting the hair of other ethnic groups over your own natural hair texture is NOT NORMAL and should be viewed as ridiculous as it truly is. Of course, anyone who wants to look ridiculous has a "right" to do so.
MrHolipsism 3 months ago 2
I think more bw shud go natural but come on weaves are not that serious lol i wud wear lace fronts, sometimes i jus dont feel like doing my hair. And to those who keep saying bw are tryna look like white women utter bullshit. As distinctly different bw are to ww how can a hair make her look like a white woman? White women arent the only women with naturally straight hair.
MsRoyalTreasure 3 months ago
Wow. Sista got real emotional at the end. It almost sounded like she was about to cry. I am glad my wife has an afro and I don't have to go through this stuff.
snakejohnson 3 months ago
Excellent topic!
lizabethlady 3 months ago
7:39, mad funny.
thety5489 3 months ago
Overall, I think that if more black woman wore their hair natural & went against social norms of this white-supremacist patriarchal-feminist system, more black men(like MrHolipsism) would appreciate & respect them. I know a highly intelligent brotha who says the reason Y he doesn't date some black women who are interested in him is because so many of them are very artificial in their looks(weave, make-up, blond wigs, chemicals) imitating their white oppressors which he finds very unattractive.
keshawn888 3 months ago
It makes sense to me, why would a brotha date or engage himself in a relationship with a black woman who reminds him of the racist white Caucasian bitch who is the counter-part to the racist white dog? These weaves, blonde, blue, black & purple wigs & all the rest of these artificial accessories are very unattractive but I also respect a person's free-will. HOWever, would these same BW feel if black men started imitating their white bosses?(with straightened hair) This topic is NOT limited 2 BW
keshawn888 3 months ago
if those men are popular or celebraties, their words or opinions will have more impact on a woman belief about that, then your regular average joe's
alkabaylon69 3 months ago
Holip: if it got something to do with black men, shut your goddamn mouth and sit down
Jolly: black men will always got something to do with black women cause we came out of their vagina. is this woman for real? last i checked it took a man's seed to make that man. it takes 2 to tango and until a woman can reproduce asexually we're both in this together. @31:30 i disagree cause you can have 1000 black man that like the natural hair and about 10 who likes weave or whatever and.... cont.
alkabaylon69 3 months ago
*LMAO@30:19*
I love how the womb card got played out of nowehere. But at the end of the day,so long as Black men go after White features that's what Black women will try to emulate. Men and women are different. A woman's aesthetic is much more crucial to her than ours is because men are drawn visually,so I don't think conking compares to the psychological dependence BW have on fake hair. Personally, I blame Black men for this mess more than Black women. BW are just trying to supply the demand.
Iannes33 3 months ago
@Iannes33 So Black women refuse to listen to Black men on any other thing, but when it comes to hair they acquiesce like little lambs? Fam, someone has got to explain that one to me. LOL
MrHolipsism 3 months ago 2
@MrHolipsism
Black women have the most distinctive hair in this society, and from the time they're little girls this distinctiveness is attacked both physically by their mothers with combs and chemicals and verbally by everyone both Black and White telling them all their life that their natural hair is nappy and makes them look ugly. It's not hard to see how such a sick environment breeds this response. If natural hair became an accepted standard of beauty I guarantee weaves would disappear.
Iannes33 3 months ago
@Iannes33 MEN in general, including BLACK MEN, prefer women who exercise and maintain physically fit bodies. Black women don't seem to be running to the gym, though. Quite the contrary, BW lead nearly all other demographics in rates of obesity.
rfrantzt 3 months ago
@rfrantzt
I'd disagree with that. Many men and almost certainly most Black men prefer a voluptuous or full-bodied woman to a slender or skinny one. Men go hunting for a big ass, but I know very few if any Black men that scope the crowd for slim thighs or a 6-pack.
Iannes33 3 months ago
This conversation is as stupid as women taping hair to their heads. I barely got 10 minutes in, and I'm disgusted by both sides of this argument.
blah!
kinqui 3 months ago
@kinqui Allow me to relieve you of your pain. Good bye
MrHolipsism 3 months ago 2
The lace front wig is not a fad, but an epidemic
Why no pics of Steve Harvey lace front?
FitnessMinded 3 months ago
@FitnessMinded Haha...you mean the furry Kangol cap?
Auntkekebaby 3 months ago
4 people who disliked this video can go fuck themselves
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
@MrHolipsism
LOL Yea, I cannot fully comprehend why anyone would be so offended by this conversation that they would hit the dislike button. Unless, it struck a cord in within themselves; an issue that they refuse to address about themselves due to self hate. Either that, or some black misogynistic negro doesn't appreciate natural black beauty and sexiness. . Me, personally I think black men and women have everything to do with this topic and each other.
keshawn888 3 months ago
5 people who disliked this video can go fuck themselves
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
8 people who disliked this video can go fuck themselves
MrHolipsism 3 months ago 2
@MrHolipsism I think we all know the race and gender of those people.
Dmacho78 3 months ago
@MyobuUzumaki You got it on this channel, Queen! ONE
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
I think more black people should talk and address this topic, period.
keshawn888 3 months ago
LOL! @ the end
keshawn888 3 months ago
Black man, please!!!
When you fella's stop fading your hair down to less than a grain of rice, Or even worse, balding your deity given nap; then you can talk about black women who perm, color, lace and weave their hair!!!
Give black women a break. When black NBA player have their handlers tell them, "don't date women with corn rolls, because it's bad for your image." AND THEY COMPLY! You can joke black women till the sun come down, but realize you're destroying our race. PBTA
You black
hotey125467 3 months ago
@hotey125467 Everything you said was trash, sis. You spouted a litany of deflections that neither address the point nor apply to the type of men who subscribe to this channel.
Plus, cutting hair in a way which COMPLIMENTS our natural hair is different from changing the texture to imitate another culture.
But, you knew that. Your goal was to come in an confuse the entire conversation.
Just another confused black female.... yawn.
rfrantzt 3 months ago 2
@rfrantzt You pretty much summed it up, Fam. Nice job! ;-)
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
@hotey125467 Black Woman, Please!!!!
Stop acting as if your "deity given nap" is so sacred to you NOW. If it was you wouldn't be against the men in this video but rather on their side and defending them. Stop being hypocrites and have some consistency.
You black
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
Damn, that girl got all emotional over weave! I always say, it is harder to get a black woman to let go of that weave/wig/relaxers/disguises then it is to take that crack pip away from the crack fiend!
knowledgeiswhatsup 3 months ago
hair or weave hair or weave,,,,ooooooohhhh is it really your hair or is it really a weave,Bobby Jimmy and the critters 1989..
yungsandifer 3 months ago
OK WHEN I POSTED MY COMMENT I WAS HALF WAY THROUGH. I HEARD THE PART WHERE SHE TOLD YOU TO SHUT UP! WOW! THATS SAD, AND THIS WAS AFTER YOU EXPRESSED HOW YOU WANT TO SEE US NATURALLY. I THOUGHT THAT WAS SEXY AND VERY POWERFUL. I CAN SEE TAKING A MORE AGRESSIVE APPROACH AFTER THAT POINT! I LOVE THE FACT THAT YOU WANT TO SEE US NATURAL AND FOR US TO STAY NATURAL. PEACELUV!
january719 3 months ago 3
@january719 No doubt, Queen!
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
MY THOUGHTS: I THINK WHATS INSIDE THE PERSON IS WHAT COUNTS FIRST. DONT COUNT A SISTAH OUT JUST BECAUSE SHE HAS WEAVE. IM NOT GON JUST COUNT A BROTHA OUT BECAUSE HE MESSED WITH A WHITE WOMAN/WOMEN. EVEN SOME THATS 'CONSCIOUS' HAS DONE THAT. IM HAPPY TO SEE BROTHAS WANTING TO SEE NATURAL, I JUST FEEL LIKE THE APPROACH WAS SOMEWHAT OFF. BUT KEEP SPEAKING OYUR MIND PEACE.
january719 3 months ago
What the brothers were saying is too correct and it's sad that the girl had to tell you to shut the fuck up. We don't need to be speaking to our brothers like this.
breakofdawn26 3 months ago 6
@breakofdawn26 So true. So rude!
Auntkekebaby 3 months ago
She had no argument so she had to get personal. @MrHolipsism Don't you know by now that you can't argue with a fool.
sirenlyfox 3 months ago 6
I felt so frustrated for you MrHolipsism. I don't know how you do it. They would not let you get a word in. I cheered when you had her muted.
plo617 3 months ago 4
@plo617 Thank you, Fam! :-)
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
"Don't Save Her, She Don't Wanna Be Saaaved Don't Save Her , She Don't Wanna Be Saved lol ..But forreal man its up to the individual weather or not they want to do better dont matter how logical ur argument is they'll try to counter it wit any typa excuse...So i dont even trip no mo
JORKEY3000 3 months ago 3
Look I have listened to 15mins. Of this that all I needed to hear. And all I wanted to hear. However. same story. same story, I don't think some of the black women In your panal undestand the point of view where the black men Is coming from. Black women has this ''ATTITUDE'' about them, like you should like us i we wear the weave or not. Now from the guys stnd point Is That they don't like it period It look's tacky It's not your hair why do you want It. In Your head. Be You be ''NATURAL''.
JaKKeBrOwN1 3 months ago
Mr. Holipsm, you are right on point.
A large percentage of American Black women, don't care about what Black men find attractive.
They only care about what they want...and when they want it.
They feel their pussy is their greatest asset, and that a man will overlook everything else to get to it.
They wear plenty of wigs & weaves...but will never wear a wedding band.
ancel1961 3 months ago
This is not a bw bashing video. This is indeed a public service announcement. These companies are selling some fd up glue that's hard to get off. Your edges are busted and you're a slave to these companies for ever. Yes, I'm tired of the internet clowns, but this is a legit argument. We should be able to listen to men who truly care. If we listen, maybe they will. To locks causing hair loss argument, sometimes it's from over twisting, tiny locks or some other proble
Auntkekebaby 3 months ago 10
@Auntkekebaby
I agree wholeheartedly!
keshawn888 3 months ago
Look, everyone has a right to do what they want to do. Everyone has a right to dislike what they want. The Jermaine Jackson sharpie hair line is NOT the move. Koreans are laughing their asses off. We have more important things to talk about, but we can not ignore the dangers of the wack lace front! If you wear your own hair with confidence, no one can mess with you. I've been natural off and on (mostly natural) for many years. Natural for life now. Not trying 2b a natural nazi, but come on.
Auntkekebaby 3 months ago 11
@Auntkekebaby "Natural Nazi" is a term the women who refuse to embrace their own hair texture and their panderers (accomplices) came up with as a defense mechanism to avoid the ugly truth. It serves the same function as the word "Hater" did when people got tired of being called out on the boo-sit things they do. So, don't let it bother you, Sis. It didn't work then and it damn sure ain't working now, you feel me? ONE LOVE!
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
@MrHolipsism Yes Sir. Your argument sounds very sexy. You sound like you really mean it. Some guys just speak on it as a joke. I can understand why some women are not there yet, but we are at the Zenith of cheese and bs. Now it's time to be the head of your own house, starting with your HEAD! It's time to stand tall and sexy in our own image. I do the Naomi walk with the dread version of the part in the middle. No problem with the sexy. I swim thru these waters and attract many fish.
Auntkekebaby 3 months ago
I totally agree with you. I am a black women. I think weaves and lace fronts look horrible! Black women just don't want to accept themselves the way god made them. Yes. Asian make this hair and so called black hair products. And they are making billions of dollars off the black women's insecurities. These Asians don't even know what these problems do! Yes. Black women could put them out of business overnight. We just have to wake the fuck up. But, I don't see that happening anytime soon. One.
jgoodlowe 3 months ago
@jgoodlowe Thank you, Queen! ONE
MrHolipsism 3 months ago
such a hard headed mentality deserves death..... Willie Lynch is in way too deep, my death policy sounds less strange every passing year
Debatethecause3 3 months ago
@Debatethecause3 Please and thank you for your comment. If some black people took the time to do some reading we wouldn't even be in the situation we're in. The time for talking is over some black people need a straight up kick to their temporal lobe.
sirenlyfox 3 months ago
LOL...the music...nuts!
Auntkekebaby 3 months ago