I dn't miss any of my ex's that much, I actually miss my old friends; but I believe I can create the same list on the pro's and con's of the relationship. I'm sure the con's are more
i been strugglin with this problem for a while now, and this helped a lot, but yooo this video was funny and made my day but at the same time it was deep, thanks for the advice
Wow! Thanks for this vid. I have felt this way before. Unfortunately have to still see my ex... He is located in a place that I have to walk to every weekend. I know he still misses me and looks at me and all that. I just dont talk to him and walk by him without speaking. I did talk to him like 3Xs tho. However, I do still sit in the place I used to sit when we were together, but I ignore him. I want him to be lead to Christ, I got to get myself together first. So.. for now I just walk on by...
"man, Satan tried to hoodwink me!" LOL! i know how you feel bc the same thing happened to me and I've learned so much from it and my relationship with God has grown closer since being apart from that person and I think that I may have influenced them to really get in touch with the lord, and I also prayed for them as well as made a cons list and that went on and on. It actually worked for me to remind myself that that person is no good for me, but I just hope that the Lord did save him. Amen! :)
Wow. I left my previous relationship cause I felt that the Lord wanted me to do things in the kingdom. I suffered at the beginning cause the guy really cared about me, but if the person does not want to walk with U in the same path, it's not gonna work!!!!!!!
Wow. Yep, funny video but so true. If you need to write the vision and make it plain then do so....take it back to college days with the Pro and Con list.
Wow! That really helped..I just ended a relationship with a guy that I cared deeply for and was with for a few years. When I became serious about my walk with God and renewed in my mind, it was clear that we would NOT work out. I am a single mother of a 9 year old and what you said about marriage and raising kids to be on the right path means A LOT to me. My daughter's salvation is my responsibility in my opinion. Thank you for the list..Thank U Lord for introducing me to Pastor Justin's videos!
dude!!! i totally love love love love all your vides. i than God for your videos seriously... He soooo uses you. but man... its so on point for te youner generation. i mean im 18. and your videos are definitely encouraging and hit the spot. Keep following Gods wil! kno that im praying for you Pastor Justin. pray for me to. :) God bless.
so needed this right now i had to let a ex go. and the phone call and meeting at the house thing is so true.i had to let him go but i first and still try to show him Christ cause like u said Christ get first dibs LOVE IT THX FOR THE HONESTY.
I have a question...you know God called you to end the relationship, but do you think God called you to that relationship in the first place? And if so, why would He do that?
As someone that's also praying about finding the right spouse, why does God bring people to us that we're not supposed to be with? Or is that our own doing? What are your thoughts ?...
I hope Pastor Justin got back to you in this if not, I can from experince answer your question. Not all relationships are for a life time. Some are for season and others a reason. I had a friend who I knew was supposed to be a friend but then we took a turn that wasn't God's, we had to end it so that healing and proper direction might take place. most times our flesh gets in the way of the proper relations were supposed to have with ppl. Loneliness and open wounds misleads us!
@128Wright128 Personally I think that God brings people into our lives for many reasons but most of the time it is up to us to dictate what role that person will have in our life. As a woman growing in my relationship with Christ I now know that every man that comes into my life is not for the purpose of being my boyfriend.
i don't think of good thinks he did. when never i see him. my soul shakes, and all of sudden anger strike. and the next think i wanna do is shoot him. yet we didnt date. i just really liked him.
LOL, so funny, yet so true. Pastor, watching this video brought me back to reality. I started writting the list and didn't even have to finish it. I don't know what i was thinking. I can never, ever go back to that man! Those lingering feeling ain't no joke, but looking at that list is helping me to get over them, believe me.
Thank you Pastor for keeping it real. Keep up the awesome work you are doing.
LOL, Pastor Justin, what can i say, you are a trip, but so real. I love your teaching. Thank you for posting this. I needed to hear this message like yesterday. I am currently going through this situation. I made my pro and con list and realize why i am no longer in that relationship. i can' never, ever go back to that man.
It's good to see a young man like yourself sold out to God. keep on keeping it real Pastor Justin. I look forward to future postings.
p.s you are SOO FUnny! and you speak the truth!! our generation needs this! ove it want to show this to my youth. keep on. I will be praying for you and your ministry cuz the enemy is mad!! But Praise Jesus..Whom shall we fear???!
Man, I needed this video 5 years ago! I'm no longer with the guy and this made things a lot clearer when you have to say goodbye to people and situation. THANKS! (^_^)
I can't get past the :28 seconds mark...I love listening to what you have to say and watching you. You are such a special man made by God, & so comfortable in who you are. God bless you, now I'm going to try this again lol
if i marry someong like this, I would probably....start smoking crack, waste my life, die and go to hell!!!........LOLLOLLOLLOLLLOLLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just did a pro & con list. So, the devil had me missing my ex over 2 things. He was funny & he was looking...yea...and there was 25 on the con side. Thank you so much 4 posting this. It helped me to see that relationship for what it truly was.
I want to first and formost say thank you for posting this video. Lately i have been struggling with thinking about my ex. And there are always sporadic moments. I have random nights where i will have dreams about him and i am not even thinking about him. So just somthing to keep me in prayer about. I just try to contiune to remind myself that my relationship with Chirst is so suffiencet in him. Again thank you for this video
Lol...this made me wanna go examine myself and do a pro and con list for myself...lol. I dont think I wanna be in a relationship with myself sometimes.
HILARIOUS @ 1:24 w/ the African Safari music playing in the background. This video sums up the reason why I like your message. You bring God's Word in a way that makes people want to get closer/build a relationship with Christ. You allow people to see the applicaton of God's word in everyday life. Thank you for sharing what God has given you!
Pastor Cox. I praise God for letting Him use you to speak real talk to what people are going through. I'm literally going through this right now. I actually wrote the reasons why I broke up with him but I forgot about it. Now God is reminding me that HE SAVED me from that relationshp. My life would have been very different and worldy if I continued that relationship. Praise God for conviction through the HOLY SPIRIT! Godbless Pastor Cox!
You are so silly! I've learned to trust GOD, after all he knows what is best for me and that includes what kind of person I should be with. I will definitely use the pro and con list in the future though. Thanks for posting and being transparent!
Thanks for the post because I REALLY thought I missed my ex since it's just recent...lol but i am SO OVER HIM!!! His lost Christ's gain!!! Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
Wow mannnnn, I can't even begin to express how much of a blessing this video is! What a great idea...as soon as you miss someone that God cut out of your life, make a list, or even just think about the negative things...God cut them out for a reason. Powerful video.
I recently had an incident like that...and i had to wake my self up...I have changed since then & he hasnt....He called me and as we spoke he reminded me of all the reasons GOD seperated me from him....What a great God we serve!
Great video. I think about my exes sometimes, but the Holy Spirit reminds me of the new relationship I have with Christ. There are no cons to write down about Jesus, only pros!!
I am definitely gonna do the Pro/Con list.. I know I'm not going back unless the LORD leads me but you know how your mind gets when you are left alone with your thoughts
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO hahaha da few seconds from 1:22 to 1:35 was kinda funny espec with da sound effects LOOOL :P buh dis message is fo realz ik how he feels and hes speakin da truth
Man this message was truth. You have to first look out for yourself. Your soul, your anointing, and your future. Its not about being self righteous. You also don't want to lead someone else down a wrong path and away from Christ. You would both be wasting each others time.
lol, you are soo funny but this is so true. I miss my husband but the bad out weighs the good so unfortunately it's time for a divorce.... Don't want to but God is allowing it
man I am going through this situation right now....but I know what to do now...Pro and Con list then line that thang up with the Word of God...oh yes!
I honestly woke up this morning from a dream of my ex and could not get it off my mind. I spoke out loud saying you got to get off my mind, trying and trying to get it off my mind nothing was working but as i got on the computer i seen this video. and its no coincidence at all. God is working through you pastor and im glad and thankful to God for help when its needed!
I needed this. I kid you not. I was on my way to my ex's house to kick it before I watched this video, so thank you SOOOO Much for this encouraging message. It just put my thoughts and motives in perspective and even convicted me to seek God's love instead of worldy love. Thank you for this message pastor cox. Much luv!
I found myself missing my old friends not necessarily an ex, but then God makes me realize that there is a reason why He have allowed some people to walk out of my life.
HAHA how GOD works I was soo just talking to my sister about this..But yess I've had those moments sometimes I just have to laugh and say what was I thinkingggg!
Thanks for being So Honest cuz Most ppl think that cuz ur a Pastor or have a certain Position that you dnt have these Struggles or Temptation So Praise God ur Honesty Bro!! u should come to New Jersey in Paterson to speak @ my Christian Fellowship...
As A leader Its good to show ppl that we do have feelings too and we're not Perfect we' re still Humans
Yo I can get down with this I have an Ex but Im still friends with her shes a christian but I just think she needed more time to get her self together and go back to school that was the biggest issue!! of all she procrastnates and plus she always had excused not to do somethings!!
Honestly, I this was so applicable to my life, I didn't even want to watch it. lol.
But, I want t to build my spirit up, so I had to go get that truth. You always bring it, Pastor Cox.
I see relationships like business decisions. The our soulish issues/our emotions/the devil got us short sellin all our value in Christ/in ourselves. Thank God for emotionless choices!!! Yeeee!!
GGGGGGGLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's insane how much I relate to this clip. Even down to the cons of my ex. Yikes!!!
@SimplyMarvinousTV LOL GGGGGGGLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOO ORRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!! !!!!! I can just see you waving your hands..lol
True stories!!! This is too funny! I was laughing and talking back to the video. For real, the carnal ones HAVE TO GO!!! The list was a fantastic idea. I wish I knew this 2 years ago when I went through it. This would would've saved me months of heart ache. You have to shut those thoughts down, even though it's difficult rationalise with your emotions.
8:40.. like did it for me.. lmbo.... - That face in all up in the cam was NOT cute... - - - Awesome video, I can definitely relate to some of the things mentioned... Thanks for sharing with us!!
Pastor trust this happens to everyone it happens to me and I find it funny that we can counsel others but when it comes to ourselves we canr seem to find the right words so I am not laughing at you missing your ex because it has happened to me for a long time and God helped me get through it and move forward so Im glad God used you and put this vid up because it shows that this can affect all people
lol... you are too funny! This message was real. I make a pro and con list also, but I do it mentally. It def. helps because I know I deserve the best that God has for me. Thanks for the vid.
Miss your videos! Hope youre well
BGirlSkirtao 1 month ago 2
lmboooo,....this is truth though!!!
j01288 1 year ago 4
Christ DOES get first dibs, people need to recognize.
JuicyWuSea 1 year ago 31
I dn't miss any of my ex's that much, I actually miss my old friends; but I believe I can create the same list on the pro's and con's of the relationship. I'm sure the con's are more
LindaDarren 1 year ago 9
looooooool damn you wrote 26 cons and only 2 pro's loooooooooool now that's funny
kutely 1 year ago 5
i been strugglin with this problem for a while now, and this helped a lot, but yooo this video was funny and made my day but at the same time it was deep, thanks for the advice
23PREZ 1 year ago 2
lol come back please....please...(hats falls off) *pause*...(Hat back on)...I miss you, I miss you...Nice perspective dude, I appreciate the advice
KTSHO 1 year ago 6
Wow! Thanks for this vid. I have felt this way before. Unfortunately have to still see my ex... He is located in a place that I have to walk to every weekend. I know he still misses me and looks at me and all that. I just dont talk to him and walk by him without speaking. I did talk to him like 3Xs tho. However, I do still sit in the place I used to sit when we were together, but I ignore him. I want him to be lead to Christ, I got to get myself together first. So.. for now I just walk on by...
JesusisMineAlways 1 year ago 7
my friend had me do one of thoes list
CLEROLDA1 1 year ago
"man, Satan tried to hoodwink me!" LOL! i know how you feel bc the same thing happened to me and I've learned so much from it and my relationship with God has grown closer since being apart from that person and I think that I may have influenced them to really get in touch with the lord, and I also prayed for them as well as made a cons list and that went on and on. It actually worked for me to remind myself that that person is no good for me, but I just hope that the Lord did save him. Amen! :)
aznsRockk42 1 year ago
I love how you're funny but you have a good message :)
reziboy100 1 year ago 6
Wow. I left my previous relationship cause I felt that the Lord wanted me to do things in the kingdom. I suffered at the beginning cause the guy really cared about me, but if the person does not want to walk with U in the same path, it's not gonna work!!!!!!!
TRoxy04 1 year ago 2
this is funny!!! true talks still...whoeva dislikes this is just hatin
TheCreamzy 1 year ago
Wow. Yep, funny video but so true. If you need to write the vision and make it plain then do so....take it back to college days with the Pro and Con list.
ladymika0206 1 year ago
hey what kind of wristwatch is that, i saw your assistant pastor had one just like it, is it a P4CM thing?
bndctus 1 year ago
Courtship... check out Boy Meets Girl by Joshua Harris
jpzwezee 1 year ago
I'm new to your chanel and I really like what you're doing! Absolutely wonderful...God bless!
Iprsmrk 1 year ago
Wow! That really helped..I just ended a relationship with a guy that I cared deeply for and was with for a few years. When I became serious about my walk with God and renewed in my mind, it was clear that we would NOT work out. I am a single mother of a 9 year old and what you said about marriage and raising kids to be on the right path means A LOT to me. My daughter's salvation is my responsibility in my opinion. Thank you for the list..Thank U Lord for introducing me to Pastor Justin's videos!
MssoldierinChrist 1 year ago
Love this video....Don't know why I just saw it, but it's so encouraging! I recently did a vid on relationships also, this is great! God bless sir!
BelovedOsaruchi 1 year ago
LOL!!! this is true!! but hard:/
ipswichgirl05 1 year ago
dude!!! i totally love love love love all your vides. i than God for your videos seriously... He soooo uses you. but man... its so on point for te youner generation. i mean im 18. and your videos are definitely encouraging and hit the spot. Keep following Gods wil! kno that im praying for you Pastor Justin. pray for me to. :) God bless.
vaporubness 1 year ago
I recently did this and I realized my mistake so I'm about to fix it right now
kisses36081 1 year ago
so needed this right now i had to let a ex go. and the phone call and meeting at the house thing is so true.i had to let him go but i first and still try to show him Christ cause like u said Christ get first dibs LOVE IT THX FOR THE HONESTY.
NishaRenaye 1 year ago
so needed this right now went through the same thing and i had to let him go thx
NishaRenaye 1 year ago
I love how u keep it real!!!
Nikolette90 1 year ago 2
boyyyyy i need to start doing that list !!!
donauld1 1 year ago
Very good..
megafootsteps 1 year ago
dude. keep it going.
God is doing something great with your life.
Toneeeeee23 1 year ago
wow.... y didnt i see this video like..mmm7 montha ago!... love this video!... Thanx Pastor. God bless!
Mimi26luv 1 year ago
Pastor Justin,
I have a question...you know God called you to end the relationship, but do you think God called you to that relationship in the first place? And if so, why would He do that?
As someone that's also praying about finding the right spouse, why does God bring people to us that we're not supposed to be with? Or is that our own doing? What are your thoughts ?...
128Wright128 1 year ago 6
@128Wright128
I hope Pastor Justin got back to you in this if not, I can from experince answer your question. Not all relationships are for a life time. Some are for season and others a reason. I had a friend who I knew was supposed to be a friend but then we took a turn that wasn't God's, we had to end it so that healing and proper direction might take place. most times our flesh gets in the way of the proper relations were supposed to have with ppl. Loneliness and open wounds misleads us!
Mysong7377 1 year ago 2
@128Wright128 Personally I think that God brings people into our lives for many reasons but most of the time it is up to us to dictate what role that person will have in our life. As a woman growing in my relationship with Christ I now know that every man that comes into my life is not for the purpose of being my boyfriend.
veeney802 1 year ago
what a JAM lol..sound like lion king lol
cpunkrock15 1 year ago
LOL! Your dramatizations are Hilarious!
bigboijones 1 year ago
i don't think of good thinks he did. when never i see him. my soul shakes, and all of sudden anger strike. and the next think i wanna do is shoot him. yet we didnt date. i just really liked him.
laphiphila 1 year ago
bt do you think its wrong for me to still try to be friends with him ?
yungaterror 1 year ago
@yungaterror
the bible say what fellowship has wicked with the righteous in other words why would you hang out with someone who has nothing to do with the lord?
2 Corinthians 6:12
MrSiklon762 1 year ago
this is real lol musing...
CherieAmor4life 1 year ago
I really needed to look back @ my pros and cons list of my ex after I saw this Video... Thanks Justin!! :D
PHEOLA1 1 year ago
LOVE IT.
jinxe574 1 year ago
LOL, so funny, yet so true. Pastor, watching this video brought me back to reality. I started writting the list and didn't even have to finish it. I don't know what i was thinking. I can never, ever go back to that man! Those lingering feeling ain't no joke, but looking at that list is helping me to get over them, believe me.
Thank you Pastor for keeping it real. Keep up the awesome work you are doing.
God Bless Ya!!
reesespeaceful 1 year ago
Respond to this video... this is one of the things i need your help on message me wen u can foreal i really want to make it to heaven
dragonfly513 1 year ago
Wow this is so true...I thought I was the only one!!!
ShuaHoney 1 year ago
i wonder what church you are the paster to??
lilyoung3n 1 year ago
LOL, Pastor Justin, what can i say, you are a trip, but so real. I love your teaching. Thank you for posting this. I needed to hear this message like yesterday. I am currently going through this situation. I made my pro and con list and realize why i am no longer in that relationship. i can' never, ever go back to that man.
It's good to see a young man like yourself sold out to God. keep on keeping it real Pastor Justin. I look forward to future postings.
God Bless Ya!
reesespeaceful 1 year ago
those Soul Tiesaint no joke!!!
p.s you are SOO FUnny! and you speak the truth!! our generation needs this! ove it want to show this to my youth. keep on. I will be praying for you and your ministry cuz the enemy is mad!! But Praise Jesus..Whom shall we fear???!
TheLadyA 1 year ago
you're probably the funniest Pastor in the world hahaha
xgirlzrulex 1 year ago
Man, I needed this video 5 years ago! I'm no longer with the guy and this made things a lot clearer when you have to say goodbye to people and situation. THANKS! (^_^)
LyricalGenieus 1 year ago
thank you. :)
aubreyrocin 1 year ago
i felt the exact same way today & this video really helped me!! thank u! I LOVE ALL UR VIDEOS!!
BillnTimm 1 year ago
LOL...u is madd funny...pro and con list great advice!
Ecinrahs 1 year ago
man ive berley been watching this 3 min and this is awsome man nice and funny christian 2 thats wasup!!!!
sergrod202 1 year ago
Such a great message!
JElaine613 1 year ago
I needed this doc!..hahaha...she is like a thorn in my flesh right now. Ill be praying for you
bigJbigEbigS 1 year ago
I can't get past the :28 seconds mark...I love listening to what you have to say and watching you. You are such a special man made by God, & so comfortable in who you are. God bless you, now I'm going to try this again lol
coleulm 1 year ago
thanks a lot for posting this!!! I love your pros and cons list... You are very very helpful!! All of your videos are really good!! God Bless!!
smilingsweetness 1 year ago
if i marry someong like this, I would probably....start smoking crack, waste my life, die and go to hell!!!........LOLLOLLOLLOLLLOLLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
aneeDproductions 1 year ago
OMG! That message was for me! I soooo needed that!!!! OMG! To God be the Glory! ;-)
jmeekj8 1 year ago 44
I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE..... THIS VID..... REAL TALK IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED, NEEDED
raydray2001 1 year ago
Give it to God man! I know what its like. Pray about it if it sticks with you.
Itsfaith33 1 year ago
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS! I have been battling this for some time now and I find encouragement in this video. THANK YOU
mzcogic08 1 year ago
I just did a pro & con list. So, the devil had me missing my ex over 2 things. He was funny & he was looking...yea...and there was 25 on the con side. Thank you so much 4 posting this. It helped me to see that relationship for what it truly was.
vculover23 1 year ago
lol...i feel you. i was just like that well like her.
chrissy0129 1 year ago
wow!! all in the kool-aid! Love it!
aneeDproductions 1 year ago
I want to first and formost say thank you for posting this video. Lately i have been struggling with thinking about my ex. And there are always sporadic moments. I have random nights where i will have dreams about him and i am not even thinking about him. So just somthing to keep me in prayer about. I just try to contiune to remind myself that my relationship with Chirst is so suffiencet in him. Again thank you for this video
rican2the2nd 1 year ago 2
@rican2the2nd i know exactly what u mean.
tonya728 1 year ago
Lol...this made me wanna go examine myself and do a pro and con list for myself...lol. I dont think I wanna be in a relationship with myself sometimes.
brittini86 1 year ago 2
Pastor Justin!!!!!! LOL!
chinma85 1 year ago
START SMOKIN CRACK LMAOOO
BostonBarnikle 1 year ago
"yo mann... low key dawg, i miss my gurl man" LOL
DelanoDalida 1 year ago
interesting!!!
Cnt believe that u once dated such a gal...its tru wat they say opposite attracts...
Gud one Pastor
Dharmajohns 1 year ago
thank you
IMthere4you1 1 year ago
HILARIOUS @ 1:24 w/ the African Safari music playing in the background. This video sums up the reason why I like your message. You bring God's Word in a way that makes people want to get closer/build a relationship with Christ. You allow people to see the applicaton of God's word in everyday life. Thank you for sharing what God has given you!
scj816 1 year ago
Pastor Cox. I praise God for letting Him use you to speak real talk to what people are going through. I'm literally going through this right now. I actually wrote the reasons why I broke up with him but I forgot about it. Now God is reminding me that HE SAVED me from that relationshp. My life would have been very different and worldy if I continued that relationship. Praise God for conviction through the HOLY SPIRIT! Godbless Pastor Cox!
boredchq 1 year ago 3
Praise God for this. I watch videos from this ministry as part of my studies. This was great!!!!
mspadrica 1 year ago
This made me laugh so much! Lol! So true though, very helpful.
Prisscill 1 year ago
This made me laugh so much! lol! So true though, very helpful.
Prisscill 1 year ago
Hilarious! And real! Thanks SO much...I'm going through that RIGHT NOW!
NaturalDiva624 1 year ago
Good stuff-preach!
bonicbeauty 2 years ago
LOL! You are not wrapped tights are ya?! Excellent teaching of how to apply scripture to ones emotions. Very practical.
LOL :-)
walksbyf8h 2 years ago
i really need a man of God like you to come into my lifw
sxyteesa0890 2 years ago
You are so silly! I've learned to trust GOD, after all he knows what is best for me and that includes what kind of person I should be with. I will definitely use the pro and con list in the future though. Thanks for posting and being transparent!
dmckin4054 2 years ago 2
This is soooo funny!!!!!!!!!!
wowmigsih 2 years ago
This is an EXCELLENT ministry you have! REAL TALK...REAL TRUTH!!
Nikkimae2003 2 years ago 50
Thank you soooo much! God bless!!
Priscills83 2 years ago
Man you have no idea how much that helped me out. Thanks
allofgrace777 2 years ago
so true
bettyboom99 2 years ago
Thanks for the post because I REALLY thought I missed my ex since it's just recent...lol but i am SO OVER HIM!!! His lost Christ's gain!!! Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
qbee2336 2 years ago
YES. Thank you!
I needed to hear this!
DeeVine 2 years ago
Love this vid i struggled with this for a long time after i ended my relationship to persue christ. Thank you for this vid. Glory be to god
rosipetals 2 years ago
Wow mannnnn, I can't even begin to express how much of a blessing this video is! What a great idea...as soon as you miss someone that God cut out of your life, make a list, or even just think about the negative things...God cut them out for a reason. Powerful video.
ForeverFound2010 2 years ago
I needed this! Thank you. (-:
MsLaquandaPayne 2 years ago
WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW and that right there is word Pastor Cox thanks you Bro
illholla84 2 years ago
man that's it pastor justin! a very good strategy for emotionally sobering up - will def share technique with other ladies.
shaunquia 2 years ago
Nope - Ex means Ex for a reason!
lisamd07 2 years ago 2
Brilliant! I need to remake this in French!!!!! WLIC
lalampeallumee 2 years ago
I recently had an incident like that...and i had to wake my self up...I have changed since then & he hasnt....He called me and as we spoke he reminded me of all the reasons GOD seperated me from him....What a great God we serve!
Leoprincess1 2 years ago
Dude, this was seriously an answered prayer. Seriously. Bless God for godly counsel I needed this. About to make my list
jenakinae 2 years ago 2
lol ...this is just in time so so true You're funny
vesinedy 2 years ago
Sweet vid, man!
I've got a serious question, though.
Was the part on your list where you said you'd go to hell a serious point?
Ezerlance 2 years ago
This video is so so so true.
dollbaby513 2 years ago
sometimes I miss my ex... Then i remember why he's an ex.
dollbaby513 2 years ago 3
so true!
queen4Jesus1 2 years ago
love this. real good one.
writingtobereal 2 years ago
love the video, it was hilarious and so true. blessings.
Cvirtuewebsite 2 years ago
smoke crack tho?? lol
drollins270 2 years ago
Great video. I think about my exes sometimes, but the Holy Spirit reminds me of the new relationship I have with Christ. There are no cons to write down about Jesus, only pros!!
ash0784 2 years ago 32
I am definitely gonna do the Pro/Con list.. I know I'm not going back unless the LORD leads me but you know how your mind gets when you are left alone with your thoughts
introspekt757 2 years ago
This has been a blessing to me!!! I've told all my friends to watch it so far and will be sending it out to more. Thanks for sharing.
leslie25lorelle 2 years ago
ROFL the end of the cons list was a huge!slippery slope! ROFL funny.
good stuff though, i feel ya.
differentFOCUS 2 years ago
very encouraging!! Good job killing the flesh. Do it daily, right!!!?!!
suganay 2 years ago
I don't blame you, you got to put CHRIST first. from your list the pros do not out way the cons. Good vid.
iluvthaLord81 2 years ago
Lol- I love the flashback. Make sure your church is praying for you. You are anointed.
MBT1981 2 years ago
Wow....I would love to be a member at your Church. I love too far away. But love your videos nonetheless
wetheruffins 2 years ago
I agree but you could also of said what you were doing wrong in the relationship and not just her...I think that would of been more transparency.
faithu4 2 years ago
Amazing
ethikaniso 2 years ago
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO hahaha da few seconds from 1:22 to 1:35 was kinda funny espec with da sound effects LOOOL :P buh dis message is fo realz ik how he feels and hes speakin da truth
TreatySize 2 years ago
Good stuff brother
okballer 2 years ago
yo thts funny but it happened to me last night lol so funny
inbubblbley 2 years ago
Man this message was truth. You have to first look out for yourself. Your soul, your anointing, and your future. Its not about being self righteous. You also don't want to lead someone else down a wrong path and away from Christ. You would both be wasting each others time.
chosentaura13 2 years ago
lol, you are soo funny but this is so true. I miss my husband but the bad out weighs the good so unfortunately it's time for a divorce.... Don't want to but God is allowing it
Christilive4 2 years ago
lmbo they sound like exaggerations, but once you write them down and say them out loud they're so true! :D
2twinkeR 2 years ago
man I am going through this situation right now....but I know what to do now...Pro and Con list then line that thang up with the Word of God...oh yes!
anniesha08 2 years ago 2
I honestly woke up this morning from a dream of my ex and could not get it off my mind. I spoke out loud saying you got to get off my mind, trying and trying to get it off my mind nothing was working but as i got on the computer i seen this video. and its no coincidence at all. God is working through you pastor and im glad and thankful to God for help when its needed!
Misscasper1 2 years ago
Thank you so much for this, i needed it so much.
nenemay88 2 years ago
I needed this. I kid you not. I was on my way to my ex's house to kick it before I watched this video, so thank you SOOOO Much for this encouraging message. It just put my thoughts and motives in perspective and even convicted me to seek God's love instead of worldy love. Thank you for this message pastor cox. Much luv!
YungBlackScholar 2 years ago
not die and go to hell off her though lol hahhaha
baby287girl 2 years ago
after that list...WHAT IN THE WORLD WERE YOU THINKING?????
baby287girl 2 years ago
I found myself missing my old friends not necessarily an ex, but then God makes me realize that there is a reason why He have allowed some people to walk out of my life.
SMJGraphicArtist 2 years ago
I write pros and cons lists of things as well.
SMJGraphicArtist 2 years ago
good message, brother!
We have all gone through this...listen to the Lord always!
He has good things in store for us, keep lookin' up! ~Shine
shineurs2 2 years ago
what does carnel mean?
QKalani 2 years ago
carnal - passions of the flesh or body
V1NCEs 2 years ago
@V1NCEs thanks =)
QKalani 2 years ago
I ain't saying she's a golddigger but....
Thank you for keeping it transparent/translucent Pastor Justin
hert401 2 years ago
The devil ain't have you missing that woman. That was your loins. STOP LUSTING! lol
DigitalDel1 2 years ago 2
HAHA how GOD works I was soo just talking to my sister about this..But yess I've had those moments sometimes I just have to laugh and say what was I thinkingggg!
mopeacepro 2 years ago
amen! sooo glad u did this. LOL bout to go renew my mind in the WORD on some that stuff u had on the list a ta da mannnn.
sabrwoods11 2 years ago
Thanks for being So Honest cuz Most ppl think that cuz ur a Pastor or have a certain Position that you dnt have these Struggles or Temptation So Praise God ur Honesty Bro!! u should come to New Jersey in Paterson to speak @ my Christian Fellowship...
As A leader Its good to show ppl that we do have feelings too and we're not Perfect we' re still Humans
vIRTUOUS910 2 years ago
Yo I can get down with this I have an Ex but Im still friends with her shes a christian but I just think she needed more time to get her self together and go back to school that was the biggest issue!! of all she procrastnates and plus she always had excused not to do somethings!!
rainbow1892 2 years ago
thank you so much, i was going thru the blues:)
africanjewel215 2 years ago
I appreciate you transparency, that was such a blessing thanks for keeping it real with us. Praise God for you!
Rhondine1985 2 years ago
Oh & Im postin this on my twitter. haha. :D
clasiqsoul 2 years ago
Honestly, I this was so applicable to my life, I didn't even want to watch it. lol.
But, I want t to build my spirit up, so I had to go get that truth. You always bring it, Pastor Cox.
I see relationships like business decisions. The our soulish issues/our emotions/the devil got us short sellin all our value in Christ/in ourselves. Thank God for emotionless choices!!! Yeeee!!
clasiqsoul 2 years ago
GGGGGGGLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's insane how much I relate to this clip. Even down to the cons of my ex. Yikes!!!
SimplyMarvinousTV 2 years ago
@SimplyMarvinousTV LOL GGGGGGGLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOO ORRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!! !!!!! I can just see you waving your hands..lol
1QueenMC 2 years ago
I really am lol. The Lord truly delivered me from a BIG mistake, and is training me up nicely for when I do meet my wife.
SimplyMarvinousTV 2 years ago
True stories!!! This is too funny! I was laughing and talking back to the video. For real, the carnal ones HAVE TO GO!!! The list was a fantastic idea. I wish I knew this 2 years ago when I went through it. This would would've saved me months of heart ache. You have to shut those thoughts down, even though it's difficult rationalise with your emotions.
jeanbulyaba 2 years ago
man your right on point !!!! i needed this! thank you pastor Justin.
sw1ft2U 2 years ago
LOL thanks 4 sharing pastor I needed to hear that.
Candie215 2 years ago
lol smoking crack???? lol i would love to have you for our conference because u speak the truth.
mynaturallove 2 years ago
MERCY!!! Right on time! Help me Lord!
1QueenMC 2 years ago
AMEN!!! Thank you Pastor.
shanwrit 2 years ago
8:40.. like did it for me.. lmbo.... - That face in all up in the cam was NOT cute... - - - Awesome video, I can definitely relate to some of the things mentioned... Thanks for sharing with us!!
wandongluv 2 years ago
..Mann this was right on time Pastor..Praise God...
pwadakai 2 years ago 2
this vid was definitely ON time. thanking God for you being open to share with us!
frmtheinsideout 2 years ago 2
oooohhhhh wweee steppin all up on my toes
myzleelee 2 years ago
Pastor trust this happens to everyone it happens to me and I find it funny that we can counsel others but when it comes to ourselves we canr seem to find the right words so I am not laughing at you missing your ex because it has happened to me for a long time and God helped me get through it and move forward so Im glad God used you and put this vid up because it shows that this can affect all people
infared88 2 years ago
lol... you are too funny! This message was real. I make a pro and con list also, but I do it mentally. It def. helps because I know I deserve the best that God has for me. Thanks for the vid.
SimplYounique 2 years ago
lol @ your dramatic in the bed under the covers scene! Great advice, I am going to pass this on...
Bibleisnumber1 2 years ago
I know exactly what you mean. Had that feeling this morning
ReliableLojic 2 years ago
LOL... love the new vid Pastor. The skits were funny :-)
I will definitely send you a request on Facebook, but right now I am having a time out from FB because I feel a little addicted to the site...lol
MjStacey84 2 years ago
i miss my ex
firefly808 2 years ago
I am feeling the exact same way right now. Thanks for the video!!
LittleMissMoni 2 years ago
LOL @ the soft brothas haha
sonofaking02 2 years ago 2
Great Video!! This is some realness because it's so easy to have selective memory.
MaddJB 2 years ago 3