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  • It' s me again, I have a lot of friends and almost all of them have step parents or single parents. Not me. My parents are strict but my friends love my parents. Not because they're cool cause they're not they're strict but they're real. My sister and I are very involved in our church and our parents make sure we're always giving back. We're a foster family to two little girls and that's important my parents say so we can give more kids a future.

  • I'm the girl in the video. I'm 14 now. My dad & I were looking at all this stuff & we read the comments. First comment, these aren't my birth parents. I came here & my sister & I were INSTANTLY accepted. They fought like crazy so we could stay together. When all this was happening my dad said, well now everyone want you girls, that's good. My parents have always loved us & we do have a mom, he's just a black man. You may not get it but I do my parents have raised me to feel not judge

  • I hope all gays die a slow painful death they completely deserve it they shouldn't be allowed in this country they should be hung and shot at the same time

  • @Jemon86 ur an annoying dickhead. It's not natural too YOU! To them, it is. And to those girls they could care less. I bet a million dollars, the girls would rather be with them than you.

  • I know those two girls i go to youth group with them

  • Why is this happening in beloved America, home of the free? A land of tolerance and goodwill? Nothing wrong with tha gays.

  • It shouldn't matter whether you're parents are gay or straight it should only matter whether they love you unconditionally.

    

  • It's not natural. So yes it does matter.

  • @ProjectDecade but it's true. There is no difference they both are not normal.

  • There are tons of kids who have no families at all. 2 moms or 2 dads are better than none!

  • I am doing a documentary about gay parents and their kids. I would love to interview you. Are you interested?

  • ACLU Backs Gay Sex in Public Toilets under "Privacy" Provisions

    LifeSiteNews | 1/16/08 | Hilary White

    MINNEAPOLIS, January 16, 2008 - The American Civil Liberties Union is arguing that men who have sex in public washrooms should be protected under court rulings guaranteeing privacy.

  • ACLU To Represent NAMBLA

    By Martin Finucane

    Associated Press Writer

    Thursday, Aug. 31, 2000; 5:19 p.m. EDT

    BOSTON –– Saying important First Amendment issues are at stake, the American Civil Liberties Union is stepping in to defend a group that advocates sex between men and boys against a lawsuit brought by the family of a murdered 10-year-old.

  • Complementing that, "Fathers are more likely than mothers to encourage their children to tackle difficult tasks, endure hardship without yielding, and seek out novel experiences."

  • It isn't that gay people are necessarily bad parents, but children thrive most fully when raised by a mother and a father. The Witherspoon Institute's Report on Marriage explains why: There are crucial sex differences in parenting. Mothers are more sensitive to the cries, words, and gestures of infants, toddlers, and adolescents, and partly as a consequence, they are better at providing physical and emotional nurture to their children."

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  • @ChiT0wnLegend Since gay individuals don't necessarily line up with straight individuals "gender definitions" this argument is not concrete.... How about you stop wasting your time hating others and get on with your life!

  • @ChiT0wnLegend Fair enough, but there's also many and comprehensive studies showing that LGBT parents are as capable as heterosexual parents in raising children, and even some studies that say LGBT parents are superior to heterosexual. These are all documented by APA and AACAP and can be found on there websites. Read it, it's actually very interesting ;) or if you don't have the time, I'll upload a summary of the findings later today.

  • Gay parenting:

    Study: Gay Parents More Likely to Have Gay Kids

    Oct 17, 2010 – 4:14 PM

    Walter Schumm knows what he's about to do is unpopular: publish a study arguing that gay parents are more likely to raise gay children than straight parents. But the Kansas State University family studies professor has a detailed analysis that past almost aggressively ideological researchers never had.

    aolnews com/2010/10/17/study-gay-paren­ts-more-likely-to-have-gay-kid­s

  • @ChiT0wnLegend Did you actually read this study completely? The headline is a bit misleading. And the statistics were not that strong...

  • i dont think kids should be passed off to gay parents to make them feel like they can live life jut like other families i think its a joke. if you want to be gay find be gay but why do you have to drag kids,churches and everything else into your lifestyle. and then call someone ignorant if they dont agree with you. why wont you take a good look in the mirrior and see how you gay rights activist try to shove your views down every ones thorat now thats sicken.

  • @kellyannabama whats the definition of family? obviously you don't know or have forgotten.

    And i like how its wrong for me to make such drastic claims against heterosexuals - yet the moment you do it for the homosexuals, all is ok. I suggest you actually visit a gay family for yourself to understand the definition of family. Last Being gay isnt a lifestyle - i wasnt aware all gays had the same life- same with all the straights.

  • @kellyannabama whats sick is cunt's like you bitch if it wasn't for these gay men the young girls wouldn't have a home. would you rather see these girls living their childhood years without a loving family. Honestly like fuck you

  • @connorross28 @kellyannabama i have gay parents and its not that great, when you get older there things you need a mother for not a gay man and it isnt fair for childhood to be disrupted so you can be some experiment. It one thing to be thrown in and have to deal with it and its another to be adopted and force to upset. it's obvious you know nothing about the situation your just some idiot who think gay should have the same rights of everyone else. But are you really thinking about kids?

  • @kellyannabama bullshit you have gay parents because your so negative towards gays if you had gay parents they would have brought you up to believe that everyone is equal. And so what if orphanages are great the kids don't have fucking parents they don't have someone to care and love them how can you talk about hate when you are the hater. Look at the men in the video gays just want to be treated equally its not like they choose to be gay. Everyone deserves the chance to be a parent!

  • @connorross28 i do my dad left my mother for a man and i live with them, i dont have to explain anything else to you. Im just proof that not all kids are happy in gay households, so go suck on that. And gay people do chose to be gay, my father made a choice and so does everyone else. Its just sad how they bring others into their mindset are try to shove it down your thorat.

  • @kellyannabama trust me being gay isn't a choice your dad was always gay or bisexual ask your dad! he just made a big mistake and had a narrow minded kid like you. i can see why your unhappy but you weren't born/brought up in a gay family it occured later in your life kids that all they know is that they have two fathers will be fine because all they know is they are receiving love and attention from there dads!

  • It's not a perfect world for ever kid, for some its quiet confusing and humalting so why wont you get your head out of your ass. And start looking at how all this effects a child not everyone in the world understands this and kids shouldnt be used as political pawns,so take your hate some where else and screw you. And btw orphanges in the u.s have great child care system. Were talking free school, free health care, college basical everything need and then some so forget that oliver twist crap.

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  • What an adorable family, such cute little girls. Why judge if ou can't even argue with this statement? Haha!

  • @sareenagreen I never said having a mom and dad gives a child a perfect life and neither so gay parents. My point was gaybyboom potray a perfect life that is non existence because the truth is kids Gabor angry and resiment when they don't have biological parents around and that's a fact so be honest about it.

  • @sareenagreen and another thing at least those divorce parents still are parents to their children. Their involved in their life not a donar but a constant figure in their life that has a real realtionship with their children.

  • @sareenagreen Single mother and father do a traffic job of reason children unlike gay parents who well ease children with a identiy that is lost and compromised to perverse there parents feelings . The fact is your a selfish person your kids will recognize this once there eighteen are twenty.

  • @kellyannabama id straight parent do such a "terrific jobs" we wouldnt have such a high orphan rate, or the need for abortions, people would cherish their kids. Here you are declaring that these kids should be taken away from a loving and providing home -only because the adults are the same sex. Isnt that tragic - so these men can be as loving as God and you'd still tear the family apart. And also Kids raised by Kids do not have a higher chance of having a Bi/Gay sexuality - thats so stupid.

  • @leatopia for your information if protection and abstencie was taught in school we wouldnt have those promblemes you cant blame a over sex society and say straight parents cant raise kids a straight person made and rasied you didnt they. Anyway belive what you want i really dont give a damn i made my comment on the issues and im done.

  • @sareenagreen2010 can you stop with the comments that straight parents can't have children. Your family a generic creation made in science lab. And you wouldn't even have those children if it wasn't for the money you put up to create them

  • There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with same sex parents, i think that any couples can raise a child as long as there loving, caring, and give the kid a good home that the straight couple couldnt take care of, the child is in a good home and just because she has gay dads or lesbian mothers it doesnt mean that the child will turn gay & for all the assholes who hate us fuck you because we deserve equal rights no matter who we like i like woman and im proud & no one is going to change that with hate

  • go dad

  • gaybyboom is scam to raise young people to be sympatheic to their cause so they can change laws and make them pro-gay when they become adults. The fact is that so many children have a need for a mom and a dad and yes having someone is better then no one but think about, if you were adopted are a sperm donation would you truly be happy are would you just adjust to what your giving. I think its very unfair and extermely selfish to expect a young child to adjust to a same sex parents.

  • @kellyannabama i agree fully. they use a sympathetic story to promote there real agenda.

  • @imreadyyo26 thanks :), i wish more people would speak up about the issue at hand.

  • @kellyannabama Do you know how many foster kids are in the US foster system? THOUSANDS.How many are you going to adopt? exactly.You really have no clue what you are talking about.These kids want a loving family, that's it.Those girls were happy to be with their dads.You also keep saying 'adjust'.What are they adjusting to? having a parent vs. being all alone? being born into a gay family? educate yourself.

  • @sareenagreen2010 first of no ones born into a gay family, thats ubseured there either children of a previous realtionship were a parent deciede to jump ship are they are made in a lab. So you should educate yourself, yes there are thousand of kids that need adopotion but last time i check the goverment support orphans very good with paying for school,jobs,health care and alot of other things that comon americans don't have.

  • @kellyannabama Oh sweetie, you are SO misinformed it's a tad pathetic.Yes, a lot of kids ARE born into gay families.Whether two gay males hire a surogate, adopt an infant which is practically the same thin - the obvious or two women use a sperm donor.You are also VERY misinformed if you believe that foster children are very well cared for financially and emotionally.A foster kid is going to have to adjust to a new life style anyways! they come from different backgrounds, mostly NOT positive ones

  • @sareenagreen2010 Are you for incest realtionship? Im not trying to compare the two im just curious. Because there against the law in most countries but centuries ago it was accepted. Foster children are treated quiet well in the u.s, there are alot of closet homosexually that molest little boys but u dont see me lumping people together to defend a point. Anyway pastry dish babies will grow up and wonder there true idenity of there blood line and thats not healthy.

  • @kellyannabama Yes, you ARE trying to compare the two.Otherwise, you wouldn't have brought it up.There is a difference between two consenting adults and two backwoods siblings.~NOT all foster children are treated ''well'' in the US foster care system.I was a foster parent for a short period of time.All of the kids I see have bounced home from home with unloving foster parents.One boy in my custody was black and blue from his last foster parents.~ And there are MANY straight adults who molest

  • @kellyannabama and kidnap too darling.And yes, you are doing quit a bit of lumping.

    ~pastry dish? what the heck are you talking about? my children are donor concieved children.Never spent a second in a ''pastry dish'' and no, they don't wonder their true idenity because they already know their identity.Identity is determined by the people around you.If you mean, biological roots..they also don't have to worry about that either.They know their heritage, more so than many.They have a pic of

  • @kellyannabama ''dad'', an audio interview and the privlage of him being a open identity donor.Not to mention full blooded siblings in our family, and half blooded siblings in others.That is a whole lot more than some kids whos parents are drug addicts or mom who had a one night stand from someone in a bar.They weren't mistakes.~ yes, you ARE ignorant AND judgemental.There is no such thing as a ''gaybyboom''..put your tin foil hat away, sweetie.I didn't grow up around gay people or gay parents

  • @kellyannabama yet, mysteriously, i'm not hateful or delusional like you.I wonder why that is? perhaps it's because i'm not ignorant or judgemental.I don't give a fuck what they do behind closed doors because it's none of my buisiness! and it's none of yours either.And if that's all you see when you look at people, your parents really have brainwashed you to become a SHEEP to ignorance and hate.Please do society a favor and don't procreate.There are too many like you on this planet already.

  • @sareenagreen2010 but dont you think you were selfish in making these children, You took something away from them that you had no right to take. The normal family rooted realtionship thats not a time scheduel interview but a real life conection that you'll feel for ever. you took that away from them, you disrupted their right. And lets be honest most women who give birth are in realtionships and arent sex fenis. Thats just more gay propganda your spitting to balnce your views.

  • @kellyannabama I did not take anything away from my children.My children were born with birth fathers, not dads.That's something that is normal to them.My kids know life is not perfect.They know that there are countless family dynamics.They are not ignortant.They know they have a father out there and he did a deed without the intentions of parenting.It's something they have accepted.My kids are more behaved and well balanced than their friends.Pretty much all of their friends come from broken

  • @kellyannabama homes.And they are all fcked in the head from it.My oldest was just telling me how his friend threw a stapler at the window at school because he was angry.His parents were together his whole life, then daddy dearest decided to split and now the kid is left with emotional scars.Stories like that make me extra glad I chose to become a mom when I did.It teaches me that I cannot rely on anybody else to be there.My kids are spared from the BS as well.There is no such thing as a normal

  • @kellyannabama rooted family.Just because a kid has a mom and a dad, does not mean that's the best living situation.Not all mom and dads are good moms and dads.They are taught not to dwell on the pety.Life hands you what it hands you and you deal with it.If you are going to trip on every little bump in the road, you will get nowhere.I've talked to my kids many times about our family.They are open and honest.They are affected min. because they can't miss someone who was never there.~ as for your

  • @kellyannabama last sentence...I don't quit understand the point you are trying to make.What is a sex fenis? And by claiming that most women who give birth are in relationships, you are giving false facts.As for ''spitting gay propaganda to balance my views''...I think you are highly confused and clueless in the point you are attempting to make, if any.

  • @sareenagreen2010 And im not ignorant are judgemental, beacuse gaybyboom is a scam to model individuals at a young age to be sympatheic. And pave away for them to get rights. Sorry if im able to see the true agenda, and dont fed in to this gay propganda. 50% of are views come from are parents 25% is are views and the other 25% is made up of comformity. We may not agree with views of are parents are gurdian but it has a huge effect on the person we become. And the real propganda is this video

  • @kellyannabama at all.A lot are beaten, starved, neglected, sexually abused etc. To come from that into a loving home is a dream come true..whether a single or double parent family.These girls are obviously not ignorant or judgemental like you because they love their dads.In fact, NO kid is born thinking the way you do, they are taught to be ignorant, judgemental and hateful.As for your recruiting ''theory'', that just proves nothing but the fact that you follow mindless propaganda.

  • @sareenagreen2010 Now gay parents, what i said was it dosent seem fair to me to take a child whos a orphan and drop him are she of with gay parents becuse the fact is the child is going to have to adjust to their life style and patern of thinking thus making gay by boom a scam to recurit young individuals at a young age and model them to be sympatheic to their cause. Lets be honest the real reason gay people want children is so they can rasie people that will fight for their cause.

  • Oh my god...They're basically saying, it's better to let the straight couple adopt kids who are total ass-holes, rather than giving it to a gay couple who are wonderful parents. W.T.F. I personally think that's ridiculous, these two men look like loving parents and the girls obviously love it there. I feel so bad for them that they have to go through this crap because they're gay.

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  • If I hear ONE more biblical term up in this bitch...

  • Well, I really think that if the new generations grow up with the idea that it is normal a family of homosexual parents, the children adopted by them won't have problems in their lifes because of that. And maybe until that becomes possible, a relation of love, care, and hapiness with their parents should be enough to that children to live their lifes well, don't worring about what people said.

  • my opinion is symple this action will bring economic disaster soon if the rich people think this will not affect their buisness wait until them will scare about gay life i do not care if the goverment and rich people problem not me god bless everyone even gay because is not their fault is the goverment and rich people who do not know how said no

  • Heartbreaking...

  • I haven't adopted for several reasons. 1. It cost more than I have. 2. I would be scrutinized in every direction simply because I'm a man. 3. I feel a child should have two parents, a mother and a father, not a mother and mother or a father and father. I made a sacrifice in life and I'll probably never have any though I did so because of them not me or my selfishness. Those two children will probably go through hell before it's over when they and friends are old enough to understand.

  • @WatchmenNo1 I can imagine why you are NOT married, you sound like a sad lonley man, who is UPSET that gays & lesbians can have a family that you never could, there are PLENTY of SINGLE parents who raise their kids just fine & you cant? thats on you. nobody is"hating" on you, you came on her hating on gays and lesbians making the most of their lives EVERYONE deserves to have a family if they choose. So if your broke, alone & misrable, kill yourself. dont try to bring everyone else down with you

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  • @sareenagreen2010 That isn't exactly true. When Michael Landon adopted Melissa Gilbert was she a little baby? No she wasn't and there are plenty more who would adopt an older child. I would probably do it myself if I were married.

  • @ProjectDecade Hey don't hate on me now sodomy is sodomy no matter which way it goes. So how can you argue with that? Homosexuality may be your choice and I really don't care that's between you and our creator. This is my thing. 1. Don't rub it in my face which means keep that to you in your private life and don't try forcing me to accept it as normal. I was unfortunate in life didn't find a wife. I've always wanted children. Do you know why I never adopted?

  • @ProjectDecade Yes this is great news for me I think. I'm planing on marrying the sheep I'm with and those such as you are such a great inspiration giving me such encouragement. Me being into bestiality screwing literally anything that walks I never thought I'd find such good support and I just want to thank you and I know I'll have your support or at least I think I will, wont I? We are going to be so happy to be such loving parents we can't wait.

  • That's horrible. The girls were obviously happy and afraid of being removed from the home, and the guys clearly cared for their well-being. I agree with GoddessOfCats- worry about grabbing the kids being abused... argue about this sort of thing later.

  • LGBT parents we want you!! Please submit home videos for an LGBT documentary on parenting by September 1. Website: Gaybyboomfilm (dot) com

  • some one needs to post the full length episodes of these

  • I'm Catholic.

    I go to Church, and I believe in God.

    I believe that love goes beyond -far beyond- race, color and gender.

    Bless these two wonderful men and their adorable little girls.

  • @lavenderblossom I totally agree! I am also Catholic, go to church and I am gay.

    I raised our daughter, who is now in law school. (and straight) So, many children are abused, this drives me crazy to hear (the video) Bless those men!

    Jeanne in manhattan

  • @Jeannenyc57

    I applaud you. :]

  • @lavenderblossom well you just to a big lie. Jesus said if you love me you will keep my commandments and blessing the gay or lesiban lifestyle you're not doing that.

  • Children can be raised well educated but morally uneducated...There also are lawyers, doctors who a phedophilics.....A gay study shows that lesbian parents are good parents? HAHAHA

  • PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD! We have a CALL FOR ENTRIES for the documentary, "GAYBY BOOM," a film on LGBT parenting and the ever-evolving definition of family values.

    DEADLINE June 1 2010. Thank you!

    gaybyboomfilm . com

  • this almost made me cry at the end, this isnt fair these are two perfectly normal, loving men, the should be able to adopt the girls.. its not like their pedofiles or some discsuting people. there normal just like you and me

  • I say that everyone should have a license to have children or even take care of adopted children because tooooo many retards are having kids, especially in Florida.

  • Lovely family and the girls are so happy!

  • @zirpa86 I totally agree!

  • lol rainbow swimsuit. =D

  • Snow, what's the big deal? There needs to be a line that's drawn? What does than even mean? Florida is the only state that doesn't allow gay people to adopt. Everywhere else, it's legal and has been for ages. My parents are gay, and my second dad adopted us in 1989. That's 21 years ago!! I fail to see what the problem is. Kids need and deserve loving homes. It doesn't matter if the parents are black, white, gay, straight, green or purple. If you can give a kid a good home, you should adopt.

  • I don't judge someone because they are gay. I had a lot of gay friend's while I was a teenager and remain friends with 2 of them to this day. The sexuality is unimportant to me and idc what anybody does is their own business. But there is another side to that as well. When I see an agenda in the public school system, created and furthered by taxpayer money, parting from state mandates masked as freethinking yet being federally forced in a classroom, I have an issue with that. It's the politics.

  • God when can we stop judging!!, who cares if you are gay or straight, millions of kids in the world have crap lives, these two amazing men were prepared to give two little girls security, love and happiness yet someone who sits around a table and gets a big paycheck decides their fate, pathetic.....

  • @bzylizzy True that!

  • @bzylizzy Let's get this straight. You're asking God to stop judging? Good luck with that.

  • I'm not gay but i want to say that we all deserve to be happy! And i think that being a gay is not a choice, it is just the way you are. Who on earth would choose to be part of the community which lacks certain rights and on which a certain class of society looks with disgust?! So it's not a choice, but the way they are. Same like one would choose to be a black man in times of enslavement! Come on people, be kind to each other!

  • @Lestacify Love ur comment. accidentally clicked thumbs down :(

  • @Lestacify prove that they was born that way. Nobody has never done it before nor will they ever. It's a lie

  • I am a lesbian parent. I support GLBT MARRIAGE AND GLBT ADOPTION and WORLDWIDE GLBT ACCEPTANCE!! Love is love and it comes in all colors! The right thing to do would be for society to stop and think about what will happen if they deny these children a safe and happy home? Who are you (not for it) to tell us if we (for it) can't help a child in need just because we don't desire an intimate relationship with the opposite sex? How is loving anyone and wanting to share something with them wrong?

  • What happened at the end? Did they get to keep the girls?

  • that's what i wanna know too.

  • I too want to know if the state of Florida granted them full parental rights to those beautiful girls.

  • this is so sad,these guys would be great parents,and NO I NOT GAY.i have a son.i hope they get them back......

  • wow.. THAT IS SOOOOO WASSUP!!! I wanna adopt kids sumday w/ my girlfriend.. and u guys give hope..Congrats..and ***PS...I LOOOVE the rainbow swim suits u guys picked out!!!:))))

  • are you sure about that

    i have never heard about it

    let me check

    sick world

  • I hope these 2 guys keep their children....

  • What do you expect that comes out of a racist? Why are we even bothering to you?

  • because you all are nothing but pawns, pawns in my little plan, I own you! now dance monkey dance!!

  • that is awesome, though they could've

    done without the rainbow swimwear..

    they're too cute.

  • why are all these comments long?

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  • i wish my mom and dad were half as loving to me as these two men. raising children has nothing to do with sexuality.

  • Or LoriLynn..your thoughts are at least kind at best, however, yes, although its true that a child does not HAVE to have both parents to be well adjusted, I would have given my left arm to have had a mother to have grown up with. To learn what mothers teach daughters as opposed to only having men as i grew up. Untold amount of time i spent wondering, "IF"? Most people stick their foot in their mouths when they think that two men could raise me better then to have a mom as I grew! Jenni

  • Jenni, I had two gay dads. My mom died before I was old enough to remember. I guess my experience was different from yours, but I really think my dads did an excellent job raising me. If I needed to talk about "girl stuff" I could talk to my grandma or my aunt, but that didn't happen too often. My dads were really open with me and I never felt embarrassed. And they were always really loving. I think when people say men can't nurture little kids, they have a limited view of what men can do.

  • I think when people say that two men could do better then having a healthy-open-minded mother, "THEY" have a limited view of what "healthy, maternal mothers can do" Thx for you point of view and glad all turned out well for you, it's a rare feat that men can tell you more about a young women's body then an open-minded, emotionally mature women :) Hugs, Jenni

  • I didn't say that two men necessarily do better than a mother. It depends on the men and it depends on the mother! I know *lots* of girls who never talked to their moms about sex or puberty and were scared to talk to them about boyfriends and birth control. My dads didn't know what it was like to have a female body, that's true, but they were open about those topics with me. When I had a boyfriend in high school, they talked to me about that and wanted to be sure that I was protecting myself.

  • Our fathers appears to be on a different page. My fathers, yes, talked about protection, but, talked more about the emotional status of having sex. They were honest with me about my feelings of "NOT" having a mother and they KNEW my feelings on it. In those first two paragraphs you sent me..If that would of been the case with your fathers, I am quite sure you would of brought that up immediately. Sounds like you never had those feelings of "what if" regarding having a mother

  • Well, since my mom died, there was always a "what if." What if she hadn't died? But it happened when I was so young, I never felt any extreme grief over it. And my dads did talk to me and my brothers about it. They were open about it, they knew we might have feelings of sadness because of her death. And it wasn't connected to them being male or them being gay. I would have had the "what if" question if I'd had a stepmom, too. I think that's natural.

  • I think you misunderstood me hon..i didnt mean. "Your Mother" I meant wondering about having "A Mother' Know what I mean? Jen

  • Oh, I see! Hmmm, I don't honestly think I ever thought about having *a* mother as opposed to *my* mother. Kind of like Pippi Longstocking (did you ever read that?), I imagined she was up in heaven watching me and was kind of my guardian angel. Sometimes I wondered what it would have been like if she hadn't died, but I had a hard time imagining it because it meant that my family would have been totally different. But, no, I don't think I ever wished for *a* mom in general.

  • Rainbowheargirl...may I ask you a personal question? Are you a lesbian? I hope you do not think that is a rude question as I am asking you with a kind heart - hugs, Jenni

  • Jenni, no, I'm not a lesbian. I've always been attracted to guys. I don't think it would be a bad thing if I *were* gay, but I just don't feel that way about women. I have great friends who are women, but I can't really see myself having a girlfriend in a romantic sense. It's probably just hardwired into me to be straight, lol.

  • lol - i kinda understand. It's "hardwired" into me loving somone based on whats between their ears and what's wrapped around their hearts instead of what's between their legs. I base love on the person (Hope you understand what i just tried to say - lol) I like you btw rainbowheargirl ;) Jenni

  • Thanks! By the way, how did you come to have two dads? I'm just curious because it's still pretty rare for people to have two fathers their whole lives. A lot of people with two gay dads are younger kids. I know a couple of teenagers adopted at birth, or out of foster care and stuff, but almost no one my age. I'm in my twenties.

  • they are gay and are not legally married, nor legally my father, but they are my fathers in my heart and as in any family (u probaly know exactly what i mean) and I love them...what i have been saying takes NO love away from them..it's always however been in my mind..what it would be like to have a mom to rasie me and if ANYONE tries to make me think different or try to manipulate my thinking..thats when i stated they put THEIR feet in their mouths ;) im glad we met ;) hugs, jenni

  • Jenni, good to meet you too! I would never try to tell you that your perspective is not equally valid. That's one of my pet peeves about anti-gay politicians and pundits is that they never let us, the actual kids, speak our own opinions about our families. If you ever do a video or vlog about your experiences, let me know and I'll link it to my playlist.

  • I'm not rainbowheartgirl, but I wanted to say that most studies show that children of gay couples do not have a higher rate of homosexuality.

  • Laughable at most. Where is this "study"? So gay men raising up girls who will then become "dykes"? One'd think that gay men will raise great STRAIGHT girls (I mean you get to watch two men making out everyday!). Isn't it a straight boy's fantasy to watch girls making out?

  • Did you respond to the right comment? I said that studies have shown being raised my homosexual couples DON'T have a higher rate homosexuality. I certainly never referred to any lesbians as dykes.

  • This made me want to cry. What an adorable family!

  • These kids are't living in abusive homes, are they?

    Looks like a happy family to me.

  • @doomedamerica : You're a member of Westboro, aren't you?

  • As long as the children are well cared for, then the parents sexuality should NOT matter. If you wanna start taking kids from parents, why not start with the kids who are being abused by their parents? Don't take kids from couples who love them, just cause you don't agree with their sexuality.

  • @GoddessOfCats You know something you are right! I'm dating sheep right now and I also date dogs and goats or anything else that ends up in my yard and we want to adopt children. We are completely caring individuals with perfectly good morals.

  • @GoddessOfCats Hey moron then dont do it in the first place kids born in Gay families have different values than from a straight family

  • @wtfjaftw No. Gay families have the exact same values as straight families. Plus the child of a gay couple would be more tolerant towards other people. Looks like America views tolerance as a bad thing. It's no wonder the world hates America!

  • @GoddessOfCats to all gay family:The first half of our lives are ruined by our parents and the second half by our children

  • Here's a random comment: Check out how little space there is between the top of their stove and the bottom of the microwave!

  • Josh406 I thought I was the only one that noticed that.

  • AW! HOW CUTE!

  • I think its important to let children know that sexual activity is for adults. Physically, i read, that children are so sexual wanting that their bodies will be satisfied with a gay reletionship and they could convince themslves very young of being gay when they arent. BUT having a child realize they are gay at a young age isnt a bad thing, but i think even for kids raised striaght they question, I did, and when I realized at nineteen that I was really GAY I was no longer confused :p

  • Yes

  • I've been seeing a sheep for a few months now. I've decided to shack up with the sheep. I'm done with the human thing. But I know the time will come when we want to adopt children. When it does, if others are aginst it, will the ACUL back us up?

  • Sure they will,because they are probably already doing it and want other to,so they don't feel "different". I hope they all f die of aids!

  • how can you compare a sheep to a human?

  • That's exactly what I was thinking. It is completely not the same thing, or even remotely close.

  • Your question goes both ways. How can you compare something that is natural in nature to something that is not?

  • no it doesn't. I do believe my question was quite explicit in its meaning and I'd be insulting to you to assume you didn't know that. Honestly, I'm very willing to respect your opinion I just really hope you're willing to respect mine. That means not comparing ANY of your fellow human being to animals.

  • Those children deserve a mother and father.

  • Those children deserve people who love them and care about them and provide them with a stable home. This couple clearly provides that.

  • They deserve a mother and a father the way we were designed to be. They also deserve a life that's in the right direction of Christ. Call me old school and say what you want, I know you will, but this isn't right.

  • Oh,god! I can't believe I agree with everything you said here!! lol I guess I don't need to say more.:)

  • HAHA! Small world we have here.

  • Well, I suppose we are all entitled to our own opinions, right? Who am I to judge yours, and who are you to judge mine?

  • You are right. It's a wonderful thing we are protected by the constitution. At least until the ACUL gets rid of it for us. But some can't see that one coming.

  • Ok, wow, over exaggeration much? As well, some also can't see the world being stuck in your closed-minded manner any longer, hence the ACLU.

  • @eyeballearball : Who says a gay or lesbian couple can't teach their child(ren) about Christ?

  • @SummerSunshine1988 The bible

  • @jemon86 : It is against the Bible to engage in homosexual behavior (and even then, it's a forgivable sin). The Bible doesn't say anything about not being allowed to worship if you are gay.

    This is why gay people don't feel welcome in our churches on Sunday morning. Which is a sad statement for our behavior. Christ didn't turn anyone away.

  • @SummerSunshine1988 When Jesus forgave the woman who committed adultry he told her to go and sin no more. The same thing with the gay person. We are to give up that sin. If not you're still doing wrong. Christ forgives but u got to stop the wrong you have been forgiven for

  • @jemon86 : Agreed. But at the same time, that is why Christ shed His blood for us, because we are all sinners.

  • @eyeballearball You're it's disgusting and not natrual

  • They don't deserve a weird couple. They deserve a mother and a father,real ones.

  • I would love to talk to someone who could help in my 3 year battle in Family Law regarding our common law marriage and my non biological child. It is a David vs Goliath scenario.

    Upcoming precedent setting, media banned case...please help.

    DH in Calgary, Alberta