Christian Singles, Part I

[homer1961]

I believe you meant "thought" as opposed to "though". I'm not asking you to change. The video is intended for those who do believe.

[TheFOA11]

I still can't believe that it's 2011 and you people are still running your lives based on a book written in the bronze age, by people who though the world was flat, condoned slavery and other atrocities. You are brainwashed, your parents were brainwashed, their parents were brainwashed, and on and on, can't you see? Religion is a business, and a method of controlling people through threats of divine judgement and eternal suffering. Please, enjoy THIS LIFE, stop worrying about the next one...

[dateachristian]

interesting reviews.

[homer1961]

stlgtrace: Sorry you had such a bad experience with singles ministries in the past. That has not been my experience. We had/have a thriving singles service at our church that really speaks to issues that people in that life stage deal with. Maybe try another church?

[stlgtrace]

This is total garbage! Christianity, like organized religion in generally, is TOTALLY geared for MARRIED PEOPLE WITH CHILDREN!!! There is no place for singles in churches!!! If they have a "singles ministry" it is an unwanted stepchild that is far removed from the life and focus of the church. These "ministries" are full of unhappy and lonely people who know they're not really wanted nor a part of the church! Get real for heaven's sake!!!!

[cliftonhauusd]

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[homer1961]

Unfortunately, we are all guilty of being hypocrites at times, but the point I am making in this video remains the same...a relationship between a true believer and a non-believer will result in difficulty. Its not an issue of going to church or not. Conflict will arise oin core beliefs in marriage, raising children and just about every aspect of life.

[NightHawkBomber001]

I recently got a lecture from a religious friend as to why the relationship I am in is not going to work out, And makes me and my girlfriend both less as people because she’s not religious. We haven’t done anything "promiscuous” she just doesn’t believe. The religious friend is no longer a friend. Hypocritical judgement gets you no where. Ironically the non-religious girlfriend goes to church on her own more often than the religious X-friend.

[Latinfox95]

50 percent of CHRISTIAN marriages end in divorce.

[homer1961]

@Latinfox95

As do the non-Christian ones.

[walkcordatus]

@Latinfox95 Dude, don't judge your actions/deeds/hope/understandi­ng based on what other Christians do. Read the Bible and let God's word be your guide! At the end of the day, that is what you will be judged on!

[EverlastingPromises]

@Latinfox95 lol. Show me the stats.

[2bornot2b1984]

That is horrible. They loved each other and they had to break up based on principle?

I could understand if him being a non-christian made him act in ways that she didn't love him. Then she would not love him so breaking up is good.

But they loved each other and broke up simply because he was not Christian.

God wants you to be with those you love.

God does not want you to be mindless sheep that follow an imposed external expectation.

[LosAngelesWriter]

@2bornot2b1984 "That is horrible. They loved each other and they had to break up based on principle?"

What's horrible is that you place 'feelings" above principle, of course, that is very American:

Then 2bornot2b1984 claims: "God wants you to be with those you love.

God does not want you to be mindless sheep that follow an imposed external expectation"

When did God tell you this? Where is the proof? Why do you want people to mindlessly follow you, someone who speaks for God with no proof?

[weakweek85]

im not a religious person. never have been. but i go to church with my christian girlfriend every sunday, and talk about god with her, even though im nowhere near her spiritual level. honestly i have some doubts.

does this mean we have to break up? be honest, people

[explorr1]

I agree totally with your video. You did a very good job on it & it is a waste of a Christians & non Christians time to spend time together when they are unequally yolked in their views of where life should go if 1 is Christian & 1 not.

[justlevan]

colts......enjoy being controlled by your religion, I believe in something called individuality......Belive without the harsh control of these religions. Be yourself and do what you believe is the right thing.

[jonnaeight]

very informative I just got out of a relationship where my partner didn't want to worship..but I did and slow but surely I started to pull away from God to where God told me to get rid of that person. I did, and as the lady said it is hard but, I know God want the best for me... you hit the nail on the head!! It's true, do not intangle your selves with non believers.

[bellasong75]

this is good. i wish the sound was a little better.

[homer1961]

Well, it certainly was wrong for her, that's why she eventually ended it. But in regard to your question for other people, I believe, and I believe scriptures support this, that it would be wrong to marry someone who was not a believer in Christ (assuming of course the other person is). And, yes, I have experienced true love and I married her... marriage needs much more than "feelings" to work.

[CaptainNemoful]

@homer1961 Marriage is Slavery, Hurtful, You get used, No matter if you are a believer Or nonbeliever, But 4 Believers Jesus Christ has never been married.

The truth is, It really doesn't work, 4 Most People Regardless of Belief, Somethings weren't meant to be.

I don't think there's anything wrong with not being married, 4 people that don't want to be seriously hurt in life, That goes 4 both Women & Men.

[jennay0506]

Reguarding the woman at 3:26. Are you honestly stating that, even though she admitted to be completely in love with this person, it was wrong because this person did not share the same faith? Can you actually believe that? That two people cannot have a long and happy life together, reguardless of faith. Or even, two people that choose not to be married. If you have truely ever experienced true love, you would know that this is absolutely ridiculous.

[brollykat123]

What if he continues to do things that he believe is right but that compromises her faith? She'll either go alonng with it and resent him or not and her resent her......

[Dieselolds]

Great video. To bad peoples take less and less pride in marriage these days.

[FINGERVIEW]

I like the production on this video! I can see that you are trying to be diffrent, and to be creative just like your Father is...

God Bless

[tazzedout82364]

You had me up until the "seek ye first the kingdom of heaven"

That's not a 100% iron clad promise.

Some will never see marriage (no matter how much they want it) Sometimes he might and sometimes he won't because he's God not us.

You do his will (by preaching repentence & faith to the lost) even if he never gives you a spouse.

[homer1961]

I agree. I wasn't trying to say marriage is gaurenteed for those who desire it...quite the opposite. I was simply saying God will give you what you NEED if you seek Him first.

[laura686979]

thankyou soo much for this video before i found your vid i was listening to another video and she said the exact same things you said amen and amen may the lord richly bless you

[loveinmusic]

woow. THANK- YOU so much for this video. I have had these issues on my mind for ages and just needed to here them again. You've helped me to keep trusting in the Lord's timing and not rush out because of lonliness. Thank-you!!!

[LAVENECIA126]

I was waiting for 4-1/2 year for a good Christian girl but I do not have luck...

[halmunby]

My lord! This video is awful. What is wrong with loving someone regardless of their faith??? I am a devout worshipper of the lord and am married to a complete atheist. Why is this so bad???

[jeremytube2007]

its not Christian that's why? if you truly worship the Lord, that is The Lord Jesus Christ, shouldn't you do what He says "Marry only in the Lord"?

[McCaler]

I'm Christian but I dated a Catholic woman, and she thinks that God is connected in "The New Age". So, as much as it is VERY tough and tormenting for me, boy is it ever! I am currently praying for a Godly Christian Wife.

[McCaler]

In my perspective that is. I think we can step up to the plate, but I think we need a few STRONG signs from them. It's not to insult them, it's just to be sure. Because Like the women, us men are trying to be carefull,...Like I am. Considering I was recently hurt.

[mayartay]

I think it's permissible to date if you want to marry but not raise a family. Some people are not physically able to bear children. Otherwise, good video.

[Yanipooh]

Very sobering advice. Thanks

[samjam110]

This is a pretty good video. I love what he said in the end. Thanks for the advice.

[schmisw]

Excellent video: Glad you took the time to create it.  Well worth the time for one to review, understand and model their life after!!!!