Avoiding & Handling Break-Ups Part 2

[chrisinuae]

wish i'd seen this while I was still with him :( maybe we'd still be together, Question for you..How do I stop missing him so damn much? :(

[st33lythrowindude23]

@chrisinuae You should watch his other video on how to forget break ups faster

[jimisru]

Bascially all relationships are battlefields, and eventually you lose.

[LadyKibethNehema]

The problem with me relationship is A) He always feels a need for attachment and is now scared that this is a major flaw in himself that he needs to fix. B) Hes now getting scared and I can tell he feels that he wants to leave before I can hurt him. C) Hes still in constant contact with his ex and I know that they still have feelings for one another.

[whoaataybby]

i answered yes to all the questions between 0:47-1:11 . it's weird, at least in my opinion, to have to admit to and actually analyze the mistakes that YOU'VE made, especially when people tend to blame the break up on their ex more than themselves. thank you for making this video, i actually feel like i can walk away from this breakup learning something about myself.

[backlyt]

I love how my ex would blame me for my behaviour and never once think that she could be the cause of it.

[GQ023]

he deff get alot of femals my son lol

[xoni20]

awesome tips, thanks a lot, my game has changed a lot since listening to your tips

[tidwellam]

you rock

[johnnycpk]

:| wow

THANK YOU!!!

[SlowDaddie]

great vid, and the part about a champion knows how to lose with grace... real classy.

[fungiside]

I love you man. I hope that you'll take the time to write a book as I would surely buy it.

[arkady39]

Thanks a lot. I haven't written a book yet, (except the one for women) but I have quite a few audio programs on my site. Check it out.

[kmhf88]

@arkady39 whats the title of the one you wrote for women?

[ayobami10]

how can i ask a girl out

[Create916]

I cant thank you enough for all your information. You have help me a lot and I cant get enough of your videos.

[arkady39]

Thanks, I appreciate the kind words from the neighborhood.

[nestoloco]

genius

[royalsteven]

True, I once talked to a friend and she keep on making the same mistake in her relationship. Everytime, bad communication. So I said, instead of always breaking up and avoiding the same problem(s), start working on them. If you never work on the issue you will never be satisfied in a relationship and you will keep on having too many demands that will never live up to your expectations. And yes it's hard but, you always have to take something good from something bad, If not, you won't progress.

[twinsouls]

You have good intentions in your advice however, you can only work on and fix your own issues usually done best alone with time between relationships.You cannot change others and this is why it actually is best to just break out of the relationship and move on.I dont believe or except relationship issues, there are only personal issues and you etiher compatible or your not.If one partner is unwilling to change,the other will be exhausted from trying to change them or for them.

[royalsteven]

Exactly, I agree. Exceptation is the key. If you won't except each other the way you are it won't work. And yes you have to solve your own personal issues first before you begin a relationship. Because you can't expect a partner to be a counsellor.

[AastryBrocolirose]

"Accept", not "except". =)

[4ty5]

this reminds of friends episode when rachel says accept that, on which ross replies except that what? :p

[royalsteven]

I always make that spelling misstake. My excuises. hehe :P

[Zac6230]

I dont fall in love I dont have that circuit in my head, where doess that leave me?

[Lopeirada]

emo

[coolbeens21]

lol

[AxiomaticObserver]

As with all your videos this one is good. and I would know this as I have literally watched all of them.

[wininparis]

I miss you. I'm so glad we became friends. And you know, I always love your videos. They are so helpful.

Tara

[m6m17]

old video

[armpitpuncher]

I think this advice applies not only to breaking up, but also when your pursuit of a girl fails, you need to analyze what you did wrong.

[scancool]

I don't know how good you are with women, but you are a great teacher.

[RSthugg1n]

Hey there arkady, I was wondering, can me kissing a girl on the lips risk my reationship with her? I want to take my relationship to the next level.

[gammypage]

That's not enough information, that is the most vague question ever, I mean what is she your sister? , be specific, how do you know her? how long? have you gone out? calls, what she says, how she acts around you, any mixed messages ect. Also how are you gonna take it to the next level if you don't kiss? and how could arkady possible determine if it's appropriate if he knows nothing about the situation?

[alavetor]

they're probably friends and he wants to take their relationships into "more than friends"

[alavetor]

I think you should have asked Arkady "how to tell if she likes you back"

[alavetor]

and if she DOES, than go ahead, if no... than... that will harm your friendship

[michelejrgm]

oh wow...what a coincidence...i just broke up with someone today....finding distractions on youtube and browsing through my subscriptions to find this!

[yxa86]

Not a gay comment, but you look better in short hair. Or perhaps you're just pushing away many ladies cuz you found the one. LOL

[tamick2000]

It took several difficult breakups and a lot of time to realize I was choosing men who were like my dad, distant and aloof. They loved me but their work came first. Once I realized that and also found out why we try to replicate unsuccessful relationships from our childhood because of some subconscious hope that this time we can make it work, well now I am looking for what I want. It is a different experience dating without infatuation and blind passion but with your eyes open.

[silentfades]

good video - except sometimes it just isnt anyones loss but just the way things work out -- one does not necessarily have to assign blame or fault to every breakup.

some were just in ones life for a season without a reason - that is just fact

but I do totally agree OBJECTIVE self reflection is a great tool

thanks for teaching that

Marc in NYC

[muneyholder]

another fantastic video. thank you for the help.