well ive learned to not beat ur kids im grown so i believe in talking to my children not yelling all the time talking works actually it might take a little while for some things to get thru but it works and not doing negative things around ur kids works sometimes there is no real way but to let that child learn on his or her own but beating them will do nothing but make them regret u when they get older
this has to be one of my favorite videos from you! this is what i try to tell people all the time. i have the same mindset as you.. and i love that your young too and know what ur talking about! when i have a child i want to finish college, become married (to a MAN who has a career), i want to have a career.. not a job (for at least 2 years), and make sure that i'm ready!... because u can say ur READY, but their not. My brother had a son when he was 18.. i'm 18 now and i know i'm not ready!
@sammygirl62393 im over 18 :) way over 18 lol. im glad u liked it though and im halfway to my goal so i plan on having ALL my goals accomplished in the next 5 years. and my goals dont consist of being a rapper or singer or model. i want a career too
This couldn't have come at a better time with this whole Beyonce debacle or wutever it is I have never seen a more questionable pregnancy than that. Furthermore I agree with you these youngins r getn pregnant 4 all the wrong reasons its sad and in their situation I would say don't follow the old adage "lead by example". When u have a child that is the best thing u have ever did in ur entire life blessed but wuts the use if you don't have knowledge of how 2 nurture
I so agree with this vid...eventho im grown now as a child my mama never show me enough affection...she always negative..we always arguin...just stressful...her moto is to make i have food, money, clothes, but its more than that...you have to motivate..be more supportive...and she dont give me that...so two thumbs up to this video...
I FEEL YOU ARE WRONG ABOUT THE WHOLE YOUR A PARTICALE OF YOUR ENVIROMENT CRAP. I CAME FROM A BROKEN HOME. I HAVE FAILURE IN MY BLOOD LINE BUT YET I ROSE ABOVE IT. I DIDNT HAVE A SILVER SPOON IN MY MOUTH. I KNOW HOW IT FEELS NOT TO HAVE FOOD NOT TO HAVE A PLACE TO SLEEP BUT YET I ROSE ABOVE MY DOWN FALLS AN OVER CAME. I CHOSE BOOK SMARTS OVER STREET SMARTS. ON MY OWN I CLIMED OUT THE GUTTER. PEOPLE FAIL BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE TO THATS ALL THERE IS TO IT BEAUTIFUL SO NO ONE CAN BLAME ANYONE ELSE!
@Javezzy You are an exceptional and a brave individual,you should be proud of who you are and who you have become.
but unfortunately not all people have this strength to overcome the nature and nurture.It's not only about the background.There are people from wealthy houses with loving parents who grow up to become useless dickheads because they went onto the streets and met some junks.She's just telling the facts that she knows and warns to not become unprepared parent by mistake
I feel all a child need is someone who is goin to love them an be there for them an i feel a child is not curse but a blessing so no matter weither its planned or not pregnancy is a gift from god no matter the conditions! the name doesnt matter or anything else but earthly love and godly love. At the end of the day, week, month, and year god will see everyone through life!
@Javezzy but everyone is aware that they have the ability to produce a child. god doesnt give gifts for us to take them for granted. its a precious thing so we need to make sure that we take care of it and respect it.
@chanelheaven i agree except for the it part they are children not its(lol). reproduction is a god given gift and god gave us guide lines to that. we have to be together an he says we are to re frame from premarital sex anyways so how ever has a child out of wedlock is sinning! also its not always the dad woman are flugazi to they are some times worst than men. they choose to take care of themselves instead of their children.
Chanel im a 20 year old male who was in foster care from b4 i was one till i was 18. ive ben in group homes an foster homes in some of the worst conditions bay my mom gave me up to my gma b4 i was 1 so until i was 18 i hated my mom because i felt she didnt love me but it took me becoming a man for me to realize that she loved me so much she realized she couldnt care for me an gave me to someone who could. So with that i have respect for any parent weither they be a single mom or dad or coparents
Yo you go girl! Tell it like it is.
LadyBella425 2 weeks ago
Love this vid ima share!
LadyBella425 2 weeks ago
Gracias! Very well said MsChanel!
LadyBella425 2 weeks ago
deguelasse!!
imane80100 3 weeks ago
its easy to become a parent
but it takes work & good common sense to be a parent
which looking around seems alot of parents lack
SoulmanfoLife 1 month ago
Right lol..
hellokitti1987 1 month ago
well ive learned to not beat ur kids im grown so i believe in talking to my children not yelling all the time talking works actually it might take a little while for some things to get thru but it works and not doing negative things around ur kids works sometimes there is no real way but to let that child learn on his or her own but beating them will do nothing but make them regret u when they get older
bige782008 1 month ago
this has to be one of my favorite videos from you! this is what i try to tell people all the time. i have the same mindset as you.. and i love that your young too and know what ur talking about! when i have a child i want to finish college, become married (to a MAN who has a career), i want to have a career.. not a job (for at least 2 years), and make sure that i'm ready!... because u can say ur READY, but their not. My brother had a son when he was 18.. i'm 18 now and i know i'm not ready!
sammygirl62393 1 month ago
@sammygirl62393 im over 18 :) way over 18 lol. im glad u liked it though and im halfway to my goal so i plan on having ALL my goals accomplished in the next 5 years. and my goals dont consist of being a rapper or singer or model. i want a career too
chanelheaven 1 month ago
This couldn't have come at a better time with this whole Beyonce debacle or wutever it is I have never seen a more questionable pregnancy than that. Furthermore I agree with you these youngins r getn pregnant 4 all the wrong reasons its sad and in their situation I would say don't follow the old adage "lead by example". When u have a child that is the best thing u have ever did in ur entire life blessed but wuts the use if you don't have knowledge of how 2 nurture
tharealtreal 1 month ago
@tharealtreal people think its cute. celebrities can afford to be bad parents. it doesnt fix all problems but it fixes alot of them
chanelheaven 1 month ago
Are you a parent ?
stefieshortstuff 1 month ago
I so agree with this vid...eventho im grown now as a child my mama never show me enough affection...she always negative..we always arguin...just stressful...her moto is to make i have food, money, clothes, but its more than that...you have to motivate..be more supportive...and she dont give me that...so two thumbs up to this video...
hellokitti1987 1 month ago
@hellokitti1987 yes exactly
chanelheaven 1 month ago
On Point Video!! Twitter @DjSweetback
DjSweetback 1 month ago
I FEEL YOU ARE WRONG ABOUT THE WHOLE YOUR A PARTICALE OF YOUR ENVIROMENT CRAP. I CAME FROM A BROKEN HOME. I HAVE FAILURE IN MY BLOOD LINE BUT YET I ROSE ABOVE IT. I DIDNT HAVE A SILVER SPOON IN MY MOUTH. I KNOW HOW IT FEELS NOT TO HAVE FOOD NOT TO HAVE A PLACE TO SLEEP BUT YET I ROSE ABOVE MY DOWN FALLS AN OVER CAME. I CHOSE BOOK SMARTS OVER STREET SMARTS. ON MY OWN I CLIMED OUT THE GUTTER. PEOPLE FAIL BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE TO THATS ALL THERE IS TO IT BEAUTIFUL SO NO ONE CAN BLAME ANYONE ELSE!
Javezzy 1 month ago
@Javezzy You are an exceptional and a brave individual,you should be proud of who you are and who you have become.
but unfortunately not all people have this strength to overcome the nature and nurture.It's not only about the background.There are people from wealthy houses with loving parents who grow up to become useless dickheads because they went onto the streets and met some junks.She's just telling the facts that she knows and warns to not become unprepared parent by mistake
IfritAxel 1 month ago
I feel all a child need is someone who is goin to love them an be there for them an i feel a child is not curse but a blessing so no matter weither its planned or not pregnancy is a gift from god no matter the conditions! the name doesnt matter or anything else but earthly love and godly love. At the end of the day, week, month, and year god will see everyone through life!
Javezzy 1 month ago
@Javezzy but everyone is aware that they have the ability to produce a child. god doesnt give gifts for us to take them for granted. its a precious thing so we need to make sure that we take care of it and respect it.
chanelheaven 1 month ago
@chanelheaven i agree except for the it part they are children not its(lol). reproduction is a god given gift and god gave us guide lines to that. we have to be together an he says we are to re frame from premarital sex anyways so how ever has a child out of wedlock is sinning! also its not always the dad woman are flugazi to they are some times worst than men. they choose to take care of themselves instead of their children.
Javezzy 1 month ago
Chanel im a 20 year old male who was in foster care from b4 i was one till i was 18. ive ben in group homes an foster homes in some of the worst conditions bay my mom gave me up to my gma b4 i was 1 so until i was 18 i hated my mom because i felt she didnt love me but it took me becoming a man for me to realize that she loved me so much she realized she couldnt care for me an gave me to someone who could. So with that i have respect for any parent weither they be a single mom or dad or coparents
Javezzy 1 month ago
@Javezzy i wasnt dissing single parents. i know many single moms/dads doing an excellent job. and everyone has a unique situation
chanelheaven 1 month ago
dimples are sexy af. damn.
yuppers95b 1 month ago
what is your twitter?
NipseyHustle 1 month ago
@NipseyHustle @chanelheaven
chanelheaven 1 month ago
You are pregnant huh?
andrefrbk 1 month ago
@andrefrbk did u even watch the video lol
chanelheaven 1 month ago
@chanelheaven I always watch.<3
andrefrbk 1 month ago