You must do this from within.You must change your consciousness. Your thinking and actions attracted these men or women. Like attracts like. You can look like a Diva, but don't act like one. I dress up like a Diva, but act like a lady . I have men proposed to me all the time. You can dress sexy , nice and innocent without showing a lot of skin. Be yourself! It start by closing your legs and determining what type of man you want. Beyonce snagged Jay-z
You must do this from within.You must change your consciousness. Your thinking and actions attracted these men or women. Like attracts like. You can look like a Diva, but don't act like one. I dress up like a Diva, but act like a lady . I have men proposed to me all the time. You can dress sexy , nice and innocent without showing a lot of skin. Be yourself! It start by closing your legs and determining what type of man you want. Beyonce snagged Jay-z
Hey, when you said that thing about swinging on a pole you reminded me of Chris Rock talking about the clear heels lol. I have to admit that I'm the opposite. I wear the worse close and when I wear my hair down I get compliments but I don't handle them right. I had a guy tell me that with my hair down all the guys would be all over me. I told him not if they had to comb it. My clothes and my attitude sometimes drive the potential out the door.
You are very correct; I can size a female up b4 I even say Hi..it's automatic and more of a gut reaction to her ENERGY. But her "LOOK" makes it a lot easier for me to make a split decision.
Oh yeah and the spinning around real quick for a Panoramic Booty View when he's sitting or walking by Definitely doesn't make you a serious candidate..what decent guy want to talk to your behind?
hope that helps the "Hoochies Need Love Too" crowd :)
NOW you tell me...I think I blew it with him already being sexy by accident. I'm Muslim and we have different "dress codes" that I kind of veered away from. Now he doesn't call anymore. How can I get him to ask me out again?
Sit back sweetie and let the fish come to you. If that particular fish does not come, he didnt have good intentions to begin with OR it is to teach you that you may be sending the wrong message to the right men and you need to work on that.
Wifey= wife...there must be vows exchanged. Just a way I turn a noun into an adjective...lol. I dont mean the "player's use of the term." You are right, if he is calling you wifey and hasnt married you, or asked you to marry him with a DATE in mind, then he isnt serious and doesnt deserve to call you his "wifey." :)
I don't dress like a ho, I don't dress like a suburban mom either, I am good looking, I am NOT desperate, but men don't come up to me because later on I find out that they always say "You obviously looked like you were taken!" So am I doing the "you look like a married woman" thing TOO WELL?! Thanks Shay your advice is really good.
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You must do this from within.You must change your consciousness. Your thinking and actions attracted these men or women. Like attracts like. You can look like a Diva, but don't act like one. I dress up like a Diva, but act like a lady . I have men proposed to me all the time. You can dress sexy , nice and innocent without showing a lot of skin. Be yourself! It start by closing your legs and determining what type of man you want. Beyonce snagged Jay-z
anwnyc 1 year ago
You must do this from within.You must change your consciousness. Your thinking and actions attracted these men or women. Like attracts like. You can look like a Diva, but don't act like one. I dress up like a Diva, but act like a lady . I have men proposed to me all the time. You can dress sexy , nice and innocent without showing a lot of skin. Be yourself! It start by closing your legs and determining what type of man you want. Beyonce snagged Jay-z
anwnyc 1 year ago
I agree with everything you've said
psychmaj323 2 years ago
Hey, when you said that thing about swinging on a pole you reminded me of Chris Rock talking about the clear heels lol. I have to admit that I'm the opposite. I wear the worse close and when I wear my hair down I get compliments but I don't handle them right. I had a guy tell me that with my hair down all the guys would be all over me. I told him not if they had to comb it. My clothes and my attitude sometimes drive the potential out the door.
TheMidnightBell07 2 years ago
She was dead-on! I couldn't have said it better.
collie123collie 2 years ago
I agree with every thing this woman says.
modelchic99 2 years ago
so i shouldnt wear make-up
uglyassbitch06 2 years ago
Yes, but in moderation.
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago
hay diva i am on my momz account but i am only 12 but i like boyz of course and your video tought me alot
MoDeezeeFoShezee 2 years ago
You are very correct; I can size a female up b4 I even say Hi..it's automatic and more of a gut reaction to her ENERGY. But her "LOOK" makes it a lot easier for me to make a split decision.
Oh yeah and the spinning around real quick for a Panoramic Booty View when he's sitting or walking by Definitely doesn't make you a serious candidate..what decent guy want to talk to your behind?
hope that helps the "Hoochies Need Love Too" crowd :)
nolanj23 2 years ago
NOW you tell me...I think I blew it with him already being sexy by accident. I'm Muslim and we have different "dress codes" that I kind of veered away from. Now he doesn't call anymore. How can I get him to ask me out again?
Amerieandmyguitar 2 years ago
Sit back sweetie and let the fish come to you. If that particular fish does not come, he didnt have good intentions to begin with OR it is to teach you that you may be sending the wrong message to the right men and you need to work on that.
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago
That's me callin her cell phone in tha back
cfG21 2 years ago 2
I always wear jeans and a t-shirt. However, when I met my first love I was wearing a cardigan and some dress pants.
Emmarose81 2 years ago
I hear you shay, however I hate the term 'wifey' I don't want to be a wifey..sounds more like a play wife. I want to be the WIFE!
darlin54 2 years ago 2
Wifey= wife...there must be vows exchanged. Just a way I turn a noun into an adjective...lol. I dont mean the "player's use of the term." You are right, if he is calling you wifey and hasnt married you, or asked you to marry him with a DATE in mind, then he isnt serious and doesnt deserve to call you his "wifey." :)
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago
Exactly what I meant. .thanks.
darlin54 2 years ago
I don't dress like a ho, I don't dress like a suburban mom either, I am good looking, I am NOT desperate, but men don't come up to me because later on I find out that they always say "You obviously looked like you were taken!" So am I doing the "you look like a married woman" thing TOO WELL?! Thanks Shay your advice is really good.
liketanyanot 2 years ago 2
I just want my own Clair Huxtable but then again I'm not a Cliff huxtable yet.........but I will be
blacktigerwu 2 years ago
i kno wat u say it's true about men sizing up the woman they see in 10mins because the guy frenz i have have told me this.
hugandkissme33 2 years ago
Great advice...Thanks
Devine5188 2 years ago
yep i feel ya with the men dat look like players or have that palya engery :)
fee20luv 2 years ago
this diva is smart yall better listen
fnstpl 2 years ago 2
I know I have along way to go but these are good tips to keep in mind
chrissismone 2 years ago
my mama calls it actin like a strilly stripper... but then again my mama is 70
lilevercKlear 2 years ago
LOL "Strilly stripper" LOL My grnadma calls those types "slang nasties" LOL boy I swear old people come up with em
blacktigerwu 2 years ago
hell yeah. it be so funny doe cause my mama be sayin the most outlandish shit but i be laughin my ass off!!! its soooooooooo hilarious
lilevercKlear 2 years ago