insightful yet I can't help feeling like this guy doesn't really have a lot of relationship experience x) thanks for the advice though I really hope this works.... I feel like I am no longer whole. -_-;;
I tried to repair my relationship with my ex for almost a year, and what I realized during that time is that she caused me more pain than good. And what I thought was the best thing, in fact brought me to a place in my life where I didn't want to be.
What I'm getting at is, instead of automatically trying to repair a relationship, step back and weigh out the pros and cons. You might realize some very important things about yourself, and what you're really looking for in your partner.
Well he has children in another state, and now he wants to move there, but I am young, still in college, I can't leave to go live 1000's of miles away from everything. now he wants to break up because he wants to move there in the next 6 months. The hardest part is that we 1. a live together and 2. neither one of us wants to end this, we both still really love each other, but how could I compete with his kids that he loves so dearly. This pain is unlike anything I have ever felt in my life.
a suggestion is learning Non Violent Communication taught by Marshall Rosenberg. This is a needs based way to communicate with each other. It is about expessing feelings, needs, and a request without blaming, judging, rewarding, or punishing. The way of communicating takes conciousness to learn, but it an effective tool to really connect with a loved one.
although suddenly doing all this can also look very needy, suddenly acting differently and such isnt actually a good move, since your not acting like the person they fell for int he first place but instead suddenly changing to be someone else.
try going back to where you had special moments instead
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Anow171 6 months ago
Great advice!
It is exactly what I needed to hear, at least I have some hope now
Thank you so much!!
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sadaaization 1 year ago
My boyfriend and I love each other very much and at the moment we are broken up due to the fact that we cannot seem to stop fighting.
If you could share some insight with us I'd really appreciate it. If you want to he'll I'll give you more details.
Shantyup@live.com
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Shantillah 1 year ago
I tried to repair my relationship with my ex for almost a year, and what I realized during that time is that she caused me more pain than good. And what I thought was the best thing, in fact brought me to a place in my life where I didn't want to be.
What I'm getting at is, instead of automatically trying to repair a relationship, step back and weigh out the pros and cons. You might realize some very important things about yourself, and what you're really looking for in your partner.
gnarlyismymiddlename 1 year ago
what i did to help me and my wifes marriage is sedona arazona! Going to linn and cardells retreat is the best thing i ever did!
goldbabycakes1990 1 year ago
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Rustyrunaway 1 year ago 2
Well he has children in another state, and now he wants to move there, but I am young, still in college, I can't leave to go live 1000's of miles away from everything. now he wants to break up because he wants to move there in the next 6 months. The hardest part is that we 1. a live together and 2. neither one of us wants to end this, we both still really love each other, but how could I compete with his kids that he loves so dearly. This pain is unlike anything I have ever felt in my life.
danimarietaylor 2 years ago
a suggestion is learning Non Violent Communication taught by Marshall Rosenberg. This is a needs based way to communicate with each other. It is about expessing feelings, needs, and a request without blaming, judging, rewarding, or punishing. The way of communicating takes conciousness to learn, but it an effective tool to really connect with a loved one.
dharmagems 2 years ago
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dinmolle 2 years ago
Do you have a highway in your house? And apetting zoo?
HisnameisIan 2 years ago
gOOD mAN,Glad to see someone tryen to help other people in the world ,I hope its just not for profit, Keep on truckin!!!
numerouno1969 2 years ago
although suddenly doing all this can also look very needy, suddenly acting differently and such isnt actually a good move, since your not acting like the person they fell for int he first place but instead suddenly changing to be someone else.
try going back to where you had special moments instead
sidonus 3 years ago
I'm in a horrible situation, we've been broken up for a month, and a lot has happened.
Alex, do you think you can help?
I'm at the point in life, where she's all I have left. I'd do anything for her back :/
JackDanielz 3 years ago
thanx so much,i will try your techniques,fingerz crossed!
roe212 3 years ago
dude, get to the point...im losin her as we speak
pep311dz 3 years ago 4
Hi
Write down a list of why you want to be with this person and then tell her. What do you think the reason is that you are losing her?
-Alex
alexd181 3 years ago
lmao
criminalminded7 2 years ago
wow - this is all so true. Thanks for posting!
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