Girlfriends(S04E09) - "Between Brock and a Hard Place" [Part 1]

[sinakat]

Joan should have married him. The last episode should have been him purposing. You are suppose to marry your enchanted love.

[VLM123]

@sinakat He may have been her enchanted love, but they could not agree on the children issue, so it was better that they did not stay together. Whether to have a child or not is a HUGE dealbreaker that so many couples just gloss over and not fully discuss and if that happens, that's when where problems come in. I also chose not to have a child, so I understand and commend Brock for standing up for his beliefs and for not giving in.

[moukur]

Joan has a sweet ass.

[nicegurl216]

i would kill to have joans body lol... :/

[nicegurl216]

he didnt know her midle name.. but i understand that firt love thing.. instant connection ..but come on!!!

[icantdothisbymyself]

@junirish why is he a bastard? he simply just doesnt want kids. They don't even know each other. before getting married they should have gotten to know each other first. Joan is so desperate she once again pushed this man to propose to her..she should have done her homework first.

[VLM123]

@icantdothisbymyself Co-signing!

[westyorkshire2003]

Toni's reaction between 05:28 - 05:31 made me laugh.

[bossb510]

Malik yoba was tooooooooooo sexy in this!!!

[junirish]

Brock is a selfish bastard & Joan ( & women like her ) are too good for men like that . F U C K T H E M !

[KayCullenTaylor]

Lynn looks very nice towards the end

[scholar300]

@KayCullenTaylor I thought the same thing

[vaneshcaa]

OMG I've only just realized that Brock is Yul Brenner from cool runnings!!!

[neikaplay]

rofl. 'corporate honey with a thug passion'

[Be1smaht]

I 'm so jealous of Joan's shape she has the perfect butt.

[53abletammy]

look yall my ring had a baby lol tony is a mess lol

[hatsforyou100]

I think maya is ugly

[ifunanya24]

how many times do you hear a white man say...'THATS THE PROBLEM WITH WHITE WOMEN etc, or asian men or latino men.

why attribute a persons behavior or actions to being black?

[VideoVixen24]

@TGirl100

Thank you for clarifying what you meant. : )

[VideoVixen24]

@TGirl100

Um, no. Not "just like a man"...you sound bitter. He didn't promise her anything but marriage. They should have talked about a family BEFORE she accepted his proposal - a FORCED proposal, I might add. He did the best he could with all of her PSYCHO.

[Jeffrizel1986]

Mya kind of reminds me of Tasha Mack from the Game, just a little bit..

[Queenuera]

@Jeffrizel1986 i kno rite

[DETshockfan]

Jabari is a fool

[Funkadelicchick01]

Corporate honey with a thug passion LOL

[Felisha23luv]

LOL's @ look ya'll , my ring had a "Baby"

[QuEEnJaSmiNe871]

wat the hell do lynn got on????

[oniyamedia123]

 "look yall my ring had a baby" haha!

[oniyamedia123]

i need the dvds for this!!!where can i get it?

[bitchingood]

Wow! Joan has the perfect ass! I'm jealous!

[DFHC29]

9:47-9:53, DAMN, Joan got an ASS you can bounce coins off of.

[TrillianS8]

how does that outfit shawl stay on Lynn's shoulder? I love her wardrobe, though.

[4685741223]

im mad im lookin at her ass

[MissMopTop]

The security guard is Joe Torry. He was in Poetic Justice. Tupac beat him up and left him on the side of the highway lololol ^_^

[TheOnyxNightshade]

@MissMopTop OMG you're right that's Chicago!!! Didn't recognize him without his brush lol...

[hwyitagesu]

look y'all my ring had a baby LMFAOOOOOOOO i love toni (lynn looks cute with that ponytail)

[ashcali22]

Mya and the security guard played husband and wife in the movie Motives!

[Be1smaht]

@ashcali22 that security guard disgusts me .

[ashcali22]

@Be1smaht Yea Me too. I hate men who mooch off of women and expect them to take care of them.

[ajgurl23]

I think its equally selfish for people to have them just to continue the "family name". Some names don't need to be continued lol.

For those saying its for the unconditional love, get a dog. Just my own opinion. However, I like children (younger siblings, babysat a special needs child for years, etc), but I want the freedom to do my own thing. Maybe a little selfish, but I'm being honest with myself.

[tomomichan2]

@ajgurl23 Have you gotten your tubes tied, if I may ask?

[ajgurl23]

@tomomichan2 Nope not yet. I'm too young to do so without a medical issue (only 21). But that's the plan for the future.

[ajgurl23]

Both Brock and Joan are to blame. Joan for jumping ahead, and Brock, in an attempt to lessen the blow to Joan's self esteem, trying to make her happy. That's why he proposed to her. Remember, they got engaged very quickly so they never had time to discuss it--not exactly first date chatter.

But I don't think Brock's selfish at all. I, as a black woman, don't want to have children (not from my womb, adoption's ok).

[dui3343]

her ass is fat

[KrazyVideoChick]

I noticed a pattern in the comments.. alot of ppl are blaming Joan for not knowing that Brock wanted kids... both of them are to blame.. Brock should have told her when he decided to make her his fiance` that he wouldn't want kids.. because most women I think want kids by their husband.. and Joan should have asked.. our society I noticed puts alot of blame on women.. I don't get that..

OK.. lol.. *ends rant and watches rest of clip*

[TheSassy2005]

joan u and brock should have talked about the whole kid thing before the engagement....i don't like brock...the fact that he doesn't want kids makes me think he's selfish

[mellyfan1]

Joan is just messy!! She met the man, felt sparks, peer pressured the man into marriage after one month and then gets mad when she doesnt know anything about him. tsk tsk tsk she just oozes desperate

[jetteblacke]

@mellyfan1 Agreed!

[OHOnlyHuman]

@TGirl100 yeah brock wasn't the one who jumped into a whole year of relationship assuming [lol]

[skugl23]

A corporate hunny. lol.

[SexySoma23]

Look y'all my ring had a baby!!! loool

[redasafox]

She so hell bent on getting married, she didnt take time to get to know the man

[sweet2bsaved]

LOVE LYN'S make up. very pretty. and her whole entire outfit 4:10 is great. go girl!!!

I dont know either how you can get engaged w/o knowing if he wants kids. isn't that part of the whole point of dating,to find out ea others goals,dreams etc.

[mrsmcfarland]

LOL!! @ 3:45 I just got back from Vegas yesterday and stayed AT the Excalibur!!! It was really nice, LOL!!!

[temikabful]

i love lynn!!!!!

[canarydiamond0509]

"Look yall, my ring had a baby!" LOL Wow Toni is a mess! Never should have left the show!

[broke2471]

LOL, this show is so funny...I love them all.

Malik Yoba worked with Tracee Ellis ross...Tracee is Diana Ross's Daughter...Diana Ross was Michael Jacksons mentor and stage mother at Motown and Michael is Janets Jacksons brother and Janet Jackson worked with Malik on Why Did I get Married 1 & 2. A full circle.

[aeropostalebunny1]

@broke2471 -i WAS THiNKiNG THE SAME THiNG

[broke2471]

@aeropostalebunny1 - LOL, see, great minds think alike....

[aeropostalebunny1]

@broke2471 -i KNO RiqHT...WhEN i SEEN MAliK yObA i ThOUqhT AbOUT JANET JACKSON N ThEN i SEE TRACEE ElliS N ThINK AbOUT diANA ROSS N WHEN i SEE diANA i THiNK MiCHAEL...R.I.P MiCHAEL`SO yEA i WhAS ThINkInq ThE SAME ThINq...basically

[broke2471]

@aeropostalebunny1 - lol...cool

[t5y665yrty56]

they introduced me to jazz. Whos jazz?

[KrazyVideoChick]

@t5y665yrty56 LOL! Thats too funny

[sflachuck]

Damn Joan can dress...

[nicholen88]

He is soooo fine!

[MsTeleological]

i think the issue of not wanting to have children should have come BEFORE the engagement!!!!! Damn, Joan.....

[pyro43261]

Thanks so much for this! I haven't watched Girlfriends in a loong time.

LOVE this show!

[untitled4u]

lmao

"that ain't nothin' but a little period pimple!"

Toni is a MESS!!

[untitled4u]

Malik yoba is still fine! Sexy, chocolate, black man!! :)

[MzSalley]

I would rather have a house than a big ring.

[JIMBOLOSKII]

tony can be snobby at times

[rettrois]

TONI IS SOOO NOT CUTE

[SthrnCiara]

He is right. If you really don't want kids DONT HAVE EM! God knows I wish I was snart enough to make that decision before I had mine. And I only got one lol Traveling, seeing the world, all that without having to drag them along or find a baby sitter or PAYING somebody to watch them ugh trust me it's not a selfish thing. If kids don't match who you are and what you want to do and be in life don't do it! I'd rather be auntie or God Mommy but not MOMMY. thats another life YOU are responsible 4 =)

[ubene]

Thank you! I really agree with you!

[MzSalley]

I agree, or for me I would have waited until I finished living first...traveling the world then having kids...maybe. Finding someone to watch them is hard..especially finding someone you can trust to be with them. My vacations just have to center around my son now.

[SthrnCiara]

The quality on your Girlfriends episodes is just...beautiful

[littlenini09]

I don't think that is selfish or stupid if you have kids. I'm the same as Brock I don't want to have kids.

[coolranch13]

mmmmmmmm agreed!!!!

[SJANELJ]

Brok is yummy!

[GorgeousGirl1988]

LOOK YALL MA RING HAD A BABY!!LOL

[kikiki7766]

i miss the girls(((

[donnayeahbaby]

5:28 lolol!!!

toni sounds funny!

[breakofdawn26]

Lynn's face looks so nice withouth bang

[Frederick890]

LOL Joan looks like a "Target" logo when she was in the kitchen with Brock

[thebest1024]

JOan's got a real nice ass

[Ernicera100]

toni is beautiful nohomo

[Angbow3232]

do you have any episodes with Anne Marie Johnson who played Sharon Farley?

[ManiSimone]

aaaaw toni at 5:29 lol

[LUVkouki97]

i miss this jabari, the new one in the later seasons wasnt all that great of an actor.

[MaikaDee]

Amen !!! Well said TGirl100

[howardtibbsthethird]

how could you get engaged to someone and you didn't know he didn't want kids??

[ThatSmartFineChick]

@howardtibbsthethird lol

[LVishere]

@howardtibbsthethird One thing I hated about Girlfriends, is that it was always random. Like Toni finding out her husband was broke a whole season later. SMH

[uniqueqt2]

@LVishere I don't think that is random. i think that it happens to people who do not communicate with their spouses. Kinda like the men who live double lives and the woman finds out years later..or the woman who hides her debt issues until after she locks him in with that ring

[steffion]

@howardtibbsthethird desperate you know lool

[love4morrigan]

damn I love lynn she is too funny

[LUVkouki97]

fav character. she is very funny

[lynnette08]

William Crazy lolz

[lorraineappiahdanqua]

wow dat broke boo is FINE!n dat body...girl!!!lol