WARNING!!! Do not rush into Marriage or to have Children

[fiscornioman]

Wow! just when i was about to impregnate a female i saw the title of this video, thanks a lot! phew!!!

[MrNobody47710]

I'm glad that there are people in the world that want to think romance and parenthood through, and I'm glad that there are people that are willing to stand up to unfair pressures, such as societal pressures. People need to realize that these pressures are not acceptable, and that the goals of the pressures can potentially suck complete ass, even if things are expected to be good.

If I had stupid pressures shoved onto me, I'd go out swinging. Fuck people's bad and biased expectations/beliefs.

[thesimplenclean]

thanks 4 this video man! glad someone supports not bowing to society!!! ^-^ thanks! :)

[phil8888]

man, why are you eating chips at the beginning UGH

[cheryl1358]

Maybe start your vid after your done eating your chips thanks

[AmielKitrelle]

@cheryl1358 Or maybe i'll continue doing what the hell I want to do on MY CHANNEL. You can do what you want to do on your channel and vice versa. I appreciate you viewing but DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT tell me what the hell to do. Thanks

[rollin77]

this kid is on point! good job!

[kthename08]

lol, I feel that way too, I want to get married once. To much drama to divorce. That, and my parents showed a good example. They were high school sweethearts and have been married for the last 26 years. Im an only child so marriage is important to me in that aspect. I can't afford children right now either. I loving working with children but can't afford 'em yet. Right now, I barely can afford myself! I dont want to drag an innocent child into that situation.

[LemyTalk]

And the same thing goes for sex...if someone loves a virgin that's not ready for it, that doesn't mean they don't love you back. So people, quit saying things like "If you love me, you'll have sex with me" because that's a selfish thing to say. In situations like this, it's good to wait till you both can agree to make the same decision without regretting it later on. (whether it's having sex, having kids, or getting married)

[raygorman111]

Everyone should sow their wild oats before getting married. I wouldn't even think about getting married until your late 20's.

-Date two years before getting married.

-Be done with school before getting married and working. Money helps in marriage.

-Get a prenup

-Get to know your spouse family and friends before you get married.

-Avoid people that are abusive, do drugs and have a bad attitude.

-Don't co-sign a car or credit card with a spouse.

[jerrijenkins333]

Watch out for marriage fraud!

-Be careful if you are thinking about marrying an illegal immigrant. It can be difficult to know if they are marrying for love or the green card.

-Never co-sign a credit card/car with a lover or spouse.

-Avoid mixing fiances and legal issues together.

Consider yourself warned!

[neshasims]

i feel u on the married for LIFE...real talk.

yeah, i just found out im pregnant. it aint no laughing matter..ah man

[QueenAfroCaribChic]

I soo feel you on 'being ready'. My sentiments exactly on getting married ONCE and LONGHAULIN' it!!! Folks today getting married for all the wrong reasons and wondering why shit don't last!

[georgethe09]

You have to have some life experiences to bring children into the word. Im not Ready.

[AtlantaAngel84]

ok well what is the purpose of dating someone for 4 plus years. Is it just until one finds someone better or what? I feel your video

[itsshutupmimi]

There's no rush cause it's sooooo damn easy to say I do but it pays to say I don't want yo ass no mo do y'all feel me? Im married and it's work and alot of people think it's a fairytail. I would've waited to get married and have my kids myself cause I was 23 when I got married.

[Hollygrovebabeee]

Great video

[thedrumlife]

LMAO.."Once you fuckin' marry me..you stuck wit me"..CHUUURCH!!...I'm a one time only guy myself...I find it so funny how women love try and force men to do something...do you want THEM or the MARRIAGE?What's more important?...Alot of stuff can be avoided if ppl take the time think about what they're jumping into...if u not ready for a relationship then u shouldn't be dating...because that's the point...finding someone u like and building a relationship.

[blupheonix44]

As usual, excellent video! Agree 1000%!

You gotta wait and be sure!!! And it's mostly women pulling that crap, "oh if you love me, you'll man up and marry me" Thats bullshit! What about all the women on Maury, yea, I said it! you have a 50/50 chance of getting divorced. 60/40 chance of being cheated on, and a 30% chance THATS NOT YOUR BABY YOUR PAYING CHILD SUPPORT ON! LMAO!

Kidding bout the #'s, but still, you get my point....

[DCStream]

"Do not allow yourself to fall victim to this bitchassness. "

Cue "The More You Know".

[msredwun]

that weeziana accent came alllll out of you in this video lol

im living overseas now and the culture is of course different. is your not married and on your way to having kids by 25-30 something is WRONG with you. people criticize you and act like you have aids of something.

[iratetruth]

excellent vidoe.

[ladyohio1976]

marriage has no values today as they did back in the day....i would say get the samples first before you purchase the product male/female...live together is the best way to see if that is what you want. i got married young we still together and we love each other but it has been hell but, now that we are older we appreciate marriage more. BE SURE YOU READY!

[seand67]

Great video & message Amiel...I'm hit with the same question(s) all the time from relatives, etc. Like you said, It's gotta be done RIGHT. Peace

[BreiandKids]

The men that says yes to ultimatums? not the men I know, the ones I know would be like, YOU KNOW WHAT, I'M OUT...U NOT RUSHING ME INTO SH*T

Now, if hes been with you 5-10-15 yrs, its time to go...especially if he knows u want to get married and he wont...in your words "DING DONG MUTHAFUCKA" lol

I love my boys i do, but good lawd hammercy, Ive got one whos overly picky and another who eats like hes 30 @ age 12!

[roversrawsome]

Yeah, I agree some things do take time such as marriage and or children. You made some great points in this video. By the way, happy April fools day!

[BreiandKids]

Man, ur steady eatin'....good thing you workout...shoot....lol

I always tell ppl who dont have kids & want kids...TAKE UR TIME....Kids r not like dogs...You cant just put them out & hope some1 take them....but @ the same time, if u want to have a child, get a dog, if u cant take care of a dog, u sure as hell cant handle kids....(I know, contradiction, but u get my point lol)

Marriage like u said, is a HUGE responsibility too...

Yes lawd, kids eat like hell & I have 2 boys!

[rayzaa14]

I feel you on this one bro!! marriage is a commitment between two people not an expectation, especially on these rough economic times; marriage and children should be carefully planned. don't let anyone force you to get marriage and have children, do it when you are ready. only you know when is the right time, aiight playa.

stay blessed!!

[babiibling]

Ahaha! I feel you, i luv this ...

5 STAAAARRS! : ]

[Leta589]

good points but dont put your self in a position to have to have these things happen to you before you are ready.

[dagreatcapri82]

I agree so much, Fam!!! Hey there's anything in life that you're not ready for, don't do IT! Especially marriage. Getting marriage these days is overrated because they think if they marry then everything going to be smoother. HA! Not for everyone. I'm doing everything to make sure that I don't fall into that trap of making babies and putting rings on a woman's finger until I'm 1000% sure that's the best thing for my life. Point blank period. Great video, Fam!

[Ebbychina]

"One night only!!!!"....LOL hilarious ..Great video though. It's such a shame that marriage is not as valued as it should be. Marriage is sacred, and not to be rushed into....

A word to the wise is sufficient!

[Dreaontv]

I heard that!

lawd..these shotgun weddings happen then the mfs wanna look confused when the shyt don't work in the end. *smh*