Adema - Stand Up

[detoxscission]

I understand the message, but this song is really cheesy.

Plus you have pages of conversation about generalizing an entire gender, which makes that clientele checking out the song really weak minded. Seriously, most people are not happy to see bad things happen to people at the hands of abuse, but if your mindset is that every person of that gender should have to take shit for what one person did... you're a fool and you are weak. Don't live your life under the veil of your damaged past.

[sailoramber1985]

reminds me of my abusive husband

[jessmeeow]

I beleive mark is back when they come out with a new album with him on it

[jessmeeow]

I agree with spikesaints this song is one of ademas OK songs

[dazadestroy]

my new favorite song x_X

[SpikeSaints]

AM I the only one who notices these lyrics are awful, it sounds like an 8 year old saying it(i love Adema tho)

[stowfootball]

Great band

[UrSoMeanBoss]

I sware i said these lyrics to a girl i knew long before heard this song.

and i listened to this song and i remember kickin the guys ass...

ahh... good times <3 adema

[TheCandymusiclover]

The Replay button probably hates me for abusing it. This song is super-powerful and truly deep!!!!! Although I can't say I've been in this situation b4, I can understand the pain felt and the sincerity of the singer in the lyrics.

[JorgeEFM]

This Band is FUKING GOOD Man!! ADEMA kick @zz

[soundso1969]

fuck lieddddddddddddddddddddddddddd­ddddddddddddddddddddddddddd

[muzikmaniac16]

most definitely 1 of their best songs right here

[theunknownshadowish]

@zeepunky

not everyone is an asshole... im not... i try not to be anyway... just because there are assholes doesnt mean everyone is...

[JinPhoenixwwe]

This is best album of Adema

[alist162]

ugh!!! this song makes me think of my ex. and how he left me for a German chick he met in McDonalds

[TimeKillsGoAskJesus]

Well, This song is sadly true....but I still like it....I love Adema they are amazing!

[zeepunky]

Well not all men are bad. Some women are like that to. Gender shouldn't mean a thing. But people in general are assholes. That's why you need to keep both eyes and mind open when meeting others. Some just but on a show to deceive you.

[belozero69]

my dad was abusive to my mom until she finally left his ass

[laxfanatic12064]

this song makes me want to beat the shit out of all douche bags who hit their girlfriends or wives

[MaxPrime1]

kick ass song. reminds me of stronger by trust company, this should have had been released as a single and have a video

[proanalove13]

wow awesome song

[jrreasons]

he looks more gay every time i listen to him

[MilkTheFUnk]

wow.. this is really good. I hope the lyrics are able to give girls more courage to leave assholes like that

[juliannarox]

oh, i wasnt expecting that! wow, thats such a sad song :(

[animaniac11]

To be honest i didnt really like this song at first because the lyrics are so upfront and not shrouded in any sort metaphor or subtlety...now I see that as necessary because the message is so intense. it makes me cry but i keep listening to it.

[nirvana4792]

This song depresses me.

It makes me think of the time when I was that girl in the song.

Fucck men.

[AdemaLevel]

@nirvana4792 im a man =(

[nirvana4792]

what do u mean?

[AdemaLevel]

@nirvana4792 u said FUCK MEN, i dont like that ;)

[nirvana4792]

oh. Well i meant fuck men who do this.

=)

They're so bad.

[spheret]

@AdemaLevel Show some respect, she got hurt, this is time for compassion, not for jokes.

[pyramidhead138]

@AdemaLevel i take offense to that to, not all guys are bad

[xeadm]

@nirvana4792 ya that was realy sextist

[RazielFallenAngel]

Silence woman.

[MyMotherTheCrow]

I can relate, men who hit women need to have the shit kicked out of them by a guy twice thier size (so they can know what it feels like).

: }

[TheCleanshave]

@MyMotherTheCrow dude o,o u have a problem

[fwuffytehnub]

@nirvana4792 go lesbo...

[Chirsty76]

@nirvana4792 I was in a bad relationship, he never hit me though.He choked me.I left him,but went back.This was in 04'-05'.He would be nice & then be mean.I finally left his ass.Even when we would break up,we'd still have sex.I left for good when I knew I was prego by him.Now, I'm happy with my hubby.I have 3 kids now.I know how u felt,but now it's all good.

[coveneyr]

@nirvana4792 Fuck men who dont treat women right - totally - not all men are like that but i know thats no consolation to you

[coveneyr]

@nirvana4792 You stood up to that shit - the way you were treated was totally fucked

[ninja909]

@nirvana4792 not every man is a wife beater, but nearly every girl is a heartbreaker.

[Jupiterkitten]

@nirvana4792 Ditto -___-

[vo0sto0]

@nirvana4792 yeah we're all crap...I'm sorry, please forgive me.

[405xSNIPERx405]

the "new dude" was the one sining the 2007 and 2005 albums of adema right??

[AdemaLevel]

there were two new ''dudes''

2005 was with the album planets sang by Luke

2007 by another dude called Bobby Reeves

[Atrieyu]

@AdemaLevel they have chaz again now though bobby went back to his old band

[CrimeDolls]

@405xSNIPERx405 Mark {Mark} was fired from doing drugs, and yea.. He just recently got back in the band

Hes Clean As Can Be!

[steviemedina22088]

@CrimeDolls

where did u get ur info from?? 

[MortalLuc]

This song is about a guy observing a girl getting abused by her boyfriend. She doesn't see what an ass he is.

If you want more music/songs like this, check out the band Breaking Benjamin, I guess you'll like it if you like Adema.

[lawrenceloly]

awsomeee

[jester9200]

wait, just to be clear, the dude thats singing this song is back in the band!?!?!

[AdemaLevel]

Yup

Mark Chavez.

[swh6589]

its about time that mark came back....adema was never the same without him.....wanna-be mainstream sucks

[daggerfang]

i cant wait for the new album, the new singer was good, but mark i liked a lot more songs had more meaning it felt

[swh6589]

this song hits the spot for most women and kids that got/get abused. one of the best by adema. rock on

[xtremejt86]

Yo, Mark chavez, get ur ass back to the adema band,we need U.

[AdemaLevel]

Hes back

[xtremejt86]

I heard. I just hope the next album kicks major ASS!

[jiannis777]

u mean the old singer is back on adema?!!

[AdemaLevel]

Yup.

[DeMonHunNter51]

i kinda like the new dude though

[AdemaLevel]

I like both to be honest

[HarpyNinja217]

I love this song. It rocks. Thats why this song is # 1 on my top 10 favortie Adea songs video.

[zimdib123]

i love this song to death

[RAYSABADASS]

I <3 WEED

[ralph420duh]

u know u love me momo im ur fav stoner friend lol

[momothehomo16]

haha ralph, you dumbass.

:P

[ralph420duh]

ur such a dork momo remeber u me gettin totally fuckin blazed tommorow

[momothehomo16]

The thing people never realize is she really loves him, you could kick that boys ass 100 times and shes still going to love him and stand up for him. What you see and what she sees of him is different. She sees the person she loves through her black eyes. Everyone else sees An ass hole and a dumb girl who wont leave for her own good.

[KamiwanMUFFINS]

This song reminds me of my own life with some one... hurt noses and arms.

[Gspot7783]

lml

[bigninja27]

This reminds me of a friend of mind she's in a abusive relationship yet for some reason she wont leave him i've tried helpin even beat the assholes ass but she still with him if anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated

[deamonhunter2015]

unfortunatly if she wants to be with him theres not alot you can do but if she does come back with bruises then kick the shit out of him

[ramostarr]

Well dude you could just get a counselor for the to or beat the hell out of him again. But she rly loves him an you cnt take that away from them. pray for her and report the abuse

[TIICCKK]

theres alot of chicks like that, somtimes they just dont see that its wrong, they usually think its not as bad as it seems, tell her how fucked it is, and how shes gotta wake up, and if that dont work...like everyone else says, kick his ass

[goldenkoufet]

take and advice.......you slap your friend firstly and then go kick the ass of that asshole :)

[KristylEmiliaPayne]

I know what you are all atlking about, I used to be one of those girls. I don't exactly know how to get her to realise whats wrong, but all you can do is hope that she realises it on her own and leaves him. There really is nothing you can do excpet protect her as much as you can.

[pyrobmc]

@goldenkoufet so your advice is to slap abused people?

[JAWZ15]

kill him

problem solved

[4PeacexDarkness]

exactly what i thought!

[ShadowCrowX]

some people are just acustomed to being attracted to people who are abusive, yet very apologetic about it. They like the completely opposite sides of their mental spectrums, one minute they're daunting, next they're kind and sorry.

That chick just needs to wake up and become concious of what she's really attracted to in men, and not to blame her, but she needs to find out what kind of behaviour in her brings out the abuse in return.

[pyro251086]

@bigninja27 People like that often feel like they have no worth because of the abuser, you could boost her confidence to take away his power over her or just straight up do what's right and beat the hell out of him and tell him that he'll have that coming to him every time he goes near her. Then again you posted that comment 2 years ago so it's probably not an issue anymore.......oh yeah, and awesome song :)

[thunderman1216]

days go by, stand up, the way you like it, all these years, and immortal are my fav songs by them

[samoxzuo]

i luv this song!!!

[Despirage]

The way you like it is better than this ...

[AdemaLevel]

Yea it is.

[GutterP]

HUGE