Are Looks Important When Attracting Women - Alex Coulson Reveals

[007DefCon3]

Women see 'looks', they dont see personality until they get to know you. I look a lot younger than my age 26 and when I approach girls they say i look too young :(

[TheSkalor]

@007DefCon3 Grow some stubble and hang on to it. Did me huge favours with this problem! 

[PhysStud2011]

Looks are not as important as most people think. Personality and confidence are equally if not more, important.

[aznxluvlyguy4u]

agreeeee

[Punkwisdom]

Thanks! 

[CrossTheLine1000]

looks matter big time!

[Counseloration]

This was really close to home for me. I don't say this to brag. Growing up, through my teen years especially, I did have a lot of girls approach me. It was normal for me. As a guy in his early 20's now, I get dates so rarely because I still rely on that. It's as if that's how I learned to interact with women, and it's just not working. So in some ways I say being handsome is a disadvantage. I'm just now learning how to do the things people without the looks have to do.

Thanks Alex.

[Aeropostale508]

great stuff !!!

[free2flow10784]

So true i'm a former model and I had no balls to approach until my late 20's.  Despite getting tons of indicators of interest as a teen and a young adult I was getting no action because I didn't know how to lead the interaction. I would get approached rarely by some bold women and get laid a few times but when I began approaching and leading the interaction my success has gone through the roof.

[jennelli17]

Great advice Alex!

[Crazyman1212]

10% looks, lol...ya right, personality is very important to women but it only takes you so far.

[hotmaddog25]

hell yea i noticed most good looking guys (no homo) didnt approach any girls, and i totally agree with what you say. Your awesome bro.

[apocalypse105]

everyone ones that woman are emotional

the hole reason that she is actracted by you is the feeling you give her and that is how you are not how you look..

What do you say?, are you confidence blabla

[ajslash]

I dated girls that likes when a guy knows how take care of themself. healthwise and financial. I not talking about being rich.

[FortitudeOfHeaven]

Pardon me for asking, but isn't looks the first thing that everyone sees when it comes to attraction? It's just out there before you even say anything. If someone thinks your ugly, they seem to act more distant.

I have a friend in college who is not particularly good looking, he is overweight, bespectacled, sometimes talks to himself, wears the same clothes, has a nasal voice, and plays World of Warcraft. I've noticed that not only do girls avoid him but they seem petrified when he says hi.

[not4resale]

@FortitudeOfHeaven If he dressed well, did his hair, smiled and chatted to women in a non-threatening way would it change anything?

I'm not overweight by a long shot but I'm fatter than I've ever been in my life and I get laid more now than I ever did when I had my six pack and chiselled jaw. If an overweight guy can carry himself confidently and at least dress well, he will win browning points and at least earn himself a conversation or three.

[Terrra91]

do you think it matters then if i've got keratosis pilaris on the backs of my upper arms and acne scars on my back then? i'm sure there's girls that like me but those physical flaws are really stopping me. i'm not arrogant but i'm sure if i could get on a date with them they'd like me, i think i've got good qualities i've always been quiet so i'm considerate n all that. i'm a musician and artist as well so that could be a bonus. i dont aim that high but i wanna a good looking girl.

[alexandrepato123]

yeah unlucky for me looks dont mean as much to women as they do to men

[orduni90]

this dude kinda looks like seth macfarlane! lol...but i wish he wouldve talked about wat if u picked up a very stuck up bitch, or a girl thats already taken

[7399Martyn]

the superficial look itself isnt worth a lot, but when you are good look and you know it, it gives you more confidence and improves self esteem.

[victshot]

Daygame is very different than the nightgame ( mystery, style and others ). That's what I need to perfect most importantly.

[sixpaky2]

im 15 years old, and many girls call me good looking, but i have lack of self confidence do you have advise on how to raise my self esteem?

[tigernov6]

talk to as many girls as you can.

[CocoCruise]

Great advice. Thanks

[davevt04]

looks arent as a big of a deal as I was hoping. I lost 60 pounds and look fine now, but still having a hard time getting laid.

[J209H]

But looks make your personality and trust and confurt so ill say its more than 40%

[merdesmax]

so you probably picked up more girls then alex does

[merdesmax]

so yo probably picked up more girls than alex does

[thisisnotreal900]

Great video as usual Alex! I always sort of wondered how looks factored into the equation with women, thanks for the reassuring answer :)

[mbajla]

its about confidence and good questions, when you approach a lot its not a problem to get numbers from girls, my record is 4 numbers in 2 hours :)

[laertes0420]

Thank god you changed the intro music..

[kryptonitebullet179]

70% is Personality

20% is Trust/Rapport

10% LOOKS

Wrong. It's:

100% CASH

[drummerlars]

ahhahaahh best comment ive read all day

[Rull3n1990]

Waow. What an idealism...

[SirHappyThe1st]

Cash has very little to do with attraction.

Cash just gets you noticed but if you cant build rapport and have little personality you wont get most women .

[jajabinks1611]

@SirHappyThe1st den u dint know hood hoes

[UFC295]

You know what, I totally agree but, What if u dont have a lot of cash. What would you do then?

[OutBack206]

HAHAHA!

GET SOME!

[SpacedTime]

That's a very pessimistic view, but I think the truth is that if you have money you can create more opportunities to get together with women, but if you don't have any cash, you will need personality, trust ,and rapport.

[alapunk13]

See it this way, when you got lotsa cash, you become confident, and that confidence oozes out of you and women see the confidence, not necessarily the money

[RefugeeT]

hahah to true

[PARIIX100]

@kryptonitebullet179 yeah you are rigth dude

[jaguarfanster]

@kryptonitebullet179.....The 174 people who liked your comment suggesting that cash get the women are all average frustrated chumps (AFCs). I extend my thanks to all of them for making my game so much easier :)

[MyArcs]

@kryptonitebullet179 Lol ur wish :p

[JVRawesome]

i love your stuff al u have given me a lot of good advice

[GraveRave]

Cheers