Melanie, I really believe with your soulful sound, iconic look and the emotion you transfer through this music is a blessing. IF there was a comparison to be made I would DEFINITELY arugue you are/could be Toronto's Mary J. I love you, we love you. Do your thing.
i really like this song, she surprised me because i thought she was superficial with the first song "give it to me right" but she went a little deeper and it paid off because it shows vocal skills and its a great song
that's true, the first single doesn't really suit her. The video to it either. She's much more than that. But this video here ... wow, I love it, and the song too!
=...[ I Heard This SoNG FOR Dah First TYMe A Couple dAys Ago! Nd CRyd OUt NOT Knowin Wut I Was CRyINg For. DEn Couple DAys LATEr I LOST MY LOVe! =..[ HE Got Shot SunDay MORnin! I HAd A FeelIn To KAll Him ND CHEk Up On him Buh i Didn! THis SoNG Is ExACTly HOW We Were. i TRyd To LEt Him Go Bkuz I Didn Wana GEt huRT! Buh NOt HAvIn Him HEre hurts more then Fightin W him! AlwaYS Thought HE'd be ArOUND You NO. i RaTHEr LIVe A LIFe OF PAin With hIM THAn LOSe Him LIKE THiS! rip HUnnY! 01/03/2010 I<3U!!!
Her voice is so soulful i love it!!! she reminds me of Jazmine Sullivan a lil bit.especially when she sings live. got that strong voice.. definetly shes on my top playlists...
Oh please! the strongest women became strong from going threw a situation. people not to stop fronting like they are so strong and prudent from their mothers wombs. situations like this song help girls grow into women!. i love this song. me now- i dont agree with the lyrics, then i think back to me as a youngster and im like "i was there: LOVE THIS SONG!! woah!
@shaky914 being young and dumb is different from being a woman...She's singing this song in a WOMAN'S perspective not a kid that doesnt know any better...And yes I am strong, I love the song but like I said, I will be damned if I put up with a cheating man...No woman deserves this, I don't care who you are or where you come from...Have some respect, pride and dignity about yourself...thats why the men are they way they are because its too many women settling for anything...
I see what autism is saying but to be honest alot of women go thru this all the time! There is always the hopes that the man will change but the reality is he never will, but sometimes it takes the woman awhile to accept that.
i also like this song a great deal but listening to the lyrics autism is right....there is a bit of low self esteem there,,,but then again i feel like maybe tht was the point of the song...ya kno....like love makes ur mind do crzy things..i feel like shes just singing her thoughts...for reasons unknown u love someone and u feel like u cnt live without them....its common..
I like this song but I agree with autsim. Some of the lyrics express too much low self esteem. she didn't state one positive thing about this cat but is still itching to bear his chaps. Nice beat and hook though.
The only thing I don't like about this song are lines about not being able to be alone and not making it alone... not holding it down for yourself... and wanting to have babies by a man who don't give a sh*t about you... it's just desperate. No how much of a lady you are or how good you try to him, he don't want you... just press on... the lyrics are needy and desperate... that's the only thing that bothers me...
The song is a "moment in time" song, meaning that she speaking in the moment and not necessarily for what she will have to do should she be alone. I think she speaking from a point that we may all get in our relationship when we are at a crossroad. Just my 2 cents.
@autsim I agree...I really liked the song but when I listened to the lyrics, it really turned me off...Women really do need songs with words of encouragement, especially in this day and time were there are a lot of single moms and cheating going on, not this desperate B.S...I like the song but I'll be damned if I be THAT kind of woman...
Hahahah Det. Delko messing with all the Black Women hahaa. Guess Sgt. Duquesne doesn't do it for him no more hahahah, had that brother drooling over that redneck hahaha. Good Move bro!!!
I love this song because the reality of it all is that even though we as women like to portray that we are strong and indapendent, we don't feel complete without a man. even though some women would love to differ, we all put up with men cheating on us in some way or another. when he cheats and we give him another try were putting up with it, mostly because we don't want to be alone...I really love this song!!! Love is unconditional but to what cost? we need to love our selves unconditional first
i love everything you had to say bout this song i believe its true , but when you love someone you really think they are willing to change but they don't in the end it's us the woman that changes
when i first heard this song i thought it was keisha cole. the 2nd time i thought it was her too. then when i wanted to hear it i could not find it under keisha. i made it my life's mission to find out who this was.
The best song out right now ! I don't care if she wrote this or not, but she delivered it with more real emotion than most ever could, and this is what the record industry is missing. Real or not, but BELIEVABLE EMOTIONS !
Obviously the whole monica getting out of the car is her leaving him, and basically she just not gonna ride for him and his problems any more. on top of that the whole funeral thing i kept think she was imitating she was havin his kid, but real talk they make a beautiful play role couple. i wont be suprise if the did have a thing. lol.
Very tight video. Thanks for posting it. You have got to check out the sick new R&B album by Black INK Where Im At. Hotttt! Dance tracks and sensual soulful ballads. A must buy! @ cdbaby*com/cd/blackink4
Sorry. . . I am an english teacher! I tend to listen to the underlying meaning of songs. After all they are poems! I was merely replying to another person's comment that said the song was dumb!!
THIS SONG IS STUPID..... she is stupid.... what u mean who else is gonna hold you down... there are plenty other men who will hold you down and do you right... so for all you females who is feeling this cuz you LOVE HIM SO MUCH.... get a grip... you will eventually move on and find someone better... don 't let a man like that take your womanhood when you know you are better and can do better!!!
I agree that no women or man should live their life like the song says. But, just b/c Melanie put her vocals on a track doesn't mean what the that this is her life motto. SMH at all the people who can't stand her now b/c of this one track lol.
i dont think melanie fiona wants us to go back to cheating boyfriends. i think this is a heartfelt, unfiltered view into the irrational thoughts of any woman going through a break up. she goes back and forth "i must be crazy to want to go back" and then "but there's somethings i can't stand" etc. this song is about a woman who is distraught over what just happened while fighting to stay strong
@xdramaturge its hard 2 think shes NOT saying go back 2 those dudes that do you wrong over and over...shit she just gave em anfuckin BALLAD! lol a tribute! yet women dont care 4 dudes like that?? thats the biggest lie
yes, it's a ballad of her thoughts. just because she reveals moments of weakness doesn't mean that she supports the motion to return to an untrue boyfriend. in order for a woman to even be so deeply hurt by infidelity means that she deeply cares him, thus it is hard to do the right thing and leave him. so it's natural to see a woman juggle between her emotions and logic, and hopefully make the right choice. to just leave a relationship is never easy, even if you're wronged.
i don't think anyone in their right mind would publicly condone being desperate and returning to a man who cheated on her. obviously she's singing this ballad to make a point of how emotionally difficult a relationship/break up is, and not spreading propaganda to "go back 2 those dudes that do you wrong over and over"
@MrsMason2004 This song is about how the man makes her lose all common sense and the emotions he makes her feel. There are ppl out there who relate, even if it's just because they stayed in a relationship too long knowing the other person wasn't right for them.
You may think someone is stupid for doing it but that doesn't make this a stupid song...jeez.
Wow! This is me all the way the man I loved for 12 years decided that he didn't know what he wanted to do....there is this chick he's only known for 4 months and per him she tells him the good things that he wants to hear! WOW! Then when were with at his mom house she had the nerve to call him there! WOW and our daughter answered the phone! It Kills Me to know how much I love this man!!!
I feel for you too hun, and I know I dont know you personally but you should think of yourself for a change, and your lil girl, and leave him alone, start anew, its ok to be selfish when you know he's doing wrong.. you deserve better and so does your daughter!! anyhow, best of luck to you!!
this song is dedicated to the luv of my life. i know you care but i gotta be out my mind to think its gonna work this time. apart of me want to leave but the other still belives
"should i grab his cell, call this chick up, start some shxt, then hang up; or should i be lady ohhhh maybe cuz i wanna have his babies" favorite line of the song
wow, her Mary J., and Alicia keys are my fav. soulful artists out there today
zareave 2 years ago
she is amazing!!!!!!!!
zareave 2 years ago
to pamela721
if you think she sounds great here you should hear her sing the National Anthem, truly great!
halljamella 2 years ago
I Loveeeeeeeeeeee This Songg :)
I Lovee Herr & Adam Rodriquez.
MissExclusivex3 2 years ago
Should i grab ur cell call this chick up start sum shh then hang up lol
ShortieLikeMe09 2 years ago
i love this song and i have the cd the cd is wonderful she has a beautiful voice and i love adam rodriguez from csi miami
cocoathedon 2 years ago
she goin off on this song -she tellin it how d@ fuc it really is most of youll bitches ant got the heart to break shit downl ike this!!!!!!!!!
MZ4PLAYH 2 years ago
wow datz all i gotta say
da song explains da rest!
DaCatz1 2 years ago
I can't have enough of this song! ;-) I listen to it over and over again. It's wonderful. Just as amazing as the singer.
pamela721 2 years ago
Melanie, I really believe with your soulful sound, iconic look and the emotion you transfer through this music is a blessing. IF there was a comparison to be made I would DEFINITELY arugue you are/could be Toronto's Mary J. I love you, we love you. Do your thing.
statzlae 2 years ago
i really like this song, she surprised me because i thought she was superficial with the first song "give it to me right" but she went a little deeper and it paid off because it shows vocal skills and its a great song
halljamella 2 years ago
that's true, the first single doesn't really suit her. The video to it either. She's much more than that. But this video here ... wow, I love it, and the song too!
pamela721 2 years ago
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missuniversal176 2 years ago
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Mizzdrill15 2 years ago
I like this song, she got a beautiful voice
Tiaraj26 2 years ago
i wish it did kill you....
What a crappy music
NicoV428 2 years ago
and what's his name?
pamela721 2 years ago
Adam Rodriguez
cjone006 2 years ago
that guy is from CSI miami =]
Shauricekeys90 2 years ago
who is the guy in the video?
pamela721 2 years ago
wow . i firstly thought that it was leona lewis than alicia keys lol pretty bad . wish you were representin' us tongans lol blessin' skills champ
chubbahCHUBB91 2 years ago
adam is soooo fine
Gtupac1234567 2 years ago
this is my jam! True artist!
icats1983 2 years ago 2
true producer
ashonpar3 2 years ago 2
yes, be a lady, that's how you are more beautiful. Much talent, I love Melanie Fiona!!!
pamela721 2 years ago
I like this song but sometimes it could make me deprested u know!
classyk100 2 years ago
she's very beautiful!!! I love the song.
pamela721 2 years ago
i done seen all the girls trynnaa sing this song on youtube ;
and NONE OF THEM HAS OUT DONE HER ;
loveethiss songgggg
mspeaaaax 2 years ago 2
She is so good at singing!!
babyqerl 2 years ago
Diz Song Really Makes U No Wat Luv's All About
Akaangel1 2 years ago 2
Man can you say the truth.....I so feel everthang she is talking about!!!! Geesh sing it Melanie!!!!
miznickiey 2 years ago
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Pamphile05 2 years ago
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i love this song
blakheartfam 2 years ago
wooooh hooo!!
AllyLovesLizzieG 2 years ago
who the hell else is gonna hold me tight!! real talk shit
goodandwet26 2 years ago 4
idk y ( i am a male) but I LOVE THIS SONG( not gay)
gmorebel2007 2 years ago
@gmorebel2007 alot of males i know love this songg and their not gay!
TimiaPaulk15 2 years ago
lolz ur funny
1313MDH 2 years ago
oh yupppppppppp thats so true. many women think its okay. they forget the lines that were once never to be crossed.
lipsthick 2 years ago
=...[ I Heard This SoNG FOR Dah First TYMe A Couple dAys Ago! Nd CRyd OUt NOT Knowin Wut I Was CRyINg For. DEn Couple DAys LATEr I LOST MY LOVe! =..[ HE Got Shot SunDay MORnin! I HAd A FeelIn To KAll Him ND CHEk Up On him Buh i Didn! THis SoNG Is ExACTly HOW We Were. i TRyd To LEt Him Go Bkuz I Didn Wana GEt huRT! Buh NOt HAvIn Him HEre hurts more then Fightin W him! AlwaYS Thought HE'd be ArOUND You NO. i RaTHEr LIVe A LIFe OF PAin With hIM THAn LOSe Him LIKE THiS! rip HUnnY! 01/03/2010 I<3U!!!
toileatupouata 2 years ago
my x sung thys shyt 2 me on new years night LMFAO!!!
nycktg79 2 years ago
she is krazy in verse 2 wow buttt wat do you say you just gotta love the sonq
monay098 2 years ago
Mel class track
yes
U know
joeyduncan42 2 years ago 2
Her voice is so soulful i love it!!! she reminds me of Jazmine Sullivan a lil bit.especially when she sings live. got that strong voice.. definetly shes on my top playlists...
jensuca 2 years ago
Oh please! the strongest women became strong from going threw a situation. people not to stop fronting like they are so strong and prudent from their mothers wombs. situations like this song help girls grow into women!. i love this song. me now- i dont agree with the lyrics, then i think back to me as a youngster and im like "i was there: LOVE THIS SONG!! woah!
shaky914 2 years ago
@shaky914 being young and dumb is different from being a woman...She's singing this song in a WOMAN'S perspective not a kid that doesnt know any better...And yes I am strong, I love the song but like I said, I will be damned if I put up with a cheating man...No woman deserves this, I don't care who you are or where you come from...Have some respect, pride and dignity about yourself...thats why the men are they way they are because its too many women settling for anything...
ebonyeyes0909 2 years ago 5
PREACHHHHHH!! I don't put up with no man's mess!
BeautyFetish 2 years ago
totally agree u gotta go threw shit to actually become stronger & make mistakes
Bell3zaDsmil3y 2 years ago 3
Did anyone notice who the guy was? Miami CSI. Was not expecting it to end the way it did
dgwaters07 2 years ago
Notice who the guy was? From CSI Miami. Was not expecting it to end the way it did. But.....
dgwaters07 2 years ago
I see what autism is saying but to be honest alot of women go thru this all the time! There is always the hopes that the man will change but the reality is he never will, but sometimes it takes the woman awhile to accept that.
jrayspice040202 2 years ago 3
haha this video is mad sad lol
jkatawrath 2 years ago
yall should hear her whole album i got it and i love the album and listen to it all the time.
anitaartis 2 years ago
LOVE LOVE this song! The video, didn't see that ending coming. .
watts885 2 years ago 2
i know rite
weridohaha 2 years ago
i also like this song a great deal but listening to the lyrics autism is right....there is a bit of low self esteem there,,,but then again i feel like maybe tht was the point of the song...ya kno....like love makes ur mind do crzy things..i feel like shes just singing her thoughts...for reasons unknown u love someone and u feel like u cnt live without them....its common..
speligurl09 2 years ago 2
Wow
1DjRadeoConscyous 2 years ago
ii LOVEe[♥] this sonq for many differences nd& most it'ds bout mee..!
shaykey94 2 years ago
I like this song but I agree with autsim. Some of the lyrics express too much low self esteem. she didn't state one positive thing about this cat but is still itching to bear his chaps. Nice beat and hook though.
bellejsta 2 years ago 2
I agree nice hook and beat...But the way things are in today's society, we need some strong songs for encouragement.
Spectac1920 2 years ago
The only thing I don't like about this song are lines about not being able to be alone and not making it alone... not holding it down for yourself... and wanting to have babies by a man who don't give a sh*t about you... it's just desperate. No how much of a lady you are or how good you try to him, he don't want you... just press on... the lyrics are needy and desperate... that's the only thing that bothers me...
autsim 2 years ago
The song is a "moment in time" song, meaning that she speaking in the moment and not necessarily for what she will have to do should she be alone. I think she speaking from a point that we may all get in our relationship when we are at a crossroad. Just my 2 cents.
Deezy94 2 years ago 2
@autsim I agree...I really liked the song but when I listened to the lyrics, it really turned me off...Women really do need songs with words of encouragement, especially in this day and time were there are a lot of single moms and cheating going on, not this desperate B.S...I like the song but I'll be damned if I be THAT kind of woman...
ebonyeyes0909 2 years ago
i love this song. :)
BookieBoo06 2 years ago
i love this song so much i can relate on so many different levels to it whoever dont like it ain't never experienced tough love
TheSoprettylike 2 years ago
ufff.............. das ist einfach nur der pure wahnsinn
gott sei dank kein herzschmerz sonst würde ich heulen ;) aber einfach hamma der song !!!!!!!!!!
brityMiran 2 years ago
Hahahah Det. Delko messing with all the Black Women hahaa. Guess Sgt. Duquesne doesn't do it for him no more hahahah, had that brother drooling over that redneck hahaha. Good Move bro!!!
osdeus777 2 years ago
I love this song because the reality of it all is that even though we as women like to portray that we are strong and indapendent, we don't feel complete without a man. even though some women would love to differ, we all put up with men cheating on us in some way or another. when he cheats and we give him another try were putting up with it, mostly because we don't want to be alone...I really love this song!!! Love is unconditional but to what cost? we need to love our selves unconditional first
divawillshou 2 years ago 3
i love everything you had to say bout this song i believe its true , but when you love someone you really think they are willing to change but they don't in the end it's us the woman that changes
TheSoprettylike 2 years ago
i just love this song
hoodr81 2 years ago
I LEFT HIS ASS! LOL
TheRealKissy 2 years ago
This song is the shit. I has that old school "Sparkle" feel to it. Very nice!!!!!!
isadore1969 2 years ago 2
wasn't expecting it to end like that, but this song has an old-school feel to it. She is workin the 'torch singer' vibe to a tee.
AdorzAaliyahSince94 2 years ago
nice song.. wen i sang it i can neva get it out ma head!!!
dhabaddest191 2 years ago
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dhabaddest191 2 years ago
I love this song... She speaks the truth!!!!!!
2tbrown 2 years ago
when i first heard this song i thought it was keisha cole. the 2nd time i thought it was her too. then when i wanted to hear it i could not find it under keisha. i made it my life's mission to find out who this was.
mannmannt 2 years ago 3
i love this song and the video is great. its a real reflection of what a relationship like this can feel like.
bmartocci90 2 years ago
ayce! this song's a beut, like em killer 90's jams..real deep.
LadyAngelz 2 years ago 2
yea this my new fav...did not kno she was so sexy tho
meekah2005 2 years ago
Luv this song!!!
smilez841 2 years ago
4real man
campbella1997 2 years ago
First time I hear this was on Thursday, but I didn't know who the singer was. Heard it again today and MADE IT MY BUSINESS to find it!
I'm completely enthralled!
guesshoo 2 years ago 3
i luv this song!!!!!
diva101553 2 years ago
i think the guy passing away is to sybolize that he is dead to her
MsYami94 2 years ago
i love this song
KGOD1000 2 years ago 2
i love this song.....this my baby song....
Tisha0935 2 years ago
love this song!
orensha1 2 years ago
Ooo ooo oooooooo.
animatestate 2 years ago
This song is defintely on point along with Usher's new song
jmjfanss 2 years ago
This song is so on point. Love....sure is a strong emotion. My my my...
DiondraLanise 2 years ago
thought rnb was dead .. its good to know that singers like this is till around ... she sounds great
yardworld 2 years ago 3
sounds like monica with a bit of keyshia cole
afiamanuwats 2 years ago
Yes... I was thinking the same thing.
Ldiva23 2 years ago
LOVE THIS SOONGGGGGGGGG
tweety09163 2 years ago 2
i love this song also!
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LdotAngel77 2 years ago
man i love dis song
freakyarmygirl 2 years ago
The best song out right now ! I don't care if she wrote this or not, but she delivered it with more real emotion than most ever could, and this is what the record industry is missing. Real or not, but BELIEVABLE EMOTIONS !
vyqxendenny 2 years ago 2
This is one of the most beautiful R&B records I've ever had the pleasure of listening to
lildwayne21 2 years ago 4
Obviously the whole monica getting out of the car is her leaving him, and basically she just not gonna ride for him and his problems any more. on top of that the whole funeral thing i kept think she was imitating she was havin his kid, but real talk they make a beautiful play role couple. i wont be suprise if the did have a thing. lol.
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Very tight video. Thanks for posting it. You have got to check out the sick new R&B album by Black INK Where Im At. Hotttt! Dance tracks and sensual soulful ballads. A must buy! @ cdbaby*com/cd/blackink4
BLACKINK111 2 years ago
The song isn't necessarily stupid... but the video is... it doesn't go with the song at all.
aesimm24 2 years ago
Adam Rodriquez is killin meeee in this video..damn dat man is fine!!
RoyalC11 2 years ago
I can relate to this song...I feel like this with "HIM'
empress592 2 years ago
I wouldn't be going nowhere in those boots. Hell no!
mbeasley24 2 years ago
I love this song.
The Wizard of BOD
BODaciousVideoClips 2 years ago
i luv dis song,dis go out 2 my babydaddy...
shatoya20f 2 years ago
this is a good song,but any gurl beggin 4 a boy lyke that that crazy! move on
Aries46100 2 years ago
this is the song for wen ur hanging out and good to sing wen ur entering a talent show!!!
miaiskia 2 years ago
this song is f*ckin' stupid.
bigralph1 2 years ago
I would go back to adam rodriguez any day! :cP LOL Great Song!!!
Tisha21946312 2 years ago
umm she kindaa reminds me of stacyy dashh a littlee bit...idk whyy
k2195 2 years ago
This must be base on a true story.
detriotman 2 years ago
i like this video cause it has Adam in it. He's so freaking hot!
soccerlilg86 2 years ago
wHO IS ADAM?
detriotman 2 years ago
the sexi investigator/detective guy person that plays on CSI: Miami Adam Rodriguez
7kjames7 2 years ago 2
The dude driving the car...
GymBuggey 2 years ago
He is the hot guy driving the car. Adam Rodriguez from CSI Miami.
soccerlilg86 2 years ago
he was ina tyler perry movie too..
Superdogg23 2 years ago
he is sooo hawt
shaky914 2 years ago
Yes and he was so sexy too! I'm going to buy the movie when it comes out just cause hes in it. He's yummy!!!!!
soccerlilg86 2 years ago
watch i can do all bad bymyself..good movie and he is playing it...he is hoot..XXX
lucywhispers 2 years ago
@lucywhispers yes he is and o my goodness i would be singing this song if i was wit him too lol
MsLightBright 2 years ago
Its a song geeshh and most ppl female or male can relate to it. Since when did we become musical literalist? RELAX and enjoy
shawny198 2 years ago
Sorry. . . I am an english teacher! I tend to listen to the underlying meaning of songs. After all they are poems! I was merely replying to another person's comment that said the song was dumb!!
TiffaniRena03 2 years ago
I really like the song...she is definitely an up and coming artist
memediva1 2 years ago
This is a nice song. The lyrics are pretty good. The video is very nice.
werhawet 2 years ago
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TiffaniRena03 2 years ago
Did not like this song initially, but it's really grown on me. Wanna hear more from her.
msvybe916 2 years ago
i love this video...i love her album..
jccchick 2 years ago
start sum shhhhhh betta hang up!
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robinsont07 2 years ago
THIS SONG IS STUPID..... she is stupid.... what u mean who else is gonna hold you down... there are plenty other men who will hold you down and do you right... so for all you females who is feeling this cuz you LOVE HIM SO MUCH.... get a grip... you will eventually move on and find someone better... don 't let a man like that take your womanhood when you know you are better and can do better!!!
MrsMason2004 2 years ago 2
You better tell them MrsMason2004!! Glad to see i'm not the only one that feels that way!!!
Mzonionbooty6969 2 years ago
thank you for that i needed dat thanks
lexisbayb1 2 years ago
AMEN to that!!!!!!
becuziwasbored 2 years ago
I agree that no women or man should live their life like the song says. But, just b/c Melanie put her vocals on a track doesn't mean what the that this is her life motto. SMH at all the people who can't stand her now b/c of this one track lol.
briaw1089 2 years ago
i dont think melanie fiona wants us to go back to cheating boyfriends. i think this is a heartfelt, unfiltered view into the irrational thoughts of any woman going through a break up. she goes back and forth "i must be crazy to want to go back" and then "but there's somethings i can't stand" etc. this song is about a woman who is distraught over what just happened while fighting to stay strong
xdramaturge 2 years ago 3
@xdramaturge its hard 2 think shes NOT saying go back 2 those dudes that do you wrong over and over...shit she just gave em anfuckin BALLAD! lol a tribute! yet women dont care 4 dudes like that?? thats the biggest lie
gmf20002 2 years ago
yes, it's a ballad of her thoughts. just because she reveals moments of weakness doesn't mean that she supports the motion to return to an untrue boyfriend. in order for a woman to even be so deeply hurt by infidelity means that she deeply cares him, thus it is hard to do the right thing and leave him. so it's natural to see a woman juggle between her emotions and logic, and hopefully make the right choice. to just leave a relationship is never easy, even if you're wronged.
xdramaturge 2 years ago 7
i don't think anyone in their right mind would publicly condone being desperate and returning to a man who cheated on her. obviously she's singing this ballad to make a point of how emotionally difficult a relationship/break up is, and not spreading propaganda to "go back 2 those dudes that do you wrong over and over"
xdramaturge 2 years ago
@MrsMason2004 This song is about how the man makes her lose all common sense and the emotions he makes her feel. There are ppl out there who relate, even if it's just because they stayed in a relationship too long knowing the other person wasn't right for them.
You may think someone is stupid for doing it but that doesn't make this a stupid song...jeez.
shaaeen 2 years ago
She sounds like a mix of Keyshia Cole and Deborah Cox, I love this
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PICKETT12341 2 years ago
Wow! This is me all the way the man I loved for 12 years decided that he didn't know what he wanted to do....there is this chick he's only known for 4 months and per him she tells him the good things that he wants to hear! WOW! Then when were with at his mom house she had the nerve to call him there! WOW and our daughter answered the phone! It Kills Me to know how much I love this man!!!
isittootight 2 years ago
@isittootight damn girl, i feel it for you
shydiva1203 2 years ago
i understand but i was with my man for 4years and he decided he wanted 5 other women!!!!
brittanytolbert09 2 years ago
0:54 sexy :P
but Adam Rodriguez is so damn sexy :) :) :)
I looooove this song so much, she is good!
(L)
btw; is HE really DEAD??? ;o
LoveAdamRodriguez 2 years ago
I feel for you too hun, and I know I dont know you personally but you should think of yourself for a change, and your lil girl, and leave him alone, start anew, its ok to be selfish when you know he's doing wrong.. you deserve better and so does your daughter!! anyhow, best of luck to you!!
becuziwasbored 2 years ago 2
hell.....I love this song!! melanie have amezing voice!
SuperAmanda11 2 years ago
this song is dedicated to the luv of my life. i know you care but i gotta be out my mind to think its gonna work this time. apart of me want to leave but the other still belives
MzMeaty21 2 years ago
i love this song soooo much.. it describes how im feeling rite now.
reenac70 2 years ago
I LOVE DIHS SONG HEHEHE..;;~]
diehardsbabiegurl09 2 years ago
she can sing but please sing something different ! "he's messing around
but i wanna have his babies cause i don't wanna be alone" . BS!
iT2Mi 2 years ago
this shit is too deep i love this video
ming53 2 years ago
DIS SONG IS GOOD BT I THINK GIVE IT 2 ME RIGHT WAS BETTER!!!!GREAT voice
hugzandkisses09 2 years ago
this ish is so fukkin fye i love dis ish
its da best song eva
luv u melanie gurl
TheChan1990 2 years ago
she's not white shes guyanese and shes not even a new artist.but i love this song
<3beutiful voice sounds like any other black person though..still luve it♥
SeLiNa13100 2 years ago
Heard Melanie was dating Adam. Can't blame the girl if she is. They make a hot couple.
artemisgaia00 2 years ago 2
thiz is the song
rite now
thediamond222 2 years ago
love this song love the guy in it he off of csi
msbaldwin12 2 years ago
OMGEEEEE......... dis iz my fav.song Ms.Melionia did her thang she's da best female artist dat"s hot rite now she did her thang!!!!!!!!!
Jesusrose4meTD 2 years ago
Great artist with real talent!! Hope we see her around at the top of the game for a while.
laurie79 2 years ago
i dont relate to this song! bt i love it!
-kinda reminds me of my cousin that's so confused!
Phreshh2Def 2 years ago
OMG I love this song so much. 1079 plays it alot.
omari6565 2 years ago
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i love this song ima do a cover on it
rachellray07 2 years ago
i love this song ima do a cover of it
rachellray07 2 years ago
this my s***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LilYae12 2 years ago
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i love this song
MyLilmama1234 2 years ago
i am in love wit dis song
swaggachyck 2 years ago
no homo but she pretty
bebemarie90210 2 years ago
the first time i heard this song was about a month ago its beautiful i love singn it i can relate even if im a young teen
bebemarie90210 2 years ago
Dam Adam Rodriquez is just FINE!!!! Love the song!!
ginabell627 2 years ago 6
I don't get this video lol...great song thouh..
BeautyFetish 2 years ago
AGREE!! would have been more powerful if she actually acted out the song, but its a great song
xoticangell 2 years ago
0:54 sexy! :P
but Adam Rodriguez is sexy :) :) :)
great song, i loooveee it!(L)
btw; is HE really DEAD? ;o
LoveAdamRodriguez 2 years ago
AMAZING song. Love IT!
chanqindeqame 2 years ago
omg, does that stomach thing at 3:42 mean that she's pregnant (in the video)? wow....powerful video.
allstatebass 2 years ago
SHE GOT ONE WITH THIS ONE...
paponluckie 2 years ago
"should i grab his cell, call this chick up, start some shxt, then hang up; or should i be lady ohhhh maybe cuz i wanna have his babies" favorite line of the song
motts913 2 years ago